as someone with social anxiety disorder this is like the most relatable thing I've ever seen. I used to go every day 100% silent and not say a word to anyone but after doing some self discovery I was able to surround myself with the right people who understood that just because I'm quiet doesn't mean you can't get to know me and doesn't mean that I can't be cool. I know sometimes you overthink the things you do or obsess about how people act around you but If you focus on all that and don't move on from it you're not going to make any progress. I know you've probably been told this a million times but please just be yourself because the right people will like you for you and if they don't then their not the right people for you (also you seem rly cool so if for some reason someone doesn't like you that's their problem). Obviously it takes a very very long time to get over social anxiety and sometimes you feel alone but I bet there are so many people that want to be your friend but have the same fear that you won't like them. Ik this is easier said then done but you should talk to the girl in math and the girl in PE because they might rly want to talk to you but are just waiting for you to start the conversation.
I just graduated this year and I’ve been a loner for years, social anxiety sucks and i feel you. And the fact that you keep a positive attitude is TRULY amazing, youll find the people who give you the appreciation you deserve, i promise :)
i dont usually comment, but you did great today at school! I get that moment in pe where i feel so special to that kind of person but like instead they have circle of friends yknow? Ofc they consider me as a friend and appreciate me but i want to be that friend that they prioritize, as a first option, talk to me 24/7. Srry for sharing just like that, and just as i said, i know that kind of feeling and youre not alone :) youre a great person and i hope the right people will find you 💗
this is so me!! i was such a friend maker in middle school and now that im in highschool ig i forgot how to make new friends so ive gone all of this year without even saying words in school. glad to see realistic types of videos
btw if ur still a loner, the way i made friends (a lot) was js asking a bunch of questions , “where ur from,what’s ur fav shop to go to, this might be a weird question but do u have any skincare?” stuff like that!! 75% success rate! xx hope it goes well 🫶
heck no, that means i actually have to go out of my way to talk to people. i’d melt into a puddle of anxiety right there in front of them! though it does seem like a good way for other people
@ElizaAndHerLastFewBraincells another way could be watching others and what they enjoy, maybe if you find smth you also like you could slowly show stuff abt it!! maybe a little charm or smth other fans would see and say ‘omg u like that?’ and they come to u.. Its how i got some friends at my new school even with my major social anxiety :3… im sorry if this didn’t help but i hope u find amazing ppl best wishies pookie
@@dumbp0p thank you! but i’d be super scared, what if someone says something about one of my interests? people at my school are really judgy but i’d totally do that otherwise :D
Heyy ❤ i can relate to this....and i know its hard , we wont even have the motivation to get up and go to school because of this , and this is terrible . You have to make atleast some friends , but dont trust anyone those ones that had just became your friend and think that you can be bestfriends with them , nope dont do that 💯, the true ones will be at your side and never ignores you , so be serious about making relations in highschool , if it doesnt work out ohhhh boyy you will loseee lots of tears DUDE ! also please focus on your studies❤❤
U seem like a really sweet and positive person, I would for sure try to be your friend. Also congrats for being able to make it through that speech, when I had to do a public speech, I literally passed out and they brought my parents to school, it was horrible, i still cringe at myself 3 years later. Anyways, take care!! :)
as a younger person who watches vids like this,its really comforting to know that not everything will be all bad when im older! ill be heading to high school soon and i have been rlly nearvous but now that i see this it js reminds me that i gotta stay positive even if no one is around! You inspire me a ton blu3 and you will continue to until my last days as you have helped me get through some though times ❤🩹
Yesss, I also feel much lighter watching these videos, especially since I'm very extroverted but shy at the same time, I don't know if I'll be able to make friends but I'm terrified of being alone.
As an introvert with very bad social anxiety, I completely understand what this feels like and this was me the entirety of 4-6th grade. Trust me it may get better and you may find a few cool people to hang out with. I wish you the best of luck!! ❤
this is such a refreshing vlog to see. it feels so real and I totally understand the feeling you had about the girl in P.E. a similar thing happened to me. Just keep going, days will keep getting better :)
I know the feeling of being alone!! Sometimes, it just sucks. Sometimes, it's nice to be alone to work on yourself! However, make sure you are ALWAYS taking really good care of yourself! I'm proud of you for just being you, and doing what you love! ❤
Yknow what im always quiet and I never talk at all. Sometimes I get picked on. And i too get sat next to people that occasionally talk to me, then i never talk to them again.But lemme tell you you're doing an amazing job... and you don't need friends to be successful. Happy new year!
I‘m alone too every day in school but I‘m not that motivated to do so much like you. It’s kinda good to see how someone else than me deals with that and I can relate to the feelings and thoughts you had bc of the girl
this might be a really strange book rec, but my dark vanessa is amazing! it's an extremely heavy book about a woman remembering her childhood in which she was groomed by her teacher, but as someone who is currently going through the same loneliness you feel but in university, the book helped me a lot because it often details vanessa's early teenagehood in which she basically had no friends.. it was healing in that aspect. i know you may sometimes feel helpless in your solitude, but i'm sure that one day you will find your people! i have similar hopes for me hahahahh
I rememner walking out my own school doors for the last time. Then only after it was over had it hit how quick it all went by. And that I'll never have those little moments again its melancholic. Now I work hard with a smile on my face making the best of a new chapter
Oh my God!! You seem like a reall, nice and cook person, and I can really vibe with you. I don't understand why you don't have any friends at school, but stay strong giiirl! There aren't many years left of school, and then you can make real friends.
Why is this so real, when you speak to someone for a little bit, and you think 'we could become friends' I mostly sometimes think that I should speak up and try to hold the conversation a bit more.
i don't know what type of books you like to read but i would definitely recommend mysteries by karen mcmanus, her most popular series is one of us is lying, but a series i would recommend is a court of thorns and roses. i also wanted to say that i am so proud that you are able to get through the school days while trying to look at the bright side, its really inspiring to me. keep it up 💗
I like your vibe sm ! I kinda feel the same so often but you can say maybe i think i got over it , well i didn't but it's okay, you seem so nice yk? , anyways , keep capturing those things you see pretty bc i can't and i can't help but stare for so long so i could remember but en the end i forget it all but who cares lol ,don't mind what I'm saying bc idk what I'm even saying but keep going , it makes me feel like I'm not as weird as i think lol
I would recommend wonder! It’s a really good book! Also the secret garden, and lastly, malificent (idk how to spell but the movie version of her preview not the story “Aroura” tho!) these are personally all of my fav books! Gl!
Thank you for this. I’m going in mot grade 6/year 7 soon and I’m genuinely nervous about losing my friends to silly arguments and then being on my own. This has made me a lot more confident on what I will do in future years. You’re not alone in p.e btw, sometimes I try to fit in to other friendship groups and then we all have to pair up and then they ditch me. New subscriber earned ❤
Omg, this is literally me and my everyday life. I like to read and used to take horse riding lessons(love horses in general), always wear my new converse and paint my nails black, and yep don't really have friends :) It's actually nice and refreshing to see this kind of "vlog" that's similar to my life and experience. You seem very nice, I hope you'll stay this positive regardless
books recommended: Carrie, Pet Seminary (Stephen king), IT, Twilight, Harry Potter, Vampire Diaries, Heart Stopper, and so many more. I'm so sorry that you've got no one. Trust me, when you're older, friends don't matter as much, and you're able to be yourself without having to worry about what people think. This is how I view being a loner as I'm in my 20s. It's hard to make friends. But trust me, you're worth it, and you're an amazing blogger that has a unique aesthetic to their vlogs. I really enjoyed this vlog. Hope ur xmas was good and you're able to do what you want and feel confident within urself
i luv your vlogs so much! ☺ if i could, i’d be friends w/ you bc you seem so sweet! and the speech…you prob did amazing ~ in middle school when i did a presentation, i had to get up, go back to my desk, and try again 3 more times before i barely got thru it stuttering 😅 you just got a new sub and i hope you had a good holiday too :) keep your head held high; you got this heal ♥
I’m not sure what you’re into but I really recommend the Miss Peregrine’s series! There’s eight books and I personally love them right now, they’re great and have a lot of action, depth and cool fantasy stuff. :P
hey! 1:29 I would recommend Heartstopper or shatter me if you haven’t read them already. Also I’m sorry that you don’t have any friends, but something that’s getting me through highschool is smiling at your classmates or saying hi or offering to help them with a question, I know it’s hard but maybe you could try? xxx new subscriber
Im going to highschool next year and none if my friends are going to the same one as me, tbh i rlly hope my days turn out like this until i do get a friend or two bc (from what was shown in the video) it looks pretty chill and (as an introvert) pretty enjoyable as well!
bro this is so relatable, i have like two friends but we do block scheduling at my school so i only see one of them every other day and my other day i’m just all alone lol. i kinda hate it, it makes me so sad lmao but if you happen to like realistic fiction type books, my favorite book ever is solitaire by alice oseman!
In terms of book recommendations my favs are Dystopian series so if you haven't read The Hunger Games, Divergent, and The Maze Runner you should definitely check those out!
I don’t have friends either but if you do then when you graduate you may never see them again. You may see them walking one day in the future but you may not even recognise each other. This may not happen but then again it might❤.
this is the first video i saw on ur channel, and i have to say that i like ur aesthetic and vibe so much. and also u were not being dramatic, that girl shouldve talked to u>_
Hello there, I don‘t know you and you don‘t know me but I just wanted to say I am proud of you. Your Video made me cry, I graduated high school a year ago and I know how hard it is to litteraly be alive and go to school and always giving it your best but somehow reality does not give a shit about you and hates you. But you have to believe me, at some point it will be worth it. Someday you will find your people in a moment you would have expected it the less. Talk to people, I know its hard but talk to people, look at them, smile at them, make sure they know you exist and then automatically people will come and talk and want to be with you. Of course you decide at the end what you wanna do but I recommend it and you are a really brave and beautiful human and you are doing such a wonderful job.✨💕 As in for book recommendations(I love books) I highly recommend after the fire from will hill, its about a girl having to overcome the trauma from being shut out from life due to her religion, its my favorite book
Wow I’m surprised how you turned having no friends into a pro instead of a con you really care more about your education best wishes and may God bless you and take away any illness that you have from the top of your head to the bottom of your toes amen 🙏
I love reading books (currently reading Percy Jackson series, would recommend) and some interesting ones I have read are "The Time Machine" by H.G. Wells, it's an old book but really interesting. "Ella Minnow Pea" by Mark Dunn, it has a very interesting writing style where they remove letters from the alphabet. "The List" by Patricia Forde, this one also has an emphasis on words but I love the characters and storyline. "Ella Enchanted" by Gail Carson Levine, popular story but so good (much better than the movie). "Lunar Chronicles" by Marissa Meyer, Genuinely one of my favorite series based off of common princesses in a futuristic setting, lots of girl power. anyways that's about it! I liked your video 😁🙃
Some book recommendations I have: -Hunger Games trilogy (and also The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes after it) -Of Mice and Men I read it for school but it was actually really good (does curse a lot tho just a warning) -Uglies (I haven’t read it but people say it’s good and it’s a series) -Percy Jackson
i was also kinda a loner in highschool (still in highschool btw) i would hang out with ppl i didnt even like just so i dont look "pathetic" or lonely, even tho plenty of other kids did the same. i always felt like i was being judged if i sat alone. ima be homeschooled now and i couldnt be any happier. (i also had a racist spanish teacher)
Your school does actually look quite… how to say it? Helpful? At least it tries to aid its students, with so many different activities, yk here in Italy we’ve been stuck in the same godforsaken room for what has been 5 never ending years we only get outside of that coffin for PE (and we often don’t even have the chance ‘cause our school is full of students and has only two gyms), and now that we are in our last year before exams we barely even have the time to raise our heads from the desk/books (we normally have 6 hours of school [08:00am-01:40pm] sounds bad? we also get 7 hours on Tuesdays and Thursdays and from time to time we gotta fullfill an obligatory post-scholastic course, THAT LASTS THREE HOURS MORE) it’s truly hell on earth, and having no friends to at least distract yourself is just the cherry on top, you just feel like an alien, I hope all this struggle will be worth it in the future…
im usually just a silent viewer but i want to say i totally understand how you feel about the girl in p.e. i dont think you were being dramatic at all, and i have similar experiences (as an 8th grader) i just want you to know you aren't alone!
me in hs next year: (my 2 good friends are leaving next yr for another hs which is understandable cause for being a top school in our state its pretty trash.plus they accept me and everyone else jst talks to me for like 5 mins during the day sooo) i recommend "Paper Towns" by John Green if u havent read it.
I bet the girl from P.E. was nervous to tell someone it was urs, it's ok! its a good thing that you still have such a positive attitude most people don't keep going!
Love ur content! For book recommendations rn im reading solitare which is really good you should also check out noughts and crosses and divergent! Keep it up! Trust me one day youll find someone x
For a book recomendation, read bluestar's prophecy or children of the fox! They're more for younger readers but still quite well written! If you're into graphic novels, Unico Awakening is one of my personal favorites!
I haven’t had any new friends in years, I’ve just kept up with my same friend group. But I think if you try to make some acquaintances, you might enjoy yourself more, y’know? I know it’s really hard too, I don’t like talking to people I’m not familiar with, and I’m bad at talking ain general. But by socializing with other people your age, even if it’s just an attempt, you’ll find out more about yourself and you found at first. Edit: btw, have you read the Warrior Cats series? I also love horses, and your seat is actually impressive!!
BOOK REC!! heart stopper! Or the henna wars! I have 2 types of anxiety lol so this is so real. It sucks but oh well ig? Hope you find someone cool!! I have a friend group who kinda get me! I talk to them a little bit but I mainly is listen:)
Though this was a while ago I totaly relate! To be honest though. I do have a tiny bit of social anxiety though I did quit dnd. Now here’s the thing. I love dnd. But evry time it was my turn I was never able to do anything and evry campaign I was always the last person no matter how early I was. So I just stopped playing. The new dm at our group said he wouldent do that to me but Ngl. I can’t trust him. Anywho. This is why I connect with people sometimes online. But if you do just be carful!
Awh, I’m sorry, loneliness sucks sometimes :( But don’t worry! Because I truly believe if you keep putting yourself out there, you’ll eventually find the right people
Hey, I know what it’s like to have no friends. almost my entire time in elementary school I had no friends.. I made a few friends but I lost them all so I know exactly how you feel and to be honest you’re really cool person and your channel just amazing so I really hope that people see that you’re really special and amazing and they want to be your friend. I haven’t had friends until I went to a brand New private school and I made friends immediately so don’t worry you’re really brave and I love your channel and you’re just amazing.! And epic 😎 I hope you find the friends that you need. -Love from JJgretel💜
Okay so I recommend some books. Murder mystery: One of us is Lying by Karen M. McManus The cabin by Natasha Peterson (something with her last name with a P. but her series is absolutely amazing.) Romance/Kinda forgot what genre it is but it’s a good book: If he was with me. I cried about that book.😭 Lmk if you want more!!😆
I’m really proud of you for actually being able to get through a school day while still keeping a positive attitude :)
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Meanwhile l me trying to take 2 steps in school without having a mental breakdown 😂😅
as someone with social anxiety disorder this is like the most relatable thing I've ever seen. I used to go every day 100% silent and not say a word to anyone but after doing some self discovery I was able to surround myself with the right people who understood that just because I'm quiet doesn't mean you can't get to know me and doesn't mean that I can't be cool. I know sometimes you overthink the things you do or obsess about how people act around you but If you focus on all that and don't move on from it you're not going to make any progress. I know you've probably been told this a million times but please just be yourself because the right people will like you for you and if they don't then their not the right people for you (also you seem rly cool so if for some reason someone doesn't like you that's their problem). Obviously it takes a very very long time to get over social anxiety and sometimes you feel alone but I bet there are so many people that want to be your friend but have the same fear that you won't like them. Ik this is easier said then done but you should talk to the girl in math and the girl in PE because they might rly want to talk to you but are just waiting for you to start the conversation.
Selective mutism disorder.
I just graduated this year and I’ve been a loner for years, social anxiety sucks and i feel you. And the fact that you keep a positive attitude is TRULY amazing, youll find the people who give you the appreciation you deserve, i promise :)
I’ve struggled with social anxiety and loneliness my whole life, so I feel you girl 🩷
i dont usually comment, but you did great today at school! I get that moment in pe where i feel so special to that kind of person but like instead they have circle of friends yknow? Ofc they consider me as a friend and appreciate me but i want to be that friend that they prioritize, as a first option, talk to me 24/7. Srry for sharing just like that, and just as i said, i know that kind of feeling and youre not alone :) youre a great person and i hope the right people will find you 💗
i love the ‘14 years ago’ vibe of this, iyk what i mean lol, this is such a cool and unique day-in-the-life vid! ❤
this is so me!! i was such a friend maker in middle school and now that im in highschool ig i forgot how to make new friends so ive gone all of this year without even saying words in school. glad to see realistic types of videos
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too real. middle school was my peak i fear
its so cool u filmed all of this, ik its tough being a loner but remember u have ppl that will always be by ur side right here!!
0:44 she probs does still like you it’s just she could have social anxiety so she might’ve been to scared to ask
btw if ur still a loner, the way i made friends (a lot) was js asking a bunch of questions , “where ur from,what’s ur fav shop to go to, this might be a weird question but do u have any skincare?” stuff like that!! 75% success rate! xx hope it goes well 🫶
heck no, that means i actually have to go out of my way to talk to people. i’d melt into a puddle of anxiety right there in front of them! though it does seem like a good way for other people
@ElizaAndHerLastFewBraincells
another way could be watching others and what they enjoy, maybe if you find smth you also like you could slowly show stuff abt it!! maybe a little charm or smth other fans would see and say ‘omg u like that?’ and they come to u.. Its how i got some friends at my new school even with my major social anxiety :3…
im sorry if this didn’t help but i hope u find amazing ppl best wishies pookie
Asking those types of questions allows whoever your talking to, to talk about themselves, which majority of people love doing.
@@dumbp0p thank you! but i’d be super scared, what if someone says something about one of my interests? people at my school are really judgy but i’d totally do that otherwise :D
I'm worried they'd think I'm annoying if I do that
Heyy ❤ i can relate to this....and i know its hard , we wont even have the motivation to get up and go to school because of this , and this is terrible .
You have to make atleast some friends , but dont trust anyone those ones that had just became your friend and think that you can be bestfriends with them , nope dont do that 💯, the true ones will be at your side and never ignores you , so be serious about making relations in highschool , if it doesnt work out ohhhh boyy you will loseee lots of tears DUDE ! also please focus on your studies❤❤
Fact: Youll always be loved more that youll ever be aware of
I love how u keep your happy feeling, ik ur hurt inside, I wish I could be your friend.
U seem like a really sweet and positive person, I would for sure try to be your friend. Also congrats for being able to make it through that speech, when I had to do a public speech, I literally passed out and they brought my parents to school, it was horrible, i still cringe at myself 3 years later. Anyways, take care!! :)
as a younger person who watches vids like this,its really comforting to know that not everything will be all bad when im older! ill be heading to high school soon and i have been rlly nearvous but now that i see this it js reminds me that i gotta stay positive even if no one is around! You inspire me a ton blu3 and you will continue to until my last days as you have helped me get through some though times ❤🩹
Yesss, I also feel much lighter watching these videos, especially since I'm very extroverted but shy at the same time, I don't know if I'll be able to make friends but I'm terrified of being alone.
I never thought there would be so many people out there like me. It’s sad.
Hope y’all finds some friends soon!
Oh I feel you girl.. sending hugs, okay? Keep going, you're worth it
As an introvert with very bad social anxiety, I completely understand what this feels like and this was me the entirety of 4-6th grade. Trust me it may get better and you may find a few cool people to hang out with. I wish you the best of luck!! ❤
this is such a refreshing vlog to see. it feels so real and I totally understand the feeling you had about the girl in P.E. a similar thing happened to me. Just keep going, days will keep getting better :)
I totally feel you! I have barely any friends rn and I’m terrified to talk to people. You made me feel like I’m not alone. Have a great day!!!
i love the thumbnail style its so cute!!
I FINALLY FOUND SOMEONE I CAN RELATE TO im literally an loner to but i stil keep like smiling and be kind to others!!
I know the feeling of being alone!! Sometimes, it just sucks. Sometimes, it's nice to be alone to work on yourself! However, make sure you are ALWAYS taking really good care of yourself! I'm proud of you for just being you, and doing what you love! ❤
AHHH IM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR NOT BEING RLY UPSET THE WHOLE DAY IF I KNEW YOU IRL I WOULD LOVE TO BE YOUR FRIEND❤❤❤❤
Dude this is your first vid recommended to me and I find it so comforting as someone who goes through similar days. Ill def stick around
I’m super happy that you could keep your composure during the whole day! positivity and self respect is key ilysm and have a great day :33
Yknow what im always quiet and I never talk at all. Sometimes I get picked on. And i too get sat next to people that occasionally talk to me, then i never talk to them again.But lemme tell you you're doing an amazing job... and you don't need friends to be successful. Happy new year!
I‘m alone too every day in school but I‘m not that motivated to do so much like you. It’s kinda good to see how someone else than me deals with that and I can relate to the feelings and thoughts you had bc of the girl
this might be a really strange book rec, but my dark vanessa is amazing! it's an extremely heavy book about a woman remembering her childhood in which she was groomed by her teacher, but as someone who is currently going through the same loneliness you feel but in university, the book helped me a lot because it often details vanessa's early teenagehood in which she basically had no friends.. it was healing in that aspect. i know you may sometimes feel helpless in your solitude, but i'm sure that one day you will find your people! i have similar hopes for me hahahahh
I rememner walking out my own school doors for the last time. Then only after it was over had it hit how quick it all went by. And that I'll never have those little moments again its melancholic. Now I work hard with a smile on my face making the best of a new chapter
Oh my God!! You seem like a reall, nice and cook person, and I can really vibe with you. I don't understand why you don't have any friends at school, but stay strong giiirl! There aren't many years left of school, and then you can make real friends.
This has made my day, I will try and stay positive for school with no friends :) loners stay together!
Why is this so real, when you speak to someone for a little bit, and you think 'we could become friends' I mostly sometimes think that I should speak up and try to hold the conversation a bit more.
I love this video. I can relate to it, and I'm proud of you for keeping your head high. Have a good day, beautiful!
I like seeing these kind of vlogs!!! Also I luvvvv ur shoes there so cute!!!
you seem like a nice person, i hope u find someone!
This video really made me happy because I can relate and it was rlly reassuring that other people experience this:)
Girl how do you not have any friends you seem like the sweetest!
i don't know what type of books you like to read but i would definitely recommend mysteries by karen mcmanus, her most popular series is one of us is lying, but a series i would recommend is a court of thorns and roses. i also wanted to say that i am so proud that you are able to get through the school days while trying to look at the bright side, its really inspiring to me. keep it up 💗
I like your vibe sm !
I kinda feel the same so often but you can say maybe i think i got over it , well i didn't but it's okay, you seem so nice yk? , anyways , keep capturing those things you see pretty bc i can't and i can't help but stare for so long so i could remember but en the end i forget it all but who cares lol ,don't mind what I'm saying bc idk what I'm even saying but keep going , it makes me feel like I'm not as weird as i think lol
I'm really really proud of you for surviving with no friends, you are really brave and I love ur vids! Fun fact:I js subbed to u! :D
I would recommend wonder! It’s a really good book! Also the secret garden, and lastly, malificent (idk how to spell but the movie version of her preview not the story “Aroura” tho!) these are personally all of my fav books! Gl!
I read the secret garden
Thank you for this. I’m going in mot grade 6/year 7 soon and I’m genuinely nervous about losing my friends to silly arguments and then being on my own. This has made me a lot more confident on what I will do in future years. You’re not alone in p.e btw, sometimes I try to fit in to other friendship groups and then we all have to pair up and then they ditch me. New subscriber earned ❤
Omg, this is literally me and my everyday life. I like to read and used to take horse riding lessons(love horses in general), always wear my new converse and paint my nails black, and yep don't really have friends :) It's actually nice and refreshing to see this kind of "vlog" that's similar to my life and experience. You seem very nice, I hope you'll stay this positive regardless
ahhah omg, we're twinning!
A book series I rlly like is the inheritance cycle. There’s 4 books in the series and 2 extra giving more info :)
man honestly i love this, this felt too real😊
The perks of being a wallflower is a rlly good book if u havent already read it
Wish you the best💜
books recommended: Carrie, Pet Seminary (Stephen king), IT, Twilight, Harry Potter, Vampire Diaries, Heart Stopper, and so many more. I'm so sorry that you've got no one. Trust me, when you're older, friends don't matter as much, and you're able to be yourself without having to worry about what people think. This is how I view being a loner as I'm in my 20s. It's hard to make friends. But trust me, you're worth it, and you're an amazing blogger that has a unique aesthetic to their vlogs. I really enjoyed this vlog. Hope ur xmas was good and you're able to do what you want and feel confident within urself
i luv your vlogs so much! ☺ if i could, i’d be friends w/ you bc you seem so sweet! and the speech…you prob did amazing ~ in middle school when i did a presentation, i had to get up, go back to my desk, and try again 3 more times before i barely got thru it stuttering 😅 you just got a new sub and i hope you had a good holiday too :) keep your head held high; you got this heal ♥
I'm so proud of you!!
It's ok you weren't being dramatic, I understand, it's tough sometimes but I believe you can do it!
I’m not sure what you’re into but I really recommend the Miss Peregrine’s series! There’s eight books and I personally love them right now, they’re great and have a lot of action, depth and cool fantasy stuff. :P
hey! 1:29 I would recommend Heartstopper or shatter me if you haven’t read them already. Also I’m sorry that you don’t have any friends, but something that’s getting me through highschool is smiling at your classmates or saying hi or offering to help them with a question, I know it’s hard but maybe you could try? xxx new subscriber
Im going to highschool next year and none if my friends are going to the same one as me, tbh i rlly hope my days turn out like this until i do get a friend or two bc (from what was shown in the video) it looks pretty chill and (as an introvert) pretty enjoyable as well!
I watched this one, and your other videos and these make me feel really seen
bro this is so relatable, i have like two friends but we do block scheduling at my school so i only see one of them every other day and my other day i’m just all alone lol. i kinda hate it, it makes me so sad lmao but if you happen to like realistic fiction type books, my favorite book ever is solitaire by alice oseman!
I love it now i know ok not the only one :) but your horse is very cute!
This vlog is soo real and cute!!❤
I really wish we went to the same school, I'd love to be friends with you
i havent been to school in a year (i have autism and anxiety which makes it hard for me) but this vid makes me want to go back to school :)
i keep getting your vids recommended to me and only today did i notice how calming they are. subscribed :3
I feel this as an 8th grader with social anxiety and adhd
aww its so cool of u to make a vid even when going through all this ik its hard being alone in skl but your gonna be alr ml
In terms of book recommendations my favs are Dystopian series so if you haven't read The Hunger Games, Divergent, and The Maze Runner you should definitely check those out!
I don’t have friends either but if you do then when you graduate you may never see them again. You may see them walking one day in the future but you may not even recognise each other. This may not happen but then again it might❤.
this is the first video i saw on ur channel, and i have to say that i like ur aesthetic and vibe so much. and also u were not being dramatic, that girl shouldve talked to u>_
this is so comforting and im pruoda u
Hello there, I don‘t know you and you don‘t know me but I just wanted to say I am proud of you. Your Video made me cry, I graduated high school a year ago and I know how hard it is to litteraly be alive and go to school and always giving it your best but somehow reality does not give a shit about you and hates you. But you have to believe me, at some point it will be worth it. Someday you will find your people in a moment you would have expected it the less. Talk to people, I know its hard but talk to people, look at them, smile at them, make sure they know you exist and then automatically people will come and talk and want to be with you. Of course you decide at the end what you wanna do but I recommend it and you are a really brave and beautiful human and you are doing such a wonderful job.✨💕 As in for book recommendations(I love books) I highly recommend after the fire from will hill, its about a girl having to overcome the trauma from being shut out from life due to her religion, its my favorite book
I love talking to loners though fr bc they’re always so fun and energetic on the inside
Wow I’m surprised how you turned having no friends into a pro instead of a con you really care more about your education best wishes and may God bless you and take away any illness that you have from the top of your head to the bottom of your toes amen 🙏
why is everyone so depressed wtf i feel like some people just fake it in tje comments too “act cool”
I love reading books (currently reading Percy Jackson series, would recommend) and some interesting ones I have read are "The Time Machine" by H.G. Wells, it's an old book but really interesting. "Ella Minnow Pea" by Mark Dunn, it has a very interesting writing style where they remove letters from the alphabet. "The List" by Patricia Forde, this one also has an emphasis on words but I love the characters and storyline. "Ella Enchanted" by Gail Carson Levine, popular story but so good (much better than the movie). "Lunar Chronicles" by Marissa Meyer, Genuinely one of my favorite series based off of common princesses in a futuristic setting, lots of girl power. anyways that's about it! I liked your video 😁🙃
Some book recommendations I have:
-Hunger Games trilogy (and also The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes after it)
-Of Mice and Men I read it for school but it was actually really good (does curse a lot tho just a warning)
-Uglies (I haven’t read it but people say it’s good and it’s a series)
-Percy Jackson
i was also kinda a loner in highschool (still in highschool btw) i would hang out with ppl i didnt even like just so i dont look "pathetic" or lonely, even tho plenty of other kids did the same. i always felt like i was being judged if i sat alone. ima be homeschooled now and i couldnt be any happier. (i also had a racist spanish teacher)
Wow i want to see all the videos now 😭❤
Wow ur so calm and nice but I love ur personality!
Your school does actually look quite… how to say it? Helpful? At least it tries to aid its students, with so many different activities, yk here in Italy we’ve been stuck in the same godforsaken room for what has been 5 never ending years we only get outside of that coffin for PE (and we often don’t even have the chance ‘cause our school is full of students and has only two gyms), and now that we are in our last year before exams we barely even have the time to raise our heads from the desk/books (we normally have 6 hours of school [08:00am-01:40pm] sounds bad? we also get 7 hours on Tuesdays and Thursdays and from time to time we gotta fullfill an obligatory post-scholastic course, THAT LASTS THREE HOURS MORE) it’s truly hell on earth, and having no friends to at least distract yourself is just the cherry on top, you just feel like an alien, I hope all this struggle will be worth it in the future…
A good book is how to disappear completely
I have a book recommendation for you :)
It’s one called “The perks on being a timid wallflower”
im usually just a silent viewer but i want to say i totally understand how you feel about the girl in p.e. i dont think you were being dramatic at all, and i have similar experiences (as an 8th grader) i just want you to know you aren't alone!
Yeah but the poor girl if she’s watching thsi video
idk who u are, but you are NOT alone!! trust me, ur gonna find ur people some day
"Theres always light at the end of the tunnle!" most kids tunnles nowadays are blocked off with thirty piles of cement and its dark out.
this is sooo relaxing also u can have ur phone out??
me in hs next year: (my 2 good friends are leaving next yr for another hs which is understandable cause for being a top school in our state its pretty trash.plus they accept me and everyone else jst talks to me for like 5 mins during the day sooo) i recommend "Paper Towns" by John Green if u havent read it.
I bet the girl from P.E. was nervous to tell someone it was urs, it's ok! its a good thing that you still have such a positive attitude most people don't keep going!
Love ur content! For book recommendations rn im reading solitare which is really good you should also check out noughts and crosses and divergent! Keep it up! Trust me one day youll find someone x
1:22 Theres this rlly cool book i read, its by a Russian writer Mikhail Bulgakov, its called "Thw Master and Margarita" its very good, rlly recommend
For a book recomendation, read bluestar's prophecy or children of the fox! They're more for younger readers but still quite well written! If you're into graphic novels, Unico Awakening is one of my personal favorites!
im scared for my future now… i don’t wanna be lonely…
i likeee ur vlogss!!
I haven’t had any new friends in years, I’ve just kept up with my same friend group. But I think if you try to make some acquaintances, you might enjoy yourself more, y’know? I know it’s really hard too, I don’t like talking to people I’m not familiar with, and I’m bad at talking ain general. But by socializing with other people your age, even if it’s just an attempt, you’ll find out more about yourself and you found at first.
Edit: btw, have you read the Warrior Cats series? I also love horses, and your seat is actually impressive!!
I would totally be friends with you, you seem pretty cool and I always try to talk to the kids who seem they have no one to talk to at school 😁
BOOK REC!! heart stopper! Or the henna wars! I have 2 types of anxiety lol so this is so real. It sucks but oh well ig? Hope you find someone cool!! I have a friend group who kinda get me! I talk to them a little bit but I mainly is listen:)
Though this was a while ago I totaly relate! To be honest though. I do have a tiny bit of social anxiety though I did quit dnd. Now here’s the thing. I love dnd. But evry time it was my turn I was never able to do anything and evry campaign I was always the last person no matter how early I was. So I just stopped playing. The new dm at our group said he wouldent do that to me but Ngl. I can’t trust him. Anywho. This is why I connect with people sometimes online. But if you do just be carful!
Awh, I’m sorry, loneliness sucks sometimes :(
But don’t worry! Because I truly believe if you keep putting yourself out there, you’ll eventually find the right people
Were so similar
Uh ok this book might be a little simple on the reading level but When You Trap A Tiger by Tae Keller is rlly good!!
Hey, I know what it’s like to have no friends. almost my entire time in elementary school I had no friends.. I made a few friends but I lost them all so I know exactly how you feel and to be honest you’re really cool person and your channel just amazing so I really hope that people see that you’re really special and amazing and they want to be your friend. I haven’t had friends until I went to a brand New private school and I made friends immediately so don’t worry you’re really brave and I love your channel and you’re just amazing.! And epic 😎
I hope you find the friends that you need.
-Love from JJgretel💜
Okay so I recommend some books.
Murder mystery: One of us is Lying by Karen M. McManus
The cabin by Natasha Peterson (something with her last name with a P. but her series is absolutely amazing.)
Romance/Kinda forgot what genre it is but it’s a good book: If he was with me. I cried about that book.😭 Lmk if you want more!!😆