Are You Sexually Attractive? 15 Signs You Are

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  • @kongvolmerii2683
    @kongvolmerii2683 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    1- be rude.
    2- be a jerk
    3- be in prison
    4-be obnoxious
    5 -be rich
    6- have been to prison
    7- be unpolite
    8- soon be going to prison-
    9- behave badly
    10 - have no manners
    11- treat women like trash
    12 - be very rich
    13- be a celebrity
    14- be what 40 years ago was regarded as an antisocial piece of sh.t
    15- be violent.
    Then the modern, strong independent woman, is all yours.

    • @hbsong9964
      @hbsong9964 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Smell bad...

    • @apple1234iou
      @apple1234iou ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hbsong9964 have rotten teeth

    • @sonofnun7803
      @sonofnun7803 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hahahahah very clever

    • @jimkofron8638
      @jimkofron8638 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not my experience. I am confident and treat women with respect. Their sexual attractiveness is noticed, but I look past that. Treat them as any other human being. Engage them as just anyone else. Good women are hungering for a masculine man these days. So many soy boys fapping to porn. It is a wonderful time to be an older man, say a fit 50's. The younger quality women do not particularly care for the men their age in my experience. But they will want a quality man that takes care of himself and is confident taking the lead.

    • @dks80721
      @dks80721 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I see no lies here...

  • @tipslm7252
    @tipslm7252 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Say this once being the nice guy you will get taken for advantage act like a complete jerk women will come running at you seems like the modern day women/girls want drama in life. 😄

  • @jeffd3492
    @jeffd3492 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    1. Authenticity and vulnerability
    2. Strong eye contact
    3. A great sense of humor
    4. Engaging conversationalist
    5. Passion and expressive
    6. Confident body language
    7. Magnetic charisma
    8. Emotional Intelligence
    9. Healthy self-esteem
    10. A touch of mystery
    11. Non-judgemental and open-minded
    12. Attentive listener
    13. Positive energy
    14. Ability to connect with others
    15. Kindness and compassion

    • @manzchello4752
      @manzchello4752 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just be perfect, and she still won’t be happy. I guarantee it

    • @kinkyspannertwister6843
      @kinkyspannertwister6843 ปีที่แล้ว

      sadly it has a pitiful success rate if she's not the right one

    • @rodimussupreme2329
      @rodimussupreme2329 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bullshit. Women don’t look for any of that. All they care about is dick size.

  • @yunsemree
    @yunsemree ปีที่แล้ว +16

    5 A,'s my friends:
    Attractiveness😉
    Assertiveness🗣️
    Attentiveness💥
    Aliveneness🥳
    Asuredness🔐

  • @wolfgangengel4835
    @wolfgangengel4835 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I really can't imagine how showing vulnerability could be attractive. In my experience people tend to use that against you. But I'm not saying it's wrong.

    • @DragonSageKaimus
      @DragonSageKaimus ปีที่แล้ว +11

      A healthy balance is what is needed... You will be 10x more attractive if you can be sensitive but also capable of establishing boundaries without being an a-hole... That's the most common trait with men described as ladies men

    • @mattgarner3054
      @mattgarner3054 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Very much so.
      I agree.
      Last time I showed vulnerability.
      I was called a little bitch By the woman I was being vulnerable with.
      Never again.
      Never again.

    • @VanielDeeform
      @VanielDeeform ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s a attractive because it actually shows a lot of bravery and confidence to show a little bit of vulnerability. More so than having a tough front all the time, which is over compensating & phone.
      It’s also engaging & goes back to being authentic and relatable, a dash of vulnerability shows strength not weakness.

    • @DragonSageKaimus
      @DragonSageKaimus ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mattgarner3054 either you met a bad kind of bad girl or you went beyond vulnerability and into desperation... Don't use the experience with her as a template for all girls... Girls are 100% different personality-wise

    • @devin9077
      @devin9077 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      When women say they want men to show vulnerability they don’t mean dumping all your emotional trauma on them. That’s not attractive because it reduces your masculinity in her view. The ‘vulnerability’ that women like to see in men is arguably not vulnerability at all. They want to hear about how you felt when you came second place in your sports tournament. In that scenario you are still technically being vulnerable by expressing personal emotions like embarrassment but you still maintain your masculine frame, which is attractive.

  • @ducky7030
    @ducky7030 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Never know when the host drops a new video on TH-cam somehow my TH-cam notification always late and always miss out on the first to comment. ⏰🔔

  • @cf4532
    @cf4532 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol never listen to a woman about dating advice or what they find attractive, this sums it up, completely wrong, except for the eye contact part.

  • @silvermine2033
    @silvermine2033 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Women tell me that I'm very handsome and have no problem getting first dates, but I always manage to find a way to screw it up. Maybe I'll get it right one day! LOL
    Just some ⛽⛽⛽ for the algorithm!

  • @djnagl
    @djnagl ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ahhh I love your channel Joyanima but I completely disagree with the vulnerability part of it. Seriously a woman doesn't know how they'll take seeing their man being all weak, soft, emotional and crying. Most women would see that and lose sexual attraction for that man and would soon be looking for another. Men need to remain stoic, have their emotions in control so their woman can be the one who cries on his shoulder. It's too much of a gamble for a guy to be vulnerable for many reasons, however there is an outlet for the man to this very thing and that's with his male buddies. Yes this is where its safest for a man to become vulnerable with his boys or buddies, talk it out come to a conclusion and there a much better man for that afterwards and the romantic relationship doesn't end up on the rocks. It's the same reason why men take break ups much much harder then women do. Men we love you for literally the woman we see in front of us. While women love men for what they can provide so its conditional. Which is why a woman can move on so quickly and show no signs of pain because they've already secured your replacement months ago and went thru the emotional part over those last few months, which is why they can seem to be so cold when they leave. So again Men it's not in your best interest to be vulnerable with your woman because you don't know how she'll react. Just remain stoic, talk out your problems with your boys and you'll be just fine.

    • @byronryan4216
      @byronryan4216 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true dude 🎖️women want a male who is going to be the provider . There is no right or wrong just human nature that’s been going on for centuries between male & female relations !
      Another aspect I find most important is only dating within your own social class .

    • @timotahowhitehawk3756
      @timotahowhitehawk3756 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true my brother! Not a thing a man needs to display to create Attraction! Now empathy, yes, but not Vulnerability! Comes access weak to a woman. Now if you are trying to be a Simp, yes, be vulnerable and show her your weak feelings!

  • @HX_Andriu
    @HX_Andriu ปีที่แล้ว +6

    All of this is pretty true, since I started showing my authentic self I've felt like doing better connections with people, thanks Ana new sub!

  • @genechronister7085
    @genechronister7085 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Another great vid! Very informative and interesting!

  • @gumbyjag
    @gumbyjag ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love your presentation style, always engaging!

  • @dc8029
    @dc8029 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    TY. Great analysis but I find that it is dependant upon different ratios of each parameter and they are all interdependent upon each other which equate to a summation yeilding the level of the attraction which itself seems to vary eithin the female due to physical or perhaps mental limitations. Most result in extremely hot as soon as eyes lock and doors closed and others are same yet with comparable focus on intellectual additional stimulation or perhaps attraction is high but the other lady just cannot keep up the pace at all and seems to get worn out after the first 3-6 mo or sometimes 1 year depending on how long she can continue to play her charade. LOL.

  • @EJK26
    @EJK26 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Anna, I'm bringing some positive energy to your TH-cam channel with a sprinkle of my magnetic charisma, great sense of humour, mysterious personality, and kindness.

    • @danielpsmith2049
      @danielpsmith2049 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Player!"

    • @EJK26
      @EJK26 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danielpsmith2049 fair enough.

  • @AndrewPhilp-r6l
    @AndrewPhilp-r6l ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your videos are full of wisdom love and good advice thx!

  • @silxbeats
    @silxbeats ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is that a ps4 I'm seeing in the back there..?😂

  • @jaidynheadford4092
    @jaidynheadford4092 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    7:45 An Avenged Sevenfold Song 😏

  • @PotatoBaby-di9rx
    @PotatoBaby-di9rx ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Walk out "semi naked" ask people in town to rate you out of ten😂 😅

  • @KevinD.LoveImmers
    @KevinD.LoveImmers ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my Light up a Lucifer 😆
    For now I'm unto something incredibly huge 😝
    Can't react much have to throw in my hyper focus Charisma on that 🦄

  • @HunkyMan777
    @HunkyMan777 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Vulnerability is weakness especially in a man. Be stoic un-reactive and keep your SH@T to yourself. Women want a man who is a real man - not someone emotional and pathetic

  • @amarecudjoe9501
    @amarecudjoe9501 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Subscribe button was actually black just saying 😂

  • @tropicalbeach9225
    @tropicalbeach9225 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Joy, great insights! you forgot to mention, that watching you will also make a man more attractive! 🥰

  • @MrakdNadvladar
    @MrakdNadvladar ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😊we all aspire to reach our best✌️✌️ love the color of your shirt🦾🖤♥️🎉 hope you are having a better day😊

  • @just_some_internet_guy
    @just_some_internet_guy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Anna. You are doing great! All these tips for free. Twenty years ago, you would need to buy a book about this! And all done in a nine and a half minute video, with complete explanations and direction. You are amazing!

  • @AB-vc7ox
    @AB-vc7ox ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Be a Sigma, end of story.

  • @stephanvillavicencio5679
    @stephanvillavicencio5679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Anna, I subscribed! Wanna go out for some mint chocolate chip 😉?

  • @toons7288
    @toons7288 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please clarify my doubts,
    She is married 1 year ago and had a baby too, but she behaves different with me like she treats me special sometimes, scolds me sometimes for small mistakes, hits me on back of my head and on my shoulders, sometimes she touches my thighs, she locks her eyes with me even i look away she continues locking her eyes with me, and most times she calls other coworkers with my name and sometimes patients too, she stares at me when im unaware of her, she laughs very loud even if that joke is lame, when im infront of pc, she leans next to me even the documents are in visible distance, she talks very low when her hubby is present and talks loud when he is not around, she shares somethigs only with me like jokes etc but not with others, and she always starts conversation and lock her eyes with me, she even dont look away for one second, for minutes she locks her eyes with me and blink eyes only very rare, and when i tell her about other girls she ignore and looks away, she almost everytime sit close to me, she points her legs and her body towards me, and she touches my hand when im using mouse, even when i touch she doesnt pull away, i touched her many times, she doesnt complain or doesnt mind, she laughs and taps my shoulders all time, i touched her thighs too and she doesnt pull away and doesnt mind, she sometimes glances at me, when i look at her she looks away, can you tell me what happening here?
    Edited- and she and i have many things common, she says me and her are same and even we are in very sync.

  • @patrickhughey2877
    @patrickhughey2877 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I subscribed

  • @MMAengineer
    @MMAengineer ปีที่แล้ว +5

    didnt watch the video but I call some signs: "you shower" "you go to a barber" and other bullsht

  • @timmothylash3459
    @timmothylash3459 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow you have such a charming smile and the most amazing eyes Anna!

  • @legaleagles3654
    @legaleagles3654 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We appreciate the hard work you put into your channel ❤
    Keep it up 💯

    • @averywisefool83
      @averywisefool83 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'd like to put some hard work into her channel.

    • @OregonDARRYL
      @OregonDARRYL ปีที่แล้ว

      @@averywisefool83 Good one.

    • @averywisefool83
      @averywisefool83 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Kyuzo-qf7zn what's the difference between playful flirting and simping? I hope your quest for achieving sexiness goes well.

  • @andyzagray7962
    @andyzagray7962 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Coffee or espresso chocolate chip ice cream ...

  • @yunsemree
    @yunsemree ปีที่แล้ว +2

    how come you never run out of things to say about these subjects😅 it might make people overanalysis paralysis

    • @OregonDARRYL
      @OregonDARRYL ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, I have no idea how to act now...

  • @tvb4227
    @tvb4227 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol. This is too much work.
    Just work hard and be rich. Start a business or make your money for you.
    Enjoy the money and your healthy body and enjoy the feminine beauty around you.
    Don't listen to this girl. Feminine is chaos. Feminine is not logic Its full of positive and negative emotion.
    Get healthy, get rich and enjoy feminine energy.
    Most women actually have nothing to offer to you. Don't focus too much about them. Just enjoy them ;) Until someone go really serious of being with you.
    Again. Even that's the case. Still don't focus too on them. Because Theres more in life than p^ssy and entertainment.

  • @BlairPittams
    @BlairPittams ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm Mr white power who walks in the room and a flipped crazy everybody slightly spooks out
    My daily outings

  • @byronryan4216
    @byronryan4216 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stripped naked I love being my intensely individualistic self . ❤

  • @JohnSAitken
    @JohnSAitken 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What does one do when a person is attracted and you want nothing to do with them? A video addressing this would be just as helpful. If you don’t know just ask outright, I find this works. Be straightforward.

  • @Konstantinos143
    @Konstantinos143 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The only problem in all of these things is that they constantly go unrequited by most average idiots. I do feel judged and criticized when others do not engage on my own little charisma. And adapting without becoming fake does not help unless you want to get along with colleagues or random idiots at a club. And offcourse there is no empathy out there, overmedicated women and alcohol removes all empathy from the very beginning. It is all about either using or being used. I have tried 7 times to get a serious romance going - 9 years now. Maybe there is hope for others. I keep wishing for a serious solar flare to knock out all internet for good. All social media gone. For good. It might solve the serious societal issue we are plagued by.

  • @newgodxOmega
    @newgodxOmega 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey sister I am extremely satisfied being the most unattractive guy on this planet I am cool with that. I don't sub to female creators I just ended up coz I got time to waste I am extreme mgtow so I have plenty of time and peace of mind. No women no problem.

  • @AswollAlpaca
    @AswollAlpaca ปีที่แล้ว

    People are mistaking kindness with being a pushover or the "nice guy" in the comment section

  • @jermainepatterson3213
    @jermainepatterson3213 ปีที่แล้ว

    Big facts

  • @chrishayes4991
    @chrishayes4991 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anna, you're the bomb.

  • @pasekamlotshwa2540
    @pasekamlotshwa2540 ปีที่แล้ว

    "click that red subscribe button"
    I couldn't... It's not red

  • @BlairPittams
    @BlairPittams ปีที่แล้ว

    Magnetic chrisma
    My gosh she's got it, a girl.
    Hot & dribbling

  • @shahj8
    @shahj8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Having a good sense of humor is not a sign of intelligence what? Please explain

  • @damme91
    @damme91 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know i am get female attention sometimes from flirters and other woman

  • @sharulnizam4376
    @sharulnizam4376 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🥰🥳😍🤩✌️😘

  • @theclicker69
    @theclicker69 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm 6'-8", shy as hell and apparently not sexually attractive. 😂

  • @ramses4530
    @ramses4530 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you

  • @DarkLordLewis1996
    @DarkLordLewis1996 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve subscribed

  • @LunganiMntambo-gj8pb
    @LunganiMntambo-gj8pb ปีที่แล้ว

    Am new I've subscribed😊📌

  • @Prokleti_fažol
    @Prokleti_fažol ปีที่แล้ว +1

    be tall?

  • @smferreiro2610
    @smferreiro2610 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm subscribed... since the first day!
    (Not really... but I catch up!)

  • @SolidGeddoe
    @SolidGeddoe ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Taking Ana on a date and buying some chocolate mint ice cream is the way to her heart lol

    • @markchristopher420
      @markchristopher420 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "All my flavors are guaranteed to satisfy"
      (Ice Cream Man, the mighty Van Halen!)

    • @SolidGeddoe
      @SolidGeddoe ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@markchristopher420 lol

  • @Bomb_Gifted_Studios
    @Bomb_Gifted_Studios ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm with you. Mint chocolate chip all the way!! ...I have all these traits but I don't know. Maybe it's the thinner air up here in Colorado? Makes all the women suspicious that I'm fake. If this list is accurate I should take my sexy self elsewhere lolz

  • @blackmetalmatters9101
    @blackmetalmatters9101 ปีที่แล้ว

    #16 - have a British accent.

  • @tommacbride3654
    @tommacbride3654 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's your loveably! You have cast a spell on us all and we can't wait for more so rest up❤ Cheers!

  • @markchristopher420
    @markchristopher420 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    *You are.* 🥰

  • @macvena
    @macvena ปีที่แล้ว

    Basically, dance like a trained monkey, because its all about her.

  • @vloggingpractice8077
    @vloggingpractice8077 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes, I know I am😊

  • @TheAcesendedOne
    @TheAcesendedOne ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything said doesnt matter if you dont have the looks.

  • @Chezbro37
    @Chezbro37 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Looking amazing and thanks for sharing your intelligence with the help of sexual attraction 🙄

  • @jimkofron8638
    @jimkofron8638 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have had female attention all of my life. But with SR (semen retention) it is now off the charts. It is incredible. The smiles, the touches the stares. They try to get close to you. Have had a couple of gals get flustered. Women flirting with me with their husbands present. I am attractive but no Adonis. I encourage any male to look into it.

    • @SolidGeddoe
      @SolidGeddoe ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How long have you been on no fap?

    • @jimkofron8638
      @jimkofron8638 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SolidGeddoe 31 daze

    • @HX_Andriu
      @HX_Andriu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've heard it can help you keeping a lot of your testosterone. But I didn't think it would work. I guess I better start doing it now? You seriously recommend?

    • @SolidGeddoe
      @SolidGeddoe ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jimkofron8638 Ok,I am about to go two weeks no masturbation,I noticed for me it's always the 2 weeks that feel the most annoying as the brain rewires lol but I feel I can do it now alot easier and I have other things keeping me busy,I also make strong eye contact with almost everyone,women look at me and either smile or they keep checking me out subtly so they think lol but I caught them constantly looking at me and whispering or talking in a low voice to their friends or coworkers like when I go to a restaurant or some other place they giggle and laugh and I feel they are talking about me,but I also been told I am good looking guess that's why except back then when I had bad depression I never noticed any of these things and I was anti social etc

    • @HX_Andriu
      @HX_Andriu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SolidGeddoe oh man maybe that's what I needed all this time, because a lot of female friends that I have tell me that I'm attractive but it's weird because I don't make any physical contact at all, I struggle a lot with this, so the physical stuff you make it almost natural when you do semen retention?

  • @ashandwit
    @ashandwit ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a co-worker who is leaving for another job at the end of the work week; there is chemistry, there is a ton of laughter, she stops every time I have something to say, or walks along with me; HOWEVER--- we are two decades different in age. I have also been told that she is at the very least, bi-sexual. SO, the question is: will this move OUT of the work place? Last week, I bought her a Coke, with her name drawn on a 3X5 card with ink, graphite, and colored markers--- and said, "Hey, listen, I would ask you out for a beer, but I know I'm busy, and you're busy...." and left it at that. Now the holiday is over, and by Monday next week, starting her new job (it is still in the area, and she lives in my same town), I am hoping to say that my ask was a STANDING request---OR some such contrivance.

    • @MrTripleXXX
      @MrTripleXXX ปีที่แล้ว

      What does her being bisexual even matter? Are you a guy or a girl?
      If you're trying to imply bisexual people can't be happy with just one person... you're wrong.
      I'm bisexual myself and when I'm with someone I have no desire to see someone of the other gender.

  • @brianten-in2zw
    @brianten-in2zw ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Anna :)

  • @oliverpetroski4205
    @oliverpetroski4205 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1st😄
    🥰 love the style D🌹😘

    • @markchristopher420
      @markchristopher420 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😳 Oh, no! Bob beat you to it... 😴
      but he spells his name backwards

    • @oliverpetroski4205
      @oliverpetroski4205 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@markchristopher420haha, no he did not😂

    • @markchristopher420
      @markchristopher420 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@oliverpetroski4205 It was by :06, swear
      to God. Notice how his comment sits
      lower than yours? It came first, sorry to
      say... we've all been there, brother. I've
      been trying LOL finally got it yesterday!

    • @bobholyoake8577
      @bobholyoake8577 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@markchristopher420 👍

    • @bobholyoake8577
      @bobholyoake8577 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👌👍

  • @SummitMan165
    @SummitMan165 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent !

  • @danielpsmith2049
    @danielpsmith2049 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah.... I agree that we are all different... Women tend to look for the whole package... A more well rounded view of someone inside and out! Before they decide whether they are attracted to someone... A guy might be a 7 to a girl in terms of looks... but jump to a 9 because he writes poetry, plays a guitar... And writes her lovesongs...😍❤... Just a thought...

  • @sanjaytotlani6649
    @sanjaytotlani6649 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @sergiosolis4538
    @sergiosolis4538 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've subscribed.

  • @craigmcvay1
    @craigmcvay1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ohh yess Mint cho chip oooh yess

  • @warrengauthier4699
    @warrengauthier4699 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sexually attractive man:
    Income, assets and resources
    Tall
    In shape
    Big DONG
    Stamina
    If the first one is missing, all other items are pointless.

  • @bobholyoake8577
    @bobholyoake8577 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1st

  • @chilldog2493
    @chilldog2493 ปีที่แล้ว

    When woman randomly try to buy you shots...all the time

  • @SportsAndWeights
    @SportsAndWeights 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whilst I enjoy watching your videos there are too many saying when you text her etc. Or if you go out with her......? How about for when you think someone in keen but you haven't spoke much for whatever reason? Or there's definitely attraction but there's an age gap and you don't want to make the wrong call that gets you judged in the wrong way.

  • @LittleRedRideMeGood69
    @LittleRedRideMeGood69 ปีที่แล้ว

    I walk like a *_Stoner._*
    Head down, headphones in, arms flailing and I smell like w33d.
    I'm still hot.

  • @kinkyspannertwister6843
    @kinkyspannertwister6843 ปีที่แล้ว

    My approach has always been that no matter how wretched i feel .if i can make someone feel good about themselves then my time isn't wasted . My wife calls me a flirt and says im vain, what good would it do me ? I've been with her for 23 years and she accepts its what I am(worked on her lol).