ASMR Soft Spoken ~ Tips for Managing Money / Saving Money / Paying Debt

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  • @witchbIadess
    @witchbIadess 8 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    My mom always used to tell me "do the best you can with what you've got, and the best you've got will get you through". It really taught me to save and really do the best I can with the things I already own or has been given to me. Thank you for the tips for all of us too, I'll be watching the video the whole way through tomorrow morning!

  • @acesandoval4467
    @acesandoval4467 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I admire you, please keep posting vids, there are nights that I have a hard time falling asleep. Your voice is very soothing and your personality is like a breath of fresh air! Thanks for helping me relax and sleep well when I toss and turn at night sometimes lol;)

  • @MrBibi86
    @MrBibi86 8 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I calculated that I spend $8,900 per year on cigarettes! I have a doctors appointment next week to get Champix and hopefully, I will quit.

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      MrBibi86 I meant to mention that. I quit over five years ago and have saved a ton of money. There are often side effects with Chantix... Just look out for that. I quit with electronic cigarettes and nothing else. For me, they worked when nothing else did. It's different for everybody, and I quit multiple times before I quit for good. I wish you all the best to become smoke-free! ❤️❤️

    • @brockmolloy5532
      @brockmolloy5532 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      MrBibi86 good luck with quitting! I'm glad you're taking a step in the right direction!

    • @siszam
      @siszam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I read Easyway To Stop Smoking by Alan Carr and I stopped cold turkey. It was rough but I did it. That book is great even if you are using other methods. Good luck!

    • @KimmyWhisper
      @KimmyWhisper 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      MrBibi86 I quit a week ago and have already saved 70$ because my husband and I were smoking 2 packs a day. And I feel so much better. Good luck!

  • @simplybecky01
    @simplybecky01 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I find it so interesting that you have anxiety whilst you shop, but yet you can film videos in the store as you walk around which i think is so brave!

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's different somehow if I'm recording my shopping trip. I think it takes my mind off it. Plus, I haven't taken you grocery shopping yet. We've been in a few other stores, but no grocery shopping. It may be different, I don't know.

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      1 Oak Arts I find that I experience a lot of sensory overload in grocery stores. It's too bright in there, and there's too much to look at. It seems like I'm always in somebody's way, or they're in my way. I get a bit claustrophobic sometimes if the aisles are narrow and/or crowded with people or stuff. I find the entire experience to be wildly uncomfortable.

  • @laurenkelley9880
    @laurenkelley9880 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for taking the time to make this video!! It is super relatable and nice to have the reminder that we all make mistakes, but are not alone in that!! I laughed when you read the 10-second rule because I do that a lot, but find that I need a few minutes. Usually when I go to TJ Maxx, Marshall's, or Target I am in trouble so I will carry everything that I love or feel I need to have with me for a while until I get sick of holding it. Then I can put it down and don't feel bad walking away from it!

  • @kathicken7424
    @kathicken7424 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved this! Thank you SAS.... there were some great tips here with a dose of none condescending reality xxx

  • @narwhalsrock1220
    @narwhalsrock1220 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    These tips are really helpful! And I agree with the company benefits. The company I work with gets me 20% off my Verizon bill every month. Definitely a plus. Thanks for making this video :)

  • @HamStrokers-Ejacula
    @HamStrokers-Ejacula 8 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Where was this when I bought fifteen alpacas for dwarf-jousting!?

    • @asmrsounds9605
      @asmrsounds9605 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Killer Queen iconic

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hahaha! And here I was feeling bad about spending $20 on some hot rollers recently. :)

    • @justincase8425
      @justincase8425 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOFL!

  • @ron3320
    @ron3320 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent, Excellent advice. From time to time friends, people I meet will ask me for financial advice. Won't go into why, but from now on I'm showing them your video. The best common sense financial info I have seen. To para phase something you hit on, my father use to tell me, the first time the mule kicks you it's the mules fault. After that it's your fault. I find that most folks in financial trouble break this rule over and over.
    Love your video's. When I'm stressed and can't sleep I usually watch ASMR video. It really helps me and yours are one of my favorites. Keep making your videos. Thank You

  • @raymondmiller9798
    @raymondmiller9798 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I put this on last night and although I sympathise with you and everyone in debt, I didn't even make it to 7 mins and I was sleeping. You have outdone yourself on this one.

  • @sanderverweij1997
    @sanderverweij1997 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    this Channel will grow faster and faster and that might bring you some well deserved wealth

  • @corinavandertil1773
    @corinavandertil1773 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "It's bullcrapp, don't do it..." I love your "no bull" kind of thinking... and the part of imagination, you are so right!!

  • @linap644
    @linap644 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great tips! Thank you so much! I am addicted to coffee shops, makeup and books. I put too much money on those things. Trying so hard to avoid the shops. Slowly I have realized it is working. The shopping list is the best thing to do to follow it and also saves so much time.

  • @meganalice93
    @meganalice93 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve been watching you for quite a while now but only recently found this video. Have tried to watch it 3 or 4 nights in a row to get the tips but keep falling asleep. Trying to watch in the middle of the day now in the hope I can stay awake. 😂

  • @katevand
    @katevand 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2022
    thank you Mary, again I took notes and we're gonna get better this year

  • @elquemador
    @elquemador 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hey just wanted to let you know that me and the wife love your videos. One question/suggestion, can you upload your audio to soundcloud or Spotify? having the option of just audio would be great on some occasions.

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Reynaldo Cordero I haven't thought about that. I'll have to check it out!

  • @winonadaphne6445
    @winonadaphne6445 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i LOOOOOOOVED the thing about impulse purchases 30 day rule

  • @hollymaylarge1131
    @hollymaylarge1131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been working so much about my debt lately and really determined to pay it off

  • @kileannonhoward840
    @kileannonhoward840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such a beautiful soul and I strive to be more like you in so many aspects of life. ☀️

  • @immortan-valkyrie90
    @immortan-valkyrie90 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lynette, I love these videos. Thank you for your honesty.

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      LordAlucardsbride Girl, Lynette can't manage money. Look at all 'em Simply Southern shirts she keeps buyin'!

  • @vene_unsweetened
    @vene_unsweetened 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really needed this, thanks. I just did my taxes. Amazing how much you can spend on magazine subscriptions!

  • @bigolnoodle
    @bigolnoodle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    about to start my second year of college and i only make $9.50 an hour working part time so thank you so much for these tips mary

  • @gunel-farz
    @gunel-farz 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just wrote down some of your advices and pinned them on my fridge. Thank you for putting my chaotic thoughts and miserable efforts to save more money into firm rules:)

  • @bimlico
    @bimlico 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the accent, especially the way you say, Moonpie (Moonpah), Carolina (Carolinah), Ninety Nine (Ninety Nahn). I hope Biscuitville appreciate your patronage.

  • @tarahill86
    @tarahill86 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just wanted to tell your channel is my favorite ASMR channel on TH-cam! I'm from Arkansas, so I appreciate the southern accent! ;) I'm a new listener, but have you ever told what you do for a living? I watched your video where you where reading legal descriptions and I wondered if you were a legal assistant (like me)! Deeds are always fun to do...lol!

  • @puffballavada6967
    @puffballavada6967 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you asmr and im learning how to be a college student on ramen noodles

  • @jasonschufletowski4591
    @jasonschufletowski4591 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did you change your mic or camera because this sounds AMAZING! (all your videos are amazing, but this just sounds very clear)

  • @peachyhaze6133
    @peachyhaze6133 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank-you so much! I needed this. ❤

  • @AMERASIAN12
    @AMERASIAN12 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look really pretty in this video! Those colors and that necklace look great.

  • @misswilde3054
    @misswilde3054 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I had some kind of Goodwill-like shop where I live... I'm always so jealous when you mention it in your videos... hahaha loved the part of 'let's not get into the topic of my closet' buahahaha. I get anxiety in malls if I go alone or if I have minimal time to look for clothers, if I'm with a friend and have enought time I'm okay.

    • @misswilde3054
      @misswilde3054 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also I am studying a double major! And I'm gonna try and study a subject called 'Comparative literature' that looks very good. I love reading so much so I relate to you hahaha

  • @LinaLovegood
    @LinaLovegood 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i am in university and these really helped me

  • @mommamorris3
    @mommamorris3 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lots of great tips! I'm pretty good with budgeting my money until it comes to my scrapbooking supplies and then I blow it! I have so much stuff I could open my own store.

  • @keithparker2226
    @keithparker2226 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos are great Iam from durham in the north east of England and your voice is amazing and you look great aswell and I have a Aldi round the corner from me lol loved the video x

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! When you said Durham, my first thought was Durham, NC. I guess it's a bit farther away than that!

  • @nonononono8194
    @nonononono8194 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Evil Cuteness Like I said, I'm in the middle of it myself, so I'm struggling right along with everybody else!

  • @patriciahawkins7337
    @patriciahawkins7337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My anxiety is if people crowd the aisle with their shopping carts I’ll turn around and go the other way. Just so I don’t have to say “excuse me” many times.

  • @marissasimas9258
    @marissasimas9258 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have the same anxiety. Thanks for the excellent video.

  • @ClaireL346-o6e
    @ClaireL346-o6e 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is a great video! although I'm confused I watched a video of yours last week when you mentioned your husband? I'm so sorry if it's been a recent breakup, that must have been tough x

  • @corinavandertil1773
    @corinavandertil1773 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love ur mom too!!!

  • @zenreefer7817
    @zenreefer7817 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm 15,how in the hell did I end up here?Atleast I learned something

  • @jessegamingtv2146
    @jessegamingtv2146 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One tip is don't use credit cards as much because when you use a credit card not only do you pay off your debt, but you pay a tax on top of that which can add up a lot more than you think

  • @nelohagen
    @nelohagen 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    huge fan from Spain! ...I would like to know your astrologic sign!!!!!

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NELOHAGEN Gemini, baby!

    • @nelohagen
      @nelohagen 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SouthernASMR Sounds well...that is quite coherent because you are ruled by Mercury, the planet of comunication...in this video your communication skills are ON TOP!!!!! Bravooooooo

  • @Hollyis
    @Hollyis 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why cant we comment on your recent videos? Thats how we interact with you and others!

    • @Hollyis
      @Hollyis 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I miss talking with you. ):

  • @cheryblosom
    @cheryblosom 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you know if any of your co-workers know you make TH-cam videos?

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      cheryblosom A few do, yeah. Why?

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For the most part, I like to keep my worlds separate. But yeah, a few people at work know. (I don't think they get what the heck these crazy boring videos are about, but they know.)

  • @justincase8425
    @justincase8425 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    This cool and normal but do your kids think you're weird doing role play ASMR?

  • @pasmafauteamoi
    @pasmafauteamoi 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look like Lauralee Bell

  • @solbrando
    @solbrando 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    First

  • @pauleytee8410
    @pauleytee8410 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    you're beautiful

  • @mckennabruce8067
    @mckennabruce8067 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is your name Christine, you look familiar

    • @al3xisw95
      @al3xisw95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      her name is mary