I needed this story today!!!! Thank you for sharing your story and this wonderful message!!! I'm not suicidal but I'm incredibly heartbroken and in a very sad slump for the very same reason. My spouse said the same thing to me except for I'm the lady the Auntie mentioned, I've been married for almost 30 years, kids, strong family relationships, many friendships, etc etc....every day hurts and every day is a challenge to get through. I am truly inspired by your ability to turn inwards and love yourself!!! I work on that every day and hope to get to a place where I am completely healed, and yes, I would love to find my person, my life partner. Thanks to you Kablia Niam Neejvam for delivering this heartfelt story so meaningfully
Yes, it is so true. When i were with my ex, I did everything I could and made the best Hmong authentic foods for him, bc he's an older man and that's what he want. But no matter how much I cater up to him, he still couldn't love me. After I decided to grant him his wish, I met a better man who treat me like a Queen. Love me for who I am. He do everything for me bc he love me. Love is free, do not lose hope. Do not slave yourself for someone who doesn't love you.
Well Sisters dont be afraid to divorce if it gets bad this is the USA not LAOS. We live life once it is okay to move on and not let Hmong men tell us how we live and do not let the weak Hmong community shun divorced Hmong sisters for having a broken marriage. Love yourselves Sisters we won't be moving anywhere soon but just in the 52 states of America. Make your money sisters and let Hmong men drool with the if statements.
Txojkev sib tuag yog ib txoj, kev sib nrauj yog ib yam txawv thiab hos. Tabsis kuv qhov view kuv xav txawv. Txojkev tuag yog ntuj qee lawm es ua tsi tau li cas nawb. Mob los yog tsi yog kev txhaum, tabsis kev sib nrauj mas mob tshaj plaws vim yog lub siab phem xaiv ua lawm naj. Leejtwg ua txojkev phem ces yuav tau txais kev phem, Leejtwg ua zoo ces tau txais kev zoo los ntawm Tswv Ntuj os. Tswv Ntuj ntxub txojkev kev sib nrauj heev, tabsis nws hlub hlub peb.
It’s true! Don’t force & do everything for someone that does not love you os sister. He should’ve told you & his parents that before he married you. He wasted your time. Maybe karma will get him for doing this to you.
Hooray for your aunt. She's very wise and yes, it is true. Glad you took her advice and pulled yourself together. Am happy you found true love. It better to have someone who loves you and chase you and do for instead of you doing the chading and giving. Best of luck.
What a jerk...if your 1st husband didn't like u in the first place, he should not agree to marriage. He is a guy, so it doesn't affect him much to divorce, but the community is not as nice to divorced women. She is lucky to have understanding parents and an aunt who supported her. Or else she prob gonna live miserable her whole life.
Hello Mab! I listen to most of your stories, but when you post inspiring story.. it automatically makes it sounds boring to me. Ive listened to a few inspiring story. They are good, but... maybe im just toxic and need the juicy story. 😂😂😂
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I needed this story today!!!! Thank you for sharing your story and this wonderful message!!! I'm not suicidal but I'm incredibly heartbroken and in a very sad slump for the very same reason. My spouse said the same thing to me except for I'm the lady the Auntie mentioned, I've been married for almost 30 years, kids, strong family relationships, many friendships, etc etc....every day hurts and every day is a challenge to get through. I am truly inspired by your ability to turn inwards and love yourself!!! I work on that every day and hope to get to a place where I am completely healed, and yes, I would love to find my person, my life partner. Thanks to you Kablia Niam Neejvam for delivering this heartfelt story so meaningfully
I pray that you find someone that loves you.
Stay strong sister, love yourself and love will find you. You are a beautiful person. Don't give up on you.
Yog kawg tus sister, li koj tus phauj hais.
Glad you found love and happiness.
Mab..you look beautiful in that gorgeous Hmong outfit.
Luag tsis hlub yus ces luag yeej tsis pom yus zoo tsis pom yus muaj nuj nqis ib qhov me me li. Lub neej tau tus neeg tsis hlub ma tu siab tshaj. Luag tsis hlub ces kav liam. Tsis tsim nyog mob siab khib siab lawm tso nws mus nws zoo dua.
Yog kawg os
Yes, it is so true. When i were with my ex, I did everything I could and made the best Hmong authentic foods for him, bc he's an older man and that's what he want. But no matter how much I cater up to him, he still couldn't love me. After I decided to grant him his wish, I met a better man who treat me like a Queen. Love me for who I am. He do everything for me bc he love me. Love is free, do not lose hope. Do not slave yourself for someone who doesn't love you.
Well Sisters dont be afraid to divorce if it gets bad this is the USA not LAOS. We live life once it is okay to move on and not let Hmong men tell us how we live and do not let the weak Hmong community shun divorced Hmong sisters for having a broken marriage. Love yourselves Sisters we won't be moving anywhere soon but just in the 52 states of America. Make your money sisters and let Hmong men drool with the if statements.
Txojkev sib tuag yog ib txoj, kev sib nrauj yog ib yam txawv thiab hos. Tabsis kuv qhov view kuv xav txawv. Txojkev tuag yog ntuj qee lawm es ua tsi tau li cas nawb. Mob los yog tsi yog kev txhaum, tabsis kev sib nrauj mas mob tshaj plaws vim yog lub siab phem xaiv ua lawm naj. Leejtwg ua txojkev phem ces yuav tau txais kev phem, Leejtwg ua zoo ces tau txais kev zoo los ntawm Tswv Ntuj os. Tswv Ntuj ntxub txojkev kev sib nrauj heev, tabsis nws hlub hlub peb.
It’s true! Don’t force & do everything for someone that does not love you os sister. He should’ve told you & his parents that before he married you. He wasted your time. Maybe karma will get him for doing this to you.
Koj muab nws hlub dhau kev lawm nev !
Txiv neej muaj tus zoo zoo dhau koj nyuag laib kod hod !
Love this story...very similar to mine. Blessings to you and your husband! ❤
Hooray for your aunt. She's very wise and yes, it is true. Glad you took her advice and pulled yourself together. Am happy you found true love. It better to have someone who loves you and chase you and do for instead of you doing the chading and giving. Best of luck.
I too, tsis yuam ib tug 36:30 neeg hlub kuv. If someone can love me the way I love him then I know he is mine for sure.
Red flag. Don't waste your time.
Dang lady you were supposed to become single a long time ago...
Thaum i kuv twb zoo kiag li zaj no thiab
😢
CAs kj yov ntshaw nws ua luaj ko thiab nawj???
What a jerk...if your 1st husband didn't like u in the first place, he should not agree to marriage. He is a guy, so it doesn't affect him much to divorce, but the community is not as nice to divorced women. She is lucky to have understanding parents and an aunt who supported her. Or else she prob gonna live miserable her whole life.
Thaum luag g hlub u, kj yim hais zoo, ua zoo mas yimhuab ua chaw ntxub rau lawv nawj, kj mas ruam ua luaj ko,
Mus yuav dua lwm tus tus maj tus zoo tseem tos ntsoov koj hos ruam aw .....!
Hello Mab! I listen to most of your stories, but when you post inspiring story.. it automatically makes it sounds boring to me. Ive listened to a few inspiring story. They are good, but... maybe im just toxic and need the juicy story. 😂😂😂
It's ok dear you can go listen to my other channel Mab Vaj features more of the drama stories.