This is why there is a lost generation. If you don’t even know how to parent then it’s not the child’s fault. It’s the parent’s fault. So glad they had an aunty like this who helped save their family.
Our parents are uneducated so they're not very smart especially when it comes to raising children. They think that by scolding us and saying mean words to us will motivate us to better ourselves. They don't know nor understand that their words carry weight. The mean words they say to us does nothing but puts us down and destroys our minds. This is why I vowed to myself that when I have my own children, I won't treat them how my parents treated me. I have 5 kids and I've never used harsh words to put them down intentionally. My kids and I talk like we're best friends and I make sure they know that they can come to me with everything they want to talk about. I'm very happy you have some great friends and family who were able to be there for you and helped you when you needed it the most. Good luck to you, son.
Pretty much your parents failed. I'm glad Aunty took you under her wings. Plus if I were you I would just be quiet around parent go accomplish greatness and have them apologize.
So happy for you that you didn't take a decade to learn the lesson. I believe what helped you succeed was that you didn't let too much time go by. Most people must hit bottom to want change, and if they survive, they will climb back up. Some people die while they're at the bottom. Not all can come back. You're very fortunate to have that auntie. If you were homeless, it would be hard to come back. I understand your parents' position, too.
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Peb yog the parents, xav22 kom peb tej minyuam ua neeg zoo xwb,
This is why there is a lost generation. If you don’t even know how to parent then it’s not the child’s fault. It’s the parent’s fault.
So glad they had an aunty like this who helped save their family.
Tsis yog tim koj niam koj txiv...Tim koj tsis xav ua neeg zoo xwb...cov me nyuam kawm ntawv tsis yog koj thiab koj cov phooj ywg laib xwb...cov me nyuam kawm ntawv coob li coob tab sis koj yeej nyiam nrog cov neeg phem koj tsis xaiv nrog pab zoo...Tim koj tsis xaiv txoj kev zoo txhob muab lub txim pov rau koj niam koj txiv
Our parents are uneducated so they're not very smart especially when it comes to raising children. They think that by scolding us and saying mean words to us will motivate us to better ourselves. They don't know nor understand that their words carry weight. The mean words they say to us does nothing but puts us down and destroys our minds. This is why I vowed to myself that when I have my own children, I won't treat them how my parents treated me. I have 5 kids and I've never used harsh words to put them down intentionally. My kids and I talk like we're best friends and I make sure they know that they can come to me with everything they want to talk about.
I'm very happy you have some great friends and family who were able to be there for you and helped you when you needed it the most. Good luck to you, son.
The worst thing and most heartbreaking thing any parents can do is kick their children out of the house without love and support.
Pretty much your parents failed. I'm glad Aunty took you under her wings. Plus if I were you I would just be quiet around parent go accomplish greatness and have them apologize.
Koj tsis muaj cai nroo txog koj niam thiab koj txiv tsis hlub koj vim koj twb tsis hlub koj lawm ces tsis muaj leej twg yuav hlub koj.
This story makes me tear up. Thanks to you and this brother for sharing his story. God bless him.
What school did you go to?
So happy for you that you didn't take a decade to learn the lesson. I believe what helped you succeed was that you didn't let too much time go by. Most people must hit bottom to want change, and if they survive, they will climb back up. Some people die while they're at the bottom. Not all can come back. You're very fortunate to have that auntie. If you were homeless, it would be hard to come back. I understand your parents' position, too.
I love all the inspiring story all the sisters and brothers. Thank you for helping other share their stories. ❤
Nyab thiab dab laug los tub thiab nyab naw
All sons should learn from him. Pay your own wife.