Story 1: If I was on the receiving end, if my partner did this to me, I would feel hurt, but mostly, I would be angry at the co-worker for making my partner think that way. I would suggest counseling and/or therapy for us and feel sad about my partner being so anxious rather than angry at them for the lack of trust. Anxiety can cause havoc with one's mind.
@@KleineSprechenfuhrerin Through the story it felt to me that the "friend" had some sort of issue with either OP or her husband. Either she is a "feminist" who thinks "all men are awful regardless", had some sort of unresolved trauma or was telling lies in hopes of OP divorcing and then her being able to hook up with OP's husband. Or simply being jealous of their good relationship and (seemingly successfully) trying to manipulate OP into creating unnecessary drama since first she instigated OP to stalk her husband and then threatened OP to tell him about that. Personally i hope OP ditched that "friend" and talked to her husband about the whole situation (including the "friend's" blackmail) and they get couple counseling
He has every right to be angry, she is completely insulting their entire relationship by not trusting him to be faithful even though there is ZERO evidence of any type of affair. Dump that excuse of a friend, get therapy, and hope that your husband can manage to forgive this massive breach of trust (especially since this is the second time you’ve freaked out over absolutely nothing).
Bro wtf are you talking about with the overprotective mom story "it was all negative" and "i wish he shared details about how their marriage works". No shit its all negative, the guys wife is having panic attacks daily. It is a dire situation, hes asking for help. Shit take like why the fuck do you have an issue with the father in this situation.
That mom needs so much therapy. It sounds like untreated postpartum anxiety. We hear so much about ppd and ppp (depression and psychosis) but i didn't know ppa even existed until i was diagnosed with it. I would spend over two hours preparing to leave the house and still panic over driving. I thought I was just going through "new mom jitters" Ahhhhh I see they did get her into therapy and there was more of a ptsd thing
At this point i dont think its PPA as much as the phobia of your child dying as thats the point she keeps driving to excuse her behavior Sorry had to look up the spelling Thanatophobia- fear of dying or loved ones dying
Story 3 This narrator lacks so much common sense, I'm having to skip videos. This guy is asking for help about this problem, not wanting to tell people about his whole life, wth dude?!
Look I can understand needing comfort because your spouse recently died, and finding solace through someone who did the same. That being said using your wedding night lingerie is crazy 💀
my question is, is it the best friend who was the one to suggest that the husband was cheating? and if so why does the wife trust them and what motives do they have?
You encapsulate my feelings on the narrator too. As long as he’s not being malicious, he can have his own opinions. He is a human being, and this is his job, this is how he gets food on the table. Remember the human on the other side.
i think what most people dont like is his monotone storytelling, i personally like it it has something relaxing but thats everyones personal opinion ^^ if he dont like him its fine no need to like ;D
Story 5 lost me when she said mother are miss treated in the USA no sorry honey that fathers, mothers hold benefit of the doubt father are guilty till they prove their innocence XD miss me with that delusion XD
That giant run-on sentence was something else to decipher, but I think I’ve got it. However, bless your heart, you don’t seem to. OP didn’t say anything about moms vs dads or whatever that confusing, angry jumble was really implying. She said it was hard for moms in the US. I’m assuming you must be a mom in the US, otherwise it wouldn’t even be possible for you to know how it is. So, it must come from a place of not understanding life outside of the US, which is totally understandable. A lot of people don’t have the luxury of travel. But statistically speaking, working moms in the US have fewer benefits than any other first-world country. Most other countries have mandatory maternity pay, mandatory minimum time off, time off for dads to take maternity leave to help out, and many other benefits. She was saying that it’s not as easy to just pause and have a baby here because of those things. Hopefully that was helpful and you can understand another mom’s point of view. If you need help with writing, let me know and I’ll be happy to help with that too 🙂
@@DiZoSoMom 48:08 strait up said mother are mistreated or are you just ignorant of the thing you claim to watch? I quite literally stop watching the video because of it XD you can be well written and know your grammar and still be ignorant…
@@DavidJones-bl5guyou know it’s possible for both mothers AND fathers to be mistreated, right? Both mothers and fathers don’t get proper childcare benefits in the U.S. compared to places in Europe and other developed countries. Mothers are mistreated. Fathers are also mistreated. It’s that simple.
@@Project_KN1GHT You do know when you call something miss treated the opposites for the other is true right… so if mothers are mistreated that would imply to them that fathers are well treated XD your comprehension skills need some work bro… if they had said mother and father are mistreated that would be childless people are well treated which is still wrong as being child free is used against you in the work force XD
@@DavidJones-bl5gu um… no? For example. I’m a man. If I say men are being mistreated, I’m speaking from my experience as a man. That doesn’t mean women don’t get mistreated, it just means I don’t have experience with knowing what it’s like to be mistreated as a woman. But obviously women are also mistreated, and I’m not trying to erase that just because I didn’t include it. OP would be a mother, not a father, so she mentioned mothers because *it would specifically affect her.* Suffering is not a competition. Everyone suffers. Parents suffer, childfree people suffer. Gender doesn’t matter, because there are disadvantages (and advantages) to either side. I’m confused as to why you feel the need to argue that? Like do you think mothers *don’t* suffer??
Story 1: If I was on the receiving end, if my partner did this to me, I would feel hurt, but mostly, I would be angry at the co-worker for making my partner think that way. I would suggest counseling and/or therapy for us and feel sad about my partner being so anxious rather than angry at them for the lack of trust. Anxiety can cause havoc with one's mind.
Also op's "friend" is just awful
@@KleineSprechenfuhrerin agreed 😡
@@KleineSprechenfuhrerin Through the story it felt to me that the "friend" had some sort of issue with either OP or her husband.
Either she is a "feminist" who thinks "all men are awful regardless", had some sort of unresolved trauma or was telling lies in hopes of OP divorcing and then her being able to hook up with OP's husband.
Or simply being jealous of their good relationship and (seemingly successfully) trying to manipulate OP into creating unnecessary drama since first she instigated OP to stalk her husband and then threatened OP to tell him about that.
Personally i hope OP ditched that "friend" and talked to her husband about the whole situation (including the "friend's" blackmail) and they get couple counseling
He has every right to be angry, she is completely insulting their entire relationship by not trusting him to be faithful even though there is ZERO evidence of any type of affair. Dump that excuse of a friend, get therapy, and hope that your husband can manage to forgive this massive breach of trust (especially since this is the second time you’ve freaked out over absolutely nothing).
I don’t really think it’s blackmail, the bff wasn’t obligated to keep such a horrible secret, and OP needed to take responsibility for her actions.
Bro wtf are you talking about with the overprotective mom story "it was all negative" and "i wish he shared details about how their marriage works". No shit its all negative, the guys wife is having panic attacks daily. It is a dire situation, hes asking for help. Shit take like why the fuck do you have an issue with the father in this situation.
That mom needs so much therapy. It sounds like untreated postpartum anxiety.
We hear so much about ppd and ppp (depression and psychosis) but i didn't know ppa even existed until i was diagnosed with it.
I would spend over two hours preparing to leave the house and still panic over driving. I thought I was just going through "new mom jitters"
Ahhhhh I see they did get her into therapy and there was more of a ptsd thing
At this point i dont think its PPA as much as the phobia of your child dying as thats the point she keeps driving to excuse her behavior
Sorry had to look up the spelling
Thanatophobia- fear of dying or loved ones dying
Story 3
This narrator lacks so much common sense, I'm having to skip videos. This guy is asking for help about this problem, not wanting to tell people about his whole life, wth dude?!
Ohh the poor wife, that was some major trama. Im glad she's told someone and can now get help.
Look I can understand needing comfort because your spouse recently died, and finding solace through someone who did the same. That being said using your wedding night lingerie is crazy 💀
my question is, is it the best friend who was the one to suggest that the husband was cheating? and if so why does the wife trust them and what motives do they have?
Man that friend is way to nosy
That story about overbearing mother is crazy... Thats not healthy at all ... Wow...
Yea PPA can be awfullll. I really feel for her and the whole family
Thanatophobia- its not PPA shes focused on them dying not getting hurt i had PPA shes not worried about everything just them dying
As someone w/ multiple anxiety disorder (panic, phobias, etc.)
Having that fear w/ a child, I think I would have a heart attack ;-;
Shame how communication is the key to most of these. Either too much or nit enough.
I mean when you hear about healthy relationships people do say "Communication is key to a strong successful and long lasting relationship"
bro not the overdose at
45:12
4:40 yeeeeeeaaaah just what we all need/s
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@@Nolie_CaNolie this narrator usually has bad options
@@Bladze2084 oooh okay thanks for the context!
Story 2 Daycare mom was low key monkey branching and repaired her relationship with her husband when she found out it wasn’t working. 😂
43:02 lol
42:56
Downvote because of narrator. The other guys is so much better. This dude has godawful takes and is a mid story teller.
I think he's a good storyteller. Not convinced on the takes but whatever they're just opinions. I have pretty dogshit opinions all the time too!
@@SinNombreYQueWea^ this!
He is not a bad narrator just skip the opinions
You encapsulate my feelings on the narrator too. As long as he’s not being malicious, he can have his own opinions. He is a human being, and this is his job, this is how he gets food on the table. Remember the human on the other side.
i think what most people dont like is his monotone storytelling, i personally like it it has something relaxing but thats everyones personal opinion ^^ if he dont like him its fine no need to like ;D
Story 5 lost me when she said mother are miss treated in the USA no sorry honey that fathers, mothers hold benefit of the doubt father are guilty till they prove their innocence XD miss me with that delusion XD
That giant run-on sentence was something else to decipher, but I think I’ve got it. However, bless your heart, you don’t seem to. OP didn’t say anything about moms vs dads or whatever that confusing, angry jumble was really implying. She said it was hard for moms in the US.
I’m assuming you must be a mom in the US, otherwise it wouldn’t even be possible for you to know how it is. So, it must come from a place of not understanding life outside of the US, which is totally understandable. A lot of people don’t have the luxury of travel.
But statistically speaking, working moms in the US have fewer benefits than any other first-world country. Most other countries have mandatory maternity pay, mandatory minimum time off, time off for dads to take maternity leave to help out, and many other benefits. She was saying that it’s not as easy to just pause and have a baby here because of those things.
Hopefully that was helpful and you can understand another mom’s point of view. If you need help with writing, let me know and I’ll be happy to help with that too 🙂
@@DiZoSoMom 48:08 strait up said mother are mistreated or are you just ignorant of the thing you claim to watch? I quite literally stop watching the video because of it XD you can be well written and know your grammar and still be ignorant…
@@DavidJones-bl5guyou know it’s possible for both mothers AND fathers to be mistreated, right? Both mothers and fathers don’t get proper childcare benefits in the U.S. compared to places in Europe and other developed countries. Mothers are mistreated. Fathers are also mistreated. It’s that simple.
@@Project_KN1GHT You do know when you call something miss treated the opposites for the other is true right… so if mothers are mistreated that would imply to them that fathers are well treated XD your comprehension skills need some work bro… if they had said mother and father are mistreated that would be childless people are well treated which is still wrong as being child free is used against you in the work force XD
@@DavidJones-bl5gu um… no? For example. I’m a man. If I say men are being mistreated, I’m speaking from my experience as a man. That doesn’t mean women don’t get mistreated, it just means I don’t have experience with knowing what it’s like to be mistreated as a woman. But obviously women are also mistreated, and I’m not trying to erase that just because I didn’t include it. OP would be a mother, not a father, so she mentioned mothers because *it would specifically affect her.* Suffering is not a competition. Everyone suffers. Parents suffer, childfree people suffer. Gender doesn’t matter, because there are disadvantages (and advantages) to either side. I’m confused as to why you feel the need to argue that? Like do you think mothers *don’t* suffer??