"Be the strongest at your father's funeral" - Jordan Peterson
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- "Be the strongest at your father's funeral" - Jordan Peterson
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Jordan B. Peterson (born 12 June 1962) is a Canadian professor of psychology, clinical psychologist, TH-cam personality, and author. He began to receive widespread attention in the late 2010s for his views on cultural and political issues, often described as conservative.
Born and raised in Alberta, Peterson obtained bachelor's degrees in political science and psychology from the University of Alberta and a PhD in clinical psychology from McGill University. After teaching and research at Harvard University, he returned to Canada in 1998 to permanently join the faculty of psychology at the University of Toronto. In 1999, he published his first book, Maps of Meaning: The Architecture of Belief, which became the basis for many of his subsequent lectures. The book combined information from psychology, mythology, religion, literature, philosophy, and neuroscience to analyze systems of belief and meaning.
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At my father's funeral I got up and spoke. I didn't even plan my speech, I just spoke. My older brother and my mom took it really hard. I did too, but i cried at home. My dad was always our leader so I felt like I wanted to do something to make him proud. Today is the anniversary of his death in 2018 and its hitting me hard today. I'm glad I saw this. ❤
My dad passed away in November, 2 days before Thanksgiving. I spoke at his funeral too. I don't know how I did it except for the strength he taught me. It hasn't been 3 months yet and I miss him so much.
I did the same and I still don’t know how I got the strength because I’m usually the weak one
I did the same at my dads funeral. God bless you because I know how hard that was friend.
My father passed yesterday for me and I am trying my hardest to stay calm and let myself breathe.
That man is all heart.
And all wit but most of all he is a man of honor a man of worth, and I forward almost every post of Jordan's because the fact is what he says is of merit, and from his heart, his honesty shines through and he's a man of great strength who's not afraid of having his deepest feelings on display come what may.....he is one of the greatest Canadians and history will show him as a great intellectual figure but I see him as all that and more... because this man is so profoundly beautiful and most of all I'm honored that he shares these pieces of himself with such dignity and feeling...... I can't say enough about his presence and he makes all of us want to be a better person . His tears are a show of his great depths and his love for mankind...he stopped teaching because he wouldn't play the games our educational system makes these great leaders dance to their DISHONORABLE tunes... like Henry David Theroux....he dances to the beat of a different drummer...let him step to the music that he hears, however measured or far away......a great man ,not ashamed of his tears, his opinions, his humanity and his depth of character.... love Jordan Peterson ..
lol. he's all tears not heart. misogynists don't have heart. to speak to cathy newman the way he did is not all or any heart.
i highly doubt you even know what misogyny even means lmao@@bluebellbeatnik4945
@@bluebellbeatnik4945wtf is wrong with y'all feminists? Every time a man does something sad or emotional or close to that, you call us misogynists. Why don't you ever realize that you calling us that is just making you a misandrist? Don't expect men to give you fairness and justice if you all act this way. Lmao
@@bluebellbeatnik4945 troll bait
This kicked me straight in the gut,I was this guy at my dad's funeral,I didn't do it because I wanted to but because I had to,having his brothers cry on my when I was carrying his coffin was one of the hardest things I've ever experienced,I just wanted to make him proud
At my mothers funeral, my father didnt cry, and i saw him as strong. But now i see him as almost a psychopath or something
Being the strongest doesn't mean that you shouldn't cry when you lose someone you love. You can see that while he was describing that he was in tears. Being strong means to hold the family together during sorrowful times. It means to be the human being that knows the value of relationship and who knows how to not make tragic times hell.
No weakness in shedding tears, no strength in holding them back, morn the loss, celebrate the memories, takes time to heal, 15 years and counting, , , ,
Strength and stoicism are not the same thing. That said, you should not allow your grief to let you break down, especially in front of the people you need to support.
It's not easy. I haven't had to face this yet, but I have always feared that day.
Thanks for posting this. My father just passed away and a friend sent this to me. It's helping. Thank you
Beautifully written, thank you brother
Lost dad in January. Cried my eyes out. I never realised how he was getting older over the years as I am not living in that country. Miss him so much. God bless all dads. ❤️❤️
Same here bro
I’m in this exact position at this very moment in time. He died on the 2nd of December. You never think it’ll come for you till it does, and it’s almost always at the wrong time. But I have to be strong.
My condolences and love to you & yours🙏🏾🤎🕊 May the heaven be pleased.
sorry friend
Yeah same man, it happens just 3 days ago. I knew that I will gonna lost someone, but never thought gonna be this fast
My dad literally passed away last night. I'm still grieving.
Me too it happened over the weekend
My died pass away last week and i still can't stop crying
I was managing that until I glanced at my older brother and saw him quietly weeping.
Then I lost it.
Damn bro, you messed it up for everyone...
Gotta keep things light.✌️
@@greendotscott5038 really?! Shame on you
@@lineago7114 it was a joke to "keep things light". Pay attention. Rude ass
No regrets, tears help heal, take time, no weakness in shedding tears, no strength in holding them back, , you were strong,
@@danielfarmer1334well said brother🤌🏼
You know, I was 25 when my dad died. I only cried once. I watch my cousin cry atbhis funeral and he is only a year younger than me. I remeber standing nextbto him and gripping his shoulder and just standing next to him.
My cousin loved my dad as much as i did. And also his own father who died 5 years prior.
Miss my dad.
I lost my father recently. Because of Jordan Peterson and this quote I presented my father's eulogy at his services. Thank you JP.
The emotion tells a story 🙏
i’m 15 man and just lost my dad. i cried my eyes out during the service,but was strong when talking to people. did i do the right thing?
Even jordan peterson not in that phase yet
Yes bro you did well ❤
Whatever you felt you should do was the right thing man. My condolences
So true, and always remember that strong doesn't mean distant, cold, or stoic. It means emotional strength, vulnerability, and love.
I agree, but I would say stoicism can go along with the other 2
Wow I needed to hear that
THAT is something I have never really thought about. I wish I was stronger when my dad passed away.
You didnt have to be stronger. You greived the only way you could. Dont beat yourself up over somethin you saw online. Im sure you made your dad proud and Im sure he knew how loved he was when be passed. Take comfort from that my friend.
Same buddy, I was 22 back then and had a difficult relationship with him while growing up, wasn’t prepared for a good bye. Cried during all the funerals. Wish I would have been stronger
Seeing my father laying in a casket, was by far the hardest thing I ever had to witness. 🥺😢
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My condolences to you
I probably only cried at my dad's funeral 3 days ago when my brother broke down Reading a prayer in the church. I held it together because I had to be strong. My mother is ill as well so I had to be strong for her as well
The pain is difficult to explain. The desperation for even just a minute to see my parents is too much to bare sometimes. The loneliness l feel sometimes knowing that l am literally all alone.
My mother has since died
For someone that was in prison when his father died his and wasn't allowed to go to his funeral This hit hard
Sorry for your loss.
Not your fault. I don't care what you did. You did it because of some legitimate pain in your past. I think therapy and rehab and things like that should be used instead of the inhumane treatment of prison.
Jeez..I probably cried the most at my Dad's funeral. My tears are dried on top of his urn. It hasn't even been a year yet..I miss him.
I lost my dad when I was 13 years old to a work-related accident. I saw him dead on the hospital bed and he was so cold when I touched him. I had 3 brothers and 1 sister. My two oldest brothers and sister had different dads but my dad still treated them and took them in as his own. He was such a wonderful dad and was so good to all of us I didn't even realize that my brothers were half-brothers until that day. I did not cry throughout his funeral. I don't Rember crying because I was already all cried out by the first day. I was strong during the entire funeral processes because we had 2 services. I Rember telling people how strong I was and not crying. Now I cry all the time when I remember him, I was so weak without him. It never hit me hard until my later 20s. I'm 26 years old now and I still weep for my dad harder now for some reason. Being strong in front of people is important. But my soul could not take it any longer and I crashed. The pain will last but not for too long. I have found my true father in heaven and he has made strong again. He was with me all along the whole time of it all he was with me. I remember the next night I had a dream of my dad dressed in white and he looked younger. It looked like heaven and as soon as he was going to open his mouth, I woke up... I would give anything to have him back. But God has a plan, and his timing is perfect. I am now a safety professional and work for an electrical contractor... my dad got killed my electricity... God is so good, and I wouldn't be the man I am today without everything that has happen to me. Hallelujah! Amen! Accept Jesus as God and Savior and you will have eternal life with him in heaven!
I talked at my fathers funeral. Everyone wrote something. I was the last to speak. I wrote nothing. I spoke from the heart. I mention how we all will experience loss in life. But that means enjoy the time we have with them now, let go of hate it is a weak emotion. Love one another and dont time for granted. Everyone was surprised i did not cry . Not once at his funeral. But best believe i do everyday. That man literally reminded everyday he loved me. And sometimes i didnt text him back. Do not take your parents love for advatange no matter the built up anger. Let it go
As he was dying, he told my Mother, how sorry he was for leaving her behind, quite a man to look up to, few can compare, none ever better,,,,
His Emotions are mesmerising . I just want to give him a big hig and reassure him. He is so so strong. I love this human being. Xxx
A good and wise man, to be sure
At the end of January this year late at night my mom screamed for me to help, when i came to their bedroom, i saw my dad, lips were blue, his hands and feet were contracted to his chest. Tried giving him cpr but it was too late, he passed away in his sleep from a heart attack. There were 3 times i cried after his passing the day we had to choose his coffin, the day his co workers brought his tool case, but the day of his funeral I sat in the front trying not to cry and i managed it to the end where the priest told us to come say our final goodbye, had a full breakdown, still tried staying strong for everyone even at my lowest point in life
Me too buddy. Same here.
I just lost my dad, 2 days before his birthday before 25 November. He would be 59 by now. The pain is terrible. I am only 28 and I feel so much emptiness. I know, he suffered because of kidney disease, had to take dialysis, his death was unexpected, his heart suddenly stopped. I wish I could tell him once more how much I love him.. I hope he will visit me in my dreams.. But I feel like, I would rather go to a monastery if I will not be able to create family. Just to be closer to him...
My fathers funeral is tomorrow. This has been immensely helpful.
Hope you doing well sorry for your loss 💔
same bro
He gets emotional when he talks about stuff. For this man everything is personal. I don't ever recall seeing a person where that's the case. Which makes him a remarkable human being.
? I don't think so. He is capable of coming up with very refined theories and reliable analytical thinking. Which is not the case here. He is only human and emotions are perfectly fine. But this advice was not for everybody. I don't like when professionals allow their personal space to hurt their expertise and reliability.
@@luiserenner7147 he simply means that you have to try to keep your wits about you. To aim at it, no matter how high or low you aim. To simply try. And I do believe that to be noble.
I had to lay my father to rest today
I was strong because of this video
I want to thank you...
Sorry for your loss. My time to do so will be soon
My condolences to you on your Dads passing
Found out moments ago I’m losing my grandpa sometime today, this is what I strive to for him.
The strength behind the words man, it’s powerful!
I am the only child' of my father and I had to be the strongest person at my father's funeral because of Mom.
Same here bro, I'm the only child of my father and he passed away 2 months ago, still can't believe he's no more with me.
Same here. I feel so sad for my mom because she lost her best friend and partner. I really hope that that we get to reconnect with our loved ones after this reality.
Unfortunately that was hard for me since I was only 8 years old
I just wish he had stayed with us a little longer …. So many years I could have spent with my dad
Sincere emotion.
He knows the Lord! Hallelujah I am so alone but never alone in Christ Jesus, my Saviour
I'm sitting here a week after my dad passed away struggling to find the words to speak at his funeral. I needed to hear this.
I was the strongest person at my mum‘s funeral. Took care of my little sister and dad! I took after my beloved mum, the strongest and most resilient role model I have ever had!
Thank you so much for this little clip!! Since at the time I did not understand this incredible strength that rose inside of me as the darkest of times came over me and my family ♥️♥️
It happened to me at my father’s funeral the other day and also in the Hospital and I don’t know where I got the strength from because I cry a lot . Maybe because I knew if I cry it will hurt him more and also for my mother.
I couldn't my dad is the strongest person I ever met he is my best friend and I couldn't be the strongest he is my only family and I just want to be next to him
My father was an alcoholic and an abuser never really did anything or cared for me, my mother or brother...I have never seen him and my mother talk to each other he died when I was in 10th grade I was 15 my brother was 5.. he died of severe jaundice and I still remember how he suffered to breath on his final days.I can still remembered his cold dead corpse lying in the ambulance wrapped in my favourite blanket. I still dont know whether to hate him or miss him,I dont know how I feel about him,he still comes in my dreams sometimes.i never cried in front of anything about him or in his funeral because nobody knew me as that girl,everybody knew as the happy and strong girl i was so I didnt want anyone to see me cry,the night he died was the most peaceful night of my entire life but still it hurt.My mother traumatised and still does to some extent mentally ,she did her fair share too but she paid for all my expenses so she thinks it's alright to do so, my childhood trauma,abuse my parents other relationships everything made me a complicated human, damage was done to a point where nobody could even relate and I'm alone still not having anyone to understand me. Because I'm just like my dad my hair to my toe nail,the way I speak behave my characteristics everything is just like him,I'm his carbon copy + all the trauma i have been through
Yes I was the strongest person in that funeral room yet the one missing everything the most. I didn't have many good memories with him but that day I even lost a chance to change him or the hope to have it someday. I feel jealous of the ones with happy families yet pretending to not care. Nobody literally nobody till date knows I suffered and still suffering and that it pains me beyond words
Ofcourse I was the strongest all along and I didnt even realise.
One day I will be proud of myslef becuase there is nobody who will😅😇.
I was listening to a meditation after my father passed a month ago. I heard this passage and I laughed.
I'm his youngest daughter, I smiled, I stayed strong, I was a pallbearer and I was my dad's advocate for the last 6 months to bring him back home. I have witnessed so much trauma with dad in ICU, ward, paramedic vehicles, er visits. He raised me. I'm strong because of him. I love you dad. I'll miss you.
Beautiful..... simply Beautiful 🥺🤧🥰
I lost my dad just a week ago and he had a very sudden death. I'm the youngest daughter and had to stay strong because only me, my sister and her baby were at home while my mom and brother-in-law took dad to hospital. I already knew that i'm going to lose my dad and later we found out he passed away at home. I did all the rituals but i let myself cry silently even once a day when i'm alone. These 6 days, i've understood that no matter how our parents are, we see their real worth only after we lose them forever.
Grew up with my grandfather so i know i got to be strong at 2 funerals.i beleived ever since i was 13 to spend anuf time laughing crying ups an down while they are alive an be the strongest while they pass away.cause if you an everybody else sad whos going to get the mahi job done at the funeral.
I was for my mother and now will be for my father.
I think I was. I thank God for making me strong
Im in my 40 and my dad passed away the day of my birthday 9 years ago. Damnnnnn its hard and cry everyday. When my birthday comes damn its a trauma. Rest in peace Dad
My father passed away when I was 7 months old, I’ve never felt fathers love in my life but I know how hard it is to live without your father been around, I’m living with my mother and elder brother my mom was always there for us when other family members abandoned us or making a mockery of us, I hope one day I can return the favor for my mother and make her live the best life ever because she sacrificed everything for us.
I was the strongest, the pain was killing me, many times my soul left my body.
This man is amazing.After so much loss in the space of 5 years losing my stepmum,brother,nephew and my dad i was that person at his funeral.
That's right ! 🙏👍💖
I feel u brother…
14 years old when my dad passed. I became that person that everybody turned to at his funeral. For an older and younger sibling to older and younger cousins, people turned to me. These words hit me.
I've had to do this twice. Once for my father and once for my girlfriend. He is 100% right. Be strong, not just for them, but for their families.
Love that man. More intelligence and heart than all his haters combined. 🙏🏻 😊 🙏🏻
Can't wait to talk to him in heaven!
What about on earth? I don't want him to die yet
My father just died and have no mother and thank God I see this.
Lost dad in March. Still wake up forgetting he’s gone. I was 17, just turned 18 a few months ago, it’s hard. There’s no other way to put it. It sucks the life out of you, drains you, in every way possible, gives you nightmares you never thought you could have. Gives you guilt you never thought you could feel. It really sucks dude
What a lot of people don’t think about is that for a lot of “psychopaths” that don’t cry during funerals of someone close just simply can’t anymore. I was unable to cry during my mom’s funeral because it was slow and painful (cancer) and all the tears that possibly could’ve been shed up to that point were. But I cried every nightmarish day up until that point and I’m crying as I type this even 5 years later. Don’t let anyone shame or belittle how you express grief, that’s not how true strength correlates
Spoken from the heart
I LOVE MY DAD HE WAS MY WORLD ❤
Marvelous, your intelligence and sensibility move me. Thanks a lot...
My Dad died today. He was a Vietnam Vet and died on Memorial Day. Love you and Miss you Dad.
Thanks Jordan. That’s how I’m going to be for my mother
My pops passed away April 13th,2023, 11:14am. Held his hand as he took his last breath. Spoke at the funeral,and held it together. 7 plus months later...I find myself unraveling. Realizing I haven't found the time to fully grieve,because I have been trying to be strong for my children and everyone else!!!
This is what I did. I lost him in may. Same name. Same birthday. There were so many people there. And they were only looking at me it seemed because I am his son. I tried my best there. I really did.
This was me earlier this year. Wether you want to or not you gotta be there for your family when your father dies.
How are you doing now?
Growing up my father had left me at a young age, so my grandfather really took the Father Figure role and raised me like he raised his kids before, we did so much fun stuff together, we went camping, fishing he taught me how to drive, he was even the one that got me my first car. During my grandfather's funeral this year, he passed away suddenly in an accident at work. At his funeral my mother was crying my brother was upset so was my grandfather's best friend and his wife, my uncle and his family decided they didn't want to talk to me or my family, they were more concerned about who was going to get my grandfather's money, we sat alone in a corner, everyone went up to his casket one by one, except for my uncle and his family, everyone was crying in some shape or form but nobody really cared about each other, I walked around I tried to talk to everyone but nobody really wanted to associate with me, I don't know why, and then I went up I didn't shed a tear the entire time I was there I stood strong for my grandfather, despite my disapproval and disappointment in my uncle's family I stood there, I stared at his body, I remembered all the great times we had and I really wish that I got to say goodbye to him, you never know when your family members aren't going to be there, you never know when someone's not going to be there the next day, so please if you love your parents or your friends or even your grandparents, call them, talk to them, even if they just ramble about some stupid story, you should talk to them because it might be the very last time you hear from them. Anyway. I stood there alone and sometimes in life you have to stand strong even if you're standing alone.
Thank you, Solid Man. Being seen and respected for making the choice to be strong (at my father’s tragic death and funeral), to have this choice understood and encouraged to be elevated again into the future so others, family in particular can be true to their own character and know mine will rise (because we know it’s me or no one)..not because it’s easy or desirable but because suffering needs at least a single inner strength/force of character to salvage the family tribe and that is me, not by volunteering but by compulsive knowingness that it’s me. Spent 3 plus years in the mode of the grounded, insightful, ongoing faith holder and in truth it depleted me..enough to realize I’ve reached what I aimed for and now my focus returns to me without any guilt or hesitation. Learned I must pay better attention to my energy levels and step back upon feeling unhealthy in anyway. There will be opportunities to be strong when no one else can and my aim will be to know exactly where my own boundary lines reside.
Might have been repetitive up there…just emotionally teetering hearing the soulfulness for one in JP’s voice. Pretty moved. Hope others feel that too!
how do i deal with the fact that i lost my father at 14 and now any loss i experience feels like nothing and i cant express it
Its uncanny how accurate this describes my situation with my dad. I was the only one in the room who had the strength to give the order.. pull the plug..
There's a tragic finality to the words "0 percent brain activity". I was 22.. still am, it wasn't that long ago.. I dont maintain this strength because I want to, I havent had a good old fashioned cry in a long, long time. How can one force his body to allow him to cry it out..?
My dads getting older and I know when that time comes I won’t have any regrets because I always loved and cared for my dad
Wow, that is powerful and true. My father was that man. When he passes that person will have to be me. Moving the family forward.
I was the strongest person at my dad's funeral. It was 3 years ago when I was 16 and I still haven't recovered. Ik no one will read this but I just hope someone would take the time to listen to me when I vent. I have 4 really close friends who ik would listen to me when i share my emotions with them but I still haven't ever spoken about my dad cuz I think it'll drive them away once they find out how broken I am so I just pretend which ik is true for a lot of y'all. I got a call from my mom one evening saying dad had a heart attack and he's in the hospital. I got there and they said in 20 minutes you'll know if he's ok or not. They couldn't revive him, apparently he was dead before he reached the hospital and that night he was cremated in the electric burner. I didn't shed a tear up until then but cried for about 2 minutes once he cremated. 2 mins is not a lot but I just hadn't grasped what had happened as it happened so fast. A year before that my grandmother died and this January my grandfather, my other 2 grandparents died before i was born. All of whom were extremely nice people and really close to me. The worst moments r waking up from dreams where I'm home with my father and grandparents and realising it wasn't real and I'll never have that again. I just hope somebody would read this. As I said before a few people in my life have the time but i can never open up to them. I am always there for anyone who wants to share stuff with me since my dad's death. I listen endlessly to my friends talking about their problems and life and really enjoy being the one they share stuff with. If any of y'all have anything share just reply to this n I'd love to talk to y'all
Mr. Peterson who do you confide in when your in need of someone to listen to? We all need someone to lend an ear !
He has a WIFE! Move on FREAK
My father’s funeral is today, wish me luck
Thank you for putting this feeling into words
Just lost my dad today. I’m trying like hell to be the guy he’s talking about. Wish me luck and say a prayer.
Good luck
Amen brother
I can see his pain! I was there 20 years ago and the pain still here because my dad is gone!
Lost my dad at ten. When they closed the casket I looked around and said “ it’s all on me now. There’s no one else guna protect me”. JP’s quote is here is beyond beautiful and powerful
Amazing
Thanks
What I have a hard time understanding and gets to me alot is that one day I will no longer have my parents no more. As an only child I only really had them. I have friends and etc but my parents supported me through college and in life. I was never perfect. As I got older I appreciated them so much that it hurts to think one day they will be gone.
All truths of wisdom actually comes out before leaving
I saw this video before my fathers funeral. It helped alot.
The only person in my family who didn't cry at my dad's funeral was me. I only shed one tear while we were leaving the tomb which I wiped on my neck tie (which was his)
Women too, if there's no son. Course of character is sufficient for all persons regardless of sex. Women have always been strong. Catastrophe can be looked through another lens as an universal generational transition, as a necessary fact of life. Even though death of a parent feels horribly wrong and cruel. It is necessary to realize the depths of grief. An affront or attack to one's inherent humanity is death..Learning how to face the music, no matter how difficult. Perhaps through densensitization etc, techniques. Most people do not discuss death or understand it, this ignorance causes intense emtional catastrophe..There's a better way to deal with death through cognizing the incognizable which is death. Near Death TH-cam's plus faith in a higher power, and life experiences have given me this buffer to help during significant others' death.
That man is an asset for the world
My dad died thursday and had his funeral on sunday. Im a dang wreck. I try to be strong for my family, but my depression is taking over
I was a mess at my dads funeral unexpected loss 😓. Something to aim for ❣️
I didn't have time to evolve into that. My dad died when i was about to turn 16. And 16 now also. And i was the only person at his funeral that was really close with him so i actually was the saddest one there. Well anyway he was a toxic alcoholic and by some means im glad that he aint in my life anymore, but i would have wanted him to change and not die
Your dad was fighting his own battles. No matter what, you should want him here
@@imperialgrind3128 Hello, it has been some time since that comment. My stance is still the same, i never would want him back the way he was back then
He almost shed a tear
I was this daughter. It killed me. Helped everyone else but absolutely destroyed me trying to be strong. But my Dad was God in our eyes and it destroyed us all in different ways. I became so depressed I couldn’t eat and was accused of eating disorders. My family tried to do an intervention on me…I was just trying to be the “strong daughter” 😢
I didn’t cry at the funeral. I was 17, now at 36 I’ve cried everyday since
Lost my dad two days back on 26 december 2023
My dad was literally just found dead on his living-room floor with a gash on his head a couple of hours ago I am unarguably his clothes his child when it comes to relationships and I have been inconsolably crying and sobbing and just in general feeling horrible and this is actually a great real to take because I was already seeing myself breaking down at the thought of my dad being lowered into the ground
My grandma didn’t even let me go to my dads funeral because I was only seven she knew that I would cry so hard
Watching father's funeral is far easy than knowing that your father is going to die...
And you cannot do Anything..
Stage 4 cancer........😭😭😭😭😭
This shit hit me hard so hard man
That was my brother at our dad's funeral. ❤️🩹
You don't "have to" be anything, much less "stronger than" anyone, anywhere. Be yourself, and let people deal with their own stuff.
It's OK not to be the strongest person at your father's funeral. Realise it is NOT a must, but an ideal, and being available to help others move from their catastrophe is the ideal of how to come out of a major life event like loosing your father. I've lost my father at a young age. Sometimes you will need an other someone to help you move through your catastrophe so you can help others... You cannot help others if you yourself aren't in a good position. Take care of yourself first and foremost.
He lost his dad too can feel in his voice
I tried my best.. I couldn't 😢
My Father passed 2 days ago,but basically yesterday since of the writing of this comment...
I'm now 19 years old and have a mother and a younger sister left...of course some close relarives and nothing else...
I'm completely lost,since I quit school beforehand and planned on starting to be a full time indie game developer but now would be forced to find any job to just help my mother cover the costs and etc.
I don't know what I should do nor what else would be important for now since I'm conpletely frozen and scared since the 4 of us live in a completely anorher country and since he was basically our entire backbone and the leader...
I'm here searching for help,because I don't know where else to look...
If possible,could someone who'd experienced the same loss,pissiblt share with me what they'd done or what rhey wished they did and hopefully what I could do myself to help my mother and sister and for us to (not forget) but to still get over the loss and still push onwards (even if it hurtslikehell)...
Thanks in advance and would like to wish you all the best and a hopefully nice say as well!