Chit Chat: The Pro's and Con's of Going Gray!

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  • Thanks for tuning in to my gray hair chit chat addressing some of the pros and cons that I have personally experiences in my gray hair journey. I hope this video inspires you to take the leap if you are interested in going gray. Please subscribe if you are new!
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  • @TracyW-me8br
    @TracyW-me8br 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    When people say it’s a journey, they mean journey in so many ways besides your hair. Facing society expectations, facing your own insecurities, it’s so much more than hair.

    • @beckysue7789
      @beckysue7789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes it is! And I am one, trust me has gone through it. My birthday is coming up next month. Last yrs birthday was a disaster. An inch of white roots. Failed hair trim. Shall I go on ? Nah. even though we are going through isolation, I am better than a year ago. And the h-ll with social expectations!!! Rock that gray, white, silver what ever is growing out!!!!! Will be 64 Yay, Woo Whoo, !!!!!! Can't wait

    • @beckysue7789
      @beckysue7789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Go White Yes!!! Liberating

    • @Musingsatcoco
      @Musingsatcoco 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally agree.

    • @clarisahernandez5280
      @clarisahernandez5280 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, there's so much associated with women's hair. I'm wearing my hair short in a long hair society.

    • @starseed8809
      @starseed8809 ปีที่แล้ว

      Society sucks!

  • @jojorey6886
    @jojorey6886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    My only regret about growing out my gray/silver was that I didn’t do it sooner because I listened to hairdressers tell me it would make me look older. Not true. Once I made my mind up about letting the dye go it didn’t matter to me what anyone had to say about it. I love my silver hair.

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm so glad it brings you joy! It should

    • @cinma4890
      @cinma4890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My hairdresser keeps telling me the same thing. You are too young. But when I see Grey on others I am like look how pretty and she insists on not for me. And you know what I realized that it’s actually best to go Grey early in life. Just my opinion Bc you can adjust to it and enjoy it and style it and do many things to it.

    • @medicclasses2994
      @medicclasses2994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Something is true, oldy is an attitude, if your spirit is young, you will look young. Grey is just a colour!!

    • @hazelshand8106
      @hazelshand8106 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's the name of the product?

    • @smallhouseinthemeadow6131
      @smallhouseinthemeadow6131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am a retired hairdresser and we are not all like that.I supported many clients through their silver transitions...

  • @g2bk
    @g2bk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    People who think you look old, 80, washed out, or anything else like that might need vision adjustments, attitude adjustments, or manners. You look great.

    • @andeeanko7079
      @andeeanko7079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, she's gorgeous and not a wrinkle on her. ♡

    • @GoOutside321
      @GoOutside321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, your hair is beautiful

    • @citizenjoevotes
      @citizenjoevotes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They need their eyes checked. Those remarks can only made by trolls.

    • @missminti
      @missminti 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She looks pure class.

  • @Jennifer-hc9rx
    @Jennifer-hc9rx ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am 8 months in at 37 and I feel so liberated.

  • @ithacacomments4811
    @ithacacomments4811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I am 70. Pure white! The college girls all ask me who does my color ! God.

    • @deek64dk
      @deek64dk 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍😊❤❤

    • @charlenelawshea3404
      @charlenelawshea3404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ithaca Comments, 💁‍♀️I hear you girl. I'm 57 and my hair is silver gray and white. And people are always saying you look to young to have that color hair 💁‍♀️but I love it and will never ever color it. It is my crown that GOD, gave me ☺🌹

    • @kimba7567
      @kimba7567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its super trendy now! And we can grow it naturally

  • @gaylejideofor6198
    @gaylejideofor6198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    OMG you are THE first person I have ever seen with grey/charcoal eyebrows~ they are marvelous and strikingly beautiful with your eyes. You are a gorgeous silverhaired beauty. Stay strong and continue to shine dear.

    • @markybee7672
      @markybee7672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Shes amazing looking isn't she,just so so pretty

    • @GGGG1040
      @GGGG1040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah me too she looks amazing

  • @QBee79
    @QBee79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I started going grey at 17, was naturally brunette, changed to blonde at 35 to hide my grey, just turned 41 and I’m done with dying my hair 😂 I have 2” of growth and I’m hoping it grows out faster. People have also said, you’re going to look old...🤦🏼‍♀️ I really don’t care what anyone says now, and I’m excited to see my final grey pattern when it’s grown out. Glad I found your channel 👩🏻‍🦳🤍

    • @renellepenney1886
      @renellepenney1886 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is my situation too !! I'm excited :)

  • @brittanithomas4739
    @brittanithomas4739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm not just saying this..you're hair is really beautiful and soft looking and healthy. Im 31 and starting to get gray and my hair is almost black 😭 so I'm needing to dye it every 2 to 3 weeks. I dont want to do that the rest of my life. You encourage me to embrace it. Love your hair

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You can do it! The transition can be tough, but it's so worth it. Get yourself some contingency items, hats, root touch up spray, headbands, whatever helps you through the process. It's so worth it in the end. The first few months are the hardest. Your stylist may also be able to help!

  • @debbiesa34
    @debbiesa34 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Love it. I have been letting my hair grow my grays. As a Hispanic . And I’m loving it. It’s been 3yrs. Now I’m 49. Yeah I don’t care what other people say, my husband loves it. So... yeah. Love from Austin,Tx❤️love your videos

  • @Mmmmkaaay
    @Mmmmkaaay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm 3 inches in and astounded by how much I love the color. Why have I been a slave to the dye all these years?!
    You are stunning!

    • @Satsusss
      @Satsusss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How is it going for you now a year later ?

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Satsusss It's almost to my shoulders and I get compliments a LOT.

  • @test1test219
    @test1test219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    People with light eyes pull Grey hair off so well.

  • @chrissyforanimals
    @chrissyforanimals 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I’m going gray right now and I also cut my hair short so very drastic change, funny how people feel the need to comment on that you have gray hair.

    • @susanshanks2407
      @susanshanks2407 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lizzy ddd so true.

    • @carriebrening6812
      @carriebrening6812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am trying to grow out my hair. I am scared when someone will comment negative about. I want a phrase to tell them to shut them down.

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carriebrening6812 I tell those haters that I will be sure to put their comment in the circular file beneath my desk. 😁

  • @catsrcute5313
    @catsrcute5313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I’m 26 and started going heavily gray around my face about 3 years ago. At this point I want it to go gray faster so I could have it natural and it look consistent. Your hair looks great

  • @lynette2978
    @lynette2978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    It was because of your confidence that I decided to go grey 2 years ago. My husband was like 'why are you doing that?!'...because I was tired of the cost, the time, and I wasn't fooling anyone with those roots showing up every 2 weeks. It was the BEST decision, so freeing! I too, am stopped by complete strangers complementing my hair. For me, to keep it looking updated I have a great cut, use AG silver shampoo and conditioner, and wear cooler tones of blush and lip color. Great video 😊

    • @kirsten6371
      @kirsten6371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Does your husband love it now?

    • @lynette2978
      @lynette2978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kirsten6371 Yes he does 😊

    • @lynette2978
      @lynette2978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Lore Sogge I don't believe I look older at all, I'm literally stopped by complete strangers (many who are much younger) complimenting my hair.... I'll never go back. 😁

  • @elisabethr7787
    @elisabethr7787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    You look gorgeous!! Love how your grey hair matches your eyes. 😊

  • @1950froggie
    @1950froggie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    My decision to let my hair go grey was actually decided through the COVD19 pandemic. I've colored my hair since my early 30's. Iam turning 60 and excited as well as nervous. Since we are sheltering in place my decision has been made for me.

    • @fleur3986
      @fleur3986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too. My white roots mean colouring every 4 weeks. I'm worried as I've got brown eyes and eyebrows.

    • @tradale105
      @tradale105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too. I like wearing my hair long so making this commitment is going to take a long time, and my hairdresser is not on board yet, through text, and I love her so I’m conflicted. But it is just hair, and it’s my hair, so I’m going to be brave.
      Thank you for this video, you look absolutely beautiful, and you are inspiring me.

    • @elri3543
      @elri3543 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too!

    • @lindamarocco4583
      @lindamarocco4583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Becky O'keefe same thing for me... I am 63, been coloring since in my 20’s!... Covid decided for me as well... I am nervous an excited at the same time!!!.. good luck on your journey!!!... I am 10 weeks no dye!.. 💜💜💜💜💜

    • @baguibaguis
      @baguibaguis 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too!! 👍🤗

  • @monikavarro2020
    @monikavarro2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The hardest thing about growing out your grey hair is society’s expectations and other people’s opinions. I so completely agree that life is too short. 😃

    • @HkFinn83
      @HkFinn83 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When I got grey hair society said to me, you’re bad and deserve to be punished! I said wow, I should dye it then. I only hope one day to be able to be strong enough, and brave enough, and let’s be honest safe enough, to not dye my hair.

  • @lisathornton4831
    @lisathornton4831 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    To me a non-issue. My family had a hard time a few years ago when I decided to grow my hair to shoulder length! I will be 60 in a couple of weeks and, according to them, you don't have longer hair at my age🙄Everyone has their opinion on such things, I say apply them to yourself and move on. I think you rock your hair! 🌞

    • @bethmiles5942
      @bethmiles5942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lisa Thornton I’m sixty and my hair is well past my shoulders, I don’t care what other people think

    • @mcbrineart
      @mcbrineart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Also 60 with long silver streaks - better condition & shine, time and money saved!!

    • @light-yi2me
      @light-yi2me 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lisa, you can rock long hair at any age, however long hair must be taking care of and healthy! If you are 20 with unhealthy hair pls don't make it worse by growing it longer .

    • @faydiva8863
      @faydiva8863 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here!

    • @QBee79
      @QBee79 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You go girl! I’m going to have long hair when I’m 80 🎉🎉 lol Humans are so opinionated 😆 I am waiting for the comments to start about my grey roots lol

  • @pamcakesokie283
    @pamcakesokie283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I just got sick of coloring my hair every 2 weeks. So, off with the long hair into a gray pixie. I live it!

    • @bettyb1581
      @bettyb1581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Lore Sogge I'm 54 pixie cuts aren't just for 80 yr olds

  • @janiegonzalez8577
    @janiegonzalez8577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s Beautiful! I’m almost 62 this year and I decided it’s definitely time for me! The transition is almost there. My Hubby too was fine. He knew I had been dying my hair since I was in my 20’s.🎉🎉🎉😍😍😍

  • @noelleagape8684
    @noelleagape8684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your hair looks pretty and you don't look one year over 35!
    Your makeup looks amazing.
    I congratulate you for your courage!

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks Noelle! Best decision I ever made!

  • @charitywrenn3489
    @charitywrenn3489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    One year ago I ditched the dye, and I went cold turkey. You were the person that really helped me decide to go for it so thank you!!!!

  • @Danit.Talkscentswithme
    @Danit.Talkscentswithme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I see shiny silver hairs throughout my head blended in with my brown. My hair is colored but it’s pretty close to my natural , when I see the shiny silver hairs, I wish my whole head was like that. It looks like tiny shards of tinsel :) ❤️

    • @paulastrachan4053
      @paulastrachan4053 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know! I am a brunette with a lot of white in my hair, and natural streaks on both sides of my face. I wish it would hurry and go pure white so I can see what I'll look like. And if it was good enough for the late Leon Russell, it's good enough for me.

    • @beckysue7789
      @beckysue7789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just do it ! let it go gray. I am 9months in

    • @beckysue7789
      @beckysue7789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alegriart Just stop dyeing it.

    • @mareenalewis4241
      @mareenalewis4241 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alegriart I am the same. Ive decided to put in an ash brown lowlight, and ash blonde or silver highlight. I am hoping I can just slowly add more of the silver highlights. I want to just go grey, but like Danit, it's like tinsel on my head.🙄 it would be far too much up keep if I had it all colored grey.

  • @StillPooh62
    @StillPooh62 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Textural changes aren’t always a bad thing. My fine straight flat hair has always been a challenge. My wavy greys have added a lot of body; I’m currently wearing my hair pretty long, and don’t heat style it. It’s in the best condition I’ve had for ages! At 57, I haven’t colored my hair in 3-4 years, so going grey hasn’t involved a harsh contrast. My 64 year old sister (who remains steadfastly bottle blonde) is the only one who feels the need to discuss my hair on a regular basis.

    • @GoOutside321
      @GoOutside321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sis is jelouse!!! Women are so brainwashed by beauty products. God forbid we this we're gorgeous just "as you are"

    • @starseed8809
      @starseed8809 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol sisters..

  • @natcat1059
    @natcat1059 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love everthing you said. Your hair is beautiful! I started my gray hair journey in June of 2018 at 40 yrs old. I love it and I have not had one bad thing said to me. All encouragement all around. I'm salt and pepper with no regrets.

  • @hedgehogginger
    @hedgehogginger 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your hair is absolutely GORGEOUS, and I can't believe that anyone would say otherwise! About a year ago, I started growing out my gray, and it has been surprisingly liberating. I love it way more than I thought I would, and have really only gotten compliments (at least to my face.) So glad I found your channel! : )

  • @clover309
    @clover309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve just started my grey hair journey! I love your tips and love your hair too 🤩 I’m looking forward to seeing what my grey hair looks like. I totally agree with your point that whatever colour you get is the one that will suit you :)

  • @carriehaggard2382
    @carriehaggard2382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So glad I came across your channel! I’m early in my gray journey and it’s a struggle. Thank you for all the tips and your honesty, it is truly appreciated!

    • @Satsusss
      @Satsusss 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How's it going now ?

  • @jillianpurdy2542
    @jillianpurdy2542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your hair definitely brings out the colour of your eyes! You are a good advert for going natural, total rock star!!! X

  • @jena8207
    @jena8207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are an inspiration, Melanie! I started my journey four months ago. I am a natural brunette and have bleached my hair for years to deal with the gray. I think the most surprising thing has been seeing what color my hair actually is as it comes in.

  • @traceymorim
    @traceymorim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love everything you had to say! Surrounding yourself with only supportive people and doing what you want with your body/hair. I have been colouring my hair since my 20s and am now a young 44 :) I’ve always thought I’d let my hair go grey in my 60s but I’m just so darn tired of the constant colouring. Your video inspires me to just do it! It takes a lot of confidence to do this but it’s also like a personal challenge that I may just be ready for.... You are so beautiful with your grey hair! Thank you so much!

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad!!!! Wishing you a great journey! It's well worth it

  • @cindygies975
    @cindygies975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am 50, and you have made me see the light. I will add grey streaks at first! Great advice on friends and staying positive!

  • @aliciahamric4920
    @aliciahamric4920 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video, Melanie and I love you too! You have encouraged many people today. 💕

  • @kathleent6653
    @kathleent6653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I still dye my hair, but that’s what makes me happy!!🤗! I have to say yours looks great!! And you’re right people need to mind their own business!! Live and let live!! 🤗

  • @lisabkirchner
    @lisabkirchner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi! Your video on going gray is the best one out there! I decided last weekend to begin the process because I am SO sick of dyeing my hair (I turn 60 this year). I appreciate your positive message - it has truly inspired me. I think I am going to take your advice and consult with my stylist on adding highlights that are toned gray. That sounds like a great transition solution. You are stunning, and I can’t imagine anyone suggesting otherwise. You rock, indeed!

  • @barnes-md7mf
    @barnes-md7mf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your hair, its THE reason I started watching your channel.

  • @gingiyee9767
    @gingiyee9767 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your hair is beautiful & has given me inspiration to go grey where I want to be!

  • @gravecat1902
    @gravecat1902 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy I found you on here. You are such an inspiration! I just decided to let my gray grow in and I am in my early 50s and a recent Widow. I really appreciate women like you inspiring the rest of us and also encouraging the rest of us. You are stunning! God bless you!

  • @derrico623
    @derrico623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks so much for this. I'm 35 and getting pretty heavy gray framing my face and have been struggling with what I want to do with it. You gave me some options I hadn't considered, thank you!

  • @greeneyes8550
    @greeneyes8550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love how confident you are you have helped me make my mind up about going cold turkey and embracing my gray hair I am 42 and my journey starts today thank you kisses from the uk xx

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you! Enjoy the journey! Very proud of you

  • @anitaoxencis6504
    @anitaoxencis6504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I quit coloring my hair 3 yrs ago. I really agree with everything you've said! And my attitude is like yours. I've cut people & some family off for my well being. To the point of having only 1 bff & she passed last March. I don't regret losing people who I thought were my friends. So now I'm focusing as I've always done on raising my teen daughter alone. You really are beautiful!! And I love your attitude that I see!!

  • @ImVictoriaD
    @ImVictoriaD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The gray hair complements your eyes so well! I also love how you did "duo palette" look with your eyes being naturally gray, your natural gray hair is on the lighter side and you matched them with gray shade eyebrows. In contrast your make up is nude bronze?.. You did put some thought into it and it works great for you! This is a great example of how someone should evaluate what they naturally have and come up with low maintenance look that works best for them!

  • @lynnemarhong8813
    @lynnemarhong8813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your gray hair...its so striking on you, with your eyes and skin tone!! I am cuurently letting mine grow in and Im so excited about it!! Ughh...no more roots!! Yay!!

  • @eristotle2380
    @eristotle2380 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you look so pretty!! thanks for sharing your experiences and advice. women like you have given me the courage to live in my authenticity!

  • @carimartinez6779
    @carimartinez6779 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so glad to see someone in their 40's embracing this!!!! I am currently growing my hair out and it's so much more healthy and strong. You look great! Thanks for sharing your experience so candidly!

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! Best of luck on your hair journey!

  • @livp9771
    @livp9771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I turn 38 in May this year and I have super black hair but have been going grey pretty fast.... I’m so done with coloring it and am about to go on this journey...I’m excited...thank you for this video and I personally think you look absolutely stunning...be proud of your look 🤗

  • @nadinespivak8343
    @nadinespivak8343 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m going thru the journey as well...you hit the nail on the head with pros and cons being natural gray! You look amazing in your gray! I’m rocking mine! Thank you for this video!

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! Best of luck with your journey!

  • @KBC-ib6qm
    @KBC-ib6qm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look gorgeous. I’m 35 and thinking of making the transition. Your grey hair does not make you look old, your skin is radiant and glowing. 😍 thank you for sharing your journey, it’s inspiring and encouraging to see.

  • @mariadavis7237
    @mariadavis7237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello. I just saw your video on going grey, pros and cons. I cannot tell you how good you made me feel with your words. I'm 61 and I have been contemplating going grey for a few weeks but im nervous about it. I wear my hair in a very short pixie cut but after watching your video, I've gained new confidence and im definitely going for it. Thank you so much!! Your hair is beautiful

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for sharing this with me! Wishing you the best on your journey! I promise, it's so worthwhile!

  • @kimgarrison2904
    @kimgarrison2904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hadn't seen this before. I'm 55 and made my decision earlier this year, so I'm definitely in transition mode. Working the grow-out phase in a couple different ways. Can't wait for the freedom. Mine is going to be a lot more white than yours. You're beautiful and you're rocking it!

  • @jillarnold8638
    @jillarnold8638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're hair looks great and you don't look old. Some people don't feel good about themselves, and they want others to feel bad about themselves.

  • @jenniferolson5345
    @jenniferolson5345 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your hair is really well maintained and very chic. You look really great and your skin is amazing. Thanks for a great talk on something we all will face at one point or another. It's nice to see someone who does it well, thanks!

  • @hollyyoder1213
    @hollyyoder1213 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am 12 weeks in and so far so good. Dyed my dark hair since I was 26 to rid the grays. I am now 59 and am ready ..... for the second time .... to let my silver shine! Thank you for your videos and support 🙋🏻‍♀️💜

  • @missy1194
    @missy1194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your hair is like a majestic unicorn! 💗 I’m 32 and have been thinking about letting my gray hair grow out. Your videos have been very encouraging!

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can do it! I know it's a process, but it's so wonderful once you can cut off all the "old" hair lol.

  • @arleneolsen3231
    @arleneolsen3231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can’t even imagine someone saying you look anything but beautiful. You’re inspiring to me. I’m five months out and thanking covid, actually.

  • @mcourtois75
    @mcourtois75 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing your journey. I love your story and took the same route as you with some grey highlights to help blend the line. It's been almost 2 years and I am now fully transitioned. I agree with all your pros and cons! One advice is to show confidence in your choice of going grey - I didn't ask my family and friends what they thought about me going grey, I announced it. And I got no negative comments (they didn't dare telling me is my guess...and I prefer that!).

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations on your gray hair journey! It's so worthwhile. One of the best things I have never done, truly!

  • @kaystanley9107
    @kaystanley9107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I been go gray my hair has grown out it’s been hard.Im trying to accept it .Watching you had helped me .and your beautiful with your grey hair and beautiful face thank you great video

  • @tinagosnold9070
    @tinagosnold9070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just starting my gray journey. I flew to California to have my cousin, who is crazy awesome with hair color, lift my colored hair to platinum. I have around 4 inches of natural gray growth, and the platinum looks better with my gray growth than the brown/blond that it was before. Appreciate your video. You look fantastic!

  • @maribelpabon4863
    @maribelpabon4863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful video , I decided to go gray 2yrs ago and I love it . Thank you

  • @dr.susankaye
    @dr.susankaye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for your strength and self-love. I am 72 and it is time! Hard....but if not now, when? I am on camera alot so this transition is a big decision and I know my hair will be happier and the rest of me is young, I do yoga every day since my 20's! Thank you again for the inspiration.

  • @Sconniegal
    @Sconniegal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You inspired me to let my gray grow out. I’m about 25% gray and went cold turkey about a year and a half ago. I found my first gray at age 15. It’s so freeing honestly. I think the majority of the growing pains for me occurred between months 2-5.

  • @Kim-ri1hg
    @Kim-ri1hg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m 51.5. You look absolutely gorgeous and are an inspiration for me in the COVID19 not getting my roots done. - and my daughter is a hair colorist - stylist. - you are looking sooooo good and giving me confidence to let go of the pence a month root touch ups and embrace the eventuality 💜💜🤍🖤

  • @cynthialees2760
    @cynthialees2760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your hair is absolutely gorgeous! I can’t imagine anyone saying otherwise! Thank you for this video, you are so inspiring!

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!

  • @annmarieduffy522
    @annmarieduffy522 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi i have also let my natural colour shine and i love it, I love watching your journey and i enjoy hearing your advice. I must admit most comments i get are very positive and i am very lucky i have a supportive family ( as they should be ) Thankyou x

  • @suebycraft8319
    @suebycraft8319 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have been dye-free for just over a year now. Watching TH-cam videos (including yours) and joining a couple of gray hair FB groups gave me the confidence to stay with it. Am 69 now, wish I had done it much sooner; started to grow it out in my early 50s, but when a friend told me how awful I looked (she has since apologized) I immediately caved and went back to coloring it. Your hair is just beautiful, love it!

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad your friend apologized. I find it hard to believe that women can be so hard on each other sometimes!

  • @lovewillwinnn
    @lovewillwinnn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    On my 9 week journey. Best encouragement yet. Going to watch again and again. Been telling my friends and lots have decided the same. I LOVE your hair and your attitude. You sound like me. I’m a very youthful 52 but i want the freedom you already know. 👩🏼❤️❤️😍😍😍

  • @vickyclemonts9275
    @vickyclemonts9275 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so thankful I found this video!! I’ve been thinking of going grey & this video solidified it for me! You look amazing & im obsessed!!
    Thank you for making this video

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @lavonnedoehring9306
    @lavonnedoehring9306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes!!!! I once had an “ex” tell me he would leave me if I stopped coloring my hair. I now wonder why I let his opinion influence me but it did. I stopped coloring my hair a few years back and I absolutely love it. It is the same color as yours and I constantly am getting compliments. When people say they would like to go gray but fear it will be an “ugly” gray I tell them that it’s all in the products that you use. Anyway, your hair is gorgeous! Thank you for helping even one person who may be dectransitioning their hair color

    • @lavonnedoehring9306
      @lavonnedoehring9306 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, that didn’t go well towards the end of my comment but you get what o mean. Lol.

  • @tanyar2011
    @tanyar2011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look wonderful, the hair color matches your eyes. I like your makeup as well. I decided to grow grays while staying at home due to Covid 19, and you're such an inspiration. :)

  • @laurawilde2828
    @laurawilde2828 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow your hair looks great.
    It's shiny, smooth and just looks healthy. Such a pretty color

  • @donnaconyers7315
    @donnaconyers7315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I will be turning 62 in August. Yes, I'm so ready for this journey. I have had family members talk me out of it before but not this time. I can't help it if they are going to feel old because I am gray. Thank you for this video. Starting the journey today.

  • @DogMomStephanie
    @DogMomStephanie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are absolutely beautiful! The makeup, your eyes and brows, and of course your hair. So glad you were in my recommended videos!

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching!

  • @conniecappus3625
    @conniecappus3625 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think your hair makes you look beautiful. I have been on this journey for 5 months. Seems like my hair growth has slowed down. probably going to take me a long time. Determined to go the journey. Love your hair. You look so young that this is why people think you color your hair that color. Thanks for your video

  • @juliawesterhoff2805
    @juliawesterhoff2805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look fabulous!!! Thank you for sharing your gray Journey...be you... Just started my own gray journey

  • @dizzyygirll
    @dizzyygirll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love your hair and your attitude! My last hair coloring was on Feb 8, 2019. I normally had blonde hair with low lights and bleach highlights. I've been using overtone colors (silver and rose gold, sometimes purple) on my hair I'm growing out and my bleach highlights really pickup the color which has made the transition so much easier. My grey doesn't really pickup much color. In certain light I can see a blue hue on my grey which comes from Overtone's silver (it has a blue base). I will be 50 in October and just got tired of it....spending so much etc. I haven't received any negativity, at least to my face. I have received MANY compliments especially from younger ladies. Some would love to have the color that I have naturally growing in which makes me feel quite trendy, which I have never been :) I enjoyed the video and am getting ready to watch your facial care video. Thank you!!!

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations on your journey! Its a beautiful one :)

  • @MsKViz
    @MsKViz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am half way thru the transition and it is so worth it! I waited too long. I am almost 60 and should have done it 10 years ago.
    I am thrilled with the way it is coming in and can’t wait to get rid of the rest of the dyed ends. I did choose to cut my hair short to speed the process and am looking forward to growing it back. But I love the silver so much I am brushing it back off my face, so more of the silver shows. ☺️ Best decision ever.

  • @joanneleib5887
    @joanneleib5887 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m 9 months in and your hair is fabulous and no you don’t look older at all. I wish mine will look so good.

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations Joanne! It's a worthwhile journey!

  • @dawnsheard4786
    @dawnsheard4786 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you look so beautiful ... I’ve been dying my hair for 30 years since I was 22 . lately every 3 weeks to cover the badger stripe. I’ve decided since I’ve been in lockdown in the uk (7 weeks) it’s so gray I’m just going to embrace it !!!
    I’m going’s to go through all you hair video for more great advice THANK YOU So much x I’m excited x

  • @Stella42942
    @Stella42942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello, your hair looks great. Very well said, I love your advice thank you for sharing your pros and cons.
    I'm on my silver grey journey, 6 months so far and I love it! So far I haven't gotten any negative feedback, I guess it's because I have light brown hair and the colors are blending together, now I have silver, medium brown and light brown hair all dancing simultaneously with each other, it's truly beautiful and it feels healthier as well. I can't wait to see my hair when it all grows out.🤗❤

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations on your gray hair journey!

  • @Pamela-hr9zi
    @Pamela-hr9zi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im 62 and just now getting ready. Im tired of covering it. Thank you for your encouragement. I'm watching alot of videos for support and the dos and don'ts. All the tips help thank you!

  • @smallhouseinthemeadow6131
    @smallhouseinthemeadow6131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You and your hair are SO gorgeous! I just cut off a lot of my hair yesterday because the color was washing out and it felt and looked like straw. I am a retired hairdresser. I have been wanting to go silver for years, but kept listening to the naysayers who were saying I looked "too young to make myself look old". I tried to do it at 40, then again and fifty, and now and sixty, I am going for it! People will probably not tell me that I look too young to do it anymore,LOL. This time I plan on ignoring the rude people and comments from here on in. I feel sad that people are so rude on the internet and in general.What has made people so rude and ill mannered these days? It speaks volumes about them .I feel sorry for them. It must suck to be so miserable that you have to comment on others...Your skin and teeth look amazing too.I am so happy to have found your channel .You are an inspiration. I wish I had done it when I was as young as you are...I could have been on multiple vacations with the money I spent on highlights after I retired as a hairdresser...

  • @jennibee2307
    @jennibee2307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I started finding gray hairs when I was 13 and now I'm nearly 37. I last dyed my hair 8 weeks ago and while I have dye here, I just haven't wanted to bother with it. My inch of roots are almost completely silver so I am taking the plunge and growing them out. I have a pixie cut, so getting rid of the color shouldn't take long. My next haircut is in 4 weeks, my hair is like to look like a mop by then. I'm so excited to see what the color is like though! Thanks for the video and the confidence boost to keep going! Your hair is amazing, I can only hope my hair looks even close to that!

  • @Mathisontanner
    @Mathisontanner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You tube friend, you totally rock your hair. Your channel has changed a lot of things for me! My home smells amazing, I have started to take care of my skin again. I am blond and never did anything to my hair till my mid 30’s. I do have it done now but I am 57. I love how our YT family lifts each other up and is supportive of trying new things💜

    • @cornellfoodie
      @cornellfoodie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mathisontanner I ❤️ this comment! Melanie has reached in and altered many lives. How cool!

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your kind words! And you are 100% right, it's so great to find a tribe of similar minded people who can support and uplift each other! I am so glad you are finding some inspiration here

  • @stephaniegilmore1069
    @stephaniegilmore1069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for you video! I am 33 and I've found my first gray hairs on my head this year. I don't color my hair regularly ( like once a year with a shade or two lighter in the summer.
    I've decided to stop coloring all together and let my hair be all natural. I want my gray hair to grow in naturally as it increases over the next how ever many years.
    I don't want to have to ever go through a gray hair transition with colored hair so I thought I'd be best to let it grow in naturally in my 30's. Lol
    Love the advice and experience you shared.

  • @pjacksone
    @pjacksone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When let go of the wigs and weaves and went natural 4 years ago, I was at the mall with a friend and this guy asked my friend if I was her mother. I was mortified and walked away from them. At first the transition had a few rough patches but for the most part I have had an amazing response to it. People think it's cool and like you said ask if I dyed my hair this color. I'm more salt n pepper and I almost wish I was straight grey because I like uniformity better. I have had my hair dyed grey for a photo shoot and a couple of fashion shows and people went bonkers for it. They wanted me to keep the color but I couldn't because it would bleed off unto clothing, hands, etc. They told me I looked like "Storm" (the comic book character). So I know at least when it does change all the way over, people will love it. Your hair is gorgeous.

  • @carolyncole3726
    @carolyncole3726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my goodness....you are totally beautiful and you look super young. Love your hair and your
    confidence. Thank you for such an inspiring video. God bless!

  • @ValerieC83
    @ValerieC83 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been natural for 2 years now! I wish I had as much silver as you do! you have magical unicorn hair!!!

  • @taste-a-liciouse1397
    @taste-a-liciouse1397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you. You look fantastic. Your hair really brings out your eyes. Thank you for the inspiration. I'm in my first month.

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations on your journey!

  • @anicame2
    @anicame2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have just begun watching the video so I don’t know if you’ll mention this but one benefit for u I’m sure is that it makes ur eyes appear gray as well. The color fits u so well!

  • @emily_cross5115
    @emily_cross5115 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    right now I am 22 years old and i don't know how I got to videos about gray hair, and honestly once I start getting grays when I'm older, I'll let it grow out it just looks so beautiful!

  • @sharitozelaya4146
    @sharitozelaya4146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I turned 44 going on my transition of gray hair, 2 months or ready.
    You look beautiful God blessed your life.

  • @kathleenmcgorman4617
    @kathleenmcgorman4617 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for your tips and advice. just wanted to say how beautifully your hair and eye colors compliment each other 💕

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much 🙂

  • @angelag7090
    @angelag7090 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being off work because of corona gave me the time to be home and let the gray grow out. I said it a few times but I think I’m really gonna do it this time. By the way ur hair looks beautiful and does not make you look old at all. God bless you!

  • @amypool7717
    @amypool7717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video!! Just what I needed to hear. Love your outlook.

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for taking the time to watch!

  • @cynthiatennant9896
    @cynthiatennant9896 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You look beautiful!!! That’s awful that people say otherwise! I’m 60 and just decided to go grey a few days ago. Thank you for your tips 🤗

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!! Best of luck on your journey Cynthia! It's a worthwhile one!

  • @ibelieveinangelsyesido7436
    @ibelieveinangelsyesido7436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was here during your journey, Melanie. It's so freeing, *never* fretting about roots! It does require some tweaking of colors but it's so worth it. Blessings! Jackie in upstate NY

  • @luguidubiela1654
    @luguidubiela1654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Family or not, if you're not a supportive , then bye!"
    Yes!

    • @luguidubiela1654
      @luguidubiela1654 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      btw, your hair looks gorgeous and i don't think it ages you at all.

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!

  • @woowoowellbeing
    @woowoowellbeing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, Thank you for this, I'm just starting the journey, 6mths in now. Definitely a conversation starter, evokes so many opinions! I'm hoping to stay strong and keep going! !

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Best of luck! You can do it!!!

  • @janetwhelan2210
    @janetwhelan2210 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just watched this! Your hair is gorgeous....your gorgeous!
    I have recently (well in the past 4 months) have decided to stop coloring my hair and let the grey grow out. Like you, my greys popped in at 25 (I'm 38 now) and I'm tired of keeping it covered. It is a long process, I have had my stylist help by adding some highlights to even out the new growth and dark old colored hair. Your right about how healthy the new growth feels!! Mine is so much softer than the colored parts . Thanks for the info on proper products to be aware of one your hair has transformed! I'm looking forward to the time when I can say" my hair is all my natural grey color"! 😊

    • @MrKongsMom
      @MrKongsMom  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Enjoy the journey Janet! It's well worth it :)

  • @heatherwillis8930
    @heatherwillis8930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    PREACH👋Great video and thanks for sharing your journey. I'm 43 and just started letting mine grow out once it got cold. Indoors more so I can get a sense of whether or not I'm going to be comfortable with it....we shall see...My dilemma is my hair is curly and long and only half gray. Yours is GORGEOUS!

    • @ibelieveinangelsyesido7436
      @ibelieveinangelsyesido7436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh, Heather, it'll be glorious! My hair is wavy/curly & the new texture fits right in with that. We're already *used to* dealing with thirsty strands. I let mine grow out quite a few years ago. A tiny bit of coconut oil scrunched into curls makes any silver strands sparkle like crazy. Enjoy your hair! Blessings! Jackie in upstate NY

    • @heatherwillis8930
      @heatherwillis8930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ibelieveinangelsyesido7436 Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement Jackie!