You and Chris are a good couple. You guys just need to realize that you both are playing the one up game with each other. That will always lead to a bad place. He has to control his emotions. You need to control yours. Both of you are living with trauma like most people. You guys both need to just focus on being good parents to the kids. Especially when y'all trigger each other. I didn't see that Ekane is trying hard not to argue in front of the kids. But Chris doesn't care if the kids see them arguing. If he doesn't stop doing that cps can take them because you're not protecting them. Ask me how I know. I went through the same thing. I'm still with my husband but he had to get therapy to control his temper.. Plus I had to get therapy for Dv. In therapy they taught me about the trauma triangle of chaos. My husband would do things to start arguing cause he felt insecure about things he wasn't doing,but I was. Now I can see what he's doing and stop feeding into it. Our relationship isn't perfect,but it's better then it was. Support Chris in going to therapy you love him and want your family to work.
@@healingsessionthis is the problem y’all think children are dumb because other parents don’t teach their kids the importance of consent. they know wtf is up.
@@healingsession you see how you went into deflecting and changing the subject? nobody said anything about them making the ‘right’ choice because there is no right or wrong choice. it’s whatever THEY want to do. a responsible adult wouldn’t be sitting underneath comments tryna tell people how to raise their kids while hiding through a guise of ‘healing’ . like i said, kids are not dumb. they can make choices. they have to learn just like their parent does.
@@healingsession & i see you said you’re an educator too so if you are then you should know firsthand that children can & SHOULD make their own choices because that promotes confidence & boundaries.
Evkane really does get shit done when she’s not with Chris. I love to see it and I hope she keeps on the thought. I know it’s hard to keep coming back to the same thing that broke you. But she really does know what to do she’s just doesn’t pick the right decision
The min you stay on that not reacting I swear you’ll have the best peace. Don’t give him what he wants when it’s not positive. You deserve peace! The season of unbothered
she’s a great mom i love how calm she is with her kids she yung n trying give her a break n fuc cps currently got a dv case open & since my kid wasn’t old enough to talk they took him but it’s okay im getting him back hunny
I love EVERYTHING about this video, especially you & Moomies cleaning up & fixing the vacuum together, matches edges & boots lol but I’m sooo Mfn weaaakk at Chris lil attitude but proud asfff of you standing on BIG BUSINESS & not letting him come kill y’all vibe. I’m glad the kids had an amazing time with their mommy & TT. You did that E, I love you DOWNNNN baby 🥰💕💕😘
Moomies helping you clean lol she loves her mama! It’s so refreshing to see you be a mom because a lot of time we see a lot of the negative but you are a great mother on top of everything!! ❤️
The iPhone automatically adjusts the lighting for you, the camera will have to be adjusted manually with colour/lighting adjustments or you’ll have to adjust it while you’re editing (but the Sony has more sharpness) If you use the iPhone, make sure you clean the lens for it to look better
CPS does not have to get involved so please do not I repeat do not allow them to get in your business again. I studied the law since 2007 and it's a lot they do that they have no business doing at all.
@@AlexusMusicyou could always search up cps laws and your state afterwards cause it can differ state to state and parental rights for the state as well
i love your personality in how you vlog, also i think the professional camera has way better quality but your iphone has better coloring on the film. Quality or coloring whichever you value more is what you should go with.
25:23 Ekane, can you start posting the link of the exact pants that you’re wearing whenever they’re not high waters (flooded)??? PLEASE , because I’m 5’10 & I can NEVERR find pants that are long enough ! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
i feel like you and chris do love each other you gave him kids young basically gave your life away, you really was in love at a point but he puts you through so much you mentally check out every now & then.. but you’re so insecure you feel like you can only have chris who will do everything you want so you settle.. whole time you’re the bread winner & can really find someone to treat you correctly & love you correctly.. i settled with my bd for a bit even before kids but now he wants me back bad but i don’t love him no more.. abuse isn’t okay in any way shape or form, you don’t deserve it at all… he needs help, you do too but it’s never going to get better unless yall get help but i don’t see it.. he drags you down sm🤦🏽♀️ like ekane you’re literally herrrrrrr bro!! i wish you could just leave and not look back
28:16 Aw, Chris should’ve been able to still go with u guys to Disney on ice 😕 these type of GOOD memories are important for kids to have. And if it’s possible for both parents to be there, then they definitely should both be there. ❤ Even tho he annoyed u earlier in the day, you gotta just ignore that shii especially when y’all gonna be out in a public place, with no liquor, at a kids event with the kids, I’m sure it would’ve gone smoothly. Y’all both would’ve been too busy with the kids to even bother each other. ☹️🙁 that made me sad..
Mann if you hating on Big E you need help , sis really is a good mother and she’s dealing with everyday shit like the rest of she just don’t front for social media and the camera ❤❤❤❤❤
Chris behavior is gross. He’s entitled and obviously just hell bent on making u as miserable as he is. After hitting you, he’s the one who wants to play victim. Don’t let him back in romantically. He needs to establish a life for himself, he probably despises that you have ur own stuff going on and he relies on you for everything. But he’s too lazy to do something for his self fr. Don’t be his second mom Ekane. That man needs to grow up
You look so beautiful with Blonde hair 😊. You should show us your sneaker collection 😀. I am also from Michigan and i am like 3 hours North of you girl 😊. I officially watched all your videos on here and on tikTok 😁. I love watching your videos because we live in the same state and not to far away well kinda lol
What you should do is get your car to running good then take it to the car dealer and see if you can trade it in you might e upside down (that means you vehicle not worth that much) put extra nice side of money down and boom you have a new car
You and Chris are a good couple. You guys just need to realize that you both are playing the one up game with each other. That will always lead to a bad place. He has to control his emotions. You need to control yours. Both of you are living with trauma like most people.
You guys both need to just focus on being good parents to the kids. Especially when y'all trigger each other.
I didn't see that Ekane is trying hard not to argue in front of the kids. But Chris doesn't care if the kids see them arguing. If he doesn't stop doing that cps can take them because you're not protecting them. Ask me how I know. I went through the same thing. I'm still with my husband but he had to get therapy to control his temper.. Plus I had to get therapy for Dv. In therapy they taught me about the trauma triangle of chaos. My husband would do things to start arguing cause he felt insecure about things he wasn't doing,but I was. Now I can see what he's doing and stop feeding into it. Our relationship isn't perfect,but it's better then it was.
Support Chris in going to therapy you love him and want your family to work.
That's some sound advice honestly.
I do see that Ekane is trying not to argue in front of the kids
It won't let me fix it.
they are no where near a good couple.
@@bluevlade u on the wrong page then bby
idk why u are enabling their behavior. it is unnaceptable and extremely weird
i love how she always ASKS her babies if they want to be recorded, making sure they’re comfortable or in the mood for it ❤😭
@@healingsessionchildren aren’t dumb sometimes they say no and sometimes they say yes
@@healingsessionmy lil brothers their age and he dose t like being recorded most of the time
@@healingsessionthis is the problem y’all think children are dumb because other parents don’t teach their kids the importance of consent. they know wtf is up.
@@healingsession you see how you went into deflecting and changing the subject? nobody said anything about them making the ‘right’ choice because there is no right or wrong choice. it’s whatever THEY want to do. a responsible adult wouldn’t be sitting underneath comments tryna tell people how to raise their kids while hiding through a guise of ‘healing’ .
like i said, kids are not dumb. they can make choices. they have to learn just like their parent does.
@@healingsession & i see you said you’re an educator too so if you are then you should know firsthand that children can & SHOULD make their own choices because that promotes confidence & boundaries.
Evkane really does get shit done when she’s not with Chris. I love to see it and I hope she keeps on the thought. I know it’s hard to keep coming back to the same thing that broke you. But she really does know what to do she’s just doesn’t pick the right decision
Sound dumb
Watching ppl clean and organize is so relaxing 😊
Don't get use to it cause she ain't ,but it is relaxing
The min you stay on that not reacting I swear you’ll have the best peace. Don’t give him what he wants when it’s not positive. You deserve peace! The season of unbothered
I’m ngl God got his hands over you ekane bc the way you be goin through shit and still come out on top EVERYTIMEEE
I love how the iPhone just feels more real and genuine and i kind of feeling closer to you!
she’s a great mom i love how calm she is with her kids she yung n trying give her a break n fuc cps currently got a dv case open & since my kid wasn’t old enough to talk they took him but it’s okay im getting him back hunny
I love watching this side of your life TikTok is entertaining but your YT shows a more realistic side of who you are 💕
LOVE THE CLEANING PARTS SO MUCH ! 😊
I'm so glad!
Me too😂
Yesss me too lol it’s sooo satisfying 😅🥰
I just know it’s draining when someone keeps encroaching on your boundaries like that. Keep going ❤ take your time.
I love EVERYTHING about this video, especially you & Moomies cleaning up & fixing the vacuum together, matches edges & boots lol but I’m sooo Mfn weaaakk at Chris lil attitude but proud asfff of you standing on BIG BUSINESS & not letting him come kill y’all vibe. I’m glad the kids had an amazing time with their mommy & TT. You did that E, I love you DOWNNNN baby 🥰💕💕😘
That closet is clean babyyyy she was never one of themmmm don’t play wit herrr!!!!
Ekane tbh I'm so proud of you. You are becoming the you that you are meant to be. A great mom and a true vlogger😊 I swear I love me some EKANE ❤
You're the best! I love you
Thanks for the response Pooh!!! Keep being the best you that you can be!
Moomies wearing her coat upside down, while you clean up is so cute, she’s def in her own world 😭😭😭
I just said the same thing 😂😂😂😂 i never seen anyone wear their coat upside down😩 not even a baby 😆 she so cute 🥰
It’s the pillow behind the headboard for me 😂😂😂😂
glad that car getting fixed that’s definitely important!
Moomies helping you clean lol she loves her mama! It’s so refreshing to see you be a mom because a lot of time we see a lot of the negative but you are a great mother on top of everything!! ❤️
I love how you asked moomies if she wanted to be recorded. So considerate 🩷
I love you because you're so transparent and relatable. Plus your super funny
Ekane don’t piss me off wit this Christmas tree and it’s about to be Valentine’s Day 😂😂😂😂😂
People keep their tree up all year around .
@@Anonymous26846 I was just playing now don’t start wit me clock tht k😁
@@justpriscilla7635 Why you offend for I said what I said. Clock that TF
@@Anonymous26846it was never that serious boo
@@Prettyyluhhnii Nobody was even talking to you so .
I’m so proud of you ekane no matter how bad something gets you always stay honest and positive.Love youuuuu💗
The iPhone automatically adjusts the lighting for you, the camera will have to be adjusted manually with colour/lighting adjustments or you’ll have to adjust it while you’re editing (but the Sony has more sharpness)
If you use the iPhone, make sure you clean the lens for it to look better
How you treat your babies is just one of the reasons why I love you! 💜 thee biggest!
def the sony camera it’s just the lighting that make the i phone look better
Disney on ice looked fun. I haven’t had dip n dots in forever. Your kids are adorable!!! ❤
You're such a great mother don't let nothing get to you and continue doing you Erica 💜💜
CPS does not have to get involved so please do not I repeat do not allow them to get in your business again. I studied the law since 2007 and it's a lot they do that they have no business doing at all.
Do you have a place or email where I can email you for more information regarding the laws of CPS involvement?
YES. Watch ‘take care of maya’ 💔 that will make you wanna hold them so close
Right unless there was physical harm to a child just don’t respond to them go about your business
@@AlexusMusicyou could always search up cps laws and your state afterwards cause it can differ state to state and parental rights for the state as well
@@groovytae_ thanks love, I’ll definitely do that.
BVBD is crazzzyyyy 😂
I always tell you that you killing this mommiana sh!t please don’t let nobody tell u different 🫶🏾
Period sista!!! I love youuuu
Your videos give me life! I love you Ekane!
I love you more bae
I be wanting her to post vlogs everyday 😂😂
Your sick in the head ,your videos give me life ,God give you life your sick
When she said “oh now you got energy” 😂😂😂😂😂 girlllll
Not the pillow on the headboard, so can’t nobody hear big moose getting beat up. Lol.
I didn’t even peep that. You must have done that before 😂
@@mjcoco 😂😂😂
😹😹😹🤣.
I love watching ekane in her productive TH-cam era
Camara gives upgrade. Research how to adjust the settings to how you want it to look. Hey baae
i didn’t know chris knew how to skate look at his goofy ahh😂😂😂
Yes. Jackets on the bottom shelf. Then, start adding clothes you just bought to that side
3:47 the pillow behind the headboard of her bed 🤣🤣 We know what that means ! 😝
Once u organize ur clothes and closet ur goin to feel a relief and it can help with the energy.
My girl don’t play she in her YT bag ! I love ittttt we want more ❤🎉
the sony camera just gives better quality overall , the iphone camera eats too tho
Keep going Ekane I love your content it’s just heart warming to watch no matter what video you post I’ll still watc ,like and comment 😁❤️❗️
EKANE I hope God will bless you with so many good things for you and the children ❤
i love your personality in how you vlog, also i think the professional camera has way better quality but your iphone has better coloring on the film. Quality or coloring whichever you value more is what you should go with.
i really like the sonys quality, both look good but the camera looks more professional yk? LOVE THAT YOU UPLOADING DAILY BASICALLY 🫶🫶 so proud
Ekannnnee babyyy the claw clip was GIVING. Gave very much hot mom
I love the motivation and positivity Happy New Years 🎉🎉
Love you E..❤❤ keep doing your thang thang God got you and those kids for sure!!!💪🏾🥰
Yessss Sis Lyft Is Always Higher They Be Krazi!
They gone always try to tear you deoownnn!! but your a greatttt mom.
The way Benny laying on the computer chair watching you clean, took me out 😂😂😂💀💀
22:18 moomies in the background with her coat on upside down 🤣🤣😭😭😩😩 she is so cute (sorry if i spelled her name wrong)
Put the pants at the bottom. Shirts at the top. Coats go in a hallway closet if you got 1 but if not, at the top in the corner
Loved the vlog boo. Everything will work itself out. just continue to stay focused! Heeyyy Minks and Moomies!!
Mama you look so good😍😍 Love you boo
That hair color looks sooo good on you
25:23 Ekane, can you start posting the link of the exact pants that you’re wearing whenever they’re not high waters (flooded)??? PLEASE , because I’m 5’10 & I can NEVERR find pants that are long enough ! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
You’re such a good momma, I love you!!
Ekane you are the best mother to your babies. Never forget that ❤❤❤
Girl CPS use to come talk to me and my sister all the time. We were fine. You can look at your kids and tell they’re raised well.
First I love you so much keep going up🎉❤😍🔥
Ilysm more baeee
I’m so proud of you E
Its moomies in the back with her coat on upside down while you fixing your hair for me 🤣 moomies funny af 😂
Her babies are adorable 🤍🤍🤍
I think you have to set the quality on the camera then it’ll hit fr but the iPhone eats too ❤
You’re such a strong mother & it shows. You took that risk and made it to the car shop on your own. These men be so insecure and weak.
i feel like you and chris do love each other you gave him kids young basically gave your life away, you really was in love at a point but he puts you through so much you mentally check out every now & then.. but you’re so insecure you feel like you can only have chris who will do everything you want so you settle.. whole time you’re the bread winner & can really find someone to treat you correctly & love you correctly.. i settled with my bd for a bit even before kids but now he wants me back bad but i don’t love him no more.. abuse isn’t okay in any way shape or form, you don’t deserve it at all… he needs help, you do too but it’s never going to get better unless yall get help but i don’t see it.. he drags you down sm🤦🏽♀️ like ekane you’re literally herrrrrrr bro!! i wish you could just leave and not look back
You can take a little break break from Chris being in space , He’ll live
The pillow behind the headboard IYKYKKKKKK 😅😅😅
I love your videos! Also I like how the camera looks but either is fine
28:16 Aw, Chris should’ve been able to still go with u guys to Disney on ice 😕 these type of GOOD memories are important for kids to have. And if it’s possible for both parents to be there, then they definitely should both be there. ❤
Even tho he annoyed u earlier in the day, you gotta just ignore that shii especially when y’all gonna be out in a public place, with no liquor, at a kids event with the kids, I’m sure it would’ve gone smoothly. Y’all both would’ve been too busy with the kids to even bother each other.
☹️🙁 that made me sad..
BVBD took me out 🤣🤣🤣 I’m not even gonna count how many times I hit that 10sec rewind because why you add the pic 💀
so sweet how you ask for their permission to get recorded 🥺
the iphone look clearer 😂😂😂
she has to adjust camera settings and play around with it so it be just as good as a iphone.
I love how moomies was tryna help or be around you 😂❤
Start using that good camera Ekane!!!! OVE YOUU
MOOMIES VIBING WIT HER COAT UPSIDE DOWN😂😂😂😂😂😂 SO CUTE❤
One thing i learned e regardless who around at the end of the day all you have is yourself
Mann if you hating on Big E you need help , sis really is a good mother and she’s dealing with everyday shit like the rest of she just don’t front for social media and the camera ❤❤❤❤❤
I know it's gon be icy!!! (Your chain boo) you deserve it!
Swear I clicked immediately love your videos💕✨
I loved going to these as a kid omg😅
“ you gotta get through Shii to go… wait..” 😂
The empty space of your closet you can get the wig bags that have a hanger and hang up your wigs . Maybe ?
I love vlogs but watching the cleaning parts are so therapeutic. Ekane when you taking down that 🎄? You can have more space to move around.
Ur smart for this! We luh yuuu
i swear i love Erica realness it was the let me make sure it ain't no stain showing for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He start throwing snowballs at me😂😂😂😂 brooo😅
i love youuuu EKane ❤️❤️ the camera looks a little better
I pray they have a good co-parenting relationship! Not together but healthy with the kids. He needs to grow up!
Chris behavior is gross. He’s entitled and obviously just hell bent on making u as miserable as he is. After hitting you, he’s the one who wants to play victim. Don’t let him back in romantically. He needs to establish a life for himself, he probably despises that you have ur own stuff going on and he relies on you for everything. But he’s too lazy to do something for his self fr. Don’t be his second mom Ekane. That man needs to grow up
I love you so much E I appreciate you for the vlogs keep going 🙏🏽🎉
But it’s a lil niceee 😂🥰 keep goin boo 🤍
You get SO much done when Chris is gone. I think you have an energy vampire on your hands 😬
Definitely the iPhone bae!!
You look so beautiful with Blonde hair 😊. You should show us your sneaker collection 😀. I am also from Michigan and i am like 3 hours North of you girl 😊. I officially watched all your videos on here and on tikTok 😁. I love watching your videos because we live in the same state and not to far away well kinda lol
I love how she ask her kids if they wanna be recorded before recording them
Love you Kane u really my inspiration rn
I like the black sweat pants on you E they look good af
What you should do is get your car to running good then take it to the car dealer and see if you can trade it in you might e upside down (that means you vehicle not worth that much) put extra nice side of money down and boom you have a new car