Questions that I was Afraid to ask my EX

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  • @kylaknight3655
    @kylaknight3655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +657

    I feel like Amber did a good job with boundaries in this video--- also, being appreciated after the fact is hella bittersweet... good job with staying real but also being the amazing positive person that you are. 🌻

  • @latonyaanderson1405
    @latonyaanderson1405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    “When I was in a relationship I felt like that was my last”. I felt that. Two years in December I will have been broken up from my partner of 10 years. It still hurts. Stay positive Amber. Talking ish IS a reflection of your character.

  • @TheLovelyStyle
    @TheLovelyStyle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1336

    Amber’s body language was a bit uncomfortable, the crossed arms and cold shoulder position tells me there still might be some lingering affliction towards their situation. Ava’s body language, the leaning in, hand on Ambers thigh, gazing in Amber’s eyes, gives me the impression she knows she still has a strong emotional/romantic influence on Amber. Good video, very entertaining.

    • @beya8955
      @beya8955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      Omg amazing analysis ! You have my type of brain argh

    • @YogiRed
      @YogiRed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      I see what you mean... we can say we have all the emotional intelligence but body language doesn't lie.

    • @lindakinoni131
      @lindakinoni131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I agree

    • @nizhonigirl82
      @nizhonigirl82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      I agree 100% with ur observation. Very nice!! I mite add that Ava being a fem likes the fact that she still has an emotional hold on Amber (the Stem). I had this with my ex too. To know what u can still get out of the ex is exciting and selfish. I hope she doesn't hurt Amber. And Amber, cut the cord. It's time. Hope this makes sense. Lol ☺🤓💯👍🏽

    • @chan2009ify
      @chan2009ify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@nizhonigirl82 exactly 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @chan2009ify
    @chan2009ify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    Amber still has a emotionally attachment towards Ava that she will eventually have to let go, in order to be able to move on completely. Ava seems like she's moved on gracefully.

    • @ZZ-mh2nv
      @ZZ-mh2nv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Agreed. Even though Ava was the flirt here...

    • @chan2009ify
      @chan2009ify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ZZ-mh2nv yep! But Ava has always been a flirt

    • @lovelivenic4606
      @lovelivenic4606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Amber looks like she’s trying to protect her heart, it’s obvious feelings are still there from Amber, but she could be putting up a front like she isn’t bother and want Ava to know and the audience that she lost out. She also want to hear that closure and validation which boost her confidence/ self esteem. Meanwhile Ava looks & sounds like she mature and just naturally flirty but also open.

    • @qwertyqwert2772
      @qwertyqwert2772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It looks like they are ready to try to come back together

    • @deliceegbe3630
      @deliceegbe3630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don’t think so I see a round 2 to apply the corrections

  • @kr1s_os
    @kr1s_os 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love how they trusted each other throughout their relationship and never cheated. I’m learning this now

  • @Schelsea94
    @Schelsea94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Love how you guys can still openly communicate about the past without it turning into a disagreement, the respect you have for each other is evident. I hope you both find what you need in your current or future relationships….. However 🥴 Respectfully, I’m still rooting for y’all!!😌

  • @Prettypetitepisces22
    @Prettypetitepisces22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    Some people don’t realize or appreciate what good they had until they are gone. I could tell Amber is very caring and passionate. Ava definitely is tripping for letting her go. Ava all reminiscing missing the little things lol and Ambers all like “yeah well you had all of this and didn’t appreciate it when you did .” Lol

    • @denkinoms
      @denkinoms 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Isn't that a like disrespectful to the new people in their though🤣🤣🤣😅😅 awkward

    • @ima.m.1658
      @ima.m.1658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Didn’t she say Amber was aggressive and yelled at times? I don’t think that’s healthy.

    • @Prettypetitepisces22
      @Prettypetitepisces22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ima.m.1658 still isn’t a good enough reason to leave someone .. clearly Amber wasn’t that aggressive for Ava still to still want a friendship let alone be around her .. also Ava is very touchy in this video…

    • @Prettypetitepisces22
      @Prettypetitepisces22 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@denkinoms definitely not

    • @ima.m.1658
      @ima.m.1658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@Prettypetitepisces22 Actually, it is good enough of a reason to leave someone (or go to couples/individual therapy). It can be, but friendship isn’t always the same level of emotional intimacy as dating. Amber must have been otherwise likable for Ava to want to be friends with.

  • @kallye2016
    @kallye2016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I ve learned emotionally intelligence and communication intelligence so huge in relationships. You both came together to cause each other to grow into better people.

  • @tiffanymccray3909
    @tiffanymccray3909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +729

    "All this growth for her new dude(folds arms)" I feel u Amber 😂💯

    • @nellkee359
      @nellkee359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂

    • @queen_s1mba256
      @queen_s1mba256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      lol she was heated through this whole video

    • @julianacheriza1575
      @julianacheriza1575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I’m not surprised that she eventually got with a guy

    • @richhomiefamoux1726
      @richhomiefamoux1726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@julianacheriza1575 i mean she was never gay to begin with so it's not really a surprise lmfaoo

    • @lizali5588
      @lizali5588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@richhomiefamoux1726 she claimed to be “gay”?? Or bi, pan etc.

  • @helenapoeira1981
    @helenapoeira1981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    Wow Amber you are so intelligent and emotionally mature, I could hear you talk all day...hope my daughter's can one day express themselves as you do!

    • @jmariejay
      @jmariejay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I LOVE this comment!! idk the way you worded that..."intelligent and emotionally mature" SO GOOD!

  • @shanajimenez7435
    @shanajimenez7435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    This was good. Sometimes you need that moment to be real with your Ex even after you both break up just to help you better for your next relationship to grow.

  • @OyayoTheStorm
    @OyayoTheStorm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    There's something so healthy about giving yourself and ex the time apart, the boundaries, the healthy communication and deep platonic love and respect to grow as individuals post breakup to have a prosperous friendship/association. I have an ex that our bond is so dope that we blur those traditional lines of platonic intimacy to still provide fulfilling love, but not cross lines that creates romantic confusion. I don't know if you two have made it that far, but from the looks of things, if possible, you can be on your way. Love you Ava and Amber

  • @breanavalentine702
    @breanavalentine702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I’m so proud of you Amber! She stood her ground, no feelings, no sitting close, just “you don’t miss your water, until your well runs DRY” look on your face. Ava is so pretty and I so glad she is being nice and willing to be friends. Glad you both let go of the past and can be friends. Love this video.

  • @Selenas627
    @Selenas627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Amber radiates so much maturity. So beautiful to see you be respectful and take the high road on a whole new level. such a beautiful inspiring human. It's amazing to see Amber treat Ava as more than an ex but also a human going through needed growth while having so much self-respect.

  • @bbuthelezi4974
    @bbuthelezi4974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Wow this was so refreshing. I admire Ava for being so honest and openly vulnerable by admitting her faults. Amber you're amazing!

  • @tionnamorgan8049
    @tionnamorgan8049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love how honest Amber is. The freedom in expressing herself to the fullest

  • @lexxymo
    @lexxymo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +571

    It was nice to see yall are still cordial. I feel like the 2 public relationships Amber has had (long time watcher 😊) she is always the more mature one taking care of everyone else. I just hope one day Amber will find that person that does the same for her because she deserves it!

    • @lachsforelle7565
      @lachsforelle7565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Same! She really much reminds me of my ex girlfriend and I also only saw the value after we broke up. Amber you deserve someone who takes just as much care of you as you do of them! You really do! I love you and keep going!

    • @chan2009ify
      @chan2009ify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I agree, she's very selfless and she's like the type that pours herself into people she loves whether that's platonic or romantic.

    • @maritzabonilla6660
      @maritzabonilla6660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Lexy, Yesssss I really love Amber. I want her to have that forever soul person that gives as much as she puts into the relationship. She deserves that!

    • @AmbersCloset
      @AmbersCloset  3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Thanks guys🥺🖤🙏🏽🖤

    • @sarahgibson8866
      @sarahgibson8866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@AmbersCloset maybe u should try dating another virgo lol...we the best😍

  • @anointedann1971
    @anointedann1971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Amber still loves her, it’s undeniable. I can see a lot of closure coming from this sit down. Folks usually don’t appreciate what they had until they lose it and can’t find that out there. Either way, well done ladies!

    • @jmariejay
      @jmariejay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AMEN 🙌🏽

  • @JavelleElaine
    @JavelleElaine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Two exes in a room, being engaging with each other? This is why I love Amber. So mature and real with her emotions and the situations she puts herself in. Taking notes📝📝📝

  • @driaj155
    @driaj155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Man I don’t think y’all should’ve drank before this. There was a lot said verbally n in body language. Y’all both still have feelings for each other and are both still very much attracted to each other. I feel y’all both are leaving room to get back together

  • @twinklerose3499
    @twinklerose3499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    I remember when I first realized I was gay yall were the only black lesbian couple I knew on TH-cam. It helped me so much, thankful for the security you guys gave me

    • @AmbersCloset
      @AmbersCloset  3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      🖤🙏🏽🖤

    • @Sssssssslf
      @Sssssssslf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      she's not black 🤔

    • @anna-mariadavis5914
      @anna-mariadavis5914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@Sssssssslf she is 50 percent black she may choose to identify as black because of her experience and life y’all have this new thing where u think u can tell biracial people what they are and are not that’s not your place.

    • @DaigeeDeJ
      @DaigeeDeJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@anna-mariadavis5914 I mean it’s not trying to tell them what they are when that IS what they are🤣

    • @angelarivera8611
      @angelarivera8611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Sssssssslf She is biracial they both are.

  • @nunyadambiz2086
    @nunyadambiz2086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Y'all's chemistry is 🔥🔥🔥....agree with the person saying Amber's body language indicates she's trying to protect her heart (Im a Virgo, we are blunt, and we definitely protect ourselves). Ava is open & free-flowing. But, yes y'all, we can see y'all care for each other. Somebody needs to just give in, then you both understand each other's love language and move with love in all things. Time really does heal wounds. Maybe you will find your way back to each other, but drop your preconceived expectations.

  • @ImDeeNicole43
    @ImDeeNicole43 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It is so cool that you can sit and be real with each other. The fact that y'all are so mature about this is insane. Thank you for teaching ex's how it is done

    • @alanaban1840
      @alanaban1840 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl friend # girl friend / this is a man and a woman in disguise/ easy to see the man / woman and woman cannot have kids 😢/ do not think of it / twisted affection/ do not mix up love and lust

  • @FER-is7ft
    @FER-is7ft 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Amber has such a big heart. I hope she finds love that's reciprocated to the capacity that suits her.

  • @ashleyforeign205
    @ashleyforeign205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Even though I don’t personally know amber she really helped me figure out who I am and that coming out to my family is my choice and I do it on my time… she’s such an angel and deserves the world 🖤

  • @Cfoots03
    @Cfoots03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Wow… that was lovely. Growth… Ava was definitely sending a message…. And to be honest , Ava looked open. In their past relationship video, she always gave a vibe as the “trophy” in the room (as we all should) but when you are in a relationship with an amazing person always their can be two trophy’s in the room… sounds like she feels that now. That’s growth. Ava… you better keep shooting your shot… because Amber (we love you) we do boo.. BUT she has been sneak sending us Situationship vibes in her famous “what’s up y’all welcome to the vlogs” !!! All just jokes… but congratulations to you both… this was great. When do You meet “the one” … people say you will know present/past tense… either way you will know because you just know and feel it in your soul! Cheers to growth and new opportunities for more forever & always! 🥂

  • @amadeodgiorgio2
    @amadeodgiorgio2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You said Ava was stuck up the first time you guys met, that's the vibe I got from her the first time she was in your video. Never liked the girl, never trusted her. Just keepin' it real.

  • @ebonik6440
    @ebonik6440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    This was a good video Amber !!!!! It was nice to see Ava on the channel.
    Amber has definitely taught us all emotional growth seriously 😫❤️

  • @VictoriaMarch13
    @VictoriaMarch13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Virgos are definitely very passionate in every aspect of our lives especially relationships! When a Virgo loves you they love you in such a beautiful way that even if y'all split you will never be the same. ❤

  • @jacquelynrincon7945
    @jacquelynrincon7945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I think there’s still so much real love between you guys and it looks like you guys could still have a chance when you’re both are ready not to lead with your egos. There’s real genuine love there
    Like the real deal kinda thing

  • @lovelivenic4606
    @lovelivenic4606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Amber looks like she’s trying to protect her heart, it’s obvious feelings are still there from Amber, but she could be putting up a front like she isn’t bother and want Ava to know and the audience that she lost out. She also want to hear that closure and validation which boost her confidence/ self esteem. Meanwhile Ava looks & sounds like she mature and just naturally flirty but also knows Amber still has love for her.

  • @antoniaarmstrong717
    @antoniaarmstrong717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I love Ava! She has an amazing personality. I'm happy that you all are still cordial ❤

    • @tonyaleach8222
      @tonyaleach8222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Love the relationship y’all have now

    • @judithchilcoat5852
      @judithchilcoat5852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I did not like the "old" seemingly stuck-up, narcissistic Ava and couldn' figure out what Amber saw in her. Over the years, Diva Ava mellowed and seemed to learn the world did not spin on her axis. Still, I was a bit shocked when you broke up. It's good you can kind of talk about it without rancor. Best of luck and love to you both. This was a good idea.

  • @jeremiaewing-chow3038
    @jeremiaewing-chow3038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This was amazing definitely felt the growth between you guys ...could tell that the love is still there 💕

  • @tashastewart5034
    @tashastewart5034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Amber clearly still has some scars from this relationship BUT! It’s the openness, transparency and honesty for me!! Virgo shit!! It’s our season!!! ♍️♍️♍️♍️♍️

  • @julzamidala2865
    @julzamidala2865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I was heartbroke for you both back then and for the future a bit too. It was so good to hear you go deep and share what you learned and that gives me nore hope too. Thank you

  • @EvieNefertiti
    @EvieNefertiti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This made me want y’all to get back together. Even though I have no idea what y’all went through so it doesn’t matter lol. I shed a little tear.

    • @jmariejay
      @jmariejay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      omgeee RIGHT??

  • @HighPriestessK
    @HighPriestessK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I am so proud of you, Amber. You are so young and so wise. I'm proud of you.

  • @ToDaMaxxx
    @ToDaMaxxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    When an ex speaks badly especially with passion over an ex, it screams emotion to me.
    Bad emotion is still emotion.
    It's just what's resulted because you're angry at this person you still love after they did something to you.
    I was dodging women who do that.
    And 8f Ava was my current and I watched this video...she was touching your thigh, eye contacting you, just too touchy feely.
    I wouldn't like seeing my current do too much with the ex. Plus it appears she does it cuz she knows she still has a hold on you.

    • @User-jd9ut
      @User-jd9ut 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      People should aim to feel pathetic after a break up tho because I feel like that’s the only healthy emotion we’re you can truly say I’m honestly over it

  • @karasays01
    @karasays01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This relationship did concern me. I'm glad that you both were able to discuss this. I think Amber still loves Ava, and is hurt. Ava has a new experience to help her in new relationships and she will be able to discuss falling for a woman.

  • @toineyprince5581
    @toineyprince5581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am proud of Amber for all the boundaries in this video!

  • @Sammy-cm9ce
    @Sammy-cm9ce ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "your black heart made it feel that way" SLAYED ME

  • @EdwardSanchezProductions
    @EdwardSanchezProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    It’s great to see that exes can be friends

  • @nicoleallen9221
    @nicoleallen9221 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Set ur boundaries Amber she still flirting...Mind games are real

  • @shanikawright7832
    @shanikawright7832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I honestly think things between you both can go back into being a relationship rather than a friendship . Because it was just stuff that was just unclear back then . But great inspiring video. Well done.

  • @bebeentertainment22
    @bebeentertainment22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I just love the bond!
    You can be friends with your ex!!!

  • @savanahjade5090
    @savanahjade5090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m watching this and smiling cus what a cool thing to have with someone who u once loved or just love differently now... Not a lot of people are able to do this and u definitely don’t see people praising and recognizing this as a healthy way of life enough. Dope video 💙

  • @bebeentertainment22
    @bebeentertainment22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    CAN YALL JUST GET BACK TOGETHER 🥺
    My Anxiety Can’t This 😩😩😩

  • @purplebutterflikisses
    @purplebutterflikisses 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love seeing y’all sitting down and being cool with each other !!

  • @thesoftspokenpodcast
    @thesoftspokenpodcast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I feel like Ava is tipsy and she’s comfortable around amber and the energy just encourage the flirt between the two

  • @kristinay.8852
    @kristinay.8852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video helped me self reflect a lot and think about the emotional journey we go thru in partnerships. Yall funny together too!

  • @babygirl6420
    @babygirl6420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    O my Amber. This is YOUR PERSON AND YOU BOTH KNOW THAT. I hope you guys find your way back to each other.

  • @chillypowderful
    @chillypowderful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    I feel like Amber still loves Eva 💕

  • @dymondwalker9062
    @dymondwalker9062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thats it! I need an Amber in my life! Had me at coffee waiting in the car!

  • @ToriVictoriUS
    @ToriVictoriUS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Y'all still into each other. Period

  • @scorpio11955
    @scorpio11955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Am gonna simply say you both love each each other still. Amber is still dying slowly inside at times. I feels same way about someone I loved. We broke up when I was still in love and am sure will behave this way too.
    I don't know what to say about this video. Coz you'll miss each other. There's still love and you've both learned

  • @jatv1840
    @jatv1840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Amber is giving I’m still into you vibes

  • @Monica-od6mj
    @Monica-od6mj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Seems like you both have matured enough separately to give this relationship another go, together, if you both are currently single. Anyone watching this can clearly see the chemistry, mutual love and respect for each other. 😍
    #Ava&Amber2.0

    • @dionneappuhamyge25
      @dionneappuhamyge25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr, I was just going to say the very same thing.

    • @elleroLUV
      @elleroLUV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amber has someone, they seem very happy

    • @richhomiefamoux1726
      @richhomiefamoux1726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@elleroLUV she's single

    • @thrillamantic
      @thrillamantic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes. I agree

    • @SnapszDuhh
      @SnapszDuhh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@elleroLUV LMAO Amber is single. Where on earth did you get that from? And Ava is in a relationship with a man.

  • @manifestationsofblack7946
    @manifestationsofblack7946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Y’all are manifestating y’all’s relationship back❤️🧘🏾‍♂️🌬

  • @Diosarg
    @Diosarg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Ava was so touchy feeling on amber 🥰

    • @maybeni288
      @maybeni288 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      but they are friends and Amber might be seeing someone right now...

  • @hannahhernandez2819
    @hannahhernandez2819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I love this this is some real mature shit alot of ex's can't do this

  • @krystalclevinger1671
    @krystalclevinger1671 ปีที่แล้ว

    Communication and honesty is key no matter what type of relationship/friendship it is. It shows respect and brings longevity into friendships

  • @caitlinohara9338
    @caitlinohara9338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amber treated Ava like a princess 🥺

  • @AFOS94
    @AFOS94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I think everyone’s being hard on Ava. They are drinking lol when I’m liquored up, I can get handsy accidentally cause I’m more loose. Also, No one is a perfect person. Not even Amber. We live and we learn. Lastly, That was Ava’s first relationship with a woman. There was going to be mistakes realistically. Overall. I’m glad they have gotten back to a better space 🥰

  • @kcali_058
    @kcali_058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Re-watched several times. Loved them as a couple. Passion vs. Aggression? Was it Venting? You just have to get to know your partner. Their quirks, idiosyncrasies, how they let off steam. As long as it doesn't get physical. Some things you have to overlook in a relationship.

  • @vintagesoul1987
    @vintagesoul1987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a Taurus I can definitely agree!!! I’m slamming cabinets, slinging doors, stomping around.

  • @meaniesmommy1306
    @meaniesmommy1306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love y’all. I was waiting on the “we back together “ I think Ava and Natalie would vibe well. I needed to see this I’m going through it.

  • @MarielaSantana1
    @MarielaSantana1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love everything about Ava! Those curls 😍 And Amber your facial expressions 🤣🤣🤣

  • @shaeshae2725
    @shaeshae2725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In my opinion you two are best as friends.. The cards read a stronger.. confident..maturer.. selfless person in your life.

  • @lungilemnguni6721
    @lungilemnguni6721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I appreciate both of y'all watching this actually gave me a clue of conversation i wanna have with my ex girlfriend, we just broke up after 5 years of relationship, walking out is difficult.. ❤

  • @Sacred_Heart333
    @Sacred_Heart333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amber is SO ANIMATED... lol. I LOVE it.
    This video is beyond entertaining. It is Beautiful to see how much you have both grown (in many ways). Wishing you both ALL THE BEST. Divine Blessings ✨🙏🏾✨

  • @itsonlyme132
    @itsonlyme132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Amber you seem like a really nice chill person, you definitely deserve somebody who'll love you the way you deserve to be. I hope you find that person. ❤️ PS: You should do recaps of the L Word Gen Q S2 and I'm still pissed off that they didn't cast you. 😅

  • @beautifullyfree7899
    @beautifullyfree7899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I dunno, I think Amber gets taken advantage of & taken for granted! Like the partners we’ve seen don’t seem on the level of her. I hope behind the scenes she’s happy whether we know it or not, but I do agree there seems to be some irritation here, not my biz... blessings to you Amber, you’re deserving of SOOO much more!

  • @deandraowens7936
    @deandraowens7936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How was this SOO GOOD and SOO BAD at the SAME TIME?! I support you both. Good Vibes Only is STILL my SHAT!👏🏾👏🏾✌🏾💖

  • @Nkr565
    @Nkr565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What amber said about Ava being like family to her I totally understand

  • @Beautyflawed81
    @Beautyflawed81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I really loved y'all as a couple.. However, I love that you both are remaining cordial.. Plus both of y'all are cute.. Together or a part..

  • @SelfLoveIsKey
    @SelfLoveIsKey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved the honestly in this video. Delighted you ladies can have fun without it being awkward. Wishing both of you endless growth, love, and positivity.

  • @MA-ky2ur
    @MA-ky2ur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Amber love you all. Amber I apologize ahead of time if I am stepping, but what comes across the screen, is unresolved issues on both sides , and caring for one another. Wish you both best of luck solving those and moving on. Obviously, you both respect each other.

  • @nurharapanable
    @nurharapanable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Now that they already broke up, ava finally more expressive..maybe the suitable just as friend.

  • @bluenightsky
    @bluenightsky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is dope. Only one ex I wouldn't have these chill vibes with, but everyone else, I am chill with.

  • @mikacasimir8131
    @mikacasimir8131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I miss y’all dynamic 🔥🔥 big time

  • @11111DZ
    @11111DZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They could be so good together, I was rooting for them sooo much, when they broke up I felt I lost something good I swear. I hope they both happy no matter what!

  • @THFAN48311
    @THFAN48311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    See now there’s probably one ex I am still chill
    with but if we ever did a video like this it would be TOXIC! I applaud y’all though!!!

  • @izzychidley
    @izzychidley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your vibes. Amber, its so good that you communicate these things and put it out there because it will help confirm people’s thoughts, feelings and situations. Such a good talker and good mindset! Literally everything I think but not as a good communicator lol.

  • @yolandarobinson1919
    @yolandarobinson1919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I applaud you both. You can see the love there. I see that if this was a conversation years ago, y’all might be together.

  • @syannasowell2935
    @syannasowell2935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s soooo crazy that I found this page again. I used to watch when I was SOOO young lol

  • @leosznisforever
    @leosznisforever 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Ava’s vibe always felt weird to me, how I am to judge? but I’ve always felt like she never truly loved Amber, coming from a straight girl I’m not surprised at all. I mean I could be 100% wrong but that’s what I think.

    • @JN-fl3kz
      @JN-fl3kz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I totally agree. I knew it would not last when I use to watch them. I called it on one of Ava video, but I remember Ava called me out. Ava is a straight woman.

    • @leosznisforever
      @leosznisforever 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@JN-fl3kz I was actually afraid to say something and Amber call me out too but I had to get it out of my chest, I’ve been watching her for a long time now. Ava’s vibe was always off, straight women will never take us seriously, they all eventually will come back to a man. They’ll never fully commit, like she said in the video she could have done more and give more but she can’t. I don’t fucking know what fucked up issues lesbians got to keep pursuing them.

    • @jen4162
      @jen4162 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But how can you stay 3 whole years with someone if you don’t feel that way? Not only that but they even lived together like that’s a big deal for not loving someone

    • @alexlesbean8739
      @alexlesbean8739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@leosznisforever wait are you straight or sapphic? I got a little confused by the two comments haha😄

    • @alexlesbean8739
      @alexlesbean8739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jen4162 idk some people actually do that… kinda sad ngl🌚 not agreeing with anything or picking sides.

  • @jordancullen3666
    @jordancullen3666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    No lie I watched this 5 times miss Amber and Ava 🤗

  • @MsStokeling
    @MsStokeling 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yaaaaas!! When you talk negative about your ex that’s a reflection of you #LuvIt

  • @11triciago
    @11triciago 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is an awesome conversation to have w/an ex BUT getting back together after the fact won't work out. You'll both be trying to compensate what you lacked before YET it won't be genuine.....

  • @beautifulmadnesswithbri
    @beautifulmadnesswithbri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s nice to see how mature y’all are to be able to sit down together 💜

  • @Isabellabadass
    @Isabellabadass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amber your faces at the camera. EVERYTHING

  • @feliciadshawn8477
    @feliciadshawn8477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My perception....The body language of both Amber( crossed arms and body positioned away from Ava) and Ava( sitting with body towards Amber ) tells it all. Amber seems like she gave and gave and Ava didn't give enough emotionally and physically(not talking about sex). Amber seems like she still has pinned issues with Ava and Ava knows she messed up. I think both women are great in their own way. I think the reason Ava(straight) fell for Amber is due to the ora that Amber as around her. Ive watched videos of them together and videos of Amber by herself and with her friends. AMBER YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON! OH..yes, as a Taurus..when we are mad dont mess with us AT ALL!!!!! #MAY4THBABY!

  • @jeon0jungkook83
    @jeon0jungkook83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My girlfriend is so passionate as well. We’re not perfect but i will never let her go and regret it later.

  • @hazeleyes1976
    @hazeleyes1976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Ava is not a lesbian, that is why they broke up and she moved on so easily💁🏻‍♀️. Hope they both find the happiness they deserve.

    • @clary5561
      @clary5561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Exactly. The thing is: most studs try to turn straight girls into lesbians, which is crazy because they will leave when they start to get bored and just go and get married or pregnant and live happily with a man. They are not even bisexual, they are bicurious

    • @taymarg4272
      @taymarg4272 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did she ever say that she’s straight though? If so then I must’ve missed it. Can someone tell me where she said that?

    • @hazeleyes1976
      @hazeleyes1976 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@taymarg4272 yes she dated men before and after amber. She has said it many times.

    • @taymarg4272
      @taymarg4272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hazeleyes1976 I didn’t ask how many men she dated. I asked did she ever mentioned that she’s straight? Her dating men does not equal to her being straight lol.

    • @jazlynjaz940
      @jazlynjaz940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So let me get this straight, she talked about dating men in the past, but never said that she was “straight” and so you guys just labeled her as straight. Got it.

  • @HomemakerDaze
    @HomemakerDaze ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amber sounds like the best gf omg, packed lunch, gosh cute. So caring.

  • @khomotsomaphuthi4099
    @khomotsomaphuthi4099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The maturity within them both... Love it❤its insane how y'all still look amazing together even thou ur no longer together😭

  • @Piecesoftheshadow
    @Piecesoftheshadow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Felt Like ava was being very open, honest and self reflective while Amber was being more guarded and defensive many times. But overall this was great and it's so wonderful you guys still have a genuine friendship.

    • @Sammy-cm9ce
      @Sammy-cm9ce ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel like Amber is the one that got truely burnt from this relationship. She seems exhausted by Ava's presence which I can understand.

  • @ifrahkhalif4956
    @ifrahkhalif4956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of best things in life is when you learn different things from your lover one
    So you can be better and work on your relationship

  • @call_me_mushroom6360
    @call_me_mushroom6360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's Amber for me😂😂😂the whole eye widening as she hears her ex talk nice about her😂😂🔥

  • @sidoniejordan-olsen7673
    @sidoniejordan-olsen7673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Relationships are hard af just in general, but the grass is only green where it's tended to.