the DUMBEST stuff I've spent my money on!

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  • @ayanafite
    @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Use code AYANA2 to get 30% off your first month at Scentbird sbird.co/3aXcseX

    • @dimples262009
      @dimples262009 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🙏 i appreciate it

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Plumbobby I can’t believe I didn’t know about this fragrance sooner

    • @chelleluxcien950
      @chelleluxcien950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      U r a genuine soul...i love your channel

    • @gabbycastille1559
      @gabbycastille1559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great video, you should do a video on some luxury shoes, bags, and etc that was worth the money. And please a PART 2 to this video

    • @user-nb8cy4px5q
      @user-nb8cy4px5q 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I really want to buy that hoe bag please

  • @Felicia55
    @Felicia55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    The dumbest thing I spent 3 thousand dollars on was Shawn Strickland, putting money on his books when he was in prison. The universe got my money back though.

    • @gritsnwavy3059
      @gritsnwavy3059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Not his first and last name. It's ok girl, we all spend 💵 reckless in the streets. 🤣

    • @bohannonbrid
      @bohannonbrid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yooooooooooo 🤣🤣

    • @se2664
      @se2664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Who’s Shawn?

    • @ericacole7663
      @ericacole7663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gritsnwavy3059 😂🤣😂

    • @naypl176
      @naypl176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tifflope001
    @tifflope001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    Now that was a smooth transition into the sponsorship 🙌🏾

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I’m proud of this one too! 😭😭😂😂

    • @keepingupwith_moe
      @keepingupwith_moe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yessss 😂😭😂😭

    • @jeanellreynolds7291
      @jeanellreynolds7291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes she did 😆😆😆

    • @MrsFutch
      @MrsFutch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It really was! 😂

    • @chocolatebeauty1688
      @chocolatebeauty1688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts. Now I gotta look into Scent bird lol

  • @kylia2009
    @kylia2009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Rent! 🙄 Every time I pay I feel like I lose a patch of hair. Rent in the US is out of control in general…. I’m buying a multi family property so I can start collecting rent…. Time to be on the other side.

    • @kiaj.d.5855
      @kiaj.d.5855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same!!!! Definitely manifesting this for 2022!!!!!!!!

    • @ericam3333
      @ericam3333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You ain't lying. My Landlord raised my rent by $200 in the last 18 months. I am a month to month renter. I contacted a lawyer. Unfortunately he is in the right bc I don't have a lease. I've lived here 3 years. I had a lease and didn't resign after the first year. Big mistake. I'm over paying by hundreds for a 1 bedroom. Looking like regular working people will be homeless due to greed.

  • @XOXODANiE
    @XOXODANiE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    This is quality content, sis!! I feel I'm catching up with a friend. You are great at this 👏🏽

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ❤️🥰🥰

  • @ash5864
    @ash5864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Yes girl keep your car! I agree adding nice mods will make it feel like you have a brand new car. Wraps, tints, rims, etc. can really transform a car. It's only been a yr and I'm already bored with my car. Girl I'm about to get new tints, rims, and some interior mods on my Volkswagen 2019, I'm so excited!

  • @mellowyellow403
    @mellowyellow403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    About 3 years ago, I started selling my old clothes on Poshmark. I’ve gotten to the point where if I want new clothes I gotta sell items first. I still have my staple wardrobe items. My closet is edited now and I got rid of a bunch of trendy items I only wore once. Also, Mercedes are notorious money pits. If you get a Honda or Acura it will last you the rest of your life with minimal maintenance ! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @livelovely4681
      @livelovely4681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How is postmark? I might need to jump on there and sell some of my stuff. Is it worth it?

    • @tianachet713
      @tianachet713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ain’t that the truth !

    • @vanessavazquez5167
      @vanessavazquez5167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@livelovely4681 i prefer Mercari personally. It’s hard to sell just anything if it’s not name brand on poshmark

  • @leggs4113
    @leggs4113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Girl! I know you don’t need the money but you better resell that stuff on Poshmark or eBay. You don’t get 100% your money back but it’s better than nothing. You will also get a little more than the average person since you are a celeb. You better throw a gift or your autograph in there so you get a lil more.
    I buy things from the thrifts store and resell them. I’ve found Gucci, Golden Goose, Louis Vuitton

  • @latashaparrish7741
    @latashaparrish7741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It was amazing to hear the honesty from you regarding spending money on items which in some sense won’t make you money. I find myself doing the same thing, however the older I have gotten I see the worth in having a savings vs having items like you said you couldn’t get any value of your money for if you sell it. I have a lot younger girls who look up to me and always asking, how you do this or got that. I explained to them honey it’s not as easy as it look and if I was as young as they are I wish I had someone to tell me spend your money wiser. I dam sure would have more of it now than I do lol!!! This was a great video and hopefully it gets the message across to spend money wisely!! Thanks girl!!

  • @jeanellreynolds7291
    @jeanellreynolds7291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love that you made this video. This is definitely confirmation for me to be more intentional on my purchases. ❤ Yes, make a part 2.

  • @shayloveever989
    @shayloveever989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I totally agree with u & I love how honest & real u are .people be out here faking it & living this make believe lifestyle just for social media it’s sad .

  • @kylia2009
    @kylia2009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    When I first went natural, I was a product junky!! Probably spent 1000’s on products that didn’t work (expensive sh*t like Miss Jessie’s). Cabinet full of products that I had to throw away. Never again.

    • @taythagoddess9211
      @taythagoddess9211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Which products do you like? I need help lol

    • @UriyahMommy
      @UriyahMommy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m so happy the natural hair community we stop that phase. It was ridiculous on how much we all were spending on products that youtubers promoted and didn’t use themselves.

    • @janetmunyirich9429
      @janetmunyirich9429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Camille rose still does it for my hair. I think by now most people in the natural hair community know what works for them, so they stick to that & keep it movin' lol

  • @nicoleryan6630
    @nicoleryan6630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love that you are getting sponsorships other than hair. Girl I have wasted money on everything from shoes to apartments. I think something happens when you get older and you just realize that you have a $300 dress just sitting in your closet that you probably will never wear again.

  • @look00ification
    @look00ification 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I love your content and your consistency is top tier!

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank youuuu! ❤️❤️

  • @Pinkjeepkiki
    @Pinkjeepkiki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I spent 2000 on a Versace watch for my husband and he don’t even care about expensive stuff like that. I also spent 1000+ on some Louie Vuitton moon boots that I don’t care for now.

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I just sold some Louie combat boots that I wore once

  • @mzresearch
    @mzresearch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Royalty Scents is also a good fragrance subscription service and they carry a lot more niche fragrances like Baccarat Rouge 540, Creed, Mancera, Tom Ford, etc. Nordstrom Rack is my go to for designer sunglasses for a discounted price.

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nordstrom rack is the truth for sunglasses and shoes

  • @MsUnbreakableTimeline
    @MsUnbreakableTimeline 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    “I’m not even a hoe, why would I wear a hoe bag?” Had me 💀🤣

    • @elisalewis7522
      @elisalewis7522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes me tooooo. That was the funniest shit ! 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣

    • @Zamauria91
      @Zamauria91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @venuslove409
    @venuslove409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Spent $1200 on a pair of Balenciaga shoes I’ve maybe worn 4 times and spent $1300 on a pair of channel slides that I’ve worn 3 times spent $40 on a pair of fur slides I wear all the damn time

  • @ohgurl874
    @ohgurl874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    When sis said “I’m not even a hoe”. I died! I bought a hoe bag also and I don’t even tiptoe nowhere. 😂

    • @TheRealMzhollywood
      @TheRealMzhollywood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂

    • @srystr77
      @srystr77 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here got a hoe bag and don't have an once of hoe in me.

  • @johnathansmith3547
    @johnathansmith3547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Girl let me tell you! I spent about 250.00 on a lauryn hill concert ticket which included VIP meet and greet! Girl she was like 2hrs late, and I decided to go to Jack In The Box, stopped by total wine got a bottle of 1800 and watched a movie! I just refused to wait and I hate I wasted an outfit 😩😩

    • @nso5625
      @nso5625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She was 2hrs late?! OMG how rude of her! Did they not refund you?

    • @UriyahMommy
      @UriyahMommy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂🤣

    • @Unknown_78192
      @Unknown_78192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She’s notorious for being late

    • @esh5168
      @esh5168 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Now you should have known better

  • @slothyyolo7223
    @slothyyolo7223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    also forgot to mention, i love this type of video. i always think its so interesting to see what people do with their money and their reflection of their choices

  • @sassyb3931
    @sassyb3931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    The dumbest thing I spent money on is my wedding 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Amy and I are going to the courthouse lol

    • @sassyb3931
      @sassyb3931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ayanafite 😂😂

    • @gingerjuice4053
      @gingerjuice4053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sassyb3931 i don't even have a single photo from mine😂we drove 30minutes, spent 10 minutes there, drove back 30 minutes and slept that shit away then got up at 5am the next day for work😥😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Petitedelight87K
      @Petitedelight87K 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mines was low key sad. I had a miscarriage a couple week before and was not feeling it at all. Plan to redo it on our 10th anniversary..lol

  • @ebonik6440
    @ebonik6440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m have to say $350 on a silk press in 20mins it was like a Brillo pad. $800 -1,000 on off white sneakers, Balenciaga sneakers, Gucci sneakers. I now will not spend over $400 on any sneaker. $7k on a Dubai trip took my ex BFF she was ungrateful
    as hell and had an attitude the entire trip.
    $7k in Uber in 1 year I was dum as hell 😫 now I have a girlfriend that drive me everywhere lols & I’m in the process of getting my license now….
    I definitely agree with the bags & sunglasses 💕🥰

  • @TheHonorableAngelinaNordstrom
    @TheHonorableAngelinaNordstrom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love this video. I honestly cannot think of anything dumb that I spent my money on except for the items that I purchased for a romantic love interest; now, those were dumb thins to spend money on because those relationships did not work out. Thank you for saying "BYYYYYYYEEEEEEE" in that voice at the end. I love that! I would say it with you when you say it. Lol

  • @reddtexx81
    @reddtexx81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Money is disposable. Don’t feel bad for spending money on things you found value in.

    • @iambubblez
      @iambubblez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You will definitely never be wealthy.

    • @meganhopkins9788
      @meganhopkins9788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iambubblez 💀

    • @reddtexx81
      @reddtexx81 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iambubblez How so? Please explain. I'm curious on your views.

  • @ashleysalazar2012
    @ashleysalazar2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You're quickly becoming my favorite girl on TH-cam ❤️

  • @leannar4477
    @leannar4477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i love your new set up 💕

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was hoping y’all did! ♥️

  • @apparentleeblunt8062
    @apparentleeblunt8062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    We need a part two video!!!
    Unfortunately I find a legitimate reason for everything I buy so I Have no regrets 😂😂 but I’m not into designer stuff only Chanel bags but I wouldn’t buy one but would accept one as a gift 😁

  • @AnnerzDrum
    @AnnerzDrum 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is honestly the big sis I needed. 🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @jamariwhite4384
    @jamariwhite4384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "Yall...I'm not even a hoe!" That took me out LOL

  • @msieeonTV
    @msieeonTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes!!! Feel you on the luxury car! My truck is VERY needy!!!

  • @amari2641
    @amari2641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lol! When you said, "Y'all, I'm not even a ho!" I straight up died laughin! We all do it. We all make unnecessary purchases. I love your honesty and genuineness.

  • @Angelied
    @Angelied 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    for me, I have wasted so much money on cheap ass clothes. I have resold them but ofc you never get even half of your money back. I had a shopping addiction, I'm sure. I thought that clothes would make me happy but really I had bigger problems than those. It was like a stupid scapegoat that at the end of the day made me waste hundreds of dollars. I know better now

    • @se2664
      @se2664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes fast fashion is a waste of money especially if the outfit is trendy and only meant to be work during night outs at the club or friends

  • @Kluermoi
    @Kluermoi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    You sound like you regret buying everything in your life 😂😂😂 but we definitely appreciate the honesty. I agree with the luxury perfumes. I now buy the small versions of perfumes so I can actually finish them… oh and the Baccarat perfume for me has been one of my recent stupid buys, it’s not even all of that!

    • @sashafurby1383
      @sashafurby1383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So me after buying baccarat

    • @Seaney4eva
      @Seaney4eva 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I couldn't do it. I brought the generic oil for 7.00 🤣😂🤣 it's all gone 2

    • @RanaRaf
      @RanaRaf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Seaney4eva you made me laugh out loud

    • @akossiwa9079
      @akossiwa9079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right that red bottle everyone rave about is sooo basic and similar to other scent.

    • @livelovely4681
      @livelovely4681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Seaney4eva Right, scents and makeup are things I cannot splurge on! I grew up in the hood so I know how to make beauty supply and the oil man work! 😂😂😂 Food, clothes and bags are another story lol

  • @BlkMedusa
    @BlkMedusa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The ONLY perfume I would ever spend hundreds of dollars on is Delina. It’s $300 but it drives me crazy

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hmmmm. I need to look into that! Never heard of it

    • @janetmunyirich9429
      @janetmunyirich9429 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's the delina Exclusif for me

    • @Kiarra1983
      @Kiarra1983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Parfums De Marley make beautiful, feminine perfumes. I have Delina Exclusif and Delina body cream and have Cassili on my wishlist.

  • @ravenclay495
    @ravenclay495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Girl, it feels like every time I leave my apartment I buy unnecessary things. But my thing is buying sneakers .

  • @sherriejeter477
    @sherriejeter477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Girl you right the new Kia’s, Ford, are 🔥 in my opinion and them shoes are cute I be buying mad face cream for 200 300 dollars I’m 35 I be feeling mad old waste of money now I just go by Neutrogena

  • @1NonlyJojooooo
    @1NonlyJojooooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would literally listen to her every day ❣️

  • @dfam742
    @dfam742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My favorite person off Growing up Hip Hop!!! Keep the consistency coming. Great videos!!!

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️😘😘🥰🥰

  • @ksel7281
    @ksel7281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Can't wait for Part 2!!!

  • @ninabeena83
    @ninabeena83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The shoes! The bags we bought for “some” “reason” 😂 and then only carried once!
    Girlllll I poshmark’d SOOOO many costly shoes the last time I moved and really had to clean house 😂 Absolutely learned my lesson there, then recently stopped myself from buying yet another $$$ fragrance 🤣 the struggle is real!

  • @MsPbass
    @MsPbass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The dumbest thing that I spent money on was 7k on someone else’s teeth who promised to pay me back. 5 years later still ain’t got my money back. Needless to say I won’t make that mistake again!!! 🤬

  • @TingleTherapyASMR1
    @TingleTherapyASMR1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Do more videos like this!!! Very interesting

  • @natashaaraujo1597
    @natashaaraujo1597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I love your content! This video speaks to me , I have a habit of buying high heels and never wearing them 🤣 😭

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Neverrrrrr 😭😭

    • @matxalenc8410
      @matxalenc8410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So do I. I've stopped now, but sometimes I get tempted!

    • @traditionalwomanmodernworl2267
      @traditionalwomanmodernworl2267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too! But I know I can’t walk in heels so…I haven’t spent over 100 on none though

    • @Suziee_Suee
      @Suziee_Suee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn😭 me too😂

  • @raemaxey3401
    @raemaxey3401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great content! I would have to say the dumbest thing I’ve spent my money on is my small Gucci hand held ones. One was 600 and another was 250 and I never carry them.

  • @amely6932
    @amely6932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love your top. I haven't tapped into luxury brand stuff yet but this is helpful.

  • @TiasjahAtchison
    @TiasjahAtchison 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are one of my favorite TH-camrs I love how you articulate yourself but are also very entertaining I will continue to be a great supporter of you you help me embrace my girl Side watching your videos

  • @Demettrie
    @Demettrie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have definitely been meaning to try scent bird. I love smelling good but the price of cologne is outrageous. Definitely gonna use your code. Thank you boo! 🥰

  • @whatwouldmygrandmado4312
    @whatwouldmygrandmado4312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    you look cute! the dumbest thing I've brought was that PYRAMID SCHEME! $400 wasted.Also, lash classes. Never did lashes cause I found out I can't really see in one eye like that. yes! Part two!

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg! Lmaoooooo!

    • @se2664
      @se2664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Which pyramid scheme ? 99% don’t actually make enough money

  • @se2664
    @se2664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The dumbest thing I’ve spent my money on were designer medium sized purses: MK & Coach. I barely worn them in public so I gave my MK to my mom then sold the coach purse

  • @kyameshiajoseph8388
    @kyameshiajoseph8388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm still tryna learn scentbird, currently on a break because I've gotten more misses than hits. You named two that I'll look into tho.. &I can't think of anything off the dome that I regret purchasing because I was raised in a frugal, low income household so finding a discount is one of my many talents lol

  • @AbaitheyBeauty
    @AbaitheyBeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As an esthetician, the crème is so basic full of chemicals I was a fan until I became a professional

  • @jeanellreynolds7291
    @jeanellreynolds7291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Girl the first pair of shoes are 🔥 you can wear them with jeans. I'm drooling and you just started the video. I agree with you about perfume I spend so much money on fragrances and try to save them for special occasions.

    • @se2664
      @se2664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes! I only buy rollerball designer perfume. Costed no more than $40. I have the Gucci bamboo that I paid $25 for and $40 for Good Girl by Carolina Herrera. I barely go out so I don’t need to buying full sized perfumes

    • @jeanellreynolds7291
      @jeanellreynolds7291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@se2664 so smart.

  • @MRSCOOKIE205
    @MRSCOOKIE205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love love love your honesty‼️ it all makes since.🙏🏽❤️

  • @ebonik6440
    @ebonik6440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so proud of you with the consistent uploads !!! 💕💕💕 I’m loving your content. Sit down videos and vlogging.

  • @themachos2473
    @themachos2473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Some 2,000 dollar Dior shorts that I only wore once and put back in the saks bag only to find out that my husband threw it away thinking it was just the bag 😩

    • @kiaj.d.5855
      @kiaj.d.5855 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh no chile😭

    • @tianachet713
      @tianachet713 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would’ve cried

    • @themachos2473
      @themachos2473 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tianachet713 when I say I was pist

  • @nwabisamzamo5653
    @nwabisamzamo5653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Those Louboutins are cute though 🥰
    Yes, yes I spend all my money on shoes (specifically heels) that I never wear.

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hate them now 😭😭

  • @thescales5247
    @thescales5247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If I had a half a mill to splurge with my first investment would be buying properties, opening up @ least 2(two) businesses that I know for sure wouldn’t go out of business at all & im working on that now 🤞🏾🙏🏾 praying it happen real soon!!

  • @E.Nicole
    @E.Nicole 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I want the Bronco! You should go with a Lexus. It’s luxury and reliable with low maintenance cost. It’s essentially a Toyota, so it’s very reliable!

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really??? I never thought about a Lexus. Let me look up their trucks

  • @itwaszaira5986
    @itwaszaira5986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    paying a $200 tab at a “luxury” Hawaii restaurant, that was on the 36th floor where you got the “whole view of the strip & beach”… just to be sat in the corner, behind the bar, server station and a trash can AND I was sitting there celebrating my anniversary w/ my boyfriend. I cried ! 🥲

    • @Petitedelight87K
      @Petitedelight87K 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He made you pay ? I would of cried too. No judgement, bc I have paid for date…

  • @nataliamoore955
    @nataliamoore955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Revair hair dryer. Watched it for a year because I just couldn’t see myself spending over $400 on a hair dryer. But I was at my wits end with this fine textured 4c hair and the girls said it was worth it. I got it $100 cheaper on a sale and thought I was doing something😒it’s been a year and I’ve used it twice. It doesn’t get my hair that straight and really doesn’t cut the drying time down at all. I’m bringing my shame here because I’m the most frugal of all my friends and they would flay me if I showed my shoppers remorse to them😭😂

  • @Dearashleythatsmee
    @Dearashleythatsmee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve spent over $100+ on planners I don’t use 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @Tai.tv17
    @Tai.tv17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The dumbest thing that I spend my money on his Uber eats from places that I can walk to or drive to

    • @yazzzzz7758
      @yazzzzz7758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omgggg this is me

  • @_MrsYeah_
    @_MrsYeah_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I sent 10k on my bedroom set and bought every piece…this was in 2016. I still have it tho. But it’s a very “ sensitive” set.

    • @kiaj.d.5855
      @kiaj.d.5855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Damn sis that was an expensive set!

    • @tianachet713
      @tianachet713 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is it real wood lol

  • @DomKennedi
    @DomKennedi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It’s the consistency for me!

  • @tamanim
    @tamanim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Part 2 pleaseeee! The dumbest thing I spend money on is clothes(sometimes). I many clothes that still have tags that I no longer can fit and have to donate.

  • @cameronanb
    @cameronanb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I definitely wasted my money on an iPhone, that I already returned 😂 I paid $180 extra because I was being impatient and had no other choice but to get what was left, which was an iPhone 12 Pro Max, when I wanted the 13 pro max. Then had to pay $100 extra for the 256 gb (which I’d never even use half of) for a color I didn’t want. 😩 I had to talk some sense into myself real quick!

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Only SOME iPhones are worth the money

    • @cameronanb
      @cameronanb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ayanafite seriously!

    • @se2664
      @se2664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I bought the iPhone SE and I regret it. I should have upgraded to another Android . Apple always wants money!! I NEVER in 6 years of having an Android had to pay extra for storage on top of insurance and service charge. I’m not spending $95 as a single line for this damn phone

    • @cameronanb
      @cameronanb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@se2664 what made you switch after 6 years?

    • @se2664
      @se2664 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cameronanb I switched because I no longer wanted to be on my moms phone plan. So I found out that Verizon was having a promotion deal for the iPhone SE where the $16.66 finance would be zero. So I only pay for the service plus insurance, yet it’s $90 with auto pay 😒

  • @WeedieWii
    @WeedieWii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I use scent bird and the best fragrance I've gotten is Michel Germain sexual noir! Love it!

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oohhh ima get that one next month!

  • @se2664
    @se2664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A dumb purchase of mine is using Verizon as a cellphone carrier. They’re too expensive. Once my contact ends I’m going to switch to companies like mint mobile that only charge 25/month for service

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have Verizon. So expensive. I’m on my daddy bill tho 😭

    • @se2664
      @se2664 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ayanafite I no longer wanted to be on my moms plan anymore. I want to be the account holder so she doesn’t throw it in my face “well I pay for your phone” nonsense. Even when I was on her plan I still paid my portion

  • @Teeders
    @Teeders 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The dumbest thing that I spent money on that wasn't for me was a car for a now ex friend. I don't know why I decided to buy him a car but I figured if he had a car he could go to school, he could get a job; get his life together. He wrecked it a month later. Stupidest thing I have ever spent my money on and I should have probably gotten it in writing as far as paper, there are texts but I don't want anything to do with him. He showed his true colors a bit before and after I bought the car. We haven't spoken in over 3 years. He also tried to spin the story as it was my fault we aren't friends.

  • @Thatsnewsgirl
    @Thatsnewsgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your personality is bomb. I can watch your videos all day….oh and you are beautiful too 💕

  • @ilovejesus28mr
    @ilovejesus28mr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    120$ lux phone case when I ended up buying the newer iPhone 5 months later 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @otishathomas5192
    @otishathomas5192 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I looooved this! Great topic idea!✨💕

  • @somethinelse0930
    @somethinelse0930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have that look of disgust every time I spend money at a restaurant… Ugh….$150 later…. I could eaten at home!!!!! But perfume…everyday is a special occasion…. I shouldn’t think like this…. But I think of if i die tomorrow , this perfume sitting here left behind lol. So I spray away daily!!!

  • @ImaniRebecca
    @ImaniRebecca 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ive wasted my money on a pair of red bottoms I swore I was gonna wear for my bday 21st bday trip in NOLA.... I'm 30 now and never wore them.

  • @tammifields4142
    @tammifields4142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Enjoyed the video and appreciate your honesty!❤️❤️

  • @TR-qq2df
    @TR-qq2df 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I bought a pair of Chanel boots about 3 years ago and I’ve only worn them 3 time.

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good thing about Chanel…. It appreciates in value

  • @latoyalarkin6406
    @latoyalarkin6406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just love you! Your my friend in my head 🤣 And l regret wigs! Bought a lace front,glue etc and decided nah….this too much work lol

  • @lisaboyd3716
    @lisaboyd3716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You look so pretty!

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! 🥰

  • @tori3951
    @tori3951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this video! Lol please hit us with a part 2. this one hair style I spent like 400 dollars. I was in my early 20’s and just wilding with that one lol. I took it out after like a month and a half I believe

  • @renee4670
    @renee4670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Have you thought of posh mark? Or one of those sites where you can sell your stuff. Lol as I was writing this comment you mentioned posh mark....but some money is better than no money or the dust it will collect in your closet!! You know what to do you are a smart cookie!!

  • @michellearroyo816
    @michellearroyo816 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this part 2

  • @Kingdom913
    @Kingdom913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I bought a Dyson blow dryer, Dyson straightener, and the RevAir then had a bad breakup and did a big chop. Everything is still in their boxes 🤣

  • @RBOSTGLASS1
    @RBOSTGLASS1 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wasted money on two different dash cam that didn't work at all. Yes, please do part II video. 💞💞

  • @dajaninedd1
    @dajaninedd1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m dying laughing at the face cream that mad ur face itch.. I had that experience too.. I was mad as hell… thanks for the video Luv 💕

  • @eclark708
    @eclark708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your Honesty ❤️

  • @juliamabry
    @juliamabry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl you better get an Acura or a Honda lol they will outlast you. I be seeing 94 Hondas still on the road and they paying top dollar for buy backs right now get on it
    SN.. I'm loving the content I'm loving the consistency please keep it up I'm so proud of you

  • @netflixchill2928
    @netflixchill2928 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your honesty

  • @thatgirlPAIGE94
    @thatgirlPAIGE94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lmao I had that same Gucci bag but in black and I’ve only worn it a handful of times. I stay wasting money on handbags but I love them 😂

  • @jessicashevalier4199
    @jessicashevalier4199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ..."but I will complain"🙄
    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @DariusScott
    @DariusScott 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you so GORGEOUS! and gurl i TOTALLY understand.. lmao this video was well needed 💀🤍

  • @tiffanywhitehead6200
    @tiffanywhitehead6200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Those YSL shoes are the devil 👿!!!!!! And I’m learning to not just buy and sit on it for awhile and if i truly love it then buy it.

    • @ayanafite
      @ayanafite  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Satan made them shoes BY HAND!

  • @sharonhall3997
    @sharonhall3997 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have the same red Gucci bag and wore it maybe twice and I’ve had it for years. I agree 100%

  • @amiynasharma3111
    @amiynasharma3111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoyed this do another one plz...... I feel like drinks n food on vacation

  • @TheFlyyBohemian
    @TheFlyyBohemian 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a pair of ysl pumps that I spent a pretty penny on. I’ve had them for a year and still have not worn them because they are so uncomfortable.

  • @anyyyyyyyyyyyy
    @anyyyyyyyyyyyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes’ part 2!

  • @julianacheriza1575
    @julianacheriza1575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t like perfumes like the ones in Macy’s because a lot of them smell the exact same I just get Victoria secret one

  • @enifromtheville3399
    @enifromtheville3399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I paid out of pocket (in cash) $1500 for a class I thought I needed to graduate, and it was the wrong class

  • @Ikea9292101
    @Ikea9292101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl DONT buy no kia. My mom got one and my sis got one and it’s nothing but recall after recall after recall! Issues on top of issues. Save yourself the headache. And both of them bought them brand new off the lot

    • @kiaj.d.5855
      @kiaj.d.5855 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really? I have one and no problems at all. Got it new. I had other brand new cars that caused me a lot of trouble. I want a luxury car but my Sorento is great on gas etc.

    • @Ikea9292101
      @Ikea9292101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kiaj.d.5855 my mom and sis got it new. Issues didn’t start till a few years later. I hope you don’t have the same issues. But both my mom and my sister did. My mom has Serento and my sis had a optima

  • @marionlogan6069
    @marionlogan6069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Correction: Spinnanight bag. LOL