She not in love with the "Bad boy", she's in love with the drama. If the "bad boy" ever grew up and become responsible, she would fall out of love with him.
Exactly a bad boy can also make a woman feel good by taking away the pressure of having to be a good girl. While a good man can make a woman feel bad by showing her she's not a good woman.
Be yourself, and do not tolerate bad behavior. What you really miss in the video is this is all fantasy, and has nothing to do with reality. Like she said in the beginning about male fantasy. She got it some what wrong, but you don't go around acting like James Bond, while liking the movies.
Also, note that love-triangles are a-ok when it's a woman and two men, and it's always "Oh poor girl how can she possibly choose between them" and this will go on-and-on and rarely be resolved because women like the constant angst. On the other hand when it's a man and two women suddenly it's "why doesn't he make up his mind and stop leading them on?".
Even the police, who will often refuse to charge the woman and then tell the guy to "man up", and then even if it DOES get to a jury, the chances that a jury will convict a woman of assault is extremely low unless the guy has a ton of bruises and looks "defeated" by the woman (basically you have to look like the woman battered you beyond recognition). Like you gotta have teeth missing basically, or some sort of sob photos (and even then the woman who did it needs to look butch or "tough" or the jury may not "buy" that she did it beyond reasonable doubt). But hey, we supposedly are an "equal" society and yet only men have to register for the selective service. So our society has agreed to hypocrisy even in our legal codes.
Noticed that too. So crazy a woman can physically attack a man, throw things at him, verbally disrespect him, emotionally manipulate him… but she’s somehow still the victim and nothing happens to her. Yet a man has to just stand there and take it. If he does even a small percentage of what she did she can use it as a victim fuel to ruin his name or send him to jail. What a joke
The thing that makes the Notebook even worse is that he was in the war, half his friends died there and he came back home. He then loses his father and proceeds to build the dream house for wife he doesn't have. The guy is a fully self sacrificing for the betterment of others and sense of duty type of man, he's exactly the type that women hope they snag to settle down AFTER they've lived in up in their 20s. Not to mention a lot of women consider him gorgeous and he even has a few on the go to help stave off loneliness. She shows up at his house while engaged to another man and stays for dinner, then have a "fight" in the rain and proceed to bang. In the end the fiance breaks things off with her and she gets to hop into a full furnished life with the hot guy she always loved and then gets to have a family and he sticks with her until the end of their life. The whole film is demented pipedream where she is required to take no accountability and get's rewarded for all of her choices.
Women get mad when they can't change him and the get mad when he changes and is no longer the man she married. Even when he changes into what she forced him to change into.
Or she saddels him with kids and when he expects everyone to adhear to a standard of living for the sake of the kids she's jelouse and abusive to the kids.
She's almost right when she says "that's what feminism is fighting for". She neglected to add "they're fighting for the ability to get the benefit of the wealth of the secure guy that she married via divorce settlements, whilst also getting the excitement of the affair by running off with a new man." There is something about the whole thing that reminds me of a spoiled girl whose father never disciplined her and said "you can't have everything you want, because other people need consideration as well". That's feminism - the girl who never said sorry.
15:47 is Pearl hitting the bullseye: guys are attempting to rationally understand what is fundamentally irrational and feminism is based on the proposition that women can have their cake and eat it, too. …which is irrational.
Some men actually believe that being very ethical is the toughest and most masculine thing a man can do. An unethical, toxic man is childish, immature and unmanly. Why would a woman want that unless she was also immature and childish?
Because most women are boring and project that energy on men that ain't toxic because they believe a man is supposed to make them happy and they base there whole life relationship based on men making them always feeling something emotional if you don't they shun you and push you away.
they all do it - I've had one used to attack me with knives several times, eventually left her for the domestic violence accusations to come flying out. Police saw her lying to them and to courts but refuse to touch it. The number of friends it has happened to... sometimes it's even been the girl's mother (man's stepmother) who had to save the man by witnessing against extremities by their own daughter. But it never gets recognised under the law - our children would definitely be better off away from crazy women.
@@Nix_Pardus literally mate - I've seen it happen numerous times, not jut striking but far more damaging events such as throwing heavy saucepans, cutlery or crockery at one's face, sometimes in a constant stream.
Life is tough enough without the baggage of someone you have to constantly contend with or can't trust. Your home needs to be a place of refuge from the world's madness. Long story short if she needs drama you don't need her.
@elgatoconbolas like the guy in the movie said, never get less than 12 hours of sleep, never play cards with a guy whose first name is a city and never date a woman who has a tattoo of a dagger anywhere on her body, you stick with that and the rest is just cream cheese.
That's because no one is 100% happy, it's all about percentages. Everyone either wants "The Flintstones" or "The Prince and Princess in the Castle." Until both sides admit who they really are, they're going to have all of these side issues.
"Having it all" means divorcing the rich guy & having the rest of your life subsidized by his resources while you chase the guys who give you tingles but can't afford to give you the comforts that you "deserve"...
@ Eh, you're still subsidizing their lifestyle when you're paying 2-10x any reasonable costs for child support. My ex-BIL got hit with 3k a month per kid (9k total) - it is just absurd.
As a card carrying Septuagenarian who has lived life to the fullest…my advice to all young men beginning their journey. DO NOT BUY INTO THE TOXIC PSYCHOLOGICAL DRAMA…AVOID IT AT ALL COSTS…DO NOT FEED IT…maintain your self respect…protect your innocence.
@@christk76 War is the crucible of human endeavor. The greatest and fastest advances in technology and even in political awareness have been the results of struggle. Before WWII and after WWII compare women and minorities in societies, undeniable advancements in the moment and generated moving forward. Also consider the technological advances such as biplanes to jets and the advent of nuclear power, though that may end up being the ultimate double edges sword of course.
No, Pearl I’ll say it: seeking out your ex to have sex with while another man has asked for your hand in marriage and you are wearing his ring is wrong! Cheating by either the man or the woman is wrong.
well then dont hook up with chads. Take some responsibility for once If you don't want the drana/ cheating, just date a nice decent man. You can't expect to date the top 5% of men and expect them to be 100% faithful to you (unless you are very lucky) It is natural for men to want multiple partners. It's biology. Women on the other hand, across a cultures are frowned upon and looked down on for being promiscuous
The difference is that we men get bashed for it and women get applauded for it. Always notice that when a man cheats he’s a dog and how could he? When a women cheats it’s because she didn’t feel appreciated 😂😂😂😂 cheating is cheating right ?
And that Dear John where the fella goes off on one more tour of duty to fight for his country and his girl goes off with another dude, then he comes back and fights for her?? That's what women are being taught, to cheat and have this drama and be fought over, it's always been the same.
these modern women want 2 men fighting over them, then they end up with a random 3rd guy who happens to walk by and somehow makes her want to live her life to the fullest and experience and discover herself (sleep around). this has been going on for quite sometime now. it is only in recent years that it has come to the forefront.
"Far from the Madding Crowd" (1874). Three men compete for one girl, one guy gets killed, one guy goes to jail, she marries the guy who's left standing, the end. Chicks love this stuff.
The Notebook reminds me of 2 ends of my marriage. Early in the marriage we separated briefly, during which she had some sexual fun with a guy she worked with. When forced to make a decision between the two of us, she said “Well, you have more potential than him.” $$$$$ Then about 33 years later she was bored, started an affair with another guy (at church), and divorced me and took $310,000 of my money on the way out the door. So they will settle for the beta male for awhile. But once they get bored, they bail. 😡
If a relationship fails, leave it behind. Don't go back there. It didn't work out. Look for someone new. If you cannot leave old failed relationships in the past, they will inevitably interfere with future relationships that may actually have a chance to work without the baggage of the past creeping into it.
If the relationship does not work, go monk. Develop oneself professionally, physically and spiritually. A relationship*s end is Fate giving one a chance to get a handle on oneself, truly a gift.
Does women really think that we men don’t settle? We usually do. If we have a Barbie , then we settle for personality. If we go for plan Jane, then we settle on looks. That is life. The difference is, that any kind of man who is ever worth his salt, knows once you settle for the one to be a part of your family, then that’s it. You have a duty, responsibility.
Exactly right. Women on the other hand do not feel that sense of duty. Men placed their own health, safety and happiness last after taking care of spouse and children. Women place their own happiness first before spouse, and unbelievably even before their children sometimes.
I'm 65 yrs old and still don't understand women except that they seem to be ruled by their emotions and are just not reliable. If you keep that as a guide, you just might be ok.
It hurts my head to even try to understand the gap between what women do & say over against what they supposedly ‘actually’ mean about what they actually said and did.
Saddest part of the movie was seeing them as an old couple and reading her their love story so she could remember them, and she does at the end, briefly, before quickly forgetting due to Alzheimer's. I've seen it with too many people I know and can only imagine the unbearable pain of watching the person you love have no idea who you are and think you're a total stranger to be feared. James Garner did a really good job as Duke.
The wonderful thing is that she eventually goes with the poor guy. That's why it's called 'a fantasy', because it's what women would love to do but never do.
Plenty of films show ideals that could be, not what is. Action movies show the guy we'd like to be, powerful and courageous. These romantic films show the woman they should be (ultimately, in the end).
Problem is, when man watches batman, he wont put on costume and starts beating up criminals in streets. When woman watches titanic or notebook, they decide "yeah, I should be main character/ if people don't see me as main character its their fault"
@@noeldelcourt He's simply trying to help. Its something all of us will have to face when we die. Its the reality of the situation that we will have to give an account to Jesus Christ after our death, its simply the way things are.
@@DanielCampbell-h5z they say the patriarchy is oppressive. That's because it is. Kinda like how law and order and regulations are oppressive, but we need them for a functional society. Getting rid of the patriarchy is magical thinking. This explains the link between feminism and marxism. Marxism is faith that we can live as total equals with no need for government. It's anarchic utopia. The idea of no patriarchy, freedom to follow your emotions on a whim, is enticing, but totally unsustainable.
The rich dude is in the enviable position of being able to go: Go ahead and leave, there's 50 others just like you waiting to take your place. And don't come back.
This video is right on! A woman wants to "have her cake and eat it too". This why the concept of "open relationship" is gaining so much popularity with women. She can have her "security net" at home, while being able to hook-up with guys she REALLY find attractive. It's only when her "security net" finds his first gal, that she begins to worry. As he begins to see his gal more often, she accuses him of becoming emotionally attached, and wants HIS SIDE of the relationship to be closed. Arguments continue until he finally wants to end the marriage.
I really enjoyed your video explaining the intricacies of women. Because I'm not a person who watches these types of movies so never really thought about it.
Women love toxic relationship and the stories of because they then themselves don't have to take any responsibility nor accountability for their actions.
She would have gotten bored with Ashley three months after the nuptials. She loved the ""dream"" of Ashley, she would of bailed immediately on the reality. That women was a true psycho.
In Mad Men, Betty Draper picks a fight and pushes her husband, Don Draper and Don shoves her about two feet back. She realized that was a mistake and walked away.
Plain and simple… She’s a manipulator, emotional narcissist… on the level of emotional charlatans… They strike all the right cords to play a manipulative version… it’s tiring and immature…
The groom interrupting the band to announce his happiness, reminds me of Tom Cruise announcing to the TV world how crazy in love he was with Katie Holmes and it was just for show. As an actor we live for these juicy roles and how you have to prepare for it…pretending we have a history together.
Never saw the notebook and now never want to. As a man watching those scenes gave me complete anxiety, like misery. Why do women need to do that to us? GUTTED! And why don’t they realize it can never work because we have to lose our self respect to accept their behavior which then she will lose respect for us. A girl pulled this on me my freshman year of college and I ultimately had to walk away cause I would not be treated so poorly. She was my first real love and It took years to get over her but I sure had a heck of a great time doing it. It made me cynical about committing to a girl and I refused to do it and I only focused on myself, my degree and having fun. Some of the best years of my life.
@@gregweaver9877 You’re casually admitting you had no idea “resignates” ISN’T a word in the English language. This isn’t about using the right word. It’s about using a word that exists.
In the past, when the women chooses and marries, that is the end of it (generally). Now after a few years, she asks her husband for an open relationship as she wants all the options. Neither man ends up happy.
@@johnbarnas879 No, it's the borrowing power he can leverage against his acreage and the asset liquidity generated from his herd of hog and/or cattle. Not to mention the equity available via any tractors, combines or pickup trucks etc.
If men had a greater sense of self respect and self perservation, we wouldn't put up with being abused like that. We would just say, 'you walked off and so goodbye to you and have a great life'. And women would learn that actions have consequences.
In one of Alexander Grace's videos he quoted a study that show women never learn though and will repeat the same mistakes over and over. She may have some regret initially but it won't do anything to stop her repeating it.
These rom-coms used to just bore me or else mildly amuse me at best. But now most of them make me want to throw up or throw my TV out the window. The only one that's even close to the truth is "Love stinks".
She not in love with the "Bad boy", she's in love with the drama.
If the "bad boy" ever grew up and become responsible, she would fall out of love with him.
Exactly a bad boy can also make a woman feel good by taking away the pressure of having to be a good girl. While a good man can make a woman feel bad by showing her she's not a good woman.
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@@thatonkgau5221 well said. 💯
Exactly 💯
Excellent comment
Serious question: How are we ever supposed to have peace when one half of humanity actually can't stand peace and prefers drama instead?
MGTOW
How about this: be both options for her know her cycle... Be safe and secure when not on her period and then be chaotic on her period.. Just a guess.
Be yourself, and do not tolerate bad behavior. What you really miss in the video is this is all fantasy, and has nothing to do with reality. Like she said in the beginning about male fantasy. She got it some what wrong, but you don't go around acting like James Bond, while liking the movies.
the billion trillion zillion dollar question - we have to get back to the garden
Not all women dude.
Also, note that love-triangles are a-ok when it's a woman and two men, and it's always "Oh poor girl how can she possibly choose between them" and this will go on-and-on and rarely be resolved because women like the constant angst. On the other hand when it's a man and two women suddenly it's "why doesn't he make up his mind and stop leading them on?".
Like on is fickle and the other is not.
Good point, never thought of that one. If the situation doesn't benefit the woman in anyway shape or form, the men involved are in the wrong
That is a fair point because you’re right. At least as far as fictional movies or stories go
Agreed.
Lol such a dumb take. Have u ever watched any reality love show? Ppl think that regardless of male or female lol
Notice everyone is ok with the girl PHYSICALLY ASSAULTING a man. A felony by the way. Our society is so full of hypocrites.
Double standards it's a gynocentric world we just don't wanna accept that
Even the police, who will often refuse to charge the woman and then tell the guy to "man up", and then even if it DOES get to a jury, the chances that a jury will convict a woman of assault is extremely low unless the guy has a ton of bruises and looks "defeated" by the woman (basically you have to look like the woman battered you beyond recognition). Like you gotta have teeth missing basically, or some sort of sob photos (and even then the woman who did it needs to look butch or "tough" or the jury may not "buy" that she did it beyond reasonable doubt).
But hey, we supposedly are an "equal" society and yet only men have to register for the selective service. So our society has agreed to hypocrisy even in our legal codes.
Seperate _house_ from _garage_ and emphasize _printer_ from _ink_ and exploit the contrast by legal sources.
Noticed that too. So crazy a woman can physically attack a man, throw things at him, verbally disrespect him, emotionally manipulate him… but she’s somehow still the victim and nothing happens to her. Yet a man has to just stand there and take it. If he does even a small percentage of what she did she can use it as a victim fuel to ruin his name or send him to jail. What a joke
we live in a world where there are 10 different type of standards for different groups people etc and all of the men are on the bottom.
The thing that makes the Notebook even worse is that he was in the war, half his friends died there and he came back home. He then loses his father and proceeds to build the dream house for wife he doesn't have. The guy is a fully self sacrificing for the betterment of others and sense of duty type of man, he's exactly the type that women hope they snag to settle down AFTER they've lived in up in their 20s. Not to mention a lot of women consider him gorgeous and he even has a few on the go to help stave off loneliness.
She shows up at his house while engaged to another man and stays for dinner, then have a "fight" in the rain and proceed to bang. In the end the fiance breaks things off with her and she gets to hop into a full furnished life with the hot guy she always loved and then gets to have a family and he sticks with her until the end of their life.
The whole film is demented pipedream where she is required to take no accountability and get's rewarded for all of her choices.
In this type of situation, once she leaves, never take her back.
Damn right
Then the women would be seeing it as a crap movie, the woman wasn't able to do what she wants with zero accountability.
@lithari1480
Spot on correct.
In the film he drove her away, so the accountability for leaving was taken off of her.
@@nightmareTomekrewatch it. You are wrong.
Women love the bad boy. Ten years after marriage, she calmed him down. And then divorces him because he's not the man she married.
@@thomasmcray8195 They didn't calm him down, she shut his mouth
Women get mad when they can't change him and the get mad when he changes and is no longer the man she married. Even when he changes into what she forced him to change into.
Or she saddels him with kids and when he expects everyone to adhear to a standard of living for the sake of the kids she's jelouse and abusive to the kids.
Men fall in love idealistically...women fall in love opportunistically
@@millyardopeacecraft9778 other way around.
@@millyardopeacecraft9778 well said ☝️😌
Wrong and wrong
@@millyardopeacecraft9778 can you explain to me what this means? Sorry I’m still learning
Oh that's VERY good!
She's almost right when she says "that's what feminism is fighting for".
She neglected to add "they're fighting for the ability to get the benefit of the wealth of the secure guy that she married via divorce settlements, whilst also getting the excitement of the affair by running off with a new man."
There is something about the whole thing that reminds me of a spoiled girl whose father never disciplined her and said "you can't have everything you want, because other people need consideration as well". That's feminism - the girl who never said sorry.
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@@andyrwebman 😂 ‘Feminism is never having to say you’re sorry’
Narcissists.
Now that's a very astute observation!
The Notebook is their Fight Club.
😂😂
Oh Dear Lord… preserve us 🙏
LOL!
But yet their opponent never fights back.
Harold Valentine , a real man of genius moment. This Dos Equis is for you.
15:47 is Pearl hitting the bullseye: guys are attempting to rationally understand what is fundamentally irrational and feminism is based on the proposition that women can have their cake and eat it, too.
…which is irrational.
Some men actually believe that being very ethical is the toughest and most masculine thing a man can do. An unethical, toxic man is childish, immature and unmanly. Why would a woman want that unless she was also immature and childish?
Good point.
Exactly
Because most women are boring and project that energy on men that ain't toxic because they believe a man is supposed to make them happy and they base there whole life relationship based on men making them always feeling something emotional if you don't they shun you and push you away.
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You are naive.
Assaults him, “don’t touch me”
they all do it - I've had one used to attack me with knives several times, eventually left her for the domestic violence accusations to come flying out. Police saw her lying to them and to courts but refuse to touch it. The number of friends it has happened to... sometimes it's even been the girl's mother (man's stepmother) who had to save the man by witnessing against extremities by their own daughter. But it never gets recognised under the law - our children would definitely be better off away from crazy women.
The woman cries out in pain as she strikes you.
@@Nix_Pardus literally mate - I've seen it happen numerous times, not jut striking but far more damaging events such as throwing heavy saucepans, cutlery or crockery at one's face, sometimes in a constant stream.
@@gurglejug627 they get away with serious physical abuse like that...then accuse men falsely
Hometown poor boy won in the short term but eventually she'll cheat on him, claim she outgrew him, and get the house in a divorce.
See this every day. I've never seen a women recognize that destruction as their fault.
A theme they seem to enjoy.
@@Matthew10950 Nothing is their fault
Order and Chaos.
Adam and Eve.
Or the reverse, she settles for stability and certainty but fathers other guys children. That's the common scenario.
Life is tough enough without the baggage of someone you have to constantly contend with or can't trust. Your home needs to be a place of refuge from the world's madness. Long story short if she needs drama you don't need her.
It's true, but such women are very few.
@elgatoconbolas like the guy in the movie said, never get less than 12 hours of sleep, never play cards with a guy whose first name is a city and never date a woman who has a tattoo of a dagger anywhere on her body, you stick with that and the rest is just cream cheese.
@@elgatoconbolas "very few" ha ha ha.... do You live in this world or are just an alien passing by???
THIS.
„It is better to dwell in the wilderness, Than with a contentious and an angry woman.“
Proverbs 21:19 KJV
Long story short . don't be a simp.
Nuff said…
@@Gary-lj7pi Every man has to go on a simp trip to grow out of it.
@@WellWisdom. nope,never had that problem.
WORD.
Laconic 🎉
Funny how many of these love stories revolve around cheating..
The Bridges of Madison County.
Funny?
almost all
And justifies cheating as well
That's because no one is 100% happy, it's all about percentages. Everyone either wants "The Flintstones" or "The Prince and Princess in the Castle." Until both sides admit who they really are, they're going to have all of these side issues.
Notebook and Titanic are HORROR movies!
So is Forest Gump.
@lukeskywalkerlucasfilm Quite right ! The women in Castaway and Forest Gump are pretty awfull too ! Run Forest Run indeed !
"Having it all" means divorcing the rich guy & having the rest of your life subsidized by his resources while you chase the guys who give you tingles but can't afford to give you the comforts that you "deserve"...
Until they ban lifetime Alimony.
@ Eh, you're still subsidizing their lifestyle when you're paying 2-10x any reasonable costs for child support.
My ex-BIL got hit with 3k a month per kid (9k total) - it is just absurd.
That's feminism
As a card carrying Septuagenarian who has lived life to the fullest…my advice to all young men beginning their journey.
DO NOT BUY INTO THE TOXIC PSYCHOLOGICAL DRAMA…AVOID IT AT ALL COSTS…DO NOT FEED IT…maintain your self respect…protect your innocence.
'Peace is boring. We need drama. If we can't find it, we will create some. Too bad if we hurt anyone... including ourselves.'
without peace there is no creativity just caos
@@christk76 War is the crucible of human endeavor. The greatest and fastest advances in technology and even in political awareness have been the results of struggle. Before WWII and after WWII compare women and minorities in societies, undeniable advancements in the moment and generated moving forward. Also consider the technological advances such as biplanes to jets and the advent of nuclear power, though that may end up being the ultimate double edges sword of course.
usually they hurt the children - and quite deliberately
@danconnolly2341 Killing more people faster... 🤔.
But you don't need war to improve farming, medicine, and contruction technology.
No, Pearl I’ll say it: seeking out your ex to have sex with while another man has asked for your hand in marriage and you are wearing his ring is wrong! Cheating by either the man or the woman is wrong.
Yes unless you have an open relationship
Nope. Still wrong. Having Intercourse with anyone you are not married to is wrong.
@Sean: In this society women cheating is celebrated, but women still complain, they’re never satisfy.
well then dont hook up with chads. Take some responsibility for once If you don't want the drana/ cheating, just date a nice decent man.
You can't expect to date the top 5% of men and expect them to be 100% faithful to you (unless you are very lucky)
It is natural for men to want multiple partners. It's biology.
Women on the other hand, across a cultures are frowned upon and looked down on for being promiscuous
The difference is that we men get bashed for it and women get applauded for it. Always notice that when a man cheats he’s a dog and how could he? When a women cheats it’s because she didn’t feel appreciated 😂😂😂😂 cheating is cheating right ?
This is why established men should aim to marry virgin women, avoid the baggage and toxic drama
@johnbaldwin2904 virgin women??? You'd need to date 13yo girls and that would get you in jail..
@richardbaker595 , so to imply only 13 year olds are virgins is disgusting
Most people are not virgins when they marry, that is a fact.
@vickimann3262 , in the United States you might be right. In other cultures it is common to wait until marriage
There are no virgins today.
Notebook: why would anyone tolerate a psycho like that?
@@whiterabit09 It resignated. Make up sex
She is not yours it's just your turn .
@@mafia_dave32 💯
They want 3 things, a monogamous player, a safe gangster and a rich freeloader.
Exactly. And they will use the force of the state(simps) to get it
The notebook is one of the most TOXIC movies of all time. That was not a healthy relationship.
Agreed! Like Titanic but on land!
And that Dear John where the fella goes off on one more tour of duty to fight for his country and his girl goes off with another dude, then he comes back and fights for her?? That's what women are being taught, to cheat and have this drama and be fought over, it's always been the same.
@@lasvegasplease Or the Illiad
Didn’t the people who manufacture this indoctrination give it a few “academy” awards?
Some are chaos bunnies, some are resource vampires, some are both. A very small number are neither.
Nailed it!
Exactly
these modern women want 2 men fighting over them, then they end up with a random 3rd guy who happens to walk by and somehow makes her want to live her life to the fullest and experience and discover herself (sleep around). this has been going on for quite sometime now. it is only in recent years that it has come to the forefront.
"Far from the Madding Crowd" (1874). Three men compete for one girl, one guy gets killed, one guy goes to jail, she marries the guy who's left standing, the end. Chicks love this stuff.
Or is called generic disposition...
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@brandocalrissian3294 and somehow after all of that, women still initiate 70% of divorces 🤣
Facts fighting over her validates her
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Titanic taught us that the fundamental female fantasy is for a man to serve her by laying down his life. 🤷♂️
Life has taught many of us that the juice ain't worth the squeeze.
It's a "Black Widow" movie.
So she assaults him and some women think it is OK.
Misandry pure Misandry.
Moral of the story: 'resonate' is the word you're looking for
How…HOW does she not know this? “Resignate”? That’s not even a word!
Came here to make this point. 😂 Like she’s splitting the difference between resignation and resonate.
@@bjornhurri came here to say that. Thank you 🤝
@@bjornhurri women ☕️
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The Notebook reminds me of 2 ends of my marriage. Early in the marriage we separated briefly, during which she had some sexual fun with a guy she worked with. When forced to make a decision between the two of us, she said “Well, you have more potential than him.” $$$$$ Then about 33 years later she was bored, started an affair with another guy (at church), and divorced me and took $310,000 of my money on the way out the door. So they will settle for the beta male for awhile. But once they get bored, they bail. 😡
Sorry to hear. It's what happens when you permit her to leave the house without you or a good watchdog she respects like her father.
A guy at Church? As much as I'm pro-religion I'm not surprised, a lot of fakers in Church.
@@stephenkilpatrick807 u should have never ever accepted her back into ur life
To me there is no such thing as alpha and bèta just first choice and second choice,but there are normal People and simps
@@stephenkilpatrick807 sorry to hear. Expensive lesson to learn.
If a relationship fails, leave it behind. Don't go back there. It didn't work out. Look for someone new. If you cannot leave old failed relationships in the past, they will inevitably interfere with future relationships that may actually have a chance to work without the baggage of the past creeping into it.
If the relationship does not work, go monk. Develop oneself professionally, physically and spiritually. A relationship*s end is Fate giving one a chance to get a handle on oneself, truly a gift.
@@eugenefirebird8938 Going back to a failed relationship is like hoping the sour milk in your fridge will be better tomorrow.
Thank you for keeping me from having to watch The Notebook.
My thoughts exactly.
Does women really think that we men don’t settle? We usually do. If we have a Barbie , then we settle for personality. If we go for plan Jane, then we settle on looks. That is life. The difference is, that any kind of man who is ever worth his salt, knows once you settle for the one to be a part of your family, then that’s it. You have a duty, responsibility.
Exactly right. Women on the other hand do not feel that sense of duty. Men placed their own health, safety and happiness last after taking care of spouse and children. Women place their own happiness first before spouse, and unbelievably even before their children sometimes.
Horrifying, yet informative. thanks again Pearl
Facts, they love the drama.
True. They need something to talk about with their girlfriends. They can't talk much about a normal, decent man.
Fun fact: They despised each other irl
they are immature. most of them stopped maturing when that eggplant ride happened.
They are toxic and so is their drama
''What do YOU want''? He is using logic to force her to come to a solution. She's stuck with the drama of her emotions.
She wants the drama to continue forever!
Peace and stability bores and confuses women.
🤣💀🤣 @ confuses looool!!!
Confuses?
The monks were probably on to something
@ Confuses. When life isn't a emotional roller coaster women don't know what to do.
I'm 65 yrs old and still don't understand women except that they seem to be ruled by their emotions and are just not reliable. If you keep that as a guide, you just might be ok.
woman understand woman and rarely are truly friendly, so u're better not understanding.
@@Siolioli There's this thing about women understanding women, but in reality, many woman don't even understand themselves.
Yeah that’s physically assaulting him. No person should have to deal with that.
Most of them love the toxicity and endless drama because it puts the spotlight on them and they are the center of attention, which is their goal.
Ime there are a LOT of women that want attention far more than they want sex
Who has the energy for all this drama. Looks exhausting 😂
If you haven't done the BABY MAMA DRAMA you have no idea what a mouthful you said.
It hurts my head to even try to understand the gap between what women do & say over against what they supposedly ‘actually’ mean about what they actually said and did.
Saddest part of the movie was seeing them as an old couple and reading her their love story so she could remember them, and she does at the end, briefly, before quickly forgetting due to Alzheimer's. I've seen it with too many people I know and can only imagine the unbearable pain of watching the person you love have no idea who you are and think you're a total stranger to be feared. James Garner did a really good job as Duke.
The wonderful thing is that she eventually goes with the poor guy. That's why it's called 'a fantasy', because it's what women would love to do but never do.
Plenty of films show ideals that could be, not what is. Action movies show the guy we'd like to be, powerful and courageous. These romantic films show the woman they should be (ultimately, in the end).
Bravo again standing ovation
Problem is, when man watches batman, he wont put on costume and starts beating up criminals in streets. When woman watches titanic or notebook, they decide "yeah, I should be main character/ if people don't see me as main character its their fault"
Moral of the story:- don't get married
Moral of the Story: GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST TODAY
@@matperegrinus656d Moral of your story... We don't care. Do what you want and stop the preaching... It's annoying.
@@noeldelcourt He's simply trying to help. Its something all of us will have to face when we die. Its the reality of the situation that we will have to give an account to Jesus Christ after our death, its simply the way things are.
Who is "we" speak for yourself😂😂😂 or shut up🤪
The preaching is not forcing you or pushing a negative is it!?@@noeldelcourt
@@NathanAmiel That's a delusion. It's hope. It's a fantasy of the mind. But, if it makes you happy, why not?
Good job Pearl you are a blessing to many guys exposing these things.
These women go for the safe guy then divorce him taking that safety and security with her to the slimeball she really wants to be with.
Never get Married
Don't call that guy the slimeball. She's the slimeball.
@@BubuRuzu true
@@BubuRuzu she certainly is. Yet, championed on by 'progressive' society for her ways.
Then the slimeball blows all the money and she comes crawling back only to find he's moved on and closes the door in her cheating 304 face.
She nailed it! Who and what women like changes like the wind. That is the problem and also why a society needs a patriarchy.
@@DanielCampbell-h5z they say the patriarchy is oppressive. That's because it is. Kinda like how law and order and regulations are oppressive, but we need them for a functional society. Getting rid of the patriarchy is magical thinking. This explains the link between feminism and marxism. Marxism is faith that we can live as total equals with no need for government. It's anarchic utopia. The idea of no patriarchy, freedom to follow your emotions on a whim, is enticing, but totally unsustainable.
Women have not changed since Eve listened to the looooong snake in Eden
They are definitely not equally attractive. That dude is out of her league.
He is like Ryan Reynolds tf u on
They both are.
The rich dude is in the enviable position of being able to go: Go ahead and leave, there's 50 others just like you waiting to take your place. And don't come back.
This video is right on! A woman wants to "have her cake and eat it too". This why the concept of "open relationship" is gaining so much popularity with women. She can have her "security net" at home, while being able to hook-up with guys she REALLY find attractive. It's only when her "security net" finds his first gal, that she begins to worry. As he begins to see his gal more often, she accuses him of becoming emotionally attached, and wants HIS SIDE of the relationship to be closed. Arguments continue until he finally wants to end the marriage.
I really enjoyed your video explaining the intricacies of women. Because I'm not a person who watches these types of movies so never really thought about it.
When one promises to "love...until death do us part" and doesn't love when making the vow, they're a liar and an oathbreaker.
That’s why divorced women largely end up in despair.
Im older 62. Been thru most everything. Dont need the advice girl but subscribed now for the laughs and stories 😅😅
Refreshingly honest about women.
Well done, and... thank-you! 🤗
"DON'T TOUCH ME!" ...After she physically assaults him for duration.
Women love toxic relationship and the stories of because they then themselves don't have to take any responsibility nor accountability for their actions.
The chaos gives you a sense of purpose.
She wants to be the one to end the relationship.
If The Notebook wasn't that old I'd swear it was written by AI. It's so cynically designed to get inside the female mind.
Pearly should be an expert on toxic relationships
Scarlet O'Hara loved Ashley but had 3 other husbands. In the end she loses all of them.
And all of the suitors before she got married.
@@kiqueenbees Luckily, she had Tara.
She would have gotten bored with Ashley three months after the nuptials. She loved the ""dream"" of Ashley, she would of bailed immediately on the reality. That women was a true psycho.
Only women love drama films and series because they are full of drama and chaos. They are drawn to it! They crave it!
The assault casually accepted🤡
In Mad Men, Betty Draper picks a fight and pushes her husband, Don Draper and Don shoves her about two feet back. She realized that was a mistake and walked away.
Wow!!! What an eye opening video!!! You knocked out the park with this video great job!!!
That guy in fifty shade’s-take away his look’s, status and money.All you’re left with is a creepy guy with a dodgy basement
Fairytale ending does not happen. Once a woman leave, you can never get back what you had.
It’s because they get ran through then come back
Men need a battle to fight, an adventure to live and a beauty to rescue.
And wisdom to live by
My whole life ive looked down on women for this exact reason.
Plain and simple… She’s a manipulator, emotional narcissist… on the level of emotional charlatans… They strike all the right cords to play a manipulative version… it’s tiring and immature…
There's a reason that up until some 70 years ago, just about every Civilization severely restricted females' rights and autonomy.
Yup and its going to go back that way in the next few decades in the west.
Here’s reality - both men would have left her for her shenanigans
You underestimate simps.
@ She wouldn’t narrow down her top 2 final choice picks to simps. She would have already used the simps a long time ago.
@VegasStyleDayTrading true that my guy even if she accidentally picked one she would cheat on that simp in a second and dip out
@@BubuRuzufr😂
@@noap1n1on It was way less common for them to dip out before no fault divorce. You can thank the Reagan administration for that one
Sweet Home, Alabama, is the exact same movie and every Hallmark movie.
Oh Dear Lord Spare us 🙏 😳
One of my girlfriends told me it was the worst written books and she stopped reading it. 50 shades of gray.
She actually sounds like a keeper 👍
Yes she knew it would be much better in real life. 😉
A woman not liking that book's a green light.
Exactly
The scenes from the movie in this video are atrocious. It feels like watching a high school play.
The groom interrupting the band to announce his happiness, reminds me of Tom Cruise announcing to the TV world how crazy in love he was with Katie Holmes and it was just for show. As an actor we live for these juicy roles and how you have to prepare for it…pretending we have a history together.
Brilliant commentry Pearl! Spot on in every detail! Well done! Well done! 👏👏👏👏👏
Some girls never recover from the attraction to bad boys and stepping in to the same trouble time and again.
thank you for confirming that the notebook was a horrible movie.
It's easy for her she just needs to get married to the rich guy, divorce him, take half of his money and go to the other guy
Which is what todays woman actually does.
Modern day playbook
Never saw the notebook and now never want to. As a man watching those scenes gave me complete anxiety, like misery. Why do women need to do that to us? GUTTED! And why don’t they realize it can never work because we have to lose our self respect to accept their behavior which then she will lose respect for us. A girl pulled this on me my freshman year of college and I ultimately had to walk away cause I would not be treated so poorly. She was my first real love and It took years to get over her but I sure had a heck of a great time doing it. It made me cynical about committing to a girl and I refused to do it and I only focused on myself, my degree and having fun. Some of the best years of my life.
The word you are looking for is "resonates", not "resignates".
She got a premium Illinois education what do you expect
Found the women in the comments
Lol
@@johndb1860 She's the one who gave 50 Shades of Grey the ok for print without a rewrite by someone who can speak English...
@@gregweaver9877
You’re casually admitting you had no idea “resignates” ISN’T a word in the English language. This isn’t about using the right word. It’s about using a word that exists.
In the past, when the women chooses and marries, that is the end of it (generally). Now after a few years, she asks her husband for an open relationship as she wants all the options. Neither man ends up happy.
Its all feeling and passion and no logic or reason.
Resonated, not resignated.
Dissonance, not dissidence, Pearl.
At least dissidence is an actual word
Cognitive Dissonance is a psychological condition
@@princessunicorn669 Yes.
Leave Pearl Alone it is the knowledge you gain from her. Nobody's Perfect especially in spelling.
It is not spelling, it is pronouncing. And those are different words. Pearl is not a snowflake. She can take it, thank you.
Great observation Pearl!
Great segment Perl
The universal question that never gets answered, "What do women want?"
Even Sigmund Freud wonders that.
At one point a farmer was seen as the highest social status position to have and all the women used to dream of marrying a farmer.
It's because he owns land. It's not the flannel shirt.
@@Richard_Albrecht Not the groovy straw hat?
@@johnbarnas879 No, it's the borrowing power he can leverage against his acreage and the asset liquidity generated from his herd of hog and/or cattle. Not to mention the equity available via any tractors, combines or pickup trucks etc.
Pearl #1. I agree with the talking points. Great
If men had a greater sense of self respect and self perservation, we wouldn't put up with being abused like that. We would just say, 'you walked off and so goodbye to you and have a great life'. And women would learn that actions have consequences.
In one of Alexander Grace's videos he quoted a study that show women never learn though and will repeat the same mistakes over and over. She may have some regret initially but it won't do anything to stop her repeating it.
Every Lifetime channel movie rolled into one
OH DEAR LORD NOOOoOoOoOOOOoOO 🫣!!!
She should do an analysis of legends of the fall.
In that one, she fell in love with an attractive guy, until a much more attractive guy caught her attention, pretty realistic really
These rom-coms used to just bore me or else mildly amuse me at best. But now most of them make me want to throw up or throw my TV out the window. The only one that's even close to the truth is "Love stinks".
Steven Hawking wrote books about how the universe worked but he said he could never figure out what went on in the mind of a woman.
Don't even try, it's just chaos.
Ummm....he was on Epstein Island; probably not the best example.
@@KingRandor82 I’ll give him a pass!
Steven hawking overated. Intellectual but not the wisest man on the planet
@@Insight-music Thanks for the insight Sir Einsteinian. We are now enlightened.
Awesome video... many truths here. It really resonated with me 😉. Thank you!