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  • "I'll never forget her. Her kindness changed my life"
    When Gwen revisits downton she recalls the help that Sybil gave her to rise up.
    Clip From: Series 6 Episode 4: As Tom and Sybbie settle back into life at Downton, the family and servants are surprised with the return of another old friend in unexpected circumstances. A visit from Sergeant Willis leaves Baxter with a dilemma and Thomas struggles to fill Mr. Carson’s shoes. A crisis takes Anna and Mary to London; will Bates find out what Anna has been keeping from him? Daisy has a bone to pick with Cora and Mary’s eye is caught by an admirer.
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  • @12classics39
    @12classics39 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1061

    I love how Isobel alleviates the awkwardness twice - after Mary rudely says “you had every opportunity,” Isobel turns the mood around by complimenting Gwen’s climb up the social ladder. And then when Rosamund subtly criticizes Gwen for considering Downton not good enough to stay, Isobel immediately praises Gwen for following her dreams. It’s clear where and how Matthew developed his incredible kindness.

    • @dobazajr
      @dobazajr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

      Isobel is always benevolent and optimistic person.

    • @kerriethompson2073
      @kerriethompson2073 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

      When is Mary never rude? 🙄

    • @supermom23
      @supermom23 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

      Isobel was the kindest person on Downton Abbey, 100%.

    • @FreeTibetFTW
      @FreeTibetFTW 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      @@kerriethompson2073 "You had every opportunity" ... well Mary had the opportunity to be polite and she didn't took it either

    • @raraavis7782
      @raraavis7782 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      ​@@FreeTibetFTW
      Indeed. But at least she kinda, sorta took it back with her final remark to Barrow.

  • @kerriethompson2073
    @kerriethompson2073 ปีที่แล้ว +1640

    The way Gwen remembers Sybill almost makes you want to cry.

    • @GavinBorchert
      @GavinBorchert ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Oh, I am~~

    • @charlescurrin2852
      @charlescurrin2852 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I absolutely agree... And it is one of my favorite scenes in the entire show...

    • @6elfauno9
      @6elfauno9 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Oh good I'm not the only one!

    • @smarty4405
      @smarty4405 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Almost? I am. Every single time. 🥺

    • @anujkalra6145
      @anujkalra6145 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Every time!

  • @hollabigT
    @hollabigT 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +352

    "Her kindness changed my life." is a beautiful delivery from the actress. Powerful, subtle, emotional.

  • @HandmaidsTaleComingForUsAll
    @HandmaidsTaleComingForUsAll ปีที่แล้ว +592

    What I love about this scene is that it captures the excitement people experience when they learn something new about a loved one that passed. For a moment they talk about them as if they were alive again. Very bittersweet and brilliantly acted.

    • @mariahoulihan9483
      @mariahoulihan9483 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      very true. Only around 5 years ago I heard my Father, who when young in the 1940s and was a successful boxer representing them had fought and beaten, more than once, a chap who went onto to win in both the Commonwealth Games and in the Olympics. My Mothers brother told me. he had spent a lot of weekend leaves from the Army staying with my parents when I was a little tot in the 50s. Dad ever mentioned it I discovered the name of the other ma and even found a video of him in later years. A great aunt of mine and her husband bought a second hand sideboard in the 40s and it was dumped by a grumpy delivery man outside. It was built like tank and they were struggling shifting it inside. Along came who smartly dressed, in suits, young men walking along the road who immediately said that was no job for lady and offered their help.. They took it inside. My Gt. Uncle told me my Gt. Aunt was extremely indecisive which where to put it in their sitting room and had the three men shifting it this way and that before she settled. She offered them a cup of tea and her thanks. right from the beginning my uncle had recognised one of them, a tall good looking young man - Prince Philip. Not sure if he was engaged to Princess Elizabeth then or if it was after they married. There was a inland Naval Establishment in the town and he was on a course apparently. He and his friend were off to the local pub past my relatives house. They had left saying how kind abut the offer of tea but they were meeting friends at the pub. As they left my Uncle enlightened my aunt who,by then, had the tin of polish out and was setting too on the sideboard.. bringing it up to her standard.. lol.. she kicked herself forevermore for not realising and 'having a good look at him' lol.

    • @MalteseAnna
      @MalteseAnna 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You're so right. Perfectly stated.

  • @vivianpowell1732
    @vivianpowell1732 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +319

    Sybil lives on. Even the mention of her name shifts the air in the room. You can see people taking stock, even if just for a moment, searching for their better selves.

    • @zyxw2024
      @zyxw2024 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Your comment is eloquent.

    • @vivianpowell1732
      @vivianpowell1732 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@zyxw2024 Thank you.

    • @SarahRenz59
      @SarahRenz59 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Oddly, the one thing I liked about DA was the way the characters often referred to loved ones who were no longer with them. Too many shows kill off a character, have maybe one or two episodes showing everybody grieving, and then it's like the dead person never existed. In DA there were plenty of episodes where they mentioned Sybil, Matthew, William, Lavinia, etc. Very true to life; memories of loved ones can pop up anytime and be triggered by even the most mundane things.

    • @vivianpowell1732
      @vivianpowell1732 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@SarahRenz59 Fine observation. "Speak, Memory" is the title of an autobiography, but it sums up what you have said here.

    • @loriar1027
      @loriar1027 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very insightful comment!

  • @mdotschrody
    @mdotschrody ปีที่แล้ว +1300

    I love this whole part of the episode. It was so wonderful seeing Gwen again and her being so successful. I also love how she's continuing Lady Sybil's kindness by reaching out to help other women. It's also so wonderful seeing everyone remember how amazing Lady Sybil was.

    • @lesleyanne5341
      @lesleyanne5341 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You do realise this is fiction? The class divide in the UK was very wide a 100 years ago, it would be highly unlikely that the daughter of an earl would have any meaningful discussion, let alone, assist a servant in obtaining employment.

    • @rohitkumara.s2399
      @rohitkumara.s2399 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@lesleyanne5341 That’s the beauty and magic of fiction and storytelling isn’t it

    • @Fatherofheroesandheroines
      @Fatherofheroesandheroines ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@lesleyanne5341 calm down it's just a show. Jeebus are you like this all the time lol.

    • @melinda_coffee_nerd
      @melinda_coffee_nerd ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Downtown Abbey was fiction? I thought it was live web cams spying in…😅

    • @jeanieolahful
      @jeanieolahful ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@lesleyanne5341exactly, which is why it made such a good plot line. What made Sybil unique is that she was rebelling against the class system, and was happy to help any girl trying to advance herself. Sybil was also very interested in women’s rights. While of course unlikely, the storyline is definitely plausible.

  • @filmsensei
    @filmsensei ปีที่แล้ว +672

    I love how Edith calls it as it is, too. That Gwen was in their house for 2 years and they never spoke! Pretty incredible.

    • @suziewhattley3917
      @suziewhattley3917 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Nice to see that snip Mary put in her place too.

    • @EstherHulst-Artist
      @EstherHulst-Artist ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@suziewhattley3917 Edith tried to improve and be more like sybil while Mary often got worse

    • @Hjalmar_an_Craite
      @Hjalmar_an_Craite ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@EstherHulst-Artist I think you haven't watched the show properly, Edith was as bad or sometimes even worse than Mary. Mary was at least upfront, Edith tried to always portray herself as a victim.

    • @EstherHulst-Artist
      @EstherHulst-Artist ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@Hjalmar_an_Craite i watched the show plenty of times, I just dont like Mary much. Yes Edith was bad but at least she changed a lot. I feel like Mary went back to the way she was after a while. And I do feel for Mary but she can be so cruel sometimes to those who arent her faves.

    • @johnnewcomb534
      @johnnewcomb534 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I think this got them thinking it's alright to work with and help others.Mary helped and stood up for Anna.Sybil.hired female editor.

  • @AnntheTheatreFan
    @AnntheTheatreFan 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Way to close and honor not one but two characters arch. So delicate and not intrusive or out of place. One of the best pieces of the show

  • @annsmith7207
    @annsmith7207 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    Sybil’s ability to see through the hierarchy “pretense” and help another woman to succeed was so kind but also very astute ! She was far ahead of her time as was Gwen!

  • @hannahsmart4494
    @hannahsmart4494 ปีที่แล้ว +658

    To be honest, I really like how out of all of them Mary was the one to recognise Gwen from somewhere, for a character everyone loves to remind is entitled and a bit snobbish, she did recognise Gwen's face, even if she couldn't remember where she'd seen it.

    • @WitchKing-Of-Angmar
      @WitchKing-Of-Angmar ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Mary was never snobbish, she just choose to get her way. If she was 90 everyone would be idolizing her.

    • @hannahsmart4494
      @hannahsmart4494 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@WitchKing-Of-Angmar It's just one of the words people who don't like her character use to describe her. She's my second favourite Crawley sister behind Sybil.

    • @emilycanfield2634
      @emilycanfield2634 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I also like that Mary takes a light jab at their schooling/education the sisters would have received. Mary was pretty modern and straightforward all considering

    • @Barnabydemossienaux
      @Barnabydemossienaux ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Mary isn’t a snob. She just recognises her station of birth and the responsibilities that follow. Vast difference.

    • @hannahsmart4494
      @hannahsmart4494 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Barnabydemossienaux I know that. Her haters never seem to though

  • @pawnshopleo
    @pawnshopleo ปีที่แล้ว +325

    "Her kindness changed my life."
    Then I literally cried so bad.

  • @Bobrogers99
    @Bobrogers99 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Mary's thank-you to Barrow at the end certainly had a double meaning!

    • @avi.chan23
      @avi.chan23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, like punching him right in the face 😂

  • @charlescurrin2852
    @charlescurrin2852 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    speaking of Lady Sybil... "her kindness changed my life..". For me, one of the most moving... touching lines in the whole series...

  • @JakobMahase_Bass-Baritone
    @JakobMahase_Bass-Baritone ปีที่แล้ว +512

    Sybil was such an amazing character. Her presence is felt long after she had passed!

  • @sayfalardaseyahat
    @sayfalardaseyahat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Hello. I'm writing this using a translation programme because I speak very little English. This series came to me in my most difficult days. My sister had an accident and was in a coma. I had to recover. And since that day, I have been watching this series every year for 10 years. The first time I watched it for the first time, I watched it in the original English with Turkish subtitles. I liked the British accent the most because of Lady Mary's speech. I'm trying to improve my English now. I'm trying to listen to the original language. While watching this episode, I remembered Sybil and cried. The strength of the series is the skill of the actors. I love you all very much, Downton Abbay cast :) Zamira from Ankara😍

    • @ashharijaywardena
      @ashharijaywardena 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Merhaba :) Yorumundan biraz duygulandım. Hem üzücüydü, hem de dokunaklıydı. Kardeşin kazadan sonra hiç iyileşti mi yoksa hala komada mı sorabilir miyim?
      Asıl senin gibi insanlara bayıldım, çünkü dil konusunda sahi bir güzelliğin peşindesin! Böyle bir zevke sahip olanlar nadirmiş bu zamanda. Haklısın, gerçekten güzel ve rafine İngilizce'sini öğrenmek veya uygulamak için bu diziyi çok uygundur. Ana dilim olarak İngilizce'yi bilirim ve aksanımla konuşma tarzım da dizideki bulunanlara benzer, en çok Mary'ninkine. Bazı kişi bu sebepten benimle alay eder, ama bence kıskanıyorlar ;) Sanırım zaten bilirsin ki günümüzde böyle konuşan genç kişi çok azdır ama umarım azınlıkta olmaktan korkmuyorsundur :D Güvenle gayretle devam, kardeşim! Başaracaksın.
      Türkçem kusurluysa affet beni... 3. dilimdir!

    • @infonut
      @infonut หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your admiration of others and desire to improve yourself are commendable.

  • @leiaslizzy
    @leiaslizzy ปีที่แล้ว +139

    "Her kindness changed my life." This line sums up Sybil for me. 🥺

  • @nichart
    @nichart 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I love how Allen Leech plays remembering Sybill. The misty eyes.

    • @monmothma3358
      @monmothma3358 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yeah, the way he smiles at first, but then when they touch on her death, his face darkens

  • @ereagan4
    @ereagan4 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    Such a great scene. I bet Barrow was taken aback by the fact that Gwen reached her new status because of the only person he ever felt showed himself any kindness and considered his only friend, Sybil. I wish Jessica didn’t want to leave the show. Loved her character.

    • @Rustie_za
      @Rustie_za ปีที่แล้ว +15

      She didn't "want" to leave, there was some friction with some of the cast. One does not just upend yourself from a sucessful production because you "want" to. They kept it out of the press, but there was more to it.

    • @ereagan4
      @ereagan4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Rustie_za I didn’t realize! I saw a few articles covering her departure with her saying she didn’t want to stay in her comfort zone.

    • @quentinnancy
      @quentinnancy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Can you elaborate?

    • @jameslyon2338
      @jameslyon2338 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@Rustie_za There's no evidence to your claim. Actors who are ambitious do ride a popular show and then jump off before it goes downhill to try and further their own careers. the Actor who played Matthew in Downton did exactly the same thing. Stop inventing drama where this is none.

    • @amyw6808
      @amyw6808 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      As much as it was sad to lose her character, the way it was done was fantastic and her death scene was phenomenally acted, especially by Allen Leech.

  • @pedanticradiator1491
    @pedanticradiator1491 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    The irony is is that the actress playing Gwen is probably the most upper class member of the cast

  • @deborahpinkey1264
    @deborahpinkey1264 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    Yes, everyone knows Barrow meant his "reminder" for evil. Thankfully, it all worked out for the good. What a beautiful remembrance from Gwen of Lady Sybil's goodness. That goodness lives on in Gwen's work with/for the working class women of the early 20th century England.

    • @WitchKing-Of-Angmar
      @WitchKing-Of-Angmar ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I love the dueling between bates and Barrow. Jedi vs Sith lord in this show. And they are such good sports off camera!

    • @deborahpinkey1264
      @deborahpinkey1264 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@WitchKing-Of-Angmar Mr. Bates had no problem calling Barrow out on his ish. Everybody else (except maybe for Mr. Carson, Mrs. Hughes, and Anna) was afraid of him. None of them wanted to get on the wrong side of Barrow or O'Brien. That nanny learned that the hard way. He knew the last Lady's Maid's secrets and used them to blackmail her into doing his bidding. That wench who tried to baby trap Tom would have gotten hers had Tom not enlisted Mrs. Hughes' wise help. You didn't mess with Thomas Barrow. Even Mr. Bates did not completely escape Thomas' venom. He put Bates' former wife onto Mr. Bates as he was trying to get on with his life with Anna. That one was another evil wench!

    • @WitchKing-Of-Angmar
      @WitchKing-Of-Angmar ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@deborahpinkey1264 oh she truly was rotten! Killing herself to blame Mr Bates. Unbelievably deranged.

    • @Historically
      @Historically ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@WitchKing-Of-Angmar haha they literally did lightsaber duels as part of a mini series in between takes

    • @audreykennedy90
      @audreykennedy90 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I never felt Barrows deserved to be butler at the end. He was too evil for too long.

  • @Starsnotdiamonds
    @Starsnotdiamonds 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    It’s great how Thomas got reprimanded by Robert afterwards. And Gwen did go downstairs and see everyone after :)
    And Tom’s fond smile of her, when Gwen recounts how Sybil helped her. He already knew because he was there when she got the job and they all hugged, but probably not all the little details.
    Mary was put in her place a bit too, as was Rosamund :) not by Gwen solely but by Sybil’s kindness towards her and their relationship.

  • @pierrebezard7547
    @pierrebezard7547 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Every man who must say "I am the Butler" is no true butler

    • @Xerxes2005
      @Xerxes2005 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Began reading this with Charles Dance voice but in ended with Jim Carter's. This is something Carson could have said, albeit in a more dignified way.

    • @specialunit0428
      @specialunit0428 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'll make sure you remember that when I have served the wine for you...

    • @12classics39
      @12classics39 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That’s why Thomas needed the growth that he achieved over the course of the final season for him to truly earn that title.

    • @adrianam4282
      @adrianam4282 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He knows nothing 😂

  • @daisylouisecaldwell
    @daisylouisecaldwell ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Daisy. Sybil was my favorite of the three sisters. She was ahead of her time - in fashion, in marrying the chauffeur considered beneath her class, in intellect, in giving of herself to help others!! She was the most interesting character in the series. I’m sorry she left.

  • @Kugelsuse
    @Kugelsuse หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I've tears in my eyes every time I watch that scene.

  • @trannel73
    @trannel73 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Gwen's dialect is so pretty. I could listen to her for hours.
    Remembering Sybil in this scene almost brought me to tears.
    Won't take long, that I want to re-watch Downton Abbey! Such a wonderful show.

    • @AlanHandsome_
      @AlanHandsome_ ปีที่แล้ว +19

      The funny thing is - the actress who plays her is actually posher than the people sitting having dinner. She’s a daughter of a Scottish Laird/Chieftan.

    • @Em-sz7bh
      @Em-sz7bh 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@AlanHandsome_isn’t she technically a “Lady” by Scottish standards?

    • @Starsnotdiamonds
      @Starsnotdiamonds 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s a Yorkshire accent :)

    • @capture_diaries
      @capture_diaries 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Even more impressive considering that's not her real accent. Rose Leslie (Gwen's actress) sounds posh in real life.

  • @nategraham6946
    @nategraham6946 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    I bet Thomas wasn't expecting that. Doing something sneaky and underhanded, only to be thanked.

    • @alphanerd7221
      @alphanerd7221 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There is nothing sneaky or underhanded about it.

    • @sanegayguy
      @sanegayguy ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Mary thanked him but afterward s, Robert told him off for trying to make Gwen look bad.

    • @brendawilkins9649
      @brendawilkins9649 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@alphanerd7221 It wasn’t maybe sneaky but it was definitely underhanded, snarky and ulterior motive of trying to make Gwen look bad. In the end it was Thomas who looked foolish and bad. Just like Anna warned him that his lordship wouldn’t like Barrow trying to underfoot Gwen. She was right.

    • @alphanerd7221
      @alphanerd7221 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@brendawilkins9649 She was disrespecting him an everyone there. Barrow is Mary's guy, and she liked it.

    • @shenggaibabiera7545
      @shenggaibabiera7545 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He's always jealous and miserable. ahahah!

  • @lizanna6390
    @lizanna6390 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Sybill helped her find opportunities but gwen got herself the training and got the job on her own merits. Sybill was an angel.

  • @innercircle341
    @innercircle341 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'm an old huge, working class bloke. I just found this channel.
    I bloody love Downton and I'm not ashamed

  • @capture_diaries
    @capture_diaries ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Anna: When were you a friend of Gwen's?
    Mrs. Patmeore: I wonder if Karl Marx might finish the liver pate?
    Molesley: Not when his daughter ran off with a chauffeur in the interim."
    The downstairs crew are a different kind of savage 😅

  • @ayakotami3318
    @ayakotami3318 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Her husband seemed so proud of her for once working for them. He seems like an amazing man. 😊
    But man I miss Sybil so much. 😭

  • @casebycase_904
    @casebycase_904 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Thomas is like a bitter spinster 😂
    And Gwen DID have all the opportunities to tell the family.
    But I like how Gwen climbed up. And the whole Sybil story was heart warming

    • @annsmith7207
      @annsmith7207 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Barrow's passive aggressive behavior and mean-spiritedness backfires on him and Gwen handles it all with grace and aplomb ! Barrow was such a small, nasty, petty and truly hateful character to have to deal with on a daily basis -- always plotting the "set-up" of some unaware co-worker. He lived for his mean antics!

    • @casebycase_904
      @casebycase_904 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @annsmith7207 he really was an awful person until his own actions caught up with him as you said. I'm glad he imploded the way he did, because it allowed him to really reflect.
      But to focus on the positives, you are right!! Gwen really was the superstar here!! She did handle it with grace. I was really really happy to see her return to downton like this. I love her lore and the sweet tribute to Sybil!! And im happy how the upstairs family welcomed Gwen too

  • @dawnkindnesscountsmost5991
    @dawnkindnesscountsmost5991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love that even Robert remembers the occasion, when Sybil wouldn't let him into the library while Gwen was busy in there.

  • @harryisamuggle
    @harryisamuggle ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This scene was so moving especially when they talk about Sybil.

  • @SPQSpartacus
    @SPQSpartacus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    With the added Real life situation of Rose Leslie Moving from Downton Abbey to an even bigger TV phenomenon - Game of Thrones.

  • @HighFlyinAFGuy
    @HighFlyinAFGuy 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Gwen’s speech at the end about Sybil always has me crying ugly tears. I’ve seen the show literally at least 20 times and every single time this has me crying.

  • @filmsensei
    @filmsensei 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I keep coming back to watch this clip from time to time. Everyone is so good in this. I mentioned Edith previously for being appalled at herself and her family for barely talking to staff. But I love the transition of Mary when she is agreeing with Thomas' calling Gwen out at first "Well, you had every opportunity" to say she used to work there but then moments later is hanging on Gwen's every word about Sybil. Then she basically turns a bit on Thomas because she sees what he was really up to, etc.
    Also, I love how Daisy is envious of Gwen, too, and sounds a bit bitter at first but then when she hears Thomas "landed her in it" she's like "Deliberately??" and gets protective of Gwen in a way. This was such an amazing show! Such a class in acting from everyone. One of these days I want to sit down and rewatch it all again!

  • @taylorvanbuskirk8040
    @taylorvanbuskirk8040 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This is one of my best memories of "Downton Abbey."

  • @rosierennie5867
    @rosierennie5867 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    "I wonder if Karl Marx might finish the liver pate" Oh Mrs Patmore 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @firewoman2863
    @firewoman2863 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Poor Thomas - He never quite got the timing right on any of his evil schemes.

  • @robboyte1101
    @robboyte1101 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I wish we could have the later scene when Lord Grantham reprimands Barrow for calling out Gwen. That would've been a nice coda.

    • @patbiggam8138
      @patbiggam8138 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen!

    • @alphanerd7221
      @alphanerd7221 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Barrow didn't do anything wrong.

    • @robboyte1101
      @robboyte1101 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@alphanerd7221 I'm not willing to debate the "wrongness" of Barrow's act. But it was unkind, at the very least. And that is how Lord Grantham feels as well. And he chastises Barrow for his behavior, which I feel was proper for his employer to do.

    • @lindalawton4455
      @lindalawton4455 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@alphanerd7221 disagree

    • @alphanerd7221
      @alphanerd7221 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@robboyte1101 She's the one that disrespected the entire staff by acting like her past as one of them was shameful, and made the Granthams look foolish by not mentioning it when they met.
      You are being gross and classist.

  • @teamturner3933
    @teamturner3933 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I lost my sister two years ago and this scene hits so different for me now. I’m always in tears by the end of Gwen’s story about Sybil.

  • @bexie1992
    @bexie1992 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    It seems whenever barrow tries to make someone look bad, it ends up backfiring on him.

  • @thecofieldcollection3792
    @thecofieldcollection3792 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    One of the best scenes of the entire series.

  • @TJTHEFOOTBALLPROPHET
    @TJTHEFOOTBALLPROPHET ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Downton Abbey is the greatest experience I have ever had as a viewer! absolute perfection in acting, character development, and cinematography!

    • @vivianpowell1732
      @vivianpowell1732 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel the same way about "The Winds of War", a 1980s television miniseries about the build-up to World War II. The series was based upon the novel of the same name by Herman Wouk. Mr. Wouk also wrote the teleplay for the series, which kept it faithful to his novel. The memorable stars were Robert Mitchum, Ralph Bellamy, Ali MacGraw, and Victoria Tennant.

  • @yannickdrmda5295
    @yannickdrmda5295 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    "I wonder if Karl Marx might finish the liver pâté" 😂

  • @Richardsonprincess00
    @Richardsonprincess00 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Thanks to Gwen who remembers her good friend who helps her get a job as a maid in this mansion by working hard until leaving the job for her dream job, she thanks Sybil for this help.

  • @Messier45_Pleiades
    @Messier45_Pleiades ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I loved Gwen. She was a great character. I cry every time I watch these scenes.

  • @user-pb2qb3ef9p
    @user-pb2qb3ef9p ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Why did this almost make me cry!?!?!

    • @oneness7866
      @oneness7866 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Her gratitude… ❤

    • @baleriondread5451
      @baleriondread5451 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "almost"? Tears are rolling!

    • @FireflyGirl2517
      @FireflyGirl2517 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because the mere mention of Lady Sybil has that effect on all lovers of Downton Abbey, but this was more than that. It brought her back to life for everyone for a brief, beautiful moment. 😊

  • @primrosepierrot
    @primrosepierrot ปีที่แล้ว +22

    they were all hanging on her every word about sybil. anything to bring her to life again

  • @Ryan-zk7wr
    @Ryan-zk7wr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Honestly this is the best bit of S6 for me. I’d completely forgotten about Gwen until this episode.

  • @al1792
    @al1792 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I like that Gwen ended up being successful but you have to understand why some of the other servants would be annoyed or feel undervalued.

    • @ockertbrits6907
      @ockertbrits6907 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Isn't it so typical human behaviour. They feel a bit envious, but it was Gwen who put in the extra work, training herself. Sybil just assisted her in taking the steps to move on. We so easily are envious of those successful, but then overlook the fact that they had put in the work and took the opportunities.

    • @al1792
      @al1792 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ockertbrits6907 Work hard? Are you joking?
      Do you realise that servants of those times were the hardest workers of them all.

    • @riyapatel6291
      @riyapatel6291 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@al1792 she was doing housemaid work AND saved to get a typewriter and the postal course and despite working all day practised and practised and in pitman shorthand if I'm remembering correctly.
      Gwen worked hard

  • @Peppi94
    @Peppi94 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Well, Thomas -- THAT kicked you in the butt, didn't it!! :)

  • @Bcsmith333
    @Bcsmith333 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Darling Sybil.

  • @HellsGayngel
    @HellsGayngel ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She should have turned around and said "You know nothing Thomas Barrow."

  • @Rosiecrossley1
    @Rosiecrossley1 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Oh bless lady Sybil for paving the way for Gwen and as for barrow he was clearly jealous and bitter about the former housemaid

  • @vapedad420
    @vapedad420 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    new drinking game, every time Isobel says "bravo!" take a drink.

  • @fionatsangarides6201
    @fionatsangarides6201 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    That was beautiful how they honoured her !!!!

  • @franz289
    @franz289 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Gwen forgot to add that she was an expert with the bow and fell in love with John Snow. She went by the name Igrette and her favorite line was “ You know nothing John Snow”.

    • @kvbstudios316
      @kvbstudios316 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And then married Kit Carson in real life!

    • @pedanticradiator1491
      @pedanticradiator1491 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@kvbstudios316 Kit Harrington not Carson

    • @monmothma3358
      @monmothma3358 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      *Ygritte.
      Otherwise, yeah.

  • @vexedmum9389
    @vexedmum9389 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I cry everytime I watch this scene. it was done so well.. I think I've seen the series about 7 times now. it was my go to binge when doing the dishes.

  • @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343
    @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    For me, the show was never the same without Sybil.

  • @yaang9258
    @yaang9258 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Sybill wanted to own her family's eyes to the future. they resisted and fought every step, but she did it. Her passing was tragic, but finally pushed the family towards a new path.

  • @barbaramoore5437
    @barbaramoore5437 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Gwen, the only one who actually was a Lady in real life ❤

  • @catcauldron217
    @catcauldron217 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The genius of
    Julian Fellowes 👏👏

  • @anncosten3222
    @anncosten3222 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I had forgotten how much I loved this series.

  • @Derek.Duquesne
    @Derek.Duquesne 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I like how Gwen already knew where the drawing room was.

  • @dergluckliche4973
    @dergluckliche4973 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Again missing the opportunity to show the reunion in the kitchen afterward where Robert tells Barrow about loyalty.

  • @gerardodelreal5106
    @gerardodelreal5106 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Masterful writing and storytelling

  • @underdog39
    @underdog39 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sybil was so kind hearted❤ GWEN was so gracious and loving and little like🥰😘🥰 just beautiful 😍

  • @tetrulz
    @tetrulz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love how Barrows plan backfired lol

  • @benspigener3037
    @benspigener3037 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Gwen had the guts to stand up to barrow's cruelties!

  • @williambotha5864
    @williambotha5864 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Possibly the most complex and beautiful scene in the series! The interplay between class and relationships whips to and fro for three minutes leaving us all a little stunned, but warmth radiating through every fiber, with a little delicious pleasure at seeing Barrow flummoxed yet again!

  • @carolyngrant745
    @carolyngrant745 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I love this whole episode - it was great to see Gwen again! - but always disliked how Mary (and Rosamund, to some extent) made jibes about Gwen not wanting to mention she was a maid and wanting a different job. Then they do a complete 180 once they hear that Sybil was involved. It makes sense for the characters, but it still seemed unfair to Gwen, considering they come from a higher class family and never had to work a physical labor job or worry about changing jobs, unlike her. The other Crawleys at least were kind and even apologized for not recognizing her.

    • @fantastischfish
      @fantastischfish ปีที่แล้ว +5

      In a later scene, Mary regrets her actions and says so to Anna. Mary first instinct is to use her power to assert dominance. Her character arc is that she learns to soften this throughout the series.

    • @27d37
      @27d37 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love the way Mary's face just switches from confident and haughty to ashen and regretful. Great acting.

    • @thenightporter
      @thenightporter 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good points.

  • @hullahulla
    @hullahulla 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just realized they played Sybil's theme as Gwen was pulling up alongside the servant theme, what a nice touch!

  • @Robert08010
    @Robert08010 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I like that story a lot more when Thomas gets his dressing down by Robert. It is interesting that all the downstairs people were surprised and upset with Thomas' behavior while Robert wasn't really surprised by it. In a way its like he sees them as slightly unruly children. Not his children, but children.

    • @staciecarrel4492
      @staciecarrel4492 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s not that Robert thinks of them as children at all. It’s that Robert is well aware of Thomas’s schemes and jabs, and how spiteful he can be when most of the family is clueless about everything Thomas has done. He has been privy to more of Thomas’s manipulation attempts than the others, just because of how things played out each time. The downstairs people to me were thinking Thomas might do something but were hoping he wouldn’t.

    • @monmothma3358
      @monmothma3358 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@staciecarrel4492I often wondered how Thomas was allowed to keep working there, with everything he did.

  • @tombstonerforever9374
    @tombstonerforever9374 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I don’t get why people made a fuss about her wanting to leave service

    • @laurafiller1849
      @laurafiller1849 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It was one of the very few paths open for social mobility. Gwen, who started off as a poor farmer's daughter, was lucky enough to not only be hired into a great house but could have potentially worked her way up to be like Mrs. Hughes. To turn down such an opportunity for something that most likely wasn't going to go anywhere was a foolish wager.
      Mr. Bates is right -- the fact that Gwen's bet happened to play out over Tom's left Tom (and others) incredibly jelous.

    • @patbiggam8138
      @patbiggam8138 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This was 1920. Not 2023.

    • @tombstonerforever9374
      @tombstonerforever9374 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@laurafiller1849 By Tom do you mean Thomas?

    • @fantastischfish
      @fantastischfish ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Because historically, service was seen as a good job for the lower classes. As society began to shift, especially for women, more opportunities arose. It was a sign that things were going to change and it was frightening for those who had nowhere else to go and no education to do anything but service. That’s what this entire scene alludes to. And later in the series, we start to see how each of the servants is preparing for life when service is no longer a major source of employment, which wasn’t too many years away.

  • @shenggaibabiera7545
    @shenggaibabiera7545 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the best episodes. Ah! My eyes!😢

  • @choirkitty
    @choirkitty ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was always one of my favorite scenes :)

  • @claudine1928
    @claudine1928 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    They purposily tried to imbarrese and belittle her. And she stood fast, and got kind help. And won the respect she deserved.

  • @jay_ds4800
    @jay_ds4800 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of my favorite scenes in the whole series

  • @cactiplant2471
    @cactiplant2471 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm tearing up about Sybil. I just miss her so much.

  • @jeanieolahful
    @jeanieolahful ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a great scene this was.

  • @nocomment2468
    @nocomment2468 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Unintentionally Gwen put the whole family to such shame by describing how Sybil didn’t only know her but had cared for her.

  • @cherylneely7540
    @cherylneely7540 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love how that backfired on Barrow!

  • @KM-nw7be
    @KM-nw7be 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She was a lovely person 😢

  • @misterj3133
    @misterj3133 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Since when does the Butler speak out of turn at the dinner table towards a house guest?

    • @monmothma3358
      @monmothma3358 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I wondered that, too. They're not supposed to partake in the conversation, are they?

  • @jdeveraux1027
    @jdeveraux1027 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was waiting for her to tell the table that they know nothing, Jon Snow

  • @peterm.petrus386
    @peterm.petrus386 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    One have to admit, Mary's rude remarks almost makes one dislike her, but she always regain our confidence in her kindness by genuinely feeling sorry for her mistake afterwards.

  • @Ernie1978
    @Ernie1978 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I reckon Lady Sybill and Gwen's friendship, and Lady Mary's and Anna's friendships were some of the best, tighest relationships on the show. Rose Leslie was brilliant. You can see the growth in Gwen, however, she remained a humble, grateful woman.

  • @waverlyphillips2849
    @waverlyphillips2849 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Its a shame it gets cut early before we see Lord Grantham give Thomas a smack on the nose for outing Gwen.

  • @jws1948ja
    @jws1948ja ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One of my favorites.

  • @01Mary02
    @01Mary02 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    How could Gwen's husband not have heard her talking to Anna when they were there in the hallway? Wouldn't he have asked her how she knew her? Plus, it was pretty obvious to me that Gwen had no intention of telling the family that she used to work there, until Thomas volunteered that info. 😂

    • @specialunit0428
      @specialunit0428 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Men in those days didn't over indulge in what women said to passer-bys.

    • @01Mary02
      @01Mary02 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@specialunit0428 If your wife suddenly started talking to a housemaid in a home where you've never been before, then the husband would absolutely wonder why his wife was talking to a servant.

    • @afanks
      @afanks ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@01Mary02 His husband is a businessman not a peer, and he knew Gwen was a servant (in somewhere) too, so he may not wonder his wife talking to a servant so much.

    • @xs10086
      @xs10086 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Obviously it’s more embarrassing for the family than Gwen, that they don’t even recognize her.

    • @ArmednotTriggered
      @ArmednotTriggered 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@xs10086Not really. At the time, Gwen wouldn't have been allowed to dress the ladies or interact with them like Anna and O'Brien did. They all knew that Gwen wanted to leave service and were supportive of it. But they'd had an entire war and several years (plus plenty of trauma) between that moment and this one.

  • @natalieitliongfechter6073
    @natalieitliongfechter6073 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm crying when they started talking about sybil

  • @shannonmonkman1763
    @shannonmonkman1763 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The work that you have all done is so amazing, it’s a dream. I can’t imagine being lucky enough to stay in a beautiful suite like this. I don’t think I can pick a favourite room, I love them all equally. A true family effort. If I was fortunate enough to be chosen I would happily gift the stay to my dear friend, Brenda and her lovely fiancé Ken who is flying from western Canada to Europe to get married in Greece at the later part of April.

  • @karadizon4299
    @karadizon4299 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Poor Gwen being attacked by Butler as she didn’t lie and didn’t get the opportunity to mentioned that she formerly worked there. I’m very fond of Mrs Crawley as she’s not judgmental and acceptance of others

  • @alexmckenzie9709
    @alexmckenzie9709 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this song

  • @fionatsangarides6201
    @fionatsangarides6201 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sybil was always my favourite

  • @LMays-cu2hp
    @LMays-cu2hp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So nice...

  • @jws1948ja
    @jws1948ja ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love watching this.

  • @DBest-sx8ut
    @DBest-sx8ut 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don’t know why exactly but everytime I watch this scene I always laugh at the little “extra step” Thomas takes to catch up with the Hardings.

  • @pricegrisham2998
    @pricegrisham2998 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Because housing and meals were taken care of, and I suspect the the staff were fairly well paid for that time, a maid at Downton with her mind focused on the future could indeed save up and send away for a typewriter and correspondence courses; but she would have to be young, to have enough energy left at the end of the day to persist. Another maid, Ethel, tried to sleep her way up the social ladder, and that ended tragically.