Don't know if the person who emailed is a Muslim but Khadijah RA chose to marry the Prophet SAW purely because of his character - she was a wealthy businesswoman from a prominent family while the Prophet SAW was poor and an orphan. To anyone who judges their potential spouse based on superficial things - learn from the most perfect example of a husband and wife from our own history.
all work is honourable. the most important thing is that he is a genuine nice guy and he treats her well not about how much money he makes or what job he has. Genuine nice respectful partners are hard to find.
i've seen him have that glimpse in his eye before of him looking at her like she's beaut but for this instance it just looked like a casj listening face hahaha
i used to date a professional football player.. then he hurt his leg and he was too proud to work.... not with him anymore now since years, he still doesn't work.. but is a gambler now...was the worst relationship.. now i am dating someone, he comes from a very very poor family, he used to work as garbage man, cleaned the streets and was a pizza delivery guy all at once while going to university to study business, he has his own company now and it's going very well for him. don't judge people by their occupation, but by their character and determination. also.. my favorite uncle is a bus driver, and he is the best :p
I feel like I really need to put this out there, for the girl who sent this question. I'm a highly educated woman who was once engaged to a a highly educated guy (gpa of 4.0) and let me tell you, his degrees meant absolutely NOTHING. He was constantly on and off jobs, didn't have any ambitions, and every step of the way felt like a struggle. We broke it off for different reasons, but that experience did teach me that degrees really do NOT imply security. I'm now married to a man who only has a high school degree, and let me tell you, while I was getting to know him, I had to fight tooth and nail to convince my family and friends that he was a decent, honorable, and brilliant guy, and he is literally the hardest working man I know. His life circumstances were not the same as mine or anyone else in our family, so how could they judge him? His entire life was a struggle; I won't go into details, but many men would not be capable of enduring what he endured; and it only made him more resilient and kind-hearted. Not everyone has the same opportunities in life, and REALLY, we're quite lucky to born be in a context that ENABLES us to study - never forget that. I ended up marrying him, and genuinely, I've never felt MORE secure in my life; God provides, if your intentions are pure and you marry a man for his heart, for his personality, and really for who he is, I genuinely believe God WILL provide for you. It might be a struggle at first, but believe me, it's worth it. We all need to compromise in some aspect when it comes to marriage, and as long as the man is hard-working, you will be fine. My family and friends adore him now if not only for how well he treats me. Oh and one more thing, I swear I kid you not,early on as I was getting to know him, I received so many proposals come via family/friends from doctors/engineers - it was like God was testing me to see if I'd cave and ditch this guy solely for superficial reasons. I had my sisters and my mother CONSTANTLY argue with me to get to know these other guys too, to at least give them a chance and I'd have nothing to lose, but I was convinced of my current husband. Integrity and hard-work goes a long way - I couldn't be happier now, he's the best husband a girl could hope for. I'm not saying every situation is like mine, but I do hope it encourages highly educated girls to consider guys that don't have a degree - you might be missing out on the most beautiful souls. I'll leave you with a quote that I find very, very powerful: "While young graduates are right to be proud of their university degrees, and they have now joined an elite club (only 6.7 percent of the global population has a university degree), they must never forget that their ability to obtain a degree had as much or more to do with luck than hard work and intelligence. Sure, they worked hard and did well in school. And yes, the fact that many of their classmates flunked out along the way suggests that making it to graduation was never a given. But, let's face it, all university graduates won the lottery by being born into a context that allowed them to get a university degree. " - William G Moseley
Aya Tc I'm with a guy with a diploma my parents don't want him for that reason and cause he is less wealthy than us..he is very hard working and would sacrifice anything for me But everyone is against me :/ how come some women regret marrying someone less wealthy or educated than them?
That's so true, cleaners and bin men get paid REALLY WELL! At my old high school there was this cleaner who we always was kind to but never thought big of him. But one of the students saw him in front of his house and let me tell you HE LIVED IN A TWO STOREY MANSION, no joke
Someone once told me, "You do not just marry the person, you also marry their habits. So when you get serious about getting married, marry someone whose habits you like". This really stuck with me. This guy might be a bus driver, but the question should not be about his career, but rather his habits. Is he consistent in all areas of his life? Is he driven? Is he goal-oriented? does he have vision? how does he spend his free time? I really feel like the kind of person he is off the job will give you insight into the kind of person he truly is.
I don't have a degree best decision I've ever made in life haha! You guys are spot on, no occupation defines anyone! The heart and his character is the most important, if you're happy about him, everything else doesn't matter xxxxxx
I agree with what you guys said but I just want to point out that education should be something that is encouraged and put in a more positive light and this is coming from a struggling uni student who hates school sometimes. Having a degree doesn't mean you're wise and not having a degree doesn't mean you're dumb. However, if you do have the opportunity to go to uni and you're passionate about a subject you want to learn about you should definitely go for it. Ideally having a degree is more advantageous than not having one. People can take so many things away from you but they can't take away your education. Knowledge is power.
That goes without saying.Any education a person has will always be beneficiary for them. It's just a point made because in this generation your put on the spot and even looked down on if you don't have some sort of higher education. When success can be attained without it and that's been made evident yet still it's a stigma.
Fatima H knowledge isnt power my friend. Applied knowledge aka taking action is power. You can read all the books in the world but if u sit on ur arse its pointless
StormJB1 that's true but my friend if you applied knowledge when writing your response you wouldn't have even made a comment because I didn't argue against that
Purple Wilhelmina william I completely agree, I was just getting vibes that they were implying getting a degree is worthless. Steve Jobs and Muhammad Ali were so so intelligent and changed the world and didn't have degrees. I myself always think about the people who use their talent and are millionaires as a result and never graduated high school.
Fatima H and remember that people like Steve jobs and Muhammad Ali are exceptions AND excelled in fields that did not require a degree. The majority of everyday people will not go far without a degree or ridiculous family inheritance etc.
Uni isnt just about the books but it comes with so much more experience that is reflected in so many life decisions you make in the future. Theres a huge differencd between a well educated person's way of looking at life than the opposite
My dads a bus driver and we've been to California once and Florida twice etc. Just because he's a bus driver doesn't mean he can't provide because my dad pays for our holidays on his wages only :) and family gets a bus pass 😂😂
Yessss Dina I completely agree with u. Working hard is the most important thing for anyone and having pride in being a provider. Also so cute Sid cheering u on. Total relationship goals right there. Huge hugs from Portugal.
Wonder if any of these people these emails are from ever write back and let Sid and Dina know how it all worked out?! That's a video I would love to see!
I'm a very new subscriber and have watched only a handful of their videos..but I've already figured out that Dina has this hilarious habit of literally, leaning on Sid as if he were a wall!..lololol!!
hahahahaha. omg I'm in the middle of watching this and I'm cracking up. all I'm watching is sids reactions to Dinas talking. sid ur hilarious. love u two. bless u 😍😍😍
I definitely agree! Our society judges a person based on his educational attainment. My husband does not hold a degree but he is very hardworking and humble. He provides for us really well, Alhamdulillah. I know some people who doesn't want their daughter to be married to someone she likes just because he isn't an engineer.
Honestly I agree university doesn't prepare you for real life situations or doesn't make you smarter however you shouldn't downgrade someone who has a degree. Becoming a doctor is in no shape or form easy thats why its seen as such a big achievement or people see you as knowledgeable as it does take someone of high academic ability to become a doctor.
Great video and advice! I just wanted to add that whilst most people get a degree for better work opportunities and pay, there are also people who undergo higher education simply to gain knowledge and study something they are interested in. So the measure of success of your degree doesn't have to be the career you have post-degree, but the knowledge you gain.
I was literally yelling at my screen "yaaaasss Dina!!! Preeeaaaccchhh! So true!!" Hahaha 🙌🏽 you brought up so many great points about equality and stereotypes! I'm so glad that your voice is being heard by those younger; great mentoring words!
The bus driver is DRIVING her crazy 😂😂
MiBeforeChelle im dead lool
MiBeforeChelle niceee, favorite comment of thw day
MiBeforeChelle nice😂😂😂
Smashed it 😂😂
MiBeforeChelle 😂
Don't know if the person who emailed is a Muslim but Khadijah RA chose to marry the Prophet SAW purely because of his character - she was a wealthy businesswoman from a prominent family while the Prophet SAW was poor and an orphan. To anyone who judges their potential spouse based on superficial things - learn from the most perfect example of a husband and wife from our own history.
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❤️ ( Christian Khadijah fan.)
A- DINA SLAYING THE RESPONSE THERE SHOULD BE A MIC DROP AT THE END
B- i just love how sid is actually 100% agreeing with dina this time
okay i take B back lol
Ata Elbizanti And The Way He's Looking At Her! 😍
Ata Elbizanti aww
“Are ya biggin up bus drivers?”
I think when someone says "bus driver" we all automatically think a 40 year old man
Freshtaa R
Lol true 😁
Freshtaa R what kind of bus drivers have you seen 🤔
Ayesh Has to be fair alot of the bus drivers where I live are in that age range or older but you do get some young men and women :)
Freshtaa R lol
Freshtaa R lmao true
the way he looks at her *_* !!!
all work is honourable. the most important thing is that he is a genuine nice guy and he treats her well not about how much money he makes or what job he has. Genuine nice respectful partners are hard to find.
The way Sid looked at Dina from 3:48 to 4:05 ❤
tbh it just looks like he's listening to her talk looool
fff fff look at the way he's smiling tho, he knows his women is fiinnnnneee
i've seen him have that glimpse in his eye before of him looking at her like she's beaut but for this instance it just looked like a casj listening face hahaha
I am feeeling that chemistry in recent videos lol
SMZP soo cute Ma Shaa Allah may Allah bless them! Ameen!
Dinas make up is popinnnn big time😍😍😍😂
ADOOOMYYY GANGGG shes looking mashallah with a dash of astaghfirullah
Internet Driller's Step Dad LOOOL😂😂
p
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Sids the funniest hype man 😂 "get it...tell me for the ones in the back"
Sid @ 3:30 !!! " tell em" 💕💕💕 cute ! So glad to see you guys are working on not talking over each other .practice makes perfect
12:50 "what are you gonna be, facken employed?!" LMAO SID 😂😂😭
i used to date a professional football player.. then he hurt his leg and he was too proud to work.... not with him anymore now since years, he still doesn't work.. but is a gambler now...was the worst relationship.. now i am dating someone, he comes from a very very poor family, he used to work as garbage man, cleaned the streets and was a pizza delivery guy all at once while going to university to study business, he has his own company now and it's going very well for him. don't judge people by their occupation, but by their character and determination. also.. my favorite uncle is a bus driver, and he is the best :p
I feel like I really need to put this out there, for the girl who sent this question. I'm a highly educated woman who was once engaged to a a highly educated guy (gpa of 4.0) and let me tell you, his degrees meant absolutely NOTHING. He was constantly on and off jobs, didn't have any ambitions, and every step of the way felt like a struggle. We broke it off for different reasons, but that experience did teach me that degrees really do NOT imply security. I'm now married to a man who only has a high school degree, and let me tell you, while I was getting to know him, I had to fight tooth and nail to convince my family and friends that he was a decent, honorable, and brilliant guy, and he is literally the hardest working man I know. His life circumstances were not the same as mine or anyone else in our family, so how could they judge him? His entire life was a struggle; I won't go into details, but many men would not be capable of enduring what he endured; and it only made him more resilient and kind-hearted. Not everyone has the same opportunities in life, and REALLY, we're quite lucky to born be in a context that ENABLES us to study - never forget that.
I ended up marrying him, and genuinely, I've never felt MORE secure in my life; God provides, if your intentions are pure and you marry a man for his heart, for his personality, and really for who he is, I genuinely believe God WILL provide for you. It might be a struggle at first, but believe me, it's worth it. We all need to compromise in some aspect when it comes to marriage, and as long as the man is hard-working, you will be fine. My family and friends adore him now if not only for how well he treats me. Oh and one more thing, I swear I kid you not,early on as I was getting to know him, I received so many proposals come via family/friends from doctors/engineers - it was like God was testing me to see if I'd cave and ditch this guy solely for superficial reasons. I had my sisters and my mother CONSTANTLY argue with me to get to know these other guys too, to at least give them a chance and I'd have nothing to lose, but I was convinced of my current husband.
Integrity and hard-work goes a long way - I couldn't be happier now, he's the best husband a girl could hope for. I'm not saying every situation is like mine, but I do hope it encourages highly educated girls to consider guys that don't have a degree - you might be missing out on the most beautiful souls. I'll leave you with a quote that I find very, very powerful:
"While young graduates are right to be proud of their university degrees, and they have now joined an elite club (only 6.7 percent of the global population has a university degree), they must never forget that their ability to obtain a degree had as much or more to do with luck than hard work and intelligence. Sure, they worked hard and did well in school. And yes, the fact that many of their classmates flunked out along the way suggests that making it to graduation was never a given. But, let's face it, all university graduates won the lottery by being born into a context that allowed them to get a university degree. " - William G Moseley
Aya Tc I'm with a guy with a diploma my parents don't want him for that reason and cause he is less wealthy than us..he is very hard working and would sacrifice anything for me But everyone is against me :/ how come some women regret marrying someone less wealthy or educated than them?
Dina's enthusiasm 😂😂😂 absolutely love these 2!!!
I'm just here for Sid saying "get em! Get em!"
That's so true, cleaners and bin men get paid REALLY WELL! At my old high school there was this cleaner who we always was kind to but never thought big of him. But one of the students saw him in front of his house and let me tell you HE LIVED IN A TWO STOREY MANSION, no joke
Someone once told me, "You do not just marry the person, you also marry their habits. So when you get serious about getting married, marry someone whose habits you like". This really stuck with me. This guy might be a bus driver, but the question should not be about his career, but rather his habits. Is he consistent in all areas of his life? Is he driven? Is he goal-oriented? does he have vision? how does he spend his free time? I really feel like the kind of person he is off the job will give you insight into the kind of person he truly is.
The way Sid looks at Dina 3:55😍😍 like damnnn my woman's preachinggg
I don't have a degree best decision I've ever made in life haha! You guys are spot on, no occupation defines anyone! The heart and his character is the most important, if you're happy about him, everything else doesn't matter xxxxxx
prove it marry a bus driver
Lol I have a degree, although it helped me in my career I agree some degrees aren't worth it.
Lauran White I'm actually marrying someone who has no degree hehe :)
aaaaawwwww cool ok now i believe you lol
Rumena your getting married???
Sid is falling in love with dina on a new level in this Video 😂 the look he is giving her... PRICELESS
The way Sid has been staring at Dina in vids lately 😍😍😍😍 i love them
I love how supportive these two are of each other 😂 #goals
I love how they sometimes disagree with each other, but never disrespect each other for it. Ma'Shaa'Allah!
I agree with what you guys said but I just want to point out that education should be something that is encouraged and put in a more positive light and this is coming from a struggling uni student who hates school sometimes. Having a degree doesn't mean you're wise and not having a degree doesn't mean you're dumb. However, if you do have the opportunity to go to uni and you're passionate about a subject you want to learn about you should definitely go for it. Ideally having a degree is more advantageous than not having one. People can take so many things away from you but they can't take away your education. Knowledge is power.
That goes without saying.Any education a person has will always be beneficiary for them.
It's just a point made because in this generation your put on the spot and even looked down on if you don't have some sort of higher education. When success can be attained without it and that's been made evident yet still it's a stigma.
Fatima H knowledge isnt power my friend. Applied knowledge aka taking action is power. You can read all the books in the world but if u sit on ur arse its pointless
StormJB1 that's true but my friend if you applied knowledge when writing your response you wouldn't have even made a comment because I didn't argue against that
Purple Wilhelmina william I completely agree, I was just getting vibes that they were implying getting a degree is worthless. Steve Jobs and Muhammad Ali were so so intelligent and changed the world and didn't have degrees. I myself always think about the people who use their talent and are millionaires as a result and never graduated high school.
Fatima H and remember that people like Steve jobs and Muhammad Ali are exceptions AND excelled in fields that did not require a degree. The majority of everyday people will not go far without a degree or ridiculous family inheritance etc.
i think some people go to uni to grow as a person, and gain more knowledge even if they don't end up working in their field
Beyzanur yessssss, totally agree beyzanur!!
Uni isnt just about the books but it comes with so much more experience that is reflected in so many life decisions you make in the future. Theres a huge differencd between a well educated person's way of looking at life than the opposite
I love how Sid just sits and listens to Dina and smiles, that's love right there
That was so adorable! Sid cheering Dina on was epic! So cute lol. Dina is fabulous and outgoing. I love how you speak your mind.
8:18 LMAOOOOO THIS IS WHY WE LOVE YOU SID 😂😂😂
sid's expressions while dina is bantering. sid reminds me of my younger brother so much.
get em.. get em.. get em.. you tell em. tell it to the ones in the back so they can hear it sid should be a life coach
lol I was dying at the tell those in the back bit
My dads a bus driver and we've been to California once and Florida twice etc. Just because he's a bus driver doesn't mean he can't provide because my dad pays for our holidays on his wages only :) and family gets a bus pass 😂😂
Sid and Dina should do aftermaths of this questions and get the people sending the questions to let them know what happened
makes a serious decision to study without distraction *notification of sid and dina's new video* Ok last video and then i'll study!
Nayab Kazmi same thing happened to me 😂😂
Neylu m LOL glad I'm not alone!! Their videos are worth it haha!
story of my life
Exactly who needs to study when there's sid and dina ...lol 😂😂😂😂
Nayab Kazmi OMG THAT'S EXACTLY MY SITUATION😭😂😂😂
Dina went off!!! lol
Yessss Dina I completely agree with u. Working hard is the most important thing for anyone and having pride in being a provider. Also so cute Sid cheering u on. Total relationship goals right there. Huge hugs from Portugal.
@3:52 The way sid looks at Dina 😍 they're so cute! May Allah continue to bless their marriage
may Allah bless you and protect you girl , may Allah show you the right path. Ameen
The look on Sid's face. Priceless.
Lmao I love the way Sid looks at her
The way Sid is just looking at Dina while she's talking, awwww
Admiring her thoughts
The way Dina said "go on sid, say your two cents" yet continued talking 😂😂
I was waiting for the bit when they go completely off topic love u Dina ❤️😂
Sids smile when Dina was talking.. So cute
you guys are actually really good at giving advice omg
lmaoooooo at Sid and how he keeps thinking about all the deals and perks
i'm in love with how many videos you've been blessing us with
Loving the way Sid is hyping Dina up Alhamdulillah
Seriously guys, you're an adorable and charismatic couple. Love you and wish the best for your little family. #love
Sid backing up Dina gives me life😂😂
LOVE YOU GUYS & THESE CONSISTENT UPLOADS LOL
Wonder if any of these people these emails are from ever write back and let Sid and Dina know how it all worked out?! That's a video I would love to see!
I'm so engrossed with Dina's speech, I never realised the facial expressions Sid's giving from 5:20! I had to rewind it 😂😂.
I was yelling 'get them, tell them' along with Sid 🤣
How did she start an conversation with a bus driver when all you do is swipe your oyster and sit down 😭😂😂😂
Their daughter is so lucky to have them as parents.
I'm a very new subscriber and have watched only a handful of their videos..but I've already figured out that Dina has this hilarious habit of literally, leaning on Sid as if he were a wall!..lololol!!
I love dina & sid they keep it real asf...and don't hold back💯💯
I think the phrase dina is looking for is "work ethic"
i actually love your hoodie Dina, where did you get it from?!
aneela143 yesss
aneela143 h&m
3:41 i cant at sid being dina's hype man lmao SO CUTE.
Awkward moment when you know a 'young bus driver' from Sheffield 😂😂
Lol I love the passion in your speech Dina. It was like you were ranting it off your chest haha, you go girl xxx
loools sids facial expressions 😂 Dina Dina! You always get to the point! 😎😎😎👌👌👌
I love how Dina can make Sid laugh :)
sid needs to be a comedian I swear down fam😂
I love the way sid's looking at her like "yas..uh huh" "das my boo, you tell em gurl!" 😂😂💜
3:13 Sid: "Tell'em Gett'em Gett'em" 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Dina and Sid are my favorite. You guys have no idea how much help you are t muslim kids, I listen to your videos and I am like this is so beneficial.
You guys should talk more about students in school and their mental health with the stress of grades and all. I loooved this video
hahahahaha. omg I'm in the middle of watching this and I'm cracking up. all I'm watching is sids reactions to Dinas talking. sid ur hilarious. love u two. bless u 😍😍😍
I definitely agree! Our society judges a person based on his educational attainment. My husband does not hold a degree but he is very hardworking and humble. He provides for us really well, Alhamdulillah. I know some people who doesn't want their daughter to be married to someone she likes just because he isn't an engineer.
I genuinely thought when Dina said "the mummies on the bus" part.. that's Sid would say "shut up then!" Lmao!!
I love how you guys have different opinions on these subjects as it provides different perspectives on the situation. Look up to you guys a lot!!
Sid 😂😂😂😂. He is beyond hilarious in this one!
hahahaha i love how dina gets worked up and sid is just "wuhuu yeaah geeet them!" hahahahah
The beep beep was so on point Dina and at the appropriate time 😂😂😂
"Tell'em, get'em, TELL IT TO THE ONES IN THE BACK" Sid 2017
I appauld you dina my friend👏👏 that was brilliant 😂
**Sid looking with admiration at Dina
getting addicted to their videos 😁 what can I say they are too good n fun to watch
"provide" not just in a monetary sense, but someone that provides enrichment to your life in meaningful ways.
JUST A DAY AND I'M IN LOVE WITH DINA. YOURE ONE ADORABLE, FULL OF LIFE BEING! I LOVE IT!
Thank you Sid & Dina you both hit the nail on the head!!!
Honestly I agree university doesn't prepare you for real life situations or doesn't make you smarter however you shouldn't downgrade someone who has a degree. Becoming a doctor is in no shape or form easy thats why its seen as such a big achievement or people see you as knowledgeable as it does take someone of high academic ability to become a doctor.
Here in Toronto bus drivers are paid pretty great AND enjoy job stability because it's unionized.
Yessssss HARD WORK beats TITLE .... when getting married look for good character, good morals, not status.
Love these videos. Dina your makeup 😍
At around 3:30 😂😂😭omg "Tell em!Get em!Tell em!" 😂😭
LOOOL 'the wheels on the bus go round and round'
You tell them Dina! I love your speech on it ❤️😍
Hahahahahhaa Sid's reactions 😂😂 hilarious. Love you guyssss
I am in love with this type of videos that they are throwing at us! I am addicted!!!
How Sid looks and listens to Dina! God ❤️
Great video and advice! I just wanted to add that whilst most people get a degree for better work opportunities and pay, there are also people who undergo higher education simply to gain knowledge and study something they are interested in. So the measure of success of your degree doesn't have to be the career you have post-degree, but the knowledge you gain.
Plot twist almost~ Sid is putting him self in that guy's shoes and is feeling very proud for Dina's beautiful thoughts
SID AND DINA LOVE YOU BOTH❤️❤️❤️
I was literally yelling at my screen "yaaaasss Dina!!! Preeeaaaccchhh! So true!!" Hahaha 🙌🏽 you brought up so many great points about equality and stereotypes! I'm so glad that your voice is being heard by those younger; great mentoring words!
Dina... thanks a million for your words
5:17 sid is so in love LOL #relationshipgoals