Oh damn that last subtle sign was the MOST subtle of them all! I never would have thought when a dude says, "Hey, I want to be your boyfriend" that he actually wants to be my boyfriend! Wow, what a shock!! *takes notes*
+Rachel cx Help! You have that scary character from Spirited Away as your profile! xP haha. Just had to say it. Don't know what "that thing" is called in english... o.O
1. He'll see you when its light out 2. He'll meet your friends and family 3. You'll meet his friends and family 4. He'll plan ahead with you 5. He's opened up to you 6. He listen to your needs 7. He tells you he wants to
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Yeah. Narcissists are a completely different conversation. Narcassists learn you just to learn how to control and manipulate you. But I'm sure this video is talking about normal awesome men.☺ If you are still reeling from what your ex did and the narcissistic behavior,seek therapy. You need to be able to move on from the hurt of that last relationship so you will not carry that into the next relationship. Not every man is like that.
So there is this guy who was my friend ( I always liked him) and he started acting really weird, and he took me shopping and bought me stuff I really didn't want 😂 and one day he introduced me to his family and now his little sister loves me and she's so cute but I was still confused what was going on but I started watching his videos and I realized he loved me and I talked to him about and we r now hitting 2 years💙
I'm not a woman, but I am Gay and I have been burned. I finally found my boyfriend now who is just amazing and as you say fulfils me as a person. You videos helped me learn to trust him. I had to separate him and the guys who burned me in my mind. Thanks for your help Adam!
Thanks for your comment!! I am dating a great guy and I am trying not to ruin it by basing every detail off my past. These videos are great and I am glad to witness this method did work for someone.
1.) See you during the day- oof I just went running with him the other day, and when we were exercising I fell and it seemed like he cared so.. 2, 3) Meets family- what if I all ready know them. 4.) Planning something- we were planning to go bowling 5.) Open up- he was opened up to me before and that’s not someone he does for a lot of people. 6.) Listening to me- I don’t really know if he cares 7.) Tells me- well he knows I like him but we have never really had that conversation before so....
I LOVE THIS VIDEO. Especially the part about trust and opening up. Vulnerability in a relationship is like air to fire, it keeps the whole thing going.
A guy who was my friend for 3 years just fooled me with that one. He opened up a LOT, pushed sex hard, didn't listen to my needs in the bedroom, and then ghosted me. My take on him = he may be using the open up thing to get sex and keep it casual. It may not be true for other guys but they know that women love this.
I noticed subtle signs. I write this before I watch this video for the sake of it. Maybe it will help the creator or someone here. He seemed to always want to clarify that his other chic friends were only friends. He started caring if I was cold at his house and would turn off the air or get me a blanket. He started to care if I had food and other needs in my house even though I wouldn't ask if I did need something. He began changing from that harsh, tough brotherly kind of punch you in the arm character to softer in the eyes. If my mind wandered for even a second he would catch it and ask me what I'm thinking about. He remembered things I said that others wouldn't remember. Like where I was born. He began wanting to spend more than a movies worth of time together. Started wondering why I don't text him more. He began lighting up when I walked into his house. He cooked for me and my kids, but wouldn't let me cook for him. We started to have "our thing". Like what shows we chose and a special ice cream we eat together. He would also tell me when a gross part of a movie was over and never tried to trick me or make fun of me. He started to appreciate cute things about me. Like the fact that I have a hard time recognizing a joke, ect. Started indulging in conversation with me about things that were private that he would never speak to me about before. I began to wonder, but he still maintained we were only friends. That is it. The point is I was wondering, but couldn't be sure. One day he kind of held my hand by putting his over mine, but I was confused about it and said nothing. Just wondered. Finally, a week after the hand holding incident a man tried to date me. I told my best friend and his head spun around so fast. Began monopolizing my whole day when he found out that other guy was around. He became very jealous and even a little pissy with me. We had never had a harsh word before in two years. I had to come out and ask him. His answer? Of course, he liked me. Now he is my boyfriend and he is smiling bigger than I've ever seen him. Now I will watch the video.
But there's also a point where guys act like they are your boyfriend until they got what they wanted... they will say the sweetest things and compliment you .. it's just like they know the way and they know how to manipulate others. Seriously most wouldn't know the truth until they just suddenly dissappeared. Such actors and they'll probably do the same all over again. How would you catch someone like that ?
When you realized you are the girl that is like "eh a relationship could be nice but isn't necessary" Uff he has done some of these and now I am worried
A lot of people in the comments make fun of the last sign (he'll say so) but a lot of people make assumptions about the relationship without ever really talking it out. They are then dumbfounded when they find out the other person has a completely different view of what's going on.
um actually i have something to add to this, sometimes a guy will try to avoid a girl because he might get a bit nervous around you because he likes you and is to afraid to admit it trust me i had to almost strangle a guy because he was avoiding my friend and she really liked him. When i heard what he said i hooked them up instantly even though i took 3 months i finally got them to date and they are still together to this day.
I met this guy and we have clicked. He works at night and I work during the day. It's hard to see each other but we meet when he gets off work in the morning we go to the gym together. We are becoming good friends and we talk to each other. It started out as friends with benefits but now it's like sex isn't important we just enjoy each other's company. Do you think it is a good beginning to a relationship to take to the next level?
You haven't met the right guy yet that's all... he'll come when the times right. I was the same...chatting to someone now who seems ace but let's see......(?)
ONE THING, I AM FEMALE!! Well, let's just say we have been friends for a year. He mirrors my actions, like if I highlight something he'll do the same. When the teacher says "Paired work" he looks at me. When the teacher tells us we have a new seating plan, we end up sitting next to each other and giggling our heads off. He only showed of his AMAZING foreign language skills to me and also this guy told me about his injuries, and when he was injured he told me first. He also asked me to go with him and his friend to an ice-cream place and his friend dropped out so we ended up going together. People take the mick and say we should be going out but i'm waiting for him because i'm so scared he will reject me. I really can relate to him, but he went out with my friend before and he dumped her. I'm scared he will do the same to me. I can't tell any of my friends because it will cost me a lot of friendships, but I think i'm falling for him. There are so many signs that say he likes me and I don't care if people don't like the way he looks. His personality is what is the best about him. Just your average joe but means a lot to me. If you were wondering why he dumped my friend, it was because she was too clingy and wouldn't let him have freedom, *Seriously, she left a bruise mark on his arm because she gripped on to him too tight* Please can you help me? Idk what to do :(
You dont need a boyfriend. Focus on being better for you and dont worry about a boyfriend. Learn about yourself in your times of singleness. Have fun with your friends. You are not alone. God is always there for you.
The last sign gave me a good hint, even if it seems too subtle, thank you for mentioning what others might judge, but what we will have it make slot of things clear
Okay, so I like this guy, who is my coworker and I don't know If he likes me. He opened up about some really deep things about himself, he has always been really open about his struggles to me. He compliments my apearence and notice small things like If i got a new shirt. I also have a really short temper but he doesn't get scared off by that, he understands that I'm stressed and hugs me or tell me how good i am at my work ect. He also seem kinda nicer to me than other people.
It is worse if you both like each other and start to date and break up. You can be friends afterwards (if you both still like each other) but it is awkward af.
So, there’s this guy at my school. My best friend who just happens to be his EX GIRLFRIEND has said for a fact that he likes me. But I’m just not ready for a relationship, nor am I sure that I like him... someone help!
This guy that I've been talking to is already most of these things. He shares with me stuff he doesn't share with anyone one else. He even told me he has started to like me (but we're not dating, we haven't known each other long enough). It makes me excited and just happy to know he's interested but I feel really pressured because I don't want to lose his interest and I'm just worried.
1. ✅ 2. ❌ 3. ❌ and ✅ 4. ✅ 5. ✅ 6. ✅ 7. ❌ But then again...it’s only been a month 🤷♀️. Not looking to jump into it anyway. But I don’t want anyone else to have him either!
Oh my god? I am literally in the same situation..also had same yes and no's.like you..but also date him for a month by now..we should definety update each other haha
My brother introduces all girls (hook ups/ serious interest) to my mother and I. It pains me to see their enthusiasm in meeting us because we know the girl is most likely flavor of the week
Well.. I'm only 14, so I'm still in high school... But.. My crush has done all of these.. Except for the last one.. But.. Whenever I'm with him and his family, I always make a fool of myself.. He also does most of these to another girl too... He invites her out when it's light, she's met his family, he's met hers and he listens to her needs.. But he's done all of them with me except for the last one..
what if someone displays 5 1/2 of these signs but he keeps saying that when he meets women they keep trying to rush him into a relationship without getting to know him. He's hinted at a relationship, like said "if I had a girlfriend, it would benefit her in such and such a way....." We've had intense conversations and he's a good listener. We're coming dinner together tonight and I'm meeting his son. but what throws me off its that he keeps saying that women try to rush him into a relationship and that he appreciates that I just go with the flow and don't pressure. (we've not had sex, he's low pressure too). but because of what he said about other women I'm not sure he wants a relationship.
Krystal Holland It means that he needed some time to figure out if your what he really wanted. Now that he has came to terms with that I think he does. You just have to be open to it and ready for it. Everything happens at the right timing and I believe this is your time
Krystal Holland No need to thank me you deserve an honest answer. Girl I feel the same about the guy I'm with. We have an emotional attraction to one another but we have yet to discuss how we feel. So instead we're both left feeling clueless and confused. I still overthink things myself that's just apart of who we are as females. But girl the signs are there. He wants you and best believe he will get you. You just have to let him ❤️
He did everything but the last one. Everything was going good until we had a disagreement and he told me one day that he's not ready for a relationship. I still don't understand what happened and how we went from being kinda dating to 'we're technically not seeing each other anyway right?' He hasn't been in a relationship in a while and I haven't either. We've only been seeing each other for a month. He even gave me flowers for our one month mark 'because I've been nagging him about it and so that I'd stop'. What happened? Should I just move on? It's been 2 days since the talk. Help
Ok.....So what about a guy that says he doesn't want a relationship, but displays all the first 6 traits that he does??? Spends a lot of time with me day and night, sex isn't always involved, met his friends and family, and they all like me, Went to the cottage for a long weekend together, would call me to talk or check in sometimes 2 or 3 times a day, would open up to me about very private things in his past, would complement me on not just looks but also being a great cook and being smart and fun, would take some selfies of us together.....but after about six months of this drifted slowly away????
I agree with Adam type of men guys who want a girlfriend or wife. guys who don't want a girlfriend or a wife. It's strange behavior He doesn't hang out, Never met his friend or family. He doesn't plan always busy. He doesn't open up to me either He judges me Doesnt listen, Doesn't have a conversation He doesn't tell me. He doesn't trust, he accuses me of being a narrastic when I am not that all. All signs he want something causal not long term relationships. So the guy shouldn't be mad at me, that I walk away. It wasn't easy to walk away give him some space, knowing how much I care about him and didn't want to deal with drumra or stress. If a guy is interested the guy should be nicer kinder, confident, compassion,merciful, patience, caring,understanding, loving, sweet, faithful. Not mean or rudeness.
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Yes a lot of times the guy does like an investigation we want to get to know you make sure you don’t have a boyfriend for one and then we try to find the best time and some of us get super nervous to ask
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Cee If he didn't ask you, then just assume that you are good friends. In my case, if I have a crush on anyone, I'll tell them straight away. There's no telling how many times I've fulfilled signs 1-6 with women who I've been just really good friends with. All the while, I never had a crush on them, and I would have rejected them in a very polite and friendly manner if they asked me for a relationship, and then continued being a very, very good friend to them even without the relationship.
Have you ever been in love with someone so bad you can't stand it. Like you can't breathe if you can't have him. That's how I feel I don't know exactly how he feel's about me, Commitment relationship forever. I know I can't act on impulse, he's got to have me as much as I do, worried though if I show to much.
Re meeting family. There are guys who meet your family and date behind your back at the same time in the same week and texts to the other woman lying about being single. You should talk about these kind of scenarios as well.
He saw me only in daylight. But when he wanted to talk to his family he disappeared from the scene. I don't even understand his language. He decided always last min to see me. A day before or even the same day. He did not open, only physically. So I know that I made the right decision to refuse his place. Thanks
I'm in high school and there's this guy that I like and we're such good friends like we just clicked but idk how he feels but all my friends say we'd be cute together
The guy I am dating has done all of the above. Yet He hasn’t directly said he wants to be my BF though, only closest thing he’s said to that is that he wants to make changes in his life and wants me to be in his life 🤔
These signs are helpful but sometimes the distance between the couple is another factor, like the man is sincere but work and distance get in the way,, it matters a lot too..so you cant really say that a man isnt into you just because he lives far away... it really depends like compromise and commitment
What does it mean when a guy asks you to the movies? Is that a date or are you just hanging out as friends? I've gone to the movies with this guy 3 times now, but I still don't know if he likes me or not. I'm assuming we are just friends.
High school version: NO job, no money, yesterday was Valentine's Day. My daughter was noticing how some girls are "dating" and she is not. I told her no rush. In high school, these guys can't afford anything. IT's true. So dating to me in high school isn't really dating. Plus, it's all about being popular, they aren't in the real world yet. Sure, he could be the best drummer in the world, but after high school, which college? what future? it matters....
Should I be worried if a guy I've been dating long distance over the last two months suddenly tells me that a female family friend has become his best friend? He said she behaves masculine and he indirectly implied that she either likes females or is an actual lesbian......
Thanks for these videos. I met this guy and is showing a lot of the signs that you talk about when it comes to lying. Always seeming busy, and not showing much interest in anything going on in my life, but gets super excited when talks about having sex with me. I have this gut feeling that he lives with another woman or is married. But he always tells me he loves me and wants me. I think he is lying. I think it’s time to end it.
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He treats me like his girlfriend..but he's never told me that he likes me or something he shares everything with me he said that he wants me to know everything about him..and he often asks me "What is our relaitionship?" "Do u think me as your friend?" And I actually don't know what to answer him..what should I answer him?
So this is my situation. I went on a date with this boy I like. We know each other a couple of years now but lost contact. We have a lot of mutual friends. He texts me quite often and remember things I told him briefly. A few weeks ago we saw each other at a very and danced en talked lots. But later he told me he had a girlfriend at the time (their relation lasted two days. She broke up with him after the party) but that got me wondering. He actually showed me a conversation he had with a friend I know as well. The friend asked him If our date was going well and if the boy thinks I am his dream, because we are cute together. He is not really a relationship kind of guy I feel like. But he gives all of these signals. What should I do? I really want to date him but I'm scared he is not genuine about this.
Whats it mean if he says he doesnt want us to be a thing yet is beyond intimate and loves to cuddle....loves to put his head on my chest and let me hold him? i cant help but feel like hes falling for me even tho hes younger and we both have our seperate lives with errands and tasks too. i want a relationship thats full of trust and passion and intimacy. ive seen him at night and during the day. its all about when we can find the time to meet up cuz were both working long, weird hours. im really into him but hes so confusing.
Courtney's Cockpit sounds as if he has commitment issues... which is always a very bad sign. A man who truly wants to be with you won't even consider wasting time not claiming you as his own.
Chelsea wong are you asking what if my best friend likes me and says he wants to be together? I'd definitely say yes to that. There's no stronger relationship than one that started out as best friends. But if you're asking about a situation similar to the commenter above where the guy doesn't want a relationship, but likes me and asks if I'll just accept the friendship for what it is, I would have to walk away from that. I've been in that situation before and nothing ever changed. We didn't want the same things, and while I was waiting for him to come around and finally commit, he was dating other women and claimed I couldn't get mad because we were "just friends." I'll never put myself through that heartache and humiliation again.
Don't assume that he's falling for you. Consider him to be a really good friend. Nothing wrong with platonic friends being so intimate. I myself don't want a relationship, but I'm more than open to a platonic (intimate, but not sexual) friendship with a woman, and I even described it the very way you described your friendship with this guy. What you have, is a platonic friendship. This kind of friendship is rare. Embrace it.
If he asks for a romantic relationship with you, then that means he has a crush on you. That's when you can assume it. If he hasn't asked, then see him as being a very, very good friend. Embrace your friendship.
i have a really weird problem with a man,he is 45 and has been single since 2009.we have known each other for 5 months now and he has always liked me but i didnt like him,but now i cant stop thinking about him.and when i told him this he was so shocked and confused to why i suddenly said it now.and yes we kissed but didnt have sex or anything.and he promised to call me the next day so i could visit him again ,but he didnt.and now he dont answer my text so i dont understand this foolishness.sorry for bad english grammar,but i live in norway.what does he really want? that is all i want to know:(
He said he doesn't want a girlfriend since his last one was a level 9 clinger. But when we were talking about music I asked him who he likes and he said "nobody, I'm a single pringle." I was talking about music. His attention was pretty much on me all night, and when one of our coworkers asked him if he was texting me while he was in the bathroom he said "No, shes texting her boyfriend." So he was looking away from me when he said that and she looked at me "you have a boyfriend?" I said "No." Later that night he told me to watch his favorite anime and then text him and said "when I see you at 2 tomorrow I'll talk to you."
pls tell me what do I say, if he tells you, he wants you to be his girlfriend. You like him, on a platonic level. How can, I tell him without losing the friendship? I've been thru all of these with him except him opening up to me. He said, he'd not been in a relationship for while and the last time, he opened up to a woman, his heart was broken. I understand his reasons. I met his parents and friends which made things more clear, this guy wants me. He's everything a woman would want on paper. Well, I say so, bc there are things I'm yet to know about him. Besides, he had a good profession. A doctor. I also have big dreams and goals myself. Working towards my masters. I feel bad. I've no idea how to deal with the situation. My fear is losin the friendship. We're great friends. We laughed so much when together. Lately, he'd texted me a lot to say, he missed me and he's been thinking a lot about me and life. All which sounds cool. There's something uncertain. He puts alot on his success and things, which he should bc he works hard. I'm the gal, with successes, I rather stay grounded. Idk what I should say at times. In my heart, nothing is wrong with him. Sometimes, your intuition tells you, you have met the one. This one is different.
You are friends for a while and you know him. If it didn't click for you yet, the chances are it never will. I have met some guys myself who are really great and some girls would kill to have a boyfriend like that, but I couldn't fall in love, I just felt nothing more than friendship. And if they really like you, it is difficult. You don't want to hurt them but at the same time you know you don't want to be with them. Unfortunately the only way out is to tell the truth, that you are only friends and you don't want anything more and hope he respects your decision. Trust me, when you meet the right guy, you will not have any doubts.
+Emka wow thanks Emka. I'm so glad you can relate. I've heard the saying few times, when you meet the right one, most uncertainty runs out the window. Atleast, I can tell him my truth without fear. Because I feel nothing.
+Serena Quaye Because it is true. In my case it took me few hours of chatting with a guy to decide whether I wanna see where it goes or not. Even if you take a month to really get to know them, you will know, you will feel the attraction and connection building over time ye spend together. So don't be afraid to tell the guy if the mutual feeling is not there. He may leave as it is difficult to be friends with someone you really like, but at least you won't be creating hopes for him and you will open door for someone who you can actually genuinely love.
I have been going on dates with this guy for about a month now. He accidentally called me his girlfriend and when I asked him what he just said he said oh nothing lol 🤣. But he is great ❤️
Oh damn that last subtle sign was the MOST subtle of them all! I never would have thought when a dude says, "Hey, I want to be your boyfriend" that he actually wants to be my boyfriend! Wow, what a shock!! *takes notes*
+Rachel cx Help! You have that scary character from Spirited Away as your profile! xP haha. Just had to say it. Don't know what "that thing" is called in english... o.O
I thought it was funny
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SHOCKING
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1. He'll see you when its light out
2. He'll meet your friends and family
3. You'll meet his friends and family
4. He'll plan ahead with you
5. He's opened up to you
6. He listen to your needs
7. He tells you he wants to
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Thanks!!
Meeting family ? How is that subtle!?
Saved me time, thank you
Thanks
'And the last one: If he wants to be your boyfriend, he'll ask it.' WOW I DIDN'T KNOW THAT 😂
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Ya that’s called adult hood
My crush doesn't even talk to me, and here I am watching videos like " Subtle signs he wants to be your boyfriend "
You and me both 😣damn see because its the imagination or fantasy that got us here..
Lol, same.
Lol 😊 same 😂
My ex did all this...turns out he is a narcisist.
so accurate it hurts!
Yeah. Narcissists are a completely different conversation. Narcassists learn you just to learn how to control and manipulate you.
But I'm sure this video is talking about normal awesome men.☺ If you are still reeling from what your ex did and the narcissistic behavior,seek therapy. You need to be able to move on from the hurt of that last relationship so you will not carry that into the next relationship. Not every man is like that.
So true
Samesies 🙄
I am seeking therapy from my narcissistic relationship
meeting parents is just awkward....
yeah I dread that 😣😣😣😣
+bluee 222358 i've always wondered how people do it, like my friends :/
true its like going to an interview
lalagirl211 exactly! how do someone control their nerves... i hate interviews HAHAHA and this is probably why i'll be single forever :")
LNA u will say that for now but u will never be single
“Make plans months in advance” what
“Hey, we should get some lunch in a few months” lol
Mochira spending birthday together is making plans in advance
Lmfao
So there is this guy who was my friend ( I always liked him) and he started acting really weird, and he took me shopping and bought me stuff I really didn't want 😂 and one day he introduced me to his family and now his little sister loves me and she's so cute but I was still confused what was going on but I started watching his videos and I realized he loved me and I talked to him about and we r now hitting 2 years💙
Awe :3
Ally Katt am in such a dille ma just waiting to see his next move have known him for 4 yrs
Aww that's so good for you and your boyfriends c:
Ally Lapp 😐🎢📢
Ally Lapp same im only 10yrs old and he called me dear he said that out loud until my friends teasing me that he likes me 😂😂
I'm not a woman, but I am Gay and I have been burned. I finally found my boyfriend now who is just amazing and as you say fulfils me as a person. You videos helped me learn to trust him. I had to separate him and the guys who burned me in my mind. Thanks for your help Adam!
Thanks for your comment!! I am dating a great guy and I am trying not to ruin it by basing every detail off my past. These videos are great and I am glad to witness this method did work for someone.
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I am your 100th like!!! Cool!!
We are all human and want the same thing. Love and be loved
i clicked on this by accident...i swear...
I clicked on this accidentally as well...
same.... this keeps happening.....
Blue yeah me too I wonder why it keeps happening..hmm
I was on watching buzzfeed and the auto play thing brought me here
Tea Elephant Confetti me too!
when all these things are adult im sitting here like 8th grade yup
Queenie LPS same lol
same
Gregarious Grace same
Queenie LPS same
I'm in the same boat
1.) See you during the day- oof I just went running with him the other day, and when we were exercising I fell and it seemed like he cared so..
2, 3) Meets family- what if I all ready know them.
4.) Planning something- we were planning to go bowling
5.) Open up- he was opened up to me before and that’s not someone he does for a lot of people.
6.) Listening to me- I don’t really know if he cares
7.) Tells me- well he knows I like him but we have never really had that conversation before so....
That's true!
I LOVE THIS VIDEO. Especially the part about trust and opening up. Vulnerability in a relationship is like air to fire, it keeps the whole thing going.
A guy who was my friend for 3 years just fooled me with that one. He opened up a LOT, pushed sex hard, didn't listen to my needs in the bedroom, and then ghosted me. My take on him = he may be using the open up thing to get sex and keep it casual. It may not be true for other guys but they know that women love this.
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@@pattitilden7998 eww wtf
I noticed subtle signs. I write this before I watch this video for the sake of it. Maybe it will help the creator or someone here.
He seemed to always want to clarify that his other chic friends were only friends.
He started caring if I was cold at his house and would turn off the air or get me a blanket.
He started to care if I had food and other needs in my house even though I wouldn't ask if I did need something.
He began changing from that harsh, tough brotherly kind of punch you in the arm character to softer in the eyes.
If my mind wandered for even a second he would catch it and ask me what I'm thinking about.
He remembered things I said that others wouldn't remember. Like where I was born.
He began wanting to spend more than a movies worth of time together.
Started wondering why I don't text him more.
He began lighting up when I walked into his house.
He cooked for me and my kids, but wouldn't let me cook for him.
We started to have "our thing". Like what shows we chose and a special ice cream we eat together.
He would also tell me when a gross part of a movie was over and never tried to trick me or make fun of me.
He started to appreciate cute things about me. Like the fact that I have a hard time recognizing a joke, ect.
Started indulging in conversation with me about things that were private that he would never speak to me about before.
I began to wonder, but he still maintained we were only friends. That is it. The point is I was wondering, but couldn't be sure.
One day he kind of held my hand by putting his over mine, but I was confused about it and said nothing. Just wondered.
Finally, a week after the hand holding incident a man tried to date me. I told my best friend and his head spun around so fast. Began monopolizing my whole day when he found out that other guy was around. He became very jealous and even a little pissy with me. We had never had a harsh word before in two years. I had to come out and ask him. His answer? Of course, he liked me.
Now he is my boyfriend and he is smiling bigger than I've ever seen him. Now I will watch the video.
But there's also a point where guys act like they are your boyfriend until they got what they wanted... they will say the sweetest things and compliment you .. it's just like they know the way and they know how to manipulate others. Seriously most wouldn't know the truth until they just suddenly dissappeared. Such actors and they'll probably do the same all over again. How would you catch someone like that ?
Getting to know family and friends is anything but subtle
Omg...Everything applies before he asked me...Now he's my boyfriend!
When you realized you are the girl that is like "eh a relationship could be nice but isn't necessary"
Uff he has done some of these and now I am worried
A lot of people in the comments make fun of the last sign (he'll say so) but a lot of people make assumptions about the relationship without ever really talking it out. They are then dumbfounded when they find out the other person has a completely different view of what's going on.
toyamwarr Precisely what I've said. This video is full of false assumptions.
um actually i have something to add to this, sometimes a guy will try to avoid a girl because he might get a bit nervous around you because he likes you and is to afraid to admit it trust me i had to almost strangle a guy because he was avoiding my friend and she really liked him. When i heard what he said i hooked them up instantly even though i took 3 months i finally got them to date and they are still together to this day.
Cat Girl or if he avoids you...he doesn't like you
leape R yeah true
I met this guy and we have clicked. He works at night and I work during the day. It's hard to see each other but we meet when he gets off work in the morning we go to the gym together. We are becoming good friends and we talk to each other. It started out as friends with benefits but now it's like sex isn't important we just enjoy each other's company. Do you think it is a good beginning to a relationship to take to the next level?
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I Know I'm in a great relationship since my guy does all these things. I'm so grateful!
About four months ago I came to these videos on how to get someone back, and look at me now, ticking ALL theses boxes.
My crush has done all of these...
Except the last one (duh) xD
+Ishita Sangia same thing !
SAME FUCK
Oh well. I look back and think how naive I was. That lil fucker . Even his name makes me want to puke now.
...guessing it didn't go well? :/
Why it's so hard to find the right guy? Are my standrads too high or something's wrong with me because they keep screwing my life.
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Well!!! Same here!
Damn girl...
Me too.... were special?🤔
@@yorbesteeumessee8537 we're different I guess or very traditional and everything is changing, is really difficult to find the ONE😬
You haven't met the right guy yet that's all... he'll come when the times right. I was the same...chatting to someone now who seems ace but let's see......(?)
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Well, let's just say we have been friends for a year. He mirrors my actions, like if I highlight something he'll do the same. When the teacher says "Paired work" he looks at me. When the teacher tells us we have a new seating plan, we end up sitting next to each other and giggling our heads off. He only showed of his AMAZING foreign language skills to me and also this guy told me about his injuries, and when he was injured he told me first. He also asked me to go with him and his friend to an ice-cream place and his friend dropped out so we ended up going together. People take the mick and say we should be going out but i'm waiting for him because i'm so scared he will reject me. I really can relate to him, but he went out with my friend before and he dumped her. I'm scared he will do the same to me. I can't tell any of my friends because it will cost me a lot of friendships, but I think i'm falling for him. There are so many signs that say he likes me and I don't care if people don't like the way he looks. His personality is what is the best about him. Just your average joe but means a lot to me. If you were wondering why he dumped my friend, it was because she was too clingy and wouldn't let him have freedom, *Seriously, she left a bruise mark on his arm because she gripped on to him too tight* Please can you help me? Idk what to do :(
Wow I've got a new guy WITH all these signs and my person WITHOUT!
I am dying for a boyfriend so much I'm really lonely!
You dont need a boyfriend. Focus on being better for you and dont worry about a boyfriend. Learn about yourself in your times of singleness. Have fun with your friends. You are not alone. God is always there for you.
Boyfriend will come if you take care of yourself and go out to the things you like
I can be boy-friend... but i live in malaysia
I tell ya what. You look like a nice person, I'm gonna help you out... Oh shit, you wrote that 2 years ago...lol
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Thanks! Great advice....I see some men I've dated do everything you mentioned yet still don't mention being "exclusive" frustrating
The last sign gave me a good hint, even if it seems too subtle, thank you for mentioning what others might judge, but what we will have it make slot of things clear
Okay, so I like this guy, who is my coworker and I don't know If he likes me. He opened up about some really deep things about himself, he has always been really open about his struggles to me. He compliments my apearence and notice small things like If i got a new shirt. I also have a really short temper but he doesn't get scared off by that, he understands that I'm stressed and hugs me or tell me how good i am at my work ect. He also seem kinda nicer to me than other people.
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what about if that person happens to be my best friend?
Cake Kyo yeah the guy i like is my best friend and he knows i like him
Dorothy Davis mine doesnt even tell... he is oblivious as f++k.
It is worse if you both like each other and start to date and break up. You can be friends afterwards (if you both still like each other) but it is awkward af.
in my case he doesn´t get it... that slow motherFLOWER lol
it would be awkward .... yes.... and I don´t think we can be as before even though we still want to
So, there’s this guy at my school. My best friend who just happens to be his EX GIRLFRIEND has said for a fact that he likes me. But I’m just not ready for a relationship, nor am I sure that I like him...
someone help!
This guy that I've been talking to is already most of these things. He shares with me stuff he doesn't share with anyone one else. He even told me he has started to like me (but we're not dating, we haven't known each other long enough). It makes me excited and just happy to know he's interested but I feel really pressured because I don't want to lose his interest and I'm just worried.
I think another subtle sign he wants to be your boyfriend is when he says “we” to his friends and family.
1. ✅
2. ❌
3. ❌ and ✅
4. ✅
5. ✅
6. ✅
7. ❌
But then again...it’s only been a month 🤷♀️. Not looking to jump into it anyway. But I don’t want anyone else to have him either!
Oh my god? I am literally in the same situation..also had same yes and no's.like you..but also date him for a month by now..we should definety update each other haha
Ugh my mans does none.
My brother introduces all girls (hook ups/ serious interest) to my mother and I. It pains me to see their enthusiasm in meeting us because we know the girl is most likely flavor of the week
number 4 is really clever! I'll definitely be watching for that in my potential bae lol. Thank you!
Well.. I'm only 14, so I'm still in high school... But.. My crush has done all of these.. Except for the last one.. But.. Whenever I'm with him and his family, I always make a fool of myself.. He also does most of these to another girl too... He invites her out when it's light, she's met his family, he's met hers and he listens to her needs.. But he's done all of them with me except for the last one..
Great signs for sure! Thank you, Adam... Your videos are so awesome and truly helpful!
The guy I knew said he was “on a break” and “not sure what he wanted” and “the last girl he dated they stopped a couple years ago”
What if he does these things
Take pictures of you at random times
Picks on you playfully
You go can easily joke around
And is protective of you
+Glamorous Angel Sounds like he likes you! The teasing and protection are sure signs
Yeah, and if he's taking pictures of you he's probably just taking em to show his friends or family the girl he likes
Or he's taking them for himself so he can keep them & look at them
sometimes he talks to me for hours, but sometimes i feel like he likes his video games more than me.
what if someone displays 5 1/2 of these signs but he keeps saying that when he meets women they keep trying to rush him into a relationship without getting to know him. He's hinted at a relationship, like said "if I had a girlfriend, it would benefit her in such and such a way....." We've had intense conversations and he's a good listener. We're coming dinner together tonight and I'm meeting his son. but what throws me off its that he keeps saying that women try to rush him into a relationship and that he appreciates that I just go with the flow and don't pressure. (we've not had sex, he's low pressure too). but because of what he said about other women I'm not sure he wants a relationship.
what does it mean when a guy says " i want you"? after waiting a year to make a move on me ..
Krystal Holland It means that he needed some time to figure out if your what he really wanted. Now that he has came to terms with that I think he does. You just have to be open to it and ready for it. Everything happens at the right timing and I believe this is your time
thank you sounds right i over think things. Thanks again
Krystal Holland No need to thank me you deserve an honest answer. Girl I feel the same about the guy I'm with. We have an emotional attraction to one another but we have yet to discuss how we feel. So instead we're both left feeling clueless and confused. I still overthink things myself that's just apart of who we are as females. But girl the signs are there. He wants you and best believe he will get you. You just have to let him ❤️
xoxo you made my day caring to answer so glad I'm not the only one , and on the same page , yes I'll be ready.
Or he wants sex
He will plan ahead with you
Him: hey, you wanna go to McDonalds next month for lunch
Me: ...
My crush has done 4/7 of these, looking pretty good so far! Can't wait to meet up with him during the summer 🥰
He did everything but the last one. Everything was going good until we had a disagreement and he told me one day that he's not ready for a relationship. I still don't understand what happened and how we went from being kinda dating to 'we're technically not seeing each other anyway right?' He hasn't been in a relationship in a while and I haven't either. We've only been seeing each other for a month. He even gave me flowers for our one month mark 'because I've been nagging him about it and so that I'd stop'. What happened? Should I just move on? It's been 2 days since the talk. Help
What’s the out come???
These were very helpful tips!!!!! 🙂
Ok.....So what about a guy that says he doesn't want a relationship, but displays all the first 6 traits that he does??? Spends a lot of time with me day and night, sex isn't always involved, met his friends and family, and they all like me, Went to the cottage for a long weekend together, would call me to talk or check in sometimes 2 or 3 times a day, would open up to me about very private things in his past, would complement me on not just looks but also being a great cook and being smart and fun, would take some selfies of us together.....but after about six months of this drifted slowly away????
I agree with Adam
type of men guys who want a girlfriend or wife.
guys who don't want a girlfriend or a wife.
It's strange behavior
He doesn't hang out,
Never met his friend or family.
He doesn't plan always busy.
He doesn't open up to me either
He judges me
Doesnt listen,
Doesn't have a conversation
He doesn't tell me.
He doesn't trust, he accuses me of being a narrastic when I am not that all.
All signs he want something causal not long term relationships.
So the guy shouldn't be mad at me, that I walk away. It wasn't easy to walk away give him some space, knowing how much I care about him and didn't want to deal with drumra or stress.
If a guy is interested the guy should be nicer kinder, confident, compassion,merciful, patience, caring,understanding, loving, sweet, faithful.
Not mean or rudeness.
All of them apply except #4 is that good? He hasn't told me either
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Yes a lot of times the guy does like an investigation we want to get to know you make sure you don’t have a boyfriend for one and then we try to find the best time and some of us get super nervous to ask
Ask him that’s they best way for sure some guys will never find the courage to do so
Or maybe he's a very, very good, rare gem friend.
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The part when he says that he doesn’t listen to your needs, with that music and earphones, was Hilarious 🤣
Informative and very funny part where “when will she shut up?”😂
I really enjoy your video and it helps a lot in identifying a guy who wants to be your boyfriend and not just a casual thing.
I just started to watch your videos yesterday and they were so amazing and helpful that i can't stop myslef from hiting the subscribe button! Keep going! And i love your videos , they're just awesome!
Damn it man... I had the potential to be with someone really awesome but I just didn't pick up on the sights and now I miss him.... 😓
Cee If he didn't ask you, then just assume that you are good friends. In my case, if I have a crush on anyone, I'll tell them straight away. There's no telling how many times I've fulfilled signs 1-6 with women who I've been just really good friends with. All the while, I never had a crush on them, and I would have rejected them in a very polite and friendly manner if they asked me for a relationship, and then continued being a very, very good friend to them even without the relationship.
He was always yelling at me... ,He hurt me so many times.. nw I am just nt talking to him..But I miss him..So much
Have you ever been in love with someone so bad you can't stand it. Like you can't breathe if you can't have him. That's how I feel I don't know exactly how he feel's about me, Commitment relationship forever. I know I can't act on impulse, he's got to have me as much as I do, worried though if I show to much.
Re meeting family. There are guys who meet your family and date behind your back at the same time in the same week and texts to the other woman lying about being single. You should talk about these kind of scenarios as well.
He saw me only in daylight. But when he wanted to talk to his family he disappeared from the scene. I don't even understand his language. He decided always last min to see me. A day before or even the same day. He did not open, only physically. So I know that I made the right decision to refuse his place. Thanks
just two words - THANK YOU!!
I love your videos and i just founf your channel 😁😁😁😁😁THEY ARE BETTER THAN ANY OTHER VIDEO I HAVE SEEN OF CRUSHES
Hey, Adam,, thank you so much for the advice! It's greatly appreciated! :)
I'm in high school and there's this guy that I like and we're such good friends like we just clicked but idk how he feels but all my friends say we'd be cute together
I think of he's open to planning a week or two ahead for a local activy, then I see that as boyfriend material too. 😉
Thanks for your video. 😊
The guy I am dating has done all of the above. Yet He hasn’t directly said he wants to be my BF though, only closest thing he’s said to that is that he wants to make changes in his life and wants me to be in his life 🤔
I love this guy. Thank you for your honest advice... good pointers
I was looking for guy advice because I've been talking to this guy and were fairly close then I saw this video
I've never clicked on a video so fast
NICE!
That last one was mad subtle man..😂
This was very helpful
After watching your tenth video, you won me over. Subbed!!!!!
These signs are helpful but sometimes the distance between the couple is another factor, like the man is sincere but work and distance get in the way,, it matters a lot too..so you cant really say that a man isnt into you just because he lives far away... it really depends like compromise and commitment
What does it mean when a guy asks you to the movies? Is that a date or are you just hanging out as friends? I've gone to the movies with this guy 3 times now, but I still don't know if he likes me or not. I'm assuming we are just friends.
AdaraValentina he hasnt tried to kiss you? Ask him?
Brad Hart I finally asked and he likes me. We're still spending time together, but he hasn't tried to kiss me. We're still just friends though.
AdaraValentina When you asked if he likes you, how did you ask it? What words did you use?
It's weird that I'm watching all of your videos to confirm my intuitions 😩
Love these videos!
Super funny. lol
Lol he won’t just be a vampire w you but will hang out w you in the day light too 🧛♀️🧛 seems obvious but this is so true
loved it! Thanks.😊
High school version: NO job, no money, yesterday was Valentine's Day. My daughter was noticing how some girls are "dating" and she is not. I told her no rush. In high school, these guys can't afford anything. IT's true. So dating to me in high school isn't really dating. Plus, it's all about being popular, they aren't in the real world yet. Sure, he could be the best drummer in the world, but after high school, which college? what future? it matters....
Should I be worried if a guy I've been dating long distance over the last two months suddenly tells me that a female family friend has become his best friend? He said she behaves masculine and he indirectly implied that she either likes females or is an actual lesbian......
Thanks for these videos. I met this guy and is showing a lot of the signs that you talk about when it comes to lying. Always seeming busy, and not showing much interest in anything going on in my life, but gets super excited when talks about having sex with me. I have this gut feeling that he lives with another woman or is married. But he always tells me he loves me and wants me. I think he is lying. I think it’s time to end it.
Yes! Trust your gut with this one.
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I have a guy now who knows I'm from NYC and I like Cognac...he just knew this from a casual phone conversation we had a week before our date. I show up at his place for our second date....he has Frank Sanatra playing and a glass of nice cognac waiting for me ♥️ That right there said a lot.
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Hey, I like your video. It is very helpful. I am not really a romantic person or experience in this kind of stuff but your video really help me. Thanks for sharing.
Most ppl work during the day so that’s not always true! You can only go on a date towards the evenings night.
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He treats me like his girlfriend..but he's never told me that he likes me or something he shares everything with me he said that he wants me to know everything about him..and he often asks me "What is our relaitionship?" "Do u think me as your friend?" And I actually don't know what to answer him..what should I answer him?
So this is my situation. I went on a date with this boy I like. We know each other a couple of years now but lost contact. We have a lot of mutual friends. He texts me quite often and remember things I told him briefly. A few weeks ago we saw each other at a very and danced en talked lots. But later he told me he had a girlfriend at the time (their relation lasted two days. She broke up with him after the party) but that got me wondering. He actually showed me a conversation he had with a friend I know as well. The friend asked him If our date was going well and if the boy thinks I am his dream, because we are cute together. He is not really a relationship kind of guy I feel like. But he gives all of these signals. What should I do? I really want to date him but I'm scared he is not genuine about this.
Great video I would like you to do a video about two men who likes each other
Why am I here 😩😩😩....just reminding myself that am single 🤦🏽♀️
I think my crush is starting to like me!!❤❤❤😁😁😁😍😍
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Whats it mean if he says he doesnt want us to be a thing yet is beyond intimate and loves to cuddle....loves to put his head on my chest and let me hold him? i cant help but feel like hes falling for me even tho hes younger and we both have our seperate lives with errands and tasks too. i want a relationship thats full of trust and passion and intimacy. ive seen him at night and during the day. its all about when we can find the time to meet up cuz were both working long, weird hours. im really into him but hes so confusing.
Courtney's Cockpit sounds as if he has commitment issues... which is always a very bad sign. A man who truly wants to be with you won't even consider wasting time not claiming you as his own.
MeekMeek what if your best friend ask will you accept him if he likes you?pls answer me. ...I am dying to know it😅
Chelsea wong are you asking what if my best friend likes me and says he wants to be together? I'd definitely say yes to that. There's no stronger relationship than one that started out as best friends. But if you're asking about a situation similar to the commenter above where the guy doesn't want a relationship, but likes me and asks if I'll just accept the friendship for what it is, I would have to walk away from that. I've been in that situation before and nothing ever changed. We didn't want the same things, and while I was waiting for him to come around and finally commit, he was dating other women and claimed I couldn't get mad because we were "just friends." I'll never put myself through that heartache and humiliation again.
Don't assume that he's falling for you. Consider him to be a really good friend. Nothing wrong with platonic friends being so intimate. I myself don't want a relationship, but I'm more than open to a platonic (intimate, but not sexual) friendship with a woman, and I even described it the very way you described your friendship with this guy. What you have, is a platonic friendship. This kind of friendship is rare. Embrace it.
If he asks for a romantic relationship with you, then that means he has a crush on you. That's when you can assume it. If he hasn't asked, then see him as being a very, very good friend. Embrace your friendship.
i have a really weird problem with a man,he is 45 and has been single since 2009.we have known each other for 5 months now and he has always liked me but i didnt like him,but now i cant stop thinking about him.and when i told him this he was so shocked and confused to why i suddenly said it now.and yes we kissed but didnt have sex or anything.and he promised to call me the next day so i could visit him again ,but he didnt.and now he dont answer my text so i dont understand this foolishness.sorry for bad english grammar,but i live in norway.what does he really want? that is all i want to know:(
He said he doesn't want a girlfriend since his last one was a level 9 clinger. But when we were talking about music I asked him who he likes and he said "nobody, I'm a single pringle." I was talking about music. His attention was pretty much on me all night, and when one of our coworkers asked him if he was texting me while he was in the bathroom he said "No, shes texting her boyfriend." So he was looking away from me when he said that and she looked at me "you have a boyfriend?" I said "No." Later that night he told me to watch his favorite anime and then text him and said "when I see you at 2 tomorrow I'll talk to you."
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Dying at the bit where the woman tries to speak to the man with the headphones 💀😭
my crush cheated on me how can I trust him again it's hard and to move on and broke up with him.
BEATRICE DALISAY how can a crush cheat on you?
@@Ms452123 yeh ikr lmfaoooo 😂😂🤣
That's a bf not a crush. A crush can't cheat on you, you are not with a crush.
I mean my boyfriend haha
pls tell me what do I say, if he tells you, he wants you to be his girlfriend. You like him, on a platonic level. How can, I tell him without losing the friendship? I've been thru all of these with him except him opening up to me. He said, he'd not been in a relationship for while and the last time, he opened up to a woman, his heart was broken. I understand his reasons. I met his parents and friends which made things more clear, this guy wants me. He's everything a woman would want on paper. Well, I say so, bc there are things I'm yet to know about him. Besides, he had a good profession. A doctor. I also have big dreams and goals myself. Working towards my masters. I feel bad. I've no idea how to deal with the situation. My fear is losin the friendship. We're great friends. We laughed so much when together. Lately, he'd texted me a lot to say, he missed me and he's been thinking a lot about me and life. All which sounds cool. There's something uncertain. He puts alot on his success and things, which he should bc he works hard. I'm the gal, with successes, I rather stay grounded. Idk what I should say at times. In my heart, nothing is wrong with him. Sometimes, your intuition tells you, you have met the one. This one is different.
You are friends for a while and you know him. If it didn't click for you yet, the chances are it never will. I have met some guys myself who are really great and some girls would kill to have a boyfriend like that, but I couldn't fall in love, I just felt nothing more than friendship. And if they really like you, it is difficult. You don't want to hurt them but at the same time you know you don't want to be with them. Unfortunately the only way out is to tell the truth, that you are only friends and you don't want anything more and hope he respects your decision. Trust me, when you meet the right guy, you will not have any doubts.
+Emka wow thanks Emka. I'm so glad you can relate. I've heard the saying few times, when you meet the right one, most uncertainty runs out the window. Atleast, I can tell him my truth without fear. Because I feel nothing.
+Serena Quaye Because it is true. In my case it took me few hours of chatting with a guy to decide whether I wanna see where it goes or not. Even if you take a month to really get to know them, you will know, you will feel the attraction and connection building over time ye spend together. So don't be afraid to tell the guy if the mutual feeling is not there. He may leave as it is difficult to be friends with someone you really like, but at least you won't be creating hopes for him and you will open door for someone who you can actually genuinely love.
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I have been going on dates with this guy for about a month now. He accidentally called me his girlfriend and when I asked him what he just said he said oh nothing lol 🤣. But he is great ❤️