Because he wants to stay accessible. By looking at your stories, he's making it seem like he cares. He doesn't, ladies this is the bare minimum. We have to expect better.
I’m so over all of this... this dating scene in our generation is so messed up. Sticking to myself and my goals. When a healthy grown man approaches me I’ll pay attention 💯
10 years ago, stories and my day isn’t a thing. Back then men still has the guts to tell you how they feel and will set a day to ask you out (2010 when people just starting to explore fb and ig) But nowadays social media has made it a lot easier for them to find a prey and they rarely put an effort to even say hi. There are younger men who hit on me and I can clearly tell the difference between men of my age and men of younger generation.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾that’s all it is… because really a man who actually wants us won’t leave enough space for another man to have us 🤷🏾♀️… so the assumption is he doesnt like us
Yup me too! Thank God I met Tony before I settled with anyone. Tony actually saved me from alot of trouble so I am 100% sure God sent him my way bless him
After hearing the Talks with Tony I’m not sure anymore 😂 I’m kinda put off. It motivates me to become a billionaire and buy a private island, so I won’t have to deal with this
“Watching stories” is just another way for a low effort male to maintain minimum contact. In some cases, he is trying to keep tabs on you. I wouldn’t waste my time with a person like that. Keep it moving!
Yes, men can pick up on insecurity and lack of morals by your IG page. This can be seen in overly posting, lots of scantily clad clothes, always clubbing, etc. I rarely post and when I do, I think twice on its underlying message.
@@TheAshlynBranae I have to check myself too. I have a naturally curvy figure (not bragging 😭) so every picture can come off as a butt shot depending on how I angle it 😂🤣😫 I ask myself if I would be comfortable with a teacher or manager finding my page and seeing that pic. If not, I know it’s probably not IG page appropriate lol
@@sheloves3663 I had to do the same Sis. I cleaned up my page after feelings of conviction. Now I’m super careful about what I post. To the point of barely posting because I don’t want to come across the wrong way lol
@@prettytaurus3671 Right. Sometimes we be so excited to post we don’t think about how pics come off. It works because I find I get more engagement by the time I do post and gives me some mystery also lol 👌🏾
What does it mean when a guy who would never watch any of my stories and now all of a sudden is watching my stories he even left a message on a selfie I posted on my story but he never ever likes any of my pictures tho he only watches my stories?
Omg!!! The way you smiled at your wife was soooo cute!!! Lord knows I want my husband to look at me and smile the same way 20 years down the line. Omg...
Women's problem is we dont know how to let stuff go. It is what it is dont try to force it. If you already mess up than leave it like it is. It is time for me to focus on something else. It is just unhealthy for me to always worry about a man. It is becoming an addiction.
Women just be grabbing at straws with these males. Stories? Really? Who cares? While a relationship may be great we as women need to stop making men the be all end all of their world. Especially if he does nothing for you.
As a guy , I'm not watching any girls stories who I have no interest in period. Strange thing is some of these women that watch my stories, I don't watch theirs as not interested in them. I feel a bit uncomfortable them watching and knowing so much about me. Sometimes I just hide stories from ppl who I have no real connection with.
We are so grateful for you. I was scared of marriage, but I’m understanding that a lot of us were already doing wife things without any benefits. I’m learning so much because I didn’t have a father in my life. God bless you !
I agreee. On my end, I gave up social media a long time ago. I'll post and go but I don't keep up enough to be pressed. I remember a guy I stopped speaking to would purposely watch a video I post seconds later so I can notice him. He stopped eventually when I didn't reply to his message in my DM. It comes a point in time that women gotta catch onto the game or by watching Tony Gaskins videos lol.
I have never in my life seen a man express the love he has for his wife like Tony does, pure love, untainted, it's so refreshing to see. I have learned so much watching Tony and still learning, even when he blows me back (with laughter). Good question, good answer, things I never considered.
This is a question I’ve always had (regarding the consistent story watching & no follow up action or inquiry). Thank you for the young lady who took the time to write in and thank you Tony, as always, for the enlightenment.
Great clarification, don’t take him serious until he walks me down the isle. 💯 No cookies 🍪 [literal or physical] for doing what he’s supposed to do. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Sisters, we have to do better. That question was nonsensical. If a man is not asking you out, you are not going out. If a man is not calling you (consistently), you are not talking. If a man does not tell you "specifically" that he is interested, he has done nothing. Come on sisters.....
Maybe 🤔 it is exactly, what it is: “he jus’ like watching her stories online,”no more or no less! When a man truly wants you... you don’t have to wonder. I think she’s giving meaning to something that’s not there. He gave no indication that he wanted her. She need to get out of her thoughts and get a life; he did!
Facebook is the same way. That’s why I don’t watch storys on there. Don’t want to give the wrong impression. I just want to see what my friend made for dinner, not half naked people lol
This was a great question! As a woman, I watch people’s stories sometimes and it means absolutely nothing. I’m just scrolling through just like when I scroll through my timeline.
But men be doing it for a different reason. I just experienced it and it’s weird the way they do it. It’s called orbiting. I learned the hard way but I’m glad I figured out what was going on.
Tony only God could give you this wisdom because this is something I was thinking too. I thought that meant he liked me too. I bet its a lot more of us older people who need to know some of this stuff too. You definitely taught me something once again. Be blessed son. Lik-a mor in my Jamaican accent Sharita.
Is he keeping her as a “write-in” on his roster? He’s playing her. She maybe just one of his playthings to keep her in his game. Learn the DM game and don’t play by his rules. Play by yours and you’ll never lose.
Thanks for the video. This makes perfect sense. How a woman presents herself determines if the man finds her to be wife material. The smallest thing may be a turn-off and it is not necessarily because the woman is bad.
I watch some guys stories all the way through and be knowing I don't like em so definitely true it doesn't mean anything😂😂😂 I can find someone attractive and still wouldn't give the time or day for many reasons
Thank you!! I tell women all the time not to go shoot their shot cus they could HELPING a man cheat! & most these loose booty women think if he’s choosing he ain’t happy but at the end of the day they jus made themselves EASY!
When I tell you I am dying laughing at Tony impression of us women 😂😂😂, in the age of social media I have succumbed to thinking a man was interested just because he watched my IG story. It’s def a new issue in this day & age of social media. I don’t like to follow men of interest online! I’m not able to deal with all that comes with it
Tony, been going thru it lately. I took your advice...Been binge listening to "MAKE IT WORK" by Tony A. Gaskins Jr. May you and yours remain continuously Blessed. Ty for the message.
Thank you for the motivational emails you’ve been sending out as of late Tony. They have really blessed me! You are apart of my daily routine to grow and evolve. I mean that in the most respectful way to you and Mrs. Gaskins! Sincerely... Thank You 🙏🏽
Tonty who hits their phone that hard ?!😂🤣🤣🤣also man are very easy to understand..If he does not actually reach out to you to build something it means nothing. We really do read way too much into these mens lol
Someone did this to me a few days ago. I blocked them and they created another account to and followed me. I just ignored. It was all a game . I don’t play games. I recognized what he was doing very fast and I did the necessary to protect myself from such a coward
Again Bullseye! You are absolutely right a man has done nothing for you unless he walks you down the aisle or to the courthouse. Taking you to bed or to his home to shack is nothing to be either proud about, excited about, or looking forward to a long time commitment. Once you put out they'll be a more likelihood of him to put you out eventually. Respect yourself if you want to be respected and do not give any pre-marital benefits.
🤣😂 I would definitely get a kick out of seeing Tony Gaskins on my stories . I would tell the world 🤷🏽♀️🙏🏾 and if my IMAGINATION runs wild... so be it 😤
Because he wants to stay accessible. By looking at your stories, he's making it seem like he cares. He doesn't, ladies this is the bare minimum. We have to expect better.
Exactly! Please let's open up our eyes and see stuff for what it really is and not what we want it to be.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Exactly. Phones are still a thing and I know not to read too much into social media.
Same with liking. Personally I don't pay attention to who is watching my stories because sometimes I'm bored and scrolling through
This generation are hella lazy. Only want short cuts no efforts
“Until a man shoooows you that he likes you, and he makes you his, don’t get your hopes up.” TG
Are you Dr. Elaine Hatfield?
@@thesimoneshow2608
Thanks for asking. I am not, but if you look at my channel, you probably can figure out who I am.
Can i still be genuine? Ive been using Golden Rule too soon! Even the grown men seem to look to see if you're gonna know what not to do to soon. Man!!
I wish someone told me this last year it would’ve stopped the confusion, but I’m glad I learned. On to 24 !
Basically
“A man has done nothing for you until he walks you down that aisle” say it louder for the ones in the back hell I’m in the back too 😂😂😂
Single until married. And keeping my options open
Girl 🤣
Me too 😫😭🤣
I Know that's right!!!😫😭😂
Keep the legs close, I don't want to waste my time either.
I’m so over all of this... this dating scene in our generation is so messed up. Sticking to myself and my goals. When a healthy grown man approaches me I’ll pay attention 💯
10 years ago, stories and my day isn’t a thing. Back then men still has the guts to tell you how they feel and will set a day to ask you out (2010 when people just starting to explore fb and ig) But nowadays social media has made it a lot easier for them to find a prey and they rarely put an effort to even say hi. There are younger men who hit on me and I can clearly tell the difference between men of my age and men of younger generation.
@@DallasJayCook yeah it’s absolutely ridiculous. It’s rare to find a real man these days.
This is where I am. I'm not hating anyone or begrudging anyone their good times. I just can't participate in it anymore.
Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾that’s all it is… because really a man who actually wants us won’t leave enough space for another man to have us 🤷🏾♀️… so the assumption is he doesnt like us
I never wanted to get married until I found this page. I didn't care much for it, but now it's a priority.
@@kaleema1987 I was like that a few months ago. But this ain't for free 😂 I'ma need him to come up off that ring
Same
Hahaha I'm the complete opposite I always thought I wanted to get married not realising I wasn't ready and guys are crazy!
Yup me too! Thank God I met Tony before I settled with anyone. Tony actually saved me from alot of trouble so I am 100% sure God sent him my way bless him
After hearing the Talks with Tony I’m not sure anymore 😂 I’m kinda put off. It motivates me to become a billionaire and buy a private island, so I won’t have to deal with this
“Watching stories” is just another way for a low effort male to maintain minimum contact. In some cases, he is trying to keep tabs on you. I wouldn’t waste my time with a person like that. Keep it moving!
I heard that! 👏
“Do not give a man rent free space in your mind” 💯 dropped Another gold nugget👊🏼🔥🔥🔥
Wheewie, Sheri must've been looking good good, cause Tony stopped mid thought. AMEN. Alright now.
Yes, men can pick up on insecurity and lack of morals by your IG page. This can be seen in overly posting, lots of scantily clad clothes, always clubbing, etc. I rarely post and when I do, I think twice on its underlying message.
Girl you just got me together with this comment.
@@TheAshlynBranae I have to check myself too. I have a naturally curvy figure (not bragging 😭) so every picture can come off as a butt shot depending on how I angle it 😂🤣😫 I ask myself if I would be comfortable with a teacher or manager finding my page and seeing that pic. If not, I know it’s probably not IG page appropriate lol
@@sheloves3663 I had to do the same Sis. I cleaned up my page after feelings of conviction. Now I’m super careful about what I post. To the point of barely posting because I don’t want to come across the wrong way lol
@@prettytaurus3671 Right. Sometimes we be so excited to post we don’t think about how pics come off. It works because I find I get more engagement by the time I do post and gives me some mystery also lol 👌🏾
What does it mean when a guy who would never watch any of my stories and now all of a sudden is watching my stories he even left a message on a selfie I posted on my story but he never ever likes any of my pictures tho he only watches my stories?
Omg!!! The way you smiled at your wife was soooo cute!!! Lord knows I want my husband to look at me and smile the same way 20 years down the line. Omg...
Girl yes 😭
Yesss! If he doesn’t smile like that when he looks at me, I don’t want him!
He will sis.
@@truthspeaker1508 Thanks love ❤
😑
DO NOT PRAISE BOYFRIENDS!!!!!!
He is keeping her in the just in case box and feeding his ego. She should unfollow/unfriend and block him.
Sounds about right💯
Exactly. Been there done that. Now I don't think anything of it if a man dm's me or watches my stories.
thats what I did...blocked him from all social media...
Right
That little skit about how women think was pure comedy! We really do read into things! “Until a man SHOWS you...it doesn’t mean anything!”
They call it "orbiting." It is so annoying. I blocked all men that tried that with me.
Wow...there’s a name for it? 🤦🏽♀️
Lol awww God bless me with a man that is thoughtful and blesses me with gifts for no reason! And not just on occasions!
Women's problem is we dont know how to let stuff go. It is what it is dont try to force it. If you already mess up than leave it like it is. It is time for me to focus on something else. It is just unhealthy for me to always worry about a man. It is becoming an addiction.
I totally agree.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Women just be grabbing at straws with these males. Stories? Really? Who cares? While a relationship may be great we as women need to stop making men the be all end all of their world. Especially if he does nothing for you.
I agree..watch as many stories as you like I will never know bc I never check that anyways 🤷🏾♀️
Preach!
Exactly!
A whole word right here!
@@movementbymyself7222 Thud...reality hit!
“Do not praise boyfriends when they have did nutin!!!”
Sage advise Tony ☝🏼🙌🏼👏🏼
I’m weak “screenshot on the way” “it starts w/a T” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hollering lmaooo
Girl i fell out 🤣🤣
"Tonty Gaskins lol"
Hilarious!!!!! 😂😂😂😩
I am definitely someone who assigns meaning to things that may not be anything when it comes to men. It’s something I need to work on.
As a guy , I'm not watching any girls stories who I have no interest in period. Strange thing is some of these women that watch my stories, I don't watch theirs as not interested in them. I feel a bit uncomfortable them watching and knowing so much about me. Sometimes I just hide stories from ppl who I have no real connection with.
I always wanted a regular guy’s view on this, thanks.
I always say social media is for free for as long we keep posting people will view and I can't attach anything to that. Thank you Tony 🙏🏽💫
We are so grateful for you. I was scared of marriage, but I’m understanding that a lot of us were already doing wife things without any benefits. I’m learning so much because I didn’t have a father in my life. God bless you !
FACTS!!
Yes indeed
Guess what .. grown boys want to judge women to explore imperfections but they aren’t perfect...broken, sad, busted ,and disgusted
🎯 🎳
There's no pause in between stories so there's a good chance that he may not have meant to watch🤷🏿♀️
I agreee. On my end, I gave up social media a long time ago. I'll post and go but I don't keep up enough to be pressed. I remember a guy I stopped speaking to would purposely watch a video I post seconds later so I can notice him. He stopped eventually when I didn't reply to his message in my DM. It comes a point in time that women gotta catch onto the game or by watching Tony Gaskins videos lol.
If he’s just watching your story then most likely he’s probably married, has a live- in-girlfriend, or just has too many on his roster.
Too many on roster 😂😂😂
🤣🤣
I have never in my life seen a man express the love he has for his wife like Tony does, pure love, untainted, it's so refreshing to see. I have learned so much watching Tony and still learning, even when he blows me back (with laughter). Good question, good answer, things I never considered.
I agree!! He is one of a kind.
This is a question I’ve always had (regarding the consistent story watching & no follow up action or inquiry). Thank you for the young lady who took the time to write in and thank you Tony, as always, for the enlightenment.
Great clarification, don’t take him serious until he walks me down the isle. 💯
No cookies 🍪 [literal or physical] for doing what he’s supposed to do. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Sisters, we have to do better. That question was nonsensical. If a man is not asking you out, you are not going out. If a man is not calling you (consistently), you are not talking. If a man does not tell you "specifically" that he is interested, he has done nothing. Come on sisters.....
:(
“Watching and liking are not synonymous” WHEW! Right on time, thank you!
In a NON-DEHYDRATTED way... I just hollered ... Mr Gaskins you are the GOAT!!
🤣 It's the phone conversation for me 😂
Fix it Jesus!! 🙌🏾
Maybe 🤔 it is exactly, what it is: “he jus’ like watching her stories online,”no more or no less! When a man truly wants you... you don’t have to wonder. I think she’s giving meaning to something that’s not there. He gave no indication that he wanted her. She need to get out of her thoughts and get a life; he did!
Tony always comes with the real & the wisdom 🔥
Aww the way Tony's face lit up when Sheri walked into the room!
Tony always got time for the missus...even if it's just a quick compliment.
Facebook is the same way. That’s why I don’t watch storys on there. Don’t want to give the wrong impression. I just want to see what my friend made for dinner, not half naked people lol
I’m with you on that 💯
“Who story you taking me to Instagram?!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
This was a great question! As a woman, I watch people’s stories sometimes and it means absolutely nothing. I’m just scrolling through just like when I scroll through my timeline.
But men be doing it for a different reason. I just experienced it and it’s weird the way they do it. It’s called orbiting. I learned the hard way but I’m glad I figured out what was going on.
Personally I don’t watch stories of people that Idgaf just the ones I find interesting
Tony only God could give you this wisdom because this is something I was thinking too. I thought that meant he liked me too. I bet its a lot more of us older people who need to know some of this stuff too. You definitely taught me something once again. Be blessed son. Lik-a mor in my Jamaican accent Sharita.
Is he keeping her as a “write-in” on his roster? He’s playing her. She maybe just one of his playthings to keep her in his game. Learn the DM game and don’t play by his rules. Play by yours and you’ll never lose.
What is the DM game?
Thanks for the video. This makes perfect sense. How a woman presents herself determines if the man finds her to be wife material. The smallest thing may be a turn-off and it is not necessarily because the woman is bad.
Your impersonations crack me up 🤣🤣🤣🤣 "Omg Ton-ty Gaskins!"
AMEN.
Big bro Tony consistently creates time for 👑Queen Sheri👑💯💯💯.
Them: “Tony Gaskins’ watching my stories”
Tony: No I’m not. 😂😭
Lol
Right 😂😂
ahaaaa tonyyy😭
🤣🤣🤣
Yeah he do! 😂
I couldn’t stop laughing because it’s true but thank you for telling us straight forward. 🙏🏽😁
I’m so glad Tony talked about this. 🙏🏼👏🏼
Be blessed, right on time for my commute to my sons drs appt
You had me laughing (which I needed) with the girlfriend phone call. Thank you for being real💯
This was the best in depth explanation on this topic. I’ve now subscribed. Thank you! 🙏🏼
Mr Tony you talk nothing but the truth!! Speak it brother you are a God sent I respect you a lot God bless you and your families always.
When you said “TonTy gaskins” i literally screamed !!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 but in all honesty, this video was right on time ! Thanks once again 🙏🏾
Thanks for the video Tony. I kept looking for one yesterday. I started watching old ones to get my daily fix.😂
Blessings blessed tribe 💯
Thank you Tony, for your honesty.
I watch some guys stories all the way through and be knowing I don't like em so definitely true it doesn't mean anything😂😂😂 I can find someone attractive and still wouldn't give the time or day for many reasons
Thank you!! I tell women all the time not to go shoot their shot cus they could HELPING a man cheat! & most these loose booty women think if he’s choosing he ain’t happy but at the end of the day they jus made themselves EASY!
Nah you can’t help a man cheat. If a woman shoots a shot with a taken man his answer should be no.
Every girl needs this right👏🏼now👏🏼😹🙏🏼 thanks Tony!
Your story probably was just next 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
@@kokoluv21 I'm just saying I do this on accident all the time 🤦♀️😭😭
@@preangelamarks8474 i have too and that's why I laughed.
You have me cracking up!!!! This is so accurate!
Very simple and helpful reminders on navigating social media /general interwebs while single, thanks!
Ur TH-cam channel inspired me for mine in law of attraction and positivity 💜
Tony, can you please do a video on dating men in a fraternity? Over the years I’ve heard numerous women say don’t date Kappas, Alphas, etc.
😱😩😞☹️😠 they in a relationship already and want to know what your about incase it doesn’t work out for him 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
When I tell you I am dying laughing at Tony impression of us women 😂😂😂, in the age of social media I have succumbed to thinking a man was interested just because he watched my IG story. It’s def a new issue in this day & age of social media. I don’t like to follow men of interest online! I’m not able to deal with all that comes with it
Tony, been going thru it lately. I took your advice...Been binge listening to "MAKE IT WORK" by Tony A. Gaskins Jr. May you and yours remain continuously Blessed. Ty for the message.
Thee "ToneT Gadskins girl"🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for the motivational emails you’ve been sending out as of late Tony. They have really blessed me! You are apart of my daily routine to grow and evolve. I mean that in the most respectful way to you and Mrs. Gaskins! Sincerely... Thank You 🙏🏽
Yes! Agreed🙌🏾🙏🏾
🤣🤣the woman with the 8 followers had me cracking up!!
Thank you for this lesson. God bless you Tony
Some women built like this, “holds pen” some women built like this, “holds cell phone case” 🤣🤣🤣
😅😂😂😂😂😂 True
Yessss tony ! The way you looked at her
Tonty who hits their phone that hard ?!😂🤣🤣🤣also man are very easy to understand..If he does not actually reach out to you to build something it means nothing. We really do read way too much into these mens lol
Great content! Thanks for bringing clarity to this area in relationships. Super helpful.
Great video! 2:30 great point! 11:00 to finish... that's it, that's the message!
It's a breadcrumb. A good sign of curiosity but dont react until high effort or a significant effort to meet you.
Ready for the lesson ! 🙏🏾
Perfect timing!
Tonty!!! I'm crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Tony skit about the woman talking to her friend about her stories being watched - HILARIOUS 😂
9:32 he said “do you still have cricket wireless??” “Oh girl... please get At&t or Verizon” “ I know yo phone pixelated” Lmaooooo I’m done 😂😂😂😂
“OMG, Tonti Gaskins 😂🤣🤣🤣”
LET'S GET TO IT TONY G! AAAAAAYYYYY...👑
I’m HOLLERINNN🤣🤣🤣 cricket, your phone pixelated!! I’m too through💯🤣🤗😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sooo cute. I love the way you love your wife. God bless you all.
You my friend, are a genius!!!! Thank u for your content!
Someone did this to me a few days ago. I blocked them and they created another account to and followed me. I just ignored. It was all a game . I don’t play games. I recognized what he was doing very fast and I did the necessary to protect myself from such a coward
"This woman got 1.5 followers..." 😭🤣
Raises hand 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣
Again Bullseye! You are absolutely right a man has done nothing for you unless he walks you down the aisle or to the courthouse. Taking you to bed or to his home to shack is nothing to be either proud about, excited about, or looking forward to a long time commitment. Once you put out they'll be a more likelihood of him to put you out eventually. Respect yourself if you want to be respected and do not give any pre-marital benefits.
“Please get at&t or Verizon”🤣😂 drops the 🎤 🏃♀️ 🤦🏽♀️. I love the message but definitely needed this laugh before work.
Kudos on buying something for your beautiful wife for no special reason. 💙👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Everytime I come to be serious, I end up peeing on myself from laughing too hard. 😂😂
😂😂
But he be watching my story and we don’t even follow each other so he went out of his way .... that’s where I’m confused
Men are weird as fuck i would never watch someones Story constantly that i dont follow 🤦🏻♀️
lolol..thank you for what you do, and the laughter too.
Tony you're hilarious. You make my day
Your humor,I can't 😭💀🤣but thank you I needed this!❤
🤣😂 I would definitely get a kick out of seeing Tony Gaskins on my stories . I would tell the world 🤷🏽♀️🙏🏾 and if my IMAGINATION runs wild... so be it 😤
I think those women u give advice Tony are given a relationship a whole new name. 😁😁😁.
“Omg my goodness” 😂😂😂😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 screenshot on the way 🤣