Its not a date if you know you have no interest. Dating is for potential mates. Just communicate that its just an outing. Pay for your own shit so no one feels used. Problem solved.
I love your reply. I agree 100% with you. We don't get offended when the women lets us know up front they are not interested. It's when they play games and lead us on that we start to have issues.
I am the same way. I don't date at all and anytime a guy ask me out on a date I have to make it very clear to him that I don't date. Guys think that having fun is all about having sex and that's not what fun is. This is why I keep to myself or have real fun with my family. Nobody knows how to have fun anymore it's so true!!! There are ALWAYS HIDDEN MOTIVES.
Me and a friend guy just shared words because he swears he has no weird intentions but gets upset that I choose to say going on an outing instead of going out on a date . He gets very defensive saying that he wants nothing from me but good company but when I am around it’s just a vibe of if I can’t have her nobody will in it’s own creepy ass way . I try to give guys the benefit of the doubt without any strings attached but some just can’t handle the fact of the matter that I’m just focusing on myself I don’t want to lead anyone on or anything like that because it’s nothing lol
@@iatealready5544. Sex isn’t fun. Women do not see it as that especially with literal strangers. I’m soo Glad that you got the message here. Now go hang with your ‘boys’ 😂😴
He probably only wanted to be serious for an ego boost. He wanted to feel like a king when he got a woman to get serious about him although he is not serious about you.
Its not fun for them if there is no potential to play games with your head. Their fun goes down the drain when you aren’t emotionally invested in kids or marrying them. 😂😂😂😂
It’s all about control lol. They want us to be operating in that desperation to be a wife energy. It feeds their ego. What she presented leveled the playing field.
@@Lastdayone So a man sharing his interest to her, you call it control, desperation and ego ? What's wrong wanting to get serious with someone ? I feel like women really don't care about men like we care about them nowadays
@@Sucre200 Which men, the Ones you Deal with, or the ones who can care less Dueces...Women Got to Realize its 10-1 in many Cities and Countries and has always been that way for CENTURIES....
Dating is basically an interview for a relationship. If you want fun, go to an amusement park. It’s funny when you types get older and are still single and complaining about it.
That’s what i’m confused about that’s not “dating” that’s just using somebody until someone better comes around twisting the word dating around to different meanings is just stupid maybe this is just bad communication about their real intentions
😳What makes you think people NEED to be in a relationship later in life. 🤣… idk why people feel like dying alone is a bad thing. You are born alone and you will die alone. -let’s be realistic now… family and friends are the ones that’ll always be there when your feeling lonely…and when your looking for intimacy…it is so easy to find a man since they give away p3nis like there is no tomorrow…🤷🏾♂️
I fuck with you! I swear I thought I was the only one who felt like this. People really called me wired and said I would always be single, IF I thought like this.😂 I just want to have fun WITHOUT SEX, and a serious relationship.
It so funny how men get butt hurt when a woman says she is not interested in being in a relationship. But they had no intention of being in a committed relationship with you. They just want you to want them, so they can feel powerful.
You just said a mouthful. Its so true. Like why are they so selfish. Theres so many videos of them talking about "choose better" "baby moms that" "women over 30.." f ucking "high body count " blah blah but out here being that very guy. Like sir at least get to know me. Smh
I'm witnessing young, gifted and Black. Truly beyond her years. Fun does not = sex, alcohol, drugs...a message for ALL women of ALL ages in this here AMERICAN CULTURE.
@jericothompson8636 Ya know, I heard a sociologist say something pretty significant. At one time, I thought this man vs woman and woman vs man thing was just another area in which we are imploding as a culture. What he said was pretty simple yet profound. The dating sites are jacking it up (my words, not his) for the majority of people who use them. Everybody wants the rich, handsome guy and the beautiful, sexy girl. Therefore, they get the majority of selections. Since they are inundated with suitors, they come to believe it's all about them. What a wicked WEB, we weave. I've never been on a dating site. 😐 But trust I know those that have.
That's why communication is important from the jump. Brothers like that make it rough other men who just want a fun distraction too. What's the rush just chill fellas. If it's meant to be more it will unfold naturally.
It's too risque out here just to be putting yourselves out here just to be having fun, the fun is over when y'all catch the package just out here having fun then it ain't fun no more anyway stay safe God blessings to you all
@@TeraChantelleim advertising anerican men to come to asia we have better conservative women and better women for wives not this psycho liberal women like in the states playing stressful mind games.
Nah, serious means I’m spending my money in hopes of actually becoming exclusive instead of wasting resources on somebody’s daughter when I can save that money and spend it on me or my family members.
@@TeraChantelle I really wish I had your spirit & insight on things at the age you have them. You are a inspiration. I wondered for years why my self esteem was so low & why it was so hard to love myself. I still struggle with it everyday. It was meant for me to see your videos. They are fun, funny, logical and real. I wish you nothing but the best and thank you for your insight. Bless your heart sis!
It's funny because I'm getting the opposite 🤣(I'm dating for serious, but they are dating for fun. At the same time, they're lying about it). So I'm like fuck, I'm going to stay single.
Take yourself out and pay for your own fun, food, drinks and distraction. I’m sick and tired of all of these women who think they can just use a man for a good time and then throw him to the side decide the next day. We can go out have a good time by our self, instead of bringing you along and paying for your stuff.
Why is everyone’s first assumption when they hear someone is casually dating for fun that they’re sleeping with every person they encounter??🥴🥴simply because so many people have that assumption that’s an added reason to why I have a great time and go tf home!😂 alone! My dad always told me people are only gonna be able to meet you as far as they’ve met themselves. Sucks they view dating and people that way
A lot of people these days don't date to get to know one another or have genuine fun, (Sidenote: not sure how sex is fun when most women claim they aren't even getting off when they have sex) but to find another vessel for pleasure and release. Why do you think so many guys are trying to make a move on women on the first date? They're used to dating being a transaction because they equate dating to sex because there are desperate people who would lower their standards and sleep with them for a 4 for 4. Then, when you say you're not interested in sex, they throw a mantrum.
I understand her, there are a lot of women who are focused on their work or personal lives and not into serious dating…it’s just that that independence can be so attractive to a dude lol
'I met this human' - I lol and I agree with the sentiment 😄 You have to get along and get to know each other, which should be fun! Ppl talk about relationships like an obligation
I call her the Modern black woman who knows she can't keep a man anyway so she plays the fun girl to convince herself when he leaves and doesn't call back that it was somehow her expectation as well!
See, that's why I will not go on dates....when I say I'm done, I'm done. Men like a challenge....they feel they can change ur mind, plz. O, also blk men wanna have fun when you serious..lol
This why I just friendzone all women... even the term "dating" seem to imply the need to be more serious or fine print. Nah I'm good... its oct but I ain't tryin to boo up nobody out here 👻🤣
Self-worth is only self-worth when someone else isn’t valuing their time to play your game? I’m confused. Solitude means companionless holy happy without needing distractions
There is no such thing as a good distraction. Distractions lead to gray area relationships, situationships, and single parent or broken homes. Doing this at 20 is fine, but at 30 + and over what is really the point? That's what your male friends are for. Time for you to grow up.
I love this women i think the same way cause most females want to put they trauma , hurt & backed up bills & distract u while u tryna to run it up & just have a lil Fun thing to take ya mind off this hard work
@@negativenancy4805 “I don’t wanna be nobody mama, and I don’t wanna be nobody WIFE.” “Dating is a distraction for me because I got too much work to do. I just wanna have fun.” Her above comments is why she’s for the streets. She’s married to her career, and has no desire to be a wife. Which is fine! To each their own. But when other women keep coming across men who just want to hit it and quit it, the men are like that because they frequently come across women with this mindset.
"Fun distraction" equals the man spending his money taking women to expensive high end restaurants, paying for various events, buying expensive gifts, and maybe a trip. In return the woman does NOTHING. Basically she was looking for a sucker to use. I live in Atlanta also. This is typical of the game that women run on men here.
Lmao let’s see if she feels this way In 5-10 years it’s too much stuff out here for you all to be talking about her fun if that’s the case go be like Jada and become A swinger . The funny part about this is she’ll be somewhere asking where are the good once her options start running low it’s Atlanta I don’t gotta say how bad the women are here . Needless to say to the single dudes if you got some money get A pass port lmao
Same as men who date.. Some want to date and others, want a relationship. Men want to play that game...get u into a relationship and he can have fun. he can decide if he wants marriage or short term. Men really want that upper hand vs allowing both to have a say on the purpose
She already said she doesn't want to marry or have children and is celibate. You think you can scare her with age, men or your narrow mindset? Clearly she doesn't care for any of them.
😂 men will always want women, no matter their age, the real question is who will want you at 40 or older with erectile dysfunction? Men need women!!! Remember that!!!! My mom is 76 and is being pursued by a man a decade younger, get it!!!!
In my humble experiences, it tends to be the guy not wanting to be compared to another man or be rejected for another man. If dating is just for fun, you could be dating multiple people at once and eventually prefer someone to him. Poly folk spark the same fears in people. It's him not being secure in himself. Sometimes. He could just be sexist too lol Semi-surprised a man wouldn't objectively see it as a net positive, to have a buddy until they find someone romantic.
I don’t usually reply to these types of comments but this ones really stupid most of the women dudes go for is women their interested in so of course he’s not gonna want to see somebody he’s interested in go for other dudes i’m curious what you were thinking when you made this comment “Yes I want to have this girl I’m interested in go for other dudes in front of me and tell me about it” I suppose women have more options generally speaking compared to men so it would make sense how you would see that as okay but I don’t know what you mean by this comment
It’s the thought of being expected to pay for dates. 🤷🏾♂️ people didn’t date for fun in the past, they dated to find partners. So it seems unfair to hold men to the same “pat for dates” standard when y’all aren’t dating for the same reasons anymore.
If you're starving Ma'am, just say you're starving. I pay my tithes to the underprivileged every month, so I'll feed you a good meal then. I'll otherwise focus on work too.
Thats the difference 90's-2000 women. Women back then didn't go on random dates with guys just to have fun. If she wasn't interested, you weren't going to get a date.
Everybody is in different places in their life. He was in a place looking for something serious, she is not. Both were honest about what they were looking for. No time was wasted. I don't see the problem.
If you want a fun distraction Bring your own money and pay for your own food problem solved! No man is going to pay with his hard earned money just to be your fun distraction
Year I got a boo in another state and we just get together and have so much fun. And we genuinely love each other, but why apply pressure? Keep it fun and keep it moving.
I would think the word “Date” is associated with romance.. I mean.. that’s what it’s been in the past.. has it been redefined? Even if it’s a “fun” date.. I’m sure someone is thinking romantic connection at some point.. I’m just curious.. do you disclose up front.. this is merely for “fun”? Seems like if you did.. there wouldn’t be any confusion on what the end goal is.. I’m doing it myself.. acknowledge up front.. not looking for anything serious.. and allow that person to decide whether they wish to continue seeing me or not.. either way.. it’s all good!
Its not a date if you know you have no interest. Dating is for potential mates. Just communicate that its just an outing. Pay for your own shit so no one feels used. Problem solved.
I love your reply. I agree 100% with you. We don't get offended when the women lets us know up front they are not interested. It's when they play games and lead us on that we start to have issues.
I agree
they on a different timing in 2023 that's why you see a lot of dudes minding there business instead of approaching or pursuing
She came to Atlanta to sale her p****
awww shut up.
I am the same way. I don't date at all and anytime a guy ask me out on a date I have to make it very clear to him that I don't date. Guys think that having fun is all about having sex and that's not what fun is. This is why I keep to myself or have real fun with my family. Nobody knows how to have fun anymore it's so true!!! There are ALWAYS HIDDEN MOTIVES.
Me and a friend guy just shared words because he swears he has no weird intentions but gets upset that I choose to say going on an outing instead of going out on a date . He gets very defensive saying that he wants nothing from me but good company but when I am around it’s just a vibe of if I can’t have her nobody will in it’s own creepy ass way . I try to give guys the benefit of the doubt without any strings attached but some just can’t handle the fact of the matter that I’m just focusing on myself I don’t want to lead anyone on or anything like that because it’s nothing lol
I swear I was thinking that maybe it was just me at this point !!!!
how is dating fun, theres fun in eating at a restaurant duh
@@iatealready5544. Sex isn’t fun. Women do not see it as that especially with literal strangers. I’m soo Glad that you got the message here. Now go hang with your ‘boys’ 😂😴
As long as you pay your way we good.
He probably only wanted to be serious for an ego boost. He wanted to feel like a king when he got a woman to get serious about him although he is not serious about you.
Talk bout it😏😏😏
Why does this have to be so true? You have to be part psychologist meets criminal profiler to understand dating today.
if you just wanted to have fun why not go out with your girlfriends or just use drugs?
@@dealhunter4536 drugs?
Just to get the skins
Its not fun for them if there is no potential to play games with your head. Their fun goes down the drain when you aren’t emotionally invested in kids or marrying them. 😂😂😂😂
Amen!!!🎉
🎯🎯🎯
Not to mention , “it’s not fun when they can’t use you, come up off of you, or move in with you to live off of you.” 💯
That’s what I’m thinking. He wanted her to have intentions of dating so he could sweet talk her and lead her on to his benefit.
The irony of him asking that question. Imagine a woman asking a man “So, why do you date if you’re not going to be serious?”🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Tragic😂😂😂
It’s all about control lol. They want us to be operating in that desperation to be a wife energy. It feeds their ego. What she presented leveled the playing field.
@@Lastdayone this how to play the game😎
@@Lastdayone So a man sharing his interest to her, you call it control, desperation and ego ? What's wrong wanting to get serious with someone ? I feel like women really don't care about men like we care about them nowadays
@@ProdByLinskoo why do men date if they’re not serious?
You need a "foodie friend". I have one of those. Platonic, fun, lunches together.
Exactly don’t lead the men on
@@oladeebiazazi4538she can’t lead them on if she’s honest
Do you pay for your own food?
He thought a plate of food and some drinks was supposed to make you change your whole value system lol. Poor lil Tink Tink...
LOL. Next time you should pay for your own "plate of food and drinks".
@@orlandorobinson9369tink tink
😂
@@orlandorobinson9369Dont worry when she hit 40 she gonna have to 😂😂😂
He dodged a Bullet let her talk to herself and date herself
😂😂😂😂 truth teller
She needs to look after her dreads better too - they look unkempt 😕
She's a narcissistic devil lmfao
Lol men get so upset when they not chosen😂
@@Sucre200 Which men, the Ones you Deal with, or the ones who can care less Dueces...Women Got to Realize its 10-1 in many Cities and Countries and has always been that way for CENTURIES....
Dating is basically an interview for a relationship. If you want fun, go to an amusement park. It’s funny when you types get older and are still single and complaining about it.
That’s what i’m confused about that’s not “dating” that’s just using somebody until someone better comes around twisting the word dating around to different meanings is just stupid maybe this is just bad communication about their real intentions
😳What makes you think people NEED to be in a relationship later in life. 🤣… idk why people feel like dying alone is a bad thing. You are born alone and you will die alone.
-let’s be realistic now… family and friends are the ones that’ll always be there when your feeling lonely…and when your looking for intimacy…it is so easy to find a man since they give away p3nis like there is no tomorrow…🤷🏾♂️
@@nursingfolyfe1716 you will change your opinion. Mark my words.
I fuck with you! I swear I thought I was the only one who felt like this. People really called me wired and said I would always be single, IF I thought like this.😂 I just want to have fun WITHOUT SEX, and a serious relationship.
So what do you do for fun?
@@oladeebiazazi4538that bItch don't even know bruh. They just be on social media. Dazzit
@@oladeebiazazi4538 Do you not have hobbies that bring you joy?
its a bunch of people dating for fun. he cant handle that youre just honest about it
alot of hungry biches if you ask me
It so funny how men get butt hurt when a woman says she is not interested in being in a relationship. But they had no intention of being in a committed relationship with you. They just want you to want them, so they can feel powerful.
Speak love speak💋😂
Well put ❤
I believe this is exactly why the guy I was casually dating pitched dating exclusively just to end up caught in a web of lies
Nah just sex most of us can careless about the power. We be mad cause we passed on something guaranteed to give you a chance to be honest.
You just said a mouthful. Its so true. Like why are they so selfish. Theres so many videos of them talking about "choose better" "baby moms that" "women over 30.." f ucking "high body count " blah blah but out here being that very guy. Like sir at least get to know me. Smh
Let her spend her own money and waste someone else’s time king!!!! Or bring her straight home for “fun”! Lmao
But if you were talking about being serious he'd be like "let's just have fun" 😅
Exactly
Talk about moving the goal post😒😒😒
“So I met this human…” 🤭
Lmaooo🤣
Ikr! We out here seriously following our dreams.
Why would we want to be serious on a date?
Can we jus have fun sis❤️😂😂😂
I never knew people dated for fun. Thanks for the info
I have absolutely no problem with this at all. When we go out,we pay for our own sh*t to keep it leveled and fun. Perfect! 😘
And to limit he expectations and entitlement of horny men. I agree whole heartedly
@@Ms.AnnDrist 😂😂🥰
There's a difference between dating and having a friend to go out with. What you described is going out with a friend.
Yeah, which means he shouldn’t pay for her but you know she’ll still expect it.
Yeah, which means he shouldn’t pay for her but you know she’ll still expect it.
Now, girl, you know you can only have fun with friends and family 😂😂😂😂 Only date a man when you decide you wanna risk it all
I hate losing all my guy friends to their romantic urges😭
I dont.😹😹
Because you wanna control them as much as they wanna control you... "I hate losing my guy friends"
This is my life right here!!!! Lost my best friend and everything!! Such a weird feeling
They werent your friends to begin with...
@@nikkinorman4254 control? Its GOOD to have a friend of the opposite sex.
Oh he wanted to have fun. Only if it was his idea. His little ego got hurt when he realized you spoke the truth from word go. Poor baby.🤣🤣🤣🤣
No they just don’t want you to have fun. They prefer that you fully commit while they stray. It’s the new age dating experience.
who pays for the date with a woman like this...We can have fun but make sure you bring your pocket book with you
Lol all these women wanting to have “fun” that’s where we get the last minute marriages & std’s from
I'm witnessing young, gifted and Black. Truly beyond her years. Fun does not = sex, alcohol, drugs...a message for ALL women of ALL ages in this here AMERICAN CULTURE.
Nobody said it did lol
Fun doesn’t have to be had on the man’s dime either. Women want platonic friendships they need to spend their money the same way we do 🤷🏾♂️
@@oladeebiazazi4538 Tou'che.
@jericothompson8636 Ya know, I heard a sociologist say something pretty significant. At one time, I thought this man vs woman and woman vs man thing was just another area in which we are imploding as a culture.
What he said was pretty simple yet profound. The dating sites are jacking it up (my words, not his) for the majority of people who use them. Everybody wants the rich, handsome guy and the beautiful, sexy girl. Therefore, they get the majority of selections. Since they are inundated with suitors, they come to believe it's all about them. What a wicked WEB, we weave.
I've never been on a dating site. 😐 But trust I know those that have.
@@jericothompson8636 I happen to agree with you.
That's why communication is important from the jump. Brothers like that make it rough other men who just want a fun distraction too. What's the rush just chill fellas. If it's meant to be more it will unfold naturally.
Literally natural😅
It's too risque out here just to be putting yourselves out here just to be having fun, the fun is over when y'all catch the package just out here having fun then it ain't fun no more anyway stay safe God blessings to you all
Damn, that’s some cold shit. Aye y’all better stop paying for these dates lol. Make her pay her portion
A man is a toy to her until she hit the wall.
I would play with you though 🤮
@@TeraChantelleim advertising anerican men to come to asia we have better conservative women and better women for wives not this psycho liberal women like in the states playing stressful mind games.
Serious means we lay in the bed instead of spending money on dates 🤣🤣🤣 dudes think they slick!
Nah, serious means I’m spending my money in hopes of actually becoming exclusive instead of wasting resources on somebody’s daughter when I can save that money and spend it on me or my family members.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I am done dating for the rest of the year because nobody wants to have fun anymore! 😂😂😂😂
FORREAL😂😂😂❤️
@@TeraChantelle I really wish I had your spirit & insight on things at the age you have them. You are a inspiration. I wondered for years why my self esteem was so low & why it was so hard to love myself. I still struggle with it everyday. It was meant for me to see your videos. They are fun, funny, logical and real. I wish you nothing but the best and thank you for your insight. Bless your heart sis!
It's funny because I'm getting the opposite 🤣(I'm dating for serious, but they are dating for fun. At the same time, they're lying about it). So I'm like fuck, I'm going to stay single.
The reason why we date for fun is because there are so many women who use us men for "fun distraction". We are hip to the game.
@@orlandorobinson9369 so yall f over the ones that want a relationship? That's fucking stupid.
When you dont want commitment, that's when it comes. Its irony
Take yourself out and pay for your own fun, food, drinks and distraction. I’m sick and tired of all of these women who think they can just use a man for a good time and then throw him to the side decide the next day. We can go out have a good time by our self, instead of bringing you along and paying for your stuff.
As long your paying for the dates you can have all the fun distraction u want.
So glad I stopped dating🤡
@TeraChantelle what you tired of being ran thru already 🤡🤡
@@TeraChantelledon’t date bl@cks and don’t date down and you might actually have some fun with guys who are out to just have fun.
Why is everyone’s first assumption when they hear someone is casually dating for fun that they’re sleeping with every person they encounter??🥴🥴simply because so many people have that assumption that’s an added reason to why I have a great time and go tf home!😂 alone! My dad always told me people are only gonna be able to meet you as far as they’ve met themselves. Sucks they view dating and people that way
A lot of people these days don't date to get to know one another or have genuine fun, (Sidenote: not sure how sex is fun when most women claim they aren't even getting off when they have sex) but to find another vessel for pleasure and release. Why do you think so many guys are trying to make a move on women on the first date? They're used to dating being a transaction because they equate dating to sex because there are desperate people who would lower their standards and sleep with them for a 4 for 4. Then, when you say you're not interested in sex, they throw a mantrum.
When you want serious they want fun , when you want fun , now they want serious 🙄
Ok if you dating for fun, I'm going to pay for my check and you pay for yours. Now that's fun. 😂
Everybody definition of fun is different lol gotta find whoever fun is willingly gonna match yours lol
I understand her, there are a lot of women who are focused on their work or personal lives and not into serious dating…it’s just that that independence can be so attractive to a dude lol
You just wanted a Foodie Call!
She said she “don’t wanna be no one’s mother or wife” just wants to have fun lol. Future wall victim in the making 😅
'I met this human' - I lol and I agree with the sentiment 😄 You have to get along and get to know each other, which should be fun! Ppl talk about relationships like an obligation
Men, women play games only if you let them. 🤔🤔
I call her the Modern black woman who knows she can't keep a man anyway so she plays the fun girl to convince herself when he leaves and doesn't call back that it was somehow her expectation as well!
See, that's why I will not go on dates....when I say I'm done, I'm done. Men like a challenge....they feel they can change ur mind, plz. O, also blk men wanna have fun when you serious..lol
If he felt like wasting his time with her, that's on him
"Human" lol 😆 😂 🤣
This why I just friendzone all women... even the term "dating" seem to imply the need to be more serious or fine print. Nah I'm good... its oct but I ain't tryin to boo up nobody out here 👻🤣
😂😂😂stawpppp
awesome!
@@TeraChantellehe ain’t getting chose ROTFL
@@humbleheart2650That's crazy coming from someone named "Humbleheart", I wouldn't want to get close to you either...🤢🤮
Self-worth is only self-worth when someone else isn’t valuing their time to play your game? I’m confused. Solitude means companionless holy happy without needing distractions
He lying sweetheart he do not eant serious I bet you he living with a eoman or msn.
Facts he just mad he wasn’t going to be able to run game.
There is no such thing as a good distraction. Distractions lead to gray area relationships, situationships, and single parent or broken homes.
Doing this at 20 is fine, but at 30 + and over what is really the point? That's what your male friends are for. Time for you to grow up.
Be careful Sis. If you end on this app later on asking why no one wants to commit, no one is going to feel sorry for you.
I love this women i think the same way cause most females want to put they trauma , hurt & backed up bills & distract u while u tryna to run it up & just have a lil Fun thing to take ya mind off this hard work
Have fun at your own expense.
Same ones saying, "Where are all the good black men." Smh
Am I too grown I'm not even understanding what she saying. Respectfully.
She respectfully said she’s for the streets
@@junior5893 That's what I figured but people like to talk in code.
@@junior5893 she’s for the streets because she didn’t want to commit to a man she just met?
@@negativenancy4805 “I don’t wanna be nobody mama, and I don’t wanna be nobody WIFE.” “Dating is a distraction for me because I got too much work to do. I just wanna have fun.”
Her above comments is why she’s for the streets. She’s married to her career, and has no desire to be a wife.
Which is fine! To each their own. But when other women keep coming across men who just want to hit it and quit it, the men are like that because they frequently come across women with this mindset.
@@junior5893 For the streets tho😒🤔!?! She is for "herself".
"Fun distraction" equals the man spending his money taking women to expensive high end restaurants, paying for various events, buying expensive gifts, and maybe a trip. In return the woman does NOTHING. Basically she was looking for a sucker to use. I live in Atlanta also. This is typical of the game that women run on men here.
The same reason men date....let me waste your time and drop it in your draws...lol
Yeah she lost me on this one. Sound like she in it for free mimosas only.
Lmao let’s see if she feels this way In 5-10 years it’s too much stuff out here for you all to be talking about her fun if that’s the case go be like Jada and become A swinger . The funny part about this is she’ll be somewhere asking where are the good once her options start running low it’s Atlanta I don’t gotta say how bad the women are here . Needless to say to the single dudes if you got some money get A pass port lmao
Men here sre very very jealous of women
They hate smart women that dont fall for the games and BS that handle them like the jokes they are.
Same as men who date.. Some want to date and others, want a relationship. Men want to play that game...get u into a relationship and he can have fun. he can decide if he wants marriage or short term. Men really want that upper hand vs allowing both to have a say on the purpose
Wow😮 this is real.
oh god when their vibe is wanting a love interest for their main character 💀
😂😂😂everytime
The end of everything as we know it is near.
Sound like she wanted a free meal and entertainment on he’s Expense
Lunatic 😂😂😂😂
Next thing she's going to be wondering why she's 39 and can't find a man that wants to be with her
She already said she doesn't want to marry or have children and is celibate. You think you can scare her with age, men or your narrow mindset? Clearly she doesn't care for any of them.
@@sterlingjoseph4385 she can die alone with her cats, I couldn't give 2 shts lol
In this climate, sine is the way to go.
She could go to Europe. Some men there like older women. Ask Tina turner. Men are overrated
😂 men will always want women, no matter their age, the real question is who will want you at 40 or older with erectile dysfunction? Men need women!!! Remember that!!!! My mom is 76 and is being pursued by a man a decade younger, get it!!!!
This the shit Karlous was talking about!🤦♂️
I hope there’s a disclaimer given prior to the date or else it can be misleading.
“ rental car mileage “
In my humble experiences, it tends to be the guy not wanting to be compared to another man or be rejected for another man. If dating is just for fun, you could be dating multiple people at once and eventually prefer someone to him. Poly folk spark the same fears in people. It's him not being secure in himself. Sometimes. He could just be sexist too lol
Semi-surprised a man wouldn't objectively see it as a net positive, to have a buddy until they find someone romantic.
I don’t usually reply to these types of comments but this ones really stupid most of the women dudes go for is women their interested in so of course he’s not gonna want to see somebody he’s interested in go for other dudes i’m curious what you were thinking when you made this comment “Yes I want to have this girl I’m interested in go for other dudes in front of me and tell me about it” I suppose women have more options generally speaking compared to men so it would make sense how you would see that as okay but I don’t know what you mean by this comment
It’s the thought of being expected to pay for dates. 🤷🏾♂️ people didn’t date for fun in the past, they dated to find partners. So it seems unfair to hold men to the same “pat for dates” standard when y’all aren’t dating for the same reasons anymore.
You gotta tell em you want a relationship…. then the fun begins
Chile stop messing with these guys
If you're starving Ma'am, just say you're starving. I pay my tithes to the underprivileged every month, so I'll feed you a good meal then. I'll otherwise focus on work too.
Hopefully he learns the difference between a fun girl and wifey material
Fun chick all day😏
@@TeraChantelle There are a lot of single (and married) Fun boys to match your energy in the Atl, be safe and enjoy your life!
Wifey material wouldn’t want to be serious after one meet up y’all are insane.
You can go out with your friends for fun....why a stranger?...oh ohhhhhhh...I get it...
Thats the difference 90's-2000 women. Women back then didn't go on random dates with guys just to have fun. If she wasn't interested, you weren't going to get a date.
So, you just want a friend? What is your definition of a fun distraction?
Literally a friend😆😆😆 it’s the vibe for me🤸🏽♀️
If some man ever does make you get serious, I'll be quite curious to see what kind of man that is
Women play too many games don't date online fellas
I mean you literally said from jump what time it was… and you’re right… dating is supposed to be fun…. Lol you did everything right
They want to be in a relationship until you catch feelings then they dip. It's just a game to them.
It was the
✨️human✨️
For me
Those locs are 🔥
💯
Everybody is in different places in their life. He was in a place looking for something serious, she is not. Both were honest about what they were looking for. No time was wasted. I don't see the problem.
I do.
American women…..you can’t make this stuff up
Stick and move guys just stick and move
Is this why the dating scene is fucked up? 👀If you want to have fun stay out the dating scene just say you want to be a temp 304.
Bro somebody gotta be hitting that if not congrats on your celibacy
This is exactly why i don't even pay women any attention when i go in public
If you want a fun distraction
Bring your own money and pay for your own food problem solved!
No man is going to pay with his hard earned money just to be your fun distraction
😂🤣😂🤣 You can’t force anything chemistry has a funny way to working things out
Serious ain't good enough 🤣🤣🤣
I knew something was up 😂😂😂
Year I got a boo in another state and we just get together and have so much fun. And we genuinely love each other, but why apply pressure? Keep it fun and keep it moving.
I would think the word “Date” is associated with romance.. I mean.. that’s what it’s been in the past.. has it been redefined? Even if it’s a “fun” date.. I’m sure someone is thinking romantic connection at some point.. I’m just curious.. do you disclose up front.. this is merely for “fun”? Seems like if you did.. there wouldn’t be any confusion on what the end goal is.. I’m doing it myself.. acknowledge up front.. not looking for anything serious.. and allow that person to decide whether they wish to continue seeing me or not.. either way.. it’s all good!
Ain't nobody got time and money to waste with you 💯
She gonna be trying to find that dude when she 45 and still single...and to be truthful, you ain't really all that right now
😭😆😆🤧🤧😆😆😭😆😭🤧
He wanted to be a serious distraction but I just wanted a fun distraction 🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧😭😭😭😆