Regarding the zipper-less pillow, perhaps instead of storing it in the off season you could use it as a base to stuff into other zippered pillow covers. Win win!
Valentina, I love your experimental side and how you share it with us! Thank you for all of the work you do and for the joy you bring. My house is so much more beautiful - so much more of a home - since I started watching your channel. I absolutely love creating a space, as you would say, that makes me feel like me when I walk in. What a warm hug it is! You’re awesome!!
Loved this, Valentina! One thing I will NEVER buy again is colored or patterned furniture. I am one of those people who tire very quickly of those things. I will only buy neutral furniture and if I want color, I can add that in with accessories.
Enjoyed the video, but I thoroughly enjoy the last few clips at the end. Keep putting those in, so relatable and fun. I'm having to rethink my entire home. What to keep, what should go. After being married for 54+ years, hubby passed and I have lots of decisions to make. I won't do them rashly or quickly, but someday in the near future decisions will have to be made. I don't want to move, I love my home, old 1890 farmhouse, but I'm so over "stuff" that's been hanging around forever. One day I'll start to shake things up. Some precious memory pieces will remain and the rest can go.
Condolences to you on the loss of your husband. You are very wise to take a breath before you start to throw things away. Going through the loss of someone you love, you aren’t thinking as clearly as you may later. Good luck on your new journey! 👍
I loved this conversation. Especially about the deeper emotional impact of the things we keep around. I personally feel guilt buying something new or changing things up. Like feeling bad about spending money on things that are just "superficial." But you struck a nerve when you were talking about "holding yourself back" with the life you want. Wow
Girl, take the leap. Your environment is a reflection of who you believe you are. You deserve to build a space that makes you feel confident, proud and serene. Turn your guilt into grace and gratitude and pass on what is no longer serving you! Facebook Marketplace is a magical tool. Goodwill is a magical place! You have the power to cultivate joy within yourself and others by releasing the *stuff* that's been hindering your trajectory. You are worthy of it. Best of luck!
I love the advice on freebies. We did a huge home declutter this last year and are being hyper intentional about what comes in our home now. Thanks for another great video!
Exactly what we are doing-we also just bought a cabin that we will be putting on a rental program… the man that owned it was elderly and he’s leaving everything 😬 definitely have to do some cleaning out!
I just put new pillow covers on the pillows with no zippers when I want to change out the colors/pattern (use the pillow with no zipper as a pillow insert). That way it's more versatile!
Much of this advice applies to our closets too! I eliminated most colour and pattern. A lot of clothes went, but what remains feels like me now. It's worth the effort.
I really loved your message about not feeling bad about passing something forward. Sometimes my husband struggles with this and I’m of the same mindset as you. There are worse things by far then making a purchase mistake or decor mistake.
I wanted to comment on how incredible it is that even though you and Jack have been together for a long time the obvious adoration between you is inspiring
I purge and sell all the time and my family and friends think I’m crazy. But when I see rooms around my house come together it makes my ❤️ happy. My rooms are always a work in progress.
We purchased our home from a friend that went into assisted living. With it came a LOT of stuff that she had collected though out her life. I have felt guilty about getting rid of her stuff, but you can't keep everything. We have been here for a year, and I am still making decisions about what to keep and what to donate. Thank you for sharing.
Good points about not getting too attached to your possessions and appreciating what and who gives you joy. Well done. Jack brings fun to every video. You two are my favorite 🤩
I love your channel; I learn a lot but I also wish to tell you I like so much to see you too always so happy and obviously you love each other so much …!it’s so nice to see that 😘
Never ever did I think I'd be putting beige in my home. Thanks to you I am now and I'm more than ok with it. It really does work to warm and soften. Thank you so much for encouraging me to experiment.
Thank you so much for being real, sharing your personal experiences, and the occasional mistakes that are inevitable for most of us. I love watching your videos, not only for the tips and design inspiration, but the infectious and positive chemistry between the two of you! I love love love seeing married couples who are (very obviously) best friends. Love you guys!
I am making the house we live on for the last 15 years, finally my own and I stumbled upon your channel. Well, it is so down to earth! My grandma was an interior designer and I miss her now, but here I have found so much wisdom now that I needed, plus your minimalistic style and use of afordable items is perfect. Thank you for making this wonderful world of interior decoration more understandable and available to a lot of people that only “fill up a space” but are not “making it their home” Greetings from a Colombian in the Netherlands. I am a new fan!
This was great! I just moved to a new state after a huge life change and now getting rid of almost everything I PAID to move! My practical side cringes and feels guilt over “waste” but it’s a totally different house, environment and life I want to embrace. The old not only doesn’t fit but feels stifling. As I allow myself to shed the old and purchase new things that do fit, there’s this shift that feels like metamorphosis. Holding onto things that don’t serve anymore doesn’t make you better, it keeps you from moving forward. If I had the move to do over, I’d sell/donate almost everything!
I watch quite a few Home Decor videos. I’ve used your tips the most in my home. I’d also like to say I love your husband’s hair. Kind of rockabilly. My husband wore his hair like that and had the best style. He passed away 2 years ago and I’m happy to see someone else with the same look.
A great reminder! Particularly the idea of donating items, passing each one on to someone who will appreciate it. I’ve been doing a lot of that, getting things down to things I really love, and your videos have really helped.
You two are such a joy to watch. And such great advice about letting things go that no longer fit in our lives. The freebies and gifts are the hardest for me. Especially if the person that gave them to me is no longer here.
I love watching you both. Yes I learn something about interior decorating but what makes your videos the BEST is that you laugh & smile & that you are honest. Thank you both! (Videos with the two of you are my favourite!) 😃
I absolutely loved this video. It’s so refreshing to hear you both talk about how curating your home is a journey and sometimes that means letting go of things to make space for the home you truly feel represents you as a person/family. Love you both. Always learning and growing with you!
I love your videos. I was so pleased you made this video. I have made so many mistakes over the years. I’m in my 70s and I love home stuff but I have been often lured by shops and music and the smells of products that are set out to entice. Watching you and others that I follow iv learned to think and make better choices using a mood board to decide colours, furniture etc. The worst products over the years have been cushion covers. I am the Queen of terrible cushion cover choices. But I’m getting better at choosing. The one thing that I’ve have in my home that I have not been able to donate is a China cabinet that my mother left to me. It’s been over 50years since she passed and I keep it under the stairs. Occasionally I have an impulse to get rid of it. I take it out, but then a day later I panicked and put it back. It’s totally ridiculous. It’s moved with us so many times. 25 years ago we moved to Spain from England and it came with us, although most of all the other furniture we bought is long gone. I know the memories of my mum will always be with me, but even though I never wanted the cabinet i can’t let it go. It’s a case of out of site is out of mind. Love to you both , you’re so lovely. Xx 😘
Thank you. I am getting rid of the the giant coffee pot I've had in my basement for 35 years! A freebee, it's one of those metal drip style with the toggle spout at the bottom, they're always at large gatherings where you're going to need about 40 cups of coffee. I think I've used it once for a baby shower in 1990!
Oh wow, when I clicked on this video, I was not expecting to tap in to my emotional side of my clutter today but I'm so glad you brought it up and in the way you did it. You confirmed many of the things I already knew but haven't been able to follow through with so thank you!
Special request: since you have moved so much and needed to start from scratch. Can you give us more advice on doing the same thing? Like strategies for building on things so you don’t need get rid of so much later? As an example, I heard a tip to buy patio tables and chairs first, so you could have something to use right away, and then really take your time to find what you really want and save enough for it. And you can still use your patio furniture afterwards.
Best video ever!! There's some guilt to no longer wanting "things" that were once valued ... which I always pass on to charity (too lazy to sell, more guilt). Valentina you put an awkward uncomfortable "issue" to rest for me! You and Jack are refreshingly open and straightforward and charming!!
I literally jumped out of bed when I heard the notification! I love your videos. You guys are awesome and I am enjoying all the great advice and tips you give each week. You are doing an awesome job Valentina and Jack.
Thank you for this therapy session! We have downsized and it’s been hard letting things go even though my style has evolved. It does feel good releasing these previously loved accessories back to the world knowing they will become someone else’s treasures!
You’re both such a treasure. The House of Valentina is my very favorite channel to watch and honestly sometimes I have them on in the background when I’m painting or restyling a room! I love all that inspiration!! Jack is so supportive and the two of you are just a magical team.
I totally agree with y’all about clutter and unnecessary things. It make me nervous when there is things on the countertops. I recently purged things I inherited from my parents and felt guilty at first, but now I feel free.
Feels like home listening to you guys! So relatable, so kind and positive attitude. I found myself in a lot of situations in this video. Thank you guys.
I really appreciate your candor and willingness to be vulnerable to your viewers as well as blatantly honest. It is really helpful to me personally. I feel less alienated and confused about decorating my space. I am trying to decorate my first albeit small and modest home and I know nothing about home decor. Money is also always a factor i.e. obstacle. So I greatly appreciate your heart-felt videos, hardwork and sage advice. Thank you both for all you do. I learn so much from you and you not only help me tastefully decorate my little house but you help me save money as well! Thank you very much.
I loved this video! I think it’s so true how our purchases do reflect who we are and letting go of stuff is part of the growth. Like you I moved from a studio to a home and still find myself “thinking “ small. Thanks so much for sharing!
Oh my gosh! This video spoke to me today. Within the last year, we moved from a larger home into a townhouse and now we're moving into our retirement home very soon (which is fully furnished but not my vibe). I have so much trouble getting rid of furniture that I've had for years! I've been watching you and Jack for a while now and I am learning so much and building up the courage to move forward.....thanks! Ugh, I especially need help with those impulse buys. Man, truth be told, I am guilty of most of your list, except for buying pillows without a zipper.
Congratulations on your subscriptions. I’ve been watching your channel for years! I remember when I happened upon it I was so happy. It was the answer to all my style dilemmas, & I felt I wasn’t alone. It felt kindred and serendipitous. Thanks for this video. It is good to hear. Hopefully it will motivate me & my husband to clear things out more. Then be more aware of our purchases. It is an emotional process!
I was in the moment at Home Goods today.....walked away from numerous things I really liked, but had no specific plan for. It felt like widsom. It was a new feeling for me. LOL!
You always have such good advice about the emotional nature of the things that surround us! It’s great to get your support for making decisions we can feel so guilty about.
I find things look busy as well with small things. Patterns make me feel bored easily. When I was young I just bought whatever. You’re right it is a journey. I have learnt my style.
The part in which you talked about freebees, and having less patterns helped me understand myself ! I discovered those (mainly patterns) were the keys to my changing my style. I feel better without pattern or other frou frou. I find patterned pillows and other former-me styles in my storage, and don't feel bad about donating or tossing. Thank you!
Love this!!! We have traveled Europe, the islands and have brought home decor and later wonder what was I thinking?? Omg...Love your home and your decor..We had a very traditional large home for 40 years. Moved to another state, bought a modern home and reinvented myself Thank you for your help too...
The gratitude you share with us is the same gratitude we have for you. Thank you for sharing your journey with us and gently teaching us new things. It's also fun to see the great chemistry you still have with your hubby!! ❤️
Oh my GOSH, WHO doesn't love the dynamic between Val and Jack!!!🥰😂 They Are just the best! I love the videos you two do together, it just brings joy to my life!❤️
I think getting rid of things is so freeing. Not looking at something that doesn't work is so much better than keeping it and re-living the regret. And I love the idea of putting it back out in the world for someone else. Thank you so much for the affirmation!
I love you two!! I didn’t know my style had a name until finding your channel. Now you both are helping me fine tune my home, declutter it a bit more and make it even more minimal and beautiful. I’m so excited I found you both!
Yes. I agree that a good clean out is important for growth. I also like to Re purpose. I know you don’t have time to sew. But think about using a seamstress to Re purpose. The white snowflake pillow case was pretty. Old mink or beaver coats become new pillows. I even have belts redone if the buckle is good at a cobblers shop. Same for handbags. Have a great Sunday. Thank you😊 for posting!
Yes!!! Thank you for talking about all of this. I am so guilty of taking freebies. Because I don't want to tell people no. Now I'm stuck with items that just don't flo. Thank you. Love HOV!! Best channel I found.
Everything you touched on I’ve been there done that. You are not alone; I invest in oversized quality items that bring me joy-no knickknacks. I mix traditional, modern, and contemporary decorations together throughout my home. Which I think gives my home an elegant look. I do the same thing when it comes to my clothing. I buy quality clothing, which keeps me from purchasing item’s I’ll never wear. And when it comes to food, it must be fresh quality food because what we put in our bodies will affect our health later in life. I rarely dine out and never eat at a fast food restaurant, because cooking at home for my family and friends brings me much joy. I hope you don’t mind me sharing. You both are an inspirational couple who care about your viewers. 💞💕
Thanks for the kick in the backside. There's lots of stuff I will never use, wear etc that is just taking up space. This is going to be a sizable load going to my neighborhood second hand shop. It's all just stuff that keeps us from something better. We deserve better. Great video.
I love that you gave permission to release things given from family. I keep everything. A stranger gave me a pen and I kept it until it ran out of ink.
Sending lots of love to you Valentina, Jack, and your family! You are all wonderful! Thank you for all of the inspiration that you give us! We love you!
Valentina and Jack I love being on this journey with the two of you and your family, your both an inspiration to how decorating can be Fun without all the headaches that come along with it, You take that away from us with all your beautiful tips and tricks on how to style something without breaking the bank, it’s the little things that make a home come together and You Two have done exactly that on your channel, I always hit that Like button before I even start watching because I know it’s going to be Great. You’ve inspired me to bring certain things into my home that I would never of thought of, just some branches off my trees into a lovely vase makes all the difference and I would of never thought of that, the vase would of still been stored away in my cupboard now it’s getting used and looks lovely with my Magnolia branches sitting in it that cost nothing. Keep up the Great work and you’ll be at 500k before you know it, You guys surely deserve it for all you do. Cheers from Nellie from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺….on a side note, not many stores here have a return policy, so your lucky over there 👉🏻🇺🇸. ❤️❤️
This video was so inspiring as I am in the process of pre- down sizing and learning to let go of stuff. I appreciate the " failures" being learning and educational opportunities and the opportunity to bless others. I am learning to keep the quality, keep it simple and use nature to decorate. Thanks for sharing.
Came back to watch this podcast. I so enjoy your focus & honesty of decorating. How it effects you, your hubby & kids. My goal i that when I walk into my home & feel relaxed. Thank you 😊 🤗
Always enjoy seeing both of you together. ♥️ I love this video and 1000% agree. You have to try things and get some things “wrong” to learn your true style. Preach girl. Yes let’s mix styles to create more interesting rooms. Mixing styles has been an epiphany I have leaned just this year. 🤯 It is so freeing and makes for my perfect room that I can feel proud of.
Love this video! 💜 The last point about freebies is so important. Family members with good intentions want to give you a lot of free stuff, but it’s important to be able to respectfully say no when something is not your style. I usually go with “this is lovely, but I don’t think it will fit my space, but thank you!”
My basement is full of my mistakes and impulse buys esp wood furniture and ugly rugs of patterns and colors! My husband doesn’t want to throw out anything ! Very good topic! Enjoyed it!💕💕💕
Little items 🙄 I have recently gotten rid of TONS of small items that I had just ‘because’! I love that because you’ve lived abroad you understand these issues that might not get when you live in America. Would love to see a video of how to decorate a small and multifunctional space for those living over the pond! Especially with colour… small dark space.. do I paint light, do I go for the dark dramatic look? Arggg!!!
These advice are awesome! My home hasn’t been looking very right and yea, getting all those little decorative items just made my home look too busy! Thanks for pointing this out.
Omg I have enjoyed and watched so many of your videos over the past year - I am an artist and my home is an extension of my soul. I have found kindred spirits in the house of V. I love your vibe and your passion - your partnership is so inspiring as well! Thank you for giving the masses the value of aesthetics and clarity of vision.
Ok. I have had my fun with quick comments. We visited a friend in San Antonio. They are an older couple so I expected to see many chocthkies in their home and I did but everything was meaningful and not overdone. I liked it. I have been seriously looking what we have in our home. Gotten rid of stuff. Bought new stuff. I think I am closer to finding my style. You guys have made me more sensitive to how we live and what is needed and what is not. Thanks a bunch.
Yes! I cannot say how much I felt you with the pillows/ cases with no zippers! I try to avoid it all costs, but, It pains me so much to buy a pillow with no zipper. I guess I could have worse problems, lol
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Regarding the zipper-less pillow, perhaps instead of storing it in the off season you could use it as a base to stuff into other zippered pillow covers. Win win!
My thought too! Just pop a cover on top
Yep that what I do too
Sometimes I buy an ugly sale pillow and it's cheaper than an insert. And cover it of course!
Exactly what I do. I never thought of storing a seasonal pillow lol it's kinda funny. 😅
I thought everybody does this. My summer pillows are inside my winter pillow covers.
The way Jack looks at Valentina …. Couple goals!
You can tell which you tubers are faking a good relationship & those that are actually really happy....for real.
Gets me every time!
😉🤣
Valentina, I love your experimental side and how you share it with us! Thank you for all of the work you do and for the joy you bring. My house is so much more beautiful - so much more of a home - since I started watching your channel. I absolutely love creating a space, as you would say, that makes me feel like me when I walk in. What a warm hug it is! You’re awesome!!
Thank you so much! I’ve always been this person but I’m ready to start sharing this side of me with the world!
Loved this, Valentina! One thing I will NEVER buy again is colored or patterned furniture. I am one of those people who tire very quickly of those things. I will only buy neutral furniture and if I want color, I can add that in with accessories.
Enjoyed the video, but I thoroughly enjoy the last few clips at the end. Keep putting those in, so relatable and fun. I'm having to rethink my entire home. What to keep, what should go. After being married for 54+ years, hubby passed and I have lots of decisions to make. I won't do them rashly or quickly, but someday in the near future decisions will have to be made. I don't want to move, I love my home, old 1890 farmhouse, but I'm so over "stuff" that's been hanging around forever. One day I'll start to shake things up. Some precious memory pieces will remain and the rest can go.
Condolences to you on the loss of your husband. You are very wise to take a breath before you start to throw things away. Going through the loss of someone you love, you aren’t thinking as clearly as you may later. Good luck on your new journey! 👍
It will feel like you’re letting the sunshine in.
Put a few things at a time into a box and reevaluate them a month or two later. You may not miss them!
I loved this conversation. Especially about the deeper emotional impact of the things we keep around. I personally feel guilt buying something new or changing things up. Like feeling bad about spending money on things that are just "superficial." But you struck a nerve when you were talking about "holding yourself back" with the life you want. Wow
Girl, take the leap. Your environment is a reflection of who you believe you are. You deserve to build a space that makes you feel confident, proud and serene. Turn your guilt into grace and gratitude and pass on what is no longer serving you! Facebook Marketplace is a magical tool. Goodwill is a magical place! You have the power to cultivate joy within yourself and others by releasing the *stuff* that's been hindering your trajectory. You are worthy of it. Best of luck!
I love the advice on freebies. We did a huge home declutter this last year and are being hyper intentional about what comes in our home now. Thanks for another great video!
Good for you, kudos
Exactly what we are doing-we also just bought a cabin that we will be putting on a rental program… the man that owned it was elderly and he’s leaving everything 😬 definitely have to do some cleaning out!
YES! I have far too many cast-offs from well-meaning relatives and friends and I need to divest. Does it bring me joy? No? Out it goes!
I just put new pillow covers on the pillows with no zippers when I want to change out the colors/pattern (use the pillow with no zipper as a pillow insert). That way it's more versatile!
Me too! Works beautifully.
I also use my pillows the same way.
Me too, and sometimes when I go to change the cover, I rediscover the cushion that's inside ( sometimes years later😅)
Much of this advice applies to our closets too! I eliminated most colour and pattern. A lot of clothes went, but what remains feels like me now. It's worth the effort.
I really loved your message about not feeling bad about passing something forward. Sometimes my husband struggles with this and I’m of the same mindset as you. There are worse things by far then making a purchase mistake or decor mistake.
I wanted to comment on how incredible it is that even though you and Jack have been together for a long time the obvious adoration between you is inspiring
"Let go of anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy" ❤️
I purge and sell all the time and my family and friends think I’m crazy. But when I see rooms around my house come together it makes my ❤️ happy. My rooms are always a work in progress.
2:52 pillow without zippers
4:42 patterns, patterns, patterns
7:38 small decorative items
9:59 themed items
12:00 impulse buys
13:02 non-returnable items
16:32 the “freebie”
Love the sense of humor that you both have!
We purchased our home from a friend that went into assisted living. With it came a LOT of stuff that she had collected though out her life. I have felt guilty about getting rid of her stuff, but you can't keep everything. We have been here for a year, and I am still making decisions about what to keep and what to donate. Thank you for sharing.
And being yourselves is probably why people are drawn to your channel and enjoy it so much,; myself included. All the best.
"This is not Build-a-Bear." 😂 Thanks for the great tips and some humor.
Good points about not getting too attached to your possessions and appreciating what and who gives you joy. Well done. Jack brings fun to every video. You two are my favorite 🤩
I love your channel; I learn a lot but I also wish to tell you I like so much to see you too always so happy and obviously you love each other so much …!it’s so nice to see that 😘
Never ever did I think I'd be putting beige in my home. Thanks to you I am now and I'm more than ok with it. It really does work to warm and soften. Thank you so much for encouraging me to experiment.
Best way to start the day, a new House of Valentina video 😃
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for being real, sharing your personal experiences, and the occasional mistakes that are inevitable for most of us. I love watching your videos, not only for the tips and design inspiration, but the infectious and positive chemistry between the two of you! I love love love seeing married couples who are (very obviously) best friends. Love you guys!
I am making the house we live on for the last 15 years, finally my own and I stumbled upon your channel. Well, it is so down to earth! My grandma was an interior designer and I miss her now, but here I have found so much wisdom now that I needed, plus your minimalistic style and use of afordable items is perfect. Thank you for making this wonderful world of interior decoration more understandable and available to a lot of people that only “fill up a space” but are not “making it their home” Greetings from a Colombian in the Netherlands. I am a new fan!
This was great! I just moved to a new state after a huge life change and now getting rid of almost everything I PAID to move! My practical side cringes and feels guilt over “waste” but it’s a totally different house, environment and life I want to embrace. The old not only doesn’t fit but feels stifling. As I allow myself to shed the old and purchase new things that do fit, there’s this shift that feels like metamorphosis. Holding onto things that don’t serve anymore doesn’t make you better, it keeps you from moving forward. If I had the move to do over, I’d sell/donate almost everything!
I watch quite a few Home Decor videos. I’ve used your tips the most in my home. I’d also like to say I love your husband’s hair. Kind of rockabilly. My husband wore his hair like that and had the best style. He passed away 2 years ago and I’m happy to see someone else with the same look.
Thank you so much for your kind words. Wendy, I’m so sorry for your loss!
A great reminder! Particularly the idea of donating items, passing each one on to someone who will appreciate it. I’ve been doing a lot of that, getting things down to things I really love, and your videos have really helped.
Speaking of books, still waiting on your big coffee table book.
You two are such a joy to watch. And such great advice about letting things go that no longer fit in our lives. The freebies and gifts are the hardest for me. Especially if the person that gave them to me is no longer here.
I love watching you both. Yes I learn something about interior decorating but what makes your videos the BEST is that you laugh & smile & that you are honest. Thank you both! (Videos with the two of you are my favourite!) 😃
I absolutely loved this video. It’s so refreshing to hear you both talk about how curating your home is a journey and sometimes that means letting go of things to make space for the home you truly feel represents you as a person/family. Love you both. Always learning and growing with you!
I love your videos. I was so pleased you made this video. I have made so many mistakes over the years. I’m in my 70s and I love home stuff but I have been often lured by shops and music and the smells of products that are set out to entice. Watching you and others that I follow iv learned to think and make better choices using a mood board to decide colours, furniture etc. The worst products over the years have been cushion covers. I am the Queen of terrible cushion cover choices. But I’m getting better at choosing. The one thing that I’ve have in my home that I have not been able to donate is a China cabinet that my mother left to me. It’s been over 50years since she passed and I keep it under the stairs. Occasionally I have an impulse to get rid of it. I take it out, but then a day later I panicked and put it back. It’s totally ridiculous. It’s moved with us so many times.
25 years ago we moved to Spain from England and it came with us, although most of all the other furniture we bought is long gone. I know the memories of my mum will always be with me, but even though I never wanted the cabinet i can’t let it go. It’s a case of out of site is out of mind. Love to you both , you’re so lovely. Xx 😘
Your mom wouldn’t want you to be burdened. She would tell you to let someone else have it now. You both got what you needed from it.
Thank you. I am getting rid of the the giant coffee pot I've had in my basement for 35 years! A freebee, it's one of those metal drip style with the toggle spout at the bottom, they're always at large gatherings where you're going to need about 40 cups of coffee. I think I've used it once for a baby shower in 1990!
Oh wow, when I clicked on this video, I was not expecting to tap in to my emotional side of my clutter today but I'm so glad you brought it up and in the way you did it. You confirmed many of the things I already knew but haven't been able to follow through with so thank you!
Hi Valentina and Jack--The Paris Metro map is tres magnifique! What a cool addition to your already stylish home. Parfait!
The Build -a-Bear comment was the best! "We aren't going to put a heart in it! " 🤣🤣🤣
Hilarious!!!!!!
Special request: since you have moved so much and needed to start from scratch. Can you give us more advice on doing the same thing? Like strategies for building on things so you don’t need get rid of so much later?
As an example, I heard a tip to buy patio tables and chairs first, so you could have something to use right away, and then really take your time to find what you really want and save enough for it. And you can still use your patio furniture afterwards.
Best video ever!! There's some guilt to no longer wanting "things" that were once valued ... which I always pass on to charity (too lazy to sell, more guilt). Valentina you put an awkward uncomfortable "issue" to rest for me! You and Jack are refreshingly open and straightforward and charming!!
"This is not build a bear." Too good. Wow, this was a beautiful one guys...soulful and true. Thank you.
new to the channel but staying for and LOVING the authenticity! so relatable 😘
I literally jumped out of bed when I heard the notification! I love your videos. You guys are awesome and I am enjoying all the great advice and tips you give each week. You are doing an awesome job Valentina and Jack.
Totally agree, I look forward to them!
Thank you so much!
Funny! I wait for this every Sunday 😁😁
Thank you for this therapy session! We have downsized and it’s been hard letting things go even though my style has evolved. It does feel good releasing these previously loved accessories back to the world knowing they will become someone else’s treasures!
You’re both such a treasure. The House of Valentina is my very favorite channel to watch and honestly sometimes I have them on in the background when I’m painting or restyling a room! I love all that inspiration!! Jack is so supportive and the two of you are just a magical team.
Y’alls interactions thaw my cold cold heart. Soooo cute
Thank you - both of you are genuine! Thank you and love your style
I totally agree with y’all about clutter and unnecessary things. It make me nervous when there is things on the countertops. I recently purged things I inherited from my parents and felt guilty at first, but now I feel free.
Tremendously valuable advice mixed in with a ton of humor! You two are adorable! Love this channel!!
Everyday I love you people more. You are both so sweet and down to earth. Blessings to you.
Feels like home listening to you guys! So relatable, so kind and positive attitude. I found myself in a lot of situations in this video. Thank you guys.
Meaningful and helpful! I struggle with the things that are holding me from clearing out my life. I love the journey, too! Thank you!
I really appreciate your candor and willingness to be vulnerable to your viewers as well as blatantly honest. It is really helpful to me personally. I feel less alienated and confused about decorating my space. I am trying to decorate my first albeit small and modest home and I know nothing about home decor. Money is also always a factor i.e. obstacle. So I greatly appreciate your heart-felt videos, hardwork and sage advice. Thank you both for all you do. I learn so much from you and you not only help me tastefully decorate my little house but you help me save money as well! Thank you very much.
I loved this video! I think it’s so true how our purchases do reflect who we are and letting go of stuff is part of the growth. Like you I moved from a studio to a home and still find myself “thinking “ small. Thanks so much for sharing!
Oh my gosh! This video spoke to me today. Within the last year, we moved from a larger home into a townhouse and now we're moving into our retirement home very soon (which is fully furnished but not my vibe). I have so much trouble getting rid of furniture that I've had for years! I've been watching you and Jack for a while now and I am learning so much and building up the courage to move forward.....thanks! Ugh, I especially need help with those impulse buys. Man, truth be told, I am guilty of most of your list, except for buying pillows without a zipper.
Congratulations on your subscriptions. I’ve been watching your channel for years! I remember when I happened upon it I was so happy. It was the answer to all my style dilemmas, & I felt I wasn’t alone. It felt kindred and serendipitous.
Thanks for this video. It is good to hear. Hopefully it will motivate me & my husband to clear things out more. Then be more aware of our purchases. It is an emotional process!
I was in the moment at Home Goods today.....walked away from numerous things I really liked, but had no specific plan for. It felt like widsom. It was a new feeling for me. LOL!
You always have such good advice about the emotional nature of the things that surround us! It’s great to get your support for making decisions we can feel so guilty about.
I find things look busy as well with small things. Patterns make me feel bored easily. When I was young I just bought whatever. You’re right it is a journey. I have learnt my style.
The part in which you talked about freebees, and having less patterns helped me understand myself ! I discovered those (mainly patterns) were the keys to my changing my style. I feel better without pattern or other frou frou. I find patterned pillows and other former-me styles in my storage, and don't feel bad about donating or tossing. Thank you!
Totally agree about freebies. Once you take it, it’s your problem to get rid of and when it’s from family sometimes that is hard.
Love this!!! We have traveled Europe, the islands and have brought home decor and later wonder what was I thinking?? Omg...Love your home and your decor..We had a very traditional large home for 40 years. Moved to another state, bought a modern home and reinvented myself Thank you for your help too...
Valentina YESSSSS haha 😂 the “freebies”! We can all relate to the emotional hijacking of the freebie gifts!
I love the reminder that it's ok - even better than ok - to let go of things that aren't working for us anymore.
I love how Valentina got a little deep. It was very heartfelt, well received, and relatable.
Just went back and rewatched this video that popped up on my feed. Such a good video, you both were amazing then, and you’re amazing now
You guys are precious people! Thank you ☺️
The gratitude you share with us is the same gratitude we have for you. Thank you for sharing your journey with us and gently teaching us new things. It's also fun to see the great chemistry you still have with your hubby!! ❤️
Oh my GOSH, WHO doesn't love the dynamic between Val and Jack!!!🥰😂 They Are just the best! I love the videos you two do together, it just brings joy to my life!❤️
I think getting rid of things is so freeing. Not looking at something that doesn't work is so much better than keeping it and re-living the regret. And I love the idea of putting it back out in the world for someone else. Thank you so much for the affirmation!
I love how the two of you react to one another! Great ideas every time I watch
I love you two!! I didn’t know my style had a name until finding your channel. Now you both are helping me fine tune my home, declutter it a bit more and make it even more minimal and beautiful. I’m so excited I found you both!
Yes. I agree that a good clean out is important for growth. I also like to Re purpose. I know you don’t have time to sew. But think about using a seamstress to Re purpose. The white snowflake pillow case was pretty. Old mink or beaver coats become new pillows. I even have belts redone if the buckle is good at a cobblers shop. Same for handbags. Have a great Sunday. Thank you😊 for posting!
You guys just might have the best channel around. So many thanks for all your “deep” shares…love them.
This was a GOOD one!! Guilty of a few of those and thankful to bless someone else in parting with those items.
Yes!!! Thank you for talking about all of this. I am so guilty of taking freebies. Because I don't want to tell people no. Now I'm stuck with items that just don't flo. Thank you. Love HOV!! Best channel I found.
The energy between you two is the best!🥰 I love it! Greetings from Estonia!💕
Everything you touched on I’ve been there done that. You are not alone; I invest in oversized quality items that bring me joy-no knickknacks. I mix traditional, modern, and contemporary decorations together throughout my home. Which I think gives my home an elegant look. I do the same thing when it comes to my clothing. I buy quality clothing, which keeps me from purchasing item’s I’ll never wear. And when it comes to food, it must be fresh quality food because what we put in our bodies will affect our health later in life. I rarely dine out and never eat at a fast food restaurant, because cooking at home for my family and friends brings me much joy. I hope you don’t mind me sharing. You both are an inspirational couple who care about your viewers. 💞💕
Thanks for the kick in the backside. There's lots of stuff I will never use, wear etc that is just taking up space. This is going to be a sizable load going to my neighborhood second hand shop. It's all just stuff that keeps us from something better. We deserve better. Great video.
I love that you gave permission to release things given from family. I keep everything. A stranger gave me a pen and I kept it until it ran out of ink.
Sending lots of love to you Valentina, Jack, and your family! You are all wonderful! Thank you for all of the inspiration that you give us! We love you!
Thank you - what a beautiful message you summarized with. Just love.
Thanks for sharing this with us. I’m planning to go through my decor and look at it in a new way, and keep items that give me joy!
I really felt you at the end there. It’s good to dive deep when regarding our possessions. I’m going to start that this week. Thanks!
Valentina and Jack I love being on this journey with the two of you and your family, your both an inspiration to how decorating can be Fun without all the headaches that come along with it, You take that away from us with all your beautiful tips and tricks on how to style something without breaking the bank, it’s the little things that make a home come together and You Two have done exactly that on your channel, I always hit that Like button before I even start watching because I know it’s going to be Great. You’ve inspired me to bring certain things into my home that I would never of thought of, just some branches off my trees into a lovely vase makes all the difference and I would of never thought of that, the vase would of still been stored away in my cupboard now it’s getting used and looks lovely with my Magnolia branches sitting in it that cost nothing. Keep up the Great work and you’ll be at 500k before you know it, You guys surely deserve it for all you do. Cheers from Nellie from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺….on a side note, not many stores here have a return policy, so your lucky over there 👉🏻🇺🇸. ❤️❤️
This video was so inspiring as I am in the process of pre- down sizing and learning to let go of stuff. I appreciate the " failures" being learning and educational opportunities and the opportunity to bless others. I am learning to keep the quality, keep it simple and use nature to decorate. Thanks for sharing.
That was a BEAUTIFUL discussion! I so enjoyed hearing both of you chat about the items and the emotional things, both were encouraging!
Excellent points shared of lessons learned. I'm 57 & realizing the same things. Blessings to you both!
Came back to watch this podcast. I so enjoy your focus & honesty of decorating. How it effects you, your hubby & kids. My goal i that when I walk into my home & feel relaxed. Thank you 😊 🤗
Wow, thank you so much, that’s so sweet!
Yes please share your nearest goodwill store with us. And I love the map behind you guys.
Always enjoy seeing both of you together. ♥️ I love this video and 1000% agree. You have to try things and get some things “wrong” to learn your true style. Preach girl. Yes let’s mix styles to create more interesting rooms. Mixing styles has been an epiphany I have leaned just this year. 🤯 It is so freeing and makes for my perfect room that I can feel proud of.
Your road house is twice as big as my home. British homes are tiny. My husband loves your Paris train map, circa 1960 he said. 😅
I really love the statue of the lady that you have in your bathroom, it is beautiful could you please tell us where we can get something similar.
Love this video! 💜 The last point about freebies is so important. Family members with good intentions want to give you a lot of free stuff, but it’s important to be able to respectfully say no when something is not your style. I usually go with “this is lovely, but I don’t think it will fit my space, but thank you!”
My basement is full of my mistakes and impulse buys esp wood furniture and ugly rugs of patterns and colors! My husband doesn’t want to throw out anything ! Very good topic! Enjoyed it!💕💕💕
Little items 🙄
I have recently gotten rid of TONS of small items that I had just ‘because’!
I love that because you’ve lived abroad you understand these issues that might not get when you live in America. Would love to see a video of how to decorate a small and multifunctional space for those living over the pond! Especially with colour… small dark space.. do I paint light, do I go for the dark dramatic look? Arggg!!!
Tears came running out of my eyes when you got "deep". Thank you for going there! Needed that part and loved the whole video.... as always!
These advice are awesome! My home hasn’t been looking very right and yea, getting all those little decorative items just made my home look too busy! Thanks for pointing this out.
Thanks Liza!
Oh! I bought an acrylic table when my twins were one year old. What was I thinking???! LOL! But, as you say, I learned a lot from that table. 😂😂😂
Omg I have enjoyed and watched so many of your videos over the past year - I am an artist and my home is an extension of my soul. I have found kindred spirits in the house of V. I love your vibe and your passion - your partnership is so inspiring as well! Thank you for giving the masses the value of aesthetics and clarity of vision.
Ok. I have had my fun with quick comments. We visited a friend in San Antonio. They are an older couple so I expected to see many chocthkies in their home and I did but everything was meaningful and not overdone. I liked it. I have been seriously looking what we have in our home. Gotten rid of stuff. Bought new stuff. I think I am closer to finding my style. You guys have made me more sensitive to how we live and what is needed and what is not. Thanks a bunch.
Yes! I cannot say how much I felt you with the pillows/ cases with no zippers! I try to avoid it all costs, but, It pains me so much to buy a pillow with no zipper. I guess I could have worse problems, lol
So true! I just hate storing lots of big pillows!