I can confirm that Mary knows what she’s talking about. Funny story: I’m an American guy living in Ukraine, and one day I met another American guy in a cafe. He told me he came to meet a woman that he had been talking to online, but he was heartbroken that she didn’t want to see him again after their first meeting. Months later, I happened to meet the woman he had met (he had showed me her picture). She told me about this American guy that had really disappointed her, saying that on their first meeting he drank vodka (#4), swore a lot (#5), and complained about his long trip, the bad service and the weather (#6). Guys, listen to Mary. 😂
I’m dating a Ukrainian girl right now and she likes it when I swear, but I only swear when I’m joking so maybe it’s different. But she isn’t stereotypical either, she isn’t chasing money and she isn’t judgemental. She knows what she wants and is very clear. It’s a real breath of fresh air.
I have not been looking to date anyone and one major reason is that I recognize how much time and energy it requires. I think a person needs to be truly prepared for that adventure before embarking on it. I am not depressed or suffering from any kind of emotional problems unless you consider one thing: I have goals in life. Indeed, I periodically and truly miss having someone close and dear. The idea of opening the door for her and helping her shop for new shoes and taking her to see interesting places is very appealing. However, my greatest fear in life is not having accomplished anything meaningful enough. I love those things but I fear it holding me down and holding me back from potential that is already so challenging. I think this is why I often like to be a friend to a girl but to not let it go too far. I enjoy... I even yearn for the companionship at times. It is a strange conflict within to both wish for something and fear it at the same time. So far, the fear wins. However, I have to admit something. This video made me think about dating a Ukrainian girl. I think it's because it sounds like a challenge and I have a weakness for challenges. I think this is why, in my own past, I have always found myself attracted to mean women. This is a very bad thing but true. When I see a women angry, I think to myself that there is no anger and cruelty she can do that will hurt me in the slightest. I can melt her heart. I know that anger is just an expression of pain. Did you know that hatred shares the same pathway in the brain as does love? So I feel that I can turn anger to tears through patience, carefully calibrated distance, and genuine effort in order to understand the pain behind it. Of course, no person can ever truly understand the pain of another but it means a lot to us when we see that the other listens and tries. I think we all want to be heard. For the heart, home is where you are understood.
Hello Mary. Your video is helpful. Some of the points I think are true in all cultures, like halitosis, drunkenness, and complaining. Guys who do this really don't fit anywhere. These things work both ways too, if a girl has these issues, guy walk away. Overall, one really has to practice stoicism
YES. Thanks for your informative videos. You are very helpful, even though I am well along in a relationship with a Ukrainian lady. You can never learn too much but you can always learn too late.
That's really good Mary there's a lot of women in this world that are not used to around Western men our problem is a western man we want to go to third base quickly. I always on the first date I always give a woman a nice Rose or some nice flowers. Just to say you're very gorgeous woman. But you have to remember most women in Ukraine are from small villages and you have to it's going to take a lot longer to have a intimate relationship with somebody
Ukrainian women should not come in France. Complaining in France is important, its small talks over here, even when someone call someone else on the phone when we can hear : "Oh putain..." which translate to "Oh fuck". I've been in France for too long Btw how is telling what we think in front someone's face perceived in Ukraine ? Helpful video, good quality as always. Thanks for your time and efforts !
" in our culture"? It's the same in every culture, except n.1 when in my experience ukrainian women are more ready of " intimacy" on the first day of meeting than others ( I am not talking of "workers" of course)
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Yes. It was helpful. Thanks.
Helpful, yes. Thank you!
These rules are actually universal.
I can confirm that Mary knows what she’s talking about. Funny story: I’m an American guy living in Ukraine, and one day I met another American guy in a cafe. He told me he came to meet a woman that he had been talking to online, but he was heartbroken that she didn’t want to see him again after their first meeting. Months later, I happened to meet the woman he had met (he had showed me her picture). She told me about this American guy that had really disappointed her, saying that on their first meeting he drank vodka (#4), swore a lot (#5), and complained about his long trip, the bad service and the weather (#6). Guys, listen to Mary. 😂
I’m dating a Ukrainian girl right now and she likes it when I swear, but I only swear when I’m joking so maybe it’s different. But she isn’t stereotypical either, she isn’t chasing money and she isn’t judgemental. She knows what she wants and is very clear. It’s a real breath of fresh air.
Very interesting and insightful video. Maybe you can do a video about what Ukrainian women consider good flirting 😊
if there is a continuation I would like to know more. For the complainers, we suffer more in imagination than in reality
I have not been looking to date anyone and one major reason is that I recognize how much time and energy it requires. I think a person needs to be truly prepared for that adventure before embarking on it. I am not depressed or suffering from any kind of emotional problems unless you consider one thing: I have goals in life. Indeed, I periodically and truly miss having someone close and dear. The idea of opening the door for her and helping her shop for new shoes and taking her to see interesting places is very appealing. However, my greatest fear in life is not having accomplished anything meaningful enough. I love those things but I fear it holding me down and holding me back from potential that is already so challenging. I think this is why I often like to be a friend to a girl but to not let it go too far. I enjoy... I even yearn for the companionship at times. It is a strange conflict within to both wish for something and fear it at the same time. So far, the fear wins. However, I have to admit something. This video made me think about dating a Ukrainian girl. I think it's because it sounds like a challenge and I have a weakness for challenges. I think this is why, in my own past, I have always found myself attracted to mean women. This is a very bad thing but true. When I see a women angry, I think to myself that there is no anger and cruelty she can do that will hurt me in the slightest. I can melt her heart. I know that anger is just an expression of pain. Did you know that hatred shares the same pathway in the brain as does love? So I feel that I can turn anger to tears through patience, carefully calibrated distance, and genuine effort in order to understand the pain behind it. Of course, no person can ever truly understand the pain of another but it means a lot to us when we see that the other listens and tries. I think we all want to be heard. For the heart, home is where you are understood.
Hello Mary. Your video is helpful. Some of the points I think are true in all cultures, like halitosis, drunkenness, and complaining. Guys who do this really don't fit anywhere. These things work both ways too, if a girl has these issues, guy walk away. Overall, one really has to practice stoicism
YES. Thanks for your informative videos. You are very helpful, even though I am well along in a relationship with a Ukrainian lady. You can never learn too much but you can always learn too late.
That's really good Mary there's a lot of women in this world that are not used to around Western men our problem is a western man we want to go to third base quickly. I always on the first date I always give a woman a nice Rose or some nice flowers. Just to say you're very gorgeous woman. But you have to remember most women in Ukraine are from small villages and you have to it's going to take a lot longer to have a intimate relationship with somebody
Ukrainian women should not come in France.
Complaining in France is important, its small talks over here, even when someone call someone else on the phone when we can hear : "Oh putain..." which translate to "Oh fuck".
I've been in France for too long
Btw how is telling what we think in front someone's face perceived in Ukraine ?
Helpful video, good quality as always.
Thanks for your time and efforts !
" in our culture"? It's the same in every culture, except n.1 when in my experience ukrainian women are more ready of " intimacy" on the first day of meeting than others ( I am not talking of "workers" of course)