being an introvert sucks, especially when ure alone. (Paris Vlog)
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💌First of all ur not alone :) here iam for u as an unknown extrovert friend kinryy ☺️
I went paris FOR SOLO TRIP 2TH MAY 2024 so many mice ..but hopefoly I met nice people there From Paris du Nord train station to TORREL EIFFEL you need stop PASSY METRO
You are not alone we are all with you😊 although are an introvert😅
Oh gosh, I feel so with you 🥺
Sending you thousand warm hugs and a smiley face ☺️
Gonna walk around with you, jokingly and laughingly together but let you have your own space.
I've seen a video of you for the first time, such good feelings, peaceful and relaxing vibes!👌🏽
Greetings from Zurich, from a most introverted extrovert (ENFP)😉
Stay strong, hopefull and save!
Oh, and yes!
Everybody can change, well at least to a certain point and that's ok.
I changed a lot, mostly to make others happy, wasn't a good thing, the question should be, what do YOU want.
Never change too much, my believe is, you're the happiest when you can be just yourself with people around they appreciate and adore you and not just balance out each others characteristics.
There's no good or bad, it needs always both sides and so people fulfill each other.
Doesn't that sound great?!🫶🏻
I didn't have any friends when I was in middle school and at that time I used to say to myself why I am like this and I blamed myself.
But when I went to high school, because of the bad mood I had in middle school, I tried to make friends very quickly, but after two years of being friends with someone, I realized that I really can't communicate with them.
And this friendship bothered me more than when I was alone Because I wanted to be outgoing like my friend, but I was bothered by my social anxiety. But you know now I really want to go to a place where I don't know anyone and be alone
It may sound counterintuitive, but I really enjoy being alone sometimes
being and spending time with another introvert sometimes push you to be more extrovert and i feel more confortable that i feel like i can do anything
One can be with a group of friends and still feel alone. Nice that you are still enjoying Paris on your own😊 it takes a lot of courage to explore a country on your own.
True tho haha
It does. Just traveling alone makes my anxiety jump up to 11 😂
Yeah I’m normally with my family
@@furiousdestroyah9999I NEVER travel alone. I would cry as I’m lifting off lol
@@mr.potato2399 It is quite stressful
Let me see how many introverts here?
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as someone who lives in a foreign country alone I totally agree with you
I think the key words you said was “have to step out of my comfort zone”. That is the most difficult thing for anyone to do. But if you don’t do it, you will always be in the same place. Life is a series of experiences. We learn from our experiences and the more we do them, the more we become comfortable with them. But for many, it is a very difficult journey. I wish you all the luck.
I learned to „act“ like an extrovert if life, job etc. wants me to. Life teaches us at some point. But at heart we‘ll prolly stay introverts. It has advantages too - we‘re often more insightful emotionally. ☺️ That takes up energy tho. If social batteries are empty, alone-time is needed. Eventually we need to accept ourselves for who we are. ✌️❤️
I totally agree with the two last phrases.
I wonder whatever happened to my social battery. Before I used to be like that but after meeting a certain person now it's the opposite for me: I feel tired when I'm alone
@@furiousdestroyah9999 Tired of being alone and unable to see/be with that certain someone? Or tired cause that person exhausts you?
@@marcel_ja_nein_vielleicht The first one. It's actually the very opposite, I feel exhausted when I'm not with them
@@furiousdestroyah9999 Sounds familiar. Not being together with or unable to open up about our feelings towards ppl we strongly admire is super tough. I hope u have a bestie to share it with. That always helps me tons if I‘m in that mood.
I loved it. It was like talking to a friend and walking around with him in Paris 🇫🇷.
True!
@@user-ig7vo4jy6k 🥹🥹
i am glad you have opened up a bit now and its really good to see you vlogging outside .
11:23 coming from an introvert who is best friends with an intervert with social anxiety, I think fundamentally that if I tried to become an extrovert by sheer will power, I would be exhausted. There are times that I have extrovert moments, where I want to go and do things with friends, but I go out with my extrovert friends who, like you said, will go get things when I don't feel comfortable doing it myself. However, when I'm with my introvert friend, I don't have the same anxiety as she does so I become that person for her. Realizing that introverts get recharged being by themselves and that extroverts get charged by being with others makes me think that if I were to try and become an extravert, I'd be too tired to do anything🫠becoming comfortable with yourself when your alone is hard enough, but becoming comfortable when your alone in public can be a challenge. Dealing with social anxiety and confidence takes little steps to achieve great things. A few years ago, it would've be hard for me to to see you doing the things you're doing now, but because you've taken those steps, you're getting closer to being who you want to be. Long post, but I want you to know we're all so proud of you!!!
I suffer from social anxiety, I literally have to mentally prepare myself before talking to others because I'm scared about what they think about when I talk to them lmao, it's hard and I feel insecure most of the times xD This video helped a lot, self confidence is really important.
it's important to distinguish introvertedness from shyness/social anxiety. Social anxiety can be overcome, introvertedness is just part of the personality. Introverted people just have not so much desire or interest in much social interaction. Shy/anxious people would love to have more social interaction but are afraid of it.
The bus situation you described was interesting ! i definitely also have this in other situations, like when I am in a store and I don't know here to find something or what supplies I should get, but I don't want anybody to notice because I find that embarrassing, so I end up buying nothing or leaving quickly. I know it's basic advice, but the thing you should really try is embarrassing yourself over and over again until you don't care anymore + learning to laugh at yourself. As long as you're polite to people and behave decently, you actually cannot do anything wrong.
When running for your bus, you need to prioritize your own life and needs, you need that bus right now, so it doesn't matter what anyone may think, you are going to try to get that bus. I had to run to catch public transport everyday when I was in school, so it became normal and natural for me to look like an idiot whilst running with my huge backpack.... and missing the tram. Remember that when you imagine the kind of person you would like to be, or people you like or think are really fun, they probably do embarrassing stuff, look confused, ask for help etc., and you would never dislike them for such trivial reasons. It's just that we are so harsh on ourselves, that we will hate ourselves for running and looking stupid or tripping on the street etc. However, it is a lot more fun to be a more imperfect person.
Also, when you do something embarrassing in public, try smiling/laughing at what you just did instead of feeling like hiding, looking at the ground etc. If you laugh, you own the situation in a positive way. Like, you recognise what just happened and at least act as if you find it funny - this makes life a lot more fun and light-hearted!
This is so relatable as an introvert! Ive pushed myself out of my comfort zone and started doing things alone like going to concerts alone in a city I've never been in, but even then i have anxiety and its hard. Being an introvert in this world can definitely be hard but i think its beautiful too. Not everyone can be an extrovert, in that case the world would be even louder and introverts contribute to some stillness and peace as well as maybe new ideas. We are often creative and dreamers and your channel is a big proof of that. I love these videos when u sit and talk about topics like this, it makes me feel less alone in being an introvert and trying to step out of my comfort zone even though it brings me anxiety, but it also brings major growth!
Nobody is talking about how cute he is❤
Edit: and so polite 😊
Really cute ❤
I’m an introvert and it’s really hard for me to make friends and not only that I’m homeschool so I don’t have lots of friends. It’s not easy because I’m also a vary shy person. Ryan, never think you are only in the world to be weird, to over think things. There are many other people like you.
I totally get you! There are so many things I regret not doing when I was a teenager because of how shy I am. It wasn’t until I got some introverted friends that I started to be more open. I’m pretty shy, but I guess I value other people’s feelings more. Whenever my friends feel too embarrassed to do something, I always end up doing it for them. Like I prefer being the one going through the embarrassment. I’m only “extroverted” when I’m with them though. Everyone knows me as the shy, quiet one, but I’m the complete opposite when I’m with my introverted friends. Being friends with them helped me to know more about who I really am. Also, when you talked about making up so many dramas and stuff in your mind when you’re alone, same!! The way I can spend hours by myself doing nothing, just thinking and making up scenarios in my head is crazy.
I’ve realized that if I have just one friend around me, it gives me so much more courage. I’m 26 and still terrified to go places alone.😅
I’m 62 and still feel that way. You just learn to cope. :)
I really understand your struggle about being an introvert in life as I literally have the same thoughts as you but I think that we should accept ourselves and really believe in ourselves !! You shouldn't be afraid of doing what you want to do, because in the worst scenario what could happen to you that is so bad ? I live in France (unfortuantely not in Paris) and I'm sure you can find your people and make new friends !! We're proud of you for everything you've achieved and you should be too
Being an introvert is awesone!! I know is hard sometimes and even harder in some places or countries (i'm spanish and the struggle is real)
But you don't have to live up to the expectations of anybody.
You are the best version of yourself!
INFJ for live jajaj!!
It is definitely possible to expand your comfort zone and become less shy. The more you try things, the more you realize you don't need to be scared. The more you learn to not care (or worry as much) about what strangers may think about you. And the less you worry the more free you feel to be yourself. That doesn't mean you'll become a different person, just less weighed down by the fear. I used to be painfully shy, and as I got older, I was able to let go of a lot of it. Not all! But I'm much much much less shy than I used to be. If you want to become less shy, you can - just keep putting yourself out there bit by bit 🧡
your mannerisms are so cute and i like the way you dress - watching this as i procrastinate a uni assignment hahaha
I’m an introvert and also a twin and it’s so hard for me to do things alone. I have to tell myself that I need to get out of my comfort zone everyday. Watching your video encourage me to do different things in my daily basis
This is the first video in a LONG timr where I didn't put it on 2x speed and run to focus on the comment section. Thank you for providing me with a calm space, relatable topic, and beautiful views. You have a subscriber in me 🧡
That feeling of missed opportunities just because you're an introvert I know it very well.. But I think it's more important to look at all the little things you've done as an introvert..
I mean, look at yourself.. where are you now.. you're alone in a foreign country making videos on street.. how many introverts could do that?
It wasn't that long ago when you said you couldn't make a vlog.. and now you look like a pro.. you've mastered the next one small step, but towards something big.. and that's what introverts should think about.. not what they missed, but what they achieved.. because it's not easy to be an introvert in this world..
You know I've never met an introvert like me.. so when I hear you talk about these things like that, it gives me the feeling that I'm really not the only one who thinks this way and fights with himself.. it gives me confidence.. that's why I believe that as introverts we can make it here.. maybe at a slower pace, but that is totally okay..
Btw when you started talking about catching up with the bus.. before you even finished the sentence I was laughing so hard because I do it too.. don't worry, you're definitely not alone in this one! Haha
Sometimes I think how different things could have been without the curse of being an introvert. Maybe I could have been friends with that person I really liked
@@furiousdestroyah9999 I understand how you feel. Being introverted can sometimes feel like it holds us back from connecting with others..
I often think how things might have been different if I weren't so introverted... But being introverted is part of who I am, and I've learned to embrace it..
Perhaps being introverted isn't a curse after all.. Remember, when you eventually form a connection with someone, it will be extraordinary precisely because you're an introvert.. So, being introverted doesn't define your worth or your ability to form meaningful connections..🧡
@@veasse1829 Perhaps but I've still yet to see that happen. All it's done is isolate me so far and hinder me the one time I tried really hard to make a friend
I don't know about complete shift from introvert to extrovert, but going from introvert to introverted extrovert/extroverted introvert is definitely possible! I was really quiet until age 18, but after that I came out of my shell and find it way easier to talk to people. Especially in terms of strangers in a city - you'll probably never see them again, so what's the harm in talking to them even if it's awkward? The same thing happened to my mom too, she was really quiet in her childhood and opened up as a young adult and now she never stops talking 😭Being alone in a new city is definitely still hard for me but it's just about baby steps.
11:47 so damn relatable lol. While vacationing in Dubai, my sister and I were enjoying some time on the beach. I placed my bag on a bench and sat nearby, waiting for my sister who had gone to buy juice. At that moment, a family consisting of a grandmother, her daughter, and grandson arrived, looking for a place to sit. I stood up to offer them the bench, intending to take my bag with me, but the grandmother took it and placed it with her belongings. I felt too shy to ask for it back, despite having my headphones, phone, and iPad inside. I waited until my sister returned, and she had to ask the grandmother for my bag. She was like "Oh, splendid move, bravo! Let's just hand over our valuables to strangers for a vacation makeover. I mean, who needs personal belongings when we can play Santa Claus to random beachgoers, right? You're a real genius at asset redistribution!"😭😭
Introverted gang!! but Paris looks so fun 😭 I'm really happy that you're making vlogs, Ryan, and you're not alone if you have us! ☝ but I feel like overcoming things as a introvert is hard too but I believe you can open up and do it 👍👍 we love ya Ryan!!!
Introvert Squad
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Sometimes it feels suck but its more suck if you trying to push yourself to go out in group at last you regret it. At first I felt out but now I embrace my introvert and enjoy being alone and at peace.❤❤❤❤
Thanks for the little Paris tour.
I heard that:
- extroverts gain energy from being around ppl
- introverts use up energy being around others, but recharge when alone
- introverts with an extrovert mask - these are introverts who realise the missed opportunities (like you said) and put on an extrovert's mask for a short time but it can be stressful for them if they dont recharge. Maybe like when people go to an office or workplace and need to interact with coworkers or boss.
I really don't remember the science or theory behind these ..
As a french person your outfit is really Parisian I'm also an introvert and when I'm in crowded places in France i get really nervous or when i have to order
As an introvert, I relate to your struggles, especially the part about regretting missed opportunities and not wanting to be the center of attention. It is difficult, and I think slowly we have to try to get out of comfort zone and experience things even if it's scary because that's the only way we'll know for sure how things will turn out and even if they don't turn out exactly how you envisioned it, at least you'll have the satisfaction of giving it a try and confronting your fears to ultimately improve yourself and hopefully be happier. I'm also in this process, learning to be comfortable with myself and enjoy my own company when I'm alone. It's not easy but I also don't want to feel ashamed of being an introvert. I want to accept it, embrace it and keep improving. I'm writing this for myself, but if someone else reads this, just know you're not alone and you're doing a great job. ❤️
I can relate to you. I’m an introvert as well and I’ve been trying my best to be more out. I do believe it’s possible for an introvert to become an extrovert, but it does depend on the type of people you hang out with. Hanging out with another introvert can make you feel like you can be more outgoing. I’ve been through it before so at the moment I’m more of an introvert but I am in between.
Im an ambivert but I can relate to that feeling of wanting to just be out and socialize with others, but it feels so exhausting, I’ve been socializing for a whole week and a few more days now, and let’s just say I feel very tired rn lol, yeah hopefully I don’t need to socialize again tmr (I have school ;-;) but yeah sometimes I just really want to talk to people and be out there in the open but I just need my own alone time
You're so cute being all shy talking to people, it's okay you'll be able to overcome your introvert self when needed! :D
hope you get over avoiding people even tho you want to communicate, feel free to talk! i have anxiety to go talk with even people i know sometimes and it makes my life harder i can feel that, but thats how i am now and i try my best to overcome! Fight together 💪🏻
finish watching the video first!!
@@kinryan i did
Love you kinryyyy please stay happy and healthy!!
I'm gonna watch the video now !😙
I was an introvert but I slowly became somewhat of an extrovert and it was all thanks to traveling alone throughout the world. When you're out of your comfort zone you will have to adapt and force yourself to change otherwise you'll be losing out on certain things in life and eventually you'll get use to it and quite enjoy being an extrovert because you'll make friends along the way.
As a french Parisian, we never have umbrellas and it is to expensive so we just walk under the rain haha, the weather is too unpredictable
Also, I understand your struggle ! In Paris, people want to look cool, cold (wich is so annoying) and sometimes it can look hard to make friends; but most of the time it is pretty easy to encounter people in the terrace’s bars even if you don’t speak french
Ive been contemplating over what to write over some days after yhis video dropped.
As an introvert i totally agree. Its hard to connect with people with tje social battery life of ours.
I feel so stuch being in a toxic environment that i have to walk on eggshella and please everyone everyday. I have no one who i can talk to or who can understand im going thru. Im suffocating and bottled up with depression lately and want to run away and to thr point i might burst out in a wrong situation. Im on edge these days . I go thru days not talking to anyone literally except for work. Im either a support system for everyone or they end up arguing if i try to validate my feelings. That doesnt fulfil my desire to vent completely and be understood. Idk what to do anymore. I sound like a teenager but frankly im having a crisis.
I want to travel SO BAD. But unfortunately my salary doesn't allow me to travel.
Seeing ur content gives me a bit of hope that there's someone who is somewhat similar.
God bless
"my brain thinks this way but my body does the opposite" finally someone explained my experience. I moved to London and I feel same as you minus the youtube/viewers.
This world is made for sociable people the extroverts honestly
I think beeing afraid and beeing an introvert are pretty different things, beeing afraid is more like beeing very insecure and having low self esteem, while beeing introverted means you don’t need to many social interactions to be satisfied and feel good about alone time - I’m introverted and can be shy and feel insecure too but therapy really helps me to understand why I feel afraid sometimes. Still I miss social interactions while knowing that I don’t need them non stop and prefer calm meet up’s - does this make sense ? Your overcoming some fear while stepping out and pushing yourself ! I think that’s great and I wish you to accomplish anything you want even while beeing introverted makes it harder sometimes !
Same!! You know there was this one time we needed graph paper for science class and the teacher told us to bring someone from home. The next day, he gave all those who didn't carry any some graph paper, then yelled, "does everyone have graph paper now?" Then me with my shy introvertness just sat there to afraid to raise my hand and the entire class went on with the experiment.. I missed out😞😞
I went to Paris alone for five days, I was sick as well. But I actually enjoyed my time alone, probably because the previous week I went on a 10 day trip with seven friends and that really was a lot to deal with lol
Thank you very much for your experience, for your thoughts, emotions, for sharing this with us! And a special thank you for bringing me back to Paris, to these streets and even the same weather! ❤
Thanks for sharing an introverted day out in Paris! Ive been wanting to do this myself but feared it would be hard alone, but solo travel can be fun too. I think it's all about the mindset. Of having fun and exploring, maybe if im out enough I'll get used to it and someone less shy will say hello.
Love your energy for the stuff you do Kinryyy.❤ Thank you for these videos!🥰
After watching the vlog I literally felt so relatable as if u were speaking my mind u know sometimes I also wanna b an extrovert but I think it is just ok to be fine with WHT I am cuz u know these things are not made in a day so just being at my own pace n see if someone gets me id what I look for now cuz I m just done with this thing 😅
You are best youtuber for introverted people just love ur videos it motivates me you're so courageous don't worry your so brave ❤❤❤
omg bro i've been watching ur vids non stop and pls i love ur videos sm like they are SO GOOD🙏🏻
I was once like you. It's normal. With time you would get out of it but u can strike a balance between the two
4:12 Me too, I am an introvert but I can still perform in a crowd. Just like when I was in high school and used to play guitar and sing on stage. By the way, I am so happy to see you vlogging outside and sharing your thoughts ❤️😊
Being an introvert I have found as you get older you can mask it more. But more importantly you care less about what anyone else thinks. Don’t apologise for being an introvert there are a lot more of us out there than you think. You are a smart and kind person be proud of yourself 👍
Bro, Enjoy it, Introvert is the best in the world. It depends on the person. You can live a peaceful life and you can do anything without drama. I'm an introvert the prob for me is if I talk to others I'm not comfortable anymore but at work time I talk to them like normal with limited time. I do lots of stuff, work out, play games, read manga, and more. For me, I love watching or observing people while mingling with others but in a professional way. So that they don't know that I gazed at them. I study their behaviors it's kinda cool. Thats all. hahaha. Enjoy bro. In this world, peace is important, and happy to be alone. You appreciate everything nature and yourself. In this world, few people can handle being alone but happy. I love to work in another country where no one knows you. Your life is kinda private if work time just work and mingle with others a bit. I love private life. I don't like many people around me so noisy. Bro. Stay happy and blessed.
This is my first time viewing you channel and your vlog. I love your style. I know how you feel when you talk about not having an easy time striking up friendships with strangers. Totally empathize with your shyness, but I would have run after the bus! Ha ha. Thanks for taking us along on your rainy day in Paris!
He opened the door n it was like he's the sun that is shining
Just wanted to let you know that I'm really rooting for you and hope that your life in Paris will get easier and that you'll feel more comfortable with yourself !! Because it really is okay to be an introvert in life though there are times we have no choice but to step out of our comfort zone...you should still be proud of everything you've achieved and never give up ! Step by step and day by day you'll become the person you want to be :))
As introvert being alone in my room is my happiness
Ryan, I am also an introvert. I have found that the more you reach out to others, the better it is. It’s out of my comfort zone, but I enjoy each small success. Don’t miss the bus any more! 😊
It was so nice watching a real experience in paris. I love your style, and I hope you can enjoy the rest of your time in paris!
I was an extrovert from 14 --18 years and then again from 45- to the present moment. The time I was introverted was a time of deep contemplation understanding the past and shaping the future with thoughts...like a sculpture.
Time of contemplation is a positive thing. enjoy it as life may change quickly and you will appreciate the time you used to gather your thoughts.~~~ Create healthy mind patterns with your heightened self-awareness.
You are definitely not alone.💜
Thanks for sharing your perspective of Paris, I love it! Congrats for being brave enough to talk about being an introvert. I think you don't need to be an extrovert, but just try to improve some aspects of your life, the ones that you think that can cause some kind of damage on you. But remember that It's okay to be an introvert, don't try to be someone you are not. Just little improvements on some aspects will render you happier, maybe. Accept who you are and try to don't mind with other people thinks about you. Thanks for the video :)
Eres tan lindoooooooooooooooo so cute.
No veas tu personalidad introvertida como una debilidad, en realidad puede ser una fortaleza. Saludos de Colombia.
I'm an introvert( extremely shy). I really love my ability to be alone even when i'm in a croud💜. I just hate my overthinking& shyness😪
I'm really afraid/don't want to speak to others😔.
But i love being an introvert🥰
When u think u did something unexpected and people are looking at you just laugh on urself and people will ignor you
Everything you said about socializing is exactly how i feel ryan. As i got older i had to adjust at school, at work etc...😊. Been a while since you posted.😊
Loving the content and your outfit. Your outfit was so good
I'm also living in Paris as a swede and I feel you.
We Swedes are kinda famous for being introverted 😅
Trying to practice French and it loose the anxiousness quite some but still a journey!
You’re adorable. I enjoy your vlogs sooo much ❤
Inspiration for all the introverts like me out there thanks Kinn Ryan
hearing him talk about being introverted, i don't think I've ever related to anyone more 😭
I love this Paris vlog so much!! Is calm and healing.
You and your introvert videos amazing 😢❤
He speaks so softly...marshmallow cotton candy
I work night shift because I'm introverted. It has many perks
Most people associate being introvert = shy and it's not always like that, we can enjoy being with more people but we also enjoy our time alone, we are more self-reliant.
Personally I just have one friend, literally just one, and I want in a future to move out of my country (at least for experience) that means I would be 100% alone by myself so this kind of videos really help me to get an idea of what could be.
I really like you style of vlogging and you have a nice voice to listen to 💕
No it's not just you! I have exactly the same thought process for running for buses and so on. Thanks for the vlog.
I love you ryan💗😭And if u feel alone so don't worry! All the subscribers here for you! We are here for u!💗
omg you make me sad 🙁 your voice is so calming!!
Watching your TH-cam channel is so relaxing 😌 you know 😁
Im not introverted but sometimes I like to be alone. I went to Paris alone last summer for a few days and I had great time. I didn’t meet anyone or talk to anyone for the entire time I spent there. I also dont drink and I almost never go to partyes so this is probably the reason I haven’t meet anyone.
But I had such a great time and I think I will go back again in the future Paris Is a beautiful place to visit even if you go solo.
Thank you for this interesting video.
Patiently waiting for your next vlog
It’s the same wherever you go. I am the same here in America. I don’t have the guts to walk around and film myself. Or do things myself because of my social anxiety. I live in a smaller city about 1.2 million people nothing like LA or NYC. But I find myself just enjoying my day to day life in my home. But I get so lonely. I get pretty depressed. I always wish I could connect with other introverts, but lol I’m sure they are just like me. It’s rare to meet someone who share the same interests as me. ❤ it’s cool that you push yourself out of your comfort zone!
That sigh at 11:16 told us so much... I'm guessing making an extrovert friend is difficult as well?
Anyway, I can attest that one can go from being an extrovert to an introvert. I went from being the center of attention to being more comfortable sitting by myself. I have no idea if the change can go the other way around though.. 🤔
PS: totally reminded me of my 5 year old son who's the biggest boba milk fan and lactose intolerant. He drinks it anyway because "It's the best thing in the world." 🙄
Okay, Rayan I understand that being introverted can sometimes feel challenging, but it's also a wonderful part of who you are. You have strengths that extroverts might not have, like deep thinking and introspection. You don't have to compare yourself to extroverts. Your quiet nature doesn't mean you can't achieve great things or enjoy life to the fullest. There's beauty in the way you process the world around you. It's okay to take things at your own pace. You don't always have to be the life of the party or the center of attention. Your presence and insights are valued by those who truly understand you.💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
You just described me. I fell kinda same, like sometime I feel lonely, take antidepressants, I have severe social anxiety, But just maintaing existing 2 friends is too much effort for me. I think mostly because mine and their subject of interest is vastly different.
And sometime I want to hang out with others.The thing is outside, or too much people is intimidating for me, that's my problem with socializing, but things related to socializing like loud noise or alcohol, I can't take that physically.(socializing without these exists, but it's rare.) Mabe this world is not for people like us.
I am extrovert but I am shy to talk to people but at the same do want to
Hi Kinry, ive been a mix of an introvert and extrovert ive noticed that i just feel alot more free if i chose to ignore what other people thinks of me, and i know its scary but sometimes you just gotta jump in it. it's also important noticing the changes your doing to improve, to then later taking a next step to your goal. i understand it can be hard and nice, but i noticed for me, that i liked being alone because i was so used to it. it can take time improving this, but i promise that its worth it!
As another young, foreign introvert that also lives in France I get you. Recently I felt like I got close to making an awesome friend but it just didn't work out. They didn't really want me in their life I suppose.
I hope one day you find lots of cool friends and even get "adopted" by an extrovert friend 😂😊.
Also hope you're having a good time in France 🙏
Ryan ... You Truly Look FABULOUS !!! I hope you find Happiness, Kindness, Companionship & Friendships on your various travels. - Cheers From 🇨🇦
being an introvert myself this is really relatable i dont really know how to answer your question because i am also struggling with it but i hope you can get through being a very shy introvert and i love your outfit it suits you well 🫶🥰
> this is most enjoyable for me - i only visited Paris once, years ago, but i did fall in love with it then - kind of like my first visit to Tokyo a year ago, and i just came back from Tokyo this year, now planning next year's visit ~
I love your new style of videos❤
You have a new friend here from Finland. Glad I found your channel. Im introvert as well and many times lonely so I understand you well. You have a very soothing beautiful voice, remind me little bit of Michael Jackson voice. Love Paris as well
I'm in Normandie, near Caen, you can see pictures of that place if you want. We have sea, forest....
Thank you so much for your vidéo
Iam so happy there are people like me 😊😂🎉 when i read the comments lol
since I saw your video I go out more often and I'm less afraid of doing things alone 🙂
Looks like you had a good time despite being introverted :) I can relate though Im shy and sometimes it’s hard for me to open up to people at first
The bit about doing things when it is your job - I get that. My personality at work must be extroverted. At home I forget to even leave the house.
3:39 That’s so me!😂