I am 35 and have been single essentially my whole life. The only difference between being single now and a few years ago is that more people fear monger me about being single “Aren’t you afraid it will be too late for you to have children” “You’re going to be an old mom” “There are no single men this age who don’t have something wrong with them” “There must be something wrong with you” “You are too picky” etc etc etc
Being single be like fun and lonely at the same time 😅. Thanks for sharing those reminders. It can be discouraging, but definitely believe it will happen when it’s suppose to happen.
Nappyfu, I was like you, panicking when I turned 30 and there were prospects. Then I fasted, prayed, and did charity so that God could listen to my prayer. I met my hubby at 35, married at 36, we squeezed in 3 children before turning 40. I can honestly say that a life without children and marriage would have been miserable for me. Am happier than I have ever been. Hang in there dear, we are praying for your deliverance 😊
Oh sis I’m not panicking at all, I’m trusting God all the way. Thank you for sharing your journey. It’s encouraging to hear how God has blessed you sis!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
LOL my goodness I'm 33 with 2 and I want more thinking I'm getting too old. Here you are with 3 after 35. We need to stop listening to these medical "professionals" saying we aren't fertile after 35.
I just got married a week ago and Im 35. And I will say that being single in my 30s felt awkward, but I got to know me. Who I wanted to be and wanted to accomplish for myself instead of who I felt I had to conform into to be a wife. That allowed me to date differently. I didnt accept just anyone who gave me attention. He had to be on my level. Not perfect, because Im not perfect. But working just as hard as I was to be the best that he could be.
Congratulations sis. Praying you both will have a healthy and committed marriage where God is the foundation. Thanks for sharing. I look for the same, someone that is working to better himself. It’s important so that we both are daily becoming who God wants us to be. I don’t want to be with someone that would drag me back to a place I prayed to get away from.
2 WHOLE people. Yes girl, say it again for the people in the back who’s still like “He/she completes me.” We each 100% whole and complete as we are. Been married with children. Now 58 and single. Having one helluva blast in life now that my kids are grown. Literally no desire for a relationship. I gots too much on my bucket list that I’m enjoying. Don’t know how people feel lonely but I am in love with single life. 😄
If I had this knowledge back in my late teens & early 20's, I would have made a lot of different choices. If I had this knowledge in my early 30's, I would not have felt so desperate. When I had this knowledge in my 40's, I just chilled out, and raised my kids (1 bio and 1 bonus). Now that I will be 50 in five months, I am resolved if it happens it will. I am so grateful for all that I do have.
Single in my 30s be like…Lord 🙋🏾♀️here I am 👀 I’m ready 👰🏾♀️. And the Lord is like “Not yet, I have more work for you to do.” 🤷🏽♀️ Not going to lie it isn’t fun being 37 and single but I became a Christian at 32 and God has used me since day 1 to be a mouthpiece for Him. Nappyfu- God is using you to encourage and minister to people like me. So THANK YOU and be encouraged. Like you said His plans are good and you’re a prime example of that! ❤🙌🏽
Got married in my early 30s divorced last year didn’t expect to be a single mother you learn a lot when you are by ourselves especially about yourself sometimes it’s very easy to find things to do to keep you happy
Yes im engaged and glad i waited. Some people i know wanted to do it so bad that they rushed into it with the wrong person. Im 28 and want to try to avoid divorce as much as possible.
I'm 33 and single but I'm happy with it. First, it gives me time to really develop my relationship with God. I want to go into my relationship a whole person and not looking for someone to fill a void. I enjoy working on myself, preparing myself, and enjoying my life in my singleness. For me personally, I want to be finished with college and in my new career before I start thinking about settling down. Also, I had a conversation with my friend about this and for those of you who want kids (I do not) and worry about getting married before a certain age due to wanting a kids, we had 2 insightful thoughts. First, talk to your doctor and discuss freezing your eggs. Also, be intentional about staying healthy for when you do start trying for a baby. 2) some aren't big or ok with freezing eggs so just know that no matter how old you are, God hears you and sees you and can bless you with kids at any age!
Single in my 30s is annoying. It's not fun, the wait is 🤦🏾♀️. On the other hand I am loved, I have fun and enjoy my life. I also love God and I want what God has for me. I just turned 30, and it feels different, like why? 🤦🏾♀️
This topic is I guess what I would consider a grass seeming greener on the other side thing. I’m married and have children and I thank God for them however if I was single I think it would be amazing too. You can travel, volunteer do all types of things that having children kind of make less likely. In my case I don’t do daycare and plan to home school because I’ve just seen too much indoctrination targeted towards children in schools. I imagine it’s soo much less stressful to be single. Like lol love my babies but most of being a parent is stress, tantrums, discipline, no sleep etc. I think it’s a blessing to be single as apostle Paul says it’s even better spiritually. The woman who’s married cares for the things that please her husband and God ofc. But the unmarried woman can focus solely on the things of God and keeping her body and mind holy. Enjoy your singleness ladies and men but cheers also to my fellow married folks:*
Hey, hey. New subbie here. This video came to me at the right time. You have such a wonderful person little and your husband will be blessed to finally find you. I will be honest and say that all good things come to those who wait on the Lord. It's a.lot of people getting married to the wrong people for the wrong reasons and damn. The divorce rate these days is sky rocketing and it's so alarming. It's because most women can't wait to be a BRIDE and not a wife. The real work starts when y'all get married. Marriage is not always easy...it will be tested and both partners will have to stand together and work things through. I'm still single as well (27years of age) still working on myself, working on certain things at a time. When the time is right, my husband will wife me up. Until then, baaaayyyyybbbyyy, I am married to me🤗..and Jesus Christ of course. 🙏
Been there, done that! Fortunately for me, I think I've always been more interested in being a mother than a wife. A traditional family would have been nice but I feel totally blessed to have the opportunity to be a mom.
Being in my 30s be like Me and God being the best and most close than ever. Me on dating apps is more healthy and enjoyable. I am believing in God and working on the areas He is renewing in me.
Nappyfu! Girl, I love your channel so much! I just wanted to pass along this recommendation to you. (TH-cam- Dr Vanita Rattan) I have followed her guidance for the last 20 months and my skin hasn't looked this good since before my first pimple when I was 10 years old. (I suffer from hyperpigmentation.) There are a few strict guides she suggests for SOC and I've learned soooo much.
Men who are truly in love with their wives chase them/ run after them and need to be with them. Not talking about limerance or lust but true love and attraction. Women love too but being dependent or too submissive is not attractive to a man. He sought you out for a reason and was not looking for a house maid. If he wanted a house maid he is not the one for you sis.
I am 35 and have been single essentially my whole life. The only difference between being single now and a few years ago is that more people fear monger me about being single “Aren’t you afraid it will be too late for you to have children” “You’re going to be an old mom” “There are no single men this age who don’t have something wrong with them” “There must be something wrong with you” “You are too picky” etc etc etc
Don’t worry about that. I got married at 40 and just had my first child on Thanksgiving day. I’m 44. God is good.
Story of my life. I'm 39.
I'm 33
@@adayinthelight7575 Beautiful testimony. ❤❤
@@adayinthelight7575 Congratulations 🎊!!!
Being single be like fun and lonely at the same time 😅. Thanks for sharing those reminders. It can be discouraging, but definitely believe it will happen when it’s suppose to happen.
Single in my 30s be like..
30-33:💃🏾
34-36: 😳
37-39: 🤔
Pockets fat tho so 💃🏾
Lol facts
☺️🤣 yes!!!!
🤣🤣
Nappyfu, I was like you, panicking when I turned 30 and there were prospects. Then I fasted, prayed, and did charity so that God could listen to my prayer. I met my hubby at 35, married at 36, we squeezed in 3 children before turning 40. I can honestly say that a life without children and marriage would have been miserable for me. Am happier than I have ever been. Hang in there dear, we are praying for your deliverance 😊
Oh sis I’m not panicking at all, I’m trusting God all the way. Thank you for sharing your journey. It’s encouraging to hear how God has blessed you sis!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
LOL my goodness I'm 33 with 2 and I want more thinking I'm getting too old. Here you are with 3 after 35. We need to stop listening to these medical "professionals" saying we aren't fertile after 35.
I just got married a week ago and Im 35. And I will say that being single in my 30s felt awkward, but I got to know me. Who I wanted to be and wanted to accomplish for myself instead of who I felt I had to conform into to be a wife. That allowed me to date differently. I didnt accept just anyone who gave me attention. He had to be on my level. Not perfect, because Im not perfect. But working just as hard as I was to be the best that he could be.
Congratulations sis. Praying you both will have a healthy and committed marriage where God is the foundation.
Thanks for sharing. I look for the same, someone that is working to better himself. It’s important so that we both are daily becoming who God wants us to be. I don’t want to be with someone that would drag me back to a place I prayed to get away from.
2 WHOLE people. Yes girl, say it again for the people in the back who’s still like “He/she completes me.” We each 100% whole and complete as we are.
Been married with children. Now 58 and single. Having one helluva blast in life now that my kids are grown. Literally no desire for a relationship. I gots too much on my bucket list that I’m enjoying. Don’t know how people feel lonely but I am in love with single life. 😄
Ain't no love like that Godly love🙏🏾
Yessssss!!!!
God's plan works out for good🙏🏽🙏🏽❤
If I had this knowledge back in my late teens & early 20's, I would have made a lot of different choices. If I had this knowledge in my early 30's, I would not have felt so desperate. When I had this knowledge in my 40's, I just chilled out, and raised my kids (1 bio and 1 bonus). Now that I will be 50 in five months, I am resolved if it happens it will. I am so grateful for all that I do have.
Single in my 30s be like…Lord 🙋🏾♀️here I am 👀 I’m ready 👰🏾♀️. And the Lord is like “Not yet, I have more work for you to do.” 🤷🏽♀️
Not going to lie it isn’t fun being 37 and single but I became a Christian at 32 and God has used me since day 1 to be a mouthpiece for Him.
Nappyfu- God is using you to encourage and minister to people like me. So THANK YOU and be encouraged. Like you said His plans are good and you’re a prime example of that! ❤🙌🏽
Awww thank you so much!! And I appreciate you sharing.
Marriage has been on my mind tough but I pray my fears don’t lead to bad choices.
Single in my 30s be like 😅 🍷 😊
Single at 39 and it’s excruciating, but I’ve come to terms with it
Single in my 30’s be like….investing in myself and raising my son. Healing, forgiving and allowing God to lead me.
Yesssss!!!!
Got married in my early 30s divorced last year didn’t expect to be a single mother you learn a lot when you are by ourselves especially about yourself sometimes it’s very easy to find things to do to keep you happy
Yes im engaged and glad i waited. Some people i know wanted to do it so bad that they rushed into it with the wrong person. Im 28 and want to try to avoid divorce as much as possible.
I'm 33 and single but I'm happy with it. First, it gives me time to really develop my relationship with God. I want to go into my relationship a whole person and not looking for someone to fill a void. I enjoy working on myself, preparing myself, and enjoying my life in my singleness. For me personally, I want to be finished with college and in my new career before I start thinking about settling down.
Also, I had a conversation with my friend about this and for those of you who want kids (I do not) and worry about getting married before a certain age due to wanting a kids, we had 2 insightful thoughts. First, talk to your doctor and discuss freezing your eggs. Also, be intentional about staying healthy for when you do start trying for a baby. 2) some aren't big or ok with freezing eggs so just know that no matter how old you are, God hears you and sees you and can bless you with kids at any age!
Pacifica has a spf 55 that doesn't leave a cast it double as a serum so far I really like it.
Being single in my thirties is chill. But I don’t think about marriage often.
You’re single in your 30’s try being single in your 50’s. I’m trusting God that this husband will come.
Single in my early 30s be like 'desperation, panic, the horror😭'
Single at 35 be chilled😎
I love that!! 🥰🥰
I always refer to my husband as my better half.. Never figured that someone would think I meant I was half a person without him. Food for thought 🤔
Single in my 30s is annoying. It's not fun, the wait is 🤦🏾♀️. On the other hand I am loved, I have fun and enjoy my life. I also love God and I want what God has for me. I just turned 30, and it feels different, like why? 🤦🏾♀️
This topic is I guess what I would consider a grass seeming greener on the other side thing. I’m married and have children and I thank God for them however if I was single I think it would be amazing too. You can travel, volunteer do all types of things that having children kind of make less likely. In my case I don’t do daycare and plan to home school because I’ve just seen too much indoctrination targeted towards children in schools. I imagine it’s soo much less stressful to be single. Like lol love my babies but most of being a parent is stress, tantrums, discipline, no sleep etc. I think it’s a blessing to be single as apostle Paul says it’s even better spiritually. The woman who’s married cares for the things that please her husband and God ofc. But the unmarried woman can focus solely on the things of God and keeping her body and mind holy. Enjoy your singleness ladies and men but cheers also to my fellow married folks:*
Hey, hey. New subbie here. This video came to me at the right time. You have such a wonderful person little and your husband will be blessed to finally find you. I will be honest and say that all good things come to those who wait on the Lord. It's a.lot of people getting married to the wrong people for the wrong reasons and damn. The divorce rate these days is sky rocketing and it's so alarming. It's because most women can't wait to be a BRIDE and not a wife. The real work starts when y'all get married. Marriage is not always easy...it will be tested and both partners will have to stand together and work things through. I'm still single as well (27years of age) still working on myself, working on certain things at a time. When the time is right, my husband will wife me up. Until then, baaaayyyyybbbyyy, I am married to me🤗..and Jesus Christ of course. 🙏
No complaining imagine being 46 single mother and single
Been there, done that! Fortunately for me, I think I've always been more interested in being a mother than a wife. A traditional family would have been nice but I feel totally blessed to have the opportunity to be a mom.
Being in my 30s be like Me and God being the best and most close than ever. Me on dating apps is more healthy and enjoyable. I am believing in God and working on the areas He is renewing in me.
Nappyfu! Girl, I love your channel so much! I just wanted to pass along this recommendation to you. (TH-cam- Dr Vanita Rattan) I have followed her guidance for the last 20 months and my skin hasn't looked this good since before my first pimple when I was 10 years old. (I suffer from hyperpigmentation.) There are a few strict guides she suggests for SOC and I've learned soooo much.
Just found your video today, Hello
Hello Ntsikie!!! Welcome!!
I’m my man see this please come get me from outside it’s bout to ran 😩
So, I thought I was the only one who tells Alexa I don't need all of that extra stuff.
LMBO!!
Men who are truly in love with their wives chase them/ run after them and need to be with them. Not talking about limerance or lust but true love and attraction. Women love too but being dependent or too submissive is not attractive to a man. He sought you out for a reason and was not looking for a house maid. If he wanted a house maid he is not the one for you sis.
Meant to say *wonderful personality* (damn, auto correct be on some 🐂💩 these days)
Maybe consider a Christian matchmaking service :)