Making a Temu Dress because I refuse to shop at Temu (just... don't.)

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  • @aylaerdmann
    @aylaerdmann 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I also hated cutting out pattern pieces, but my husband got me a pair of really nice fabric sheers for Christmas. I don't think they were very expensive, probably under $50. They're nice and sharp and balanced in my hand. Definitely treat yourself to a nice pair of fabric scissors and keep them sharp

  • @KathrynsRavens
    @KathrynsRavens 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    I think when we're thinking of the cost of garments thinking of the environmental and human costs also needs to be taken into account. Ultra fast fashion is so harmful to the environment and is so awful for the people making these garments. I've been buying second hand online recently since I really can't thrift in person for a variety of reasons. I've also been mending my clothes more and that's really empowering to ensure things last and to add a little flare to my stuff!

    • @MegInASheathDress
      @MegInASheathDress 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Chinese workers have a higher standard of living than amerikkan workers. Chinese wages have risen faster than amerikkan wsged, and China has higher % of homeowners per capita than amerikka. Don't be a sinophobe.

    • @KathrynsRavens
      @KathrynsRavens 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@MegInASheathDress first, I didn't call out any particular country. Second, do you have a source? I'm curious to know more!

    • @OfficialROZWBRAZEL
      @OfficialROZWBRAZEL 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@KathrynsRavens ...It's probably fair to say that they do not.

    • @KathrynsRavens
      @KathrynsRavens 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      true@@OfficialROZWBRAZEL, I guess I shouldn't feed the trolls

    • @vanessaandreatta9098
      @vanessaandreatta9098 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I only ever bought my istant pot on line 4 years ago. I don't buy on line anything, not even books or shop food for delivery. I don't know how to sew, but I might try somehow.
      I am lucky enough to live where there is endless supply of thrift store and true vintage. But nothing fits like something made for ourselves

  • @StephanieCanada
    @StephanieCanada 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    I am HERE FOR THIS RANT, I mean video. First, I am so proud of you for pushing thru on this project. Second, I completely agree on not needing anything from these websites. I understand that lots of folks don't have the time to thrift, but Temu should never be the next stop, IMHO it shouldn't even be on the list. Proud of you for speaking up and making a MUCH better dress than what was offered on that trash website.

  • @melindawolfUS
    @melindawolfUS 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    I'm a textile designer: If you don't mind using a little bit of new fabric on a project, I'd love to collaborate with you on re-creating a vintage fabric design in custom colors :) So many people still don't know this is an option or how to work with a textile designer to do custom. I think you could do a great job of showing how your personality can be put into your fabric instead of being limited by your local fabric store prints!

    • @WithLoveKristina
      @WithLoveKristina  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Can you email me? I would LOVE to do this!

    • @melindawolfUS
      @melindawolfUS 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@WithLoveKristina Yes! I'm on it ;)

  • @berniceaguilar5675
    @berniceaguilar5675 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    I have 40+years of sewing experience. Vintage patterns can be challenging. You did a wonderful job with this dress, especially matching up the lines on the neckline. You should definitely be proud. Well done 😊You get better every time you sew especially if you make the pattern several times 😊

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Watching this wearing a hand sewn medieval gown made of polar fleece because winter.

    • @sunnyadams5842
      @sunnyadams5842 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Love THAT!! 😂❤

    • @katwitanruna
      @katwitanruna 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@sunnyadams5842 Polar fleece was on sale last year when I had some extra money and I got teal, blue, maroon and rust. One of them I set the pockets too low so I might redo that one but I love them!

    • @CrissyMoss
      @CrissyMoss 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Now that's a vibe I can get behind.

    • @therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar
      @therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's so wonderful!

  • @vintagehomemaker9338
    @vintagehomemaker9338 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    A good source of fabric can be a thrifted bed sheet.I think there is an online site of dresses made from vintage floral sheets. Repurposing thrifted clothes can be used for fabric. A large man's white dress shirt would have a lot of fabric for collars, cuffs, or other embellishments on a garment.
    I remember as a little girl (1960's), my mom took apart some of her old dresses from the 1940's that had huge long full skirts and made dresses for me!

    • @VerbenaComfrey
      @VerbenaComfrey 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love bedsheets for sewing, especially for making muslins or linings!

    • @CuriousandCultured
      @CuriousandCultured หลายเดือนก่อน

      @vintagehomemaker9338 Do you happen to know the name of the online site for those dresses made from floral sheets?

  • @amandalehnertz7319
    @amandalehnertz7319 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I have felt so discouraged when I spent time sewing a garment just to try it on and not like it or it not fit properly. It always feels like such a waste. I loved your message about it not being a waste because you have gained more skill and experience sewing. Thank you for those encouraging words. Love your videos, you are so relatable. ❤🧵

    • @looloo4029
      @looloo4029 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Have you ever considered making a toile first? You can use a thrifted sheet etc. It’s a cheap way to find out if you like the pattern on yourself before cutting into expensive fabric. ❤

  • @almostheavenhomestead1680
    @almostheavenhomestead1680 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    PRO TIP:
    iron your fabric before cutting your pattern for better accuracy.

  • @mon201074
    @mon201074 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    Wow what an amazing voice! You sing so beautifully. The dress looks so cute and so much better than fast fashion. You also have the pride knowing that you made it. TFS

    • @amityjoy3732
      @amityjoy3732 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I KNOW I JUST CAN'T BELIVE ITTT!!! In a good way obviously lol

  • @jennbidwelledwardson2885
    @jennbidwelledwardson2885 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Your dress is beautiful, and I love seeing you replicate the fast fashion look. Like many others, I have purchased fast fashion, but in the last 10 years, I've shifted toward slow fashion and thrifting my wardrobe with an eye towards classic pieces. I appreciate how you are not shaming Temu and Shein shoppers, for some, it's all they can afford.
    My Temu moment came when a creator shared a Temu ad with a replica of their product and selling it for a fraction of the creator's price. That total lack of ethics will keep me from shopping there, no matter what I need or how badly I need it.

  • @velvetvert9431
    @velvetvert9431 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I've been super poor and no, I couldn't have saved up for clothes. Couldn't save up for shit; there was always an emergency or having more than one meal in a day. However, I also wouldn't have been able to buy fast fashion so that's probably a moot point. But to hear "you can just save up" is like. Ugh. It's not always about willpower. I do agree that the culture of hauls and the culture of fast fashion is awful. It's predatory and the 'buy now pay in installments' are all scams that really do prey on people who are really struggling. BTW your cats are so pretty!

    • @WithLoveKristina
      @WithLoveKristina  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Oh i absolutely understand ❤️. I used to hate being told that I could save up for things because it did feel like we were just going from need to need to paycheck to paycheck with no real break. We are still very low income. What people consider poor. But I have definitely made some personal changes that adjusted other things. I was spending money on that I didn’t really need or want and my focus on my wardrobe is much different now. I think part of it was realizing that even if it’s $10 a month… I deserve to put aside a little bit of money for myself to get something nice no matter what the emergency is. Being poor does not mean you do not deserve something nice once a year, you know?
      But in times when we were food bank reliant, I wasn’t saving up, nor was I even thrifting or buying fast fashion.
      So I 100% understand from a place of having been there. And just because I am able to squirrel away money doesn’t mean i expect everyone to make that a priority or even be able to do so right now 💖
      For perspective it took me about 2-1/2 years to have put aside enough money to buy from one of my favorite slow fashion brands.

  • @geelizzie
    @geelizzie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You can always take the bodice off of this dress and turn it into a very cute skirt.
    I used to make almost all of my clothes and a lot for my children but that was back in the 70s and 80s when fabric was very inexpensive and fast fashion wasn’t as much of a thing. If we wanted the latest style as seen in Seventeen magazine we would go scour the pattern catalogs at the fabric store and pick out some fabric to create our own homemade version for a lot less money.

    • @maramakesjournals2319
      @maramakesjournals2319 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too!

    • @teeveepowers4400
      @teeveepowers4400 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My grandma used to do that for my mom in the 70-80s. By the time I was a kid she was sick and raising a lot of foster kids so she didn’t make us much clothing but she loved to thrift for us and her foster children. She did encourage us to alter our thrifted clothing though and was very supportive of our punky weirdo style.

  • @twinnish
    @twinnish 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Right now I really need reinforcement to not shop there, because I cannot find what I need here in Saudi Arabia and they keep advertising temu/she in. I do not shop there on the principle of the thing, but for entirely different reasons I am very tempted. I need positive reinforcement occasionally. Pretty much every creator that I follow is of a like mind. Shipping is so expensive for most things that it’s honestly tough to resist but I am. I’m gonna say it as many times, as I have to to keep myself aware.
    Good for you!!! I love parch pockets. If you can’t make that collar how you like it, you can just turn it into a really cute skirt..

    • @christined4842
      @christined4842 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s a great idea. A skirt would be cute

    • @maramakesjournals2319
      @maramakesjournals2319 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m 71, so to be honest, I’ve come late to the “slow” party. Now I’m proud to wear clothing until it dies. I recently wore a cute polo shirt I’ve worn for more than thirty years. I’m proud to darn socks again. I want to retro-fit my husband’s flannel shirts into cute things I can wear. I want to embroider or otherwise stitch on my clothes, maybe cover a stain or tear. There’s SO MUCH satisfaction from making. If you don’t having a sewing machine, you can hand sew. I watch Marion’s World on TH-cam. She makes do by being creative and handy in 1000 ways. I don’t think I’ve ever seen her in anything store bought. She’s changed my thinking completely. Kristina has the same mindset. Being creative and shopping creatively makes me SO HAPPY. Good luck to you in your path forward. 💜💜💜

  • @therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar
    @therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The other thing that is really helpful for being able to purchase slower fashion is learning how to judge what kind of fabric you're looking at. And that comes just from going and looking at clothes and reading tags and in time you get to where you can tell the difference between polyester versus natural fibers.
    Old Navy tends to use a lot of cotton and linen and I have gotten so good at it that I can practically spot them at savers just by looking and then the other thing that I really look for is wool and cashmere specifically.
    Most of my wardrobe is secondhand or me made.
    When I do buy things new I look specifically for natural fibers because my personal body and my personal sensory system can't handle polyester.
    But that's my biggest tip… Learn how to spot the kind of fabric that you like and keep looking in places like savers/Value Village or other thrift stores.

    • @teeveepowers4400
      @teeveepowers4400 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love second hand old navy, gap and Talbots. I can almost always tell each brand by touch at this point from growing up as a thrift store kid. My dad used to take us “savers hopping” back when they had $.99 tag day.

  • @janetsplanet4161
    @janetsplanet4161 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    First you have a beautiful voice, I totally agree everyone should steer away from these big box stores and corporations. I like to shop second hand to support individuals who are trying to earn a income. We frequent thrift stores who donate their profits to charity or we will buy classic items that last awhile. Love your videos and content.

  • @keaghank
    @keaghank 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Yes please do more sewing videos! I have so many projects planned (patterns, fabric, and notions acquired) but procrastinate. These videos get me up and moving!

  • @sarahlarson8335
    @sarahlarson8335 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I see my sewing time as an investment in expressing my creativity. When I'm not fiddling with a difficult spot it can be extremely relaxing. My struggle sometimes is that I don't feel like I deserve to take sewing time when so many other things demandmy attention and time is valuable. I need to remind myself that my sewing time isn't wasted time I should've invested in something else, like cleaning. We all need breaks, and a creative break that results in something useful is far better than more mindless screen time.

  • @Michagoose2003
    @Michagoose2003 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    👏👏👏 I am starching and ironing pattern pieces that I have cut from a thrifted bed sheet (that is almost all cotton) nodding my head saying yes girl yes!!!!

    • @WithLoveKristina
      @WithLoveKristina  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      WAIT this is a great idea to cut patterns from a starched bedsheet!!!

  • @katherinejohnson3516
    @katherinejohnson3516 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I used to hate to cut out and mark patterns until I began using my rotary cutter. It was cut out is one third of the time. Seriously. There is a learning curve but I found that when I went slowly, I was able to do it. If you don't have one, I have an extra one and will event through in a blade.💕

  • @ObsidianxAlice
    @ObsidianxAlice 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The dress turned out really good! And I love the increasing discussion around fast fashion, slow fashion, the ethics around it, etc. It's a great conversation in any circle to have. Thrifting makes home sewing really affordable if available, but i also think there's something to be said for it being okay that home sewing may end up costing a little more - it's an investment, and it's a worthwhile one. If you touched on this, I missed it, but to buy the fabric to make something pretty nice, of quality fabric, that's exactly the color, etc, that I want will probably run a higher cost, but will also have a much higher value to me in the end because I got as close as I could to the very thing I saw in my head. Like you said, it's a skill! And practice only improves it.

  • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
    @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You definitely missed your calling as a singer. You have a great singing voice.
    I’m glad you did a recreation. I would bet that your dress is of higher quality than the junk that’s on the ultra-cheap fast fashion sites, and since it’s already fitted to your figure, it looks 100 times better than the junk dress.

  • @jennadimuccio4787
    @jennadimuccio4787 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Shein totally screwed me I ordered some old vintage pictures and they were so small they totally lied about the size. And there's no way they will return them. There's no way u can even b push a button for a return. Wish is even worst they sent me the wrong sizes and colors and you have to wait a few days for someone to respond to your complaint and they say it's your fault! Do not shop at wish hunnie.

  • @allclairesbears
    @allclairesbears 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Don't apologise for changing as a person. You've done a great job of explaining your position.
    When other people feel that your choices invalidate their choices.. they get their knickers in a knot. That is their problem, based on their own insecurities and their need to believe that what they are doing is okay because everyone else is doing it.

  • @fuschiaflower7643
    @fuschiaflower7643 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You did an amazing job on that dress! It’s beautiful on you! I totally see your point regarding fast fashion. When I was growing up, my Nana made all of my clothes on a 1951 Singer sewing machine that I now have. She would let out my hems on my dresses, and then I would wear the dresses as tops when those hems couldn’t be let out anymore. Those dresses would then be handed down to younger children in my church. Back then, it was so much cheaper to make your clothes. It was a big deal when I received a new sweater from JCPenneys for Christmas one year, I think it was 1979. I remember the price tag read $49.99, that was really expensive back then. I sew some. I prefer to hand sew my garments now. It’s very relaxing and cathartic for me. ✌️💕

  • @ariettasvintagelife
    @ariettasvintagelife 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I love the message you are conveying and the dress you created! I don't buy fast fashion and I sew my clothes not only because it's sustainable and cost effective, but also because sewing is creative and fun! Happy new year! 🥰🥰

  • @Koolala75
    @Koolala75 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your sponsored commercials are so adorable 🥰

  • @FloridasYesteryear
    @FloridasYesteryear 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I use thrifted thread for basting and marking since basting isn't meant to be permanent so if the thread breaks isn't a big deal.

  • @ferson8734
    @ferson8734 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The worst part about this is i got an ad for temu on this video...

  • @marilynhylenski9948
    @marilynhylenski9948 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am a first time viewer and I must say I have learned quite a bit from what you said. My own experience with Timu was not good. I will never buy from them again. And now I will be much more diligent about where I buy fabric. I do buy fabric and patterns at Joann when they are on sale, but now I will look more carefully at thrift stores. I have been a fan of Stephanie Canada for a while now and have purchased some things from her store. She is so much fun to watch. I have been sewing since I was in 7th grade and now that I am retired I have the time to do more. I am a home sewist and by no means near a professional level and I like your attitude! I have subscribed and will continue to watch you. Hope you and your family have a happy, healthy and safe 2024.

  • @francesmalzahn9994
    @francesmalzahn9994 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I really appreciate this video! Although I didn't inherit my mother's ability as a seamstress, I enjoy watching you sew. I find it very relaxing. The overall point of this video really hit home as the majority of my wardrobe is thrifted. I am completely against companies like Temu and Shein for their shady business practices and the slave labor used to make their products. The way you communicated your feelings regarding this was excellent! I also enjoyed seeing your "helpers"......the kids, the cats 😄 Your dress turned out beautifully, Kristina!

  • @christiana_mandalynn
    @christiana_mandalynn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Oh my word you have a LOVELY voice!! ❤
    And thank you THANK YOU for the spotlight on why to avoid Shein, Temu, AliExpress, etc. I am so sick of seeing people shop there! No amount of instant gratification and cheap imitation is worth the Chinese sweat-shop, child slave labor and wage-slave labor.

  • @cherimertens775
    @cherimertens775 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I understand your point on slow fashion. Ten years ago, I spent a year (averaged an hour per day) weaving a length of fabric to make myself a blazer style jacket. I love the piece, made mistakes no one else knows about and still smile when I see it in the closet. Worth the time and effort!

  • @MacJess
    @MacJess 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    1st You have a lovely singing voice.
    2nd I agree with you. Since getting into vintage, which is now approx 3 years (OMG, didn't realize) I am sourcing my own clothes 2nd hand were I can and mending our families clothes more and more. My Kids stuff has always been a mix of 2nd and 1st hand stuff.
    3rd Happy New Year 🎉 Our holidays were blessed as my husband came out of hospital for Christmas. Our little miracle.
    With that I wish everyone here, and especially you Kristina, a wonderful year

  • @coolbetty22
    @coolbetty22 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I legit screamed “ooooooh”❤ for the reveal

  • @AWanderingEye
    @AWanderingEye 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am on the fence. I own a sewing machine but am intimidated by the machinery of it. I have on my list of things I'd like to do is to haul that machine to a class to get educated on tuning it up, learning how to adjust it, etc. It isn't a fancy machine but I haven't touched it since my dearly departed dad showed me the ins an outs (several years now). So in the meantime, I yearn for a vintage hair cut, modify my seasonal wardrobe into a capsule and spend my money on things I'll never be able to make (like shoes, coats, purses, jewelry). I am so happy that you are here to demo what future me would be very happy doing. I think making things ENHANCES human life. Takes us out of the consumer hoard and gives a chance to develop our creativity muscles (which news to the world we are all born with). That's my mini rant and thank you for popping up in my feed today!

  • @tracybingham7739
    @tracybingham7739 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hi new sub here! Besides sheets, curtains and clothing that is typically larger than my normal size (so I can get as much fabric as possible), I am always on the lookout for blankets at the thrift stores. There are usually fleece, Sherpa or flannel blankets that I love to snag. I’m making a Shacket now actually from one. Plus there’s tons left over for plushies and even a little coat for my dog!

  • @luizahundt
    @luizahundt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish I had good thrift stores where I live!! We have some flea markets that are great for home decor items, and some shops that sell old furniture and also decor, but nowhere to thrift fabric or sewing notions. It does make me dependent on buying new fabric online (the one store that sells fabric here is ridiculously overpriced)

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    That mug is adorable!

  • @obsidianrosestudio2663
    @obsidianrosestudio2663 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have sewn for many years and within the past few years have noticed I have purchased fewer and fewer garments outside of necessities. But even those I can make. I even find I am wearing fewer of my clothes and been culling every season. My goal this year is to replace items I no longer wear with made items that I love, even if it takes a couple tries. I also want to decrease my wardrobe in general, but that will be tougher with the amount of beloved vintage I have 😊

  • @TheFreckledLassSeamstress
    @TheFreckledLassSeamstress 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This! Fast fashion... ✔️ Making your own garment ✔️ thrifting your supplies ✔️. Your insight is so refreshing in this consumer world! When the slogan is "shop like a billionaire" it's all about having stuff, not necessarily quality, ethics or anything else. Keep creating and sharing Kristina! ❤ Amber, The Freckled Lass

  • @mariekelley7557
    @mariekelley7557 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I agree completely with all your thoughts here. I still shop at Amazon occasionally, but only if I’m willing to wear it for the long haul and/or a sustainable alternative isn’t findable. But I’m also chronically ill and can’t thrift anymore (I do ThredUp once a year, but that’s it); I didn’t shop on Amazon until that happened. I love that you’re bringing attention to this! 80%+ of my wardrobe is slow fashion, and it really is worth the time to make it happen. And I loved the sewing video! I find it very inspirational; I have everything I need to learn to sew, but I find myself scared to start!
    If anyone needs it, there are slow fashion, American brands on Etsy that make vintage inspired clothing. Vixen is another good one that’s not Etsy.

    • @maramakesjournals2319
      @maramakesjournals2319 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don’t be afraid. Be brave! You will make mistakes, but you will learn. When I was a young teenager in the 1960’s, the first dress I made was with plaid fabric (don’t do that). I did a good job with matching the plaid patterns, but put the left sleeve on the right armhole and vice versa. I had to rip them out. All these decades later, it’s still a vivid and happy memory. You could begin by making a quilt, or a purse or tote bag. Good luck! 💜💜💜

    • @mariekelley7557
      @mariekelley7557 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you so much!! @@maramakesjournals2319

  • @KristynLorraine
    @KristynLorraine 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shein and Temu's impossibly low prices = slave labor. There's no other explanation. I'm disgusted by the *affluent* influencers who took their sponsorships. The easiest way to avoid contributing to companies that benefit from slave labor is to support charity shops. No matter where it came from first, you are now supporting a nonprofit.

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Given how much I enjoy sewing when not in hideous pain, well worth it especially since it will be just how I want it.

    • @katwitanruna
      @katwitanruna 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Pockets, how I adore thee!! 😂😂😂

  • @sarahinnis7364
    @sarahinnis7364 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Omg you have a pretty singing voice too! ❤ reminds me of Jolie Holland. Lovely!

  • @kobaltkween
    @kobaltkween 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for talking about the value of sewing something dissatisfying. You can't learn anything without failing. Learning and practicing a skill you value is always worth it. An experience is often more valuable than a possession. But it's easy to forget all that when it comes to making clothes.

  • @Hannaheh94
    @Hannaheh94 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Loved this video Kristina, the aesthetic and the very important (and compassionately-stated) message! It amazes me how you make such unique, high-quality content all while taking care of your five little ones

  • @marybethmartin1476
    @marybethmartin1476 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I recently started sewing again. Made my first vintage dress and it came out too small......back to square one.

  • @amandaglidewell8451
    @amandaglidewell8451 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Moral sustainability and ethical treatment of workers aside. When you shop at places like Temu, you are purchasing an item that is designed to be thrown out. I have shopped with them, but I only purchase things that are consumable; because the few clothing items I’ve purchased were worse quality than a Halloween costume from the dollar store.

  • @pearlinejones9693
    @pearlinejones9693 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful pattern! You trying to sew and take care of your babes took me back over 65 years to my Mom, my sister and me. I now sew as well. Yeah, Mom passed it down to us.
    I love the dress pattern. Try making the dress a few more times, and each time it will get better and better until you will be able to make the dress with your eyes closed. 😊
    Keep up the good work! I enjoyed watching your creative process. 🎉🎉🎉👋🏽

  • @susanhayward2063
    @susanhayward2063 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Further to my earlier message, re the fast fashion, I have a professional seamstress who creates my dresses for me as my skills are not good. It's a bit costly but the fit and feel is worth it. Now I've watched this video I feel inspired to try again to create a dress for myself. My preferred style is full front buttoned and full skirted sleeved dress, a shirtwaister in other words. Like you I don't buy from the ripoff merchants online. Thanks once again.

  • @mrsclark78
    @mrsclark78 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’ve been seeing that dress from various sellers on Amazon for a couple years and every time I’m tempted, it’s dreamy🥰

  • @alyssacole8543
    @alyssacole8543 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I relate to you so much! I hate sewing collars! I also grew up sewing, but haven’t much lately except for simple simple patterns for my little girl. I think I have that pattern too, but haven’t tried it yet. I try not to buy fast fashion sites, but I will buy necessities from Walmart or Amazon. I try to get most clothes secondhand. Last summer I was pregnant and really wanted some summer clothes that fit. I saw some advertised on instagram and they got my money but I never got the clothes

  • @tisa6193
    @tisa6193 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love the dress and it looks beautiful on you!
    My rant is that here on the east coast thrift stores price like their selling new!!! I've thrifted for years but in the last couple of years their prices have gone up so much! I've even seen dollar store crap 4x the price?!? I've not seen in years and I wasn't the best but maybe will try again.

    • @WithLoveKristina
      @WithLoveKristina  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I live in the PNW and thrift prices in chain thrift stores (Goodwill, Value village, etc) are also ridiculously high. But there are a few hole in the wall thrift places here that are lucky finds.

  • @julietokumaru3855
    @julietokumaru3855 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are doing a great job! Sewing is hard to get right sometimes. It really helps if you have someone who can help you fit your clothes. It is really hard to get a great fit if you don't have another person and the knowledge of what to look for. I think if you tweek those bust darts a bit, have them point toward the apex more, you will be much happier with your work. I always try to angle the side bust darts upward. Put the base of the dart lower in the side seam than the apex. I hope that makes sense. I have had to learn this the hard way. I have always had a large bust and I am short waisted so the darts were always in the wrong place for me, in patterns and ready made clothes. Your sewing skills are solid. Keep up the good work. I enjoy watching you sew, I am learning from you. We all have different skills and talents.
    My kids took me shopping Downtown to the garment district for my Holiday gift. It was heaven! I love my kids.

  • @maramakesjournals2319
    @maramakesjournals2319 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bravo Kristina! You are 100% correct about TEMU, Ali, etc. And you are 100% correct about hand-making a wardrobe (except jeans). I’m going to switch from trousers to dresses and skirts. They’re easier to make. Your not-TEMU dress is cute and looks durable. Sew a snap at the collar overlap to keep it even, or cinch it up with a necklace or brooch. Or put the strawberries right there! I LOVED THIS VIDEO. Think of all the women you inspired and/or affirmed, including me. HAPPY 2️⃣0️⃣2️⃣4️⃣

  • @nikkole9951
    @nikkole9951 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’ve heard so many bad things about Temu so thanks for spreading awareness. I love your style and you’re so talented to be able to sew like that. I can’t even thread a needle. Lol. Love your videos!

    • @vintagehomemaker9338
      @vintagehomemaker9338 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm not sure where my husband got these words of wisdom... he said the best way to start learning how to sew is to make pajamas. You're only going to wear them to sleep in (hopefully!), so no one will see how many mistakes you made!

  • @1taffycat
    @1taffycat 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The "commercial" you did was so fun! Like so many others I love your voice but I really live what you were singing - how you're making that dress for you and no one will see the inside.❤ The fear of having to make something perfect or you might as well not make it stops me from creating a lot.

  • @tamie4504
    @tamie4504 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My kids started going to a Waldorf school. The classroom for my younger one was 100% outside. I volunteered at the school 1 day a week. In the winter months, I realized that I needed high quality, warm clothes. I love love clothing that is made well and lasts long. My childrens clothes, I buy high quality and then all my children wear it. I have 4 girl children and 2 granddaughters. They all can wear the item if it’s made well. So much better value and then I donate it.

    • @tamie4504
      @tamie4504 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The dress looks beautiful on you. So classy and stylish.

  • @sadiebeast97
    @sadiebeast97 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am soooooo glad you talked about thread!!! It is so important to have fresh thread. I learned the hard way when older thread I was using caused problems in my sewing machine.

  • @sparklesoflothlorien5985
    @sparklesoflothlorien5985 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The dress turned out wonderfully and the message about thinking before buying is very important. I get frustrated on sewing projects too and hope you will reuse the skirt portion for something else that makes you happy.
    (Idea: if you want to tone down the white collar maybe cut out triangles of the blue fabric and sew it over most of the white. It would echo the stripes in the fabric to have some narrow white edges on the collar and maybe being more of a subtle contrast would help you enjoy your dress.)

  • @MichellesCraftsandMore
    @MichellesCraftsandMore 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am not quite ready to attempt clothing again, so I am working on other projects to get back into the swing of sewing again.

  • @danamurray2542
    @danamurray2542 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love the collar on your dress. The contrast between the white and blue is striking, and the white lapels do a wonderful job of framing your beautiful face. Thank you for persevering. Your creativity is appreciated.

  • @sofiawannemark6858
    @sofiawannemark6858 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Good job! 👍 When it comes to buttons, I always try my mom’s button collection first. Completely free. 🙂

  • @EarthToBlair
    @EarthToBlair 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    it turned out so cute! finding vintage patterns in sizes larger than 6, is HARD. It would be so amazing if you would consider tracing your patterns to share :)

    • @WithLoveKristina
      @WithLoveKristina  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I wish I had the time and resources to do so! But I believe there’s a pattern seller called Mrs DePew who does this ❤️ and if you follow Stephanie she often has 38+ bust patterns in her store ya just gotta be quick because they sell fast!

  • @pixiebride1
    @pixiebride1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love how it turned out! I can see why you might not care for the collar but I think it’s adorable. I completely agree about SHEIN, Temu, etc…
    I just had to say that when you were singing about how you’re only doing this for yourself you reminded me so much of Dinah Shore. That was such a delight to hear!

  • @deenoekuekinjuhuujahaa1804
    @deenoekuekinjuhuujahaa1804 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so mych for this video! I agree on your attitude towards fast fashion and Temu specifically. I am going from earning barely above minimum wage to being on unemployment for 9 months (for work training classes that is not paid extra) until at least early November starting February 1st and I'm currently in the process of putting together my 2024 make 9. I will mostly be doing UFOs and using up fabric I already have this year because of my financial situation and I did previously spend a GOOD CHUNK of my income at fabric fairs and buying second hand clothes. Childless behavior, I know. I am fortunate enough to live in a bigger city in Germany with the Netherlands nearby, so FINDING fabric was never an issue but my main challenge will be appreciating skill building and using up what I have rather than spending spontaneously. Since I really love hand sewing, the cost was not really a priority over enjoyment of crafting anyway for me personally. That is not something many people understand. I have a hand sewn skirt I made from a cotton sheet well over 10 years ago that is still lasting and STILL a wardrobe stable. Looking at that specific skirt, I realized that upcycling and sewing something with a lot of care is so much cheaper than any fast fashion impulse purchase could ever be. I am looking forward to seeing more of your projects this year!

  • @LottieSue
    @LottieSue 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are right about Temu fast fashion. I buy house hold stuff for closets, kitchen sink, picture hanging, sewing an craft supplies, gardening supplies etc. at Temu. In comparison I find the same stuff on Amazon.

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Pro tip. Get an organizer and put your buttons in it so you can find the style you want easier.

    • @tracybingham7739
      @tracybingham7739 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What a great idea! I have a huge lemon aid dispenser that I keep my buttons in and I always have to dump it or take handfuls out at a time. I might have to color coordinate them so it’s easier to find matches too.

    • @katwitanruna
      @katwitanruna 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tracybingham7739 I got a haul off eBay from a Hollywood designer. Huge bag and I had two of the multispace organizers that were customizable. Oh wait. I think I had three and I was willing to sell from two of them. I sorted them by color, type (especially how many holes because I did historical garments), material and so on. I tried to keep buttons where I had multiple sizes beside each other or in the same space depending on how many I had.

  • @nadiasews
    @nadiasews 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Seriously, I’ve never known anyone who got something from those ultra fast fashion brands that fit well enough to wear it out let alone wash and wear repeatedly. I’m sure that’s the business model. I think your dress turned out great!!

  • @rbrown6476
    @rbrown6476 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great dress - it really suits you. Looks fresh and smart, without being slavish to high fashion, cheap shoddy stuff. It will be good for everyday wear, even if you don’t absolutely love it. 😊 one day, you could unpick the collar and take the seam in, so it’s a bit neater.
    And, also, I’ve noticed that every time I made a mistake with my sewing, I learned something. Having learned a lesson and improved my technique, is priceless.
    I also never buy from those stores, and for the same reasons. If enough of us refuse to buy cheap clothes, then these companies will have to give up!
    Bless you and keep on keeping on. You inspire so many people - that’s also priceless. ❤

  • @moonbasket
    @moonbasket 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the bows on the pockets! If you do decide to never wear this, you could reuse the skirt and pockets for a lovely apron. I personally like the collar, but I'm a fan of big collars in general, so I'm biased.

  • @liadanducky
    @liadanducky 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I always think vintage collars are too big!! But I love the bows and pockets. Maybe if you cut down the collar you’ll like it better but that might be a fiddly nightmare too lol. If you end up cutting off the top and just using the skirt you wouldn’t be the first to do that lol 😅

  • @FloridasYesteryear
    @FloridasYesteryear 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love the bow pocket detail. So cute!

  • @ashenwalls3558
    @ashenwalls3558 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's so funny to my that most of the ads I get while watching you is for fast fashion websites. I absolutely appreciate your point of view on how you purchase!

  • @cynthiafisher9907
    @cynthiafisher9907 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve never watched one of you videos before, but that Skillshare ad was genius!

  • @ApacheBee
    @ApacheBee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First time watching a video of yours, excited for your dress. My highlight gift for Christmas was a Serger. I haven’t used it yet, not sure what project I would like to start and use it for ❤ But I am watching all the sewers of TH-cam for inspiration. Thank you for your content 😊

  • @lynnwales2937
    @lynnwales2937 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Kudos for sewing with a baby on your lap! And double kudos for not being another temu haul (I avoid those videos like the plague, but they keep popping up in my feed- ugh)

  • @clairepook2703
    @clairepook2703 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Really cute dress love the pockets as a low income single mum i have been buying a lot of dresses on second hand sites and love thifting x

  • @amythompson7700
    @amythompson7700 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m not sure about the bow detail on the pockets, but this is Very Nice dress and you look great!

  • @eh3410
    @eh3410 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love th fact that you make your clothes. I sew for a store. There is a huge difference in hand made and fast fashion. I even make size variable skirts. I do not like the fact that larger plus sizes can't be found in most stores reasonably

  • @lindagilbert2551
    @lindagilbert2551 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I especially love your strawberry hair adornment 🍓❤🍓

  • @virginiah7539
    @virginiah7539 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My sewing skills are very elementary, but my daughters liked the heart shaped pillows I made them for Valentine's day. I made curtains for the spare bedroom and for a bathroom. I'm proud of my simple projects.

    • @WithLoveKristina
      @WithLoveKristina  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh my goodness heart shaped pillows sound delightful!

  • @asheslaree1713
    @asheslaree1713 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg, your singing voice is amazing!
    I also don’t like to shop at those places either. I like to thrift a lot, and buy from smaller brands.

  • @zenith5844
    @zenith5844 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The strawberry pin? The strawberry hair piece?!?!? I love it

  • @amberargall9251
    @amberargall9251 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your channel. I’m totally with you about fast fashion. I’m guilty of buying from SHEIN, especially for swimsuits in plus sizes because they have so many options and they’re affordable. But I know better now and I’m trying really hard to break up with them.

  • @theloveyourfacegal2773
    @theloveyourfacegal2773 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The dressed turned out lovely, love the white collar & how it goes w/ the belt & lace 💙

  • @victoriakr.0911
    @victoriakr.0911 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I admire you. I never had and never will have a sewing machine, because I don't think I could do it. Sometimes, I alter some garnment by hand, but that's it.
    I shop a lot on Shein for more reasons than only money. I am on a weight loss journey (by myself, no operation lol) and so far I dropped 23kg and 3 dress sizes.
    About every 6 month, I have to change my wardrobe because I don't fit in it, so I sell it on second hand shop (vinted). It get another life, another use, I don't throw it away, and usually I have good use of my clothes even if it's cheap or "bad quality".
    But once I reach my weight goal, I plan to shop good quality and good things that will last for a very long time.
    But what is the point to have a good quality wardrobe if you know next year you will have to sell it because you lost weight? I was given a beautiful Dolly and Dotty dress for my birthday two years ago. I can't wear it anymore, and I can't stand the idea to sell it...... So what's the point :(?

  • @kathleenchambers6485
    @kathleenchambers6485 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love Stephanie Canada. I found her after watching your channel. 💕 Beautiful dress. Sp pretty

  • @karladoane7323
    @karladoane7323 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow! Girl you should be a singer And looks to boot.. I could definitely see you do musicals on stage.

  • @aroger2486
    @aroger2486 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So much more beautiful than the temu dress. I love it. You did an amazing job.

  • @gohawks3571
    @gohawks3571 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm sorry I'm not keeping up! I went from sick to so busy (relative to energy). Lol, you just answered my question 😁 So, for Christmas I got a season of Mythbusters (my favorite show! Hard to find). Thank you for this video ♥️ Be blessed 🙏✌️🥰

  • @lisaevans4228
    @lisaevans4228 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Making a dress is creative. Creativity is very satisfying. Thank you!

  • @lovelasnow
    @lovelasnow 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like thrifted threads for basting and mockups

  • @johnettehaines6291
    @johnettehaines6291 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What l did in the past and still do. Is cut button's of clothes that are no long in great condition to wear. I started using a little metal tin for said button's to where l have a tall bear shape container ( once housed animal shape cookies) all my button's go onto now. I only buy button's if l absolutely have too. Other than that l go to my bear. As for the item l remove the button's from l will reuse it for something else like doll clothes or home decor so nothing goes to waste. I even rip out zippers. My Dad never wore pajama shirts only the bottoms. My Mom asked if l wanted then. I made shirts for my 3 sons out them. I used everything but the button's so they went into my button container. I still have one of the shirts l made from my Dad's pajama shirt in my cedar chest. It gets pulled out when my church has a talent night. No one knows it is made from a pajama top until l tell them. That is just one way to utilize a garment someone doesn't wear.

  • @WalkawayyyRenee
    @WalkawayyyRenee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, brave girl working with that patterned fabric!! And you lined up the plaid so well! I like the collar, even. I am always disappointed by the garments I've sewn for myself. Maybe I should give it another try...

  • @JB-vd8bi
    @JB-vd8bi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Low key Christmas break. Had some pretty horrendous Summer storms. Very lucky we were ok. Love your channel

  • @melindajoy111
    @melindajoy111 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The yellow floral dress and braided up do…sooo cute! I would love to see a slow day video just doing things to music. Happy New year, May 2024 be everything your heart desires!

  • @morganpowell2907
    @morganpowell2907 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your song interlude is exactly my sewing philosophy!

  • @amityjoy3732
    @amityjoy3732 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this video!!! Also! I have heard you sing in some other videos and man it is one of the prettiest voices I know!? Beautiful! Along with the dresses, I especially like the yellow dress you are wearing at the start! I do ballet and I got leg warmers and that was one of my favorite presents, along with some great acrylic paint so that was fun!