Michael McCarthy & Rachelle Bond : Baby Bella

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  • @ednamarlowe1527
    @ednamarlowe1527 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I can't believe that the judge felt bad for her, he should feel bad for that baby.

  • @12thDecember
    @12thDecember ปีที่แล้ว +149

    This hurts my heart. Bella's sweetness shines through in her photos. I would have loved to have her as a daughter, and I think many others feel the same way. She could have easily been placed in a loving home and would be 10 years old now. RIP, Bella. 💔

  • @jeremy8189
    @jeremy8189 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    Man,.. my baby turns three in a few days. The lil blanket they found with her, the cries through the walls the neighbors heard. This one hurt, that baby never did a thing and still was never given a chance.

    • @kitsunefaye1661
      @kitsunefaye1661 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      My son will be 4 November 10th. I’m gonna love on him when he gets off the bus from preschool. I hope they rot in prison, then hell. 🤬

    • @thejoker-wu1sp
      @thejoker-wu1sp ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@NickyBlue99 interesting...

    • @Crystalsgarden
      @Crystalsgarden ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ​@@NickyBlue99 really? Would you actually say that to all the parents who've lost their children? How rude!

    • @kitsunefaye1661
      @kitsunefaye1661 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NickyBlue99 Go be a cocksucker somewhere else.

    • @NickyBlue99
      @NickyBlue99 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ​@Lisa WhiTe
      She didn't lose a child tho... the lady killed her.

  • @Indiartworks
    @Indiartworks ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is a prime example of "just because one is physically capable of having a child does not mean that they should!"

    • @LulasSong
      @LulasSong 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      VASECTOMY!

  • @snyda9857
    @snyda9857 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    I live a few miles away from where Bella was found. This entire story is heartbreaking. Our community is still hurting for this precious baby. 😢

    • @kathrynbillinghurst188
      @kathrynbillinghurst188 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Barbara…
      🌸💖🌸💖🌸💖🌸
      💕R.I.P.💕
      🌿🕊️ BELLA 🕊️🌿
      💫✨🌜👼🏼🌛✨💫

    • @raimeyewens7518
      @raimeyewens7518 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      We live near the spot Pamela Butlers body was found. There’s a large cross marking the spot. It’s a visual reminder that there are evil people in this world and to cherish every moment with my kids. You never know when some monster will destroy everything you love.

    • @corydinsmore1117
      @corydinsmore1117 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ugh I fucking gate people.

    • @dava73
      @dava73 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The fact your community is still hurting shows you care. So sorry, sending my best.

    • @micdyer2616
      @micdyer2616 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm so sorry. I'm in Westfield, MA and I'm blown away by some of these MAgovernment-dropping-the-ball over the last few years. Baby Bella, Harmony Montgomery (that was the bio mom, bio father, stepmom, MA DCF and NH DCF. Even though I believe her death falls on her father, it took the bio mom 2 years to ask the proper authorities where her little girl was??? She was in FL, not space. She was also SOBER for those two years and had another baby) and even the 22 year old kid that killed all those VA Marines in NH. MA just "forgot" to file his RMV paperwork faster when both his CDL and class D licences had been revoked.
      Sorry I needed to vent. Out cost of living and taxes in this state are outrageous yet the overpayed politicians and state agencies can't do the bare minimum of their job descriptions.

  • @tamarastone1462
    @tamarastone1462 ปีที่แล้ว +431

    This is off topic to the video itself & I don't normally comment, but I have to say how much I love your narration & your sarcasm/disgust for the people who commit these crimes is much appreciated. You're one of my favorites.
    Poor baby Bella 💔

    • @thisisMONSTERS
      @thisisMONSTERS  ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Thanks so much and thanks for watching!

    • @thisisMONSTERS
      @thisisMONSTERS  ปีที่แล้ว +40

      It sure is! You even spelled it right (more commonly Giles)

    • @GingyyFPS
      @GingyyFPS ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@thisisMONSTERS ha that’s the name of the street I live on. Jiles Lul. Great video keep ‘em coming. if only murder never happened again.

    • @thisisMONSTERS
      @thisisMONSTERS  ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @GingyyFPS Maybe I should move there. That would be sweet!

    • @GingyyFPS
      @GingyyFPS ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@thisisMONSTERS the man named Jiles on Jiles.

  • @jessdelea4005
    @jessdelea4005 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I was a heroin and meth addict and I got clean and kept my two kids and am giving them a good life ...I'm thankful every day I got sober

    • @thisisMONSTERS
      @thisisMONSTERS  ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Congratulations. I’m happy to hear you got clean and wish you nothing but success!

    • @jessdelea4005
      @jessdelea4005 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@thisisMONSTERS omg thank u so much I can't believe u saw my comment lol I love ur channel and watch every video

    • @nostaljah19
      @nostaljah19 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😮❤

    • @cjljl
      @cjljl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I don't we don't personally know each other, but I am so so proud of you!! My sister was addicted to heroin for years, and I love seeing who she's become since she's been in recovery. From a family members perspective, it's heartbreaking to see someone you love become someone you don't know.. but to see them come back, it's beautiful 🫶🏻

    • @JackPeloquin
      @JackPeloquin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I fucking hope you are. I’ve seen parents sign away their rights to go cook meth. I’ve seen dealers with their children in the car.
      Totally inexcusable.
      You’ve people that depend on you. Children, that can’t communicate like adults. Don’t put them in positions they can’t manage.

  • @nettricegaskins1871
    @nettricegaskins1871 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Her parents failed her, the police failed her, and DCF failed her. The system is broken.

    • @dj_1969
      @dj_1969 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And the judge failed her !

    • @johnketring2257
      @johnketring2257 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Everybody failed

    • @417Theory
      @417Theory 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      DCF is too busy trying to take kids away from their parents over trivial, stupid things. When they SHOULD be taken away, it doesn't happen

    • @hothan32
      @hothan32 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She failed herself and her child

  • @JenX_1973
    @JenX_1973 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    The Aaliyah Lunsford case was such a tragedy. Her mother deserves to rot in prison for the rest of her life. And she did receive life without parole, thank God! Aaliyah’a older siblings had been living with the terrible secret that their mother not only severely abused Aaliyah on a regular basis, but they witnessed their mother murdering Aaliyah. They were threatened by their mother with the same fate, if they told anyone. The oldest daughter finally got the courage to tell her adoptive parents that Aaliyah was dead, and that their mother was the killer. She had been harboring that secret for years, and she said that God spoke to her, telling her to do the right thing, and get justice for her baby sister. I can’t even imagine being in those siblings’ shoes. Thank goodness they were all adopted by a loving couple, and they were not split up. The couple even had clothes and a bed all ready for Aaliyah, if she was ever found alive, and they wanted to adopt her as well. I pray those children are doing well in their adoptive family, and are healing from their traumatic childhood.

    • @RobloxGamer12941
      @RobloxGamer12941 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That's almost the same with poor little Oakley Carlson. These poor little babies 😔

    • @Tsumami__
      @Tsumami__ ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Every photo of that little girl you could just see how miserable she was, in addition to visible bruising in most of the photos of her.

    • @JenX_1973
      @JenX_1973 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Tsumami__ Yes! I never saw a photo of Aaliyah where she was happy, or smiling. The mother made her sleep on the cold floor with not clothes on. Aaliyah was the one child she picked out to serve her wrath upon. In child abuse cases, the parent(s) always single out one child, if they have multiple children. For some reason, they only abuse one child. The other children have to sit back and watch, and they’re usually afraid to say anything, because they’re afraid the same will happen to them. Lena Lunsford is right where she belongs, and if there were any REAL justice, every day of her sentence, she should be terrorized by the other inmates. I’m sure they have done that, since it was a very publicized case, they know what she did to poor Aaliyah!

    • @katymcginn4644
      @katymcginn4644 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💜 GOD BLESS THE FAMILY WHO SAVED THE OTHER CHILDREN 🙏💜 MY HEART BREAKS EACH & EVERY CHILD WHO ARE ABUSED & KILLED BY THEIR MONSTERS! 😢😢 DEAR GOD, PLEASE MAKE IT STOP 😥🙏✝️💜💜💜

    • @yesterdayitrained
      @yesterdayitrained ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JenX_1973 What you say may be true in some cases, but just as often, many or all children are abused. It’s not always the case just one child is the sole victim.

  • @chelscara
    @chelscara ปีที่แล้ว +89

    “Mother and Step Father”, ah, so one of _those_ filicides, where the mom’s wants come before the child. Starting from her damn birth “Her other kids had been taken so she didn’t go to the hospital”, selfish. If she cared about her kid, give her up to the people probably taking care of her other two damn kids. Love is _not_ enough when it comes to addiction, _ever._

    • @dejuhvu1793
      @dejuhvu1793 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, plenty of those stories out there unfortunately 🙃🙃

    • @mjanny6330
      @mjanny6330 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Thou Swell hybristophilia.

  • @lauriediorio574
    @lauriediorio574 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Was not an infant, was a toddler. My baby sister is the woman walking her dog that found Bella. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @harlowjademermaid1882
      @harlowjademermaid1882 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Wow - poor thing. She has to endure that scene in her head for life.
      Thats tough.
      Some advice -
      Make sure you're always available to your sister - even if she's not the type to talk about her feelings, emotions, etc.
      We all need to do better with this. Everyone needs someone to just ask "How are you doin'," or "How's everything," to us once in a while - and really mean it.
      To lend a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen.
      Sorry for the novella, but :
      I recently read a statistics paper in a science journal on people as of late, and the percentage of them (all ages) with loneliness/depression was very high. I don't know if it has to do with covid/pandemic and being on lockdown, alone, sheltered at home more, etc.
      (This was of ppl that weren't considered depressed before)
      Some ppl in the comments mentioned that cellphones/electronics, and social media makes us more anti-social now, more than before.
      Either way, we need to just be more aware, more compassionate towards each other.
      😊

    • @katymcginn4644
      @katymcginn4644 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@harlowjademermaid1882💜 AMEN, BEAUTIFULLY SAID 🙏✝️💜💜💜

    • @katymcginn4644
      @katymcginn4644 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      💜 LAURIE, PLEASE SEND MY LOVE TO YOUR LITTLE SISTER. HOW HEARTBREAKING. BUT ALSO, I'M GRATEFUL FOR YOUR SISTER & HER DOG FINDING BELLA 🙏 THIS LED TO THE CONVICTION OF HER MURDERER & HOPEFULLY HER MONSTER "MOTHER'S" LIFE OF HELL. I PRAY YOUR SISTER IS GETTING ANY & ALL THE HELP SHE NEEDS. GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY 😇🙏✝️💜💜💜

    • @hannahlowe794
      @hannahlowe794 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yikes. That poor woman and Bella.

    • @erinsmith1819
      @erinsmith1819 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      wow i bet she is traumatized 😢so sorry sending love

  • @f.prince6642
    @f.prince6642 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    I think one aspect I love about your TH-cam channel that conventional tv can’t seem to figure out. You don’t empathize with these killers. You just give us the victims story. I appreciate that.

    • @Starae336
      @Starae336 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The perpetrators story is here also

    • @rebeccagreen2310
      @rebeccagreen2310 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@f.prince6642 , Not trauma, just useless, worthless nasty addicts.

    • @oren1305
      @oren1305 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Starae336Well yes, but telling someone's backstory doesn't necessarily mean you empathize with them. Having lived a hard life is perhaps why someone males bad choices, but doesn't excuse them.

  • @hellspawn32x66
    @hellspawn32x66 ปีที่แล้ว +411

    Glad you're tackling filicide again because it's so important that these stories get told and the victims are remembered. However, these stories are very difficult to stomach, so please prioritize your mental health ❤

    • @CoExist64
      @CoExist64 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Amen.

    • @CoExist64
      @CoExist64 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Mataylor17 can’t imagine and can only deal with this knowing they’re in God’s loving arms now.

    • @alyciamarie4163
      @alyciamarie4163 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Mataylor17 it’s always been an issue we just have better forensics, police, social media, etc to learn about these cases.

    • @1BadAsh
      @1BadAsh ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@CoExist64 where was god when she was being tortured and murdered?!?

    • @heatherbradford5722
      @heatherbradford5722 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True!! We need to encourage him to keep up with self-care.

  • @endless3cho
    @endless3cho ปีที่แล้ว +397

    How she isn't in prison is a mystery to me. This case is so depressing.

    • @middletech
      @middletech ปีที่แล้ว

      She wasn’t born with a penis.

    • @andrewphillips470
      @andrewphillips470 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      She’s female?

    • @OsirisThaMystikal
      @OsirisThaMystikal ปีที่แล้ว

      @@andrewphillips470 you’re a dork

    • @ssgoifvet
      @ssgoifvet ปีที่แล้ว

      Vagina pass

    • @3atitup
      @3atitup ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm still watching so I had no idea she isn't in prison. Wtf?!?! 😡

  • @thecarouselpitch
    @thecarouselpitch ปีที่แล้ว +226

    Why did they so readily believe mom’s story and not “stepdad”’s? That’s nuts, she just gets to say, “oh this is what happened” and it’s accepted as fact? Shouldn’t she have gone to prison anyway for not protecting her own kid? What in the world?

    • @rossmyers173
      @rossmyers173 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Ok so I'm not he only one that thinks that. He's automatically guilty because she said he did it

    • @RobloxGamer12941
      @RobloxGamer12941 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That's what I'm wondering! Why did they just believe hee and not him?! Wow!

    • @tompixelboi
      @tompixelboi ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Just watched a story where a husband kidnapped his ex wife, she ran away with minimum of injuries and he got a life sentence without a possibility of parole, and here the mother clearly involved in her daughter's murder gets probation. Justice system everyone!!! Amen 🙏

    • @BulkernatorKerb
      @BulkernatorKerb ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Samantha Baptiste This is extremely common in courts of law around the world. Most likely they couldn't fathom a woman doing that to her own child and the prosecution knew it would be a "slam dunk" case on the male, while the woman might pull off a Casey Anthony -like result. They almost always take the path of least resistance in securing a conviction and it's much harder to get a jury to convict a woman.

    • @QueenMabx
      @QueenMabx ปีที่แล้ว +14

      agree, she as the mother is ultimately responsible for the child's safety and well-being, no matter what evil psycho got their hands on her

  • @Madkalibyr
    @Madkalibyr ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Good puppers for alerting its owner. May Bella be playing with the puppies, ducks and kitties in heaven

  • @JenX_1973
    @JenX_1973 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    How did Rachelle get to keep Bella after she gave birth to her? Children and Family services took her other two children, because of her addiction, and she was still doing drugs occasionally when she was pregnant with Bella. I’m sure she tested positive for drugs when she had gave birth to Bella. Why was she not taken like the other two children? If they had taken her at birth, she might still be alive. Again, a department that was created to protect children didn’t do that. This happens much too often, a lot of children slip through the cracks. So sad, and infuriating.

    • @bsu88
      @bsu88 ปีที่แล้ว

      DCFS is a joke.

    • @jamierupert7563
      @jamierupert7563 ปีที่แล้ว

      You don't know FOR SURE if she tested positive for drugs when she gave birth to her. If she was clean, which IS POSSIBLE, they wouldn't really have a reason to take her. They can't just take everyone's kids bc they USED to be an addict.

    • @TK-ui2th
      @TK-ui2th ปีที่แล้ว +14

      also, the live-in friend reported to police that bella was being abused and nothing came of it. she shouldnt have had her in the first place, and authorities not acting on reports of abuse is just inexcusable. it wasnt just her parents that failed her

    • @rebeccagreen2310
      @rebeccagreen2310 ปีที่แล้ว

      She should have been sterilized. It's sad when these nasty, worthless people breed.

    • @akg1649
      @akg1649 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@TK-ui2th Bella’s father and I think a neighbor reported them too.

  • @Northwest425
    @Northwest425 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    How could anyone hurt let alone kill a child, especially their own???? Devils in the flesh

  • @stacitowery3475
    @stacitowery3475 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Rochelle is 100% responsible, she had the sole duty to protect Bella and either allowed her to be murdered, or murdered her herself.

  • @cherylsabol387
    @cherylsabol387 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    It’s amazing how close the Jane Doe looked to Bella.. There are thousands hell hundreds of thousands of people that would have taken beautiful Bella. So sad her dad never had the opportunity to take her.

    • @dinabaughman8731
      @dinabaughman8731 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      It seemed like he wasn't Interested in her at all. So sad.

    • @nwicconsultants6640
      @nwicconsultants6640 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I put the photos side by side...the resemblance is amazing....they are really getting quite good at reconstructing a photo composite.

    • @lilacopeland9624
      @lilacopeland9624 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What about her poor Grandmother.? I believe she would have taken Bella and loved her. I know I would have if my son had ever had this situation.

    • @Lena-so2lq
      @Lena-so2lq ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lilacopeland9624 yeah but you aren't them. Not all families care at all. My mother never wanted me and I've always known it. She makes it pretty clear.

    • @julieann4616
      @julieann4616 ปีที่แล้ว

      The crackhead dead? Yea probably not.

  • @g_.203
    @g_.203 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    God bless you brother, the freshest content on this platform. No regurgitated stories here, new stories fresh takes and great attention to detail! Bless and thank you brother!

    • @RebeleneM
      @RebeleneM ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bizarre Bazaar also does videos on stories I've never heard of! I'm from Boston, so I knew about this awful crime :((

  • @evilempryss
    @evilempryss ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Imagine how screwed the investigation would have been if the drug-addicted mom had gotten the clothes and blanket second-hand from a charity or thrift store.

    • @amandamccormick5009
      @amandamccormick5009 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Probably were items mostly from hand me down and thrift places but they coukdnt be traced. So it came down to the 2 things tgat she did purchase. I wasn't addicted but I was poor during my pregnancy. But over 10 months and with great thriftiness skills,, even I had to buy more than 2 items from actual stores.
      My point being, there is absolutely no significance to mention them unless to say investigators did a great job finding the two items actually purchased from within the thrifted and stolen stuff

  • @MichaelSmith-sv6vd
    @MichaelSmith-sv6vd ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This woman should be locked up for ever

  • @kandinelson2459
    @kandinelson2459 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Good morning Monster's Family I hope your all doing as amazing as usual! IDK about all of you, bit I've been on the edge of my seat waiting for another master crafted video from our favorite crime channel!

  • @space_cadet04
    @space_cadet04 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I've been watching so many of your videos lately. Your voice is just 🥰

    • @tmarie648
      @tmarie648 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right 🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵

  • @Violetfemnes
    @Violetfemnes 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    That baby was absolutely adorable… seriously I wish people would contact me. I would keep their baby and treat them amazing!!! I swear i would!

  • @elizabethprater-hughett8021
    @elizabethprater-hughett8021 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Shout out to the Monster family from Knoxville, Tennessee USA.... Hope everyone has a good day.... 💯✌️💯👍💯

  • @vybenails6891
    @vybenails6891 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Aww man my baby's name is bella and she's 2 and a half.. I was also on heroin (not anymore) and I stopped and got on methadone and I've NEVER felt like my child was a burden. She is my everything, my light when it's dark, my love when I'm feeling low, the blood that supplies my heart, my everything.. man I can't even imagine. Makes me think she never loved her

    • @RebeleneM
      @RebeleneM ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good for you!! Methadone saves lives & it needs to stop being stigmatized. Especially during this fentanyl/overdose crisis! I'm glad you got the help you needed. If you're still on a clinic, stay as long as necessary. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about it. It's a disease like any other. We don't expect diabetics to get off insulin someday, or people with high blood pressure to stop taking their meds, so why do people expect folks living with opiate addiction to stop taking the medicine that saved their lives? Do what you need to stay well 😊

    • @josephosullivan9506
      @josephosullivan9506 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Addiction does not make people evil, it has to already be in them, and they just use addiction as an excuse.

    • @ThePinsay
      @ThePinsay ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Regular money coming in & help to get somewhere to stay I'd guess!!

    • @vybenails6891
      @vybenails6891 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@josephosullivan9506 true..... It's a shit excuse at that

    • @aishabush1655
      @aishabush1655 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      congratulations on your recovery journey

  • @PurplePanda0315
    @PurplePanda0315 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    If you have kids, and you are doing heroin, you are a bad mom no matter how much you show you love your kids. Most of my family is addicts, and it has destroyed my family and the selfishness of it has made me cold hearted towards any kind of addicts. I have no pity for this woman and her bad choices as a mom.

    • @karenwalters7131
      @karenwalters7131 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're a cunt.
      Not everyone who's an addict is out to ruin the whole family. Maybe one day when it's your own child on dope you'll gain some sense.
      Oh
      I'm sure you'll just say your kids would never

    • @karlamae7700
      @karlamae7700 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯

    • @kimberlysavoie661
      @kimberlysavoie661 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm sorry but using drugs doesn't make you a bad parent. There are parents that use drugs that you would never know whether it's just a weekend thing or everyday. It's the actions of how you handle shit and whether you take care of your kids before you worry about drugs that make you a bad parent. There are people out there that have never touched a drug and are worse to there children

    • @karenwalters7131
      @karenwalters7131 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kimberlysavoie661 Exactly. Her intolerance is sad.

    • @phyllisfee1125
      @phyllisfee1125 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@karenwalters7131we should be intolerant of patents using drugs. That's such an odd thing to try to advocate for fr.

  • @KuroninjaWatzu
    @KuroninjaWatzu ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your intros are literally iconic at this point!

  • @DonnySimpanero
    @DonnySimpanero ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I live in Dorchester just a few miles from where they found her. Absolutely heartbreaking case all the way around. DCF really dropped the ball on this one! So many people I've seen who's children should have been taken but instead they usually go after people who are good parents! Yet the children who are actually being abused fall through the cracks!

    • @SurvivnIn508
      @SurvivnIn508 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      And it's still happening...Harmony Montgomery. Not a baby obviously, but still an innocent.

    • @RebeleneM
      @RebeleneM ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I live in Brighton, and I remember this. As a mom I can't imagine hurting my child, or any child! I hope she never has any more kids :(((

    • @sw6118
      @sw6118 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Donnell Okafor Maybe we should castrate the baby daddy since he’s not paying the bills or taking any responsibility.
      Why not house the mother and child and rehab the mother? Or us the only answer ever to be cruel to women? Very republican of you.

    • @Rebecca-hc5ju
      @Rebecca-hc5ju ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@Donnell Okafor this tragedy is also her father's fault. If she had already lost her other children due to abuse and addiction, all the more reason for him to seek custody.

    • @RobloxGamer12941
      @RobloxGamer12941 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@SurvivnIn508 Oakley Carlson is another. God I wish that little girl could be found and that her monster parents were locked up.

  • @w.irvingrailfan4811
    @w.irvingrailfan4811 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Excellent presentation! This is such a tragic story with a very sad ending. Heartbreaking.

  • @istateyourname4710
    @istateyourname4710 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    5 minutes in and I'm not sure I can finish this one...😭Appreciate your efforts, Jiles.💙

  • @0T772
    @0T772 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Oh baby Bella, such a beautiful baby girl, R.I.P. Bella 😔😢

  • @annehersey9895
    @annehersey9895 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This got me thinking. When I had my children, they took their footprints before they left the hospital. Why don't they enter those into the IAFIS system like they do criminals? That would really help identify missing children, deceased children, lost children etc. It seems like another step to not having a repeat of situations like this. Its pretty amazing though how much the composite picture really resembles Bella. Usually these things are so far off it's funny.

  • @samantham8696
    @samantham8696 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wasn’t Bella born addicted? How wasn’t she immediately taken away?

  • @Veganallvegan
    @Veganallvegan ปีที่แล้ว +35

    When a parent brings a monster into their home they should be charged and serve a long sentence. No evidence that the mother wasnt involved

    • @jennifermaddy2442
      @jennifermaddy2442 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly she was still claiming money for Bella after they murdered her

  • @whismerhilll
    @whismerhilll ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is close to a parent's worst nightmare. But the fact that her mother was implicated, that's a digusting mind-phok. R.I.P. Bella.

  • @TMMReznor
    @TMMReznor ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "He forcibly injected me with heroin" - I'm sure, he did... 'forcibly'

    • @chickenlittle5095
      @chickenlittle5095 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If you have ever been in charge of the care of someone who is resistant, injecting them with anything requires 5 people at the very least….

    • @BulkernatorKerb
      @BulkernatorKerb ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Chicken little Great point. Also trying to hit a vein on a struggling resistant target? Ludicrous, but the jury probably ate it up.

  • @gslblues1
    @gslblues1 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is completely heart breaking, how can someone do this to a child, totally evil

  • @wyzasukitan
    @wyzasukitan ปีที่แล้ว +136

    This Rachelle woman is EVERY bit as culpable in the abuse and murder of her own baby girl as Michael. She’s no victim. I have nothing but contempt for people like this. Poor baby Bella, rest in peace precious girl

    • @rebeccagreen2310
      @rebeccagreen2310 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly, The mom is a worthless, nasty POS. She chose how she lived. Addicts need to be sterilized.

    • @Rae_777
      @Rae_777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think that’s fine because PLENTY of people have nothing but contempt for people who blame women for their own abuse.

    • @pussydestroyer69285
      @pussydestroyer69285 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Rae_777 listen I'm all for protecting women from their abusers but she's a grown woman. This is a CHILD. Whenever children are involved you risk you life and get the fuck outta there

    • @erin1840
      @erin1840 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@Rae_777 you get it. ✌️♥️

    • @caissafrass6631
      @caissafrass6631 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She can both be a victim and be a perpetrator. She’s a victim of Micheal. She is ALSO culpable for her daughter’s murder.

  • @tjfromalaska4520
    @tjfromalaska4520 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't understand why she isn't in jail too. Makes no sense that they believed her story and not his. This was such a tragic story. Thank you for covering it.

  • @Kimvisible
    @Kimvisible ปีที่แล้ว +92

    It always frustrates me to no end when people come forward after a tragedy such as this claiming to have heard things, such as cries through the walls. Sure, kids cry, but if something does not sound or seem normal, pick up a phone!!! ❤ Poor little baby, she deserved so much better. I wish shit parents like this would give the children up.

    • @tammys.8513
      @tammys.8513 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sadly, many parents use their children as a meal and housing ticket...

    • @JenX_1973
      @JenX_1973 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      After hearing tragedies like this one, it makes me believe that there should be some kind of test a person should take, and pass, before they can become a parent! You have to have a license to drive a car, to catch fish, and to hunt, but any piece of garbage person can be a parent!

    • @Rebecca-hc5ju
      @Rebecca-hc5ju ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly Kimvisible!! Adults screaming too!! See something, say something! It's always possible to remain anonymous!

    • @SchlauSchafe
      @SchlauSchafe ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I mean...people did. Two people reported the couple to CPS (one who overheard and then the actual father) and then absolutely nothing was done.

    • @Shortkingharry
      @Shortkingharry ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@JenX_1973 how would that work exactly? And holy hell the corruption this would quickly have. I certainly don't want children abused or neglected, but this suggestion would only lead to blatant issues of racism and classism plus the difference between driving a car and having a baby is you 100% choose to drive a car you don't always choose to be a parent, so say someone gets pregnant has to be tested for competency and is deemed unworthy, are we forcing termination? Forcing adoption more kids into a failing foster system?
      I think this is more a case where more funding needs to go into CPS and similar programs, that we should teach children how to recognize abuse and how to report it, that we should inform adults of the warning signs of abuse and ways for them to report it that aren't cops showing up to every door, not ever case that looks like abuse is that, and we need more people and more resources to get to the facts so no child is abused and no one is falsely accused of crimes they didn't commit

  • @jaustill237
    @jaustill237 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think that they moved from locking the little girl in a cupboard to locking her in the refrigerator, which would have both muffled the sounds better and slowed down her noises due to fighting the cold. Then, due to drug addiction, they left her in longer than usual and when they did finally discover her dead, just left her there until there was an opportunity to dispose of her. Very sad that such a beautiful little girl was not wanted/cared for by her family

  • @thenewandrei4o94
    @thenewandrei4o94 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the fact that you gave us insight into the leads that the investigators had, including the ones that turned out to be misleading! Makes for a more compelling watch in my view!
    Yet again - banger of a video!

  • @kittikat2318
    @kittikat2318 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I don’t understand how her friends didn’t recognize that it was Baby Bella who’s body was found. Maybe the sketch looks spot-on to those of us on the outside looking in, & not so much to this oh we closest to this family. But her friends, who noticed Rochelle’s addiction was back in full force, she wasn’t posting on socials anymore & tried alerting CPS, they clearly knew something was very wrong. And if they didn’t see the resemblance in the sketch, they had to have seen it on the new at lest! How did they not recognize her for SO LONG?!? I understand the mom lied to friends & family, but if CPS & police did their jobs & refused to leave UNTIL they laid eyes on Bella, then answers would’ve been found much sooner. CPS has got to be the 1 agency that needs the most overhaul! Not just there, but everywhere! They take children away from families who have baseless allegations made against them, yet, they push reunification for families that should never be around a child ever again! 💔💔

    • @nerdalert2782
      @nerdalert2782 ปีที่แล้ว

      The portrait looks nothing like the baby to me. It’s easy to judge from the outside looking in. The blame is on the murderers, Cps, and the cops.

  • @bigbanktakelilbankLABIH
    @bigbanktakelilbankLABIH ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Truely love the show chief! Cudos to you and all the work that you do to bring us these horribly tragic tales

  • @erikamccarthy1457
    @erikamccarthy1457 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    5/1/23 Rachelle, was never fully sober or off drugs for any real length of time. It’s appalling that she had 2 kids already taken from her, yet CPS left Bella in her care!! Misery loves Co., Mom is just as responsible!! Junkies! Bella, rip👼🙏🏻🌺

  • @WhatsUp20201
    @WhatsUp20201 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yes first time catching you just uploading thanks for all the hard work

    • @MusicLeeSarah
      @MusicLeeSarah ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Usually uploads at 3am his time. I'm all over here gaslighting myself like wait what day is it what time is it? 😆

  • @S-H_A-N_N-O_N
    @S-H_A-N_N-O_N ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m from Boston and remember this case 😢 there were billboards everywhere with her beautiful little face on it 💔 it made me sick to my stomach that no one came forward to say that she could be a loved one of theirs 💔

  • @christinakalaniechols7546
    @christinakalaniechols7546 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Rest easy baby Bella! 😢 People are so evil.

    • @MultiMoo20
      @MultiMoo20 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😢💔💔🙏🏼

  • @traceymacneill9879
    @traceymacneill9879 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Baby Bella Bond didn't have a chance. This case is horrific. McCarthy got life and Rachelle is a free woman today. There was no justice for Bella 😢

    • @tommy9640
      @tommy9640 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They both deserved life in prison

  • @austinchittam2373
    @austinchittam2373 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Someone should release her personal information so justice can be served

  • @MusicLeeSarah
    @MusicLeeSarah ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hi jiles 👋🏼fellow monsters👋🏼. This is a pleasant late-morning surprise! Thank you for the upload jiles! Hope everyone has a great monday!

    • @annaafave
      @annaafave ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope You have a great Monday, Sarah! ❤ club or not... ❤

    • @roleat
      @roleat ปีที่แล้ว

      @@schrisdellopoulos9244 and yet the manosphere TH-cam thinks otherwise. We're all viewers here.

  • @Killercakes24
    @Killercakes24 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I will never understand. I been clean 6 years and even at my lowest i couldn't imagine hurting my babies. Or anyone else for that matter. This poor innocent angel.😔😔

  • @Clever.medicine
    @Clever.medicine ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Say no to drugs kids...

  • @chrisharrison5162
    @chrisharrison5162 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If you don't want a child please let them go to be loved and raised by someone who will give them what they need.

  • @dawnsully88
    @dawnsully88 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I remember this case. I'm from Boston. Everyone was so heart broken

  • @shaunnablair6207
    @shaunnablair6207 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Heartbreaking

  • @peggybreidenbach8703
    @peggybreidenbach8703 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your commentaries & how you present things....no holding back or sugar coating!!
    Also appreciate the information you share at the end of every show!!

  • @diaryofarealmom3264
    @diaryofarealmom3264 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I was an IV drug addict for 17 years, heroin being 15 of it. I have 2 kids. As soon as I found out I was pregnant I got clean that day. I also have always worked, just got back from taking my kids to a 5 day trip to Disneyland, have a 2 story house, and my kids never want for anything. I got a college degree with honors, while on heroin, being a single mom and working. There really is no excuse. You make the choice to neglect your kids, drugs have nothing to do with it. The only time in my life I spiraled down, neglected my kids, and starting losing everything was the few times I got sober. Finally, I stopped doing what everyone wanted me to do and decided to do what worked. I don’t do heroin anymore (because I have no veins and it’s hard to get and total crap, I also don’t like fentanyl and that’s all there is now) but I will always be on an opioid (methadone) and I’m ok with it.

    • @lashaesmith3440
      @lashaesmith3440 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm proud of you ! I'm sober six years. I have a therapist, Dr, meds, and ongoing outpatient care for cptsd and addiction. It takes a lot more than just getting off the heroin. It's staying off it.

    • @diaryofarealmom3264
      @diaryofarealmom3264 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@lashaesmith3440 Thanks 😊. When I was sober sober like nothing, I have never been more miserable in my life. I couldn’t work, I couldn’t clean my house , my kids suffered, because I was in constant mental and physical anguish. I decided methadone was the way to go. But I really hate when they use drugs to make excuses for disgusting parents. My kids always came before my drugs. I used heroin and lived a normal life, even having normal friends. No one even knew. It’s the person not the drugs.

    • @KATYMCGINN
      @KATYMCGINN ปีที่แล้ว

      💜 GREAT JOB, GETTING CLEAN! I'M REALLY HAPPY FOR YOU & YOUR CHILDREN. STAY BLESSED 😊🥰🙏💜💜💜

    • @KaylaDiamond-q3t
      @KaylaDiamond-q3t 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your amazing thank you for sharing this im struggling with crack and booze 😢

  • @AnonymousAnonymous-xy9tz
    @AnonymousAnonymous-xy9tz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you!!! This is so indepth. I love it

  • @cherylsabol387
    @cherylsabol387 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    It’s hard to believe the family would just be like “ok CPS took her let’s move on with our lives”. If it was my grandchild I’d desperately try to get her.

    • @greendragon4058
      @greendragon4058 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      There is no Rhyme or Reason CPS I seen CPS just ignore facts bad behavior then I'm staying at them take children away that do not need to be taken away so I don't know what their thinking is

    • @Copebroo
      @Copebroo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sadly,It happens way more often than I would like to believe

    • @sw6118
      @sw6118 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You probably don’t have a lot of drug addiction drama going on.

    • @urinationsensation1
      @urinationsensation1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right? Like nobody asked more questions and tried to step in? And she didn't tell anyone for months that she was "taken away"

    • @inthelandofmorethansmall7582
      @inthelandofmorethansmall7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      If it was your grandchild, youd do everything you could to get your child, their parent clean.
      You wouldnt just give up on him or her either. And by doing that, you WOULD be helping your grandchild.
      These types of people were just glad to have the Mother out from under their roof. They probably didnt want her when she was growing up either. They certainly didnt want the added responsibility of raising ANOTHER child - still a baby - when they probably JUST got rid of their own kids.

  • @progressionsessions99
    @progressionsessions99 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    can never predict when your going to drop a video , I love waiting in suspense for it :>

    • @thisisMONSTERS
      @thisisMONSTERS  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      99% of the time the video goes live at midnight Pacific Time. I was running behind today.

    • @aceykrew
      @aceykrew ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts. 🩶💜
      I recently moved to Montana from WA & now have to wait until 1AM. 🗻🗻

    • @thisisMONSTERS
      @thisisMONSTERS  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      We're moving to The Netherlands and I am going to adjust my upload schedule to make sure the video still goes live at midnight Pacific time.

    • @Schiffon
      @Schiffon ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thisisMONSTERS Great place to live!! 👍❤️

  • @Marckiese
    @Marckiese ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been laughing about that K-Mart line for 3 days now 😂😂😂

  • @laleona776
    @laleona776 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Rochelle needs to be fixed so she can NO longer have babies- PERIOD!

  • @7777VANITY
    @7777VANITY ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This woman she never have anymore kids. 2 children taken away, and 1 Murdered. Sickens me that Women will addiction issues keep popping out babies like birthing children is going out of style. They kids are born to withdraw in the hospital, they have cognitive disabilities and their young lives are not stable, and most get abused, neglected and sometimes Murdered 😢😢

    • @elizabethprater-hughett8021
      @elizabethprater-hughett8021 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you! Unfortunately, it seems like these worthless trashy females can get pregnant just by a man unzipping his damn pants. It absolutely sickens me.

  • @labarresmit1547
    @labarresmit1547 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your voice is amazing plus how u explain everything is aawesome

  • @kathycochran544
    @kathycochran544 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The father should have stayed close and then took the baby . But he didn't care either.....thanks for this horrible story

    • @hdtripp6218
      @hdtripp6218 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because he didn't know if he was the father after she told him she has been sleeping with multiple people....not his fault....

    • @roleat
      @roleat ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hdtripp6218 sure it is. He failed to be responsible.

    • @filiasolis5495
      @filiasolis5495 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@hdtripp6218 He should have protected her indeed.

    • @Rebecca-hc5ju
      @Rebecca-hc5ju ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@HDTripp absolutely his fault. It's very easy nowadays to get a paternity test done.

    • @BulkernatorKerb
      @BulkernatorKerb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Was there any testing conducted to confirm his paternity? That seems to be missing here. It's just implied by the narrator for convenience's sake. Also you weren't there and do not know what transpired to cause him to leave. They may have had an argument over drugs where she lashed out and said "it's not even yours anyway I was sleeping around with multiple men" at which point he left. You have no right to cast judgement based on emotions when you aren't really informed on the situation.

  • @jpeg42069
    @jpeg42069 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the interrogation subtitles ❤️

  • @androgynylunacy
    @androgynylunacy ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This one pissed me off. Time served?! Wth the girl was in her care and then ended up dead. She lied to child services. Took welfare money. She lost custody of two of her other kids. She had knowledge of her daughter's death.
    They couldn't have pinned something on her? I thought you could get up to ten years for welfare fraud alone? Justice was not served here..

    • @Lilybun
      @Lilybun ปีที่แล้ว

      Gotta get her back out there so she can keep hooking up with deadbeats and making more babies to abuse with drugs and violence. Quantity of life over quality of life. Its insane

  • @eekerton4623
    @eekerton4623 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I absolutely adore this channel.

  • @baileyantonengpei7860
    @baileyantonengpei7860 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Man this story ripped out our hearts around here ..

  • @datstudkillacam6046
    @datstudkillacam6046 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Intro: “Lemme tell you the beginning middle and end before we get started”😂😂

  • @brentrichards1200
    @brentrichards1200 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    2 years probation for taking part in the murder of her child.

  • @karlamae7700
    @karlamae7700 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A little over 1 minute in and I can't do it. This angel looks like she could be my own baby girl who turns 2 on Nov 4th in 7 months. And my goodness I had to show the picture of her with the hello kitty mat to my husband because of how much she looks like my child. My heart is hurting way too much to continue watching this one. I don't think it's good for my health. I just wish I could save all the babies and children that need help. I wish I could have held that baby girl because I never would have let her go ❤ 😢 😭 ❤.

  • @kingaristadal2566
    @kingaristadal2566 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bro I watch all ya shit and I must say I love how u research and even how u say things and just how you just cover the whole case I often sleep to these videos keep the work up man love ya Chanel

  • @dominiquealaska7490
    @dominiquealaska7490 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    addicts need to stop normalizing poor morals- we make mistakes. we're human. ONCE YOU INVOLVE A CHILD THO UR DONE, selling yourself for a fix is BAD ENOUGH for YOU and your own MENTAL+PHYSICAL HEALTH.. LET ALONE PUTTING A CHILDS ENTIRE LIFE ON THE LINE DAILY. I'm personally a recovering addict of the same substance as Michelle and WOULD NOT let myself sink like that and bring everyone around me with me. ridiculously weak. unacceptable. My ex threatened my PET RABBIT ONCE and put hands on me maybe 3 times, and I made a plan to leave and I followed through and never looked back because NOT MY BABY. even seeing poor baby Bella's clothes makes me feel nauseated.
    IF YOU REFUSE BIRTH CONTROL/CONTRACEPTIVE OR FALL IN THE 1% THERE WAS AB0RTION!!!!!!! IF THAT GOES AGAINST YOUR SO CALLED BELIEFS WHEN YOU'RE ALREADY BREAKING THE RULES- THERE ARE TONS OF PEOPLE WHO WANT A CHILD! THERE ARE RESOURCES AND PROGRAMS(INCLUDING OUTREACH), THERAPY, TREATMENT, DETOX, GROUP CHATS, SAFE PLACES, THEN YOU HAVE FAMILY AND FRIENDS, TRUSTED PROFESSIONALS SUCH AS DOCTORS AND FINALLY FOSTER CARE END OF STORY.. YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE.

  • @TheHoustonerica
    @TheHoustonerica ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So sad! There’s a similar case from Houston/Galveston where the body of a 3 year old was found in a box in Galveston bay. It was later discovered that the mother and stepfather beat that poor baby to death.

  • @lisa8477
    @lisa8477 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love and appreciate all of your hard work ❤

  • @sailordiva
    @sailordiva ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was a little worried I'd missed a video.

  • @tommy9640
    @tommy9640 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He lied about not living there at the time, he absolutely WAS living there the entire time and he killed that poor little girl. Both McCarthy and Bond should’ve been prosecuted and given life in prison.

  • @hannahlowe794
    @hannahlowe794 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This is the one of only case of filicide you’ve covered where it seems like the monster actually cared at one point. If only she’d gotten help for her drug addiction, and maybe this story wouldn’t be one for you to cover.

    • @janeygotaknife
      @janeygotaknife ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah she loved her baby when she didn’t have a man and drugs. It was always in her DONT get it twisted

    • @hannahlowe794
      @hannahlowe794 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@janeygotaknife usually people don’t give a sh*t and go straight to the selfishness. She seemed to be a little less monstrous at first.

    • @rebeccagreen2310
      @rebeccagreen2310 ปีที่แล้ว

      She was a nasty worthless addict. She cared about her drugs.

    • @angmoulton8528
      @angmoulton8528 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree Hannah addiction is a tragedy I know because not me personally but I struggle with a family member who is just not getting better and it's such a huge weight on us who care the most 😢

  • @tl214amos4
    @tl214amos4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for all your hard work putting out these videos!!!!!

  • @charleneblack2792
    @charleneblack2792 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I became a heroin addict when my daughter was 5. I got into trouble, so sent her with her father. I got pregnant 5 years later and got clean. After 7 years of not having her and thousands of dollars later, I finally regained custody.
    I've been clean 10 years and have 3 kids total. I'm so ashamed of how I treated my oldest, but thank God every day that I was smart enough to get and stay clean.
    After my experience and seeing others like it, I MUST advocate for mandated birth control for addicts. According to doctors and statistics, it's rare an addict gets clean while pregnant. We could save so many kids lifetimes of hell.

    • @paigeparker1047
      @paigeparker1047 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I became a heroin addict when my oldest was 4. My parents took him and raised him for several years until he was 9 (his 9th birthday was the day I came back into his life permanently). He’s 16 now and I have an 11 year old as well. I still feel bad about the way my oldest was kind of tossed to the side by me and I worry that even though he won’t say it he holds some resentment towards me. I can only hope I’ve made amends the best I could and he understands none of it was his fault.

    • @inthelandofmorethansmall7582
      @inthelandofmorethansmall7582 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its not just rare....its dangerous.
      Im an ex addict and an ER nurse.
      I found out i was pregnant in Dec 2007 right around the time someone at work decided to tattle on me (to distract from THEIR addiction and abuse/negligence of their patients).
      So until i could "prove" i wasnt addicted (because in medicine, youre fuilty until proven innocent), i was sent home with my nursing license on the line.
      Anyway, I knew I was pregnant but i was dumb and naive back then. So i quit cold turkey. (To "prove" my innocence of course. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🙄😒)
      Around 2 wks into withdrawals (opiates), I began to cramp and bleed. I was around 10 wks along at that time.
      Got to the ER (different hospital in a different town obviously) and all I told them was I was bleeding and cramping.
      Sonthey did an ultrasound and his tiny little body was flipping and flipping and flipping! It wasnt until years later that I realized he was withdrawing too. Of course, babies dont really feel pain, pressure or discomfort until around that time or later and obviously he doesnt remember it but I still feel awful...
      Anyway, hes fine now of course. He will be 15 in July. Hes perfect. Tall, handsome, healthy, smart, strong, active.
      Hes perfect! But Ill always feel guilty about that.
      My point is, pregnant women SHOULDNT try to withdraw during pregnancy. Its almost certain death for the baby.
      P.S. I cant believe i almost forgot!
      The smooth muscle cramps my uterus did during withdrawal caused the amniotic sac to tear away from the inside of my uterus wall.
      Only on half. It was still connected on the other side where the cord was.
      But when it pulled away, it filled my utterus with blood.
      And as my cervix was closed, so much blood couldnt escape before becoming one big clot.
      I was put on bed rest until 36 wks while the clot reabsorbed - when I finally went back to work. Worked for 2 wks and he was born! 😊

    • @inthelandofmorethansmall7582
      @inthelandofmorethansmall7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately Ive relapsed a few times.
      Im certainly not proud of it either.
      But it is what it is.
      And we all know we couldnt have done anything differently until our "switch flipped" in our brain. Short of chaining us to a tree without access to a phone, theres nothing anyone couldve done to MAKE us stop until we COULD stop.
      Thats what non - addicts dont understand. It may not begin like that, but it does end up being out of our control. We can hit our knees and beg God or anyone else to take the rig out of our hands, to take away our urge to use, but until we CAN quit, we really just cannot quit
      So dont be too hard on yourselves.
      No one is perfect. Yesterday is gone and we cant go back. Tomorrows not here yet so we dont ever know what to expect.
      If we did know, if we couldve known where wed end up, we probavly never wouldve done drugs at all. But we didnt know.
      All we can do now is make each day all that it can be for our babies. 👍🤗🥰

    • @thisisengland6892
      @thisisengland6892 ปีที่แล้ว

      These are stories that need to be told also. Do you use your experience to help others? Drug addiction makes people feel powerless and hearing other people talk about their success getting and more importantly staying substance free can empower and inspire people to keep trying. You say you feel terrible about the way your eldest was affected by your addiction but it's that guilt/shame that prevents you from making the same mistakes again. You made a mistake. A big one, but you realised and rectified it as soon as you could. You can be proud of your achievements today.

  • @Chiraq-qs9iv
    @Chiraq-qs9iv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My baby is 6 by now
    This hurts so much to watch
    I hope i grow old to always be there for my babygirl

    • @BulkernatorKerb
      @BulkernatorKerb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wishing a long life for you and your child. May not weapon formed against you prosper.

    • @Chiraq-qs9iv
      @Chiraq-qs9iv ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BulkernatorKerb thankyou liam
      I was jobless for 8 months when she was born
      And looked after her everyday
      Cant imagine some one hurting her

  • @dajahlindsey9632
    @dajahlindsey9632 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    First! Love this channel! I need rehab. Im addicted. Is there a hotline or sum?😂😂😂❤

  • @lisanoonan2947
    @lisanoonan2947 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been waiting for you to do this one. I was glued to my mobile watching this trial.

  • @Jahusaphet
    @Jahusaphet ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I do not like your portrayal of Rachelle as a good parent while activly being addicted to heroine. Its good that she attempted to break her addiction but that doesn't mean she was a good parent. As evidenced by Bella ending up killed. We all make choices in our lives and when they end in the death of a child we deserve to be held accountable for them.

  • @cindysmith6612
    @cindysmith6612 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You

  • @poppyfield1619
    @poppyfield1619 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amazing how so many neglected and abused children are paraded on social media in the guise of being loved and cared for yet the reality of their lonely, squalid lives is hidden from the world until they are found murdered. All those eyes looking at photos/videos but no one seeing the truth is the hardest thing to accept. Rest in peace dear sweet Bella failed by everyone in your short little life🧸🕊🎈

    • @karliann1
      @karliann1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! I know of 2 narcissistic so called moms who put their pics and kids on Fakebook. In reality they're disgusting humans

  • @Medik
    @Medik ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you TIM

  • @space_cadet04
    @space_cadet04 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Why? WHY can't I be granted 5 minutes (maybe 10) alone with disgusting ppl like this! If someone was comfortable enough with me, to open up about murdering their own child or allowing them to be murdered... They would quickly wish they hadn't been so comfortable. I can't wrap my head around these parents doing this crap to their kids. I was abused horribly and I still, cant wrap my head around it.

    • @33Tiffny
      @33Tiffny ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly . It’s heart wrenching

  • @andreacairnes6434
    @andreacairnes6434 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Are you familiar with the Turpin case from Perris California? I would love for you to cover it! Thanks for your amazing work, love, love, love the channel!!!

  • @tranquilrabies
    @tranquilrabies ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow, after killing a baby, keeping her in the fridge, and dumping her off the side of a bridge. I've seen harsher sentences for littering. The mom moonwalked out of court w a Starbucks gift card and a framed selfie w the judge for her trouble.

  • @dianadundidit5343
    @dianadundidit5343 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    SHE IS JUST AS GUILTY! PERIOD!

  • @missingmimic
    @missingmimic ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hearing my own accent in videos is always a trip, cant believe i sound like that 😂
    Poor Bella, im so sorry she never got to grow up and be safe and loved, rip baby girl 😢

  • @ProudPatriotOfNM
    @ProudPatriotOfNM ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Dogs are AMAZING ❤. So many true crime cases start with a person was walking their dog then …

  • @MiThreeSunz
    @MiThreeSunz ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This story punched me in the gut and ripped my heart. I’ll never understand how any adult can willingly harm any innocent child! They should all rot in hell!

  • @xoswatson351
    @xoswatson351 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I missed you this morning !! But you can keep me company while I move my nana 🎉❤