I'm 22 and unemployed, hated uni as well and I also feel like I'm not good enough for those employers for them to hire me :( thank you for sharing because I definitely can relate with you
@@xxmakeuplover05xx thank you for your kind words ♡ I'm actually about to pursue my studies soon after taking a break almost a year since last year, I just hope everything's gonna be okay and I wish the same for you too ✨
we’re all in this together sister🤞🏼 as someone who has been thru this, let me tell u, the road ahead is somewhat even more challenging 😂 instead of waiting for the storm to pass lets learn to dance in the rain🥰 wishing everyone the best of luck !!
@@blaz3ofglory570 for me at least, ive been doing better gradually each year. Yes life will always come with battles but when you learn more about yourself, it gets easier to go through them. Plus nothing will ever compare to being a broke student lol
@@MsCardio1 i bet you solved all of societies problem, thank you savior 😍😍😍😍 and btw i have a job and i make money online but that doesnt mean i cant talk and share my life experiences. so please kindly fuck off and leave this space if you can't be nice to people opening up and being vulnerable. go invest into some crypto or what ever u have to do to leave us the fuck alone
Everyday I wake up, I hope I'm not in this world again. This always comes to my mind, sometimes I feel positive and negative. Everyday it just like a task.
This is so real and relatable. In the same situation, business grad and unemployed due to Covid, just trying to find an enjoyable job. Really enjoyed what you said and seeing your daily routine. Really comforting to watch
I just wanted to say that i, too, wish life didnt revolve around making money and always being worried that we’ll make it, but you have been doing great just being honest with yourself. I hope you feel better :D
I'm 22 and had a mental health breakdown at uni, managed to graduate with a 2.2 but now I feel like it was all for nothing. I apply for jobs that emphasise entry level, and I'm not enough. I reallt don't know what to do, I've been applying since September and nothing from anything. It's hard to stay positive
I’m a 22 year old fresh graduate with honors, and currently struggling with finding even jobs outside my field (I’m a chemical engineer). It’s just fucked how covid hit us hard and no one wants to help us. Makes me wonder if I’m doing anything wrong…
i'm so sorry your dad said those things to you :( that's really messed up. my mom did the same thing before I got my first job. (I graduated high school last year and i'm in college working this summer.) she'd be like "you do nothing all day while I go to work" not knowing I was applying to like three jobs every day and getting rejected because I had no job experience. it was one of the many reasons I was excited when I got my job bc it shut her up from saying I don't do anything
I think this has happened to most of us at some point in our lives. The important thing is to keep applying and hopefully something will stick. Someone somewhere will want you specifically. Good luck to all those who are in the same boat.
i would've appreciated this video last year bc girl SAME. living with my dominican family has been awful with their commentary and i cannot wait till i find my third job and be able to move out this year
Post grad depression solidarity ✊ You're not alone (and thankfully now, neither am I lmao) but I graduated may 2020 with an art history degree unfortunately in a smaller area with little to no opportunities even remotely related to art/museum work. I am employed but struggling to break out of the food service jobs and it really just feels like I'm stuck here. The job searching can be so disheartening. I even got rejected from a local public library assistant job bc I didnt have previous experience working in a library lol. Like I promise I can manage checking books in and out if you'll let me :,,,( I guess I'm just venting on your channel but im really happy I came across you and ill be staying to hang out!
I know you posted this a year ago. Just curious if things are looking up for you by any chance now? I’m only asking because I’m in the almost exact same boat as you. I graduated this spring with a B.A. in Art History and also live in a smaller town with little opportunities, even online. I’m 25 and haven’t been able to find a job for like 6 months now. I also applied for a librarian customer service clerk position and it doesn’t look good for me 😢 I’m struggling and don’t know what to do. I’m just applying for random jobs at this point because I don’t know what else I can do. Any tips?
@@samanthatrenchik341 How is it going for u now? I also graduated with an Art History degree hahaha, worked Customer Service for half a year but still haven't found a job in my field yet!
I did really well in study but have been unemployed for so long I have been left with no choice but to look for ordinary jobs that anyone could get. I avoid people now because it's the same thing. They talk about their families and careers and then say "So what are you doing?" I have nothing and am worried will end up homeless
Just graduated earlier this year and have been in the workforce for about 7 months full time. If I could go back, I’d tell myself to slow down and enjoy my time more. I’d also tell myself that I needed to choose a field that reflects the kind of lifestyle I want to live. I would have chosen something that is a couple 12 hour shifts a week. More days off, but longer hours. Instead of Mon-Friday… 9-5. I’m in legal.
Idk why I’m here but I’ve been in a job search slump after countless of rejections and ghosting from companies I applied for. 2 months after graduation and I am still unemployed 🤡 I don’t want to be a burden to my Asian Family, expecting their Engineering graduate daughter to have a job in this pandemic. Sorry for the rant, I am still figuring things out.
you're definitely not alone and it's a struggle, especially wanting to make our immigrant parents proud. but you'll get there and be easy on yourself! you're doing your best and the market is tough rn!
I truly enjoyed watching this video brought me so much joy. Like I truly believe that you are the nicest genuine TH-camr i sub to . I get where your coming from about your parents to im a early college highschool student and i only have 1 more year to graduate and a still dont know what i want to be and I feel like society has put up a system where if you dont want to work for sometime your lazy .Which is truly not true We have to find ourselves before even committing to something. I know that our parents want the best for us but the way that they put it can sometimes hurt or they won’t understand because the way that they were raised and there norms. But i hope your able to find a job that fits you very well. We have so much time ahead to us your young still enjoy the time you dont have to stress that much about work. Also your soo pretty literally you wake up pretty your skin is flawless .Keep up the consistency . I always look forward for your videos (:
Omg you’re far too kind 🥺❤️ this is the sweetest comment ever. And i feel you sister! The struggle of figuring it out sucks and i hope we’ll get on track eventually! For now, i’ll just take it one day at a time ❤️
I see myself in this (except for the fact that I am literally applying to WHATEVER come my way even if it's a position that requires no education whatsoever!). I got an MBA, thought it would help but nope. Nada. I never make it past interviews cause of no exp. But this begs the question: How am I supposed to get exp if everyone keeps rejecting me? I actually saw that they gave a position I was applying for to someone else today and I'm in an extremely foul mood hence why I'm here. But it's good to hear from others who are trying as hard as me if not more to escape this shitty situation.
i'm 18, i rejected my 4 uni offers because i didn't want to put my parents out of the monies for me to move away, and i just didn't think the degrees i picked would help me anywhere, its been 6 months since i left high school and my parents constantly make me feel bad for not having a job yet. I did apply to jobs for a while but i kept getting rejected and didn't even get a single interview so i gave up. Also all my friends live like 20 minutes away and are both busy all the time so i barely see them aNd i have covid so im in isolation until next week, i just feel stuck and really don't know what to do but i need my life to pick up but i have no idea what i want to do😭
@@urmom8565 Ignoring the fact that im still not at uni and i dont have a job, id say pretty okay. I help my mum with her work throughout the week cause she's self employed, and i go to an unofficial art class and make cool stuff every thursday, ive spent my free time teaching myself sound production and a few other skills. i continue to apply for jobs with no success🤪 If you end up staying where i was (and still am😩) when i wrote that comment, then use your time wisely and productively as much as you can, be that developing skills, self improvement, starting some personal projects (i run a few instagram accounts), and definitely go after any dreams you have for your life, its better to fail trying than to not try at all😄
@@hannie6486 Thanks for the ideas! Its kind of hard to have motivation to be productive rn because I keep scrolling through instagram and see other people living their best life 🥲 but I think it will be good to be busy and try out new things. All I’ve been doing is working a random job and reading books about my interests in hopes that I can find what I actually want to do with my life. I just feel like I’m not interested in anything atm. Good luck with your dreams!! I hope we both find our way in life and look back in ten years with no regrets because we followed our passion 😄
@@urmom8565 yess absolutely! i would recommend unfollowing any accounts on social media that make you feel bad about your life or yourself and follow ones that are real and honest :) Because most people only post the highlights but there are always things they dont show online, so its not fair to compare your whole life to only a part of theres😅 I wish you the best, and i completely get where you are coming from, i feel stuck a lot and definitely could be doing more. Change takes time and we got this!!
I relate to this so much changed unis so many times because of covid and I failed my first year of uni and had to reapply and I finally passed and got above average grades but it took a whole year away from me I still have 3 more years left and I’ll graduate at 23 and I’m honestly worried No one will hire me cause I honestly feel like they will ask why it took me so long to graduate keep in mind I finished high school at 17 and I’m 20 now. I feel honestly insecure about the fact that most of my friends have already graduated while I’m still stuck here cause I was so overwhelmed about what to study when I finished high school. I never got to go abroad to study either, still in the same city where I grew up. My parents are hard on me as well I’ve been overweight most of my life and I always here that I’m lazy or sleep too much or I’m unthankful even though I know I work my ass off to make sure I can prove them wrong but it honestly demotivates me and always slows me down. Anyone who reads this I hope you find what you are looking for and don’t feel stuck and useless. Everyone has good potential as well as a lot of different talents + skills but unfortunately don’t have the privilege of moral support and guidance that they need.
I got a job offer but rejected due to location wise. Gonna spend 1h 30min travelling. Thinking in the long run I will probably drained out from all those traveling. 3 months post grad still jobless.
Hi Nihel, I finally caught up to all of your videos I’ve missed. I have wanted to make a video abt my struggles as a college freshman rn but have hesitated due to anxiety. I might do it though. However this is not the point of my comment. I totally understand were you are at right now. In your life update I totally resonated. I am a paralegal major and minoring in history (I wanted polisci too) and I am lost. I planned on dorming all 4 yrs but I don’t have that money:( I do not have a car so I have no clue what I’m doing fall 2021. Nothing makes sense right now. I have felt so alone but I resonated with what you said. I don’t know what I am saying but thank you for being so real and honest. It is so tough right now and you have a right to feel how you feel. Hope all is okay❤️
omg first of all thank you for the sweet comment! and yes life is so weird rn and nothing is for sure. your anxiety must be through the roof. you have to place yourself first and do what ever to take care of your mental wellbeing. i hope the universe sends you help and clarity. hang in there love. we're in this together regardless of our differences. we'll get out of it stronger ❤️❤️
I'm a guy and ni like ur video I'm not jobless but dem I'm lazy lol tbh I haven't been to work in 6 days dem but not that's lazy just once in a while but keep it up do u do videos daily I would love to watch them u have a new subscriber here ❤
I'm 22 and unemployed, hated uni as well and I also feel like I'm not good enough for those employers for them to hire me :( thank you for sharing because I definitely can relate with you
I'm 23, officially a year out from graduating and still feel like this. hope things got better for you ❤
@@xxmakeuplover05xx thank you for your kind words ♡ I'm actually about to pursue my studies soon after taking a break almost a year since last year, I just hope everything's gonna be okay and I wish the same for you too ✨
we’re all in this together sister🤞🏼 as someone who has been thru this, let me tell u, the road ahead is somewhat even more challenging 😂 instead of waiting for the storm to pass lets learn to dance in the rain🥰 wishing everyone the best of luck !!
im not ready for more💀
In the middle of my cry this made me laugh 😂
@@Nihel19 Was the original comment right or what? 😅
@@blaz3ofglory570 for me at least, ive been doing better gradually each year. Yes life will always come with battles but when you learn more about yourself, it gets easier to go through them. Plus nothing will ever compare to being a broke student lol
Feel you on the “wondering how I got here part”😭
I'm also 23 and jobless . I've been applying for more than a year. I've been rejected many times. Iduno what future brings me.
im so sorry :( it sucks so bad to be stuck but it will get better and stay strong 💗💗
The worst is yet to come!
I'm 23 and also unemployed, I've been in and out of work due to shitty companies or certain circumstances and it's hella depressing.
hang in there! it does suck and these transitional periods can feel really dark. but it will get better and i hope everything works out in the end 💗
@@MsCardio1 I actually have a work now, I got the job a couple of days after I posted this comment hahah
@@lowest6229 literally so fucking rude yikes. Sorry about that!! So proud of you and cheers to this new chapter 💗💗
@@MsCardio1 sure like writing useless comments about someone u dont know is a very marketable skill 💀💀
@@MsCardio1 i bet you solved all of societies problem, thank you savior 😍😍😍😍 and btw i have a job and i make money online but that doesnt mean i cant talk and share my life experiences. so please kindly fuck off and leave this space if you can't be nice to people opening up and being vulnerable. go invest into some crypto or what ever u have to do to leave us the fuck alone
Everyday I wake up, I hope I'm not in this world again. This always comes to my mind, sometimes I feel positive and negative.
Everyday it just like a task.
This is so real and relatable.
In the same situation, business grad and unemployed due to Covid, just trying to find an enjoyable job. Really enjoyed what you said and seeing your daily routine. Really comforting to watch
Thank you Kyla! I know its really hard and I wish you all the best 🤍
I just wanted to say that i, too, wish life didnt revolve around making money and always being worried that we’ll make it, but you have been doing great just being honest with yourself. I hope you feel better :D
I'm 22 and had a mental health breakdown at uni, managed to graduate with a 2.2 but now I feel like it was all for nothing. I apply for jobs that emphasise entry level, and I'm not enough. I reallt don't know what to do, I've been applying since September and nothing from anything. It's hard to stay positive
i turned 24 and im unemployed due to my mental health :( I was in nursing school, i almost finished but my dad died and i couldn't do it anymore
I'm sorry about your loss 😔🙏
Its perfectly okay. I think nursing is a great path you should continue on if you ever decide to continue soo .
I’m a 22 year old fresh graduate with honors, and currently struggling with finding even jobs outside my field (I’m a chemical engineer). It’s just fucked how covid hit us hard and no one wants to help us. Makes me wonder if I’m doing anything wrong…
i'm so sorry your dad said those things to you :( that's really messed up. my mom did the same thing before I got my first job. (I graduated high school last year and i'm in college working this summer.) she'd be like "you do nothing all day while I go to work" not knowing I was applying to like three jobs every day and getting rejected because I had no job experience. it was one of the many reasons I was excited when I got my job bc it shut her up from saying I don't do anything
Just turned 24 and unemployed :')
you have amazing skin 🥺
I think this has happened to most of us at some point in our lives. The important thing is to keep applying and hopefully something will stick. Someone somewhere will want you specifically. Good luck to all those who are in the same boat.
i would've appreciated this video last year bc girl SAME. living with my dominican family has been awful with their commentary and i cannot wait till i find my third job and be able to move out this year
girl same
Post grad depression solidarity ✊ You're not alone (and thankfully now, neither am I lmao) but I graduated may 2020 with an art history degree unfortunately in a smaller area with little to no opportunities even remotely related to art/museum work. I am employed but struggling to break out of the food service jobs and it really just feels like I'm stuck here. The job searching can be so disheartening. I even got rejected from a local public library assistant job bc I didnt have previous experience working in a library lol. Like I promise I can manage checking books in and out if you'll let me :,,,( I guess I'm just venting on your channel but im really happy I came across you and ill be staying to hang out!
so glad we're sharing similar experiences! it's tough out here, especially with the pandemic. wishing you so much success in the future xx
@@MsCardio1 You say "Politely" and then you say "stupid". That doesn't make sense.
I know you posted this a year ago. Just curious if things are looking up for you by any chance now? I’m only asking because I’m in the almost exact same boat as you. I graduated this spring with a B.A. in Art History and also live in a smaller town with little opportunities, even online. I’m 25 and haven’t been able to find a job for like 6 months now. I also applied for a librarian customer service clerk position and it doesn’t look good for me 😢 I’m struggling and don’t know what to do. I’m just applying for random jobs at this point because I don’t know what else I can do. Any tips?
@@samanthatrenchik341 How is it going for u now? I also graduated with an Art History degree hahaha, worked Customer Service for half a year but still haven't found a job in my field yet!
@@_babyy_sel still looking for a career haha I’m working at a golf course currently 😂🥲
I’m 23 and this shit sucks... honestly. I still have one class to take to actually graduate.
it does suck! hang in there!!
You are realizing things that older people have said. Good job on you figuring it out. Avoiding getting stuck in the matrix is a real deal nowadays.
I did really well in study but have been unemployed for so long I have been left with no choice but to look for ordinary jobs that anyone could get. I avoid people now because it's the same thing. They talk about their families and careers and then say "So what are you doing?" I have nothing and am worried will end up homeless
loved this content so real!!! so relaxing ...try applying for the library .. i love working for the library is such a positive environment
thank you jasmine ❤️ and i actually did. i applied to a few and even reached out to the people in. charge of hiring but everytime the jobs are taken 😔
I love your videos!! It’s so relaxing! I want moreee
thank you my friend ❤️❤️❤️
*_yo same bro waking up 10 am - 12 pm fml_*
Is that bad 😭
Just graduated earlier this year and have been in the workforce for about 7 months full time. If I could go back, I’d tell myself to slow down and enjoy my time more. I’d also tell myself that I needed to choose a field that reflects the kind of lifestyle I want to live. I would have chosen something that is a couple 12 hour shifts a week. More days off, but longer hours. Instead of Mon-Friday… 9-5. I’m in legal.
first of all, before even watching, this thumbnail is so adorable🥺 hit that uwu spot for me lol
ownn thank youu queen
I laughed too hard at this video , not because its funny , but because I relate so much.
hahaha cue we're all in this together from HSM
THIS IS LITERALLY ME NOW :(
Idk why I’m here but I’ve been in a job search slump after countless of rejections and ghosting from companies I applied for. 2 months after graduation and I am still unemployed 🤡 I don’t want to be a burden to my Asian Family, expecting their Engineering graduate daughter to have a job in this pandemic. Sorry for the rant, I am still figuring things out.
I might add those ridiculous job qualifications for fresh grads knowing board exams are postponed and have an experience to that field
you're definitely not alone and it's a struggle, especially wanting to make our immigrant parents proud. but you'll get there and be easy on yourself! you're doing your best and the market is tough rn!
yes me watching this again mar 2022
I truly enjoyed watching this video brought me so much joy. Like I truly believe that you are the nicest genuine TH-camr i sub to . I get where your coming from about your parents to im a early college highschool student and i only have 1 more year to graduate and a still dont know what i want to be and I feel like society has put up a system where if you dont want to work for sometime your lazy .Which is truly not true We have to find ourselves before even committing to something. I know that our parents want the best for us but the way that they put it can sometimes hurt or they won’t understand because the way that they were raised and there norms. But i hope your able to find a job that fits you very well. We have so much time ahead to us your young still enjoy the time you dont have to stress that much about work. Also your soo pretty literally you wake up pretty your skin is flawless .Keep up the consistency . I always look forward for your videos (:
Omg you’re far too kind 🥺❤️ this is the sweetest comment ever. And i feel you sister! The struggle of figuring it out sucks and i hope we’ll get on track eventually! For now, i’ll just take it one day at a time ❤️
I see myself in this (except for the fact that I am literally applying to WHATEVER come my way even if it's a position that requires no education whatsoever!). I got an MBA, thought it would help but nope. Nada. I never make it past interviews cause of no exp. But this begs the question: How am I supposed to get exp if everyone keeps rejecting me? I actually saw that they gave a position I was applying for to someone else today and I'm in an extremely foul mood hence why I'm here. But it's good to hear from others who are trying as hard as me if not more to escape this shitty situation.
I don't do replies but i had to, why are u literally typing out my whole life fr! Its extremely difficult and frustrating sigh..
Any updates?
i'm 18, i rejected my 4 uni offers because i didn't want to put my parents out of the monies for me to move away, and i just didn't think the degrees i picked would help me anywhere, its been 6 months since i left high school and my parents constantly make me feel bad for not having a job yet. I did apply to jobs for a while but i kept getting rejected and didn't even get a single interview so i gave up. Also all my friends live like 20 minutes away and are both busy all the time so i barely see them aNd i have covid so im in isolation until next week, i just feel stuck and really don't know what to do but i need my life to pick up but i have no idea what i want to do😭
hey im kinda in the same place as u 😭😭 hows life going
@@urmom8565 Ignoring the fact that im still not at uni and i dont have a job, id say pretty okay. I help my mum with her work throughout the week cause she's self employed, and i go to an unofficial art class and make cool stuff every thursday, ive spent my free time teaching myself sound production and a few other skills. i continue to apply for jobs with no success🤪 If you end up staying where i was (and still am😩) when i wrote that comment, then use your time wisely and productively as much as you can, be that developing skills, self improvement, starting some personal projects (i run a few instagram accounts), and definitely go after any dreams you have for your life, its better to fail trying than to not try at all😄
@@hannie6486 Thanks for the ideas! Its kind of hard to have motivation to be productive rn because I keep scrolling through instagram and see other people living their best life 🥲 but I think it will be good to be busy and try out new things. All I’ve been doing is working a random job and reading books about my interests in hopes that I can find what I actually want to do with my life. I just feel like I’m not interested in anything atm. Good luck with your dreams!! I hope we both find our way in life and look back in ten years with no regrets because we followed our passion 😄
@@urmom8565 yess absolutely! i would recommend unfollowing any accounts on social media that make you feel bad about your life or yourself and follow ones that are real and honest :) Because most people only post the highlights but there are always things they dont show online, so its not fair to compare your whole life to only a part of theres😅 I wish you the best, and i completely get where you are coming from, i feel stuck a lot and definitely could be doing more. Change takes time and we got this!!
@@urmom8565 or if you cant unfollow accounts you can mute them so they dont show up on your feed :)
Too be honest
That’s how billionaires live
What degree do you have, figure it might benefit for peeps to know. might get an opportunity that way.
What do you do for a living?
use this comment as a petition for more “a day in my life” vids 😈
bruh i love making them but i feel like no one likes em 😔
Me: watching through the ads to give you that coin!!!!!!!!
my loveeeee 🥺💕 ur so kind thank you!!
Unemployment gang💯💯💯💯
I’m in.
I relate to this so much changed unis so many times because of covid and I failed my first year of uni and had to reapply and I finally passed and got above average grades but it took a whole year away from me I still have 3 more years left and I’ll graduate at 23 and I’m honestly worried No one will hire me cause I honestly feel like they will ask why it took me so long to graduate keep in mind I finished high school at 17 and I’m 20 now. I feel honestly insecure about the fact that most of my friends have already graduated while I’m still stuck here cause I was so overwhelmed about what to study when I finished high school. I never got to go abroad to study either, still in the same city where I grew up. My parents are hard on me as well I’ve been overweight most of my life and I always here that I’m lazy or sleep too much or I’m unthankful even though I know I work my ass off to make sure I can prove them wrong but it honestly demotivates me and always slows me down. Anyone who reads this I hope you find what you are looking for and don’t feel stuck and useless. Everyone has good potential as well as a lot of different talents + skills but unfortunately don’t have the privilege of moral support and guidance that they need.
I got a job offer but rejected due to location wise. Gonna spend 1h 30min travelling. Thinking in the long run I will probably drained out from all those traveling. 3 months post grad still jobless.
Hi Nihel, I finally caught up to all of your videos I’ve missed. I have wanted to make a video abt my struggles as a college freshman rn but have hesitated due to anxiety. I might do it though. However this is not the point of my comment. I totally understand were you are at right now. In your life update I totally resonated. I am a paralegal major and minoring in history (I wanted polisci too) and I am lost. I planned on dorming all 4 yrs but I don’t have that money:( I do not have a car so I have no clue what I’m doing fall 2021. Nothing makes sense right now. I have felt so alone but I resonated with what you said. I don’t know what I am saying but thank you for being so real and honest. It is so tough right now and you have a right to feel how you feel. Hope all is okay❤️
omg first of all thank you for the sweet comment! and yes life is so weird rn and nothing is for sure. your anxiety must be through the roof. you have to place yourself first and do what ever to take care of your mental wellbeing. i hope the universe sends you help and clarity. hang in there love. we're in this together regardless of our differences. we'll get out of it stronger ❤️❤️
Hey how are you today ?
you do continue u tube if you like it it will make you good money if you will work hard on it and at the end of the day you enjoy it
Like her millions!!!!! Life is pointless!
I'm a guy and ni like ur video I'm not jobless but dem I'm lazy lol tbh I haven't been to work in 6 days dem but not that's lazy just once in a while but keep it up do u do videos daily I would love to watch them u have a new subscriber here ❤
Sameeee