Esther not admitting that she crashed a bachelor's party out of 100% insecurity and fomo was hard to watch. That is absolutely alarming and psychotic behavior. That is an immediate break up for most people. Just plain mean, rude, and extremely inconsiderate behavior. I'm sure she must know all this. She seems like a good person and having those insecure feelings is understandable, but giving in to those feelings is just so far away from acceptable. I'm sure Dave's friends totally hated her for that and rightfully so.
Exactly..I wonder if he ever got an apology from her?! If she was real about the stuff she said in this EP I highly doubt it. Mind-boggling beeing in the wrong so obviously and still unable to at least admit this fact. Instead she doubles down (would do it again in thissituation) and on top blaming HIM for not catching hints..as an Esther fan I'm speechless. yikes
@digitalsalsas the particular event is immaterial. It's the invasion of privacy and the intrusion of autonomy combined with a total lack of self-awareness and contrition afterward. That being said, it's just a comedy podcast, and I'm sure nobody really cares apart from making a quick comment on it. The reason you're seeing the same comment over and over is because there's only one reasonable way to respond to hearing something like that, which is basically, "wtf that's insane."
Esther showing up at her fiancé’s bachelor party unannounced and not regretting it at all even though everyone else says it was uncomfortable is fucking wild lol. I would be so upset. That’s such a big red flag. Edit: For the record I’m not saying Esther sucks as a person… She seems very sweet and smart and keeps other peoples’ feelings in mind for the most part. Lol I’m just commenting on a comedy podcast god damn
I was gritting my teeth so hard that I thought they might explode, bc listening to that story was WILD. I feel bad for him, he was obviously bummed about it.
Thsts literally the worst thing your can do. It’s his time. She still definitely has extreme damaged image issue and couldn’t go one day knowing he might of had some fun and or strippers there! It’s his life🤷🏽♂️
OH MY GOD!!! The bachelor party story is so bat shit crazy, I can't believe she actually did that. What's even crazier that she still shows no remorse or regret for doing that and trying to justify it.
Ester and Rick establishing that analogies don’t have to be EQUAL situations, but can compare similarities of DIFFERENT situations… is actually SO important for this show to function I can’t believe it took 9 episodes
Broo esther full on stalked Dave at his Vegas bachelor party and watched him from afar after leaving her phone location set at home. Thats kinda dark 😂
Ohhhhh so Esther is fucking crazy. I feel bad for Dave. I cant believe she refused to take any accountability for that shit, because "sHe DoEsN't BeLiEvE iN TiMe TrAvEl." It’s called a hypothetical! Be better for Dave!
I literally had to pause this video to say that that is a certified psycho move to follow her guy to Vegas and watch him from afar, during his bachelor party weekend no less. Geeeeez...
Like cmon and she just sits here and lies about her intentions. All the lead up is just disturbing. And the fact she said she would change nothing and says ruining his weekend made her have the best weekend ever.. I mean that’s evil.
This episode is so funny because they're acting so different! But it's still amazing. I'm fully addicted to this show now. Every time there's a new episode I have to watch it immediately.
I'm about 35 minutes into this episode and so far, and this reminds me of a kid (Esther) who told their parent that the teacher was being mean to them and making fun of them, so someone monitors the teacher's behavior (Esther's fiance lol), and the teacher acts completely different haha.
Esther has nooooo sense of accountability lolol. Yeah there’s no time machine to go back but to understand how someone else feels especially your oartner is paramount
I LOVE the intensity with which Rick participates in conversations and the attention he pays to others, he seems to be so into discussing and seeing where a topic can go. It's also great when the other person keeps up and gives space to those feelings!
Rick, I hope you do know that during bits like 19:30-20:10, although the studio might be silent, people like me are cracking up and definitely not switching off 😂😂😂
The doctor analogy was perfect. The patients rarely go “I’ve heard of this medication, and I’m curious if it could help me with a condition you have already told me I have.” They more often communicate “I know I have this condition from self diagnosis and I want you to give me this medication or I will be upset.” Similar to when a person gets offended at a comedian in a line up for not saying the type of jokes that they think is funny.
While as a patient you shouldn’t be diagnosing yourself, being aware of and having a bit of information on different medications doesn’t hurt. Also on the flip side the pharmaceutical reps are going to hospitals and incentives to doctors to push their stuff as well.
Crashing your significant other's bacholer/bachelorette party is super fuckin' toxic. That is not normal in any way, shape or form. Major, as in M A J O R, red flag. And joking about it afterwards like it's not a big thing does not help.
That is so fucking problematic that Esther did that. Honestly makes me not want to listen to the pod anymore. I used to dig her style; but, that’s so toxic. Gross.
I agree 100% that there is no valid excuse to show up at the bachelor party weekend in another state. I keep forgetting or straight up missed that Dave wasn't the only guy celebrating his bachelor party. That amplifies how embarrassing the situation is and Esther should be grateful that Dave seems to have the most chill reaction to it that most people would not. Having said that, I am on Esther's side that more women have likely showed up at a bachelor party than Dave believes. People do the exact thing they should never do in a relationship all the time. I wonder if Dave has never seen the universal hot crazy matrix? The man behind that is someone that is married and clearly has it all figured out and found himself a unicorn. Loved this episode and the Dave commentary track.
I can see how Esther showing up is insane but in Dave's position I wouldn't care about the tradition of a bachelor party so I could see how Esther would just want to enjoy life and not care about such things, but from the tone of his voice he is clearly affected and she still has no remorse which is interesting and foreboding for doom eventually. I don't think she's wrong or he's wrong but their compatibility is in question.
For anyone that doesn't understand, the attic reference is to a time when Esther was at a family gathering as a child and she couldn't find any of the kids and had to sit and listen to boring adults talk only to later find out the kids were all having a good time playing in the attic.
The difference between people like Esther and the rest of us is she thinks she’s the only one experiencing crippling insecurity and thus deserves a little helping hand in terms of enabling her psychotic behavior. It’s bred from narcissism; people that think they’re the only ones having a hard time and excusing their bad behavior because of it.
LOL I am so glad this happened. Dave being on and seeing the title made me so excited because I know that Rick would really dig into it. Amazing. BUT showing up to the Bachelor's party is THE funniest thing that Esther has ever done. No question. I cried hearing about it the first time.
I don’t think I’ve had a visceral reaction to a podcast as much as I have with this episode. I normally really enjoy Esther but to have ZERO regret of doing that is bananas 🍌’s
rick being 50% nicer to esther cause her fiance is in the room is so funny
And Dave not giving a single fuck
And ester dressing like a home-deficient and not in a top that makes her fix her boobs every 45 seconds. It's all so interesting!
I also noticed that LOL
But also cant help himself by starting shit about the bachelor party and prying
He was struggling tho😂😂😂
Esther claiming Dave "doesn't pickup on things" is hilariously ironic coming from her
Infuriatingly so
@@ShadyRyRyEsther has zero self awareness whatsoever
Esther not admitting that she crashed a bachelor's party out of 100% insecurity and fomo was hard to watch. That is absolutely alarming and psychotic behavior. That is an immediate break up for most people. Just plain mean, rude, and extremely inconsiderate behavior.
I'm sure she must know all this. She seems like a good person and having those insecure feelings is understandable, but giving in to those feelings is just so far away from acceptable. I'm sure Dave's friends totally hated her for that and rightfully so.
With her TRO or whatever issue with the ex she drives by, it 100% adds up
It’s not so much the fact that she went, but the complete lack of remorse afterwards even after hearing how it made Dave feel.
Wild.
Exactly..I wonder if he ever got an apology from her?! If she was real about the stuff she said in this EP I highly doubt it. Mind-boggling beeing in the wrong so obviously and still unable to at least admit this fact. Instead she doubles down (would do it again in thissituation) and on top blaming HIM for not catching hints..as an Esther fan I'm speechless. yikes
Lol this comment section is hilarious. The sanctity of the bachelor party was violated
@digitalsalsas the particular event is immaterial. It's the invasion of privacy and the intrusion of autonomy combined with a total lack of self-awareness and contrition afterward.
That being said, it's just a comedy podcast, and I'm sure nobody really cares apart from making a quick comment on it. The reason you're seeing the same comment over and over is because there's only one reasonable way to respond to hearing something like that, which is basically, "wtf that's insane."
Dave deserves another bachelor party. my jaw was on the floor listening to this
Esther showing up at her fiancé’s bachelor party unannounced and not regretting it at all even though everyone else says it was uncomfortable is fucking wild lol. I would be so upset. That’s such a big red flag.
Edit: For the record I’m not saying Esther sucks as a person… She seems very sweet and smart and keeps other peoples’ feelings in mind for the most part. Lol I’m just commenting on a comedy podcast god damn
Agreed
I support you Esther. I adore you. You are forgiven for your lack of judgement. Egregious!! lack of judgment.
People. it's Esther. Do you really think she's anything but big red flags, heavy creams and pulling ish like that. It's Esther, not Margot Robbie 😂
that’s our ester monster 🥹💓
That's a literal " the weddings off " flag
Ester showing up at the bachelor party and then justifying it is the most psychotic thing I’ve heard in awhile.
the craziest part is that the relationship continued after that.
i like esther, but going to the bach party is totally crazy!
I was gritting my teeth so hard that I thought they might explode, bc listening to that story was WILD. I feel bad for him, he was obviously bummed about it.
Its soo insane. Esther girl wth
Peak Cringe.
Ester showing up to his bachelor party is unequivocally psychotic
Dave and Rick staging an intervention under the guise of a podcast
She really didnt own up to it either. Im sure if a man crashed his fiances' bachelorette party that she wouldnt think of it as a joke.
That's why they aren't married
@@alexhoward1884 she clearly still views the world through the lens where women shouldn't be subject to the same consequences that men are
Thsts literally the worst thing your can do. It’s his time. She still definitely has extreme damaged image issue and couldn’t go one day knowing he might of had some fun and or strippers there! It’s his life🤷🏽♂️
Rick preaching about the healthcare being a service industry, and a shitty one at that- exactly what I needed this morning
OH MY GOD!!! The bachelor party story is so bat shit crazy, I can't believe she actually did that. What's even crazier that she still shows no remorse or regret for doing that and trying to justify it.
LMFAO going to the Bachelor party is CRAZY. I am shocked.
Esther is 100000% psycho for showing up to his room at the bachelor party
It’s driving me crazy that Esther doesn’t see how crazy the bachelor party situation was/is refusing to take accountability
Ester and Rick establishing that analogies don’t have to be EQUAL situations, but can compare similarities of DIFFERENT situations… is actually SO important for this show to function I can’t believe it took 9 episodes
Broo esther full on stalked Dave at his Vegas bachelor party and watched him from afar after leaving her phone location set at home. Thats kinda dark 😂
Patrice O Neal would have gone to town on that bachelor party story!
That is batsh*t crazy from Esther good lord 😂
Oh bruh he would have turned ester in a finely ground powder
Bless his soul
@@yungblak5931
Nah, Esther is way more clever. Being a vicious misogynist doesn't make you witty
Esther defending big pharma ads is SO Esther.
We need to hear, but NEVER see, Dave off screen way more often going forward
Esther is definitely low key stalker. Her other stories about her ex saids it all. Get better! Dave is a good dude.
Lots of women with tism are.
Esther showing up to her fiancé bachelor party is beyond fucked up. Her trying to play it off as a cute little thing is psychotic…WOW.
Dave should 100% be a monthly recurring off camera voice of reason 🤣❤
Damn something is wrong with Esther. Is she a sociopath?
Ohhhhh so Esther is fucking crazy. I feel bad for Dave. I cant believe she refused to take any accountability for that shit, because "sHe DoEsN't BeLiEvE iN TiMe TrAvEl." It’s called a hypothetical! Be better for Dave!
Dave is 10 years older than her and gross. He's lucky to have a woman so obsessed with him. He's weird.
Esthers face expressions the first 20 seconds sets the tone for the whole episode
Pasty white and pink ?
Ya, the whole vibe of this episode is off.
I literally had to pause this video to say that that is a certified psycho move to follow her guy to Vegas and watch him from afar, during his bachelor party weekend no less. Geeeeez...
Crashing your fiancée bachelor party is not cute or funny.
Get Esther some real therapy.
Omg. THE Dave???? This is gonna be amazing
Voiced by Jim Henson
The Bachelor party story is, in fact, hilarious. But even then, it's more disturbing than funny 😂😂😂
Esther, that big gum evil smile while answering Dave was tough.
And all her chins too
Like cmon and she just sits here and lies about her intentions. All the lead up is just disturbing. And the fact she said she would change nothing and says ruining his weekend made her have the best weekend ever.. I mean that’s evil.
Dave being there made this so much better!!!
This episode is so funny because they're acting so different! But it's still amazing. I'm fully addicted to this show now. Every time there's a new episode I have to watch it immediately.
I'm about 35 minutes into this episode and so far, and this reminds me of a kid (Esther) who told their parent that the teacher was being mean to them and making fun of them, so someone monitors the teacher's behavior (Esther's fiance lol), and the teacher acts completely different haha.
Perfect literal & figurative analogy
Esther has nooooo sense of accountability lolol. Yeah there’s no time machine to go back but to understand how someone else feels especially your oartner is paramount
100% would buy ‘in this house, we have a time’ merch
That bachelor party story is psychotic
Love the Dave feature. bring him back!
this is the nicest Rick has ever been to Esther thanks to Dave being there...he will be having a time with her next episode bam!!!!
"I'll give it to you in one word...mothing" the cutest and most terrifying Esther has ever been.
I involuntarily screamed "YEAH" when Rick said it's the attic all over again
I LOVE the intensity with which Rick participates in conversations and the attention he pays to others, he seems to be so into discussing and seeing where a topic can go. It's also great when the other person keeps up and gives space to those feelings!
"This is not comedy, this is your wheelhouse" that got me out loud 😂
Rick, I hope you do know that during bits like 19:30-20:10, although the studio might be silent, people like me are cracking up and definitely not switching off 😂😂😂
Really Good! Dave must have an abundance of patience.
Ester going to his bachelor party is literally psychotic
Putting together that Esther’s Dave is Dave from Great Debates just BLEW MY MIND
The turn to Dave ! 😂😂😂 Is the comedy I look for from you Rick! Thank you for inviting Esther's caretaker!
Damn!!! Ester really doesn't get it. That was a terrible decision on her part to crash the ONLY Bachelor party
Esther: For me, im like, meee, I, i feel like, mine, myself, my feelings, me, me, and meeee…
Esther refuses to be wrong… despite being incorrect.
The doctor analogy was perfect. The patients rarely go “I’ve heard of this medication, and I’m curious if it could help me with a condition you have already told me I have.” They more often communicate “I know I have this condition from self diagnosis and I want you to give me this medication or I will be upset.” Similar to when a person gets offended at a comedian in a line up for not saying the type of jokes that they think is funny.
While as a patient you shouldn’t be diagnosing yourself, being aware of and having a bit of information on different medications doesn’t hurt. Also on the flip side the pharmaceutical reps are going to hospitals and incentives to doctors to push their stuff as well.
Her marriage got 2 years tops showing up and ruining her fiancés bachelor party is mind boggling levels of toxicity
he's an old man too 😬
They’ve been engaged for like a decade lol
Crashing your significant other's bacholer/bachelorette party is super fuckin' toxic. That is not normal in any way, shape or form. Major, as in M A J O R, red flag. And joking about it afterwards like it's not a big thing does not help.
Yikes Esther can’t even be honest with herself
56:49 Esther thinks learning new things is only for men lol oh
I like when Rick is nice to Esther! 🥹
Dave is the best 🤣🤣🤣
That is so fucking problematic that Esther did that. Honestly makes me not want to listen to the pod anymore. I used to dig her style; but, that’s so toxic. Gross.
Calm down 😂 Dave can leave her if he wants to
I agree 100% that there is no valid excuse to show up at the bachelor party weekend in another state. I keep forgetting or straight up missed that Dave wasn't the only guy celebrating his bachelor party. That amplifies how embarrassing the situation is and Esther should be grateful that Dave seems to have the most chill reaction to it that most people would not. Having said that, I am on Esther's side that more women have likely showed up at a bachelor party than Dave believes. People do the exact thing they should never do in a relationship all the time. I wonder if Dave has never seen the universal hot crazy matrix? The man behind that is someone that is married and clearly has it all figured out and found himself a unicorn. Loved this episode and the Dave commentary track.
I can see how Esther showing up is insane but in Dave's position I wouldn't care about the tradition of a bachelor party so I could see how Esther would just want to enjoy life and not care about such things, but from the tone of his voice he is clearly affected and she still has no remorse which is interesting and foreboding for doom eventually. I don't think she's wrong or he's wrong but their compatibility is in question.
Don’t stop the podcast.. the chemistry is JOKES 😂
@@Steveatetheicecream booooooooo
For anyone that doesn't understand, the attic reference is to a time when Esther was at a family gathering as a child and she couldn't find any of the kids and had to sit and listen to boring adults talk only to later find out the kids were all having a good time playing in the attic.
Dude needs to run. Saying there's sexual tension in front of him even as a joke is cancerous.
The difference between people like Esther and the rest of us is she thinks she’s the only one experiencing crippling insecurity and thus deserves a little helping hand in terms of enabling her psychotic behavior.
It’s bred from narcissism; people that think they’re the only ones having a hard time and excusing their bad behavior because of it.
Dave & Esther tag teaming Rick is 10/10
Run, Dave. Get out while you can.
I cannot stop laughing at the thumbnail. I love you, Esther 💙
Mad Hatter here! Each episode is getting better and better! Love it!
This is mental behaviour. Genuinely weirded out by Esther. Dave, get out!
With a shirt that oversized you know Esther brought her A-Game this episode.
Rick assley and esther provalone at it again.
Who, Rick Assman and Esther Poo-Shitzki?
Back to back great episodes. They are hitting their stride.
Esther really entered into a category of psycho with this story. This was really sad.
Dave in the dark is the best guest ever !
Rick playing nice while the chaperone is watching 😂
Holy fucking dog shit, I'm so high right now but the whole flight story, but more importantly, Esther's face at 38:34 is the stuff nightmares
Esther showing up at a bachelor party is creepy af
This was the episode that really ended it for them.
I needed this today! I liked dave being there actually normally guests annoy me
That's psychotic. HUGE RED FLAG!!!!🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
I actually love Dave's presence in the dynamic/chemistry. He should be on more often!
The unwillingness to change or learn is pretty wild
Run for you life Dave!
The dynamic between Emphatic Enthusiam and Dry Sarcasm keeps me listening week after week
Love having a new podcast to look forward to every week 😊
Thank you so much for another really funny episode, Rick and Esther!
I can’t wait for someone who doesn’t feel the need to be so nice to Esther goes in on her for this bachelor party story
Every ep gets better and better, I love this
the analogy conversation from 17:00-20:00 had me rolling
If frozen food were a person, Esther would definitely be top shelf freezer burn next to Lasagna 😂😂😂
Burn 😂
LOL I am so glad this happened. Dave being on and seeing the title made me so excited because I know that Rick would really dig into it. Amazing. BUT showing up to the Bachelor's party is THE funniest thing that Esther has ever done. No question. I cried hearing about it the first time.
Yes, Rick is spot on concerning “Suits”. I just binged watched it and it kept my interest from start to finish.
fall comedy was my favorite thing i’ve ever witnessed
THE one and only Dave being here?? we need that same treat on Trash Tuesday please!!❤🎉
"what would i change....nothing" esther killed me
She's got problems
I don’t think I’ve had a visceral reaction to a podcast as much as I have with this episode. I normally really enjoy Esther but to have ZERO regret of doing that is bananas 🍌’s
At least John was honest about his disappointment of Esther crashing his Bach party.
Dave seemed okay with Esther crashing his bachelor party. I think other people would be super mad if their fiance did that. 🤨
Dave committing to not knowing how to say Brazzers. Nice. Lmao.
I may have missed a couple z's in the spelling.
I’m not going to lie, the bachelor party story was absolutely insane, and the total lack of accountability was jarring…Dave is a saint
Dave is a fantastic mediator on this show
Dave is so funny lmaooo