I’m one of the peeps that genuinely appreciates the information in parentheses. I think this might be the one of easiest places to have this observation and my gratitude well received without further explanation. Heh. Thankya. @ArjanGroe (and of course, Soul Boom and Rick Glassman, as well. )
@@siscomatos he does have moments of it. But the majority of the podcast he absolutely is a silly goose. This almost had zero of his silliness. I would say his podcast is normal 10% serious and 90% silly goose. This felt like the opposite of that. It’s possible I have missed his completely serious episodes. I haven’t seen every single episode
@@kylebrake556 Not sure what you mean by diferoption, but i don't think they would get stuck in arguments. Duncan is very agreeable and would definitely find Rainn's points of views interesting, and vice-versa.
I've been following Rick for a while and when he does talk about being neurodivergent, I feel like it's really important and vulnerable for him, but it's so valuable for people that may not have understood the things that come with autism before. Rec encourage me to do my own research. It helps me understand certain people in my family, who have autism and a whole lot of us have ADHD, which is also neurodivergent, including myself. I really appreciate how Rick can be funny and then serious. That's the best balance. I clicked on this for Rick but I think I'll stay listening for Rainn.
We strive to be a community that allows for open and honest conversations like these. Thank you for listening and please stick around! Lots of more great content to come!
When Rick's mom described his learning style, it reminded me so much of my child. When we do homework I discovered asking, "Can you show me how to do this?" or "How would this work? I didn't learn to do it the way they teach you. Can you walk me through it?" results in answers instead of anxiety.
I don't know if I have autism (I'm going to get tested in a couple of weeks) but your story reminds me of my experience growing up. I had some difficulties with math in 4th grade (I was pretty good up to 3rd grade) and my dad was getting mad at how my teacher was teaching me and that it was "wrong" and I should do it this way. He would also get mad when he would ask me to solve a problem in my head and it would take me a long time. I can do math on paper and at this point I have even done calculus (I got a degree in computer science) but I am terrible at visualizing numbers in my head. I used to get so much anxiety with math and hated it because of the anxiety it would bring me from those experiences. However when people ask me a question I am really good at answering their questions especially tech-related.
As an adult who is undiagnosed but almost certainly has autism, this episode was so validating in a totally novel way. This joint exploration of the self and our shared experiences is very inspiring.
as an adult dx'd i saw alot of myself in rainne because i would identify with autism but figured someone wouldve said something already now learning i am on the spectrum life makes alot more sense
"I just want to acknowledge what you may be feeling right now and thankyou for feeling brave enough to feel it here" ❤BOOM If only everyone could have someone to hold space for them this way.
I'm crying. His decriptions of social perceptions were relatable for me. I'm mid thirties and realizing I'm on the spectrum. My brothers are diagnosed and I noticed we shared a majority of syptoms during one of their evaluations. Thanks for speaking on the vulnerability of getting diagnosed.
As an adult, who mainly works and has little to no time with friends, this ep is a great example why I love podcasts. I would love to have these kinds of conversations but that isn't available to me right now. I listen/watch a lot of comedian podcasts and it fills the gab for wit and humor in my life. This pod will help fill the love and passion I have for these kinds of conversations/topics. I really appreciate that. Sometime life can disconnect you. Things like like connect me back to the things I love
Those people only think that because he's comfortable making eye contact. For some reason people think you can only be autistic when you can't/don't make eye contact. It comes from ignorance!
@@9babyblu100%. All those outdated stereotypes are why it took me till 30 to accept I even could be autistic. People used to tell me it felt like I was staring into their soul, but I think it’s just because I maintained too much eye contact 😂 When people make me explain now, I reference the things that are less talked about, but were the things I noticed first. Like, not intuitively knowing things I don’t have previous experience with. I always felt like everyone else got the memo on what to wear, what to say, and how to act in all these new situations, and I just missed it. Even now, if I’m going somewhere new, I have to look up pictures or watch videos to see how other people are existing so I won’t stick out so much. I don’t mind sticking out a little bit, but if I at least look somewhat “normal” then it makes everyone else take my more unique traits/choices as just fun quirks. For the first few years I was afraid to mention it to too many people, because I “don’t look autistic”, but then I realized that I only “don’t look autistic” to allistics or people who have no idea what autism is in reality 😂 Fellow autistics know so quick, which is so validating.
@@melissastory1993 Exactly! My son (6y/o) is on the ASD spectrum. He didn't make much eye contact as a toddler but now only when he's in trouble. He (and my 14y/o) daughter look almost disassociated when they're being corrected. But if they're comfortable, they are fine with eye contact. It's frustrating that the masses only see ASD thru stereotypes. I use that frustration over the years and try to educate people so others have a better understanding.
@@9babyblu yeah, when I was getting my daughter assessment they asked about eye contact and sounded genuinely shocked when I said we don’t monitor eye contact in our household. Which is weird because you’d think they’d have enough other autistic parents that I wouldn’t be the only one with that answer.
Coming from working in the healthcare sector, there's something we talk about called compassion fatigue. It means that the extension of your compassionate instincts can be taken too far because your boundaries are being pushed without consent. The consent part is sometimes missed, or replaced with "you chose your job". I would say that while Rainn has spoken about doing it monthly by month and by his choosing, be careful how far you go because I've seen the most conscious and put together people break down from compassion fatigue leading to complete burnout layered with heavy guilt for feeling like they've failed.
So true. I'm a catastrophic work comp adjuster x 21 years and deal with deaths and severe life altering injuries. And IT IS draining. Being a super empath, I have learned to block some of the stuff, but I feel so drained after even a day of listening to people complain and project and be devastated all day long. And boy are my arms tired....sorry had to add that. 😂 but yes these types of jobs are sooo draining.
Rick's story his parents told about him being in special classes in school was so similar to mine. It was mainly a confidence issue for me, I never thought I could do the work. As an adult I wish I could tell that child how smart they were. Thanks for being so open, Rick.
This was me too.. to get things done I'd need someone with me (mirroring) for my brain to kick in and do it. And also there's an aspect of executive dysfunction where you don't know where to start. It may seem simple to others.. but it can be overwhelming. And the cherry ontop is finding out you're dyslexic too.. so you're a visual thinker.. so you see things in your brain like it's a projector.. and teachers are like.. why can't they do the task. Our brains are different and we never got a God damn instruction manual.. and there's no helpline to call just hold music (people having no idea how to help) and trying but making things worse and you feel more incapable with neurotypical solutions to neurodivergent brains. Okay I'm done 😊 haha Great podcast. ❤🎉
Hello, I completely agree that Buddhism, stoicism and QiGong definitely transformed my life. But when i finally accepted Jesus and was open to meeting him and understanding him, all nuances in my life were taken away. Jesus made it so my life was perfectly catered to my unique creation. If you like the facts, I say definitely speak to Jesus and make the decision for yourself.
Episode 1? Could be episode 300 with the quality! Great job Rainn love to see this side of you! The down to earth, genuine human to human interactions. Love it.
There’s so much honesty, vulnerability, open mindedness, and acceptance in this podcast. It’s truly refreshing that two people can have a conversation about deep rooted ideologies without conviction and with nothing but respect. I appreciate this so much.
Rick’s hesitance to talk about his diagnosis related to the judgement you get from it… is something that I’ve also come to the same conclusion. I’ve lost so many friends after the diagnosis. The selling aspect he’s talking about I just experienced all last year and now I’ve processed how so many people that used to be in my life never believed me I was autistic then when I acted autistic, they were turned off.
Holy SHIT-the excitement I felt seeing this mash-up. I’m like 30 second in, and I’m prepared for some life-changing dialogue. I’m sure I won’t regret saying this in an hour, but: PERFECT FIRST GUEST
Good job Rick and Rain! Great first podcast man!!! :D the most annoying thing a podcast host can do it cut off their guest and interrupt them frequently. Youre really good at communicating Rain, let the guest present their ideas and you do an incredible job at navigating and steering a conversation. Well done!
I don't ever feel the need to comment on a video or whatever, but I had to for this one. This being the first Soul Boom, I feel happier, lighter, smarter, and more connected to the world around me just from listening to you two talk. Rainn and Rick are the breathe of fresh air we all need to fill our bodies with. Thank you for starting this Rainn and thank you Rick for being you. I can't wait to hear the next one! Side note: did you guys know that Rick Glassman has a podcast? It's not mentioned in this episode at all but just a fun TIL I thought I'd share.
Haha, great screen name Josh! 😂 I love creating/coming up with really good, funny, and clever word/word-pun combinations as well lol, so props to you for this one sir! 😁👍🏼👍🏼
1:15:38 I relate to this so hard. Lack of understanding the issue does not equal lack of understanding the emotion. Once the issue is revealed to someone who had not yet seen it, they can then feel all of the empathetic emotions come flooding in retroactively. So I have been called selfish and cold, yet I am extremely sensitive to the emotions and feel them very deeply once understood. It’s ironic in my case because I’m usually intuitive and basically tell people how they feel before they know. Later on they tell me I’m right - but while they’re processing, being right is not what they need. If left unaddressed, this imbalance between ignorance and empathy can easily lead to depression and isolation as the ignorant person feels constant guilt, shame, or embarrassment as they catch up to the understanding. It can turn into a proactive avoidance as a mechanism of preventing future wrongdoing. This avoidance mechanism is largely subconscious; it’s not until months or years later that you realize how alone and alienated you are.
1:03:29 A characteristic issue of autism is that it presents an "asymmetric profile". Neurotypicals are more or less good doing a lot of things, there's a certain regularity within the "average." But people on the spectrum have that "irregular/spiky" profile, they can be very very good at two or three things, but have enormous difficulties in two or three other things that, for most people, are simple and everyday skills (like you are very good in intense periods of concentration, hyperfocus, but the anxiety of talking on the phone or keeping order with bills/deadlines is almost impossible) And we are not necessarily talking about savant-type ability, it's just that irregularity in the social/emotional skills profile; you can't cope (at least not for a long time, burnout is a thing) with all the common "expected" things of a neurotypical. Little things that are taken for granted in everyone are not "natural" for people on the spectrum, you just don't get it (but of course you can rationalize them, that's masking, like playing a highly curated script about social skills)
If you ever do repeat, guess I definitely think you should have him on again seeing how you converse and the way that you guys speak was so wonderful. Im on a new journey with autism as an adult and I soooo appreciate this
Fantastic debut episode! I’m a 40 year old woman with a life of “mental health”, and recently realized that I am very likely autistic, and this conversation was just amazing and cathartic to listen to.
As a currently undiagnosed neurodivergent this was a very powerful conversation for me. Thank you both for doing what you do. I relate to both of your experiences in different ways and the past 3 years have been a time of discovery for me. Its been enlightening and difficult and hard to deal with but ultimately necessary and good. I cant wait to keep watching more from both of you!
51:34 I had to be sat down and spoken to by a manager about how sarcastic I was because nobody could tell if I was joking or being an asshole. I was always joking, but how could they know?? They just thought I was being mean, rude, dismissive, downright unpleasant. It's this. This is the more articulate version of the conversation my sous chef and I had that changed the way I relate to people. 59:11 oh man, the first time I clapped a friend on the back, he was so goddamn proud of me 😂 it's like he knew I had reached a milestone of human connection! 18 years later, I vividly remember him saying, "There you go!"
Ricky's on the loose! I love watching people do that face when they suddenly fall in love with Rick,. The wit, the banter, the emotional intelligence,... and i say that wearing outside clothes while inside. I also admire Rainn's mission with this podcast,... you may want to get Pete Holmes on if you haven't already, his grasp on religion/philosophy/spirituality/theosophy/comedy is a close 2nd to Russell Brand.
I am currently in the process of being assessed for ASD at age 32 after over a decade of misdiagnoses (major depression, social anxiety, BPD, bipolar) and listening to your experience feels so validating it’s exactly what I’m feeling right now thank you very very very much for sharing this I cannot tell you how much this just helped me
omg, I am 32 and I have social anxiety, avoidant personality disorder, ADHD and bipolar as diagnosis. Although I feel the bipolar is wrong and it might be autism, my cousin is autistic. which of you diagnosis do you think are false or do you mean that they have all been false?
Same I’m also in the process of being assessed and I’ve ran through the list of diagnoses and nothing fit like autism but what’s funny is I’ve been in mental health services since I was 2 and some who nobody picked up on it
watching this pod starting my own journey of identifying my autism and it's warming my heart so much, rick's honesty and experiences shine a light on a part of me that I haven't ever understood very well. "I was liked but not included" is so real.
I remember a few years ago I left a comment on one of Rick's videos along the line of "Rick is the friend you wish you had," and it was a continuation of a bit he was doing in his episode with the same cadence. He responded and added on to it. It made me feel seen and appreciated at the time and I needed that. It's stuck with me all these years later. I still feel that Rick is an incredibly intelligent and quick witted guy and is the friend everyone needs and would want. I know for myself that I relate to him more than any other comic I have seen and listened to. His ability to communicate, his ability to switch between silly and serious at the blink of an eye. His insightfulness. His bigger picture thinking and constantly viewing things from multiple angles. His self deprication backed up with intelligence and humour. I think we should all aspire to have a friend like Rick in our lives and if we are so lucky, to keep them around knowing the value they bring. I also dont identify as Austistic but share alot of Ricks views. I can relate strongly.
this was such a good episode i listened it twice in row. i think i also am autistic at 28 years of age, scared but relieved at the same time because it explains so much. i can relate to Rick almost fully. glad i have my doctors appointment soon so i can start my journey. sincerely, thank you Rainn and Rick!!
I really appreciated his honesty and sharing his vulnerable side when discussing being autistic and his diagnosis. I'm also on the spectrum and it's hard to find this kind of authenticity even among autistic content creators.
At 49:31 - i have never related to something more. "I never knew if it was a joke or not," and the subsequent development of that kind of sense of humor, where joking and sincerity are not mutually exclusive... That really resonates with me
Excellent. Really appreciate how open Rick was and deep he was willing to go. When "funny guys" are willing to be serious, lives are changed. Thanks for not yucking it up.
I love Rick. He feels real to me, nuanced and unsure but innocent for the most part. He feels real to me. Like I don't have to figure him put because he isn't hiding or putting on a front. He's just him.
Rainn Wilson your examples of autistic coded characters are spot on and already shows a vast array of different presentations. Your own life example of autistic masking is also spot on and is echoed by many autistic individuals. I actually watched this as I thought it was you talking about your own autistic experience as I had no idea who Rick was. Thank you both for sharing.
This conversation about the separation and also the overlap between religion and spirituality is some of the best content I’ve consumed in a VERY long time from the internet. Thank you to you both gentlemen!
🙋🏼♀️ - I’m autistic too! ❤ Late diagnosed (in my late 30s) and it was such a relief in so many ways to finally get a broader understanding of some parts of myself.
I am convinced this is one of the most beneficial conversations on the world wide web to all peoples from all walks of life. Thanks for sharing your conversation, Rainn & Rick!
Thank you so much for this interview. I didn't learn I was autistic until I was 70 years old. I wish I had known earlier because it would have helped so much to understand myself and my behavior. Knowing you have autism isn't a get out of jail free card where all your problematic behaviors are excused. But I found autism to be the Rosetta Stone for understanding my life, Even at my rather advanced age, this new knowledge is helping make my life so much better. One of my favorite sayings comes from a book by Tom Robbins, in which he said "It's never too late to have a happy childhood." For those of us who had difficult childhoods, that's a powerful thought. And for the record, the Mark Twain quote Rick was searching for is "It ain't what you don't know that gets you in trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so." Full disclosure, I had the same problem Rick had remembering the exact wording even though it's a favorite quote of mine, so I looked it up.
I relate so so much too Rick's a journey with Autism because I had to face the hard reality that I have autism and it has been a nightmare of a struggle for me to try to get diagnosed and get help and treatment that I need and life has been very difficult for me because of the mental and autistic things that I struggle with. I have appointment set up, but they're not for like 7 months down the road because it's so hard to get into the doctor for these types of things.
This podcast lit my soul on fire! I am neurodivergent (inattentive ADHD) and completely flew under the radar of any help that may have been available to me (especially for my time). I see myself in Rick when he speaks, and it feels familiar in a soothing way (especially when reminiscing on childhood with a new perception). Rainn's eyes feel so safe and in admiration - there is hope in this world. This was fuel for my continued spiritual journey, thank you both for being present, vulnerable and honest.
I'm high and really enjoying this conversation. I love it when people get straight to the point especially with ADHD although my weed helps me focus insanely. It's when I can be creative for long periods of time instead of being distracted every 10 minutes or grow restless doing one thing.
This is the most seen I’ve ever felt. I’ve loved both Rainn and Rick , this podcast needs to be a seen by anyone questioning if they might be on the spectrum. I was diagnosed in my 30’s as well.
I caught a clip of Rick speaking about Autism - man what a great moment that I’ll watch again. It was quite moving. Also never realized Rainn is such a great interviewer. Insightful questions and holding space/present - Many try to fake this but was pleasantly surprised to see Rainn is for real.
I'm so excited for your podcast, Rainn! And Rick - you are so thoughtful, articulate, and insightful. Thank you for sharing a piece of yourself with us. We even got Debbie on the phone! What a beautiful combination of humans!
P.S. I really love this combo. The way Rainn and Rick operate complement each other on a special level. I really wish there were more people that can/really want to have this kind of conversation. I really want to get famous just to be able to converse with more people like these beautiful men.
I’ve never known religion, I come from a home of scientists. I’m far too pragmatic to ever believe in any one religion, and I philosophically define myself as an absurdist. Nonetheless, this was a fascinating watch, and was well worth the time spent. Looking forward to more. I hadn’t heard of the Baha’i faith before just now, but I do see the value for many to lead a life with spirituality at the forefront. Not that either of you said this, but I do resent the idea that being spiritual is a prerequisite to having a strong moral compass, or even that it’s a prerequisite to finding a ‘tribe’. I have, and love and adore all of my people, and they run the gamut of religious beliefs.
Nice post. As far the connection between morality and spirituality, i would say morality exists not in the physical world but the mental, emotional world. So moral terms like responsibility and generosity are felt. We talk about a moral compass on a soul level. I think the connection between the moral compass and spirituality, or the soul, is just semantic. It's just making the distinction from the physical to the emotional and conceptual. Not sure how i clear i was but again, great post!
This has to be one of the best podcasts out there. Raain, phenomenal work. Listening to Rick open up makes me look deeper into the internal issues I had growing up.
I’m an autistic self advocate and ambassador on the board of an autism self advocacy organization. I live for these conversations. And I also love my autism. I’d love to talk to you both! lol I just paused this video at the point of breaking down autism and brushing on the topic of masking. I have spent the last few years on my own personal hero/healing journey. I had to stop this video and post another comment stressing the part about more in depth of the autistic experience. I would love to talk with you guys about it all. I have a few special interests. Some of which simultaneously come and go in cycles. But for the past I don’t even know how many years at this point, the top interests have been autism, psychology, spirituality and philosophy. With a side of mental health and wellness. As I mentioned earlier, I live for these conversations and would love to speak with you guys in more depth. Let me know👍🏻
I cried - I don't know who either of you are - youtube gave me this in my feed - but thank you. My daughters both have ASD and probably me.. Truly thank you for this video - I can't really understand why it made me feel so much stuff - but it did - and thank you.
See, the autism discussions are so important, especially for women. Women with autism present in a different way than what is typically recognized as being "autistic". So many in my life were like "duh, we know".. But there were a few who said I wasnt.. I thought the same too, like.. You have no idea what I do when people arent around. You know the masked me. You have nooo idea what goes on in my head. It got worse when everyone started self diagnosing on tiktok.. Now, everyone thinks everyone is just making up that they're autistic to be "different"
Rick is a fascinating human being. The level of self awareness is astonishingly admirable. My brilliant boy’s mind moves as quickly and I pray he can also one day be this in-tune to who he is. We’ve always spoken openly (he’s now 11)..never an excuse but sometimes an explanation of why he feels/acts/thinks a certain way. I wish he knew you in real life. Thank you for being you and for sharing so intimately. My guy is hilarious but he doesn’t know just how much so! Much to say, but thank you. Thank you for your humor, your candor, and to your folks for raising such a great guy!
Love that this is the first episode and shocked that these two weren’t already great friends. There wasn’t an awkward moment and their chemistry is great. Love you both!
@@theotherjenna go watch Rick be all buddy buddy with Chris Delia and co and all the excuses he has for why it’s okay to be friend with and give time on his show for predators ✌️
I love Rick so much. Selling your autism, so relatable. It’s one of my most frustrating things. “Idk dude everybody does that” “you don’t seem autistic”. It’s inevitable. I don’t even bring up my autism all that much, only in situations where I kinda have to and it’s always met with judgement and stupid questions
I honestly don’t know if I want to seek diagnosis at 31, because I guess I just don’t even want to learn how to make myself act like most of the people around me. I don’t want to pathologize my struggle with existing. Maybe I also don’t even feel worthy of trying to make others live around a mental state that just impacts my internal functioning at this point. I can hate myself, that’s fine, I really have spent 31 years getting comfortable with that idea and learning how to just be as small and flexible as possible to be functional in society. I majored in communication, then got a post graduate degree in communication just to learn what’s going on in other people’s brains. Like Rick I learned facial expressions and studied them intensely because I was sick of feeling lost. I’ve built a life, a career, a family, without an autism diagnosis. But man the visible relief Rick is expressing when explaining his reaction to getting diagnosed really is making me think. I’m so happy for this man I know nothing about 😂😊
Thank you Rick for allowing yourself to be so transparent and letting us in. Your journey is perfection! I to am an actor and I must say I truly enjoy watching you do what you do as an actor! I wish you continue success in your personal life and in your career.
I come back to this episode once every couple weeks. This episode makes me feel very comfortable, like spending time with good friends. Isn’t it crazy how TH-cam and a podcast can give me that deep safe feeling just by watching a video. Thanks Rick and Rainn. This is a great one.
As a perspn on the autistic spectrum, i was very pleased by this first convo. The blunt, honest conversation very much resonates with me. With regard to umbrella of neurodivergencies such as autism, ADHD, and AudASD, it has often been assumed that the character of Dwight was autistic and that Rainn is undiagnosed on the spectrum.
how did you know that you should seek out help to try and figure out if you were autistic, like I wanna do it but there are so many steps and I don't know where to start, I am already bipolar, ADHD, avoidant personality disorder and social anxiety, but like after having lived alone and not worked for a very long time I no longer feel like the bipolar fots, that was something that would have fit when I had to be under a lot of stress all the time, but what if I'm misdiagnosed, like I've never fit in, I feel like people intentionally misunderstand me all the time, I have a lot of sensory issues but that can be the ADHD though.
Can I just add to the list of wonderful feedback, that it’s so pleasantly refreshing and humble for Rainn to go through and like people’s comments and reply to them? You don’t see that hardly ever anymore, and it’s not like he’s just some small-time podcast who’s getting his first ever public attention, either. What a wholesome dude, not just for the show but all the way around.
I named my daughter after you 🫶🏽 her nickname is “Rainn Wilson” 😂 I was about 3 months pregnant and I was watching “Rainn Wilson and the Geography of Bliss” and we still didn’t have a baby name picked out at the time. I related to the show and fell in love with the name Rainn! I definitely recommend watching “Rainn Wilson and the Geography of Bliss”
![ทุกครั้งที่หลับตา (Lucid Dream) - AYLA's [ Official MV ]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/4i1OBAQyv58/mqdefault.jpg)
I have a feeling this is going to be good.
Every successful podcast launch starts with @rickglassman, right Bobbi?
Snap your fingers now
Soulboom Rainn Wilson God Comedy and you? There is any possible way to this of not being a sucess?
Wow what are the chances.. i have the same exact feeling
we love ya bud
It's almost insane (meant in the most positive way) how sincere this is. Thanks for sharing, being vulnerable both.
🫶🫶
That's how it's supposed to be. Let's do it!
I’m one of the peeps that genuinely appreciates the information in parentheses. I think this might be the one of easiest places to have this observation and my gratitude well received without further explanation.
Heh. Thankya. @ArjanGroe (and of course, Soul Boom and Rick Glassman, as well. )
This is one of the first time I've seen Rick be "out of character" or not being "on" comedically. It's really cool to see this side of him.
check his podcast, lots of sincere moments amongst the absurdity
@@albydaniels oh I listen to his podcast frequently.
This is amazing
@@llxxlxxlxxllhe very regularly gets serious on TYSO, not sure what you mean
@@siscomatos he does have moments of it. But the majority of the podcast he absolutely is a silly goose. This almost had zero of his silliness. I would say his podcast is normal 10% serious and 90% silly goose. This felt like the opposite of that. It’s possible I have missed his completely serious episodes. I haven’t seen every single episode
I’ve gone back and forth on religion, and boy are my arms tired
Phenomenal joke
😂😂😂
I don't get it. This arms tierd joke flies over my head 😢
@@arnarorsigriarson8596it’s Rick Glassman’s inside joke, for lack of a better term
@@louieo.blevinsmusic4197 Yeah, I figured. But what is it a reference to?
Rick Glassman as the first guest sign me uuuppp!!!!
Creed was the 1st guest
Rick is The Podcastmaker
? this is the second episode my guy
@@RG-tm7uq It literally says Ep 1
Jew
This is how you have a genuine and respectful conversation.
duncan trussel would be another perfect guest too
I agree, but also I feel the two would just argue diferoption circles around one another
Good rec, I would also like to see David Choe
torille
@@kylebrake556 Not sure what you mean by diferoption, but i don't think they would get stuck in arguments. Duncan is very agreeable and would definitely find Rainn's points of views interesting, and vice-versa.
@@ericyoungbloodor David Cross
I've been following Rick for a while and when he does talk about being neurodivergent, I feel like it's really important and vulnerable for him, but it's so valuable for people that may not have understood the things that come with autism before. Rec encourage me to do my own research. It helps me understand certain people in my family, who have autism and a whole lot of us have ADHD, which is also neurodivergent, including myself. I really appreciate how Rick can be funny and then serious. That's the best balance. I clicked on this for Rick but I think I'll stay listening for Rainn.
We strive to be a community that allows for open and honest conversations like these. Thank you for listening and please stick around! Lots of more great content to come!
Looking forward to it.
When Rick's mom described his learning style, it reminded me so much of my child. When we do homework I discovered asking, "Can you show me how to do this?" or "How would this work? I didn't learn to do it the way they teach you. Can you walk me through it?" results in answers instead of anxiety.
I don't know if I have autism (I'm going to get tested in a couple of weeks) but your story reminds me of my experience growing up. I had some difficulties with math in 4th grade (I was pretty good up to 3rd grade) and my dad was getting mad at how my teacher was teaching me and that it was "wrong" and I should do it this way. He would also get mad when he would ask me to solve a problem in my head and it would take me a long time. I can do math on paper and at this point I have even done calculus (I got a degree in computer science) but I am terrible at visualizing numbers in my head. I used to get so much anxiety with math and hated it because of the anxiety it would bring me from those experiences. However when people ask me a question I am really good at answering their questions especially tech-related.
So glad to see Rick is still willing to help out small content creators
We all gotta start somewhere!
-Rainn
@@mmalandsbirdies4012whoosh
@@mmalandsbirdies4012 it's a joke bruh. Maybe you should get tested for the 'tism
@@Cancel-Flip ,
Got it,
I'm not myself, no sense of humor w/ out mead. 😂
"The self love movement is beautiful and necessary, but not at the expense of growth"
Beautiful 👌.
The self love movement is what has lead to the hedonistic society we now have.
At the expense of growth.
Rick Glassman has a very strong presence in the podcast and dramatic acting community
Don’t forget about his basketball and Magic The Gathering acumen. A true man for all seasons.
Cant just make a blanketed statement like that
you can…but please appease us with the proper blanket drop.
He's also got a foot in the flooring game too.
This reads like it was written by Glassman, lol.
As an adult who is undiagnosed but almost certainly has autism, this episode was so validating in a totally novel way. This joint exploration of the self and our shared experiences is very inspiring.
as an adult dx'd i saw alot of myself in rainne because i would identify with autism but figured someone wouldve said something already now learning i am on the spectrum life makes alot more sense
"I just want to acknowledge what you may be feeling right now and thankyou for feeling brave enough to feel it here" ❤BOOM
If only everyone could have someone to hold space for them this way.
Two award winning actors just sitting down for a chat, can’t beat that!
@greatjobent huh… they are both in fact award winning actors… and this is in fact a chat… sooooo
@@jeremymonahan3710 greatjobent was so embarrassed by his comment, that he deleted his entire channel. lol
I'm now curious as to what they said 🤔
Multiple award winning businessman, comedian, and actor, Rick Glassman? Sweet guest.
I'm crying. His decriptions of social perceptions were relatable for me. I'm mid thirties and realizing I'm on the spectrum. My brothers are diagnosed and I noticed we shared a majority of syptoms during one of their evaluations. Thanks for speaking on the vulnerability of getting diagnosed.
As an adult, who mainly works and has little to no time with friends, this ep is a great example why I love podcasts. I would love to have these kinds of conversations but that isn't available to me right now. I listen/watch a lot of comedian podcasts and it fills the gab for wit and humor in my life. This pod will help fill the love and passion I have for these kinds of conversations/topics. I really appreciate that. Sometime life can disconnect you. Things like like connect me back to the things I love
People who say Rick doesn't have autism don't understand what ASD is.
Those people only think that because he's comfortable making eye contact. For some reason people think you can only be autistic when you can't/don't make eye contact. It comes from ignorance!
@@9babyblu100%. All those outdated stereotypes are why it took me till 30 to accept I even could be autistic.
People used to tell me it felt like I was staring into their soul, but I think it’s just because I maintained too much eye contact 😂
When people make me explain now, I reference the things that are less talked about, but were the things I noticed first. Like, not intuitively knowing things I don’t have previous experience with. I always felt like everyone else got the memo on what to wear, what to say, and how to act in all these new situations, and I just missed it. Even now, if I’m going somewhere new, I have to look up pictures or watch videos to see how other people are existing so I won’t stick out so much. I don’t mind sticking out a little bit, but if I at least look somewhat “normal” then it makes everyone else take my more unique traits/choices as just fun quirks.
For the first few years I was afraid to mention it to too many people, because I “don’t look autistic”, but then I realized that I only “don’t look autistic” to allistics or people who have no idea what autism is in reality 😂 Fellow autistics know so quick, which is so validating.
@@melissastory1993
Exactly! My son (6y/o) is on the ASD spectrum. He didn't make much eye contact as a toddler but now only when he's in trouble. He (and my 14y/o) daughter look almost disassociated when they're being corrected. But if they're comfortable, they are fine with eye contact.
It's frustrating that the masses only see ASD thru stereotypes. I use that frustration over the years and try to educate people so others have a better understanding.
@@9babyblu yeah, when I was getting my daughter assessment they asked about eye contact and sounded genuinely shocked when I said we don’t monitor eye contact in our household. Which is weird because you’d think they’d have enough other autistic parents that I wouldn’t be the only one with that answer.
Coming from working in the healthcare sector, there's something we talk about called compassion fatigue. It means that the extension of your compassionate instincts can be taken too far because your boundaries are being pushed without consent. The consent part is sometimes missed, or replaced with "you chose your job".
I would say that while Rainn has spoken about doing it monthly by month and by his choosing, be careful how far you go because I've seen the most conscious and put together people break down from compassion fatigue leading to complete burnout layered with heavy guilt for feeling like they've failed.
So true. I'm a catastrophic work comp adjuster x 21 years and deal with deaths and severe life altering injuries. And IT IS draining. Being a super empath, I have learned to block some of the stuff, but I feel so drained after even a day of listening to people complain and project and be devastated all day long. And boy are my arms tired....sorry had to add that. 😂 but yes these types of jobs are sooo draining.
You can’t find a better podcaster than the glass master.
RICK GLASSMAN IN THE FIRST EP?! Let’s go!!
Rick's story his parents told about him being in special classes in school was so similar to mine. It was mainly a confidence issue for me, I never thought I could do the work. As an adult I wish I could tell that child how smart they were. Thanks for being so open, Rick.
🩵🩵
This was me too.. to get things done I'd need someone with me (mirroring) for my brain to kick in and do it. And also there's an aspect of executive dysfunction where you don't know where to start. It may seem simple to others.. but it can be overwhelming.
And the cherry ontop is finding out you're dyslexic too.. so you're a visual thinker.. so you see things in your brain like it's a projector.. and teachers are like.. why can't they do the task.
Our brains are different and we never got a God damn instruction manual.. and there's no helpline to call just hold music (people having no idea how to help) and trying but making things worse and you feel more incapable with neurotypical solutions to neurodivergent brains.
Okay I'm done 😊 haha
Great podcast. ❤🎉
Rick Glassman is phenomenal.
Him and his child predator friends!
Buddhism and Stoicism have been the grounding of my life for the past 20 years. I'm also autistic. ❤
Hello, I completely agree that Buddhism, stoicism and QiGong definitely transformed my life. But when i finally accepted Jesus and was open to meeting him and understanding him, all nuances in my life were taken away. Jesus made it so my life was perfectly catered to my unique creation. If you like the facts, I say definitely speak to Jesus and make the decision for yourself.
I flew here from the TYSO podcast and boy are my arms tired. Can’t wait to listen to this new pod! RICK! RICK! RICK! RICK!
Couldn't have picked a better first guest. Rick is the man
The Marshall Rug Gallery plug + the *wink* made me cackle 😂
I'm a 34 year old man and I am crying. Thanks Rainn and Thank you Rick.
SECTRUUUUUUUM 😉
Take your meds
I will if you will, sounds like you need them pal
@@Vladivostok29 🤖
I’m 34 and we’re still just boys
Episode 1? Could be episode 300 with the quality! Great job Rainn love to see this side of you! The down to earth, genuine human to human interactions. Love it.
Wow, thank you!
So true! I did not log in that this was the first episode until you pointed it out.
There’s so much honesty, vulnerability, open mindedness, and acceptance in this podcast. It’s truly refreshing that two people can have a conversation about deep rooted ideologies without conviction and with nothing but respect. I appreciate this so much.
Rick’s hesitance to talk about his diagnosis related to the judgement you get from it… is something that I’ve also come to the same conclusion. I’ve lost so many friends after the diagnosis. The selling aspect he’s talking about I just experienced all last year and now I’ve processed how so many people that used to be in my life never believed me I was autistic then when I acted autistic, they were turned off.
As a Buddhist monk and huge fan of the Office and Rainn Wilson , this is now my favorite podcast 😊 🙏
Holy SHIT-the excitement I felt seeing this mash-up.
I’m like 30 second in, and I’m prepared for some life-changing dialogue. I’m sure I won’t regret saying this in an hour, but: PERFECT FIRST GUEST
The guy who likes child predators is the perfect first guest ? 🤔
Good job Rick and Rain! Great first podcast man!!! :D the most annoying thing a podcast host can do it cut off their guest and interrupt them frequently. Youre really good at communicating Rain, let the guest present their ideas and you do an incredible job at navigating and steering a conversation. Well done!
hope you'll tune in next week!
I don't ever feel the need to comment on a video or whatever, but I had to for this one. This being the first Soul Boom, I feel happier, lighter, smarter, and more connected to the world around me just from listening to you two talk. Rainn and Rick are the breathe of fresh air we all need to fill our bodies with. Thank you for starting this Rainn and thank you Rick for being you. I can't wait to hear the next one! Side note: did you guys know that Rick Glassman has a podcast? It's not mentioned in this episode at all but just a fun TIL I thought I'd share.
Haha, great screen name Josh! 😂
I love creating/coming up with really good, funny, and clever word/word-pun combinations as well lol, so props to you for this one sir! 😁👍🏼👍🏼
@@eyezaropin right back at cha! Might I suggest an alternative to your SN? @eyezaropin2020
1:15:38 I relate to this so hard. Lack of understanding the issue does not equal lack of understanding the emotion. Once the issue is revealed to someone who had not yet seen it, they can then feel all of the empathetic emotions come flooding in retroactively. So I have been called selfish and cold, yet I am extremely sensitive to the emotions and feel them very deeply once understood.
It’s ironic in my case because I’m usually intuitive and basically tell people how they feel before they know. Later on they tell me I’m right - but while they’re processing, being right is not what they need.
If left unaddressed, this imbalance between ignorance and empathy can easily lead to depression and isolation as the ignorant person feels constant guilt, shame, or embarrassment as they catch up to the understanding. It can turn into a proactive avoidance as a mechanism of preventing future wrongdoing. This avoidance mechanism is largely subconscious; it’s not until months or years later that you realize how alone and alienated you are.
1:03:29 A characteristic issue of autism is that it presents an "asymmetric profile". Neurotypicals are more or less good doing a lot of things, there's a certain regularity within the "average." But people on the spectrum have that "irregular/spiky" profile, they can be very very good at two or three things, but have enormous difficulties in two or three other things that, for most people, are simple and everyday skills (like you are very good in intense periods of concentration, hyperfocus, but the anxiety of talking on the phone or keeping order with bills/deadlines is almost impossible) And we are not necessarily talking about savant-type ability, it's just that irregularity in the social/emotional skills profile; you can't cope (at least not for a long time, burnout is a thing) with all the common "expected" things of a neurotypical. Little things that are taken for granted in everyone are not "natural" for people on the spectrum, you just don't get it (but of course you can rationalize them, that's masking, like playing a highly curated script about social skills)
If you ever do repeat, guess I definitely think you should have him on again seeing how you converse and the way that you guys speak was so wonderful. Im on a new journey with autism as an adult and I soooo appreciate this
Rainn is on Rick's podcast, it's pretty great. You'll find it if you just search both their names on here.
As a lady diagnosed with autism in her late 20s, I really appreciated this conversation
Rainn honestly man keep this stuff up I love this… honestly the most honest/ loving/ funny asf podcast can’t wait for me to
🤗
"Are you listening to me, or are you wanting me to feel listened to?"
Such a great distinction. Rick is the Cal Lightman of communication.
Fantastic debut episode! I’m a 40 year old woman with a life of “mental health”, and recently realized that I am very likely autistic, and this conversation was just amazing and cathartic to listen to.
So glad you love it!!
As a currently undiagnosed neurodivergent this was a very powerful conversation for me. Thank you both for doing what you do. I relate to both of your experiences in different ways and the past 3 years have been a time of discovery for me. Its been enlightening and difficult and hard to deal with but ultimately necessary and good. I cant wait to keep watching more from both of you!
🫶
51:34 I had to be sat down and spoken to by a manager about how sarcastic I was because nobody could tell if I was joking or being an asshole. I was always joking, but how could they know?? They just thought I was being mean, rude, dismissive, downright unpleasant. It's this. This is the more articulate version of the conversation my sous chef and I had that changed the way I relate to people.
59:11 oh man, the first time I clapped a friend on the back, he was so goddamn proud of me 😂 it's like he knew I had reached a milestone of human connection! 18 years later, I vividly remember him saying, "There you go!"
Ricky's on the loose!
I love watching people do that face when they suddenly fall in love with Rick,.
The wit, the banter, the emotional intelligence,... and i say that wearing outside clothes while inside.
I also admire Rainn's mission with this podcast,... you may want to get Pete Holmes on if you haven't already, his grasp on religion/philosophy/spirituality/theosophy/comedy is a close 2nd to Russell Brand.
I am currently in the process of being assessed for ASD at age 32 after over a decade of misdiagnoses (major depression, social anxiety, BPD, bipolar) and listening to your experience feels so validating it’s exactly what I’m feeling right now thank you very very very much for sharing this I cannot tell you how much this just helped me
omg, I am 32 and I have social anxiety, avoidant personality disorder, ADHD and bipolar as diagnosis. Although I feel the bipolar is wrong and it might be autism, my cousin is autistic. which of you diagnosis do you think are false or do you mean that they have all been false?
Same I’m also in the process of being assessed and I’ve ran through the list of diagnoses and nothing fit like autism but what’s funny is I’ve been in mental health services since I was 2 and some who nobody picked up on it
Love to see Rick being raw, honest, and reflective about his diagnosis. Truly admirable
*starts a new podcast
*Gets Rick Glassman
watching this pod starting my own journey of identifying my autism and it's warming my heart so much, rick's honesty and experiences shine a light on a part of me that I haven't ever understood very well. "I was liked but not included" is so real.
Glassman is a great first guest, easy subscription; congrats Rainn!
I remember a few years ago I left a comment on one of Rick's videos along the line of "Rick is the friend you wish you had," and it was a continuation of a bit he was doing in his episode with the same cadence. He responded and added on to it. It made me feel seen and appreciated at the time and I needed that. It's stuck with me all these years later. I still feel that Rick is an incredibly intelligent and quick witted guy and is the friend everyone needs and would want. I know for myself that I relate to him more than any other comic I have seen and listened to. His ability to communicate, his ability to switch between silly and serious at the blink of an eye. His insightfulness. His bigger picture thinking and constantly viewing things from multiple angles. His self deprication backed up with intelligence and humour. I think we should all aspire to have a friend like Rick in our lives and if we are so lucky, to keep them around knowing the value they bring. I also dont identify as Austistic but share alot of Ricks views. I can relate strongly.
I cant wait for the Steve Carroll Episode
Oh my God please
this was such a good episode i listened it twice in row. i think i also am autistic at 28 years of age, scared but relieved at the same time because it explains so much. i can relate to Rick almost fully. glad i have my doctors appointment soon so i can start my journey. sincerely, thank you Rainn and Rick!!
I really appreciated his honesty and sharing his vulnerable side when discussing being autistic and his diagnosis. I'm also on the spectrum and it's hard to find this kind of authenticity even among autistic content creators.
You guys don't know me but this podcast saved my life. Thank you.
At 49:31 - i have never related to something more. "I never knew if it was a joke or not," and the subsequent development of that kind of sense of humor, where joking and sincerity are not mutually exclusive... That really resonates with me
Excellent. Really appreciate how open Rick was and deep he was willing to go. When "funny guys" are willing to be serious, lives are changed. Thanks for not yucking it up.
Rick's mom is THE best. Sweet shout out. Love the candor and discussion.
Rick's mom has got it going on. Love how she radiates kindness and interest; and momma bear advocates for her son.
I love Rick. He feels real to me, nuanced and unsure but innocent for the most part. He feels real to me. Like I don't have to figure him put because he isn't hiding or putting on a front. He's just him.
Knowing how big of an "Office"-fan Rick is, gives me so much second-hand enjoyment!!
Rainn Wilson your examples of autistic coded characters are spot on and already shows a vast array of different presentations. Your own life example of autistic masking is also spot on and is echoed by many autistic individuals.
I actually watched this as I thought it was you talking about your own autistic experience as I had no idea who Rick was. Thank you both for sharing.
This conversation about the separation and also the overlap between religion and spirituality is some of the best content I’ve consumed in a VERY long time from the internet. Thank you to you both gentlemen!
🙋🏼♀️ - I’m autistic too! ❤ Late diagnosed (in my late 30s) and it was such a relief in so many ways to finally get a broader understanding of some parts of myself.
I am convinced this is one of the most beneficial conversations on the world wide web to all peoples from all walks of life. Thanks for sharing your conversation, Rainn & Rick!
"Everyone at marshall rug gallery are family 😊" LMAO
That was the most slick ad read I've ever seen in a podcast and they aren't even a sponsor.
Thank you so much for this interview. I didn't learn I was autistic until I was 70 years old. I wish I had known earlier because it would have helped so much to understand myself and my behavior. Knowing you have autism isn't a get out of jail free card where all your problematic behaviors are excused. But I found autism to be the Rosetta Stone for understanding my life, Even at my rather advanced age, this new knowledge is helping make my life so much better. One of my favorite sayings comes from a book by Tom Robbins, in which he said "It's never too late to have a happy childhood." For those of us who had difficult childhoods, that's a powerful thought.
And for the record, the Mark Twain quote Rick was searching for is "It ain't what you don't know that gets you in trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so." Full disclosure, I had the same problem Rick had remembering the exact wording even though it's a favorite quote of mine, so I looked it up.
I relate so so much too Rick's a journey with Autism because I had to face the hard reality that I have autism and it has been a nightmare of a struggle for me to try to get diagnosed and get help and treatment that I need and life has been very difficult for me because of the mental and autistic things that I struggle with. I have appointment set up, but they're not for like 7 months down the road because it's so hard to get into the doctor for these types of things.
This podcast lit my soul on fire! I am neurodivergent (inattentive ADHD) and completely flew under the radar of any help that may have been available to me (especially for my time). I see myself in Rick when he speaks, and it feels familiar in a soothing way (especially when reminiscing on childhood with a new perception). Rainn's eyes feel so safe and in admiration - there is hope in this world. This was fuel for my continued spiritual journey, thank you both for being present, vulnerable and honest.
I'm high and really enjoying this conversation. I love it when people get straight to the point especially with ADHD although my weed helps me focus insanely. It's when I can be creative for long periods of time instead of being distracted every 10 minutes or grow restless doing one thing.
This is the most seen I’ve ever felt. I’ve loved both Rainn and Rick , this podcast needs to be a seen by anyone questioning if they might be on the spectrum. I was diagnosed in my 30’s as well.
Having the glass man on for the first episode feels like cheating in the best way and I’m here for it
I caught a clip of Rick speaking about Autism - man what a great moment that I’ll watch again. It was quite moving. Also never realized Rainn is such a great interviewer. Insightful questions and holding space/present - Many try to fake this but was pleasantly surprised to see Rainn is for real.
I'm so excited for your podcast, Rainn! And Rick - you are so thoughtful, articulate, and insightful. Thank you for sharing a piece of yourself with us. We even got Debbie on the phone! What a beautiful combination of humans!
P.S. I really love this combo. The way Rainn and Rick operate complement each other on a special level. I really wish there were more people that can/really want to have this kind of conversation. I really want to get famous just to be able to converse with more people like these beautiful men.
I’ve never known religion, I come from a home of scientists.
I’m far too pragmatic to ever believe in any one religion, and I philosophically define myself as an absurdist.
Nonetheless, this was a fascinating watch, and was well worth the time spent. Looking forward to more.
I hadn’t heard of the Baha’i faith before just now, but I do see the value for many to lead a life with spirituality at the forefront. Not that either of you said this, but I do resent the idea that being spiritual is a prerequisite to having a strong moral compass, or even that it’s a prerequisite to finding a ‘tribe’. I have, and love and adore all of my people, and they run the gamut of religious beliefs.
Nice post. As far the connection between morality and spirituality, i would say morality exists not in the physical world but the mental, emotional world. So moral terms like responsibility and generosity are felt. We talk about a moral compass on a soul level.
I think the connection between the moral compass and spirituality, or the soul, is just semantic. It's just making the distinction from the physical to the emotional and conceptual.
Not sure how i clear i was but again, great post!
This has to be one of the best podcasts out there. Raain, phenomenal work. Listening to Rick open up makes me look deeper into the internal issues I had growing up.
I could have watched 6 more hours of this! Loved it so very much :) Rick Glassman's memory is unmatched :)
I’m happy he shared about his autism diagnosis. my kids have ASD and it was refreshing to hear his story.
I’m an autistic self advocate and ambassador on the board of an autism self advocacy organization. I live for these conversations. And I also love my autism. I’d love to talk to you both! lol I just paused this video at the point of breaking down autism and brushing on the topic of masking. I have spent the last few years on my own personal hero/healing journey. I had to stop this video and post another comment stressing the part about more in depth of the autistic experience. I would love to talk with you guys about it all. I have a few special interests. Some of which simultaneously come and go in cycles. But for the past I don’t even know how many years at this point, the top interests have been autism, psychology, spirituality and philosophy. With a side of mental health and wellness. As I mentioned earlier, I live for these conversations and would love to speak with you guys in more depth.
Let me know👍🏻
I cried - I don't know who either of you are - youtube gave me this in my feed - but thank you. My daughters both have ASD and probably me.. Truly thank you for this video - I can't really understand why it made me feel so much stuff - but it did - and thank you.
See, the autism discussions are so important, especially for women. Women with autism present in a different way than what is typically recognized as being "autistic". So many in my life were like "duh, we know".. But there were a few who said I wasnt.. I thought the same too, like.. You have no idea what I do when people arent around. You know the masked me. You have nooo idea what goes on in my head. It got worse when everyone started self diagnosing on tiktok.. Now, everyone thinks everyone is just making up that they're autistic to be "different"
autism is fake, look at the rate of diagnosis over the past few decades, its totally manufactured.
Rick is a fascinating human being. The level of self awareness is astonishingly admirable. My brilliant boy’s mind moves as quickly and I pray he can also one day be this in-tune to who he is. We’ve always spoken openly (he’s now 11)..never an excuse but sometimes an explanation of why he feels/acts/thinks a certain way. I wish he knew you in real life. Thank you for being you and for sharing so intimately. My guy is hilarious but he doesn’t know just how much so! Much to say, but thank you. Thank you for your humor, your candor, and to your folks for raising such a great guy!
Rick-If you ever chat with common peeps..we’ll take our shoes off!
Love that this is the first episode and shocked that these two weren’t already great friends. There wasn’t an awkward moment and their chemistry is great. Love you both!
I believe Rainn has some morals .. I hope Rainn will distance himself from this disgusting dude when he learn more about ricks morals!
@@BLUE-wk8wh since I see you’re commenting on a lot of people’s comments, you want to expand on that?
@@theotherjenna go watch Rick be all buddy buddy with Chris Delia and co and all the excuses he has for why it’s okay to be friend with and give time on his show for predators ✌️
I love Rick so much. Selling your autism, so relatable. It’s one of my most frustrating things. “Idk dude everybody does that” “you don’t seem autistic”. It’s inevitable. I don’t even bring up my autism all that much, only in situations where I kinda have to and it’s always met with judgement and stupid questions
The core difference between spirituality and religion, is that you’re *beholden* to something outside yourself, whereas in spirituality you’re not.
Honestly, best Guest!
Spirituality as in you are beholden to nothing > means letting go of all that is not nothing. There is no core but God! Blessings to you all friends
Thats just like, your opinion, man.
So from the outside observers perspective there is no difference?
When we die there is nothing. Sorry kids.
I appreciate the vulnerability and willingness to be open. Great episode
I honestly don’t know if I want to seek diagnosis at 31, because I guess I just don’t even want to learn how to make myself act like most of the people around me. I don’t want to pathologize my struggle with existing.
Maybe I also don’t even feel worthy of trying to make others live around a mental state that just impacts my internal functioning at this point. I can hate myself, that’s fine, I really have spent 31 years getting comfortable with that idea and learning how to just be as small and flexible as possible to be functional in society. I majored in communication, then got a post graduate degree in communication just to learn what’s going on in other people’s brains. Like Rick I learned facial expressions and studied them intensely because I was sick of feeling lost. I’ve built a life, a career, a family, without an autism diagnosis. But man the visible relief Rick is expressing when explaining his reaction to getting diagnosed really is making me think. I’m so happy for this man I know nothing about 😂😊
Thank you Rick for allowing yourself to be so transparent and letting us in. Your journey is perfection! I to am an actor and I must say I truly enjoy watching you do what you do as an actor! I wish you continue success in your personal life and in your career.
I come back to this episode once every couple weeks. This episode makes me feel very comfortable, like spending time with good friends. Isn’t it crazy how TH-cam and a podcast can give me that deep safe feeling just by watching a video. Thanks Rick and Rainn. This is a great one.
Rick Glassman... saving people since 2019
As a perspn on the autistic spectrum, i was very pleased by this first convo. The blunt, honest conversation very much resonates with me.
With regard to umbrella of neurodivergencies such as autism, ADHD, and AudASD, it has often been assumed that the character of Dwight was autistic and that Rainn is undiagnosed on the spectrum.
how did you know that you should seek out help to try and figure out if you were autistic, like I wanna do it but there are so many steps and I don't know where to start, I am already bipolar, ADHD, avoidant personality disorder and social anxiety, but like after having lived alone and not worked for a very long time I no longer feel like the bipolar fots, that was something that would have fit when I had to be under a lot of stress all the time, but what if I'm misdiagnosed, like I've never fit in, I feel like people intentionally misunderstand me all the time, I have a lot of sensory issues but that can be the ADHD though.
Here we go !!!
Can I just add to the list of wonderful feedback, that it’s so pleasantly refreshing and humble for Rainn to go through and like people’s comments and reply to them? You don’t see that hardly ever anymore, and it’s not like he’s just some small-time podcast who’s getting his first ever public attention, either. What a wholesome dude, not just for the show but all the way around.
This is incredible. What an episode!
This is an absolute goldmine, thanks for being so open Rick
#1 Comedian/Podcaster in the World
Only makes sense he'd be episode #1
I named my daughter after you 🫶🏽 her nickname is “Rainn Wilson” 😂 I was about 3 months pregnant and I was watching “Rainn Wilson and the Geography of Bliss” and we still didn’t have a baby name picked out at the time. I related to the show and fell in love with the name Rainn! I definitely recommend watching “Rainn Wilson and the Geography of Bliss”
Love this interview. Finally a deeper dive into the mind of Rick. And honestly it allows me to better understand my son and his superpowers
This was fantastic. I could listen to these two talk for hours and hours. I could listen so much that my arms would get so tired.
Boy, ours are!