Three (Favorite) Feminine Ideal Types in Classic Literature | The Home Librarian Series | Common Mom

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  • @britgauger5334
    @britgauger5334 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Possibly my favorite Little House moment is when the family is crossing the creek in their covered wagon. The water rises unexpectedly and the horses flounder. Pa has to jump into the water to guide the horses so he yells at Ma to grab the reins. She is scared but she doesn’t panic. She expertly holds the team as they cross the water, remembering to make sure Laura and Mary are being safe and obedient in the back. Once they’re safely across she then turns to her husband for comfort. I think the scene not only encapsulates Ma’s strength, but is also the epitome of female fortitude. I love it!

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว

      Boom. YES. Do you remember when she hurts her foot and just carries on taking care of that which must be done with cheerfulness? I love how trustworthy she is as a wife and mother.

    • @britgauger5334
      @britgauger5334 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep. And she didn't even have real coffee every morning!

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@britgauger5334 The bar is now too high. ;)

  • @hannahbaker2856
    @hannahbaker2856 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I propose that all mothers should listen to this video once per postpartum. It hits differently on round #2!

  • @kazmynjohannes5163
    @kazmynjohannes5163 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What I love about Marme is that she appreciates and loves her daughters as persons. As individuals. It’s so beautiful

  • @emmaogilvie9908
    @emmaogilvie9908 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was hoping you’d say Marmee! I’ve been so inspired by the conversation with Jo where she says “I am angry nearly every day of my life.”
    Would love some recommendations of books with masculine/paternal ideal types for my husband.

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, I hope to do a male one too! The lit life for kids (next week) will talk about some for boys, if you have sons!

  • @TshOxenreider
    @TshOxenreider ปีที่แล้ว +7

    All excellent choices, Autumn! Thanks for the boost of encouragement right at the start of another school year. Oh, and this encouragement pours downstream (upstream? hmm) to those of us with teenagers as well, because these truths remain true throughout all of mothering. 💛

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah, glad to hear it. I suspected women like these three (er, four) would only grow dearer to over the years and I'm happy to know I was right.

  • @exploringgodscreation-
    @exploringgodscreation- ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! I really enjoyed this! As a mother of three toddler boys, I can definitely learn a lot from Marmee!
    "Is what I'm feeling right? If not I need to control it and command it towards what is right."
    "Marmee learned to command herself towards what is good, even if it is not what she was feeling in the moment."

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Have you read Jo's Boys? I haven't yet but my mom-to-three-boys-pal *loves* it for her not-Little Women life.

    • @exploringgodscreation-
      @exploringgodscreation- ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thecommonplacehomeschool No I haven't. I'll have to buy a copy, thanks for the recommendation!

  • @beckymay439
    @beckymay439 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We just read Farmer Boy and over the past few weeks whenever I feel tired, I think of how ‘Ma’s hands were always flying’ and try to make mine do the same.

  • @brittakneek
    @brittakneek ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this whole video but I REALLY loved that last part. Thank you for this.
    -Military Mom

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy to hear it! Bless you, military mom! You're in good company with the Penelopes and Marmees.

  • @amymalo7390
    @amymalo7390 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES! Preach against the toxic “Self Care” culture!! Loved this video.

  • @kerinac1909
    @kerinac1909 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I knew you were going to say Marmee. I read it a few years ago and she was by far my favorite character.

  • @GraceGerardot
    @GraceGerardot 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I related to all the March sisters, but Amy the most.

  • @Yesica1993
    @Yesica1993 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I haven't read The Odyssey, but I adore Little Women and the Little House books.
    I hope you do a video one for the masculine side, too! Boys are so desperate for good role models today.

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oooh, good idea! I have a video coming about the literary life of my kids and it definitely features siblings pods and good boys!

  • @RaeBehrs
    @RaeBehrs ปีที่แล้ว

    I love and absolutely agree with all of the types you chose! "Little Women" and the Little House books are some of my favorites! I remember hating The Odyssey when I read it in High School. Penelope was so honorable and Odysseus was shacking up with goddesses in the meantime. It infuriated me. I haven't picked it up since. I will revisit it someday, but I do not think I'll have any more love or admiration of Odysseus. I have "The Odyssey For Boys and Girls" (as well as "The Illiad for Boys and Girls" and "The Aeneid for Boys and Girls") by Alfred Church that I plan on reading through with my kids sometime soon. We are currently reading "The Heros" by Charles Kingsley for bedtime right now!

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You weren't supposed to tell people what he's doing! But yes, I'm with you. She's a vision of feminine glory and I love her.

  • @carolynrunck9118
    @carolynrunck9118 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the video! When I was a kid I always wanted to be Amy! And of course for Little House books I always wanted to be Laura... and when I started reading the Little House picture books to my daughter, I had this sudden realization... I'm Ma!

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm hearing (a good bit) that people wanted to be Amy! Love hearing how others read the story.

  • @laurenperron4130
    @laurenperron4130 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this so much! I also really loved Mother Mason by Aldrich (especially as children get older) and Mama's Bank Account by Forbes.

  • @knveteto
    @knveteto ปีที่แล้ว

    Autumn, I really enjoyed the wisdom and humanizing images you shared in this episode. I was both convicted and inspired and I appreciated both! Thank you!!

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Convicted and inspired-good books will do that to you! I'm so glad you connected with these women and hope you enjoy (re)visiting them in their stories!

  • @Hookhamhomestead
    @Hookhamhomestead ปีที่แล้ว

    Really enjoyed this video! Thank you for reminding me of the work of the mother and finding beauty in that.

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So happy to hear it and to pass along some of the literary women who have been (and are) dear friends to me.

  • @AndreaSorial
    @AndreaSorial ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh I just love your episodes. They make me smarter I think.

  • @humblyhaley
    @humblyhaley ปีที่แล้ว

    All of these examples are wonderful! I’m inspired to finally pick up The Odyssey, which has very patiently been waiting on my bookshelf for years. 🙈

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว

      Excellent! If you find your translation difficult to read, allow me to suggest the Everyman's Library one. The translation can make or break a first read!

  • @annamattos8627
    @annamattos8627 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't like "Gone with the Wind", because I find Scarlett O'Hara annoying, but the book does have a single redeeming quality, which is Melanie Wilkes.

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, this happens a lot in great books. The main character is not the shining star.

  • @carolinerosekraft2575
    @carolinerosekraft2575 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It seems we never hear the words duty or industry anymore. Accepting those two aspects of motherhood is essential to finding contentment in the child rearing years!

  • @anamurray3444
    @anamurray3444 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I haven't yet read anything from Alcott but your channel has inspired me to do so. I was gifted a book box set which includes Little Women, Little Men, Jo's Boys, and Good Wives in this order. From other TH-cam channels, it seems to me that Little Women and Good Wives go together. Therefore, do you recommend reading Little Women and Good Wives back to back and then Little Men and Jo's Boys? Or would you read them in the same order the box set has them in? Would love your insight/recommendation!

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ooh, great question (and so excited for you to enter the world of the March family!): I would say it's helpful to read Little Women before Little Men, but I don't think you need to read Good Wives before Little Men!

    • @anamurray3444
      @anamurray3444 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks@@thecommonplacehomeschool !

  • @aub8687
    @aub8687 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was wonderful! Thank you for taking the time and uplifting others. It’s always a good reminder as to why we are mothers and the great and sacred role we have in this journey.

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much and you're quite welcome! We moms need inspiring ideas too!

  • @kerrytouchet9613
    @kerrytouchet9613 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely. Thank you.

  • @AndreaSorial
    @AndreaSorial ปีที่แล้ว

    I am also weary of the demands of self care. I find that stressful. Haha. I'm glad I'm not the only one🎉

  • @maddiediorio1010
    @maddiediorio1010 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loving your videos!! Where did you get your chotkis (both the small bracelet and the full rope)? I can only ever find chotki bracelets that are big and chunky and look better on a male wrist, but yours are beautiful and dainty!

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!
      And yes, totally know what you mean. I also wanted something a little daintier (my wrists are too small for anything chunky!):
      Smaller one: www.etsy.com/listing/1079790676/komboskini-prayer-ropejesus?ref=yr_purchases
      Larger one: stpaisiusgiftshop.com/mt-athos-russian-prayer-ropes/athos-50-knot-prayer-rope-with-wooden-bead/

  • @larissabess7617
    @larissabess7617 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi! I'd love to hear more from the episode on being a firm door for our children, do you know which Scolé Sisters episode it was?

  • @HMSmueller
    @HMSmueller ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely always identified as a Meg 😂 as the oldest of 4 girls, my mom would also call me Meg.

    • @thecommonplacehomeschool
      @thecommonplacehomeschool  ปีที่แล้ว

      I love Meg! And I would certainly do the same if I had four girls. You're just asking for it!

  • @Spencer_Lacey
    @Spencer_Lacey ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent choices!! My eldest daughter is Penelope 🤎