RELATIONSHIPS: love what is - Byron Katie
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- Byron Katie, founder of The Work, has one job: to teach people how to end their own suffering. As she guides people through the powerful process of inquiry she calls The Work, they find that their stressful beliefs-about life, other people, or themselves-radically shift and their lives are changed forever. Based on Byron Katie's direct experience of how suffering is created and ended, The Work is an astonishingly simple process, accessible to people of all ages and backgrounds, and requires nothing more than a pen, paper, and an open mind.
Through this process, anyone can learn to trace unhappiness to its source and deal with it there. Katie (as everyone calls her) not only shows us that all the problems in the world originate in our thinking: she gives us the tool to open our minds and set ourselves free.
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"I don't do the work so someone will stay with me, I do the work to have a happy life because I am the one that I have to live with,"
This is how I understand what Byron is saying: "No man is your enemy, no man is your friend, every man is your teacher." Become impersonal and learn what each man has to teach you, and soon you will learn your lessons and be free. We've gotten caught up in what we believe about what the other does or doesn't do, but that is only identifying with the ego, it is duality and opposition which offers no gifts to you. That way keeps you suffering and in bondage. Once you learn and practice to go within every single time you feel a tinge, pang or negative trigger you too can experience what Byron is talking about. Doing it that way offers the greatest gifts of all.... FREEDOM! It is a beautiful thing!
I am in a relationship with a woman who listens to BK. It is the healthiest relationship that I have ever been in. I am very much in love, and I am grateful for what BK has shared.
So let's hope your girlfriend doesn't have to do all the work for you, too. :/
Im so happy you shared this, thank you. I'm so happy you are in love and you have affirmed something for me :) Hooray for happy healthy romantic relationships.
Your few words move me deeply. Thank you for taking the action to post them here. I wish you a beautiful relationship no matter what. You are worthy of each other!
Wow!!! 😀 One day my boyfriend will say the exact thing about me. ☺
@Pumanawa Healing Sending love to you. Perhaps try doing a Judge Your Neighbor Worksheet on that thought. Might reveal a lot to you and even give you a chance to set yourself free.
Reason I reach out is because it only takes one to have peace according to byron katie. And I've personally witnessed this myself.
Hope peace comes to you too.
I love the phrase: "NO TWO PEOPLE HAVE EVER MET"
And I would add: "THERE IS NO TWO PEOPLE. THERE IS ONLY ONE"
That sums it all for me. 💫
No, there are 2 people.
Maybe only 1.5 people.
I don't know. Maybe I'm not good at maths! :)
@@rankemperor I got it, what im wondering about its just.. why even have a relationship then?
@@cretaceostrapulazza5918 :)
This is the only thing I disagree with her on. I belive that people can really meet and understand the same, not a 100%, but there can be authentic, honest and real connection. I wonder where we (humans) can go - if we combine Byrin katies work, with John Demartini method, The giraff language and Circling.. There are som manny great thinkers - what if we combined some of their methods? =) Excited.
Byron Katie has done the remarkable. Through her "work" she is enabling all who do it become conscious and live happier lives. The ancient sages felt that such awakening was reserved only to a few. Thank you!
BK is the REAL thing. She has the highest level of understanding about reality. What one may perceive as her lacking in understanding or explaining something is just that to the egoic mind there's gotta to be more answers. Think of Forrest Gump or Peter Sellers character in Being There. Joy is our natural state of being, out crazy ego is just a genius at disguising it from us. God bless all on your journeys to wholeness. R
Perfect.
She DOES have such sparkling eyes! I so appreciate the heart and mind of this beautiful human being! And how amazing is it that she provides so much for free and we just need to do the work. Thank you beautiful ladies for this interview!❤💕 💜💗💜💗💜
Lilou is such a great interviewer! And Byron Katie illuminates in every interview!
Byron Katie is pure Love.
"they are talking about me, they think, but they are the ones experiencing all of that." Nice.
Wow! thank you for the re-emphasis.
I love this woman. And I love your interviewing skills Lilou. Your videos are fantastic ♥️
Love her questions, how she starts and ends the interview is amazing!
Love is deep compassion and deep compassion is protecting animals.
Thank you..FANTASTIC to listen to and experiece Byron Katies perception, her sparkling genuineness and clarity. Takes suffering human to the light! I feel deeply touched ...
I need these perspectives, thank you Lilou for sharing and giving so freely.
thank you so much for asking that question about the other person not been spiritual.
Gee, I just came over from Marianne Williamson speaking on Intimacy in her ongoing (decades of teaching) on The Course in Miracles and she said the same thing.. I’ve sure had Enough of trump’s lessons..
love Byron Katie's work, it's had a profound effect to my life! thanks lilou great interview!!!
thank-you. I needed to hear this today. it brought tears to me. thankyou.
Merci Lilou d'avoir interviewer Bayron Katie, j'avais déjà visionné le skype que vous avez réalisé toutes les deux , ça serait vraiment magnifique si tu pourrais traduire celui ci en Français vu que je suis Francophone, je suis une membre du défi des 100 jours depuis maintenant 3 ans et je te remercie pour tous ce que tu fais!
Thank you both.
Love your Chanel! ❤️✌️ such great energy you have pulling out the best of the people you interview. Lots of love❤️
This is a good interview, but BK always says the same thing. She just reels the bit about connection and friendly universe over and over. Lilou asked two interesting questions on sensitivity and the subconscious mind - and BK couldn't answer, either. Disappointing.
I agree that BK is repeating a lot and always out to 'sell' the Work, she seems very focused on that. But I found she did answer those 2 questions, the sensitivity is about projecting your story on someone else's words and she talked about a way to make the subconscious more conscious. But I must say I didn't really understood the question Lilou was asking about the subconscious. I liked the previous interview of Lilou and BK better.
Yes, Katie is not good at explaining her understanding but is very good at living it 😛
@@MegaHealer There's just nothing other to say man.. thats the point
cretaceo strapulazza Yes, absolutely. Katie is amazing. It’s just that some also have the talent to yap and articulate better, which is important for clarity too.
interlocutrice inspirante à qui vous accordez une belle écoute.
Une belle expérience de connexion effectivement. Merci !
Génial!!!merci Lilou merci Katie :) amazing!!!!
Great interviewer.
Clever
Yes yes yes totally.
Lovely interview Lilou....THankyou
thank you
That was beautiful Lilou, thank you so much! Next time you manage to interview Byron I'd love an in depth interview about the illusion we live in, I'd love to hear more about that, how does that work, and is there anything for real here? If so, what is real and how can we now. Is it true that we live in an illusion, can she be sure? Do the work on Byron about this! ;-) Merçi beaucoup cherie co createur!
Dommage que cette vidéo ne soit pas traduite en français, Lilou
Wonderful
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I wonder if the work is an effective tool for Aboriginal and Doukhobor people that were taken from their families at a young age and therefore traumatised due to a lack of love and support and all the fall-out that also caused.
Nice interview Lilou.
I highly doubt a six year old who is being verbally abused day in and day out by a parent has the capability to say to themselves... “this has nothing to do you me”
You are correct, I too was that little child, but clung to the negative words and made them my own and have suffered in my own prison ever since, I am 46 years old, and now I am finally starting to feel a flicker of freedom from them. Its not about blaming children, it's about becoming free ❤️🙏 love and light to you! ❤️❤️❤️
Not connected is called sociopathic. That's my husband. God can do all things. I know he will turn my husband around. Satan you are not gonna win...I believe God sent me into my husbands life to help him fight. I will pray and I will fight. My husband can and will have a normal life. God is good.
No compassion ability is genetic.
I like her and her teachings...however, in the case of relationships with abusive people, her viewpoint can be damaging. No one should accept abuse and projections.
Therese Rene she doesnt say accept it. In this video she explains it’s unnecessary to react or teach them, and it shows the other person who is physically hurt who not to live with. She says I’m not gonna live with that person but that person was believing his thoughts so he did that. It does not mean I have to be with this person, it is just unnecessary to suffer!
If Katy says (to her husband) that he is cold and uncaring I actually can believe that in the turnaround she will end up with saying to herself ' I'm cold and uncaring', as she teaches that she only deals with her own mind and not with the other person (22:29). Doesn't she want something from him too to do/give, isn't there a too big emphasize on your own capability of dealing (and having a relationship) with only your own mind and not with other real persons of flesh and blood. Or is this only my lack of holiness? Can she really have a relation with her husband if she teaches that actually one could only have a relation with her mind.....or is he also just an imagination (36:15)?
I just can't listen to BK at all since I've heard her, more than once, tell victims of sexual abuse that they didn't love their abuser enough. Isn't that victim blaming? Doesn't she push people into denial that way? And let's say someone hears this advice. If they later decide to abuse another, can't they just say if the other person didn't like it that they were just not loving enough? A little help here please. (So why post here? you might ask. I like this channel and was listening to another interview. That interview finished and automatically went to the next one--this one. I get the heebee geebies when BK comes up.) TY
It all comes back to self. If You love yourself and other's, You won't continue to give up (sacrifice) your freedom and love for someone else. We are not free untill All are free.
Thank you for your honesty. Dealing with with dysfunction (addiction, mental ilness)is not so neat and formulaic. Maybe it is! i need to listen to her more...
Katie’s mic didn’t work well.
In the last ten yrs, I've seen BK (gimme a Whopper w/cheese!) twice, both times on the free Friday night show where she sells her lucrative weekend package for God knows how much. Both times she spoke for a few minutes, then threw it open for questions. I'm pretty intuitive, folks, and I'll bet you a dollar that the first person she chose, each time, to ask a question was a plant, and the questions were agreed upon in advance. And holy toledo, the place turned into a victim's gallery just like that! Went on for hours! With all the dough she rakes in, BK is surely one of the 1%. (Love you, Lilou! There's no doubt you're for real).
Now Richie, why not do the Work on this statement you have.... is it true? ;-)
Anja Toetenel Is my statement true? Absolutely true. If you've seen BK, think about what I said, and you'll see for yourself that it's true.
Richie B BK's method is simple, but don't underestimate it! And the "victims" are the ones that most benefit from the Work. I use it myself and it works, like a few others do too, both from conservative methods as alternative/spiritual. I blend it together and have found a few things that I really Love. We're all different. I can't tell if it is true what you observe, for you it most obviously is so. I do hope this observation really promotes your happiness and wellbeing! If not, search for something better ;-) Have a beautiful day Richie!
Anja Toetenel Thanks for your sweet reply. Yes, my happiness has been increased. :-)
How could we possible know? Only by looking inside ourselves. I looked inside myself while listening interview after interview with Katie and discovered my true self. It cost me nothing
32:25 So she's basically saying that she could partner anyone..
Adam only had One choice. Lol
Mercy berkoo.
O my goodness🙉
If Byron as she says is always living with the perfect person why did she leave her first husband ???? was he not the perfect person??
He left her. It was too much for him to deal with her absence. She was always traveling.
it sounds like disasociation, and minding! not meditation. Meditation. is not reinterpreting thought it is seeing it. It may be a useful tool. That action does not seem caring to me!? a re interpretation that maybe denial!! Ommmmmm
The Work os not about reinterpretation, it's about seeing the reality beyond our egoic thoughts.
Stephen won't make love to me anymore...says I'm not the woman he married!
Donald Trump will keep the connection - maybe?