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Prove That You Love Me-The Work of Byron Katie®
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ม.ค. 2018
- At the 2018 New Year's Mental Cleanse in Los Angeles, a woman sits with Byron Katie and questions the thought “I want him to buy me a T.V.”
After the woman reads her thoughts about the situation, Katie says, “You actually just want him to prove himself. Notice how you treat him, how you feel, the look on your face, any stress in your legs, your chest, your shoulders, when you believe that it’s the television you want. Does your facial expression change? Do you punish him? Do you do the opposite: hide out in a smile? Your authentic answers always come from witnessing how you are in that moment with him.”
The woman gets quiet enough to notice that she can do The Work on her painful thoughts and, through inquiry, have a more loving relationship with herself and her boyfriend. Katie agrees. “You’re a person who knows that there’s a way out.”
"Love is connectedness. It is its own proof." -Byron Katie
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She is so stingy with love for herself but is a really good person in her heart because she is trying to find how tolove/like herself and stop being dependent on others to do it for her. She is brave to be so open about her neediness so we can all learn to do this work with ourselves. A great illustration of how to be persistent in doing the work to free yourself from the suffering created by your thoughts. Reminds me of how i project onto others what i don’t like or fear about myself.
Byron was so gentle and kind with this woman. It's very sweet to watch her gently help do the turnarounds so that the person maintains their own sense of self-worth all the while recognizing their own deficiencies.
There are no deficiencies.These are painful thoughts.But i get your point,it's sweet of Katie how she does that
Thank-you Katie and wonderful woman that was doing the worksheet in this video. I love when Katie says, "There are lots of ways to give yourself a hug, like buying yourself a diamond ring." I hope you buy yourself a Diamond ring and feel the warmth of that hug xoxo
Really eye opening. I see myself. Thank you
super powerful dialogue, thank you both of you.
Minute 29: Its like we use ppl as our bank so we dont have to use our own bank.
Im from Miami and this is so true! (right now)
What a great work, so moving on many levels, I can relate to almost everything in it. Thank you, both of you.
Thank you for uploading the video! Some beautiful gems on love and relationship in here! Thank you, Katie, for the incredible gift of the Work
Love Katie! She is awesome...
To watch this is so beautiful. It reminds me of me believing in so many thoughts and thanks to you and THE SCHOOL I learned, that I do not have to believe a single thought unless it makes me feel good;-) THANK YOU and A WONDER-ful NEW YEAR, Katie. Lots of Love Olivia from Germany
Amazing transformation. Thank you so much for sharing this!
Awesome; the transformation!!🌈💕🙏 the woman Katy is with clearly has wisdom and it’s touching to see it coming through...
Really nice work! I love Katie so much^ she gives us the way to freedom. Just keep doing the work.
Your recordings are clear and helpful
❤︎ Thank you
can we please have some long clips like this one but from the *"No-Body Intensive?"* i've been listening to KT and other wonderful wisdom teachers for a few decades now and the *No-Body* feels very much like a next step..just not aware yet of how or when i'll be able to attend one..thank you. 🙋🏾
Love it
Wow, how does Katy have patience with this woman?
Amazing xxx
very hard to hear BK even with earphones, sounds too hushed at full volume. Otherwise wonderful but such a strain for me.
BarbaraL Lowell is that true? It was such a strain for you? Maybe you weren’t supposed to hear it as it wasn’t a strain for any of us who listened, it was more like pure gold, it was a gift so maybe you weren’t ready to hear what was said. Do you always start and end all of your conversations with a complaint?
he wants to live with you!
If anyone can get through the #wallofsilence it's Bryon Katie
21:15 how about I want to be With that guy as my parents approved. Its very subtle
Okay, I am trying to appreciate that this women is being honest and vulnerable BUT WHO THE HECK DOES SHE THINK SHE IS !!!!!!!!! WHERE DOES THIS ENTITLEMENT COME FROM?????
I am a 54 year old female who has only ever commented on a utube video probably 3 times in life but listening to what this women thinks her boyfriend should do for her is outraging me. When I"m experiencing more sanity I will hopefully do the work on Judging myself.
Agreed. She sounds like a whiney gold digger.
Have you discovered by now that she isn't asking for things for the sake of the things. She is using it as a safe way to see how much he cares but she doesn't see at first that is why she is doing it.
She is complaining that her bf won't buy her a tv. Is this for real??? Why doesn't Byron Katie just tell her that she is just a selfish, entitled cow? It would save a lot of time.