Right!! ❤❤❤. I loved her. Articulate and a great storyteller. Her voice is so calming as well. She was talking to Owamie like she's talking to her friend ❤.
The host should interject sometimes like; we don't know if she (guest) told her husband that his mom was taking his undies and socks, and we don't know what his response was. Also, no follow up question on the threat made by her mother in law on what was hubby's reaction or whether she told him that his mom said her son would return home. A few opportunities were missed.
its about spiritual warfare. So narcissists who represent satan go to church to steal, kill and destroy. Christian ladies are usually naive targets because we are called to love like christ.
Narcissistic men like the submissive and in-experienced ladies they find in church. Unfortunately for our young ladies they become easily manipulated because they do not know or they are not taught how to deal with these men. The mask then falls off in marriage, where for them it feels like they are trapped.
Nobody is perfect. Relationships are hard, But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
I honestly want to find happiness too. I've got a partner, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; my love for her is strong. I really miss her, and I'm fully committed to bringing her back. We've explored different paths, like therapy, to fix things.
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Kim is so calm, posed and well articulated. She narrated her story so well and in detail. God bless you woman of God. 💛💚🧡. Owamie u are so blessed mama. All these beautiful, intelligent wise woman, choosing and trusting your platform with their stories. and u welcome them with so much love and Grace. 💜💙🤎.
The second guest is so chilled and relaxed (such a chilled pooch 🐕🐶). My dog would be barking like mad. Probably my dog would even try to bite Owamie's hand 😅😅
I like you so much too Kimberly. And thank you so much for seeking God and I have loved the knowledge you have attained and now sharing through your experience🙏🏿 You’re a wonderful lady and speak so well❤️
I’m a married woman, this is our fifth year in marriage and struggling to conceive. I’m starting to believe there’s a third hand involved because I’m a Christian and believe in the living God and I’ve attended all scans and tests and my womb is very normal and fertile. This testimony truly touched me and gives me hope to continue trusting the convictions from the Word of God. Wow I’m so touched. God bless you always ladies ❤
Ooh Sis'- I pray that God remembers you and answers your prayers according to HIS PERFECT will for your life-when the TIME is right GOD will make it happen-take heart❤
I conceived finally at age 41 via IVF at Steve Biko. Mine was PCOS, but I know people who started alkaline lifestyle and conceived, some got rid of everything that causes stress, iron deficiency is an enemy too. Pray and have hubby checked too
@KimberlyVilane is my friend❤ I know God didn't allow you to go through so much for nothing.He will use you to heal a lot of women just like Owami's divorce journey helped a lot of women to heal..
Thank you ladies for highlighting that when you think God is “not answering” your prayers He knows better and just keep praying, fasting and He will always do the best for you
As a person who used to masturbate I can tell you it is a sin, I am now struggling with getting rid of spiritual husbands. Spirits I got while doing that. I pray everyday to get rid of them and they are stubborn. People should not masturbate
From the behavior she described her husband, he is far from a narcissist; a narcissist does not go so long before you see their traist, belittling, insulting, etc. I understand that narcissist is the new word, but it is an actual disorder that you cannot just hand to someone, In this case, it is clear the mother performed witchcraft on her son, his actions were not voluntarily. A narcissist is someone who has uncontrollable high sense of self-importance.
I was also trying to see why she says he’s a narcissist. The man was bewitched, he was under a powerful witchcraft spell and the sad thing is that the church could not help him. As for our lovely sister, do not be discouraged, prayer works. The problem is usually that we’re not praying the right prayer. For example if the person is bewitched, the one interceding must target the witchcraft powers to break their hold. If you target a narcissist demon you will miss the mark and the witchcraft spell will remain intact. May God help us all learn to ask God what prayer we should be praying in specific situations.
Need to familiarize yourself with books explaining narcissist. I think both the mother and son are narcissist. One of the traits about narcissist is that they are witches 😢
This pastor husband was bewitched by his mom, they do that so that their sons don't marry and move around moving from one woman to another, hurting women's feelings in the process. Which means he was vele a virgin hence masturbating and it looks like his mom knew that her son released the tension that way and unfortunately Mzalwane Mamfundisi was clueless and young in protecting her young pastor's semen, by rather washing that herself hence mamazala bewitched him and used that to her advantage cos they always do those who don't want their sons to marry, they do extremely scary things. It tells that she married a good guy, unfortunately the powers of the devil defeated them both, it's so sad, but God is good all the time, mamazala will answer in heaven.
It's also important to note that Narcissists deliberately seek out women in the church. Because their first inclination will be to blame themselves. Then they will want to pray and fast thier marital problems away. Doing the most, while they continue to endure abuse.
Kimberely is a walking testimony. Imagine getting married so early and experiencing such trauma. Your destiny is meant to educate young women out there.
Kimberly is me, I'm Kimberly. I got married young and that marriage traumatized me. My ex husband did exactly what Kimberly's ex did. I'm still single today 7 years after the divorce. I'm scared of bazalwane men.
I've been on a journey trying to understand what type of person my dad is. I just realized that he's a narcissist. A whole church leader and a wanna be pastor
If you are a woman with a character like Kim please don't get married 😂men must hear your fotsek every now and then. Imagine gone for 6 months and you this calm noo be a Dineo Ranaka my sister
Thank God I am not the only one who pound the wedding ring. I did the same and I was with my friend , we went to out for lunch. My friend evn today she still reminds me... Sisoba stongo sisterz. We soldered it!
I just don't understand this weird obsession of boy moms. Why they feel possessive over them ?! And having to be entitled to their marriages and having access whenever they want. As for saying," uzobuya" It was just a huge red flag. I always say this that being at church doesn't necessarily mean everyone is holy and you actually meet the worst of people there. The mother inlaw knew what she was doing with his underwear.
It doesn't make sense at all😢. It's like they start thinking the sons belong to them and they have no right to provide and love other women. One groom's mom confronted the bride's mother, telling her that the son is her husband and they had worked hard to educate him (but she was pretending to the bride - even saying the day was blessed and beautiful). I think we need to start asking God to reveal red flags in MILs prior marriage and for a special protecting. They should've never stayed with her. Also MILs must remember sons have their own lives and have a right to faithfully love their wives and be good fathers. Often sons must play the husband's role - nothing wrong with providing but boundaries must be in place. It's scary.
As a mother of two sons. I believe they don't belong to me. They are borrowed and entrusted to me by God. I want them to be free the day they choose to marry because again...I may have given birth to them but they are not my possessions but rather an extension of their father and myself.
@keepitfrankwithfentse true! It should be that way as a mother. You nurture them and care for them. However, that time is going to come when they want to fend for themselves and start a new life elsewhere. They should not hold them hostage or have this perception that they belong to them. Some women have that weird attachment that gives of incest. Yes you will forever have that bond but it should not be to that extent. Some women so badly want to popularize this thing of them being the boys first and only true love imagine??! Its disgusting waitsi
@mercymsezeni838 bathong??! They're so possessive over them. This is so wrong man in so many levels. They have this mentality of them being the first and only true love for their boys imagine??! Hence the weird entitlement. They also need to breathe and have lives of their own. These women will go to an arms length to overprotect and remove potential mates. Ive seen so much stories on such.
My divorce decree was the also the best thing that could have ever happened to me. After cheating and not supporting his children, he instituted the divorce, which I accepted and signed. Thank God it happened then. I could have framed it, because 2 years down the line, he was owing so many people. My divorce decree saved me, if it wasn't for that, I would have had attachment on whatever assets I had. I just produced it and no lawyer could touch me, because he was not working.
I think it’s true that you attract the spirit that will want to destroy you. I always attract man who want money from me and they are never apologetic about it
I pray that now that you have discerned that spirit, GOD may grant you the grace to spot it miles away -again Nomsa that's another 'tell-tell sign'' that you are blessed [they see it in the realm of the spirit]hence they approach you unapologetically.❤❤❤
Introspection is needed. Do you date younger men who do nit have resources? Do you flash your resources around. Do you give money to guys you date early in a relationship? Are you easily manipulated? Are you a ppl pleaser? Do you try & buy love. Users are looking for ppl that have no boundaries, are overly sympathetic & ppl pleasers. Sometimes the ppl we attract shows us areas in our psyche that needs change & or healing.
I was involved with a narcissist. I know exactly what she is talking about. If I relay my story to anyone. Only a few will understand. They are serial manipulators, gaslighters, they thrive in toxicity, their public image is a different human being, they will isolate you, will ghost you for nothing, abusive and hide the abuse so well, the list go on and on. I get her. I fought.
Exactly, the Spirit of GOD tried to warn, but I wanted so much to be married and have family. We do not expect the devil’s children to be in church, being young and naive until they have us in their grip. I went thru similar but not as this. That’s why we need more conversation to call them out into the light so our girls can be aware of these wolves in sheep’s clothing in the church. It was many many years, I just did not understand the behavior, hoping and praying. Then I saw an article on narcissistic personality disorder, I read it and most every symptom fit. I finally knew what the problem had been all along. Expose, no longer hide this topic, people in families and churches need to know bout narcs in the church, they have hurt/harmed so many of us.
I hear the Mother in law this,my husband did this, sisters in the church this, but this days I'm like, but God where are U in this. I mean u prayed, u fasted, u declared the word of God. Why is God allowing the devil to win, whyyyyyy
I cannot answer for God but what I've noticed is our pain births our ministry. We experience this things(while God is in it with us) for His glory. If for eg I was a Ps in a successful marriage because I was a proverbs 31 woman I would not relate to other women going through these things because I would tell them things like pray harder, fast etc. Whereas more women (non-believers included) will be able to identify with Kim because she has walked that journey and after all these she is praising God for carrying her through.
God was there all the time, just because God doesn't act when u want Him to it doesn't mean He's not there but trust and believe when u are down and out and ready to throw in the towel God shows up you even forget the why because He does it in ways we can not even understand or explain but God shows up for sure.
The devil didn't win because she's still breathing, God defeated everything and everyone for her she was just with the wrong man, maybe she chose Him and didn't let God do the choosing for her hey.
What if that was not the man God ordained for her, remember she said the man showed him she was her husband, but she didn't say God showed her also he was her husband.
Yooo I agree with the above comment why do we church girls end up falling for narcissistic men😢 I also relate completely and now understand why my divorce had to happen.
Yoo I have just been silent thinking that people will say I'm just a heartbroken ex wife. I divorced my husband in absentia in 2011 it took 4 full years for me to granted divorce decree my life was stuck coz he was no where to be found now I understand narcissistic character. 🤔
She’s a great story teller and she doesn’t lose her train of thought ❤️ A Queen this one ❤️
Wow,thank you so much. My son would say otherwise -thank you
She is heyyyy ❤❤❤what a Lady 🥰.
@@KimberlyVilane😂 Sons are like our biggest critics. I have two..but the unconditional love is my fav thing about them.
Right!! ❤❤❤. I loved her. Articulate and a great storyteller. Her voice is so calming as well. She was talking to Owamie like she's talking to her friend ❤.
She is
Owamie is such a good interviewer,she allows her guests to tell their story and doesn’t interject unnecessarily..❤
The host should interject sometimes like; we don't know if she (guest) told her husband that his mom was taking his undies and socks, and we don't know what his response was.
Also, no follow up question on the threat made by her mother in law on what was hubby's reaction or whether she told him that his mom said her son would return home. A few opportunities were missed.
she could do better, she let's the guests speak and speak and doesn't ask questions when needed I think.
could not agree more
That’s why I love listening to her channel
I agree fully 🙌🏽🙌🏽
The way we church ladies attract narcissists needs to be studied. What a relatable story, thank you Ninja you’re really serving the best content 🙌🏽
its about spiritual warfare. So narcissists who represent satan go to church to steal, kill and destroy. Christian ladies are usually naive targets because we are called to love like christ.
Charismatic churches SPECIFICALLY.
Narcissistic men like the submissive and in-experienced ladies they find in church. Unfortunately for our young ladies they become easily manipulated because they do not know or they are not taught how to deal with these men. The mask then falls off in marriage, where for them it feels like they are trapped.
@@keepitfrankwithfentseit occurs in any church, even traditional churches
Sana!🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️
Nobody is perfect. Relationships are hard, But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
I honestly want to find happiness too. I've got a partner, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; my love for her is strong. I really miss her, and I'm fully committed to bringing her back. We've explored different paths, like therapy, to fix things.
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
I promise you will not regret it
Church folk be in pergatory which is a wide spectrum with verbally addressing sin, something like a thick personal trainer.
Ladies, always remember that there's also a devil in the church.
That's where the devil hides in plain sight. Spirit of discernment is important.
Oh yes, the devil always creates a parallel path, he imitates what’s in the kingdom of God.
@@africanbrowny Extremely important and unfortunately not everyone gets it.
Indeed. Church is a hospital for spiritual issues 😢
Devil is actually not in the bar, they are in churches, on the pulpit, in the choir and in the congregation
My goodness the dog takes the cup so calm and disciplined 😅😅
Just like her mom.their energy really does Match…love it
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The dog behaved more than a human baby😮
With a name like Maranatha it understood the assignment 😊
Shes so nunus man❤😂
"you cannot co-parent with a narcissist " I felt that❕
you will feel like you are coparenting them and their egos
TELL ME ABOUT IT!!!!!!
@@Leboko80Terrible experience..... Narcissists are completely pathetic
What a good dog! My neighbor's dog would want to speak on the mic... that dog?!
What 😂😂😂😂
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You sound very traumatised xem by your neighbours dog🤭
@@tsakamhlabane9269😂😂
“ God definitely knows what His protecting us from.”
But we NEVER LISTEN SHAME‼️😭😭😩
The reason is we are using the ear of earth, that's y it's hard to hear our Lord God talking to us
The way this lady speaks about God😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ i love love this...Thank you Jesus for your Grace
I would love to reach that level
She is clear,she doesnt stutter
Wow so much love on this platform-thank you JESUS,thank you Owami, thank you ladies [beautiful ninjas]
Remember the days when the word "pastor" was attaced to honour and holiness
But it’s a scary word!😢
The dog said “If my mommy is successfully divorced then I’m successfully divorced too” 😂.
😂😂😂😂😂😂so true the dog it's out here minding it's own business 😂😂
Ninjas ..all the way from Zim ❤ the way she remembers dates and she truly loves God
Thank you Sis❤
Narcissism + Witchcraft = Disaster... The story of my life😢😢😢
Yoh say that again. Ukukhula Kunzima. Ppl need more than just God to protect themselves from predators.
Kim is so calm, posed and well articulated. She narrated her story so well and in detail. God bless you woman of God. 💛💚🧡. Owamie u are so blessed mama. All these beautiful, intelligent wise woman, choosing and trusting your platform with their stories. and u welcome them with so much love and Grace. 💜💙🤎.
Wow,wow the love on this platform is amazing -thank you so much for your words of life-to GOD be the glory.
Right ,Kim is so well articulated and Owamie is definitely so blessed to have this ladies come and tell their story 🥹
I agree ,I’m happy we Ninjas are beautiful,intelligent people 🥹❤️❤️
@@missj910 you truly are 🙏🙏🙏
@@KimberlyVilane
Aibo the second “person” is the dog?😭😂I was expecting a human being ahh😭😭🧍🏾♀️
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Me too 😂😂
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Me too😅.
😂😂😂😂 me too
Sometimes we think we are in the will on God but it is actually our will.
So very true😢
No disrespect ninjas
I'm 4 minutes in but my eyes are glued on Maranata❤❤❤
So cute Iyoh...
I don't blame you ❤❤
Lol maranata the Christian dog😂
Me too😂 I need one of these in my life.
LOVE isn’t intended to be THIS HARD‼️😭😭
Yhoo, bazalwane. And they always advice them to PRAY😭😭😭😭
A Christian perspective, I'm invested🔥
Us bazalwanes are invested
The lady is such a good story teller and I like that Owamie gave the woman space to speak. Above all that dog is well behaved.
Thank you Leira-all GLORY goes back to God ❤
The second guest is so chilled and relaxed (such a chilled pooch 🐕🐶). My dog would be barking like mad. Probably my dog would even try to bite Owamie's hand 😅😅
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😂😂😂 dogs of Jesus must always behave because they won't be invited to places😂❤❤❤
@@KimberlyVilane 😅😅😅😅🤞🏾🤞🏾
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Gosh I just love your guest. Such a lady!
Thank you so much 🙏
I like you so much too Kimberly. And thank you so much for seeking God and I have loved the knowledge you have attained and now sharing through your experience🙏🏿
You’re a wonderful lady and speak so well❤️
I’m a married woman, this is our fifth year in marriage and struggling to conceive. I’m starting to believe there’s a third hand involved because I’m a Christian and believe in the living God and I’ve attended all scans and tests and my womb is very normal and fertile.
This testimony truly touched me and gives me hope to continue trusting the convictions from the Word of God. Wow I’m so touched. God bless you always ladies ❤
Ooh Sis'- I pray that God remembers you and answers your prayers according to HIS PERFECT will for your life-when the TIME is right GOD will make it happen-take heart❤
Have checked with gynae, if not I can refer if you in jhb
I conceived finally at age 41 via IVF at Steve Biko. Mine was PCOS, but I know people who started alkaline lifestyle and conceived, some got rid of everything that causes stress, iron deficiency is an enemy too.
Pray and have hubby checked too
Have you tried maca root?
@@mirenke2014 I’m in Swaziland 🇸🇿, but joburg is only a 4 hour drive. I’m willing to sacrifice
@KimberlyVilane is my friend❤ I know God didn't allow you to go through so much for nothing.He will use you to heal a lot of women just like Owami's divorce journey helped a lot of women to heal..
Thank you so much my friend and also for introducing me to Queen Owami❤❤❤
Indeed. Marrying the same man twice abd going through so much was not in vein 😢
@@GodsFavourite2024 Amen and Amen 🙌
Thank you ladies for highlighting that when you think God is “not answering” your prayers He knows better and just keep praying, fasting and He will always do the best for you
Amen 🙏
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AMEN 🙏🏾
The church is hospital for people who are sick and seeking healing be careful
U so rite
And not of them are responding well to treatment
@@hangwelaninemathaga8333😂😂😂😂
Absolutely 💯
Yep
They not ready for musterbation is a sin
As a person who used to masturbate I can tell you it is a sin, I am now struggling with getting rid of spiritual husbands. Spirits I got while doing that. I pray everyday to get rid of them and they are stubborn. People should not masturbate
From the behavior she described her husband, he is far from a narcissist; a narcissist does not go so long before you see their traist, belittling, insulting, etc. I understand that narcissist is the new word, but it is an actual disorder that you cannot just hand to someone, In this case, it is clear the mother performed witchcraft on her son, his actions were not voluntarily. A narcissist is someone who has uncontrollable high sense of self-importance.
I was also trying to see why she says he’s a narcissist.
The man was bewitched, he was under a powerful witchcraft spell and the sad thing is that the church could not help him.
As for our lovely sister, do not be discouraged, prayer works. The problem is usually that we’re not praying the right prayer.
For example if the person is bewitched, the one interceding must target the witchcraft powers to break their hold. If you target a narcissist demon you will miss the mark and the witchcraft spell will remain intact.
May God help us all learn to ask God what prayer we should be praying in specific situations.
Need to familiarize yourself with books explaining narcissist. I think both the mother and son are narcissist. One of the traits about narcissist is that they are witches 😢
Narcissist are witches especially amongst blacks
@@nkagisangkoushu5828 I’m a psychology student, thank you.
Witchcraft isn’t a trait.
I was actually thinking about this.
The “to hell and back” intro slaps 🙂↕️
I'm fully invested in this story......women are going through a lot, eish
Soo painful...n we don't even support each other 😢aikhona 😢😢😢it's too much maan
Sister Kim is so smart and can articulate herself so perfectly.Can’t wait for part 2.
My names Kimberley too 🙈
Thank you Sis' -Blessings to you ''bitso''❤❤❤
@KimberlyVilane Hi sis is Vilane your maiden surname?
@@abigailvilane maiden surname is Dladla-marital surname is Vilane 🙏
@abigailvilane it's so beautiful to see you here. I admire u so much ma'am 💗
Seem like the husband is under a spell of his mother. He is not himself at all😢
Jezebel spirit is so real both in men and women
I honestly cannot blame the husband. He is the victim of the evil spirits used by his mother to control him.
Ppl love nmaking excuses for men.
This is tricky , when u are being controlled spiritually ur mind is also gone completely ?
My mother inlaw would come in whiles her son is naked!!
This pastor husband was bewitched by his mom, they do that so that their sons don't marry and move around moving from one woman to another, hurting women's feelings in the process.
Which means he was vele a virgin hence masturbating and it looks like his mom knew that her son released the tension that way and unfortunately Mzalwane Mamfundisi was clueless and young in protecting her young pastor's semen, by rather washing that herself hence mamazala bewitched him and used that to her advantage cos they always do those who don't want their sons to marry, they do extremely scary things.
It tells that she married a good guy, unfortunately the powers of the devil defeated them both, it's so sad, but God is good all the time, mamazala will answer in heaven.
The mother in law knows what she did to her son.😢
Yesssss she knowsssss😢😢😢
Strangely it doesn't sound like any of this is up to him. It's like he's possessed
Exactly 💯
And now she's gone I wonder how the man is now😢
That's what i was thinking!
It's also important to note that Narcissists deliberately seek out women in the church. Because their first inclination will be to blame themselves. Then they will want to pray and fast thier marital problems away. Doing the most, while they continue to endure abuse.
Yup they seek empaths
The moment he said God told me you are my wife I knew it was chiaaaas
These people know that church girls are desperate for marriage
And many religions blame the women for problems in marriage & tell them it's because they do not okay enough or are not submissive enough.
Owami is already losing weight look at her face ❤
the dangers of a spiritually blind Christian
That's the problem. The big one
Not all churches are the body of christ . Most are under spirit of religion
What do you mean
I think they loved each other problem ke mother in law. She used her forces to direct his marriage
She definitely played a huge part
She is so well spoken, God bless you sister Kim❤
God bless you more❤
@@KimberlyVilane well spoken indeed , I could listen to you speak all day . ❤️ God bless you sister Kim ☺️
@@juliarabotapi527 Wow -thank you so much,GOD BLESS YOU for me💜
Kimberely is a walking testimony. Imagine getting married so early and experiencing such trauma. Your destiny is meant to educate young women out there.
Glory to God 🙏 thank you so much 🙏. God bless you for me ❤❤❤
Kimberly is me, I'm Kimberly. I got married young and that marriage traumatized me. My ex husband did exactly what Kimberly's ex did. I'm still single today 7 years after the divorce. I'm scared of bazalwane men.
@@maytshifularo5415 oh my dearest -sending you a big-biggg ninja hug 🫂🫂. The Lord strengthen you and heal all your trauma's. ❤️❤️❤️
@@maytshifularo5415nam. Still wear the ring so men don't even think of approaching me😢
Owami I must say you look gorgeous my darling ❤
Eish mara women are going through hell, you are such a powerhouse
kim is so well spoken and classy
Very classy be boo😍😊
Thank you so much 🙏
Very classy
I loved listening to her so much
Narcissists dont want to be parents 🤞
💯 Correct ❤❤❤
I've been on a journey trying to understand what type of person my dad is. I just realized that he's a narcissist. A whole church leader and a wanna be pastor
@@beejjjj4106 May GOD grant you all the answers you are seeking in this journey 🙏💖💖💖
Beautifully told 🤞ladies careful if he comes with Bible to propose Ruun😂
True sis. They don't want responsibilities. They do whatever when they want to.
If you are a woman with a character like Kim please don't get married 😂men must hear your fotsek every now and then. Imagine gone for 6 months and you this calm noo be a Dineo Ranaka my sister
Bathong??!😂😂😂 why is this funny. Mara you are telling the truth men just love toxicity.
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What a story, I had to pause and take it in.. kim is such a lady❤
Thank you so much Yolanda -we bless GOD 🙏
Life is spiritual that we must keep in mind. Love bombing is also a spirit, an evil spirit which is a spell used mostly by narcissists!
Thank God I am not the only one who pound the wedding ring. I did the same and I was with my friend , we went to out for lunch. My friend evn today she still reminds me... Sisoba stongo sisterz. We soldered it!
God forgive me but i am still stuck on the dogs name😂
I know right?🤣🤣
But Samthandi Umaranatha❤
@@morongwesekopo2623 ewe Sana. Well behaved little doggie🤣
A dog of God 😂😂
A wrong spouse can send you to hell
Wrong spouse can literally made your life hell forever. They can even change your destiny 😔😔
I just don't understand this weird obsession of boy moms. Why they feel possessive over them ?! And having to be entitled to their marriages and having access whenever they want. As for saying," uzobuya" It was just a huge red flag. I always say this that being at church doesn't necessarily mean everyone is holy and you actually meet the worst of people there. The mother inlaw knew what she was doing with his underwear.
It doesn't make sense at all😢. It's like they start thinking the sons belong to them and they have no right to provide and love other women. One groom's mom confronted the bride's mother, telling her that the son is her husband and they had worked hard to educate him (but she was pretending to the bride - even saying the day was blessed and beautiful). I think we need to start asking God to reveal red flags in MILs prior marriage and for a special protecting. They should've never stayed with her.
Also MILs must remember sons have their own lives and have a right to faithfully love their wives and be good fathers. Often sons must play the husband's role - nothing wrong with providing but boundaries must be in place. It's scary.
As a mother of two sons. I believe they don't belong to me. They are borrowed and entrusted to me by God. I want them to be free the day they choose to marry because again...I may have given birth to them but they are not my possessions but rather an extension of their father and myself.
@keepitfrankwithfentse true! It should be that way as a mother. You nurture them and care for them. However, that time is going to come when they want to fend for themselves and start a new life elsewhere. They should not hold them hostage or have this perception that they belong to them. Some women have that weird attachment that gives of incest. Yes you will forever have that bond but it should not be to that extent. Some women so badly want to popularize this thing of them being the boys first and only true love imagine??! Its disgusting waitsi
@mercymsezeni838 bathong??! They're so possessive over them. This is so wrong man in so many levels. They have this mentality of them being the first and only true love for their boys imagine??! Hence the weird entitlement. They also need to breathe and have lives of their own. These women will go to an arms length to overprotect and remove potential mates. Ive seen so much stories on such.
A Queen, A Diva, woman of God.. Lot's of love mummy..
Well spoken and her story is well detailed
Thank you so much 🙏
Atleast u had 7yrs of beautiful marriage its a blessing some marriages dont last even for 5yrs ,,,❤
They don't last a year
What a beautiful episode! What a beautiful spiritual woman of God! Thanks Kim and Queen Ninja 🌸
Beautiful spiritually intelligent woman ❤
Thank you so much 🙏
Kim is beautiful and smart
Thank you so much 🙏
An open minded Christian- I love to see it❤️
What a well spoken queen.❤ she's so calm i love it😊
❤❤❤ Thank you so much
I agree to that knowing the background of the other party is very important even when your in a relationship check everything before you fall Sana
I can’t wait for part 2…please hasten it! I will be waiting
Yhoooo Sesi Kim. I pray I had your strength, calmness, composure.
I pray that God grants you the strength you need-His strength is made perfect in our weakness-take heart.
Stand by your convictions
It hit me😢
Everything about narcissism she is mentioning it says "the Nigerians guys the ladies were talking about in previous videos"😮
Yes we are here... Ninja signing in, how are you all
Owami, the way you gasped when the vaginismus was mentioned 😂😂
She is such a good storyteller. I absolutely enjoyed this episode.
One of the best episodes
What a crazy story😭😭
I want to hear the next story 😂😂
I love the way Kim is explaining the signs of narcissism. Unfortunately most of these signs you only see retrospectively.
My divorce decree was the also the best thing that could have ever happened to me. After cheating and not supporting his children, he instituted the divorce, which I accepted and signed. Thank God it happened then. I could have framed it, because 2 years down the line, he was owing so many people. My divorce decree saved me, if it wasn't for that, I would have had attachment on whatever assets I had. I just produced it and no lawyer could touch me, because he was not working.
Never give up laddies, just remember, God looks after the innocent party. I can personally vouch for it.
One of my friends got married when we were 18 and i think her life was never the same
I think it’s true that you attract the spirit that will want to destroy you. I always attract man who want money from me and they are never apologetic about it
I pray that now that you have discerned that spirit, GOD may grant you the grace to spot it miles away -again Nomsa that's another 'tell-tell sign'' that you are blessed [they see it in the realm of the spirit]hence they approach you unapologetically.❤❤❤
Introspection is needed. Do you date younger men who do nit have resources? Do you flash your resources around. Do you give money to guys you date early in a relationship? Are you easily manipulated? Are you a ppl pleaser? Do you try & buy love.
Users are looking for ppl that have no boundaries, are overly sympathetic & ppl pleasers. Sometimes the ppl we attract shows us areas in our psyche that needs change & or healing.
Interview 💯camera quality 💯. Ninja your listening skill ❤️
Ninja from Kenya signing in
Such a confident lady. Well spoken too❤👌
Sych a pure aura🥺💕..beautiful voice, beautiful soul she is.
My sister your story is just like mine dear. May God strengthen you and keep your focus to God. People are going to church but they don't fear God.
Thank you so much for your words- I will keep my focus on GOD indeed ❤
There is no narcissist here. Lo muntu was bewitched
I think so too
Yes it’s seems he is bewitched
So glad someone said it..
She's using "Narcissist" to run away from that..
She's in denial.
That dog❤ didn't bark one bit❤❤
😂😂😂 She's a good dog of Jesus.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 your too much 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She's a Christian dog guys😂😂😂
A dog that’s way closer to God kee sanna.akazwani nomsindo 😅
Ke motho.😅
That wasn't narcissism. Sounds like a cult
Narcissism sounds like a cult. True. I have been through it. Every characteristic is soooo similar. Narcissism is evil spirit... .
I believe you, Kimberly. You are literally speaking about my ex-husband without the ministry.
I was involved with a narcissist. I know exactly what she is talking about. If I relay my story to anyone. Only a few will understand. They are serial manipulators, gaslighters, they thrive in toxicity, their public image is a different human being, they will isolate you, will ghost you for nothing, abusive and hide the abuse so well, the list go on and on. I get her. I fought.
I know..
Bathong when is the episode of successfully divorced dropping?!😭
Sometimes God knows what He is protecting you from 🎉🎉
I think ALWAYS.
She’s such a good story teller ❤
Ooh God Kim is Sooo beautiful ❤️😍
Thank you so much,I appreciate you 🙏
I cant wait for part what a lovely story of waiting so long and have a child and finally got the child that mamazala was very evil😮😮😮😢
Exactly, the Spirit of GOD tried to warn, but I wanted so much to be married and have family. We do not expect the devil’s children to be in church, being young and naive until they have us in their grip. I went thru similar but not as this.
That’s why we need more conversation to call them out into the light so our girls can be aware of these wolves in sheep’s clothing in the church. It was many many years, I just did not understand the behavior, hoping and praying. Then I saw an article on narcissistic personality disorder, I read it and most every symptom fit.
I finally knew what the problem had been all along. Expose, no longer hide this topic, people in families and churches need to know bout narcs in the church, they have hurt/harmed so many of us.
I hear the Mother in law this,my husband did this, sisters in the church this, but this days I'm like, but God where are U in this.
I mean u prayed, u fasted, u declared the word of God.
Why is God allowing the devil to win, whyyyyyy
I cannot answer for God but what I've noticed is our pain births our ministry. We experience this things(while God is in it with us) for His glory.
If for eg I was a Ps in a successful marriage because I was a proverbs 31 woman I would not relate to other women going through these things because I would tell them things like pray harder, fast etc. Whereas more women (non-believers included) will be able to identify with Kim because she has walked that journey and after all these she is praising God for carrying her through.
There's power of choice too. God has given all of us free will.
God was there all the time, just because God doesn't act when u want Him to it doesn't mean He's not there but trust and believe when u are down and out and ready to throw in the towel God shows up you even forget the why because He does it in ways we can not even understand or explain but God shows up for sure.
The devil didn't win because she's still breathing, God defeated everything and everyone for her she was just with the wrong man, maybe she chose Him and didn't let God do the choosing for her hey.
What if that was not the man God ordained for her, remember she said the man showed him she was her husband, but she didn't say God showed her also he was her husband.
Thank you Ninja for such a beautiful interview
Yooo I agree with the above comment why do we church girls end up falling for narcissistic men😢 I also relate completely and now understand why my divorce had to happen.
Yoo I have just been silent thinking that people will say I'm just a heartbroken ex wife. I divorced my husband in absentia in 2011 it took 4 full years for me to granted divorce decree my life was stuck coz he was no where to be found now I understand narcissistic character. 🤔
Bathong Mara is so well behaved
Thank you 🙏
This has to be one of may fav episodes …
Wow,we thank God 🙏
What a Lady! Such beautiful Energy.. Im not done with the episode but i absolutely love her
I love her❤
Wow you guys- thank you so much. I am in awe of what God is doing ❤❤❤
@@veronicakesebelwangI love you,GOD INDEED bless you for me ❤❤❤
She's smart, she finished college at 18.
Don't compromise👌 I heard you Kimberly.......You are so smart, beautiful and God fearing woman.......May God Keep You
Oh thank you Sis' -DON'T COMPROMISE. God bless you for me❤❤❤