Hi Britney! I experienced this one many years ago -- your description hit the nail on the head. The power struggles, the intense fighting, thankfully there wasn't any violence, but the anger was on a level I had never felt before - I was very surprised by that. As the Pluto person, my wounds were highly triggered; in the end it wasn't sustainable. This one is Not for the faint of heart!
Hi Mila! Do you mind explaining what wounds he triggered with you being the pluto person? I’m the mars person in my relationship, and I really would like to see more from plutos point of view
I'm on a spiritual path, and I had Pluto square Mars with my ex 'ascension partner'. It was a highly torturous connection of intense growth, and we triggered the hell out of each other and brought out the worst in each other. Now I have Pluto opposite Mars with my actual ascension partner, and it's like a dream. We have warm, loving, harmonious aspects too, and we bring out the best in each other, and despite of the intensity, we both know that our triggers are not about the other. In both cases I was/am the Pluto person, and I had a more difficult time as my deepest pains, fears and plutoey rage got triggered. Now things are a lot lighter and easier already.
had this in my last relationship. I was Pluto square his Mars. The fights were horrible. Despite having had many positive aspects (moon conjunct Venus, Sun conj moon, many trines...) the fights overpowered everything and it did indeed end in violence.
Indeed!the same here too.Sun trine moon,sun trine venus,venus conjunct jupiter and venus conjunct descendant,and other positive aspects,but we have mars/pluto in synastry and mars square sun composite. It's awful, very often strong fights 😮 these two aspects are horrible,isn't possible to have peace...
Noooo it’s mars is controlling/abusing Pluto. I’ve had this multiple times and the mars person always brought the violence. They were obsessed with me and because I don’t give my power away to them it angers them unbelievably. One of the Mars people still stalks me 30 years later. The more I don’t let them push me around, the more they act psycho.😢
Makes sense. I deal with the opposition from boomers and square with late millenials. (Its my mars) but it's in Aquarius, so I just learned to act aloof instead. Sounds like you have integrated your pluto, I love when ppl do that. Congratulations 🎊
Your interpretation is very spot on! I am the pluto person in this aspect and I’ve never been this attracted to anyone. I would also love to to hear from you about venus trine lilith aspect in synastry.
So accurate. You explained it in a way that resonates with me as a Leo mars; definitely a scary feeling when someone’s Pluto squares my mars and I feel very restricted in my self-expression and just being myself
Just went on a first date with someone whose pluto is opposite my mars 😭 it seemed so easy to talk and pretty cozy, and we're seeing each other again later this week. I hate power dynamics overtaking a relationship. I guess we'll see how it goes!
I’m the mars person here and I do have mars opp pluto (5.7 degrees orbs) in my natal… So maybe this will affect me less, but would this still trigger the Pluto person more?
My sister is mars and my best friend is Pluto and have this, spot on! Both Taurus suns with Scorpio moons!!! They are the same but in different fonts. My sister can be outright demanding, and impulsive , and possessive, while my best friend can be the same but it’s more unconscious, intense , and psychological way. They trigger tf out of each other. It kinda makes it easier to blame my sister until you carefully look and see it’s both of them. They almost fought during the Solar eclipse! It’s like a constant tug of war that i don’t understand the reason for because they both are good people and they love each other. But it’s like a bomb waiting to go off. Now they are more conscious and can communicate better though, they just need more space. 😅
My mars square my hubby’s pluto and I also have mars square pluto in my natal. We argue quite often 😂 but no violence. I wouldn’t marry him if he couldn’t stand his ground and argue with me. I guess it’s because my mars is in 7th house and his in 1st house. We have so many compatible synastry aspects tho. His venus conjunct my rising , venus trine saturn, vertex and nort node conjunct my moon, including compatible sun-moon elements
😂 me and my ex had this. I was pluto he was mars. We also had moons conjunct🥺. We loved and hated eachother at the same time. Very hard to let go, break up/makeup relationship an emotional roller-coaster. And yea it ended with the police almost being called on us while fighting. It was that intense.
I have mars square pluto.... Everyone sexually harasses and tries to use and abuse me. Even my own parents and brothers. People want to violate me. And there is nothing I can do but go away. Always moving, looking for people who would love and care for me instead of seeing me as an object to break.
Brit, what do you think about this? I have my Pluto in Virgo opposite someone's Mars in Aries with a 5 degree orb. I don't think I should count this as an opposition, because it is out of sign. Pluto is so slow moving, that a 5 degree orb to begin with is a lot, since in our own birth charts, I don't think we feel Pluto transits until they are about 1 degree away from being exact. And with this being out of sign, we know how much energy changes when Pluto changes signs. Perhaps some out of sign aspects could be felt or counted more than ones with Pluto (say with personal or social planets)... I am still on the fence about out of sign aspects. I am over here not wanting to count this as an aspect. (I want to remain in denial if it is hee hee.). What do you think? Would you count an out of sign opposition of Mars and Pluto with an orb of 5 degrees? I am personally leaning towards no.
@@StephanieKraft haha I probably would count it. But I think the closer aspects will be more strongly felt.i would just know this is potentially there in the background🙏💛
I have this aspect natally and seem to attract individuals that I have this aspect with. And half of the time, they ALSO have mars square pluto. It felt like things couldn't be carefree, it was always about not saying too much or trying to sound in control of the situation
My hubby and I have this aspect , but we are so in Love and we also have moon square pluto.. I feel no negativity at all we had very few arguments as well .. So why is this so negative?
Great interpretation! I have this with my partner of almost a year 🫣. His 16• libra mars, square my natal 14 degree cancer mars. The orb is 1.6•. I find that since my cancer mars is so passive aggressive and his libra pluto is also, we keep running into issues of avoidance. About once a month, I get emotional and want to end things, and he sees me as being irrational and thinks I am making a big deal out of nothing. His pluto also opposes my aries mercury 1.9• orb, so when I do get emotional, I also finally speak up and am super direct! I find his libra pluto as sweeping everything under the rug and happy to avoid all obvious issues and be pleasant. Sexually, he’s pretty rough, but I’m not sure if it’s because of this aspect or because his mars squares my sun 1.8• orb. 😂
I am the mars in a mars opposite Pluto synastry and I'm super attracted/obsessed. We also have Pluto square Venus, and double Pluto square moon. And my antivertex is conjunct his Pluto. God help me 😅
We have my Pluto opposite his mars but we don’t fight…. BUT it’s a bad thing because we just don’t talk about problems at all when we really need to. Bad communication issues and that’s why I have decided to leave the relationship. He is a Pisces sun and I’m a Pisces rising so maybe that’s why we don’t fight? He doesn’t seem to want to discuss anything serious and is avoidant. I can be avoidant too but not as bad as him.
I have this natally mars at 11 degrees in cancer 7th house squares Pluto libra at 10 degrees in 10th house. Also completes a t square with Aries Venus in 4th house
With Lilith its even worse. Specially if you have in your Natal Chart moon-mars afflicted. i have myself mars-moon square in my natal chart. Plus i got this two aspects with my crush, his lilith in sag squaring my mars in pisces, and his mars in taurus opposite my pluto in scorpio. Im not going even to consider to get involved, because we both do kung-fu and it can end very very wrong. + his lilith also squares my moon... Hell no!!
I have the opposition natally and in synastry with my bf. For us as plutonian people, we experience it more as being sexually aroused all the time. Like ALL the time 😂-more than with our past partners. I feel like we’ve both grown more confident and bonded off of this transformation. Can you please do synastry aspects with Venus & Lilith? Specifically Venus trine Lilith? Thanks 😊
Can you please elaborate? I have this with my new partner he is a Pluto person(Pluto on the Asc.) & I have Mars in the 1st House as well. In synastry his Mars is square my Pluto. We have alot of trines & positives aspects but this one kinda scares me especially cause there seems to be this constant tension between us & i do not trust him at all
@@ellisrose8017 She explained the square is a little different than the opposition which is what we have. For me I feel like we feel very safe with each other and are slowly becoming more open to being who we’ve always wanted to be. We learn from each other a lot and are very intentional with how we interact with each other. We’ve both been hurt in the past so being together has been very healing. For us trust is being built and there is very little judgement, if any, because we can see where the other person is coming from. We wouldn’t want to do anything to hurt the other person because we know what that feels like.
The highest expression of this aspect (We have the opposition as a double whammy) is experienced once you get to mature. It is an energy that requires you to let go of what you can’t control. What I like in a DW is being able to switch dominant/submissive energy exchange. Once you have matured and gone through life’s trials and tribulations, this passionate interaction can be incredibly binding if both people have evolved and come to understand that which they fear and the nature of personal and coupled power.
I just started dating someone and we have this and I’m scared !!!! Is it worse than having someone’s moon in my 8 H because that was brutal lol . How quickly will the fights show up ??? I will say definite attraction!
I had Mars Square pluto in my last relationship. I was mars and he was Pluto. He was abusive. I felt like everything I did triggered him and I was not trying to. He was controlling and when I didn't go along with his plans he was livid. BEST SEX OF MY LIFE!! I think it was the only aspect that screwed us. Its unfortunate as other than that it was a lovely relationship
@@snaubdca7yebf I am in my 40s and he was in his 50s. We really tried but unfortunately could not get past the tension. It became exhausting to have this aspect long term
Me and my husband have this aspect. However his Saturn Conjunct with my moon and my Saturn conjuncts with his sun. So, he stabilizes my emotions and I stabilize his ego. Works great. ❤❤❤❤❤ we don’t fight
My ex's replacement of me (on of many I beleive) has her Pluto square my Mars. I have maybe exchanged 2 words with her in the gym and introduced them - his Pluto squares her Venus instant attraction and obsession ever since. 21years age gap! I instantly had bad vibes off her and never inetracted with her again. I am a very successful multiple bikini champion (Pluto trine Mars/Jupiter natally) and she has tried to copy me down to the bikini colour. She even reported me to the taxt office and possibly done something underhand with my work as I got frozen out. The woman is a psychopath. My ex enjoyed working with her on my destruction, but now Pluto is in my corner. I give them no heed as I know what is in their astrology up ahead. I pray they get exposed as both of them did many people dirty and break the law.
Hi Britney! I experienced this one many years ago -- your description hit the nail on the head. The power struggles, the intense fighting, thankfully there wasn't any violence, but the anger was on a level I had never felt before - I was very surprised by that. As the Pluto person, my wounds were highly triggered; in the end it wasn't sustainable. This one is Not for the faint of heart!
BTW, It was the pluto/mars square
Hi Mila! Do you mind explaining what wounds he triggered with you being the pluto person? I’m the mars person in my relationship, and I really would like to see more from plutos point of view
was there anything good from this aspect? do you think you would be able to handle it better now you are older?
I'm on a spiritual path, and I had Pluto square Mars with my ex 'ascension partner'. It was a highly torturous connection of intense growth, and we triggered the hell out of each other and brought out the worst in each other. Now I have Pluto opposite Mars with my actual ascension partner, and it's like a dream. We have warm, loving, harmonious aspects too, and we bring out the best in each other, and despite of the intensity, we both know that our triggers are not about the other.
In both cases I was/am the Pluto person, and I had a more difficult time as my deepest pains, fears and plutoey rage got triggered. Now things are a lot lighter and easier already.
had this in my last relationship. I was Pluto square his Mars. The fights were horrible. Despite having had many positive aspects (moon conjunct Venus, Sun conj moon, many trines...) the fights overpowered everything and it did indeed end in violence.
Indeed!the same here too.Sun trine moon,sun trine venus,venus conjunct jupiter and venus conjunct descendant,and other positive aspects,but we have mars/pluto in synastry and mars square sun composite. It's awful, very often strong fights 😮 these two aspects are horrible,isn't possible to have peace...
Same!! Its almost tragic
omg
I see this aspect end in violence 90% of the time
Noooo it’s mars is controlling/abusing Pluto. I’ve had this multiple times and the mars person always brought the violence. They were obsessed with me and because I don’t give my power away to them it angers them unbelievably. One of the Mars people still stalks me 30 years later. The more I don’t let them push me around, the more they act psycho.😢
Did you check if you had any other aspects like his pluto squaring your inner planets like moon sun or venus?
Makes sense. I deal with the opposition from boomers and square with late millenials. (Its my mars) but it's in Aquarius, so I just learned to act aloof instead. Sounds like you have integrated your pluto, I love when ppl do that. Congratulations 🎊
@@PeachyKins thank you, what a nice compliment. I’ve worked extremely hard over the years towards that end, I guess I hadn’t thought of it that way.
@@TamiaKnight I didn’t think of that, that’s a great suggestion thank you
this has been one of the most toxic dynamics I’ve ever experienced in my life 😂
happy belated birthday Brit!
Your interpretation is very spot on! I am the pluto person in this aspect and I’ve never been this attracted to anyone. I would also love to to hear from you about venus trine lilith aspect in synastry.
So accurate. You explained it in a way that resonates with me as a Leo mars; definitely a scary feeling when someone’s Pluto squares my mars and I feel very restricted in my self-expression and just being myself
Just went on a first date with someone whose pluto is opposite my mars 😭 it seemed so easy to talk and pretty cozy, and we're seeing each other again later this week. I hate power dynamics overtaking a relationship. I guess we'll see how it goes!
Yea it starts off cozy 😂
@@themoonbleu627lol 😂 that part
Check your moon aspects for further clues, and enjoy safely 😊
Thank you very much!! You’re the best Brit ✨
I have this in my current marriage the opposite and the square in my former current 3 years last marriage 14 years
I’m the mars person here and I do have mars opp pluto (5.7 degrees orbs) in my natal… So maybe this will affect me less, but would this still trigger the Pluto person more?
My sister is mars and my best friend is Pluto and have this, spot on! Both Taurus suns with Scorpio moons!!! They are the same but in different fonts. My sister can be outright demanding, and impulsive , and possessive, while my best friend can be the same but it’s more unconscious, intense , and psychological way. They trigger tf out of each other. It kinda makes it easier to blame my sister until you carefully look and see it’s both of them.
They almost fought during the Solar eclipse! It’s like a constant tug of war that i don’t understand the reason for because they both are good people and they love each other. But it’s like a bomb waiting to go off. Now they are more conscious and can communicate better though, they just need more space. 😅
My mars square my hubby’s pluto and I also have mars square pluto in my natal. We argue quite often 😂 but no violence. I wouldn’t marry him if he couldn’t stand his ground and argue with me. I guess it’s because my mars is in 7th house and his in 1st house. We have so many compatible synastry aspects tho. His venus conjunct my rising , venus trine saturn, vertex and nort node conjunct my moon, including compatible sun-moon elements
Hi! How long are you guys been together? Need some reassurance.. did the fight thing get better with time?
Me too I have it in my natal and with my bf and I am so worried about the things I read
😂 me and my ex had this. I was pluto he was mars. We also had moons conjunct🥺. We loved and hated eachother at the same time. Very hard to let go, break up/makeup relationship an emotional roller-coaster. And yea it ended with the police almost being called on us while fighting. It was that intense.
I have mars square pluto.... Everyone sexually harasses and tries to use and abuse me. Even my own parents and brothers. People want to violate me. And there is nothing I can do but go away. Always moving, looking for people who would love and care for me instead of seeing me as an object to break.
I'm sorry that's happened to you. Just fyi, this video is about synastry, not natal
I have mars opposition pluto with this guy he’s so jealous and possessive looool it’s funny I love driving him mad
Hi Brit!
I've seen this square at 0°04' in a progressed synastry, would this also apply?
🎯 💯👍 Yep, it was definitely brutal. Me, mars opposite them, pluto. Paranoia is a good word for it -on both sides.
I have a cancer mara but im not really passive aggressive
Brit, what do you think about this? I have my Pluto in Virgo opposite someone's Mars in Aries with a 5 degree orb. I don't think I should count this as an opposition, because it is out of sign. Pluto is so slow moving, that a 5 degree orb to begin with is a lot, since in our own birth charts, I don't think we feel Pluto transits until they are about 1 degree away from being exact. And with this being out of sign, we know how much energy changes when Pluto changes signs. Perhaps some out of sign aspects could be felt or counted more than ones with Pluto (say with personal or social planets)... I am still on the fence about out of sign aspects. I am over here not wanting to count this as an aspect. (I want to remain in denial if it is hee hee.). What do you think? Would you count an out of sign opposition of Mars and Pluto with an orb of 5 degrees? I am personally leaning towards no.
@@StephanieKraft haha I probably would count it. But I think the closer aspects will be more strongly felt.i would just know this is potentially there in the background🙏💛
@britsoulcoach I thought you'd say that 😉😊
Thank you ❤
I have this aspect natally and seem to attract individuals that I have this aspect with. And half of the time, they ALSO have mars square pluto. It felt like things couldn't be carefree, it was always about not saying too much or trying to sound in control of the situation
My hubby and I have this aspect , but we are so in Love and we also have moon square pluto.. I feel no negativity at all we had very few arguments as well .. So why is this so negative?
Very reassuring to read, thank you! How long have you been together?
Great interpretation! I have this with my partner of almost a year 🫣. His 16• libra mars, square my natal 14 degree cancer mars. The orb is 1.6•.
I find that since my cancer mars is so passive aggressive and his libra pluto is also, we keep running into issues of avoidance. About once a month, I get emotional and want to end things, and he sees me as being irrational and thinks I am making a big deal out of nothing. His pluto also opposes my aries mercury 1.9• orb, so when I do get emotional, I also finally speak up and am super direct! I find his libra pluto as sweeping everything under the rug and happy to avoid all obvious issues and be pleasant. Sexually, he’s pretty rough, but I’m not sure if it’s because of this aspect or because his mars squares my sun 1.8• orb. 😂
Hi! How’s going your relationship?
How would the inconjunct work between mars(man)(in others 7H of Taurus) and Pluto(woman) ?
I am the mars in a mars opposite Pluto synastry and I'm super attracted/obsessed. We also have Pluto square Venus, and double Pluto square moon. And my antivertex is conjunct his Pluto. God help me 😅
Is there any aspect that can soften the negative side of this?
@@Starstorm111 for sure 💛
What orb should be used for this?
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We have my Pluto opposite his mars but we don’t fight…. BUT it’s a bad thing because we just don’t talk about problems at all when we really need to. Bad communication issues and that’s why I have decided to leave the relationship. He is a Pisces sun and I’m a Pisces rising so maybe that’s why we don’t fight? He doesn’t seem to want to discuss anything serious and is avoidant. I can be avoidant too but not as bad as him.
I have this natally mars at 11 degrees in cancer 7th house squares Pluto libra at 10 degrees in 10th house. Also completes a t square with Aries Venus in 4th house
These aspect in synastry, 6 degree orb...is it taken into account?

WILL YOU MAKE A VIDEO OF PLUTO OPPOSITE MERCURY IN SYNASTRY?
What about if its out of sign but in orb?
Would this play out the same?
Thank you for all your fantastic videos 😊
@@donna-hughes I would count it out of sign although it would probably be a bit easier that way,
Thank you ☺️
What orbit is it?
Brit, can you make this aspect in composite?
I have the square in composite just not the opposition (yet)😉
Hi Britney! Do you do readings?
How to get in contact please? Thank you
All aspects synistry are trine or conjunct, all chart is 99 percent positive only 2 squares, is it still that bad?
With Lilith its even worse.
Specially if you have in your Natal Chart moon-mars afflicted. i have myself mars-moon square in my natal chart.
Plus i got this two aspects with my crush, his lilith in sag squaring my mars in pisces, and his mars in taurus opposite my pluto in scorpio.
Im not going even to consider to get involved, because we both do kung-fu and it can end very very wrong. + his lilith also squares my moon... Hell no!!
Does this apply to mars semi-square Pluto also? Or not because it is only a minor aspect?
I would say if does but probably
Less intense
I have the opposition natally and in synastry with my bf. For us as plutonian people, we experience it more as being sexually aroused all the time. Like ALL the time 😂-more than with our past partners. I feel like we’ve both grown more confident and bonded off of this transformation. Can you please do synastry aspects with Venus & Lilith? Specifically Venus trine Lilith? Thanks 😊
Can you please elaborate?
I have this with my new partner he is a Pluto person(Pluto on the Asc.) & I have Mars in the 1st House as well.
In synastry his Mars is square my Pluto.
We have alot of trines & positives aspects but this one kinda scares me especially cause there seems to be this constant tension between us & i do not trust him at all
@@ellisrose8017 She explained the square is a little different than the opposition which is what we have. For me I feel like we feel very safe with each other and are slowly becoming more open to being who we’ve always wanted to be. We learn from each other a lot and are very intentional with how we interact with each other. We’ve both been hurt in the past so being together has been very healing. For us trust is being built and there is very little judgement, if any, because we can see where the other person is coming from. We wouldn’t want to do anything to hurt the other person because we know what that feels like.
The highest expression of this aspect (We have the opposition as a double whammy) is experienced once you get to mature. It is an energy that requires you to let go of what you can’t control. What I like in a DW is being able to switch dominant/submissive energy exchange. Once you have matured and gone through life’s trials and tribulations, this passionate interaction can be incredibly binding if both people have evolved and come to understand that which they fear and the nature of personal and coupled power.
I just started dating someone and we have this and I’m scared !!!! Is it worse than having someone’s moon in my 8 H because that was brutal lol . How quickly will the fights show up ??? I will say definite attraction!
I had Mars Square pluto in my last relationship. I was mars and he was Pluto. He was abusive. I felt like everything I did triggered him and I was not trying to. He was controlling and when I didn't go along with his plans he was livid. BEST SEX OF MY LIFE!! I think it was the only aspect that screwed us. Its unfortunate as other than that it was a lovely relationship
how old are you? do you think you could handle it if older?
@@snaubdca7yebf I am in my 40s and he was in his 50s. We really tried but unfortunately could not get past the tension. It became exhausting to have this aspect long term
I had this with my ex husband and it definitely was a violent relationship despite us having a lot of good synastry.
Me and my husband have this aspect. However his Saturn Conjunct with my moon and my Saturn conjuncts with his sun. So, he stabilizes my emotions and I stabilize his ego. Works great. ❤❤❤❤❤ we don’t fight
Is it square or opposite?
MMA fighter war machine and his ex girlfriend has this explosive synastry. He almost killed her😱
who is mars and who is pluto?
Ohhhhj my god I remember 😮…I’m gonna look this up now
@@snaubdca7yebf mma fighter is Mars and she’s Pluto
Square or opposition?
My ex's replacement of me (on of many I beleive) has her Pluto square my Mars. I have maybe exchanged 2 words with her in the gym and introduced them - his Pluto squares her Venus instant attraction and obsession ever since. 21years age gap! I instantly had bad vibes off her and never inetracted with her again. I am a very successful multiple bikini champion (Pluto trine Mars/Jupiter natally) and she has tried to copy me down to the bikini colour. She even reported me to the taxt office and possibly done something underhand with my work as I got frozen out. The woman is a psychopath. My ex enjoyed working with her on my destruction, but now Pluto is in my corner. I give them no heed as I know what is in their astrology up ahead. I pray they get exposed as both of them did many people dirty and break the law.