My thought is she is supposevto be this big time model in Brazil so where is her money? How big is her bank account? Why the hell didn't she pay for those ugly ass plows herself with her own money?
That's why I won't be with a cheater. Now if I was married I would try to work out out but there is healthy ways to regain trust. This couple is DEFINITELY NOT ready for marriage.
I don’t think you all know anything about steroids &/or banned substances. Adderal even prescribed is band in the olympics. Theres plenty of legal substances that are banned in competitions. Testosterone is legal, but also banned in sports
@@kaat776 I know about prescriptions but not the ones they aren't allowed to use. I used to take steroids for my inflammation but I know it's not the same thing they use lol. I don't even know what he used. I assumed he was addicted. What's your opinion?? I like learning about things I'm clueless on.
I’m betting the first wife asked for a divorce because he got caught cheating twice, in what was her sport too, and she couldn’t handle the dishonesty, and the humiliation.
Let’s just take what Patrick says with a grain of salt… he said he got caught taking illegal substances twice and it ruined his career. This was his life and his wife’s. for all we know, she didn’t know he was taking steroids or he could be distrustful when it comes to other things. I’m sure she had her reasons to leave.
Agreed! He showed himself to be a cheater and a liar in relation to the main thing they had in common. That likely had something to do with the divorce.
If you say let's take what he says with a grain of salt, then why quote him "he said he got caught......" Is it because you view anything he says about himself that can be perceived as negative as truthful and anything that can be viewed as benign or milquetoast as untruthful.
Yes but ALSO…look at the way he said it: he didn’t say he “got caught” taking those substances- he said he “tested positive” for them. The first time he said it and named the substance he “tested positive” for, I totally miss heard and thought, “wait, did he test positive for an STD or a disease or something?!” But then he described the second time THE SAME WAY - his use of verbiage makes it seem like he “caught” these substances and wouldn’t have known they were in his own body had he not “tested positive “ for them, amirite?!? Total lack of accountability which speaks loudly to me 👋🏼😆
Well I guess they probably shouldn't get married. Some people would say if she needs his location, then they have no business together. I would be one of those people.
Why forgive him if thats going to be your life of mistrust ? Life of misery no thats he’s privacy if he cheated and you forgive him thats on you now not him
maybe she started to grow apart from him cuz he cheated twice in weightlifting and the whole point of it is based on hardwork and honesty. maybe she sees that he doesn’t learn from huge major mistakes
She didn't divorce him because he sprained his scapula and couldn't lift any longer . She stopped liking him and trusting him because he got away with performance enhancing meds once when he was tested, never stopped buying them and injecting them, was tested again and failed and couldn't give a rat's backside, so she threw her hands up and went back to her friends who had a shred of integrity.
I would NOT want to live with his brother! He is annoying, rude, and negative! He needs to create his OWN life! You can still be close with your brother without living with him! And, I HATE the Boston accent! I have always thought that it is the WORST American accent!
I think it's perfectly reasonable to have a conversation about finances before getting married. You're supposed to. Patrick being so secretive is a major red flag. And I'm also on her side about the brother, ESPECIALLY after the move to Dallas and he's still in the house with them. It was the perfect time for him to go establish himself a home elsewhere, but instead he's having housewarming parties at his brother's house! Time to grow up, John. And let Patrick's relationship have a fighting chance without you in the middle of it all.
@@tiffanyvarelli8834 exactly! He had the right one to throw money at. I'd have threw it right back while cussing hom TF out! It's beyond disrespectful. And his steroid abuse (maybe past, but looks like present) is making him have roid rage, which puts her in danger.
All 🦬💩 u talking..She not even working..and this man is already taking care of everything...It's a big house his brother can Stat if he wants...If her people relocates to the US...they for sure will be staying with her...
@@tiffanyvarelli8834 Yep. Every season we find out about one of the cast members having an extra skeleton fall out of their closet. My guess is this season it will be Patrick..
Should’ve took Thais to home goods or something. When watching the show I was thinking “ahh ok ok has expensive taste” as it went along it looked like he just wanted to window shop and gave her the wrong idea making her look like a brat. I completely understand Thais and her opinion on living with John. I shared a house with my boyfriend and his coworker. I felt like I was left out all the time because they would talk about things I couldn’t talk about. I constantly felt uncomfortable and judged especially when his girlfriend would come over. Sometimes I would just trap myself in my bedroom because I didn’t feel like I had a home. Roommate is gone now. Things are way better.
I was wondering the exact same thing about the home decor store that Patrick choose to bring Thais to shopping. But then I realized dudes like Patrick don’t even know that stores like Home Store or Marshall’s exist! One thing for sure, Patrick may speak two languages, but he doesn’t know how to expressspray does not know how to
@@cathyincolorado1432 YES! That’s exactly what I’m saying. Dude! Take her to an expensive shop and she’ll pick expensive things. Take her to a discounted shop and she’ll buy discounted things! I think Thais got the nail right on the head when she proclaimed that she isn’t a statue that is supposed to stand there smiling and looking pretty. That’s the same with a lot of men like this, you see a pretty little thing and fall in love (lust!) and Simply because he chose her based on what she look like, and now thinks that all she is good for! Something to add a collection of other pretty things
The woman can’t even dress, why does she wants to change everything in the house? Just because she wants to call it her home when bid daddy don’t even like her finance’ and she rather follow and do what big daddy wants her to do. Thais’ get real. You don’t know your head from your foot.
@@omaveira1979 Thais is VERY IMMATURE, that much is obvious. I did feel badly4 Pat on this ep. Thais was obvi trying2start a fight so she'd have an excuse to dump him. Her dad has 2let her go, she deserves a life of her own🤍
@@tamaras.9639 Exactly. to me it sounds like "I need to know how much you have so I can spend it all". Does it really matter how much someone has in relation to how you spend? Doesn't make sense. You should spend according to your income, not your savings. They are called savings because that's saving money, not spending money.
Are you for real ? You do that when and if you get married. You are living in the twenty first century. Wake up and smell the roses. Next thing she’s gone with all of his money he worked for. What is she bringing into this relationship? Her bid bank account from being an escort.
Talking about money and finances and her asking how much he makes a month is a reasonable thing. You want to know if there are debts or how he wants to manage, divide finances. But I think she only needs to know so she can make more financial demands from him.
He should be asking g her the same questions....how much money do you have in the bank, how much money did you bring over here with you (since she was suppose to be a model she was working in Brazil). What's good for her to ask is good for him to aak
She is a spoiled child. She comes from an area that is not his end living if and when she works she can buy whatever she wants im surprised she hasn't demanded Patrick should give family money. I wonder if she even told her dad she moved to USA she is very childness
I agree. If she knows he makes XYZ she's going to spend what she wants. I'd tell her an amount and then say a lot of it goes into investments or a retirement account. Or say he's still paying her K1 visa off. But he did say she could buy stuff after the wedding. He probably doesn't want to go in to debt for the wedding sl available cash could be tied up.
I agree. Everyone seems to forget that she agreed to the situation it’s not like she didn’t know he lives with John. I think her coming over anyway with an agenda of getting his brother kicked out of the house basically is wrong af. I live with my bf and his brother. It was their place before I moved in. I would never try to get his brother kicked out. I’m just working on us moving out of the house together with out his brother. It’s just a matter of being respectful
@@Ola_Stawinska there’s a part in the first episodes that they are on FaceTime and John says hi to her. You can clearly tell from her face and reaction that she does not fuck with him. At all.
I don't know this couple's story but is it Patrick's house and John is living there rent free? If so they can't really leave his house. John will need to leave.
She does really seem like the money is what is important to her. But at some point she needs to know about his finances before she marries him in case he is in debt. Please add Yve and Mohammad to your list. That relationship will be something to watch.
My husband and I have had location on for years. It’s got nothing to do with worrying about cheating. I can look and see how soon to expect him home or if I see he’s at the store I might ask him to grab something.
How are you moving to another country without first learning if that person is financially secure (looking at you Shaeeda 👀)??? I can’t understand that kind of move. And I get falling madly in love, I have a couple ex’s with my name tattooed on them (j/k), but it’s marriage not a one night stand. They should be talking about finances, kids, where they want to live…before jumping on a plan to live in another country 🤦🏽♀️ But then again, watching stable people making educated decisions wouldn’t be TV I’m interested in watching. You got to love the hot mess of it all.
So Patrick, as a means to gain Thaiss’ trust back after admitting he cheated on her early in their relationship, set it up so Thaiss could track him from Brasil. Now Patrick ‘gifts’ Thaiss with a phone with the condition that she no longer tracks him, John calculatedly organises a housewarming party and sits back waiting for the fireworks, and Thaiss and Patrick retreat to their bedroom where Patrick decides to ‘reassure’ Thaiss with THE WORST THING HE COULD SAY. Like “they’re all ugly, anyway”... Men, when you say this to a woman who’s trust you’ve broken (or even to a woman who generally has trust issues) she is hearing “ I’m not attracted to any of them *because* they’re ugly. But if I’m around a woman who’s attractive....then..🤔🤨”
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I haven't seen one of these Brazilian lovelys not go for the gold after they come to the USA...You pay for that benefit package when it comes off the plane...
Lol, I truly believe they watch waaaay too many American movies and think we are ALL filthy rich! If they only knew how many low-income and homeless are here, they'd be SHOCKED!!
okay.. and patrick's location is on because he already broke her trust and CHEATED on her. get your nose back on your face and out of other people's business, johnathon.
if someone wants to cheat, he/she will regardless of the circumstances. If she can't let it go and forgive him then it´s better she finds someone else or else she will keep suffering deep down inside.
@@katravi trust doesn’t just accumulate automatically after it’s broken. he initiated the location tracking to begin with to help build it back up. if that was how they wanted to work, that’s how they want to work - his brother has no place to say otherwise, let alone bring a third party into the conversation. that woman at the bar said it well enough.
@@sixlikesgore7503 he's been trying to prove to her that he knows he messed up and that she can trust him. It's not right to expect someone to pay for the rest of their life for a mistake they made and owned up to and actively try to put in the past.
I think it's fair for her to know the financial situation. Perhaps she didn't express her needs and concerns in the proper way, but if he shared this, she then has a better understanding of where they are at and would probably stop thinking they had cash to burn. The brother needs to go, immediately.
Honestly everything is new to a person when you marry or live together. Us since day one i got pregnant and i talked to him about finances bc i don't want my son to be wanting something and i can't give it to him or myself and we talked about finances which is a must in every marriage. Like Steve Harvey said a couple should talk about finances but each one should have their own money to spend on whatever they want, money to pay for expenses like bills etc. that they both put money towards and another for emergency money not trying to control each other
I think it's difficult to trust in your partner when you live in different countries, because people always tell you that what if he has a family or a wife or a gf in his country. Also I think they are a beautiful couple, and if my bf keeps paying and acting like a millionaire then if he brings me to a furniture store I'd think I can buy whatever I want because he has the money. That's why it is important he talks about his financial situation, that way she knows how much he can afford and stop requesting things that are too expensive
Doesn't want to reveal his finances. Do we remember Jorge Nava? Flashing his drug money and making promises to his russian model. No prenup but I guess the other couple has that script already taken.
My sense is that Patrick needed to choose either his fiancé or John. It seems like he is constantly choosing his brother. But, marriage is an all or nothing proposition. The last episode was really dark though. He throws a fit about money after buying her a new iphone and they move into a million dollar house! To me, it feels like something else is going on causing a strong undercurrent of hostility from Patrick. It's hard to imagine how they will work out. But...worst couples have somehow worked out so..
It doesn't matter how much she bitches or complains or is ungrateful, he will still marry her, because she is hot. He will marry her and then complain about how unhappy he is and want to hangout with his brother more. Oh..and his brother John, he'd be on Thais like white on rice if his brother wasn't with her. I'm sorry, but if you choose your "life partner" solely based on looks, then you deserve all the unhappiness you get.
Isn't it interesting how a trashy and possibly heavily scripted TV show manages to inspire so much commentary about relationships, personal growth, cultural awareness, etc.? Btw, proposing after 11 months still sounds a bit too rushed to me, but in the context of 90DF it is almost a reasonable display of restraint.
I believe he works for Vivint. His brother wears a hat with the name on it. Door-to-door security salespeople. The company has been an issue in my neighborhood over the past month or two. Won’t take no for an answer.
When I was looking at places in TX, it’s one thing people warned me about. Vivint is super pushy and they try to strong arm new home owners into signing on with them.
If knowing how much money he had was that important to her she should have ask that before HE flew her over here. I'm sorry but any girl who only wants the guy to buy for them and do for them and need to know how much they have or make, what kind of car they have or how big their house is they are nothing butt gold diggers. He should've asked her how much do you have in your bank account? If she was this big time model over in Brazil she should have her own money so why isn't she putting up anything? Why didn't SHE pay for those stupid looking pillows herself with her own money?
I disagree with a lot of people about him giving her a phone and then telling her not to use locate. I would never accept locate on in a relationship, period. Him buying her a phone, which she WANTED was a good present. He then HAS to tell her he doesn’t want the locate on, right? That’d be like one of the first things she’d ask to do so he had to bring it up. And yes I get he’s been unfaithful but still: locate just shows no trust.
I completely understand where Patrick is coming from, however,….. l do believe that as his wife to be she should know how much he makes from work but more for a reality check. If he sat down with her and was like here’s my average pay, this much goes to the mortgage, bills, food ect so she’s get a concept of the actual left over $ and who knows maybe they did 🤷♀️but either way some of these people need to grow up if they feel grown enough to get married 👌
IMO, she doesn't need to know that as she'll want to spend the money immediately, she has no concept of money and you can tell when they go shopping. The Tesla Model X he's driving is over $100k. What he's not saying (and I strongly believe this), is that him and John bought the house together, that's why he's not leaving, as he shouldn't since it's his house too.
@@crystalb4926 Well even if she saw how much money he has/makes, doesn’t mean she will spend it all. She cant spend it if he doesn’t give her a card/access to the account.
I am from Brazil and I love when some of my Brazilians peers are on the show, with the exeption of Juliana, they are so messy LOL. Note, we found extremely annoying when people talk to us in Spanish. EXTREMELY.
Hey Wetsock, I love your channel. You are VERY insightful ( for your age) and charismatic to boot. I want to suggest that leaving him for not being able to be an Olympian is not really the extent of it. This guy dedicated his life to a specific pursuit. All of his time and resources were launched, right? He makes a decision to juice, which puts his health, future, career, and reputation on the line-and why? Bad decision, right? He does it AGAIN! As a woman, your partners judgement (or lack thereof) has HUGE impact upon your potential future. It can also have an impact upon any children that you might have. We are talking about the financial, physical and social security of the family. He is not a man that you can depend on to make reliably rational decisions. Just some food for thought...😊
It’s quite obvious he’s still on juice too. To get those results (in physical size) you would be cycling a lot of gear and that is dangerous. If a partner is on a suicide mission, I can understand why someone would check out.
I completely agree with your analysis of Patrick. The Olympic failures are So indicative of who Patrick is at his core. I’m sure all Would agree that training for an event such as the Olympics is all-encompassing. He lived, breathed, and existed for one goal, and one goal only, THE GOLD! So the very fact that he would be so ignorant to take steroids before his blood test for qualification, makes one wonder, just how stupid is he?!?! Then he goes ahead and does the EXACT SAME THING the following year for tryouts to be in the Olympics makes one think, just how stupid does he think Others are?! So smug is he that he believed he could get away with the steroids that he didn’t get away with the first time!! It says everything about who he is! A brutish selfish, arrogant, juicing behemoth who thinks he’s stronger & smarter than others and who only cares about himself and his appearance. I think his first wife saw the writing on the wall when she dumped him and one can only hope Thais see it too! She is a young and beautiful girl who deserves better for herself and would likely have no problem getting herself a better guy. She is no more than eye candy and a means for Patrick to feel studly, despite his double disqualification in the Olympics, which had been his previous life’s goal… ,
Just my little unasked for 2 cents I think the only reason why the whole location and co worker thing is so huge for her is bc he already broke that trust and cheated on her so I understand her wanting him to earn the trust back and continue to work through it rather then just giving up
Thais is a snot and gold digger. She made the comment after he said he paid for everything for her like her hair, eyebrows, clothes, nails and lashes that was how it is and get over it. Yes she is attractive but there are many pretty or prettier girls than her. I don’t think Patrick could live the lifestyle he does without his brother living with him. I also find it difficult to believe he makes $1000.00 a day.
Ok I'm only at 14:05 so things might take a turn after I post this 😬 But they're really sweet! He learned Portuguese, they took a bit more time before proposing (still a little quick but for 90 Day Fiancé that's like 6 years), he made her breakfast, she was so happy about his house, and he got her a sweet lil puppers so she wouldn't be lonely and she would have something to do when he was at work! Cute!
Patrick has put this woman on a pedestal- mainly because of her looks. Beauty fades and she's losing her beauty with every episode. He has to look past her exterior. Otherwise, he's gonna find out when they have kids and going through a nasty divorce
All I can say is that if you want someone to trust you, you should be an open book. When things are hidden it only invites distrust. Especially when you're considering marrying someone. Why should I dive into marriage with someone that I don't even know what they make? For all I know they could be living off credit cards and debt which to me is unfair. Everyone's cards should be on the table. I don't see this relationship working. Thais doesn't have a handle on what it means to be a working adult as far as finances and the real world. And Patrick is not really ready to share his life with someone.
I think Patrick has rearranged his history to suit himself; his wife probably left him because he cheated with his career and not because she only loves a weightlifter !
Yes, I'm almost certain she left because he did illegal things, got caught, and was reckless-stupid-conceited enough to do them AGAIN and ruin his future...and hers. After the first suspension, she probably asked him all the time if he was clean, and he probably lied all the time. Why would she trust him with this or anything else? Even worse, they were both in competitive weightlifting. I'm sure his double disqualification put HER under a microscope with trainers and teams. It's hard to go on loving and respecting someone when their actions reflect poorly on you.
@@irairod5160 Agree!! Not only that, but it probably put her name in a very negative light in the weight lifting community. Can you imagine being talked about because of something her husband did ? And what he did is Bad in the competitive arena.
You are the 1st one that really makes sense. No she doesn't need to know how much money he has, bc all she would do is go out and buy anything she saw, not even looking at the price of the things. She has already showed that she doesn't appreciate the things he has done for her already, her disgust attitude toward the new home, her hateful comments on the furniture that is brand new, another thing, she always says her home, well, heck no it's not her home, yet, she gives her the vibe that she is only here to spend his money, money is all she wants and her hateful comments about, Patrick needed to get use to his finance, who has very expensive taste and look she hasn't turned her hands to do nothing around the house, absolutely nothing but yet she wants everything and now she wants to know how much money he has for her to go out and actually throw away, just on the things she wants. I'm on Patrick side here. Don't discuss his money situation with her, before the wedding, especially before the wedding bc i honestly believe that she will be wanting the most outrageous wedding, anyone has ever seen. Yes, there is a time for Patrick to explain his financial situation with her, but absolutely not until maybe a day before the wedding I hope he also puts rules in place of what she is allowed to use it for and that she can't just go out and spend money, especially since she isn't working and won't be able to for at least 6 to 9 months after she been in the states, im sorry but I honestly believe she is only here for her green card and spend money like it grows on trees. At least right now, that's the vibe she is putting off. One other thing, she walks and talk like she is better than anyone else, that she is a somewhat of a person who wants to be sitting on the throne and be worshiped, she thinks she the only cute girl in the world, she's not, she attracted but she's not a beauty queen but she thinks she is no please Patrick don't discuss your money with her at this point, no matter what crap she spits out. How dare her say, you don't respect my feelings, you have already spent over $10,000 dollars on me after just arriving here, but hey, that's not enough, I deserve lots more money. She is actually a very ungrateful human being, IMO as of now, ungrateful as hell
@@proudchildofgodthatiamyall3987 Agree!! Especially about how she thinks she's better than anyone. Patrick has to call other girls Ugly to pacify her. He can't work with other women or she will throw a tantrum. My husband & I make good money & I wouldn't spend almost $200 on a pillow! She came from a very poor family and now thinks she can blow Patrick's money. She's not appreciative at all.
22:00 just wanna say, yes we haven't seen her cook/clean etc but do you really think TLC would care about showing these things? To get views, they demonise people to make them appear to be bad people, by emphasising their flaws, maybe she has done stuff and TLC just don't care about showing it cus it doesn't follow their narrative
I don't think she needs to know I think as long as he takes care of her she needs to chill she should of came with her own money if she was worried about it
honestly, as a brazilian that lives out of the country i can say: i don't judge thaís too much, since i personally got very overwhelmed and actually kinda in disbilief of the living conditions are so outsanding compared to Brazil. It so normal for her to be so impressed and excited about the house and money, and you even create some weird stand of needing that type of lifestyle. also, i would like to point out that Brazil has a huge romaticization of North America and it's lifestyle. ofc she is kinda possesive and jealous, and that's never good, but; her disagreement of having Patrick's brother around all the time is more than understandable. like, whom in their right head space would still be clinging into your brother even though he is 30?! from also having an older brother, that lived home until his lates 30s, i can say that is not that fun. but what i find really funny, is how Patrick and John are half-brazilians, but John acts so freaking ignorant. mind blowing.
She should be grateful in that case. Who comes to someone else's home with that kind of attitude. I've lived with my husband's entire family at one point along with our children. She needs to learn respect
@@jaz558 I agree, her behavior upon entering that house was extremely rude and disrespectful Most people would have been very grateful to get to live in such a lovely home!
@@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 I don’t think is necessarily about gratitude, but more about adapting. Let’s remember she’s a fresh immigrant, from a country that good housing like that is considered to be a privilege for lots of Brazilians. She could’ve had a better way to communicate, since I do find it rude and obnoxious sometimes, but I also understand her.
@@jaz558 she said on the way from the airport that she does not want a room. I don't know what kind of a human being she is. Imagine some one talking about your brother like that. I want to remind her that blood is thicker water. If someone does not like your sibling its better to forget about marriage.
I think he is having second thoughts so he’s trying to hold back on how much he has because she clearly doesn’t care and everything is about her the first thing she wanted to do was get rid of the brother and the brother was there during the tough times and you can’t forget about that
I honestly think Thais is super sweet. For one who wants to live with someone’s brother after 30 , secondly he made it seem like he would take care of her and spoil her and switched when it was too much, also he’s cheated so that’s why she wants his location
Ya but he cheated at a party at his own house. The location app only gives the location of the phone, not what type of place it is and who else is there. It's not nearly as useful as she thinks it is. Plus if he wants to go have a quickie he can leave the phone on his desk.
I'm not sure why this is difficult to comprehend for people. Often brothers live together. My ex was 40 and he made good money but his brother was having some alcohol abuse issues and lived with us. I'm not sure why family living together is such a taboo in the US
Patrick is passively playing victim in this relationship. He constantly blames Thais for wanting to spend so much of his money (you understood you would be financially supporting her when she came to the country and didn't seem to make strict budgets with her, what do you expect?). It also left a bad taste in my mouth when both Patrick and Thais called the other girls that came to their housewarming ugly... If they're putting strangers down by insulting other women and calling them ugly, it's obvious they're both insecure people. Also Patrick looks like Shrek when he transformed into a human in Shrek the Third, so he shouldn't be calling anyone ugly. Thais' attitude takes away from her pretty face.
I personally would just have location services on for my husband and I simply for safety reasons. Cities in the U.S. are becoming increasingly unsafe and I would like to know where he is in case something happens.
You should do a video snippet of how Patrick's brother John is actually the guy from the Sam Adams commercial ("my cousin from Boston"). That would be hilarious...
Like I always say,, a thief suspects a thief.. All these over the top extremely jealous & possessive Latin women are defecting & revealing more about themselves...Recalling Jennifer with Caca & Jasmine, etc etc... So Unless you've been given solid cause to be distrustful of ur mate be weary of ppl who think everyone is like they are...& also, never falsely think that possessive & unwarranted jealousy means they love you...not at all....big mistake if you buy that...Now if the jealousy is caused by legit reason and its clear cut and dry & someone cross the line and you have evidence thats a horse of a different color of course.
In Thais's defends, the reason he suggested having his location on in the first place is because he actually cheated on her, and that was his way of rebuilding her trust.
Patrick should have taken her to TJMAXX for decor shopping.
Not a store where a pillow is $189.
He’s not the sharpest knife in the drawer. 🤷♀️
If my man took me to get stiff for our house. Id appreciate the goodwill even!
He’s really bending over backwards to impress her?
My thought is she is supposevto be this big time model in Brazil so where is her money? How big is her bank account? Why the hell didn't she pay for those ugly ass plows herself with her own money?
He's a show off
That's how much my daughters summer camp is a week and that's a discount🥴😂
Cheaters literally always tell everyone all the “crazy” rules they have and never tell you why they have these rules.
That's why I won't be with a cheater. Now if I was married I would try to work out out but there is healthy ways to regain trust. This couple is DEFINITELY NOT ready for marriage.
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I don’t think you all know anything about steroids &/or banned substances. Adderal even prescribed is band in the olympics. Theres plenty of legal substances that are banned in competitions. Testosterone is legal, but also banned in sports
@@kaat776 I know about prescriptions but not the ones they aren't allowed to use. I used to take steroids for my inflammation but I know it's not the same thing they use lol. I don't even know what he used. I assumed he was addicted. What's your opinion?? I like learning about things I'm clueless on.
@@kaat776 Point is- he knew which were banned in sport and did it a second time.
I’m betting the first wife asked for a divorce because he got caught cheating twice, in what was her sport too, and she couldn’t handle the dishonesty, and the humiliation.
Idk she did get with another body builder maybe she did the cheating 🤷🏽♂️ but I do see your point
@@oscarh2744 he meant cheating as in taking steroids
Sounds about right.
Do any of you have experience with what he was taking?? NO. He wasn’t taking deca for fucks sake.
Old lady take as usual
I don’t think Patrick can afford his lifestyle without John
So He should tells it to her
That's true. If she wants him out of the house, she should contribute.
I think his brother John takes them now
Let’s just take what Patrick says with a grain of salt… he said he got caught taking illegal substances twice and it ruined his career. This was his life and his wife’s. for all we know, she didn’t know he was taking steroids or he could be distrustful when it comes to other things. I’m sure she had her reasons to leave.
Agreed! He showed himself to be a cheater and a liar in relation to the main thing they had in common. That likely had something to do with the divorce.
If you say let's take what he says with a grain of salt, then why quote him "he said he got caught......"
Is it because you view anything he says about himself that can be perceived as negative as truthful and anything that can be viewed as benign or milquetoast as untruthful.
Yes but ALSO…look at the way he said it: he didn’t say he “got caught” taking those substances- he said he “tested positive” for them. The first time he said it and named the substance he “tested positive” for, I totally miss heard and thought, “wait, did he test positive for an STD or a disease or something?!” But then he described the second time THE SAME WAY - his use of verbiage makes it seem like he “caught” these substances and wouldn’t have known they were in his own body had he not “tested positive “ for them, amirite?!? Total lack of accountability which speaks loudly to me 👋🏼😆
@@blacknetsmed because he will only admit it after the fact
@@blacknetsmed Fair point!
He cheated on her that’s why he has to share his location he gave her reason not to trust him
Yep. He initiated this behavior in her.
Why would you stay with a cheater then??is it his money??????💵💵💶💸
@@patricemcknight693 plus go to the US if you don't trust him???? Lord the stupidity
Well I guess they probably shouldn't get married. Some people would say if she needs his location, then they have no business together. I would be one of those people.
Why forgive him if thats going to be your life of mistrust ? Life of misery no thats he’s privacy if he cheated and you forgive him thats on you now not him
maybe she started to grow apart from him cuz he cheated twice in weightlifting and the whole point of it is based on hardwork and honesty. maybe she sees that he doesn’t learn from huge major mistakes
He cheated on her
@@aliciaflores7095 are you talking about the ex-wife or the new Brazilian girlfriend
@@elinorlee1539 the ex. his excuse sounded like bs and that’s prolly why he has to share his location w thais.
Where did you get your law degree from to go judging people. Let me know!!!!!!
Here's the thing that Patrick isn't saying, him & John bought the house together in Dallas. That's why he's not leaving 🤷🏾♀️
She didn't divorce him because he sprained his scapula and couldn't lift any longer . She stopped liking him and trusting him because he got away with performance enhancing meds once when he was tested, never stopped buying them and injecting them, was tested again and failed and couldn't give a rat's backside, so she threw her hands up and went back to her friends who had a shred of integrity.
Old lady take
I can’t believe you bought Patrick’s bs story 😂 she left him cause he kept testing dirty for drugs and got kicked out of the Olympics 😂😂😂
I have been in that situation before. Its hard.
Yes and those steroids make u mean & violent. When he threw money at her my first thought was he might still be on them
i never believe anyones story there is always 2 sides pretty naive if u fully believe
She might have. She was a lifter too, but it probably had more to do with dishonesty and cheating than not making the Olympics.
@@tiffanyvarelli8834 yup, certainly looks like he’s still on steroids
I would NOT want to live with his brother! He is annoying, rude, and negative! He needs to create his OWN life! You can still be close with your brother without living with him! And, I HATE the Boston accent! I have always thought that it is the WORST American accent!
Totally 💯 agree 👍🏼😂
I think it's perfectly reasonable to have a conversation about finances before getting married. You're supposed to. Patrick being so secretive is a major red flag.
And I'm also on her side about the brother, ESPECIALLY after the move to Dallas and he's still in the house with them. It was the perfect time for him to go establish himself a home elsewhere, but instead he's having housewarming parties at his brother's house! Time to grow up, John. And let Patrick's relationship have a fighting chance without you in the middle of it all.
I hated when he threw money at her & showed his chauvinistic side. Plus the steroids? He has some stuff going on that is going to be exposed
@@tiffanyvarelli8834 exactly! He had the right one to throw money at. I'd have threw it right back while cussing hom TF out! It's beyond disrespectful. And his steroid abuse (maybe past, but looks like present) is making him have roid rage, which puts her in danger.
What might be interesting, though, is if it’s actually his brother who has the bulk of the money, not Patrick…
All 🦬💩 u talking..She not even working..and this man is already taking care of everything...It's a big house his brother can Stat if he wants...If her people relocates to the US...they for sure will be staying with her...
@@tiffanyvarelli8834 Yep. Every season we find out about one of the cast members having an extra skeleton fall out of their closet. My guess is this season it will be Patrick..
Should’ve took Thais to home goods or something. When watching the show I was thinking “ahh ok ok has expensive taste” as it went along it looked like he just wanted to window shop and gave her the wrong idea making her look like a brat.
I completely understand Thais and her opinion on living with John. I shared a house with my boyfriend and his coworker. I felt like I was left out all the time because they would talk about things I couldn’t talk about. I constantly felt uncomfortable and judged especially when his girlfriend would come over. Sometimes I would just trap myself in my bedroom because I didn’t feel like I had a home. Roommate is gone now. Things are way better.
I was wondering the exact same thing about the home decor store that Patrick choose to bring Thais to shopping. But then I realized dudes like Patrick don’t even know that stores like Home Store or Marshall’s exist!
One thing for sure, Patrick may speak two languages, but he doesn’t know how to expressspray does not know how to
@@MrsSZim I think production set them up to go to that store. There wouldn't be any drama if they sent them to Target!
@@cathyincolorado1432 YES! That’s exactly what I’m saying. Dude! Take her to an expensive shop and she’ll pick expensive things. Take her to a discounted shop and she’ll buy discounted things!
I think Thais got the nail right on the head when she proclaimed that she isn’t a statue that is supposed to stand there smiling and looking pretty.
That’s the same with a lot of men like this, you see a pretty little thing and fall in love (lust!) and Simply because he chose her based on what she look like, and now thinks that all she is good for! Something to add a collection of other pretty things
The woman can’t even dress, why does she wants to change everything in the house? Just because she wants to call it her home when bid daddy don’t even like her finance’ and she rather follow and do what big daddy wants her to do. Thais’ get real. You don’t know your head from your foot.
@@omaveira1979 Thais is VERY IMMATURE, that much is obvious. I did feel badly4 Pat on this ep. Thais was obvi trying2start a fight so she'd have an excuse to dump him. Her dad has 2let her go, she deserves a life of her own🤍
Hell no she deserve to know his financial situation prior to getting married. It would be irresponsible of her not to!
She should be answering the same questions
@@agenaw2877 Exactly it goes both ways. I get her asking, but the way she was like "show me! show me!" put me off.
Shes gonna get a shock to find out he's in mass amount of debt and has 3 mixed out credit cards 🤣 how much is she bringing to the table? Js and none
@@tamaras.9639 Exactly. to me it sounds like "I need to know how much you have so I can spend it all". Does it really matter how much someone has in relation to how you spend? Doesn't make sense. You should spend according to your income, not your savings. They are called savings because that's saving money, not spending money.
Are you for real ? You do that when and if you get married. You are living in the twenty first century. Wake up and smell the roses. Next thing she’s gone with all of his money he worked for. What is she bringing into this relationship? Her bid bank account from being an escort.
Talking about money and finances and her asking how much he makes a month is a reasonable thing. You want to know if there are debts or how he wants to manage, divide finances. But I think she only needs to know so she can make more financial demands from him.
She probably should of asked before she got there
He should be asking g her the same questions....how much money do you have in the bank, how much money did you bring over here with you (since she was suppose to be a model she was working in Brazil). What's good for her to ask is good for him to aak
She is a spoiled child. She comes from an area that is not his end living if and when she works she can buy whatever she wants im surprised she hasn't demanded Patrick should give family money. I wonder if she even told her dad she moved to USA she is very childness
I agree, it just seems like the reason behind it is not just to make sure things are 'secure'. Plus, it should go both ways.
I agree. If she knows he makes XYZ she's going to spend what she wants. I'd tell her an amount and then say a lot of it goes into investments or a retirement account. Or say he's still paying her K1 visa off. But he did say she could buy stuff after the wedding. He probably doesn't want to go in to debt for the wedding sl available cash could be tied up.
I agree. Everyone seems to forget that she agreed to the situation it’s not like she didn’t know he lives with John. I think her coming over anyway with an agenda of getting his brother kicked out of the house basically is wrong af. I live with my bf and his brother. It was their place before I moved in. I would never try to get his brother kicked out. I’m just working on us moving out of the house together with out his brother. It’s just a matter of being respectful
Complete agree
Maybe sge thought that John will be easier to live with? Maybe she knew him just ftom Patricks stories?
@@Ola_Stawinska no, remember when they video talking and John walked in the room and tried to be nice and she was an out and out bitch to him.
@@Ola_Stawinska there’s a part in the first episodes that they are on FaceTime and John says hi to her. You can clearly tell from her face and reaction that she does not fuck with him. At all.
I don't know this couple's story but is it Patrick's house and John is living there rent free? If so they can't really leave his house. John will need to leave.
She does really seem like the money is what is important to her. But at some point she needs to know about his finances before she marries him in case he is in debt.
Please add Yve and Mohammad to your list. That relationship will be something to watch.
He did one video on them already 😊
@@dominikal4864 thanks. I must have missed it. I’ll go and watch it.
My husband and I have had location on for years. It’s got nothing to do with worrying about cheating. I can look and see how soon to expect him home or if I see he’s at the store I might ask him to grab something.
Yeah right....he could call you when he is on his way Home.
That's super suss
How are you moving to another country without first learning if that person is financially secure (looking at you Shaeeda 👀)??? I can’t understand that kind of move. And I get falling madly in love, I have a couple ex’s with my name tattooed on them (j/k), but it’s marriage not a one night stand. They should be talking about finances, kids, where they want to live…before jumping on a plan to live in another country 🤦🏽♀️
But then again, watching stable people making educated decisions wouldn’t be TV I’m interested in watching. You got to love the hot mess of it all.
Woman, you are fine AF 😍
So Patrick, as a means to gain Thaiss’ trust back after admitting he cheated on her early in their relationship, set it up so Thaiss could track him from Brasil. Now Patrick ‘gifts’ Thaiss with a phone with the condition that she no longer tracks him, John calculatedly organises a housewarming party and sits back waiting for the fireworks, and Thaiss and Patrick retreat to their bedroom where Patrick decides to ‘reassure’ Thaiss with THE WORST THING HE COULD SAY. Like “they’re all ugly, anyway”...
Men, when you say this to a woman who’s trust you’ve broken (or even to a woman who generally has trust issues) she is hearing “ I’m not attracted to any of them *because* they’re ugly. But if I’m around a woman who’s attractive....then..🤔🤨”
Your timing is impeccable, Yourwetsock! Was just about to get lunch and didn’t know what to watch and just checked my TH-cam notifications 🎉 keep bringing these hilarious, sarcastic-filled vids. Love them! - American 🇺🇸 Gal traveling and laughing 😂
Check out kiblz vid on Bilal and Shae next!
@@Vix2066 kibls is funny asl too & her sarcasm , I follow both channels
Ebird is pretty funny too
I haven't seen one of these Brazilian lovelys not go for the gold after they come to the USA...You pay for that benefit package when it comes off the plane...
Lol, I truly believe they watch waaaay too many American movies and think we are ALL filthy rich! If they only knew how many low-income and homeless are here, they'd be SHOCKED!!
BRUV, I love how as you were saying that you've "NEVER seen Thais do anything" you flashed a pic of Sakura🤣😁🤣🤣🤣😁🤣!
okay.. and patrick's location is on because he already broke her trust and CHEATED on her. get your nose back on your face and out of other people's business, johnathon.
if someone wants to cheat, he/she will regardless of the circumstances. If she can't let it go and forgive him then it´s better she finds someone else or else she will keep suffering deep down inside.
@@katravi trust doesn’t just accumulate automatically after it’s broken. he initiated the location tracking to begin with to help build it back up. if that was how they wanted to work, that’s how they want to work - his brother has no place to say otherwise, let alone bring a third party into the conversation. that woman at the bar said it well enough.
@@sixlikesgore7503 he's been trying to prove to her that he knows he messed up and that she can trust him. It's not right to expect someone to pay for the rest of their life for a mistake they made and owned up to and actively try to put in the past.
I think it's fair for her to know the financial situation. Perhaps she didn't express her needs and concerns in the proper way, but if he shared this, she then has a better understanding of where they are at and would probably stop thinking they had cash to burn. The brother needs to go, immediately.
I think you overlooked that his ex wife may not of left due to him not lifting, but his demeanor after losing his career and passion.
And the embarrassment of it.
Thais is living better than people 20 years older than her, assuming he’s not in hella debt.
Lmao I agree. Their segment will be boring if John wasn’t in it 🤣🤣
I think Patrick might be in a multi-marketing scam. Who sells insurance door to door, these days. He might be near the top 1% that makes money.
I have the same feeling. I get major fake-guru/ pyramid scheme vibes from him.
Never tell anybody how much money you got.
Honestly everything is new to a person when you marry or live together. Us since day one i got pregnant and i talked to him about finances bc i don't want my son to be wanting something and i can't give it to him or myself and we talked about finances which is a must in every marriage. Like Steve Harvey said a couple should talk about finances but each one should have their own money to spend on whatever they want, money to pay for expenses like bills etc. that they both put money towards and another for emergency money not trying to control each other
So where's her modeling money?
Elon is pretty cringe and not exactly who I would call the closest thing we have to Batman but Teslas are cool
I think it's difficult to trust in your partner when you live in different countries, because people always tell you that what if he has a family or a wife or a gf in his country.
Also I think they are a beautiful couple, and if my bf keeps paying and acting like a millionaire then if he brings me to a furniture store I'd think I can buy whatever I want because he has the money. That's why it is important he talks about his financial situation, that way she knows how much he can afford and stop requesting things that are too expensive
I think he needs to give her a dollar amount she can spend After the wedding. He's trying to pay for a wedding first.
Doesn't want to reveal his finances. Do we remember Jorge Nava? Flashing his drug money and making promises to his russian model. No prenup but I guess the other couple has that script already taken.
Also, you did not have to throw that Sakura diss in when you mention having not seen Thais do anything in the house 😂😂😂
My sense is that Patrick needed to choose either his fiancé or John. It seems like he is constantly choosing his brother. But, marriage is an all or nothing proposition. The last episode was really dark though. He throws a fit about money after buying her a new iphone and they move into a million dollar house! To me, it feels like something else is going on causing a strong undercurrent of hostility from Patrick. It's hard to imagine how they will work out. But...worst couples have somehow worked out so..
You shouldn't have to choose between his brother and his potential wife. Dont you think it is a messed up situation to choose between the two?
@@TheKh65 yep! That’s what I said. 🍺
Its the roids girlpll
Patrick’s true colours showing methinks
It doesn't matter how much she bitches or complains or is ungrateful, he will still marry her, because she is hot. He will marry her and then complain about how unhappy he is and want to hangout with his brother more. Oh..and his brother John, he'd be on Thais like white on rice if his brother wasn't with her. I'm sorry, but if you choose your "life partner" solely based on looks, then you deserve all the unhappiness you get.
So rude of Patrick calling the girls ugly not nice at all.
Isn't it interesting how a trashy and possibly heavily scripted TV show manages to inspire so much commentary about relationships, personal growth, cultural awareness, etc.?
Btw, proposing after 11 months still sounds a bit too rushed to me, but in the context of 90DF it is almost a reasonable display of restraint.
I'm pretty sure everyone from Brazil identify as a 'model'😂😂 Maybe Patrick will end up another Jorge Nava (Anfisa)
I was thinking the same thing. Hasn't every woman from that area claimed to be a model?
Shout out to John Crist 2:32!...the guy bummed at the gas pump.
I feel like he wouldn’t share his financial situation due to camera’s being there. I’m sure they will or have talked about it behind closed doors.
Agree
Plus he keeps saying $1k for every day he works, she can do the math.
I believe he works for Vivint. His brother wears a hat with the name on it. Door-to-door security salespeople. The company has been an issue in my neighborhood over the past month or two. Won’t take no for an answer.
“Won’t take no for an answer”. Maybe that’s why Patrick makes $1000 a day.
When I was looking at places in TX, it’s one thing people warned me about. Vivint is super pushy and they try to strong arm new home owners into signing on with them.
Put “No Solicitation” and “private property” signs up.
If knowing how much money he had was that important to her she should have ask that before HE flew her over here. I'm sorry but any girl who only wants the guy to buy for them and do for them and need to know how much they have or make, what kind of car they have or how big their house is they are nothing butt gold diggers. He should've asked her how much do you have in your bank account? If she was this big time model over in Brazil she should have her own money so why isn't she putting up anything? Why didn't SHE pay for those stupid looking pillows herself with her own money?
At the end of the day Patrick ain't nothing but another Simp. This young lady is using him and he's letting her.
This right there! 👆 💯 I said it for the longest time Neek and you're spot on, Patty boy is nothing but a simp at his finest.
I disagree with a lot of people about him giving her a phone and then telling her not to use locate. I would never accept locate on in a relationship, period. Him buying her a phone, which she WANTED was a good present. He then HAS to tell her he doesn’t want the locate on, right? That’d be like one of the first things she’d ask to do so he had to bring it up.
And yes I get he’s been unfaithful but still: locate just shows no trust.
He could just be very frugal my boyfriend makes good money and we started both from nothing. He still as frugal as he was when being broke lol
He probably doesn't ever want to be broke again. I put money in savings constantly because I don't ever want to be broke again
Addiction? That’s how…. He was probably addicted & did it again til he messed up so bad he was banned
I completely understand where Patrick is coming from, however,….. l do believe that as his wife to be she should know how much he makes from work but more for a reality check. If he sat down with her and was like here’s my average pay, this much goes to the mortgage, bills, food ect so she’s get a concept of the actual left over $ and who knows maybe they did 🤷♀️but either way some of these people need to grow up if they feel grown enough to get married 👌
IMO, she doesn't need to know that as she'll want to spend the money immediately, she has no concept of money and you can tell when they go shopping. The Tesla Model X he's driving is over $100k. What he's not saying (and I strongly believe this), is that him and John bought the house together, that's why he's not leaving, as he shouldn't since it's his house too.
@@crystalb4926 Well even if she saw how much money he has/makes, doesn’t mean she will spend it all. She cant spend it if he doesn’t give her a card/access to the account.
Somebody said that Patrick looks like a thumb and I can’t unsee it. He’s attractive though.
LoL. I think Emily looks like a thumb😂 Especially when shes upset her chin goes away and her chubby tongue gets confused 😛
@@travisbickle6247 a thumb with boobs.
😂😂😂 wow but truuuuu
@@travisbickle6247 tru as well
Lol
I am from Brazil and I love when some of my Brazilians peers are on the show, with the exeption of Juliana, they are so messy LOL. Note, we found extremely annoying when people talk to us in Spanish. EXTREMELY.
we all know why he has the location on lmao he deserves it and he acted like nothing happened
Thais is only kicking off about the house size because there is not enough space between her and John 🤣
I don’t know 🤷♀️ why these people think they’re so entitled to everything
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I think they watch too many American movies and THEY THINK WE'RE ALL FILTHY RICH!!! Seriously!
@@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 yes they do seem to think that very strange
Hey Wetsock, I love your channel. You are VERY insightful ( for your age) and charismatic to boot. I want to suggest that leaving him for not being able to be an Olympian is not really the extent of it. This guy dedicated his life to a specific pursuit. All of his time and resources were launched, right? He makes a decision to juice, which puts his health, future, career, and reputation on the line-and why? Bad decision, right? He does it AGAIN! As a woman, your partners judgement (or lack thereof) has HUGE impact upon your potential future. It can also have an impact upon any children that you might have. We are talking about the financial, physical and social security of the family. He is not a man that you can depend on to make reliably rational decisions. Just some food for thought...😊
It’s quite obvious he’s still on juice too. To get those results (in physical size) you would be cycling a lot of gear and that is dangerous. If a partner is on a suicide mission, I can understand why someone would check out.
I completely agree with your analysis of Patrick. The Olympic failures are So indicative of who Patrick is at his core.
I’m sure all Would agree that training for an event such as the Olympics is all-encompassing. He lived, breathed, and existed for one goal, and one goal only, THE GOLD!
So the very fact that he would be so ignorant to take steroids before his blood test for qualification, makes one wonder, just how stupid is he?!?!
Then he goes ahead and does the EXACT SAME THING the following year for tryouts to be in the Olympics makes one think, just how stupid does he think Others are?!
So smug is he that he believed he could get away with the steroids that he didn’t get away with the first time!! It says everything about who he is! A brutish selfish, arrogant, juicing behemoth who thinks he’s stronger & smarter than others and who only cares about himself and his appearance.
I think his first wife saw the writing on the wall when she dumped him and one can only hope Thais see it too!
She is a young and beautiful girl who deserves better for herself and would likely have no problem getting herself a better guy. She is no more than eye candy and a means for Patrick to feel studly, despite his double disqualification in the Olympics, which had been his previous life’s goal…
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And it's entirely possible he cheated on his first wife. He cheated on Thais
Patrick cheated on her. He talks about it on one of the episodes. That's why there is a lack of trust.
She knew from the jump that him and his brother lived together so she should stop pushing for the brother to leave.
Just my little unasked for 2 cents I think the only reason why the whole location and co worker thing is so huge for her is bc he already broke that trust and cheated on her so I understand her wanting him to earn the trust back and continue to work through it rather then just giving up
I would never ask/demand my partner to humiliate this way. I wouldn’t want that kind of man.
He cheated that’s why she doesn’t trust him
@@Candy-O1776I’m confused on what’s humiliating ab working on the trust ?
you're wrong. Its not money she cares about she wants to be heard. He doesn't listen to her about the brother and other things.
Yes and she will take the money until she can get the respect to be heard.
Plus she was told that he has the money , so why is she at fault?
With Patrick I can’t decide if his face is small and his heads too big or his body is big and his head is small idk man it bothers me A LOT 😩
Steroids
this fool is letting his alcoholic toxic brother to ruin his life...no woman will put up with this!!!
Thats how much a giraffe weighs? I cannot stop laughing. Thank you
Thais is a snot and gold digger. She made the comment after he said he paid for everything for her like her hair, eyebrows, clothes, nails and lashes that was how it is and get over it. Yes she is attractive but there are many pretty or prettier girls than her.
I don’t think Patrick could live the lifestyle he does without his brother living with him. I also find it difficult to believe he makes $1000.00 a day.
He talks about testing positive for roids like he didnt take them himself like what😂😂😂😂
A girl saying she’s a model is a red flag everywhere Nick , no just in South America 🥴
Why would brothers want to live apart when the house is big enough and they're saving on rent and able to carpool to work together easier
Get rid of her she will spend all your money
Ok I'm only at 14:05 so things might take a turn after I post this 😬
But they're really sweet! He learned Portuguese, they took a bit more time before proposing (still a little quick but for 90 Day Fiancé that's like 6 years), he made her breakfast, she was so happy about his house, and he got her a sweet lil puppers so she wouldn't be lonely and she would have something to do when he was at work! Cute!
I love your 90-Day commentaries. You often spot things I miss.
Patrick has put this woman on a pedestal- mainly because of her looks. Beauty fades and she's losing her beauty with every episode. He has to look past her exterior. Otherwise, he's gonna find out when they have kids and going through a nasty divorce
She made a choice to come here w/nothing and she should leave w/nothing...If she had more in Brazil,she needs to go home..
All I can say is that if you want someone to trust you, you should be an open book. When things are hidden it only invites distrust. Especially when you're considering marrying someone. Why should I dive into marriage with someone that I don't even know what they make? For all I know they could be living off credit cards and debt which to me is unfair. Everyone's cards should be on the table. I don't see this relationship working. Thais doesn't have a handle on what it means to be a working adult as far as finances and the real world. And Patrick is not really ready to share his life with someone.
Home goods, t.j.maxx, hell even the room store has cheaper stuff. He was just trying to make an issue for a story line so he can get more screen time.
“She hasn’t done anything since she’s got here.” *SHOWS SAKURA* CRIES 😭😂
I think Patrick has rearranged his history to suit himself; his wife probably left him because he cheated with his career and not because she only loves a weightlifter !
Yes, I'm almost certain she left because he did illegal things, got caught, and was reckless-stupid-conceited enough to do them AGAIN and ruin his future...and hers. After the first suspension, she probably asked him all the time if he was clean, and he probably lied all the time. Why would she trust him with this or anything else? Even worse, they were both in competitive weightlifting. I'm sure his double disqualification put HER under a microscope with trainers and teams. It's hard to go on loving and respecting someone when their actions reflect poorly on you.
@@irairod5160 Agree!! Not only that, but it probably put her name in a very negative light in the weight lifting community. Can you imagine being talked about because of something her husband did ? And what he did is Bad in the competitive arena.
Yes. Let me get me a gift disguised as something for you AND demand things of you, using the gift for me as leverage.
To me, the most agravating is that they keep saying thngs to Thaís in Spanish. She speaks Portuguese.
He knows if she sees his bank account, she'll spend it until he's broke.
I think she’s looking to see if he’s spending it on someone else
You are the 1st one that really makes sense. No she doesn't need to know how much money he has, bc all she would do is go out and buy anything she saw, not even looking at the price of the things. She has already showed that she doesn't appreciate the things he has done for her already, her disgust attitude toward the new home, her hateful comments on the furniture that is brand new, another thing, she always says her home, well, heck no it's not her home, yet, she gives her the vibe that she is only here to spend his money, money is all she wants and her hateful comments about, Patrick needed to get use to his finance, who has very expensive taste and look she hasn't turned her hands to do nothing around the house, absolutely nothing but yet she wants everything and now she wants to know how much money he has for her to go out and actually throw away, just on the things she wants. I'm on Patrick side here. Don't discuss his money situation with her, before the wedding, especially before the wedding bc i honestly believe that she will be wanting the most outrageous wedding, anyone has ever seen. Yes, there is a time for Patrick to explain his financial situation with her, but absolutely not until maybe a day before the wedding I hope he also puts rules in place of what she is allowed to use it for and that she can't just go out and spend money, especially since she isn't working and won't be able to for at least 6 to 9 months after she been in the states, im sorry but I honestly believe she is only here for her green card and spend money like it grows on trees. At least right now, that's the vibe she is putting off. One other thing, she walks and talk like she is better than anyone else, that she is a somewhat of a person who wants to be sitting on the throne and be worshiped, she thinks she the only cute girl in the world, she's not, she attracted but she's not a beauty queen but she thinks she is no please Patrick don't discuss your money with her at this point, no matter what crap she spits out. How dare her say, you don't respect my feelings, you have already spent over $10,000 dollars on me after just arriving here, but hey, that's not enough, I deserve lots more money. She is actually a very ungrateful human being, IMO as of now, ungrateful as hell
I agree, she gives off those vibes.
@@proudchildofgodthatiamyall3987 Agree!! Especially about how she thinks she's better than anyone. Patrick has to call other girls Ugly to pacify her. He can't work with other women or she will throw a tantrum. My husband & I make good money & I wouldn't spend almost $200 on a pillow! She came from a very poor family and now thinks she can blow Patrick's money. She's not appreciative at all.
@@proudchildofgodthatiamyall3987 yeah, I was shocked when he said he'd already spent $10K on her since she arrived!
22:00 just wanna say, yes we haven't seen her cook/clean etc but do you really think TLC would care about showing these things? To get views, they demonise people to make them appear to be bad people, by emphasising their flaws, maybe she has done stuff and TLC just don't care about showing it cus it doesn't follow their narrative
He's like a bill Burr joke with no punch line
I don't think she needs to know I think as long as he takes care of her she needs to chill she should of came with her own money if she was worried about it
Patrick had to share his location BC “ HE CHEATED!!”
That's not good logic. Either break up or move on in a healthy fashion
Why do they go to such an expensive store. Home goods is a great store, I’ve designed interiors, and many of my designer friends have used home goods.
honestly, as a brazilian that lives out of the country i can say: i don't judge thaís too much, since i personally got very overwhelmed and actually kinda in disbilief of the living conditions are so outsanding compared to Brazil. It so normal for her to be so impressed and excited about the house and money, and you even create some weird stand of needing that type of lifestyle.
also, i would like to point out that Brazil has a huge romaticization of North America and it's lifestyle. ofc she is kinda possesive and jealous, and that's never good, but; her disagreement of having Patrick's brother around all the time is more than understandable. like, whom in their right head space would still be clinging into your brother even though he is 30?!
from also having an older brother, that lived home until his lates 30s, i can say that is not that fun.
but what i find really funny, is how Patrick and John are half-brazilians, but John acts so freaking ignorant. mind blowing.
She should be grateful in that case. Who comes to someone else's home with that kind of attitude. I've lived with my husband's entire family at one point along with our children. She needs to learn respect
@@jaz558 I agree, her behavior upon entering that house was extremely rude and disrespectful Most people would have been very grateful to get to live in such a lovely home!
@@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 I don’t think is necessarily about gratitude, but more about adapting. Let’s remember she’s a fresh immigrant, from a country that good housing like that is considered to be a privilege for lots of Brazilians. She could’ve had a better way to communicate, since I do find it rude and obnoxious sometimes, but I also understand her.
@@mainxmari 🤐🤐🤐🤧🤧🤒🤒🤭🤭
@@jaz558 she said on the way from the airport that she does not want a room. I don't know what kind of a human being she is. Imagine some one talking about your brother like that. I want to remind her that blood is thicker water. If someone does not like your sibling its better to forget about marriage.
I think he is having second thoughts so he’s trying to hold back on how much he has because she clearly doesn’t care and everything is about her the first thing she wanted to do was get rid of the brother and the brother was there during the tough times and you can’t forget about that
Omg I died laughing watching this episode. My boyfriend doesn’t like Patrick and my Mom thinks he’s a hunk. 🤦🏻♀️
Please do video on Jibri, his mother and Miona 😂
The term “whiskey di**!! Omg I’m dying. Love your reviews!
I honestly think Thais is super sweet. For one who wants to live with someone’s brother after 30 , secondly he made it seem like he would take care of her and spoil her and switched when it was too much, also he’s cheated so that’s why she wants his location
Ya but he cheated at a party at his own house. The location app only gives the location of the phone, not what type of place it is and who else is there. It's not nearly as useful as she thinks it is. Plus if he wants to go have a quickie he can leave the phone on his desk.
It’s not just their house. They live TOGETHER. John can have a kickback if he wants. She’s controlling af and I’d be TRYING to push her buttons
I'm not sure why this is difficult to comprehend for people. Often brothers live together. My ex was 40 and he made good money but his brother was having some alcohol abuse issues and lived with us. I'm not sure why family living together is such a taboo in the US
This is the most balanced opinion I’ve seen on this couple yet lol
Patrick is passively playing victim in this relationship. He constantly blames Thais for wanting to spend so much of his money (you understood you would be financially supporting her when she came to the country and didn't seem to make strict budgets with her, what do you expect?). It also left a bad taste in my mouth when both Patrick and Thais called the other girls that came to their housewarming ugly... If they're putting strangers down by insulting other women and calling them ugly, it's obvious they're both insecure people. Also Patrick looks like Shrek when he transformed into a human in Shrek the Third, so he shouldn't be calling anyone ugly. Thais' attitude takes away from her pretty face.
I personally would just have location services on for my husband and I simply for safety reasons. Cities in the U.S. are becoming increasingly unsafe and I would like to know where he is in case something happens.
You should do a video snippet of how Patrick's brother John is actually the guy from the Sam Adams commercial ("my cousin from Boston"). That would be hilarious...
Like I always say,, a thief suspects a thief..
All these over the top extremely jealous & possessive Latin women are defecting & revealing more about themselves...Recalling Jennifer with Caca & Jasmine, etc etc...
So Unless you've been given solid cause to be distrustful of ur mate be weary of ppl who think everyone is like they are...& also, never falsely think that possessive & unwarranted jealousy means they love you...not at all....big mistake if you buy that...Now if the jealousy is caused by legit reason and its clear cut and dry & someone cross the line and you have evidence thats a horse of a different color of course.
She is 25 going on 12 years old. HUGE red flag with her father and trying to force him to marry her.
john’s accent hahahaha YU PUT THE LOCATION ON YASELF
The "give up on your dream" cut 😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀
In Thais's defends, the reason he suggested having his location on in the first place is because he actually cheated on her, and that was his way of rebuilding her trust.