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  • @theinstructionalarchitect
    @theinstructionalarchitect 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I agree 100%! I think our generation overshares and when we do and get backlash we put ourselves in a position to feel like we have to defend it and step out of alignment with God...this goes both ways, with good stuff and bad. I see it in Christian couples as well. Someone once said; if you don't want people to talk about it, don't share it. We thank God for wisdom🙏🏾

    • @ChooseJoywithTisa
      @ChooseJoywithTisa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes! God will definitely lead us to share our testimonies. If He doesn't, don't do it.

    • @juanitarodgers9735
      @juanitarodgers9735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am so guilty of this.

    • @gaystewart7844
      @gaystewart7844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juanitarodgers9735 I was too, and I learned a painful lesson.

    • @dee-deejones4427
      @dee-deejones4427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Amen

    • @brokenbutsavedbyHisGrace
      @brokenbutsavedbyHisGrace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow AMEN !!❤️❤️😭

  • @IFEOLUWA..
    @IFEOLUWA.. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This was so good, especially the part about Mary keeping the things the angel said to her. This is enlightening.

  • @freshlybrewedtruth5600
    @freshlybrewedtruth5600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I can not stand get togethers with other women that bash their husbands. I used to join in on those conversations at the beginning of our marriage but God did eventually convict me and I steer clear from getting close with women that are like that.

    • @yeyamusic
      @yeyamusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏽 amen

    • @janifieladam
      @janifieladam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm happy you stopped doing that. May God keep on blessing your marriage

    • @bangibabs
      @bangibabs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen💯🙏🏾❤️

  • @mrs.pulliam839
    @mrs.pulliam839 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This reminds me of Proverbs 29:11. It says ,"only a fool reveals his whole heart". Great topic.

  • @kellyncapps5033
    @kellyncapps5033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    My marriage needs major healing. I just pray that our breakthrough will come soon. God, you are the only one that can restore our marriage. ❤️

    • @hannbanan715
      @hannbanan715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God can restore!!

    • @TimothaLanae
      @TimothaLanae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@24Lori Thanks for sharing about The Empowered Wife! I just looked up the audio book and listened to a sample. It seems really good! How did it help you on your marriage journey?

    • @chanyu406
      @chanyu406 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      May the Lord bring restoration in abundance

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be willing to submit and be and remain humble in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH. The name above ALL names. AMEN. Truly choose to let go ALL of the way and LET GOD HAVE HIS WAY IN EVERY AREA OF YOU ALL'S/YOUR LIFE.

  • @mslo7118
    @mslo7118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I had bashed my husband for years and God said you can't respect him and bash him at the same time so choose this day what you will do.

  • @movingonup149
    @movingonup149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Powerful message! Key take away: use discretion to nurture, protect, and grow your relationships with the people you cherish the most!

  • @laurademan5200
    @laurademan5200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I learned as my walk with Jesus. We don't need to share things about our personal life with other Christians or anybody. Only with God

  • @LaMadrinaGrace
    @LaMadrinaGrace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love this, queens! I am not married but this is valuable even within the friendship and family circle! Discretion and good understanding is our friend!

  • @sim3dxr
    @sim3dxr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Never overshare, yes! Others will talk about it. God bless you.

  • @lalas.9769
    @lalas.9769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yes I am guilty today for boasting because of my feelings. My feelings always have been my thoughts and it’s it not good😞 I’ll be praying for forgiveness and self control.

    • @jacquelinewelch3021
      @jacquelinewelch3021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are Not alone in this sis, praying God strength to you and I both as we submit to God in this area.

    • @lalas.9769
      @lalas.9769 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jacquelinewelch3021 thanks Jacqueline 💙

  • @reedorlowski8363
    @reedorlowski8363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My relationship needs healing and restoration. We need deliverance IJN

  • @biblestudieswithdomlaf3310
    @biblestudieswithdomlaf3310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I loved this and am so guilty of over sharing. My hub turned out different than I had hoped for but that doesn’t give me a reason to bash him during his weak moments so matter how he is with me. I pray for maturity in us both! Thnx for this

  • @rosemaryjones5445
    @rosemaryjones5445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Amen! Well,said. Relationships should be intimate and not causally over shared.

  • @brucetenhave6952
    @brucetenhave6952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "My life is more than a moment, its a lifestyle" (...I'm saved by love!!! ).
    We are not defined by what we do or think but live by Gods grace.
    Im so grateful 💜
    God is soooo kind 💚
    Thankyou Havinah for sharing this. It has gone deep into my heart 😘

  • @misskat7437
    @misskat7437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My pastor said something just now that really resonated with me "It's only the Lord that sees you." I've been praying about making space for myself and others, and I've been experiencing some physical symptoms due to my health- and as a result of course some ppl who aren't used to it may not understand that. Hearing my pastor say that made me realize its not about who does or doesn't 'see' me, because God sees me. Of course that helps me not take on offenses/ burdens. It's all His.

  • @StrongHer40
    @StrongHer40 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love this ! What my future spouse and I share with each other stays between God and us. Godvenant matters so much (God and my covenant to my spouse matters). Thank you for sharing.

  • @laurajeffreys9347
    @laurajeffreys9347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you! This message has completely helped me to realize why I've had a difficult time making and keeping friends!
    No one EVER told me in my entire life that we shouldn't discuss our challenges in our marriage with other sisters! Wow! I just didn't know. What a fool I've been.
    Seeking prayer 🙏

  • @ChooseJoywithTisa
    @ChooseJoywithTisa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Trust is foundational to every relationship. Which is why our relationship with Jesus is so amazing - He knows, He walked our truth. We can trust His guidance 💙

  • @barakongalipin6208
    @barakongalipin6208 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely.. protect your husband, as when the time you accepted him , you’re one in spirit. Whatever shame or nice things you’re telling about him, also reflects of who you are. Thanks and God bless guys🙏

  • @alwayskrazy
    @alwayskrazy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow! So good. I was just thinking today how I share everything that goes on with my friends and there is no need for that. It’s one thing when seeking godly counsel and having someone filter things through God’s eyes. But if it’s not that I plan on working on redeeming that area of my life

  • @hermajestyreboroyal1800
    @hermajestyreboroyal1800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This spoke to me in a very prophetic, personal and special way, i thank the Lord who drew me to this video.

  • @kirahg9442
    @kirahg9442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love her transparency because I can definitely relate!

  • @amarachigoodnessaniogbo9880
    @amarachigoodnessaniogbo9880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Profound Havillah 👏🏽

  • @millieempowers
    @millieempowers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed to hear this, I have a bad habit of oversharing sometimes!

  • @michellehoggard49
    @michellehoggard49 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really did enjoy it. She answered a question I was thinking. God is awesome.

  • @Musicfreaklolduh
    @Musicfreaklolduh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is something I'm learning and going through. Its very important to keep things between me and God.

  • @msjay6780
    @msjay6780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! "Stop boasting n oversharing" 😄🙏

  • @joyh.729
    @joyh.729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow! What wise words! Thank you Lord🌟🌟🌟

  • @ryansmith7721
    @ryansmith7721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so so good!!! I really needed to hear this today!!!

  • @justjuju88
    @justjuju88 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This message was so good. Like I heard Pastor Mike Todd say: the quickest way to kill a vision is when it's in seed form. It's makes me wonder how many thing's God wanted me to do, but I just trusted saying it to the wrong person. And instead of living it died. It applies to many seasons in life. 😥

  • @sabirrobinson1476
    @sabirrobinson1476 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Make space for sacred things 🥰🙌🏾! Thank you for allowing The Holy Spirit to use you ❤️

  • @JHarris727.
    @JHarris727. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This message is for me God is saying listen carefully thank you my sister for this word I pray the Lord will continue to use you in every way to spread the gospel in Jesus Name Amen

  • @ayeshakeller
    @ayeshakeller 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so full of gems. Thank you Havilah for letting God speak through you❤️

  • @Lilyeh-OMJ
    @Lilyeh-OMJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How beautiful & true. Thank the Lord Jesus & you for sharing a much needed lesson.♥️

  • @fgbowen
    @fgbowen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    9:17 - wow. This is... so brilliantly excellent. Thank you Jesus for these words spoken.

  • @AngieeShipps
    @AngieeShipps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Felt like Havilah was speaking right to me !! This was soo good.

  • @donyadrewitt5265
    @donyadrewitt5265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Stillborn spiritual experiences" my God I felt that! Lord, thank You for allowing me to come across this video. Holding those things You've shared with me closely and only between You and I.

  • @TEDDYBEARTOWN1111
    @TEDDYBEARTOWN1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well spoken!! Received. Thank you.

  • @MsWallaboo
    @MsWallaboo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was good. This needed to be said!

  • @ischelestyle-erikab.7850
    @ischelestyle-erikab.7850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was great and I needed to hear this! Thank you

    • @ChooseJoywithTisa
      @ChooseJoywithTisa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Right! What a heart felt reminder to hide ourselves in the covering of God. He will show us what and when to share 💙

    • @soloangel625
      @soloangel625 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is great message it is true we should talk good about each other. I have experienced some ladies enjoy talking something bad about husbands But we all sim and we repent ask forgiveness. From God and we are changed lifting up each other in prayers to God amen. Marriage is a gift from God and let is pray for each other Glory to God.

    • @soloangel625
      @soloangel625 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are challenges in marriages but only God can save marriages Amen. Seek professional counsellors and God in the centre of marriage. Marry a person who put Jesus first you will have joy peace true love from God amen God bless you all. Psalms 91. Enjoy

  • @phumlaninela685
    @phumlaninela685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So so powerful!!! Thank you 🙏🏽 ♥️🔥

  • @mcleankristen2
    @mcleankristen2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so beautiful and important to hear! Thank you❤

  • @lisaadusei9371
    @lisaadusei9371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I needed to hear that.thank you ,🙌🏾

  • @luireiphyps
    @luireiphyps 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh... thank you so much! This was really a good message. 🙏

  • @ufuomaebireri5554
    @ufuomaebireri5554 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A conscious reminder to me. Came at the right time. Bless you

  • @JoanitahBN
    @JoanitahBN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was so blessed dear. I learnt a great lesson. Thank you

  • @ludokhupe7864
    @ludokhupe7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow... making space for sacred things..Amen!

  • @praise874
    @praise874 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this word. 🙌🏾

  • @tonyamcgrew5891
    @tonyamcgrew5891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    husbands/partners need to do the same with their friends

  • @kathycole1
    @kathycole1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @meerajakhar7275
    @meerajakhar7275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent share. Thank you Lord for your instructions.

  • @godloveletter8219
    @godloveletter8219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen. God has a secret between HIM and me... when it's time it will be full grown. Thank you so much Ma'am for sharing. I love you! God bless, you all beautiful people, you all inspires me! ❤️👍❤️😊❤️😇❤️🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @Gat817
    @Gat817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This blessed me! Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @eleanorlewis
    @eleanorlewis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was good. Thank you.

  • @CarronC
    @CarronC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a powerful message filled with wisdom and nuggets.

  • @priscillaofei3569
    @priscillaofei3569 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well spoken... It's essential to treasure some things in our hearts

  • @lmeadows8276
    @lmeadows8276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved hearing this. . Thanks for sharing

  • @krisd870
    @krisd870 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow thank you for sharing. I’m one of those people. I can use this to grow. Very deep.

  • @EverythingImaniP
    @EverythingImaniP 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen. Thank you for this!

  • @angelrobinson5257
    @angelrobinson5257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a problem with oversharing 😒 I don't always THINK before I speak

  • @latoyawilliams4092
    @latoyawilliams4092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    AWESOME INSIGHT!!! Thank you!!

  • @grandeurhairemporium1242
    @grandeurhairemporium1242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Deep!

  • @sunithagirish2139
    @sunithagirish2139 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's an amazing groundbreaking word! Thank you!

  • @truebelieverinthelord7823
    @truebelieverinthelord7823 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This’s so good!

  • @eringuillory7546
    @eringuillory7546 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, I know I do this it's just exciting

  • @valeriekawangu2176
    @valeriekawangu2176 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What wisdom ❤️

  • @debbiem6406
    @debbiem6406 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Proverbs 31 woman. A beautiful example of a mother instructing her son on what to look for in a wife.

  • @Nemyinspired
    @Nemyinspired 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for enlightening us on marriage.

  • @nondumisomadlala1692
    @nondumisomadlala1692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woooooooooooow So profound & powerful 👌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

  • @cnD64
    @cnD64 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So good, thanks for sharing!! ❤👏🏽

  • @namarapamela6681
    @namarapamela6681 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I heard this earlier 😢.how I have really messed up thru over sharing

  • @jriley810
    @jriley810 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen. So good!

  • @jelisasanders9308
    @jelisasanders9308 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I so needed this! Wow!

  • @nailanteiturere8916
    @nailanteiturere8916 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was absolutely profound

  • @anthonygriffith3
    @anthonygriffith3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this message, and Havilah

  • @daughteroftheking3974
    @daughteroftheking3974 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was really good

  • @lavernehill6504
    @lavernehill6504 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So good. Thank you🙌

  • @stephaniej.taylor9688
    @stephaniej.taylor9688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said!!!!

  • @lorihunsaker1810
    @lorihunsaker1810 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true!

  • @AS3132
    @AS3132 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing this with me. I do appreciate it. Mouth seal Lord. Honor honor honor Lord God

  • @kinitokaibai6361
    @kinitokaibai6361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A very wise message, thankyou...

  • @roselineasante614
    @roselineasante614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WISDOM🙏🏿

  • @veeedgee
    @veeedgee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was such an awesome word!

  • @twinmom9728
    @twinmom9728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Woow I felt that. Stop oversharing

  • @Edi_Moyo
    @Edi_Moyo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this!

  • @antoinetteramos6284
    @antoinetteramos6284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is sooo good!!!

  • @LadyK09
    @LadyK09 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is why our man cannot be fully open with us because we over share👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 that's why Paul told us woman to learn how to be silent... Not mute 🤐 but silent

  • @esthermbabazi_
    @esthermbabazi_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    In short,move in silence

  • @tanisoneye6639
    @tanisoneye6639 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super insightful!

  • @hesavedmeagain
    @hesavedmeagain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    In the name of jesus father I repent for sins known and unknown help me father to trustworthy and grateful in the name of jesus
    I want to be who people can trust to vent to in the name of jesus amen amen in the name of jesus amen

  • @Olaedomusic
    @Olaedomusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very well said 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

  • @NoraKong
    @NoraKong 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was beautiful and I love her name.

  • @jemmy924
    @jemmy924 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My oh my! This was so powerful :) Too many videos to like and save so it's best to subscribe lol

  • @millieempowers
    @millieempowers 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stillborn spiritual experiences ‼️ I heard that!

  • @buyijoydlamini6340
    @buyijoydlamini6340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this.

  • @patiencemunhenzva7254
    @patiencemunhenzva7254 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing video

  • @Faithwithbecca
    @Faithwithbecca 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow love this

  • @annecasimir492
    @annecasimir492 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It would be nice to hear the other women speak on this as well.