fariha mehrin but it's beautiful too ❤️ as when one thing ends, new begins :) stat happy ❤️✨ i can relate so much as i did close a chapter with a toxic guy but now i will meet a nice guy who genuinely loves me and i will get a new and healthy relationship ❤️✨
I cried so much because i've been cheated, treated like a fool by my students and being dissapointed by many people, but i slowly regain strength listening this song.. Selena, thank you for this beautiful and powerful song, i hope you will have a good life ahead with someone deserves you
Girl, I don't know you but I feel what you wrote, I have been through the same. I hope you are doing great and you have found people that deserve your love. I wish I could hug you, but I send you love from distance.
This song is so relatable in real life. Nah I am not talking about gfs and bfs but your friends. Sometimes we need to avoid and leave some people to love and believe ourselves.
“I needed to hate you to love me” I’m not in a relationship, but I somehow interpret this song as more of a toxic friendship. I feel like I’ve gotten into one and every time she says something about me I feel like I hate myself as I hate letting other people down. I had to silently push her away so that I could love myself.
Ensure you put balance and self care first, you can't fix toxicity once you've shown love, you've done your best. Tell guilt I'm not accountable for another person's actions when ive tried my best in all sincerity.
same. just got out of a online toxic friendship and i feel better. i always try to give them advice and when i told them how i really felt about their attitudes, they took it seriously and called me names. they knew that i was grieving over my mom dying last month and what they said made me hurt even more. I'm done putting other people before me. from now on, i'll focus on myself.
This song is healing not only for her, but for the ones who had a broken heart, and took us some time to heal at all. I love her so much, she's so brave.
speechless...........................its a work of art because it just exemplifies sooooo much depth and care, its a lot but you just do it which is why your music is so vivid and beautiful
This song has a deeper meaning to me personally. I was in rehab for 5 months and would hear this on the radio and it fit for my situation, listening to the lyrics this was my song for my addictions. I had to go through the things I did to reach the place I am now and I didn't see it until now. I went from hating myself and wanting to die to actually loving myself and loving life. 12 years down the drain but I am thankful for every step I took and the struggle I have over came. Just thought I'd leave that here :) To anyone out there struggling with addiction or mental issues, please go get help and learn to love yourself. Things will get better!
Selena is genuinely helping me heal from heartbreak. Doubt the nepo babies could do this for me the same smh I am so grateful that you have this reach. Thank you Selena💚
I've been emotionally abused before too and I know all too well how hard it is to heal and get stronger again. It's taken me about a year or so but now I can look back on last year and see how much better off I am now and know that that wasn't the kind of relationship I was meant for. Even if I wind up not having a relationship again I would at least know it wasn't with a manipulative narcissist who gaslit me at every turn.
Es hermoso escucharla y pensar profundamente en su letra. Revivir todas esas experiencias que has pasado y decir en voz alta: "Necesitaba dejarte ir para amarme".
I love your of your album and I am very proud of you, it shows real honesty and reflection. Always remember "You define yourself, and no one else and never give that away to anyone!!!!!"
Selena! Your song has helped me so much..Thank you for putting your experience and emotions into this amazing work of art. The words were not only felt by so many, but also taken as a great heads up about better days to come. I ♥️ you so much!
That "I needed to hate you to love me.. " My interpretation is, when you are too much in love with the person you lose yourself in the process and forgot your self-worth but you cant unloved that person so you resort on hating him/her just to go back to your old self.
This hits hard any year I listen to. We all have that one person in our lives where we had to learn to hate in order to save ourselves. The love, the passion was just too much to go on. Too toxic to hold on to... We had to find ourselves, to know we are worthy for a healthy love. Love shouldn't be this difficult.
"And now the chapter is closed and done" this line hurts like hell
Love the song
"Its goodbye for us.." 😭😭
fariha mehrin but it's beautiful too ❤️
as when one thing ends, new begins :)
stat happy ❤️✨
i can relate so much as i did close a chapter with a toxic guy but now i will meet a nice guy who genuinely loves me and i will get a new and healthy relationship ❤️✨
@@morningglory.213 you will 😊
Precious Bitch I needed to hear this. Selenators always have the most healing words.
Thanks yall are so appreciating 😘❤️✨
I dont understand why people dislikes this masterpiece
Justin fans
STUPID
Cuz they're tasteless!
Haters
So ppl dislike this song ?
She should’ve made more songs like this for her album :( this style suits her voice well
X2
Crowded Room fits her Voice so beautifully
So true. This is the best song on the album. She should have made more like this.
Yes like this is really my favorite song on the album. Yikes. 😢
Try VULNERABLE!
This song is so deep. Selena is a lengend.
*legend😌
She is
"And now, the chapter is closed and done"
🥺🥺🥺🥺
LDC LDC yeah🥺
😭😭😭😭😭😭
@@rafaelabueno8242 IN MEMORIAM Charlie Harper 2014-2021/22
That line chokes me up all the time because it reminds me of the best year of my life and I didn’t want it to end
Such a song full of acceptance, healing, self love and reflection
Who else is listening in order now thats its finally been released?
Mee
Meeee
yes and i like the singles more now with all the context
E x a 👋🏻
Meeeeee.. This is the final song❤
Most heart breaking line is
In two months you replaced us.....
bro let me tell you, I FELT THAT
You are right
Keechi keechi jahan
In two months your replaced us
Like it was easy
This is more hitting
true.
Yes... Same....
Popular opinion: this is one of Selena’s best songs
I cried so much because i've been cheated, treated like a fool by my students and being dissapointed by many people, but i slowly regain strength listening this song.. Selena, thank you for this beautiful and powerful song, i hope you will have a good life ahead with someone deserves you
Girl, I don't know you but I feel what you wrote, I have been through the same. I hope you are doing great and you have found people that deserve your love. I wish I could hug you, but I send you love from distance.
@@aprendemodadigital thank you so much💙💙💙
This song is so relatable in real life. Nah I am not talking about gfs and bfs but your friends. Sometimes we need to avoid and leave some people to love and believe ourselves.
This is the best song of her album
Who agree?
Whoever is reading this and relating to this song, I pray and hope that your happiness is coming soon. ❤️
Thanks and I hope the same for you❤️
“I needed to lose you to love me”
Selena speaks to all of us hurting souls right now
“I needed to hate you to love me”
I’m not in a relationship, but I somehow interpret this song as more of a toxic friendship. I feel like I’ve gotten into one and every time she says something about me I feel like I hate myself as I hate letting other people down. I had to silently push her away so that I could love myself.
Ensure you put balance and self care first, you can't fix toxicity once you've shown love, you've done your best. Tell guilt I'm not accountable for another person's actions when ive tried my best in all sincerity.
I'm currently doing the same, my behaviour and mood has changed drastically. My emotional health has improved and I am glad.
same. just got out of a online toxic friendship and i feel better. i always try to give them advice and when i told them how i really felt about their attitudes, they took it seriously and called me names. they knew that i was grieving over my mom dying last month and what they said made me hurt even more. I'm done putting other people before me. from now on, i'll focus on myself.
*• Uni • Teaa •*
Stay strong don’t let anyone tear you down, I’m sure you have really supportive people with you. Don’t let anyone hurt you
I went through exact same thing with my male best friend and I also silently pushed him away
I never took Selena Gomez seriously til this song. This song gave me prospective on my own pain. It gave me the closure he never gave me
"In two months you replaced us" this line hurts..😟
True
Sooo deep and hurts
yeah really :[
He did
this is touchy at any age, at any time, at any place.
This song just always hits different every time ya hear it 🤝
Yes
Yes it does🙂
Love this song
You can really hear the pain in her voice.This song deserves so much more recognition.I lOVE YOU SELENA!!!!!!
This song is healing not only for her, but for the ones who had a broken heart, and took us some time to heal at all. I love her so much, she's so brave.
speechless...........................its a work of art because it just exemplifies sooooo much depth and care, its a lot but you just do it which is why your music is so vivid and beautiful
*pretends that this is my first time listening to this song*
ME
@@didisnoodle ME-HEE-HEE!
“.. And now it’s goodbye, it’s goodbye for us.”
That is the goddamn line that makes this song. The finality of it. OH. MY GODDAMN HEART.
Don’t say God’s name in vain
The last 3 notes after that line make me cry all the time
The last 3 notes killed me 💔
1:32
Dang....
I felt that pain in her voice. Wish I could give her a hug.
This song is like a soft, fluffy cloud that I could drown in forever
What amazing talent, singing, dancing, acting, producing movies. She is shining.
no she was so right, this song is genuinely her best song. I love it sm
This song has a deeper meaning to me personally. I was in rehab for 5 months and would hear this on the radio and it fit for my situation, listening to the lyrics this was my song for my addictions. I had to go through the things I did to reach the place I am now and I didn't see it until now. I went from hating myself and wanting to die to actually loving myself and loving life. 12 years down the drain but I am thankful for every step I took and the struggle I have over came. Just thought I'd leave that here :) To anyone out there struggling with addiction or mental issues, please go get help and learn to love yourself. Things will get better!
Hope you are still doing well bro
This song healed me truly as a person during difficult times of my life
I think it was the saddest song on the album, I love it, you're a very strong girl ❤️
After years of waiting she didn't disappoint so proud to see our Queen back.
When Selena said :
You promised the world
and I feel for it :(
I felt that
I was there when he promised but couldn't keep the promise he is way bad to love
Morning, noon, afternoon, evening, night, dawn, I always listen to this masterpiece
Selena "the baby whisperer"" tried playing this to my 8month old baby girl and she just listening n stop moving..amazing lady
Selena is genuinely helping me heal from heartbreak.
Doubt the nepo babies could do this for me the same smh
I am so grateful that you have this reach. Thank you Selena💚
I wish Selena's life was as perfect, as she herself
--no time,
"And know the chapter is closed and done.
And now it's goodbye it's goodbye for us"
* cries in jelena *
like we didn't already memorise this song
She's a legend fr
Iconic!! Forever will be an anthem of self love!
This is what I needed. Thank you Selena. Sometimes you just have to feel the pain or sorrow.
" In two months you replaced us like it was easy made me think I deserved it in the thick of healing " 😭❤❤❤
If I already know all the lyrics of this song? YESSSS! But I'll watch anyway because I love Selena Gomez.
I love this song. It reminds of relationships or friendships when I struggle to find happiness and freedom to make a new chapter.
I've been emotionally abused before too and I know all too well how hard it is to heal and get stronger again. It's taken me about a year or so but now I can look back on last year and see how much better off I am now and know that that wasn't the kind of relationship I was meant for.
Even if I wind up not having a relationship again I would at least know it wasn't with a manipulative narcissist who gaslit me at every turn.
Same
I relate to every word you said
Losing someone doesn’t Value YOU is not a Loss....
it’s a GAIN for YOU...❤️
very true 👏
Heard this song for the 1000th time today ...
Still got me emotional 🙌🏼
The meanings of this lyrics are so deep and hitting hard. Selena writes songs with all her heart 😌and we can feel it.💗
She is so brave
She is inspiration of so many People. keep it up!
the fact this was not nominated for a grammy i-
Your not alone listening to this masterpiece. Love ya all
IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!😍😍😍🥺🥺🥺
Her full rare album is amazing🤩
“IN TWO MONTHS YOU REPLACED US”
I felt that
Selena dont retire music please 🥺♥️
She didn't lose justin. Justin lost her !
Justin didn't deserve her like at all
Lmao justin is married he doesn't even care about her
@@kbowlesx7842 Lol n who told u selena care about him imao
@@kbowlesx7842 Selena doesn't care either. Didn't you hear and see the lyrics properly?
He's such a jerk to let go of Selena she's an angel, I mean c'mon
Es hermoso escucharla y pensar profundamente en su letra. Revivir todas esas experiencias que has pasado y decir en voz alta: "Necesitaba dejarte ir para amarme".
This album deserve the Grammys😍!
This album is amazing wow 😭😭
Please please don't retire music
We love you
We need you
"And now the chapter is closed and done..."
Simple 🥺🙏🏼
thanks for the song, that story hits me with my past selena spirit
One of her best songs ever❤️
such a masterpiece
This is her best vocal performance. I love this song
I can only imagine the first time she wrote it "and now it's goodbye for us." 😭😭😭
"I Needed To Hate You To Love Me"
for me this lyrics has a very deep meaning, i love it 🖤💓
I love your of your album and I am very proud of you, it shows real honesty and reflection. Always remember "You define yourself, and no one else and never give that away to anyone!!!!!"
This song will forever be the best thing I've ever heard
Thank you for being brave enough to release this, it's helped so many ❤❤
The ammount of emotions in her voice in this song , I just can’t, I’m crying no cap 🥺
I still love this song. It makes me sad that selena has been through this kind of hearbreak. But look at her now! She happily free and independent
I actually can feel the pain in her voice..
And finally she relase EVERYTHING in a song..
Selena is just a legend man❤️❤️
Selena! Your song has helped me so much..Thank you for putting your experience and emotions into this amazing work of art. The words were not only felt by so many, but also taken as a great heads up about better days to come. I ♥️ you so much!
She's an angel
That "I needed to hate you to love me.. " My interpretation is, when you are too much in love with the person you lose yourself in the process and forgot your self-worth but you cant unloved that person so you resort on hating him/her just to go back to your old self.
True enough
(RARE album)is the most beautiful thing that happened in 2020 ,thanx our selena❤
' i needed to hate you to love me, ya'
love this song
I hope whenever she puts out her next album she does her lyric videos like this or just lyric videos for them in general
Others songs are great but this one really tears me up 😍😍😭😭🤧🤧
Selena, thank you for making this song❤
She loved him, More than he did. Poor Selena🥺I wish she’ll find someone who worth her 💕
@C RD she didn't even care about him
Hi my name is Eemaan I Love your song
This is my favorite song of the entire album, hell maybe of all time it fits Selena so well . her voice is so smooth an calming.
I also broke up some months ago , And this song really hurts. Cause i know i have done everything to keep it up but actually no one cares.
Sorry
I am sorry to hear that, sweetie, but i think you will have a good life ahead, send much love and hugs for youu
be strong ,if it ends it wasn't mean to stay ,u deserve better,love yourself cuz no one can make u more happy than your self!
Brooo she put her all into this song, you can just feel it 👏🏾
Waited for this for so long i am so happy she is finally back! I loved her since i was a little girl, i am so proud of her!! ❤👑.
Her voice is really perfect for this style.Love you always sel
I absolutely have loved this song since it has came out
This hits hard any year I listen to. We all have that one person in our lives where we had to learn to hate in order to save ourselves. The love, the passion was just too much to go on. Too toxic to hold on to... We had to find ourselves, to know we are worthy for a healthy love. Love shouldn't be this difficult.
You are always awesome
Can I get your number of 2020
I want number of Selena Gomez
nothing will be more ethereal than this song
"In 2 months you replaced us " felt it in the gut
Here, 2/24Love, You Selena🌬️💙
Even if she try to forget... Love will remember
This is definitely the best song of the album. It's the most emotional and I just like songs better with piano.
In two months you replaced us , like it was easy
This line hits me harder ❤
The amount of songs that came out about self love n self worth n 2020 whew🌹
When I heard this song I stopped what I was doing and listen attentively. This song is like a moth to a flame that match my soul. Thank You Selena
*This is the best for the weekend* 🌟
Selena is awesome....beautiful voice and lyrics. I adore her! Justin never deserved her anyway.