This is a truth revealing topic. Thank you, Racheal & Eva. A scenario came to mind to bring the matter home for me: You walk in at Spear Motors and ask to test drive a 300M Mercedes Benz before you make up your mind whether to buy or not. You get excited with its road performance & you crash it. The company legally compels you to pay close to 100M in repairs. You walk away with an experience of how a Mercedes feels, but without owning it! Yet with some wounds to show!
1.commitment# when u commit, u direct material and emotional resources. 2.Security, if banks ask for security how about securing your relationship? Wow what a wealth of knowledge, thank you ladies# God bless you both
I'm indeed blessed for having gotten this information. Sometimes only love aint just enough, she said "Love needs security inorder for it to be fulfilling" and it's really 100% true. I learnt it today, processed it and I totally agree.
You have explained this so well. This was my episode. This is my biggest mistake in my 20's and I would never advice any lady to move in as if it is an emergency. I have never forgiven myself for compromising my Christian values 😔. In summary, I feel exhausted and sad, this is one area of my life that i don't discuss with my friends. I dont even enjoy attending other people's functions anymore.
Liked this episode a lot because it put into perspective this, "come we stay" phenomenon. I once had a friend that I was trying explain the danger of "come we stay" to but she wouldn't listen to me. She went ahead and stayed. It has been a rollercoaster for her. I now see that I didn't have the right words to explain what could go wrong. Thanks Evas for helping us explain things that we struggle to explain.
Such an eye opening session especially for those who were contemplating this sort of arrangement/approach. A Very informative show ladies. . Always a blessing to us❤❤❤
Thank you for this Episode Words make impossible possible for sure, it's just how to communicate and a deeper understanding of reality. I would also love for you to discuss the realities of faith (religion) esp in the recent years, I feel pastors are breaking marriages (women tend to follow their pastors and now do the wrong things when it comes to managing their home affairs)
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It's interesting how the law recognizes common law relationships in North America. When a man and woman live together, they are considered common law, and after a year, if they want to separate, they divide whatever they acquire living together 50/50. Some even buy a house and have to sell. It's treated like a marriage.
Sadly it is different here, which is why seeking security and commitment first before you live together might be the protection you need in case of future challenges.
Depends because again some countries like Canada common law doesn’t affect such things but if maybe there is a chance of a baby of course the parents will have to discuss over child support so I believe marriage should be respected and valued at all costs.
This is really an intresting talk Can you talk about the choices parents make to their children interms of getting them spouses without their consents or permission.
I love this show, I watch it religiously. You are doing the lord's work. Something doesn't sit right with using particular examples, maybe if you could state like a scenario, other than saying there is lady that came to me etc, If I have been to you and I watch the show I will know you're referring to me and I think trust is then broken. My Unsolicited two cents.
Thank you. I can't forget that illustration of sticky tap in broken heart syndrome
This is a truth revealing topic. Thank you, Racheal & Eva. A scenario came to mind to bring the matter home for me: You walk in at Spear Motors and ask to test drive a 300M Mercedes Benz before you make up your mind whether to buy or not. You get excited with its road performance & you crash it. The company legally compels you to pay close to 100M in repairs. You walk away with an experience of how a Mercedes feels, but without owning it! Yet with some wounds to show!
This is very helpful illustration! Thank you so much Douglas.
Every unmarried young lady should listen to this. Thank you Dr. Evas
1.commitment# when u commit, u direct material and emotional resources.
2.Security, if banks ask for security how about securing your relationship?
Wow what a wealth of knowledge, thank you ladies# God bless you both
You ladies are phenomenal… I can’t say how much I love you and you inspire me to be better everyday. Much love from Qatar ❤
I'm indeed blessed for having gotten this information. Sometimes only love aint just enough, she said "Love needs security inorder for it to be fulfilling" and it's really 100% true. I learnt it today, processed it and I totally agree.
Men also move in these days😊. Thank you for this wonderful episode
You have explained this so well. This was my episode. This is my biggest mistake in my 20's and I would never advice any lady to move in as if it is an emergency. I have never forgiven myself for compromising my Christian values 😔.
In summary, I feel exhausted and sad, this is one area of my life that i don't discuss with my friends.
I dont even enjoy attending other people's functions anymore.
Sometimes we learn from our mistakes.Forgive your self and make a better decision now.God loves you
This is so wonderful.
Thank you, Dr. Evas
The difference in mental spaces makes alot of sense.
Thank you dear Eva's for the counseling always 😊. Rachel your doing amazing sweetie.
Liked this episode a lot because it put into perspective this, "come we stay" phenomenon. I once had a friend that I was trying explain the danger of "come we stay" to but she wouldn't listen to me. She went ahead and stayed. It has been a rollercoaster for her. I now see that I didn't have the right words to explain what could go wrong. Thanks Evas for helping us explain things that we struggle to explain.
I deeply appreciate your feedback! Great to know that the content was helpful! God bless you!
This is one of those times the algorithm just blesses your feed. I hope you guys do one on how kids should navigate their parents divorce
Yes James, we surely will! Thanks for this amazing feedback!
@@Blistersandbedrock absolutely!
Insightful discussion.Thank you
Such an eye opening session especially for those who were contemplating this sort of arrangement/approach. A Very informative show ladies. . Always a blessing to us❤❤❤
Thank you Dr.Evas and Rachel ,may God continue to bless you and this show.This is a very important topic ,you are saving many young people's lives.❤❤❤
Really loved listening to this Segment. Racheal I am a big fan!. Keep up the awesome work. Dr Evas thank you for your wonderful words of wisdom.xx
Thank you Sarah😊
Thank you for this Episode
Words make impossible possible for sure, it's just how to communicate and a deeper understanding of reality.
I would also love for you to discuss the realities of faith (religion) esp in the recent years, I feel pastors are breaking marriages (women tend to follow their pastors and now do the wrong things when it comes to managing their home affairs)
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The people that haven't come across this channel are missing a lot
Please share with them :-) Thank you for watching
Surely!!
Thought Rachel had a channel after watching this but now I know,wow this is good content here.
Someone teach me the difference between courtship and cohabiting. So that when I’m giving my points I know how to explain them
Much love,doc
Thank you Rachel and Dr.Evas for voicing the demerits of this arrangement.
God is indeed helping us.
i really enjoyed listening to this show most especially the part of make the relationship you it to be thank Dr evas will keep working on my character
Wisdom 101... Thanks alot Doctor
I would love to meet Dr Evas someday.
I'm from Kenya
This was so helpful to me
Thank you
Well dome Rachael... am from bump love
This is very insightful
How do you divorce when you are just cohabiting!
Good question😊
It's interesting how the law recognizes common law relationships in North America. When a man and woman live together, they are considered common law, and after a year, if they want to separate, they divide whatever they acquire living together 50/50. Some even buy a house and have to sell. It's treated like a marriage.
Sadly it is different here, which is why seeking security and commitment first before you live together might be the protection you need in case of future challenges.
Depends because again some countries like Canada common law doesn’t affect such things but if maybe there is a chance of a baby of course the parents will have to discuss over child support so I believe marriage should be respected and valued at all costs.
This is really an intresting talk
Can you talk about the choices parents make to their children interms of getting them spouses without their consents or permission.
This is worth discussing...thank you for the suggestion
Wisdom
Hello Recheal❤
Wow❤
I love this show, I watch it religiously. You are doing the lord's work. Something doesn't sit right with using particular examples, maybe if you could state like a scenario, other than saying there is lady that came to me etc, If I have been to you and I watch the show I will know you're referring to me and I think trust is then broken. My Unsolicited two cents.
Thanks a lot for your kind feedback! I deeply appreciate it!
I think her examples are OK if she doesn't mention the names which she does. Therefore no trust is broken.
Am glad she shares from her experience
Yeah...she doesn't mention names &that's wht matters....she is too professional.
Management of love 😂
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Thank you for da program Rachael and Dr.Evas..@Racehael kindly share your contact.thx