"My Husband Stalked Me Before We Met"

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  • @steppahj
    @steppahj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4789

    He completely broke the poor woman, even her sense of right and wrong is affected

    • @chickenfeces4976
      @chickenfeces4976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +300

      He wasted so many years of her life. That’s something you can never get back

    • @karikka.0025
      @karikka.0025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +200

      Good thing it was only 2-3 years. He could have wasted a lot more if he wasn't drunk right then and there. At least something good came out this quarantine.

    • @StarAreebaGoRandom
      @StarAreebaGoRandom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Poor her..he totally ruined her:(

    • @user-vn7bz1bh6r
      @user-vn7bz1bh6r 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      This also causes effects on her mental health so if she thinks back at that past life she lived in the future then she might actually be on the news for suicide because realizing all that can your self esteem so low that after your mental health had not existed anymore it can completely affect your physical health I hope this woman can woman can move on and find someone to fill in that hole in her heart and life

    • @leilaapostol6795
      @leilaapostol6795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@user-vn7bz1bh6r trueeeeee so much hope for her

  • @cristaleng366
    @cristaleng366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +786

    I mean, when he said that she needed a reality check... let’s be honest. Dave needed the reality check, manipulating and tearing down her self esteem purposely to be able to get with her. Seems like she was out of *his* leaugue.

    • @lilianagarcia7627
      @lilianagarcia7627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Dave: YoU nEeD a ReAlITy ChEcK!
      Also Dave: (Emotionally manipulates and stalks woman untill she falls for him and thinks its ok.)
      Dude, I think we all know who REALLY need the reality check. He lucky it wasn't me, I would have dumped him the second I found out. Screw Him.

  • @siennaeleanor6410
    @siennaeleanor6410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4633

    What really scares me is the fact that “Tom” probably did the same thing to his girlfriend...

    • @ghost_shivers5276
      @ghost_shivers5276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      I know right?!

    • @_c_h_l_o_e_5821
      @_c_h_l_o_e_5821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @itz Charlie its daves brother lol

    • @gum9871
      @gum9871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      Dave is such a bad influence, poor Tom's gf :(

    • @amateurflor13
      @amateurflor13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Ikr🙃🙃🙃

    • @anobody180
      @anobody180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Oh damn you’re probably right!

  • @haleyolson396
    @haleyolson396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2690

    Umm... Dave really messed with her head if she thinks this is in any way romantic. She needs therapy and a divorce lawyer ASAP, and she should see if she can get a recording of Dave saying these things for the courts. If nothing else, she needs a restraining order; this is emotional and psychological abuse in so many ways.

    • @inactiveaccountdontrespond9409
      @inactiveaccountdontrespond9409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      @@adios5072 did you watch the video?

    • @lylazusi2328
      @lylazusi2328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Cookie Cake really😜😂

    • @youcantsitwithus7624
      @youcantsitwithus7624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@adios5072 U sound SO dumb

    • @iluvchickentenders
      @iluvchickentenders 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      But what if she still loves him besides they have a good life even if he stalked her

    • @demoneyy5124
      @demoneyy5124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Made Dave drunk again, and then bring him to lawyer and ask him a question again, and he repeat to the lawyer like a radio 😂

  • @madiblossom8708
    @madiblossom8708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4468

    That’s so creepy! My aunt had a stalker when she was 17 he was apparently watching her for 3 years, one day he decided it’s time to take her, but my uncle was there and he took down the stalker. The police came and they found a knife, video camera, condoms, and a strong drug (I forgot which one). Thank god my uncle was there, they are now 48 years old and living happily.

    • @rheanasmith9011
      @rheanasmith9011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +303

      wow that's cool that they're happy now

    • @marcello7781
      @marcello7781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +427

      Your uncle is such a brave man.

    • @secret..m7237
      @secret..m7237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +379

      HOLY...That is just straight up scary, especially after reading what the police found. I’m glad she’s safe!

    • @-zoeythat_onebrokeperson-2827
      @-zoeythat_onebrokeperson-2827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      I would’ve punched him in the FACE

    • @maeumiapayo
      @maeumiapayo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      48 years young

  • @POYSSI
    @POYSSI 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3614

    He did a darn good job in breaking her down. She now thinks its romantic what this creepo did. He "saved" her, how romantic. Yeah no... I'm out.

    • @_1V4N
      @_1V4N 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@tiffanyalvord4757 y e s

    • @janicedsilva2857
      @janicedsilva2857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      She probably believes that it was the best thing for her since he absolutely tore her self esteem down :(
      When you feed someone with bad things about themselves , they start to believe it. Absolutely hate this :/

    • @backpug1228
      @backpug1228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      But he destroyed not only her self esteem but also her chances for a good life. She has 2 kids now and left her work place so she is sooo dependable on him.

    • @POYSSI
      @POYSSI 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@tiffanyalvord4757 couldn't agree more.

    • @POYSSI
      @POYSSI 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@janicedsilva2857 honest truth. That's what gaslighting does to a person. He could've manipulated her into thinking she was sick when she was not.

  • @elliesparklez5818
    @elliesparklez5818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3240

    This girl needs to divorce him. That is toxic. Make him learn his lesson. He is not good for her

    • @dinkylinky2552
      @dinkylinky2552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      RESTRAINING ORDERRRR

    • @valentinehearty5077
      @valentinehearty5077 4 ปีที่แล้ว +200

      Its obsession not love '_'

    • @SarahJones-km6mb
      @SarahJones-km6mb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      But his her only source of income how will she be able to take care of the kids and herself 😖

    • @Samsamchicc
      @Samsamchicc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Sarah Jones that’s what i was thinking he basically planned the whole thing out so even if she found out what he did she wouldn’t leave him bc she has no where else to go

    • @sapphireblue3686
      @sapphireblue3686 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      That's what I would do in that situation if I didn't have children. Since she does have children if it was me I would just try and make it work for the sake of the children.

  • @secret..m7237
    @secret..m7237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1297

    Damn... when I saw the title I thought, “that’s kinda creepy... but not too bad right? She loves him, and he loves her. Since they’re married.” But nooooo, that aint love, that’s... something else. I’m not a love expert but if he truly did love her, he wouldn’t hurt her the way he did.

    • @lunarmoon7749
      @lunarmoon7749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      I thought the same thing and now I'm having a rollercoaster of emotions about this lol.

    • @yukouchiha2177
      @yukouchiha2177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      He was being selfish he hurt her emotionally only to get what he wanted and that is not love.

    • @sanrio4life395
      @sanrio4life395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      YANDERE ALERT! 🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨

    • @aarushikishore1417
      @aarushikishore1417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      same. i felt like "oh he must have stalked her before marriage and now he must have learnt his lesson" but no.

    • @chezperky
      @chezperky ปีที่แล้ว

      So true

  • @Mangobaskets
    @Mangobaskets 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1673

    If someone is stalking you before you met them, that is just creepy, PERIOD.

    • @whylife1502
      @whylife1502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Stalking in general is creepy! 0-0

    • @rogerroger4184
      @rogerroger4184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      No shit

    • @Mangobaskets
      @Mangobaskets 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@rogerroger4184 I'm just saying because some people are finding it hot lol

    • @lunarialoonatic
      @lunarialoonatic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Bread Cat really? That’s just gross...

    • @abigailperez2611
      @abigailperez2611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      the story of how my parents met lol

  • @siariele4592
    @siariele4592 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1044

    i'm convinced he made her quit her job so it'd be harder to leave him

    • @plaixne2838
      @plaixne2838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      Yes it was probably one of his ideas to make her stay with him

    • @cgamejewels
      @cgamejewels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yes.

    • @ft.roxie8799
      @ft.roxie8799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      And have a kid. That would make it very difficult to leave without any sort of money to provide for the baby

    • @akitaro4307
      @akitaro4307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ikr

    • @numberoneDazaiDefender
      @numberoneDazaiDefender 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Oh my god- i didn't even think about that! messed up, man..

  • @storytelling_ghoul319
    @storytelling_ghoul319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +758

    Poor girl is so brainwashed, I hope she gets out of there and in a better situation

    • @pastrycookie5495
      @pastrycookie5495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ує (☆^ー^☆

    • @hi4482
      @hi4482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ur in DANGER?? XD looked at ur profile pic

    • @yudu9058
      @yudu9058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Didn't the girl cheats??? She was dating Dave but then she goes on a date with another guy??
      Also Dave is a real B****

    • @atalanta.caddle
      @atalanta.caddle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@yudu9058 nah I don't think so i mean they weren't officially dating

  • @jiangpingjiang5096
    @jiangpingjiang5096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1683

    This almost sounds like Stockholm Syndrome at the end... Well then...

    • @lunarmoon7749
      @lunarmoon7749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      That's what I thought because there are so many stories where this happens or they got kidnapped and they fall in love and it turns out to be Stockholm Syndrome.

    • @sakshisingh2072
      @sakshisingh2072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      But even for that. People's sense works as in like they know in the start that this is wrong but they want this cause its make them feel loved (in a diff way..) but for this lady. Its directly like a damn plan!. He break her so much that now she thinks that maybe whatever he did was right. This is wrong. And more importantly because if he had some regrets then it would've made a lil sense. But apparently he told to the same things to him brother "Tom".

    • @gayghst2877
      @gayghst2877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because it is

    • @v1ntge_
      @v1ntge_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gayghst2877 not exactlt

    • @sulochanaekka7401
      @sulochanaekka7401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorry but couldn't help thinking about
      STOCKHOLM SYNDROME by ONE DIRECTION.....😅

  • @mjhuerta5598
    @mjhuerta5598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    This is horrible and disgusting. Could never forget someone for destroying my self esteem like that

  • @aisahmustafa
    @aisahmustafa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Her self esteem is atcually guttered down so bad, so low that now she can't even differentiate that what her husband did is wrong, downright wrong and creepy. It makes her believe "wow how can someone go at this extent for someone like ME?" Her value to herself isn't as worth for someone to do so much work, but she fails to realize how he is the reason she considers of herself worth so low

  • @iamapotato_8889
    @iamapotato_8889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +598

    I think the word hardcore manipulation is an understatement...

  • @e.a.5424
    @e.a.5424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +760

    Am I the only who is kinda concerned for Toms girlfriend? I mean if Tom really took an advice from his brother Dave doesn't that mean that he stalked his now fiance too?
    (Sry, for the bad english)

    • @starsbeyondmars2666
      @starsbeyondmars2666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Your English was 👌👌

    • @e.a.5424
      @e.a.5424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@starsbeyondmars2666 Thx😊

    • @aishe7491
      @aishe7491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Your English is great I would have thought it’s your first language

    • @e.a.5424
      @e.a.5424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@aishe7491 Thank you😘

    • @its_lemon_19
      @its_lemon_19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Actually your English is probably better than mine lol and it's my first language 😂. Yeah I'm concerned for her too.

  • @destiny4793
    @destiny4793 4 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    I’m kind of scared to fall in love with anyone now because I don’t wanna be manipulated by anyone

    • @sarahfromtheneverland9001
      @sarahfromtheneverland9001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same

    • @ilikefries7700
      @ilikefries7700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol even if I wanted I couldn’t, because of my religion 😢

    • @StarAreebaGoRandom
      @StarAreebaGoRandom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ilikefries7700 wht religon r u?

    • @liminal4372
      @liminal4372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The True Directioner mmm I’m gonna take a guess and say Muslim?

    • @RosemaryTurner2002
      @RosemaryTurner2002 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The True Directioner
      You’re definitely a muslim.

  • @LonelyWriter26
    @LonelyWriter26 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2820

    My future wife better not do this or I'll flip out.

    • @secret..m7237
      @secret..m7237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +260

      Yeah...hearing this story made me feel anxious for the future... 😔

    • @iloveyouacetrappola
      @iloveyouacetrappola 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      It makes me anxious but I too would feel flattered, probably because it seems impossible for me to believe that a man would do this for me.

    • @gwen8m248
      @gwen8m248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      *Same*

    • @-zoeythat_onebrokeperson-2827
      @-zoeythat_onebrokeperson-2827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      ...Call the FBI/Police

    • @aria-rosebrowne8010
      @aria-rosebrowne8010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      @@iloveyouacetrappola like I don't want to impose but correct me if I'm wrong you said you would feeel flattered that a guy put so much effort in stalking you and manipulating you for years. Like idk about toxic relationships per say but I had a very toxic friendship for over 10 years and flattery is the last thing I'd want to feel.

  • @blidium
    @blidium 4 ปีที่แล้ว +396

    Okay but like seriously I'd be pissed. Like, I want to fall in love with someone on my own accord, not because they told me to love them. I honestly wouldn't know what to do because she's pregnant, they have a baby and they have a house. But I'd be pretty mad.

    • @gardenfalls
      @gardenfalls 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same!

    • @kimbo5260
      @kimbo5260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah but do you want to be scared of your husband?

    • @hiangpolee1328
      @hiangpolee1328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I will spend all his money
      Jk

    • @kristall5928
      @kristall5928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@kimbo5260 but you have to think about the kids and the fact that she's unemployed and trapped. Everything is in his name and he's the sole provider. Most likely, he may be granted custody of the kids due to having good income and such. Terribly sad situation

  • @feliciabourque
    @feliciabourque 4 ปีที่แล้ว +424

    This story was a rollercoaster of emotions. If I were in her position I'd leave him.

    • @audreyhogan8285
      @audreyhogan8285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Felicia Bourque yes

    • @LoreCatan
      @LoreCatan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      she's not in the position to leave. She lives off his income, she's pregnant, has a one year old at home and I'd bet anything that most of the things they own together are in his name. She's trapped.

    • @palesa8777
      @palesa8777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@LoreCatan that is the worst part

    • @raiyahambermediodia8754
      @raiyahambermediodia8754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LoreCatan
      Mhm

    • @chloecool55gaming42
      @chloecool55gaming42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@LoreCatan she needs to get in contact with family and friends to see if there someone who can help her until she gets back on track which is common for people leaving toxic/abusive relationships

  • @shmooggayner1209
    @shmooggayner1209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    So obviously, this is a very strange and scary situation and any other person would be quite scared so it makes sense why kyutie is confused as to why the girl is flattered but as she said her self esteem was in the gutter and seeing as everything else had been a lie that someone had done this for her was probably a confidence boost in some strange way?

    • @purplesnowcone2056
      @purplesnowcone2056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tiffanyalvord4757 ikr

    • @gardenfalls
      @gardenfalls 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It’s creepy, but I get why she’s flattered. Someone doing that much effort for you to like him, he does it cause he likes you so much.
      I get why she feels that way, but it’s definitely not good that he did all that, it’s horrible to tear someone’s self esteem apart.

    • @el6491
      @el6491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      It sounds kinda a little like Stockholm syndrome. He torn down her self esteem completely then pretended to be there for her, making her completely reliant on him, emotionally and financially. I think she could do with some therapy to help her approach this and decide the next best step

    • @princessmimi6776
      @princessmimi6776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm concerned that if he went through all that to get her, if she did leave it would be so bad for her and the kids. like if I can't jave her no one can! And the new fiance tell her plz.

    • @jodie_brown
      @jodie_brown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@princessmimi6776 Thats what I was thinking like what would he do if she left but idk maybe she could get a restraining order than divorce him but idk how the whole process works

  • @aria-rosebrowne8010
    @aria-rosebrowne8010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    It was precisely when I heard the girl said she was flattered. I mentally checked out. If there ever was a universal sign for red flags this would be it. Ammmmm deeddd

    • @thesolocreative3538
      @thesolocreative3538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      She may be forcing herself to rationalise for self preservation. It happens a lot in abusive relationships. Honestly she may be truly terrified on the inside and just want to hear someone say its normal. If I were just told all that... I would be afraid to leave the person. If they did all that from being ignored on a dating website imagine what they would do now if she tried to leave!

  • @mutantthug4507
    @mutantthug4507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    There are chances that it was another one of Dave's plan for letting her quit her job. So that she could be totally dependent on him and not think about leaving him in near future.

  • @monet2779
    @monet2779 4 ปีที่แล้ว +587

    This guy is literally the dude from “You” on Netflix so creepy

    • @lmao111yearsago9
      @lmao111yearsago9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Yeah except the killing thing lol

    • @raitawahab9516
      @raitawahab9516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly my thoughts Joe typo

    • @kateri7404
      @kateri7404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      true

    • @insomnia0713
      @insomnia0713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The whole video I was like: Joe is that you ?!!

    • @sinbefregd3254
      @sinbefregd3254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love that guy! 😆

  • @chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327
    @chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    It’s scary. She’s been so manipulated that’s she can’t see if it’s romantic or not😰

  • @lovingly4092
    @lovingly4092 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Lesson learned ladies and gentlemen, don’t EVER set your standards lower. You deserve to be with someone who will love and respect you.
    She felt down on herself and fell into his creepy trap! Remember that those people you chased rejected you and don’t respect you that way (for a relationship) and theres many people who will fill your standards.
    Don’t settle for less because you deserve more! Poor woman got manipulated thinking she loved the guy and now thinks stalking is flattering 😔😔

    • @jismeraiverhoeven
      @jismeraiverhoeven 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I mean it is flattering cause it shows how far they are willing to go for you, but it is also creepy and definantly NOT healthy

  • @TDIdialgagirl
    @TDIdialgagirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +427

    Dude, reveal everything to him and dump him! Go full Karen and take the kids!

    • @biancashonhiwa4383
      @biancashonhiwa4383 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Bring out that inner "Karen" we all have it.

    • @zixink
      @zixink 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      That’s easy to say, but hard for her to actually do anything. Her self esteem is very low because of him and it would be very hard for her to find a job after not working for almost 2 years. It would also be hard for her to bring up 2 kids on her own while working. She’s too dependent on him now.

    • @biancashonhiwa4383
      @biancashonhiwa4383 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@zixink thats true chances are his still manipulating her and she hasn't realised it yet especially now that she doesn't work and has to depend on him. It might not be safe for the kids since he sees no wrong in psychotic tendencies he might harm the and justify it as "doing the right thing".

    • @zixink
      @zixink 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Bianca shonhiwa I agree, hopefully her family and friends would realise the guy is toxic for her and help her realise her self worth and leave him. Otherwise, like what you said, being with him would be bad for her and her children.

    • @jetlag520
      @jetlag520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      karen karen karen karen

  • @kimhuth2303
    @kimhuth2303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    This is the worst way to get someone to fall in love with you! 😭😭

    • @perrydowd9285
      @perrydowd9285 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is it love or emotional dependence?

    • @decoratingletters5659
      @decoratingletters5659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@perrydowd9285 seems like the second

    • @perrydowd9285
      @perrydowd9285 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@decoratingletters5659 I'll say. It's so sad to see someone in her situation.

  • @seirotsyracs3512
    @seirotsyracs3512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +438

    Damn this girl got the main character role in her real life 🤣

    • @secret..m7237
      @secret..m7237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      A painful one....

    • @seirotsyracs3512
      @seirotsyracs3512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Namjesus, I felt like I was reading a VERY dramatic Kdrama lol

    • @destiny4793
      @destiny4793 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      she’s the official y/n but of a horror romance

    • @trashchan9183
      @trashchan9183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@destiny4793 Yep-
      Just a random note-
      Whenever I see Y/N I think "Whyen" as their first name

    • @me_tz
      @me_tz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Trash Chan samee

  • @samjensen392
    @samjensen392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    The manipulation is obviously the worst part, but as soon as he said that she was just a “stupid girl,” that was the moment I said, “Girl, dump his ass!”

  • @obsidianlunablaze873
    @obsidianlunablaze873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    It’s terrifying that this happens...

    • @lorenasalaparm
      @lorenasalaparm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right?? The fact that this is actually real disgusts me 💔💔💔

    • @goofyrat2938
      @goofyrat2938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lorenasalaparm same. People always hear about it but they never expect it to happen to them until it does. Truly sickening

  • @shadowrmidnight
    @shadowrmidnight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    She needs to divorce him
    And if ever possible, record his confessions or gather and evidence against him in order to turn the divorce in her favour and get the man charged and, if possible, arrested

  • @lauram4514
    @lauram4514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Honestly I feel so bad for her. He really did stripe her down. He’d made her dependent as well believe that he saved her. Not just that but he also helped his brother. He’s definitely emotionally abusing her and believes he did nothing wrong. I say she gets a divorce and therapy ASAP

  • @Jennasaur
    @Jennasaur 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    im glad to be single once again

    • @P678g
      @P678g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jennasaur lol

    • @picklebot
      @picklebot 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      iiScarlettXOX someone can still stalk you

  • @melonsquare9708
    @melonsquare9708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    This dude is a real crazy person he messed up! Crazy! My gosh who makes someone's self esteem go down to be with them?!?!?! Who does that!?!?!
    Edit: btw this "Dave" isn't the best guy after lowering this girls self esteem just to be with her!?!!! This dude is a maniac!!! Omg! 🤦🏻‍♀️😶😨 I'm soo furious and speechless at the same time omg! If i was this girl I'd probably divorce this guy 😳

    • @etherealmushroom846
      @etherealmushroom846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      True, but I don't think she can think clearly because remember her self-esteem is pretty low, so she would probably think that this what she deserves (which is untrue, because nobody deserves this). She would probably feel pressured by the fact she already has a child (she might not be confident to be a single parent or maybe she would feel guilty for not giving the child a father), no job, as well as the lockdown and continue to stay with him. It would be best if she had therapy and support from her friends and family while filing a divorce with him. More importantly, she should move out with her child. Not the mention her husband said that he helped his brother get engaged. I think she should tell the brother's fiancee about this early, because again, nobody deserves this and its best to prevent it before it's too late.

    • @alphawolf3184
      @alphawolf3184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Big Booty Libertarian so what if he does? It doesn't mean every person with a Scorpio moon would do this I'm a Scorpio moon and I would never even think about doing this to someone

    • @thatonecomfortfriend2008
      @thatonecomfortfriend2008 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ethereal Mushroom I totally agree!

    • @beep8538
      @beep8538 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ik but they have a child even if they try she’s jobless and that dad ain’t fit to live with her daughter

  • @iamapotato_8889
    @iamapotato_8889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    the manipulation though...

    • @goofyrat2938
      @goofyrat2938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bro at this point, it’s so bad that manipulation is an understatement.

  • @helena_lang
    @helena_lang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    it’s honestly scary how he managed to ruin her self esteem so much that she thinks being literally stalked, tricked, and lied to is flattering.

  • @kittykitty.bangbang
    @kittykitty.bangbang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Her: the internet seems to be my only option
    Me: You know who you *could* talk about this with...
    A divorce lawyer

  • @samcarmen
    @samcarmen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    she only thinks it's romantic now. if she would've found this out when she wasn't a mother, financially dependent, and married to him I bet she would've found it creepy. the amount of manipulation... scary

  • @Ashley-Lopez
    @Ashley-Lopez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Stories like these give me trust issues and are one of my greatest fears/nightmares.

  • @mxnaya
    @mxnaya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    HOW ON EARTH-?! People be hella crazy these days-

  • @stanisings
    @stanisings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    *sees 7 comments*
    Me: Cool I'm early?
    *scrolls to see more than 7 comments*
    YT: gOt eM

  • @kae6887
    @kae6887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    Everyone reading this:
    Have a good day/evening 😁

  • @kiwipanda527
    @kiwipanda527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    wow, these stories I thought would never happen only in a movie

  • @josieparrish3244
    @josieparrish3244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I feel like if you really love someone, you wouldn’t hurt them just so you could be with them 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @emelyguzman2533
    @emelyguzman2533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    ‘1 minute ago’ this is the earliest I’ve come for anything

    • @guineverebaroque7331
      @guineverebaroque7331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What about food?

    • @sidney6979
      @sidney6979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i once got 3 sec

    • @oliviah.2853
      @oliviah.2853 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      NigerianNitemare 21 uh huh sure

    • @sidney6979
      @sidney6979 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@oliviah.2853 i aint cappin bruh

    • @ducksarecute9662
      @ducksarecute9662 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dang, I wasn’t even that early to my own birth

  • @diyoraaaa
    @diyoraaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This man brings a new definition of ‘Toxic’ to the table.

  • @louise558
    @louise558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It makes sense she looks at it in a romantic way, because all she knew for a while was him and that kind of behaviour and not a genuine, good man. It's typical emotional abuse, sadly

  • @reva1204
    @reva1204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    This sounds like a c-drama that I watched a while back...

    • @checkmate8218
      @checkmate8218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What was the name?

    • @rivert1287
      @rivert1287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Well intended love? 😯

    • @derpysquishies7531
      @derpysquishies7531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      River T That’s what i was thinking , she ended up having cancer and he knew

    • @nanarii
      @nanarii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Derpy Squishies 7 *SPOILER*
      thing is she never had cancer, he just made it up so that she would come and find him

    • @rivert1287
      @rivert1287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@derpysquishies7531 yee yee! Have you watched the whole show?

  • @PrivateMrs.T
    @PrivateMrs.T 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is psycho level scary. I have never even heard of any woman being manipulated this much to be with someone! A judge would soooo award her a protective order/restraining order against him, a divorce, alimony until or if she remarries and child support for those kids. The law would protect her and the kids from him and force him to support them from afar. She needs to do this right away and also tell that other chic that just got engaged what kind of gross underhanded and even illegal “tricks” her husband taught that gal’s new fiancée to use against her!

    • @Arianainthedark
      @Arianainthedark 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What's worse is that she probably can't afford to leave him. He made her financially dependent on him. That just screams setup.

  • @lapeace_8362
    @lapeace_8362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ironically, Dave made a fairy tale out of all these even though he told her that he paid Alex so she would realize that she was looking for men who are out of her league because back then she believed in fairy tales. This is downright disgusting and creepy. I hope she gets out of this. The level emotional manipulation is just too heavy I'm fearing for her and her children.

    • @thomasffrench3639
      @thomasffrench3639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alex is probably her only hope. He’s the one piece of evidence that’s a third party

  • @samanthadonck5146
    @samanthadonck5146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I kinda hoped she would go to Tom and his gf for help, but then I remembered Tom used the same method, so even if she would have the courage to leave Dave, she’d have to convince Tom’s gf that she’s telling the truth about what happened

  • @alyaa_jun
    @alyaa_jun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this is like something straight out of wattpad

  • @nurdamiainsyirah2826
    @nurdamiainsyirah2826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Idk why, this sounds like a good plot for an angst story.

  • @yinakim6137
    @yinakim6137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I actually watched the whole video before commenting and if this was a novel I would’ve liked it as mentally unstable and obsessive male interests just attracts me...don’t judge me. But in the real world? That’s just scary

    • @potnomie18
      @potnomie18 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SAME

    • @lunarmoon7749
      @lunarmoon7749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I mean it's a little creepy but I agree.

    • @despicablepenguin
      @despicablepenguin 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you watched the Netflix series "you?"

    • @Celeste-jh2lj
      @Celeste-jh2lj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im the same way. I love the trope for stroies but in real life its horrifying

  • @jessicaguzman1821
    @jessicaguzman1821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    This made me worried for my future but then I realized I’m a potato and no one would ever do this for me 😁

    • @rabeahamaya9216
      @rabeahamaya9216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😂 Same

    • @lucidfangirl1030
      @lucidfangirl1030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Now that I think about it, I relate to you!

    • @shaylahuynh9586
      @shaylahuynh9586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😔😔😔

    • @shawnferguson5681
      @shawnferguson5681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      FOR you? This kind of thing is done TO you! Don’t tell me you find it romantic, too. Girl, you’re not a potato, you deserve a real relationship, And you have the right... the responsibility, to make your own decisions. The husband in this story doesn’t love or respect her, she’s just a slave to be manipulated. Stay strong and independent, you’ll meet someone eventually, just never give up your own choices.

    • @wind-born2581
      @wind-born2581 ปีที่แล้ว

      A single potato is better than being in an abusive relationship.

  • @kalielik
    @kalielik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dave is a yandere without the murder.

  • @suchitaekka8279
    @suchitaekka8279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She needs to warn Tom's girlfriend before it's too late.
    Also she can plan a strategy aganist two brothers along with her.
    I know it sounds evil but I can't help it

  • @claudiothewarrior
    @claudiothewarrior 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "Ladies, do you know if your man has ever done something like this?" She's asking this as if it's a normal question to ask. She should divorce his ass and probably go to therapy-

  • @lavendertea6134
    @lavendertea6134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I suddenly don’t want a boyfriend...

  • @samyuktarao8749
    @samyuktarao8749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I'm worried about her and Tom's fiancé. Both women might be in the same situation😧

    • @goofyrat2938
      @goofyrat2938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yikes, same.
      If he really ‘helped Tom’ with the same method he used on his wife, they’re both in trouble.

  • @ann-gaelleon3859
    @ann-gaelleon3859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He made her a damsel in distress so he could come up and « save her ». He destroyed her so he could her own. He forced her to like him by hurting her. He controlled her love life because he thinks she doesn’t deserves other than him.
    Romantic right

  • @redraccoon3412
    @redraccoon3412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I mean, if he apparentley helped his brother do the same thing, he probably doesn't see a problem with it. However, I do think that story teller, only sees what he did as flattering because of her current relationship with him. She's probably still viewing him as this doting husband and father, and can't disconnect those feelings from what she knows now.

  • @Janiebabie
    @Janiebabie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Woah shes making sure we arent bored at quarantine, she keeps posting!

  • @noodlenado7827
    @noodlenado7827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ll say, as shook as I imagine she must be, and as much as I would want to get as far away from him as possible, I would be *terrified* to up and leave him. If those were the measures he was willing to go to just to get her, I hardly want to imagine what he’d be capable of if he were *mad* and trying to get her BACK. Especially with kids involved 😞 So sorry she had to go through this

  • @sidney6979
    @sidney6979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    dude who else had an add right before she started the story of how he got his wife

  • @tri3348
    @tri3348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We got a whole dang K-drama on our hands, guys.

  • @Simbrr-TM-Sims
    @Simbrr-TM-Sims 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    she thinks its romantic because her self esteem has been so destroyed by him that she believes theres no one else out there that would put in effort for her and sees this “effort” as romantic. its a lot more sick than it looks, now shes trapped with his kids in his house. he manipulated her life and her confidence.

  • @airehernandez382
    @airehernandez382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Imagine this whole story as an anime

    • @Batsieroze
      @Batsieroze 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gruvia is what this make me think of~

    • @Chloe-zh2ti
      @Chloe-zh2ti 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      B̶at̕͡s͠ie̶ ̧ R҉o̵͜ze̴ OMG Same! XD

    • @kennishafignole383
      @kennishafignole383 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Future Diary?

    • @shadowedpokefan331
      @shadowedpokefan331 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a lot like future diary in my opinion but there are a few more animes like it I think

    • @londynmurphy8818
      @londynmurphy8818 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      no

  • @brookesnodgrass
    @brookesnodgrass 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When she said, "I didn't look as good as I did in my picture", it reminded me of Anne of Cleves when she said, "But I didn't look as good as I did in my pic..."

  • @gooeypotatoo1988
    @gooeypotatoo1988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The guy messed her up so bad that her emotions are all over the place. He even called her dumb, does he even love her? Or is he just here to manipulate her even more so he feels like someone actually needs and wants him? She should file a restraining order and get a divorce... who knows if he'd start stalking her again or maybe even kidnap and maybe kill her?

  • @livingjackor
    @livingjackor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I'm kinda sad that the comments are usually never about the actual video and just have some unoriginal phrase like "like if you agree blah blah blah" or "have a good day" or some 9 year old saying "UwU".. *i miss old comments before 2019*
    Edit: Since yall complaining that my comment isnt about the video, I cant believe the husband did that. ARE YOU HAPPY NOW?

    • @mariamyehia8173
      @mariamyehia8173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Right?! It's like, they're all so cringy and just uninteresting

    • @lunarmoon7749
      @lunarmoon7749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ha well you are literally just made yourself sad because this has nothing to do with the video.

    • @iloveu1579
      @iloveu1579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      this comment isn't about the actual video-
      I hope this a joke

    • @arianaali6275
      @arianaali6275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      here's a comment about the video then...
      "this story is so creepy I wish that doesn't happen
      To me someday, kyutie did a good job on editing this
      Video !" 👍👍👍 UwU

    • @livingjackor
      @livingjackor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lunarmoon7749 yeah but I was still speaking up on it

  • @cronchycorgocat1376
    @cronchycorgocat1376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is like yanderes... but, you know, without all the killing and stuff...

  • @Cr1ms0nWaste
    @Cr1ms0nWaste 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Me early:Can I see the comments?
    TH-cam:NO

  • @rainyclouds3441
    @rainyclouds3441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Basically he gas lighted her into being with him, for obvious selfish reasons. He made her rely on him, and after their marriage she doesn’t really even have a choice. I think that the worst thing about this is he finds it funny and will most likely continue doing these things, she should leave him!

  • @Cr1ms0nWaste
    @Cr1ms0nWaste 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    If u find this comment just know I love u
    Here's a cookie 🍪 have a great day/night

    • @LoveLettersArt
      @LoveLettersArt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What's you're favorite kind? Mines a tie between chocolate chip and M&M

    • @kirikuri
      @kirikuri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love letters Art chocolate chip definitely tastes amazing

    • @BillieLovesYou
      @BillieLovesYou 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      :))

  • @fluffyhwa
    @fluffyhwa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Every one: concerned
    Me: Wattpad vibes

  • @eshaalaltaf2188
    @eshaalaltaf2188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your face KILLED me when she said “I was really faltered”.

  • @ilikebread818
    @ilikebread818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dang this is a real life yandere to the next level

  • @untiedshoelaces2588
    @untiedshoelaces2588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The scariest thing about this story is that, should she ever decide to end the marriage, there is a good chance he would either disappear with the children or she would disappear one day and the younger brother would help the older brother with the disposal of the evidence.

  • @bleh7715
    @bleh7715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    omg where do you find these stories//facts because they’re so interesting!! i love your videos and watch you everyday 💖❤️

    • @nyasha._
      @nyasha._ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Reddit

  • @quarantinedteen5458
    @quarantinedteen5458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This story just made me feel like I watched another season of “you” he’s like the real life Joe Goldberg

  • @kargovroom7701
    @kargovroom7701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was watching ATLA+HSM bop to the top animatic. Thank you for removing me from my cursed obsession.

  • @user-jh5xr9jb4s
    @user-jh5xr9jb4s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The fact that she thinks it's almost romantic shows that maybe, just maybe she read too much Wattpad ??
    idk

  • @kayla77632
    @kayla77632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow.That one story saved hours of researching for other stories.

  • @kenma6360
    @kenma6360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Damn he's like obsessed with her.. That's creepy

  • @Melisaoffxl12
    @Melisaoffxl12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish there are no stalker so the world will be in peace, I mean man, respect people privacy, my brother got harassed by his man college clasmmate! If you really like someone don't stalk them!! Be friend with them or confess your feelings,if they don't like you back, accept it and move on,

  • @momikokapopikoka
    @momikokapopikoka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been stalked by a guy that wanted us to be a couple. I really didn't know him at all and he pretended to be his own friends and stuff to get me to agree. I called the police, but all they said was I needed evidence and when I tried to go back to our chat and screenshot the chat, it was gone and all I had was a text saying that he was a friend of him and that he wanted me to get together with his friend. No real evidence. Now I screenshot every weird and strange conversation I get with someone.

  • @jisooblackpink2956
    @jisooblackpink2956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Her face expressions were the best😂💜

  • @isabellacatherine9875
    @isabellacatherine9875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There is only one other man who would do this, and look what else he was willing to do…
    ‘You’ fans will understand

  • @LeviAckerman-yz8hj
    @LeviAckerman-yz8hj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I literally watched your whole page and when I decided to click off you uploaded this :0

  • @jewelflores1852
    @jewelflores1852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is sad really it's like those stories at movies where they have a beautiful love story then there's a part 2 of the movie and they apparently broke up. Not really the same but I just remember Jesse and Becca from Pitch Perfect at a few of her words.

  • @Mangobaskets
    @Mangobaskets 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    For a second I thought she meant stalking online 😂

  • @bjk8794
    @bjk8794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There are some people who just lose all sight of reality and are willing to do anything to gain someones affection, i dont think its love cause the thought of someone hurting that person i love would just hurt me more

  • @keekee788
    @keekee788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    wow this is a whole new level of creepy

  • @juliaraymond931
    @juliaraymond931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I haven’t watched you in literally 2years I missed ur channel and now I’m going to binge watch ur channel lol 😂😂😂

  • @anasuyamenon
    @anasuyamenon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You know, I think that if he had truly loved her, he would have let her date, and if it was true love, she would have come around. He should understand that😤😤

  • @MessianicMermaid
    @MessianicMermaid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It took me a while to figure out what to write in this comment because I was honestly just speechless for a while. This extends FAR beyond "creepy." This is psychological abuse, gaslighting, and narcissism taken to an incredible new extreme. This man has manipulated this woman to a point that he has completely wrecked her self respect and self esteem. It is painfully obvious that after going through such traumatic experiences on these fake "dates," she now believes that she needs to stay with this man because "no one else will ever like/love her as much as he does" or "care for her enough to go that far out of their way to date her." The signs she is displaying are essentially textbook examples of Stockholm Syndrome. He is her captor and he has psychologically manipulated and abused her to a point that she feels that she is meant to be with him or that she could never find a better relationship than what he provides. I feel so heartbroken for this woman. She needs to get out of there and divorce him right away, but she needs to be extremely cautious and involve the police in doing as much because I truly believe that her husband is a sociopath.

  • @tortenini
    @tortenini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ellen please read more stories! Your a great story teller and sometimes I fall asleep listening to you❤️😂

  • @AJ-wq2my
    @AJ-wq2my 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it’s 11:22am and i’m awake on a school night doing 50 math questions!and i’ve been watching her videos!!!and i’m almost half was done with my math homework and still have to do justification on 2 english pages so here i am thanks for keeping me awake!!!!!🥱
    i’ve probably watched like 5-10 videos by far