Hihi, that's why I like my mother tongue - Bangla/ Bengali... It's a gender neutral language... Except for names of people,it's noun, pronoun, verb all are neutral 😍
Honestly as a bengali non binary person, i only realised that i was nonbinary after i learned english. Bc in bangla i have gender nuetral pronouns by default💀💀so when the english he/she happened i was like wtf??? Neither fit me!!!! Wtf-
@@pollux_the_insufferable. im so happy for you!! im a bengali trans person but i've always known english since birth. im so glad you found your true identity
@@asterisk_fr 💛💛💛 ive also known english yk? It hits differently when your 12 and on the internet and start getting online friends and they are like using pronouns, with my bangali friends it never registered properly
@@pollux_the_insufferable. there arent many queer bengalees. it is one of the most lgbtq phobic countries. i hope you dont have to deal with shit like that
@@ISEEYOU9. They won't get any wisdom. Such a simple thing and the new generation have made it complex. You think people who go by 'feelings' will understand basic biology? Two genders. He or a she. And a transgender that's it for the gender discuss. There is nothing to discuss any further. But these people have made it into a spectrum 😂 that keeps on changing. They themselves don't know what they are and expect us to call them by the 'correct' pronouns. Lol.
They/them refers to multiple people. Forcing it down people’s throat is bullying. No one cares about your sexual preference and no one wants to know it either. Stop this insanity already. It’s not the same as someone mispronouncing your name.
"This use of singular they had emerged by the 14th century, about a century after the plural they.[4][5][2] It has been commonly employed in everyday English ever since and has gained currency in official contexts."(wikipedia)
To answer the question....it's the same reason why we can't call a dog "cat" and a table "chair"....it would become too confusing. By the way the horse you're sitting on is very beautiful
Are you really comparing non living things without the ability to emote and functioning brains to humans? The chair doesn't understand or care what you call it. You choose to call it a chair for your personal ease. You cannot play with humans like you want for your personal ease. Humans have the right to choose their identity themselves. Choosing to adress someone as something other than what they identify as is what calling a table 'chair' feels like.
@@tobecoolortobemethatistheq9390 first of all i don't identify as "you". Please respect the pronouns. Second of all aren't the peopl that choose to be referred to as "they/them" also are playing with humans for their own ease? Anyway the example I gave wasn't to compare humans to objects but rather to emphasize the fact that nouns (names) aren't similar to pronouns
@@thepinpoint123 do you identify as a 3 year old toddler then? For you sure seem to have the iq of one. And no, requesting people to call them by their preferred pronouns isn't personal ease but rather basic rights. Also no one said nouns and pronouns were the same thing, she's just trying to explain how wrong it feels to be called something you're not just because the person prefers to call you by what they think is appropriate.
the problem with "i identify as" is... who gave you the right and power to identify or become something? do these people not respect other people? like do these people think normal people don't have eyes to see and tell someone's gender. sure, transgender exists, but that is all. you want to be gay, sure do that in your personal space. but don't enforce your opinion onto others. have you ever heard a cis-male or cis-female talking about their sexual preference 24x7? why is your sexual preference and your horniness so important to others is something I will never understand. these things are meant to be private anyways. you don't go ahead and tell to your parents, and you relatives that you had sex with your gf/bf. then why do the same for being gay?
@@souradeepchoudhury8515 how dare you question my individuality. That is what I am and I would like to be called with that particular pronoun only. I am offended. Please use " the most handsome man in the world" pronoun or do not talk with me.
Woke propaganda you can't survive without that in the year 2023.. Lol she is comparing pronouns with nouns... Moment silence for such great level wokeness 😂😂
Just respect people pronouns. It doesn't hurt you,and it feels nice to be treated with basic human respect. Don't know why you care so much about something that doesn't really affect you.
I don't think most people barring a few actually care what your pronouns are. Most people won't care and call you whatever you want yourself to be called as. The main stink that people have with pronoun culture is how much it is forcefully fed to you. I don't want everytime i open social media to find just everyone talking about their pronouns and shit. Also people get angry on how overreacting these people are when you call them the wrong thing
There is no disrespect in calling them what the world has been doing for centuries, if you have bullied someone into accepting your pronouns, they either won’t talk to you, they comply in your presence but make fun of you in your back, if that is the respect you want then by all means, be a pronoun warrior
I'm so sorry this video has reached the parts of the internet of the people refusing to accept people for who they are and who lack basic human decency. This video is amazing honestly. The hook, the redirect, and the cutaway is so masterful. To spell it out for those that can't see it. The idea of the video is that people who actively use language that disrespects people's identities and who they are is frustrating for the fact that ITS NOT WHO THEY ARE. it's not right to call someone a name or a pronoun because you refuse to either respect them or bother to have human empathy. You don't have to understand someone or share their experience to just call them a name or pronoun that makes them comfortable. Pronouns are not the fucking problem. The people using it as a method to be hateful or discriminatory is. Humans have literally used they them pronouns for people before we started to talk about using them as pronouns. Y'all are just acting butthurt for no reason. Also please stop making the "I identify as a (object)! Haha". It's not original. Either get new material or shut up. Like seriously i stg every fucking person who refuses to respect people's identities use that goddamn joke and it's so overused. I request better jokes to go with your opinions. Thank you for coming to my ted talk
The premise is factually wrong. The third-person-singular pronouns are based on biological sex, not mutable self-perceived notions of "identity". The gender cult redefined words to turn them into something they could take offense at, when that's not what they are, and the people who use the long-established grammatically correct pronouns aren't being "disrespectful" by doing so. Referring to someone with "XX" Chromosomes as "she" or "her" is not a disrespect, or a judgement, it's an acknowledgement of biological facts. The other side of the argument are the people trying to compel speech onto the rest of society, forcing people to use different language based on what the gender-cult re-defined them to mean, without consulting the rest of society. And justifiably most of society rejects this blatant narcissistic manipulative tactic. If a person actually has gender dysphoria, that person will find that most people are completely fine using that person's name, avoiding pronouns all-together. That is being respectful, without having to give up one's own beliefs and observation of reality to accommodate another person. Anyone who has a problem with people using the grammatically correct pronouns or not using pronouns at all, is the problem. You're not more special than anyone else, and if you want respect from other people, you have to show it. The big problem is that the gender-cult doesn't respect anyone who stands up to their attacks on objective reality.
@lennardchurch8483 you should do reaserch on what consists of a cult. That might help immensely in defining what is happening here. Personally I grew up in what could be considered a cult and this is not it chief. Also many things have had similar up and comings like being out as LGBT. We used to beat and punish children for being left handed because it was seen as different and bad. But after that treatment stopped we saw a noticeable rise in left handed people. Did they all just appear? Was it a new fashioned movement? No. They just whernt being punished for who they were anymore. Also, fun fact chromosomes are not a reliable way to tell a person's sex. It's common for chromosomes to have a pattern but actually variations are pretty common. You yourself might have an interesting chromosome pattern and unless you invest in a test to sequence your chromosomes you will never know! There are some variations that can cause lifelong issues but it's actually pretty common to have slight variations and you just will live your entire silly little life without knowing! Also you missed my point so hard friend. We have been using they / them in language for so long before we started identifying it as a pronoun. (I've even used it multiple times in this response!) "They forgot their jacket" "Don't forget to tell them about the project" "Im just minding my own buisness" they said There are infinite resources that explain that more and I fully reccomend you look into them! Also if your doing that please simply google the phrase "does respecting trans children increase their life expectancy " Or better yet look at Google scholar and look for peer reviewed studies that specifically show that respecting trans people leads to similar amounts of depression and suicidal thoughts as their peers.(aka less and not very many) But disrespecting their identity makes that depression, self harm, and suicidal ideation go way up! There is so much imperical evidence that proves that trans people are who they say they are. This isn't a cult. It's not a delusion. I really do genuinely encourage you to look up these studies as they could be incredibly informative. Also language has evolved over time for all of humanity pal. Like how we don't use retarded, or crippled as definitions of disabled people. We view coloured people as people of colour rather then the likes of what we're used in history. We refer to native people as native American rather then as Indians. The English language is always evolving as we find way to be respectful and to be more inclusive of our language. The history of all of these is incredibly rich, and would you guess, ALSO ALL PUBLICLY AVAILABLE 😃😃😃 Me and any other trans or nonconforming person are not asking you to give up your beliefs and values. We are asking for respect my guy. Which leads to finally. My last insane belief. Respect should be mutual. Not every trans/nonconforming person is going to chew you out for mistakenly misgendering them. (If they freak out after you misgender them once, that's on THEM, not the entire group. A significant portion of trans/nonconforming people will simply correct you then move on) But they might have something to say if you go on rants like these out in public to people faces. Wouldn't you know it people don't like to be told that their very existence is wrong. If you want respect pal, you gotta show it. You get returned to you what you put into the world. If you look for negativity you'll find plenty of it. But if you look for the positives and for tolerance and respect you will see it. The same way if what you put into the world is hate filled messages saying a group is wrong for what they feel, someone will respond in a mildly sarcastic way to tell you genuine information that has been proven by scientific numerous times. And it continues to prove it I know I make my jokes but I genuinely do encourage you to do more reaserch. In the age of the internet we have so much information around us, more then ever before. It's a chance for all of us to know more then ever and to grow so much as human beings. Please do more reaserch friend. I feel like it could be immensely helpful in your journey as a human being. Please be respectful, do your research, and have a lovely day friend. 💙
thank you for the clarification, the comment section made me really concerned and i didnt quite get the joke in the video so its a relief to see someone explain what was happening with that. i couldnt tell whether or not it was a joke but it seems like it is so 🎉.
@@rh906 if language can be something you want it to be, it can be what I want it to be now. So I can modify the language and call you whatever I want. It goes bothways!
Here, a huge LGBTQIA+ supporter. I support them as I support any other existence. Still this pronoun game is as stupid as nit supporting the community. It goes against the fundamental purpose of "pronouns" and even language itself. Pronouns allow us to refer to a person without needing to know them personally.
Yes that is a HUGE point of pronouns. You can refer to people you don’t know with these universal pronouns that have been used in language for thousands of years. It would make day to day life much more difficult if you had to somehow know how a person LIKES to be referred to. I don’t have the time or patience to refer to someone the way THEY (singular, general person of unspecified gender) want. The difference between homosexuality and transgenderism is that homosexuality is a sexual preference in other people. Transgenderism is a completely psychological phenomenon that exists in the mind. In nature, there are natural laws that developed the characteristics of men and women that have developed over millions of years out of necessity. We live in a country that, in the last several decades, has (for the time being) removed the need for men to act like men, and women to act like women. This is the catalyst for the gender confusion the country is now experiencing. Now, if you “feel” like you’re the wrong sex, you can just pretend in superficial ways to be the gender you want to be, including “gender reassignment surgery”and that’s all you need to do! In any part of the world where people have to hunt and forage for food, people stick to traditional gender roles and never think about gender dysphoria. And I’d bet money that if the US collapsed today, and people had to hunt for their food, “trans-men” would immediately find themselves feeling more feminine, and begin looking for a real biological man to protect them from bad actors and to provide for them. I say all this with love and compassion. I have zero hate for anyone, and abhor violence, especially against gay and trans people.
@@J_TraskI've been to college and many other places and I've never met a they/them. They're a rare group and I think most of them probably don't want all this attention. I think the only reason we're talking about them is because one side of the political aisle decided to use them as a way to rile up voters because tax cuts for the rich and corporations weren't really inspiring people to support them. Giving voters something to fear enough that they'll vote against it is how you can get supporters when you're unable to actually offer them anything they want like higher wages and social spending programs that Europeans enjoy. If someone wants to be called they/them, I'll try to accommodate them. It's not a massive amount of effort for me. If I accidentally call them by the wrong pronoun and they get offended, l'll apologize. It's easier than complaining and telling them they're insane and harming me by demanding I say they/them. I've still never met one though, so yeah... this issue is not really important to me. I would like if people respected each other and got along though, so...if someone asks you to refer to them with they/them pronouns, just try your best. I assume they'll appreciate it. If you forget and mess up and they get offended, just apologize. If they're still mad, then just leave them alone. It's not a big deal, right? Damn I always write too much when I comment.
@@just1moreepisode.735sometimes I just was to be called what I choose to be, I don’t get aggravated if you misgender me or deadname me I just feel sorry for you 😅
@@just1moreepisode.735non binary people have been around for thousands of years all across the world,.from the two spirit of the native Americans to the brotherboys and sistergirls of Aboriginal Australia
If people ask me to use their pronouns while talking to them, then I’ll just stop talking to them. It’s too much of a hassle remembering everyone’s pronouns.
@@gadnes330 Isn’t remembering name different than remembering pronouns like kit/kitty, zay/zem etc? Or are you telling me that one person has several names?
I agree but the dumb thing is being chastised for simply not knowing. I constantly forget peoples name and they don't hate me for it. It's when you get mad at me for something I didn't know or simply forgot that get at me.
The example was so stupid. Atleast make a convincing case. Noun- name is personal identity. Pronoun- is 3rd person.. It's as if we Indians know English better than Americans
omg the stupidity, where will this all end? I was in san diego a few days ago, and was walking down the street just a few mins away from the safari park, and it was kinda crowded there , and this lady was standing right in front of me, so all I said was "Hey miss can you please shift aside a bit, I need to reach somewhere asap" to which she/idk angrily replied- "OKAY, but I'm nonbinary so do not address me as miss". I'm still confused what should I've said- "Hey everyone can you all please gimme some side?" These are weird times we're living in. Also in the context of this video, name and pronouns are very different, Those who know you or are close to you can address you by your name, but some random dude will always call you "you". If I don't know you, what should I be referring to you as, Hey miss, hey sir only no? Lemme make a suggestion, there are certain features that helps us distinguish b/w man and woman, the trans people (wadr) should develop these too, a complete dynamic shift. Also oxford including xyz in their dictionary doesn't mean we all should accept it, Oxford have millions of words in their, do we use 'them'?
You’re trying to explain your extremely correct opinion to extremely illiterate people on TH-cam. I 100% agree with your entire comment, and people need to know that pronouns and names are not the same.
@@jkaranjkar3494 Have some sense? So being judgmental and saying that I am nonsensical is somehow Okay, but me trying to ask a rather simple question makes me the bad guy? Wow. Anyways, U still didn't answer the very very simple question I put forward in the comment. Peace out.
Yes names and pronouns are different, yet they are both expressions of your identity. You identity as a he or she because you feel comfortable identifying such. People might feel comfortable in neither and choose to identify as they/them.
breaking news, person on the internet compares wanting to be called by they/them pronouns to Pedophila and actually thought it was a good argument. more at 8.
You know there is a difference between the reality and playing pretend? It's your name you definitely get offended when people pronounce it wrong, but coming up with new pronouns while playing pretend and expect people to play along with you, that needs mental health attention 😊
"They" as a pronoun has existed for hundreds of years in its current form. Using it as a substitution for a gendered pronoun isn't even grammatically incorrect.
The thing is a name is just a word used to refer to someone without any underlying connotations. A pronoun is first of all used in third person and has the connotation of affirming something which is a belief and isn't something backed by facts and arguments just endless empathy.
Fr, like people really be playing with grammar 💀 she legit compared nouns to pronouns and thought she ate. I honestly didn't expect this from her, the least she could've done is to give a actual logical example, I even think she's trolling and mocking lgbtq with this video
Yea you’re right we do need therapy just because of a simple pronoun that people won’t respect and then those people think we are pedophiles and most of the community gets killed. KILLED BECAUSE OF WORDS ugh what has humanity come to..
Bacause people are done with woke shit. We don't have problems with real trans people but not the one who is pretending to be one. Mens are identified as women and participating in woman's games and beating women. They are not sparing even childrens. Shameful
U really think the hatred is there. The pronoun use is fascism. Your name is your identity. Pronouns are not.. Use Thailand as model, not the US nonsense
@@alpaciandecatre4385 Pronoun use is a political ideology which emphasizes ultra nationalism, militarism, and the supremacy of the nation and a dictator over the individual whom is forcibly suppressed from speaking out against said system of government? I don’t think you know what fascism means
I am an Ambulance My pronouns are Wee/Woo Names are identity , You cant(legally) change them every day. And well pronouns i can change everyday.... Also why would you want to call someone a they them when are a he him or she her...... As she said " Why call me something I'm not" - well you are asking us to call you something you are not... Lol In short pronouns arent your identity. No hate meant though...
@@JustinHmusic this comment section deserves such messages too, I never claimed originality.... My rant started after ... The joke was just pointing out the subtle stupidity of it all
yes we do, when we were in like LKG UKG, we learnt english and pronouns female: she/her male: he/him multiple people: they/them objects: it thats it, anything other than this is delusion and they need help
it really just depends on the person and situation. person: if they're a good person they will politely correct you, if they are conceited they will snap situation: If its the first time you got it wrong, snapping back is pretty rude, whereas if they are constantly trying to correct people, it might be understandable to lose their temper
My styles of reference are : "my Lordship" and "your imperial majesty" My adjectives are : "brilliant" and "handsome". Anything else is hate and bigotry.
You go girlie, you're so girl boss. You must love being such a lady. You're just so queen. Look at you, everyone says "She's such a boss" when they look at you
They are overly toxic and aggressive people who are narcissistic enough to make everything about themselves, they only want you to respect their ideology but they themselves won't even try to understand others, anyone who is not with them is their enemy in their mind. I get that some people are different but that doesn't mean that I'll tolerate someone's arrogant behaviour. If they want basic respect then fine we are all humans we can respect each other but, their whole existence is based on playing victims. They think the world should treat them special because they have been sad. I don't consider others below me or above me I won't always be walking on eggshells to make sure that others feelings aren't hurt nor would I go around harassing people who behave differently.
I’m just gonna say it.. people that defend plural words for singular scenarios are stupid. People that say their identity doesn’t match their biology, while making no effort to visually change their presentation are also stupid.
@@troy.c8102 so you're one of those who don't even know what creature they are lol nigga or niggi whatever don't prove yourself clown here go to biology class
@@sanaeabubber69 not really, If you have to personally inquire about someone to address them, then what's the point of using pronouns? Just know their name and call them by their name. Pronouns are used when you can't or don't have the opportunity to inquire. And honestly, if you keep asking about someone's gender or sexuality, they might feel uncomfortable and also make the whole process of communication more complex. So why can't you simply respect someone for who they are and show respect through other gestures? Asking every person about their gender, trust me, is more disrespectful to many others. If someone wants to be called something specific, it's their responsibility to express it upfront. Anyway, you all seem intelligent, but nowadays I'm confused about what true intellect really means.
@@sanaeabubber69 By the way, I am a big supporter of the community and genuinely want to support them in every possible way. However, it should be done in a reasonable manner. Demanding and making efforts like these can actually undermine their true cause, and as a result, people and the government may not take them seriously. So please, let's not make them suffer.
@@sanaeabubber69the point is your stupid and lack even the basic of nouns and pronouns, so really you shouldn't even be addressing this and advocating for mental illness. Go get help
“they” has been used as a singular pronoun since the time of Shakespeare. Today it is recognized in the dictionary as both plural and singular. Please read an actual book.
@@morbidmanuscript9324 Yeah, it's 'thou' vs 'thy' not them/they and none of the two hint at they/them either. It's just used instead of 'you' because use of 'you' was considered rude and rustic. 'thou' was more acceptable, again due to the respect it puts on the addressee. Yep, I've picked multiple "books" written by Shakespeare.
Language is a social construct, not a means of conveying information accurately so you don't keep reinventing the same idea. So it must be destroyed!!!
They is speaking about a group of people Them is a third person plural pronoun. Them is used as the object of a verb or preposition. You use them to refer to a group of people, animals, or things. So yes you are right. People that use pronouns change reality
They/Them are not nouns, they are pronouns. You can call yourself They or Them no problem. 'Ms They' , 'Mr Them'... its stupid, But thats just a technicality.
It's idiotic how they be speaking crap without realising the real world consequences and then shame others for being transphobic when you call out their busslshit logic 🤣
To all the people complaining how it doesn't make sense or how it's too difficult... One time i was having a conversation with a dude about this exact topic and he said "well in that case, I now identify as a woman, refer to me as she/her". This was a grown, tall man with a beard and 0 interest in anything feminine. And I called him she/her without any issues until he told me to stop :) If I can refer to someone I view as a man with feminine pronouns to win an argument, I'm sure you'll manage for people who are actually that gender.
And the funniest part is that he asked you to stop Like, if his preferred pronouns aren't she/her it gets very annoying and uncomfortable if you refer to them as that and people WILL feel weird about it So why can't people accept other people who feel the same way !!!
In the Philippines We don't have he/him she/her We use "siya" which is gender neutral Well some use "Ate" "Kuya" (big sister and brother) when referring to strangers that they know the gender of but most just use siya
unfortunately, "main character syndrome" combined with a deluge of narcissism has muddied the waters for the people who actually have identity issues with people who want to be unique in any way they can...it was exacerbated by the pandemic when we were all chronically online...throw in a touch of intersectionality and cultural neo-marxism...and kablam...
Yes, just this fr✨✨ for those of you in the comments saying that using they/them is wrong because ✨ grammar✨ the Oxford English dictionary says that singular they/them has been used since 1375. Edit(2)-awww I lost my heart from editing
@@MrSpyrud that's kinda ✨goofy✨ even as an LGBT person myself- but if that's what feels right then u do you boo like as long as it doesn't hurt anyone then I'm cool with you
Girl please know grammar properly before commenting nonsense. Indeed they/them has been used as singular since 1300s but it can be only used as singular when the person is unspecified, unknown otherwise it's used for two or more people . Why would you call a person you know as they/them? That doesn't make sense. Please elaborate on your ✨grammar knowledge✨ and enlighten us
@@crystal_isha it can be used when the gender of the person is unknown- people no wanting to use genders terms for themselves that make them uncomfortable is completely valid, also I would of they asked me to
I always think its funny that you people are so against the idea of being aware of social issues. You're literally using woke like its a fuckin insult lmao its like calling someone smart and thinking you're insulting then. Fuckin bizarre
It’s not the same. I was born a boy, my mother named me Matt, but during the duration of my lifetime, the many variations of my name, plus my personality, the name Matthias was given to me relatively early on by close friends that know me, and I didn’t start introducing myself as a Mathias until I decided I was officially going to take control of my life. I was born a boy. Now I am a man. Nothing has changed in regards to my gender and sexual orientation because I have testicles and testosterone and my brain thinks a certain way and my body has very specific chemical reactions going on within me. The use of pronouns are in reference to how I sexually identify, or if I identify as a man or a woman or a uenic /non-binary. I don’t have a psychological disorder, my name just simply changed.
It is a noun and so still not a pronoun you would use to describe yourself. If you do not use pronouns how would you be referred to as. This kind of comments are so ignorant and funniest part is the commentor thinks they are being smart!
It’s one thing to be wanted to be identified as male or female when you look different. But why in the heck would anyone want to be identified as several people?!
@@arundhatichatterjee They are only gender fluid but do not have MPD right? They can use other gender neutral pronouns. They can go with it and that for all I care. But there is no need to act like you have another human living in your head. It’s still one person.
Gender does not equal people. They are not identifying as several people, they are identifying as one person with either no gender, or both genders, because they don't feel comfortable with their given pronouns.
Don’t even bother scrolling down. There’s nothing down there except more reasons to hate humanity for our stubborn unwillingness to understand each other.
well we know a white guy is white and a black guy is black. but being black is not your entire existence or your personality, it just shouldn't be. sure, you are black but should we call you by black pronouns now? or simply by your name and what you do in your life for a living. the problem with these they/them people is that their sole existence and life depends on their sexuality, not on their actual jobs in life.
Transitioning actually statistically decreases the rate of depression and suicidality in trans people. That’s why medical professionals prescribe it for patients that need it and are healthy enough for it. Majority medical institutions agree that gender affirming care is necessary and safe.
@@morbidmanuscript9324 Wadr, I would like to know what source do you have of these statistics? As far as I've researched and studied, there have been NO and I repeat No long term studies on this, all the data that you been provided is conducted on a very fraction of minorities, similar datas are also available with the other side that provides enough evidence against gender reassignment. All I'm saying is we need not to see it from individual's perspective like- Ohh you know, I know mathew he/she is now so happy after gender reassignment. Well dear, you don't know what he/she will feel like in a year or so, and lastly, if Gender is a social construct and It has nothing to do with biology (sociology does not support this argument) then why do people need gender reassignment. I rest my case here. Peace 🙏
@@morbidmanuscript9324nope. If i remember correctly, after 7 years suicide rates are much higher in the "transitioned" people than those who didn't go through with body mutilation BUT addressed the root trauma, hatmful gender stereotypes and, for wimen, internalised mysoginy.
Imagine meeting someone named Michael and they ask you to call them "Mike" - it's literally the same courtesy. You would be DERANGED to go on the warpath "IM NOT CALLING YOU MIKE! THAT'S NOT YOUR REAL NAME! THAT'S NOT WHAT'S ON YOUR BIRTH CERTIFICATE" Yeah, okay buddy, that's not psychotic at all
@@shakkedjaffe4462 first they police your speech and then they police your entertainment(jokes/comedy/movies). i can see the progression from your comment.
@@shakkedjaffe4462It would be wrong to support someones delusions. Im sure you can think of an example with people who think they can fly and tall buildings.
The whole LGBTGIF "movement" contradicts itself!! Part of the "movement" says respect me because I was born this way...and the other part of the "movement" says do NOT respect how I was born, but respect who I identify as or feel that I am!! The "movement" says to both respect and disrespect how a person was born!!
Okay i will assume you are a nice, atheist, liberal who has no reason to be rude to them cause i cant argue with you, so lets say your honestly confused, the part your talking about being "born this way" is mlm(men who like men) and wlw(women who like women) and aromantic/asexual, all of them were born being the way they were, but they didn't identify with it for a while, i realized i was gay around middle school, some people realize when they are young, some when they are older, it doesn't matter, we aren't the important ones in this conversation, we were always the way we were, but it took us a while to figure it out, untill that point most of us identified as straight. Trans people are the same, they were born trans, they were born into the wrong bodies for their brains, some of them figure that out young, some figure it out during puberty, like me finding out i was gay. We were born this way,it doesn't matter if we get rid of the labels, even without saying I'm gay i will still be attracted to boys, if a trans person doesn't say they are trans they will still want to be the opposite sex. If we only use labels then and i can say I'm trans and a lesbain but i won't want to be a girl or sleep with them.
Thank you for calling out their hypocrisy…the lgb are not the problem it’s the TQA+++ and all the other bullshit added to that creating unnecessary problems because of their narcissism
@gadnes330 being a mlm or wlw it totally different than being born in the wrong gender. The difference is that u can sum1 from the same gender but you can't be born as one. Being mlm amd wlw is indicative you being attracted to sum1 which can take sum1 some time to figure out. But being born in the wrong gender is not possible as our bodies are not wired this way. You can't change your biology
I’m not very informed about the pronouns and such. But why doesn’t the LGBTQ community, focus more on the fact that their pronouns do not define them? Like they must have preferences in the first place due to there being differences between the pronouns. Why don’t we try to break the stereotypes such as “a person identifying by she/her must be feminine” instead? I think preferences are what create a gap, because in the end, people with the same preferences will be attracted to the same type of pronoun, and the entire prejudice will repeat itself. Just a thought, let me know if I’m wrong, I just think breaking barriers and just addressing people with what they want in the end is something that should be respected anyway. Yeah lmao
It’s probably just a preference too, but I might be too ignorant to understand the nuance. My prompt is to be respectful to how each individual identified themselves without having to agree to how it’s weaponised as we all do within our own respective communities.
@@sanaeabubber69 I'm starting to like you but no we dont need to respect "those people" who have no respect or tolerance for others or their beliefs or feelings. The intolerance of the Pronoun Community is beyond reason or rational thought, and respect is a thing that EARNED, not just handed out like halloween candy. As for taking the "high road" to be so called "the better person" is bullsh!t...if we're talking about RESPECT then lets talk about the responsibility n accountability that comes with it, but whats being suggested is our TOLERANCE of those who have no respect for us whatsoever, its a one way street with no room for anyone but those who would run you down unless you go their direction.
Yes, they and them can be used when the sex/gender of the person/creature/entity is unknown. The thing is, if you don't know what sex/gender you are, you have way bigger problems than preferred pronouns.
Sex and gender are two different things. You cannot use them interchangeably. This is not some liberal opinion, but is scientifically accepted fact. Sex is biological, gender is sociological. Let me break it down for you. A common gender role is that women should do the laundry. But are women's bodies biologically designed to carry out this task better than me? No it's a gender role which is dictated by Society. Make sense? Our society just decided that. Therefore, gender is not based on biological sex. Of course it is often dictated by it and are correlations but the two are separate things.
@@PeacefulPariah You just effectively used sex and gender interchangeably. You stated: "A common gender role is that women should do the laundry." Now "women" is the plural of "woman", which is an adult, human female. Or another way we could define it would be: an adult human of the female sex. So in other words we could rewrite what you said as: "A common gender role is that adult humans of the female sex should do the laundry." Now looking at the etymology of the word, gender started becoming interchangeable around the early 15th century. Which makes sense because around that time the word "sex" was being used more in the erotic sense. So yeah, it would be weird to say: "A common sexual role is that women should do the laundry." That would in modern parlance imply some sort of weird kink or something, so instead we say: "a common gender role is that women should do the laundry." Sex and gender can be and should be used interchangeably. Otherwise it just doesn't make sense.
@@morbidmanuscript9324insisting people refer to you how you want to be called instead of what apparently are, is a form of lying. I refuse to play along with a lie in order to make someone else feel good about their life choices. If I’m interacting with a person with gender dysphoria, I will use the person’s name in lieu of using any pronouns to not be rude, but to not undermine my personal convictions. This doesn’t make me a transphobe. I love all people and would be the first one to defend a trans person from harm for presenting however makes them comfortable, but I do not agree with the ideology. Kids are being sterilized, given mastectomies, testicles removed, ovaries removed, etc. irreversible procedures that will affect their reproductive abilities, along with their entire lives, and I mourn for the people that have these procedures. With all that said, you are what you are born as. If you feel you are in the wrong body, I feel bad for you and hope that you get psychological care to bring your gender image into alignment with your body. I feel bad for the kids that are being lied to and confused from a young age that they can be born in the wrong body. Gender dysphoria is a psychological pandemic that has increased dramatically with the prevalence of social media. This is happening because parents aren’t doing their jobs as parents and protecting their kids.
Think about us too... It is difficult for a common man to remember every person's pronoun and then to correctly use them in conversation. It is just too cumbersome.
“Think about us too..” oh it must be so hard for you to use your brain to remember a couple words. Imagine being trans and getting denied healthcare, housing, jobs, safe education, or being beat and killed in the street just for being who you are. But yeah you must have it really tough.
You do it everyday anyways. Your mother is a her, your dad is a him. Your sister is a her. If someone wants to be called they/them, it's not that big of a hassle.
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Not changing the english language to feed into either the group of people who "identify" as other things as an outlet for their narcissism or the true misalignment of body and mind from the group who genuinely suffer from gender dysphoria isn't disrespectful or mean. Acknowledging reality and making sure we all live in it is the only way to move forward. Reality: we are born male and female and can not change our sex. Reality: Language acknowledges our sex and uses that as a key identifying characteristic because it is the best characteristic to use to simultaneously narrow down 50% of the population yet still be broad enough to be colloquially understood.
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Sis, name isn't linked to who you like in bed. Plus these people aren't gonna stop anytime soon. They want "Xe/Xen/Xer, Fae/Fairy pronouns" and tbh I don't give a shit and I'm going to speak the languages however I like. The world doesn't revolve around them so I don't need to keep myself updated about whether they decide to be a shoe lace or a door today.
Same here. Couldnt have said it better. These people have so much free time on their hands. They have forgotten that names were given to people as identification. You don't need to "Identity as" you already freaking have one. So called woke people trash talk people like us for saying stuff like this and be like "u shud make the minorities feel comfortable" like hello what about us? It makes us uncomfortable to jump on this "trend" you guys have got going which doesn't even make sense. And you connect it with respect and all that and it's so stupid god. Kids in school are identifying as animals. Barking literally! Men going to women jail claiming to be women then doing SA. It's just giving a free pass to wreck havoc to a society which is filled with equal percentage of good and equal percentage of psychopaths. Good people will either stay neutral or will just be polite. But bad ones will misuse it And that's whats happening but again too many people have too much free time and not enough real problems in their lives to invest time in these nonsense
Okay, bitch. What, offended by my deciding that today, you are a female dog to me? That’s how I’m going to refer to you! The world doesn’t revolve around you, after all….
trans has not been medically defined as an illness/delusion since around the 60s-70s. So either update your information or you are the delusional one LOL
A proper name is way different than a pronoun. There is no hate in not using "your" pronouns. The problem is forcing my speech. I don't care if you see yourself as a monkey. Just don't try to make me feed you bananas.
Nobody is having a meltdown. And nobody asked you. You have nothing important to say because people will ask for respect and only "melt down" -act appropriately how I would expect any normal person to act when being disrespected Try it for once sweetheart. - When they arent being respected. See how respect works? Give and take.
@@timtambigham9513 You're having a meltdown. You're getting more aggressive the more people say the truth because it doesn't fit what you want it to be.
Well by default if a person is using he/ she to address a person whose gender identity is unknown to them,it does not makes the person homophobic. I understand this is to be taken as a joke but Name v pronouns aren't the same. No one is assuming names out there. In a social setting it isn't practically feasible. Also i see a lot of half baked medical facts being thrown around in the commments , get your facts straight, Peace .
when i was younger, I would accidentally touch things on one side of the body and try to recreate that exact same feeling on the opposite side in order to maintain balance between the two sides. I imagine "they/them" is basically that but they've never grown passed it
She's sooo cute!!!! All this nonsense has become mainstream because of lack of stuggle. I swear west really needs to be humbled for the good of humankind.
Actually, the west has historically promoted homophobia in other parts of the world. Many cultures before European colonization were accepting of different genders.
There is a difference using a wrong name, and using a pronoun that is for 3rd person plural as 1st person singular and saying F you to grammatical rule.
"This use of singular they had emerged by the 14th century, about a century after the plural they.[4][5][2] It has been commonly employed in everyday English ever since and has gained currency in official contexts."(wikipedia)
Ppl who call themselves they r stupid. FYI no problem with ppl sexual preferences but kids or teens below 20 should not be allowed to do have gender transfers but if they feel there gender is not right they should be able to express it freely without any fear.
People get my name wrong all the time. It’s not important. It’d be pretty childish of me to get worked up and offended by something that so insignificantly effects my life. It has no effect on my day what so ever unless I let it. -and a pronoun is even less important and personal than a name. My joy and peace are not dependent on what other people call me. An external locus of control is unhealthy.
Biharis are the most inclusive.
They never use 'main', they always use 'hum'
what do u mean by that 💀💀🗿
@@monboruah5827mai=I
Hum=we
@@crystal_isha Haan joke ko deconstruct aur literalize karke bigaad do
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There is no main in bhojpuri/avadhi.
Hum means "I".
For saying we, can say something like hum sab, hum log.
In Sanskrit Aham means I.
Hihi, that's why I like my mother tongue - Bangla/ Bengali... It's a gender neutral language... Except for names of people,it's noun, pronoun, verb all are neutral 😍
SAME!!
Honestly as a bengali non binary person, i only realised that i was nonbinary after i learned english. Bc in bangla i have gender nuetral pronouns by default💀💀so when the english he/she happened i was like wtf??? Neither fit me!!!! Wtf-
@@pollux_the_insufferable. im so happy for you!! im a bengali trans person but i've always known english since birth. im so glad you found your true identity
@@asterisk_fr 💛💛💛 ive also known english yk? It hits differently when your 12 and on the internet and start getting online friends and they are like using pronouns, with my bangali friends it never registered properly
@@pollux_the_insufferable. there arent many queer bengalees. it is one of the most lgbtq phobic countries. i hope you dont have to deal with shit like that
"I identify as a black lesbian..." - Piers Morgan.
Knowing Piers, I think he’d be very offended if people kept referring to him as that.
@@ISEEYOU9. They won't get any wisdom. Such a simple thing and the new generation have made it complex. You think people who go by 'feelings' will understand basic biology? Two genders. He or a she. And a transgender that's it for the gender discuss. There is nothing to discuss any further. But these people have made it into a spectrum 😂 that keeps on changing. They themselves don't know what they are and expect us to call them by the 'correct' pronouns. Lol.
@@sanaeabubber69i identify as your husband then. How was that 🌚
@@sanaeabubber69how do you know that?
He has already declared that that is his identity. You don't know that he would be offended.
@@sanaeabubber69knowing piers morgan, I think he'd identify as chinese lesbian as soon as he gets bored or as you say "offended".
They/them refers to multiple people. Forcing it down people’s throat is bullying. No one cares about your sexual preference and no one wants to know it either. Stop this insanity already. It’s not the same as someone mispronouncing your name.
"This use of singular they had emerged by the 14th century, about a century after the plural they.[4][5][2] It has been commonly employed in everyday English ever since and has gained currency in official contexts."(wikipedia)
@@gadnes330 isn’t that use limited to past perfect tense only?
@@Jay-do2dl i don't think so
@@gadnes330 you are right. I checked online and “they” can be used in singular if a persons gender is not known or irrelevant. I stand corrected.
@@Jay-do2dl thank you, someone who actually isn't an ass when they make a mistake, I hope you have a lovely life mr/miss
To answer the question....it's the same reason why we can't call a dog "cat" and a table "chair"....it would become too confusing. By the way the horse you're sitting on is very beautiful
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Are you really comparing non living things without the ability to emote and functioning brains to humans? The chair doesn't understand or care what you call it. You choose to call it a chair for your personal ease. You cannot play with humans like you want for your personal ease. Humans have the right to choose their identity themselves. Choosing to adress someone as something other than what they identify as is what calling a table 'chair' feels like.
@@tobecoolortobemethatistheq9390 first of all i don't identify as "you". Please respect the pronouns. Second of all aren't the peopl that choose to be referred to as "they/them" also are playing with humans for their own ease? Anyway the example I gave wasn't to compare humans to objects but rather to emphasize the fact that nouns (names) aren't similar to pronouns
@@thepinpoint123 do you identify as a 3 year old toddler then? For you sure seem to have the iq of one. And no, requesting people to call them by their preferred pronouns isn't personal ease but rather basic rights. Also no one said nouns and pronouns were the same thing, she's just trying to explain how wrong it feels to be called something you're not just because the person prefers to call you by what they think is appropriate.
Wow you tried to become so great that you forgot difference between noun and pronoun
It's 2023 and people are confused which are nouns and which are pronouns. Your name is a legal validation not your pronouns.
Yeah these are the side effects of covid n online classes may b😂
It's a horrible side effect 😂 It makes my head hurt. This "i identify as" trend
the problem with "i identify as" is... who gave you the right and power to identify or become something? do these people not respect other people? like do these people think normal people don't have eyes to see and tell someone's gender.
sure, transgender exists, but that is all. you want to be gay, sure do that in your personal space. but don't enforce your opinion onto others. have you ever heard a cis-male or cis-female talking about their sexual preference 24x7?
why is your sexual preference and your horniness so important to others is something I will never understand. these things are meant to be private anyways. you don't go ahead and tell to your parents, and you relatives that you had sex with your gf/bf. then why do the same for being gay?
" I would like to be called as the most Handsom man in the world" respect my pronoun everyone.
If a man randomly calls you hi handsome you'll be the first one to be uncomfortable
@@souradeepchoudhury8515 how dare you question my individuality. That is what I am and I would like to be called with that particular pronoun only. I am offended. Please use " the most handsome man in the world" pronoun or do not talk with me.
@@nadeemazad702 killed it brother😂😂😂
@@nadeemazad702respect++
@@nadeemazad702hello most handsome man in the world😀
Woke propaganda you can't survive without that in the year 2023..
Lol she is comparing pronouns with nouns... Moment silence for such great level wokeness 😂😂
She wants such woke shit to be in trading I guess
I was thinking the same thing😂😂
@@ritikbhatt3291 🤣🤣 wokes don't required brain
Pronouns just fill in for nouns. They're generally exchangeable
Thank you.
Just respect people pronouns. It doesn't hurt you,and it feels nice to be treated with basic human respect. Don't know why you care so much about something that doesn't really affect you.
I don't think most people barring a few actually care what your pronouns are. Most people won't care and call you whatever you want yourself to be called as. The main stink that people have with pronoun culture is how much it is forcefully fed to you. I don't want everytime i open social media to find just everyone talking about their pronouns and shit. Also people get angry on how overreacting these people are when you call them the wrong thing
@@suryamgangwal8315 you're entitled to your opinion we don't have to agree :) have a good day
It affects everyone look at the condition of America this pronoun game is getting out of hands
@@lipipragyadevi you think the state of America.... is because of people using pronouns?
There is no disrespect in calling them what the world has been doing for centuries, if you have bullied someone into accepting your pronouns, they either won’t talk to you, they comply in your presence but make fun of you in your back, if that is the respect you want then by all means, be a pronoun warrior
I'm so sorry this video has reached the parts of the internet of the people refusing to accept people for who they are and who lack basic human decency. This video is amazing honestly. The hook, the redirect, and the cutaway is so masterful.
To spell it out for those that can't see it. The idea of the video is that people who actively use language that disrespects people's identities and who they are is frustrating for the fact that ITS NOT WHO THEY ARE. it's not right to call someone a name or a pronoun because you refuse to either respect them or bother to have human empathy. You don't have to understand someone or share their experience to just call them a name or pronoun that makes them comfortable.
Pronouns are not the fucking problem. The people using it as a method to be hateful or discriminatory is.
Humans have literally used they them pronouns for people before we started to talk about using them as pronouns. Y'all are just acting butthurt for no reason.
Also please stop making the "I identify as a (object)! Haha". It's not original. Either get new material or shut up.
Like seriously i stg every fucking person who refuses to respect people's identities use that goddamn joke and it's so overused. I request better jokes to go with your opinions.
Thank you for coming to my ted talk
The premise is factually wrong. The third-person-singular pronouns are based on biological sex, not mutable self-perceived notions of "identity". The gender cult redefined words to turn them into something they could take offense at, when that's not what they are, and the people who use the long-established grammatically correct pronouns aren't being "disrespectful" by doing so.
Referring to someone with "XX" Chromosomes as "she" or "her" is not a disrespect, or a judgement, it's an acknowledgement of biological facts.
The other side of the argument are the people trying to compel speech onto the rest of society, forcing people to use different language based on what the gender-cult re-defined them to mean, without consulting the rest of society. And justifiably most of society rejects this blatant narcissistic manipulative tactic.
If a person actually has gender dysphoria, that person will find that most people are completely fine using that person's name, avoiding pronouns all-together. That is being respectful, without having to give up one's own beliefs and observation of reality to accommodate another person. Anyone who has a problem with people using the grammatically correct pronouns or not using pronouns at all, is the problem.
You're not more special than anyone else, and if you want respect from other people, you have to show it. The big problem is that the gender-cult doesn't respect anyone who stands up to their attacks on objective reality.
I love your ted talk!! ❤
@@emmamartin6719 thank you! I hope you have a lovely day. 💙
@lennardchurch8483 you should do reaserch on what consists of a cult. That might help immensely in defining what is happening here. Personally I grew up in what could be considered a cult and this is not it chief.
Also many things have had similar up and comings like being out as LGBT. We used to beat and punish children for being left handed because it was seen as different and bad. But after that treatment stopped we saw a noticeable rise in left handed people. Did they all just appear? Was it a new fashioned movement? No. They just whernt being punished for who they were anymore.
Also, fun fact chromosomes are not a reliable way to tell a person's sex. It's common for chromosomes to have a pattern but actually variations are pretty common. You yourself might have an interesting chromosome pattern and unless you invest in a test to sequence your chromosomes you will never know!
There are some variations that can cause lifelong issues but it's actually pretty common to have slight variations and you just will live your entire silly little life without knowing!
Also you missed my point so hard friend. We have been using they / them in language for so long before we started identifying it as a pronoun. (I've even used it multiple times in this response!)
"They forgot their jacket"
"Don't forget to tell them about the project"
"Im just minding my own buisness" they said
There are infinite resources that explain that more and I fully reccomend you look into them!
Also if your doing that please simply google the phrase "does respecting trans children increase their life expectancy "
Or better yet look at Google scholar and look for peer reviewed studies that specifically show that respecting trans people leads to similar amounts of depression and suicidal thoughts as their peers.(aka less and not very many) But disrespecting their identity makes that depression, self harm, and suicidal ideation go way up!
There is so much imperical evidence that proves that trans people are who they say they are. This isn't a cult. It's not a delusion. I really do genuinely encourage you to look up these studies as they could be incredibly informative.
Also language has evolved over time for all of humanity pal.
Like how we don't use retarded, or crippled as definitions of disabled people. We view coloured people as people of colour rather then the likes of what we're used in history.
We refer to native people as native American rather then as Indians. The English language is always evolving as we find way to be respectful and to be more inclusive of our language. The history of all of these is incredibly rich, and would you guess, ALSO ALL PUBLICLY AVAILABLE 😃😃😃
Me and any other trans or nonconforming person are not asking you to give up your beliefs and values. We are asking for respect my guy.
Which leads to finally. My last insane belief.
Respect should be mutual. Not every trans/nonconforming person is going to chew you out for mistakenly misgendering them. (If they freak out after you misgender them once, that's on THEM, not the entire group. A significant portion of trans/nonconforming people will simply correct you then move on) But they might have something to say if you go on rants like these out in public to people faces. Wouldn't you know it people don't like to be told that their very existence is wrong.
If you want respect pal, you gotta show it. You get returned to you what you put into the world. If you look for negativity you'll find plenty of it. But if you look for the positives and for tolerance and respect you will see it.
The same way if what you put into the world is hate filled messages saying a group is wrong for what they feel, someone will respond in a mildly sarcastic way to tell you genuine information that has been proven by scientific numerous times. And it continues to prove it
I know I make my jokes but I genuinely do encourage you to do more reaserch. In the age of the internet we have so much information around us, more then ever before. It's a chance for all of us to know more then ever and to grow so much as human beings. Please do more reaserch friend. I feel like it could be immensely helpful in your journey as a human being.
Please be respectful, do your research, and have a lovely day friend. 💙
thank you for the clarification, the comment section made me really concerned and i didnt quite get the joke in the video so its a relief to see someone explain what was happening with that. i couldnt tell whether or not it was a joke but it seems like it is so 🎉.
Comparing names to pronouns now💀
Language is a social construct. It can be whatever I want it to be!
And if someone continued to refer to you as the wrong pronoun, would you be happy with that
But why do you need special treatment by using a name for yourself? All of us are humans 😇
@@DeebzA317Gender isnt a feeling. Its a biological fact. 😊
@@rh906 if language can be something you want it to be, it can be what I want it to be now. So I can modify the language and call you whatever I want. It goes bothways!
Here, a huge LGBTQIA+ supporter. I support them as I support any other existence. Still this pronoun game is as stupid as nit supporting the community.
It goes against the fundamental purpose of "pronouns" and even language itself. Pronouns allow us to refer to a person without needing to know them personally.
Yes that is a HUGE point of pronouns. You can refer to people you don’t know with these universal pronouns that have been used in language for thousands of years. It would make day to day life much more difficult if you had to somehow know how a person LIKES to be referred to. I don’t have the time or patience to refer to someone the way THEY (singular, general person of unspecified gender) want.
The difference between homosexuality and transgenderism is that homosexuality is a sexual preference in other people. Transgenderism is a completely psychological phenomenon that exists in the mind.
In nature, there are natural laws that developed the characteristics of men and women that have developed over millions of years out of necessity.
We live in a country that, in the last several decades, has (for the time being) removed the need for men to act like men, and women to act like women. This is the catalyst for the gender confusion the country is now experiencing.
Now, if you “feel” like you’re the wrong sex, you can just pretend in superficial ways to be the gender you want to be, including “gender reassignment surgery”and that’s all you need to do! In any part of the world where people have to hunt and forage for food, people stick to traditional gender roles and never think about gender dysphoria. And I’d bet money that if the US collapsed today, and people had to hunt for their food, “trans-men” would immediately find themselves feeling more feminine, and begin looking for a real biological man to protect them from bad actors and to provide for them.
I say all this with love and compassion. I have zero hate for anyone, and abhor violence, especially against gay and trans people.
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@@J_TraskI've been to college and many other places and I've never met a they/them. They're a rare group and I think most of them probably don't want all this attention. I think the only reason we're talking about them is because one side of the political aisle decided to use them as a way to rile up voters because tax cuts for the rich and corporations weren't really inspiring people to support them. Giving voters something to fear enough that they'll vote against it is how you can get supporters when you're unable to actually offer them anything they want like higher wages and social spending programs that Europeans enjoy.
If someone wants to be called they/them, I'll try to accommodate them. It's not a massive amount of effort for me. If I accidentally call them by the wrong pronoun and they get offended, l'll apologize. It's easier than complaining and telling them they're insane and harming me by demanding I say they/them. I've still never met one though, so yeah... this issue is not really important to me. I would like if people respected each other and got along though, so...if someone asks you to refer to them with they/them pronouns, just try your best. I assume they'll appreciate it. If you forget and mess up and they get offended, just apologize. If they're still mad, then just leave them alone. It's not a big deal, right? Damn I always write too much when I comment.
@@awesomeojoe123fucking finally someone who gets it, thank you
believe it or not people don’t wanna support it💀
honestly the "pronoun" standards are stupid.
They are. But people have too much free time on their hands and too less real problems and hardships in life it seems 😅
Pronouns are stupid. Ppl think that I’m being a dick but I’m not. I’m being logical. Especially when they change them like clothes every day
@@just1moreepisode.735sometimes I just was to be called what I choose to be, I don’t get aggravated if you misgender me or deadname me I just feel sorry for you 😅
@@just1moreepisode.735non binary people have been around for thousands of years all across the world,.from the two spirit of the native Americans to the brotherboys and sistergirls of Aboriginal Australia
If people ask me to use their pronouns while talking to them, then I’ll just stop talking to them. It’s too much of a hassle remembering everyone’s pronouns.
Yup Exactly
Well would you rember their name?
@@gadnes330 Isn’t remembering name different than remembering pronouns like kit/kitty, zay/zem etc? Or are you telling me that one person has several names?
@@maheenarif547 people do have multiple names? They got a first, middle, and last?
@@maheenarif547 also if people have nicknames you have to rember those too
I agree but the dumb thing is being chastised for simply not knowing. I constantly forget peoples name and they don't hate me for it. It's when you get mad at me for something I didn't know or simply forgot that get at me.
If they look queer, just ask, simple as that.
@Steph.98114 thats doesn't always workout either😂 its just dumb to have to submit to narcissists.
" Don't expect me to accept you when you couldn't accept yourself"
She called you sania and u responded even knowing its not your name 😂😂
Got em!
Who else is there in the f*cking room?
@@lizzybach4254Who the f*ck would allow someone to stay in their home without knowing their name
@@lizzybach4254 thats a stupid comeback , try something using your brain 😂
The example was so stupid. Atleast make a convincing case.
Noun- name is personal identity.
Pronoun- is 3rd person..
It's as if we Indians know English better than Americans
omg the stupidity, where will this all end? I was in san diego a few days ago, and was walking down the street just a few mins away from the safari park, and it was kinda crowded there , and this lady was standing right in front of me, so all I said was "Hey miss can you please shift aside a bit, I need to reach somewhere asap" to which she/idk angrily replied- "OKAY, but I'm nonbinary so do not address me as miss".
I'm still confused what should I've said- "Hey everyone can you all please gimme some side?"
These are weird times we're living in.
Also in the context of this video, name and pronouns are very different, Those who know you or are close to you can address you by your name, but some random dude will always call you "you". If I don't know you, what should I be referring to you as, Hey miss, hey sir only no? Lemme make a suggestion, there are certain features that helps us distinguish b/w man and woman, the trans people (wadr) should develop these too, a complete dynamic shift.
Also oxford including xyz in their dictionary doesn't mean we all should accept it, Oxford have millions of words in their, do we use 'them'?
Have some sense, you'll have yout answer
You’re trying to explain your extremely correct opinion to extremely illiterate people on TH-cam. I 100% agree with your entire comment, and people need to know that pronouns and names are not the same.
@@maheenarif547 lol..your comment itself is ignorant, who are you to talk of illiteracy? Funny as fck🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@maheenarif547 🤝
@@jkaranjkar3494 Have some sense? So being judgmental and saying that I am nonsensical is somehow Okay, but me trying to ask a rather simple question makes me the bad guy? Wow.
Anyways, U still didn't answer the very very simple question I put forward in the comment.
Peace out.
Name and pronoun is different.
What next? "Minor attracted person"?
Sir what percent of lgbtq people do you think want pedophiles in the comunity
Yes names and pronouns are different, yet they are both expressions of your identity. You identity as a he or she because you feel comfortable identifying such. People might feel comfortable in neither and choose to identify as they/them.
@@tobecoolortobemethatistheq9390 can I identify as Batman or a Tree then?
breaking news, person on the internet compares wanting to be called by they/them pronouns to Pedophila and actually thought it was a good argument. more at 8.
@@manhoosnick you can identify as an idiot since you are one
how she gets upset for being called something she's not, but will happily call herself something that she isn't
If theres two of you could i have one?
Mr. Rizzler
only if you can decide which one ☺️
@@this.gabbarthe singer one and the funny one, not this woke one.
You know there is a difference between the reality and playing pretend? It's your name you definitely get offended when people pronounce it wrong, but coming up with new pronouns while playing pretend and expect people to play along with you, that needs mental health attention 😊
You can stay ignorant for life
"They" as a pronoun has existed for hundreds of years in its current form. Using it as a substitution for a gendered pronoun isn't even grammatically incorrect.
@@swissarmyknight4306 here we go again, why would a sane person demands other people to address them in plural/third person pronouns?
@@AbhishekSharma-mz8vfyou just did it...
the pretending ones are the homophobes, trying to force a gender on non-binary people.
Start ho gya Indian logon ka bhi...Society/Social Media mein relevance/political correctness ki jaal mein sab phaste hain
Confusing between Having a name and having a pronoun 😂😂😂
The thing is a name is just a word used to refer to someone without any underlying connotations. A pronoun is first of all used in third person and has the connotation of affirming something which is a belief and isn't something backed by facts and arguments just endless empathy.
I was born as a biological male.
I identify as a lesbian who plays the role of the man in the lesbian relationship.
Oh thats amazing, good job being you
This cracked me up 😂
I didn’t know men had a role in a lesbian relationship
@@asciascatix2989😂
Is this sarcastic?
Identify yourself as a tree, but dont tell someone to identify you as Tree.
as simple as that , let that be in your head.
Nailed it 👏👍
If you can’t call me what I ask to be called, then don’t speak to me. As simple as that.
@@DABIGDAWG001 wtf Are you toddler or what ?
@@DABIGDAWG001we call you what you are not what you think yourself to be
@@SUNNYDIAS22then shut up please don't call people thanks
Therapist : so why do you need a therapy??
The reason:
Good one.
Uh? Are you hating? (Not to be rude)
Fr, like people really be playing with grammar 💀 she legit compared nouns to pronouns and thought she ate. I honestly didn't expect this from her, the least she could've done is to give a actual logical example, I even think she's trolling and mocking lgbtq with this video
Yea you’re right we do need therapy just because of a simple pronoun that people won’t respect and then those people think we are pedophiles and most of the community gets killed. KILLED BECAUSE OF WORDS ugh what has humanity come to..
If they went to actual therapy they wouldn't be thia stupid
“How dare you not hate people?? I’m unsubscribing!” Lol these people don’t see how ridiculous they are. Kudos, and great bit as always❤️🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈😄
Bacause people are done with woke shit.
We don't have problems with real trans people but not the one who is pretending to be one.
Mens are identified as women and participating in woman's games and beating women.
They are not sparing even childrens.
Shameful
@@ISEEYOU9.Bro you just fucked up the whole grammer yourself by pronouncing Children's'
Lgbt people are the most hateful of all. They continously want to be the most oppressed
U really think the hatred is there. The pronoun use is fascism.
Your name is your identity. Pronouns are not..
Use Thailand as model, not the US nonsense
@@alpaciandecatre4385 Pronoun use is a political ideology which emphasizes ultra nationalism, militarism, and the supremacy of the nation and a dictator over the individual whom is forcibly suppressed from speaking out against said system of government? I don’t think you know what fascism means
I am an Ambulance
My pronouns are Wee/Woo
Names are identity , You cant(legally) change them every day. And well pronouns i can change everyday....
Also why would you want to call someone a they them when are a he him or she her...... As she said " Why call me something I'm not" - well you are asking us to call you something you are not... Lol
In short pronouns arent your identity. No hate meant though...
Aren't you smart!!
Oh wow, I’ve never heard that joke before. Where did you come up with that one, 4Chan’s 2016 archive?
@@JustinHmusic this comment section deserves such messages too, I never claimed originality.... My rant started after ... The joke was just pointing out the subtle stupidity of it all
Stale joke.
Good for you, ambulance
Idk if some intellectuals here understand what a pronoun is & what a noun is…
The lady in the video clearly doesn't
yes we do, when we were in like LKG UKG, we learnt english and pronouns
female: she/her
male: he/him
multiple people: they/them
objects: it
thats it, anything other than this is delusion and they need help
Also, when people mispronounce other peoples names most people don’t snap rudely like most trans people do about their pronouns.
it really just depends on the person and situation.
person: if they're a good person they will politely correct you, if they are conceited they will snap
situation: If its the first time you got it wrong, snapping back is pretty rude, whereas if they are constantly trying to correct people, it might be understandable to lose their temper
@@ankitaprakash3060 That’s true, but that’s not how it was portrayed in the video.
My styles of reference are : "my Lordship" and "your imperial majesty"
My adjectives are : "brilliant" and "handsome".
Anything else is hate and bigotry.
You go girlie, you're so girl boss. You must love being such a lady. You're just so queen. Look at you, everyone says "She's such a boss" when they look at you
@@troy.c8102Ik right! Like go girl!! Slayy
Very weak argument. It's nearly meaningless.
They are overly toxic and aggressive people who are narcissistic enough to make everything about themselves, they only want you to respect their ideology but they themselves won't even try to understand others, anyone who is not with them is their enemy in their mind. I get that some people are different but that doesn't mean that I'll tolerate someone's arrogant behaviour. If they want basic respect then fine we are all humans we can respect each other but, their whole existence is based on playing victims. They think the world should treat them special because they have been sad. I don't consider others below me or above me I won't always be walking on eggshells to make sure that others feelings aren't hurt nor would I go around harassing people who behave differently.
Just this once, respectfully I will have to disagree with you.
Ifkr
boo hoo
Me too🥲
It was irony and the point is to show to respect people’s preferences. It wasn’t hate toward Non-binaries or lgbtq+
I respectfully have to ask for a terminator to pay you a visit. We are being respectful, right?
I am a table and you can't change that. So I'll force you to call me one. This is how "they" sound.
And I’ll happily respect it, if that’s truly how they identify.
@@frizzttymto oh shut up. I'm tired of people who use the word "identify". Immediately gives away they should be treated as lesser beings.
@@zdraws1490 skibidi toilet
@@frizzttymto nice thing to call them. They're really toilet seats .
@@zdraws1490 wtf r u on abt
I’m just gonna say it.. people that defend plural words for singular scenarios are stupid. People that say their identity doesn’t match their biology, while making no effort to visually change their presentation are also stupid.
Finally someone speaking facts
I identify myself as a bird
Wtf why I'm not flying????
Yes queen! You go girlie! Be a bird, you're such a pretty girl. The masculinity is not there at all girlie!! So proud of you princess.
@@troy.c8102 so you're one of those who don't even know what creature they are lol nigga or niggi whatever don't prove yourself clown here go to biology class
gosh I identify as a billionaire. Where. Is. My. Money?
Species and pronouns are different
@@countertopgremlin But where does it end though?
Op can literally just change the name to 'The bird'. Why stop at pronouns? 🤔
i don't think pronouns and your name are comparable things.. supporting lgbtq just means supporting human rights. it doesn't mean being stupid
this comment section is not it 😭
ikk 💀💀💀 why are they even here they clearly missed the whole point by a mile
Y’all can fit this in a book, 2 books instead… never mind, the whole text book. 😭
the comment section restored my faith....
.....faith in the fact that stupid people are generally the loudest.
You mean those lgbt pride parade in the street ?
@@roxymax8917you might want to wait until you've graduated primary school to comment on TH-cam videos.
well it's pretty evident who is the most loudest.
Wow you're so smart. You don't even know the difference between Nouns and Pronouns. I am pretty impressed
The point flew over your head, didn’t it.
@@sanaeabubber69 yes cuz I am stupid and you're smart. Smart enough not to put a '?' at the end of an interrogative statement.
@@sanaeabubber69 not really, If you have to personally inquire about someone to address them, then what's the point of using pronouns? Just know their name and call them by their name. Pronouns are used when you can't or don't have the opportunity to inquire. And honestly, if you keep asking about someone's gender or sexuality, they might feel uncomfortable and also make the whole process of communication more complex. So why can't you simply respect someone for who they are and show respect through other gestures? Asking every person about their gender, trust me, is more disrespectful to many others. If someone wants to be called something specific, it's their responsibility to express it upfront. Anyway, you all seem intelligent, but nowadays I'm confused about what true intellect really means.
@@sanaeabubber69 By the way, I am a big supporter of the community and genuinely want to support them in every possible way. However, it should be done in a reasonable manner. Demanding and making efforts like these can actually undermine their true cause, and as a result, people and the government may not take them seriously. So please, let's not make them suffer.
@@sanaeabubber69the point is your stupid and lack even the basic of nouns and pronouns, so really you shouldn't even be addressing this and advocating for mental illness. Go get help
that's why I like calling someone he or she, not they.. cause they are just one person not multiple.
“they” has been used as a singular pronoun since the time of Shakespeare. Today it is recognized in the dictionary as both plural and singular. Please read an actual book.
@@morbidmanuscript9324 Yeah, it's 'thou' vs 'thy' not them/they and none of the two hint at they/them either. It's just used instead of 'you' because use of 'you' was considered rude and rustic.
'thou' was more acceptable, again due to the respect it puts on the addressee.
Yep, I've picked multiple "books" written by Shakespeare.
This is a great example of _draw a line, and then draw another line longer and near to previous one_
No one is a "they" or a "them".
She... Oops ... IT won't get you. Sanaea is an IT.
Newsflash: groups of anything no longer exist.
@@sscookiebuiscuit8299 You missed the keyword "one".
Language is a social construct, not a means of conveying information accurately so you don't keep reinventing the same idea. So it must be destroyed!!!
They is speaking about a group of people
Them is a third person plural pronoun. Them is used as the object of a verb or preposition. You use them to refer to a group of people, animals, or things.
So yes you are right.
People that use pronouns change reality
Gosh darn it your voice is so soothing!
I love you for this 😂❤
It's not about disrespecting their identity, the problem is their identity changed every 5 days!
Telling to use a particular pronoun is itself the most stupid thing.
They/Them are not nouns, they are pronouns. You can call yourself They or Them no problem. 'Ms They' , 'Mr Them'... its stupid, But thats just a technicality.
Literally no one uses Mr. They. That's like saying Mr. He
@@unholierthanthou7748theres definitely a mr he in china xD
@@badmashbm I know that Mr He :)
@@michelleeee57 lol
@@badmashbm good point lol
A proper noun is not the same as a pronoun. 🤦♂️
wokes will go to stupid amount of insanity just to prove their point. ignore her. she is increasing her social credit score.
Dude these influencers are literally clout chasing…just don’t fall victim to their woke agendas
It's idiotic how they be speaking crap without realising the real world consequences and then shame others for being transphobic when you call out their busslshit logic 🤣
To all the people complaining how it doesn't make sense or how it's too difficult...
One time i was having a conversation with a dude about this exact topic and he said "well in that case, I now identify as a woman, refer to me as she/her". This was a grown, tall man with a beard and 0 interest in anything feminine. And I called him she/her without any issues until he told me to stop :)
If I can refer to someone I view as a man with feminine pronouns to win an argument, I'm sure you'll manage for people who are actually that gender.
And the funniest part is that he asked you to stop
Like, if his preferred pronouns aren't she/her it gets very annoying and uncomfortable if you refer to them as that and people WILL feel weird about it
So why can't people accept other people who feel the same way !!!
In the Philippines
We don't have he/him she/her
We use "siya" which is gender neutral
Well some use "Ate" "Kuya" (big sister and brother) when referring to strangers that they know the gender of but most just use siya
unfortunately, "main character syndrome" combined with a deluge of narcissism has muddied the waters for the people who actually have identity issues with people who want to be unique in any way they can...it was exacerbated by the pandemic when we were all chronically online...throw in a touch of intersectionality and cultural neo-marxism...and kablam...
The problem arises when a fully grown man enters a woman's washroom when a woman is all alone because he says that he thinks he is a woman. Scary.
Right!
I don't want what's happening in the west to happen here as well.
Yes, just this fr✨✨ for those of you in the comments saying that using they/them is wrong because ✨ grammar✨ the Oxford English dictionary says that singular they/them has been used since 1375.
Edit(2)-awww I lost my heart from editing
And what about other ones, like catself and godself?
@@MrSpyrud that's kinda ✨goofy✨ even as an LGBT person myself- but if that's what feels right then u do you boo like as long as it doesn't hurt anyone then I'm cool with you
Hey!! I got my heart back
Girl please know grammar properly before commenting nonsense. Indeed they/them has been used as singular since 1300s but it can be only used as singular when the person is unspecified, unknown otherwise it's used for two or more people . Why would you call a person you know as they/them? That doesn't make sense. Please elaborate on your ✨grammar knowledge✨ and enlighten us
@@crystal_isha it can be used when the gender of the person is unknown- people no wanting to use genders terms for themselves that make them uncomfortable is completely valid, also I would of they asked me to
Gone fully woke.
Good, being a decent person is something she clearly values.
@@dsalas1204Cya.
I always think its funny that you people are so against the idea of being aware of social issues. You're literally using woke like its a fuckin insult lmao its like calling someone smart and thinking you're insulting then. Fuckin bizarre
You're mentally asleep
Ok, sheep
It’s not the same.
I was born a boy, my mother named me Matt, but during the duration of my lifetime, the many variations of my name, plus my personality, the name Matthias was given to me relatively early on by close friends that know me, and I didn’t start introducing myself as a Mathias until I decided I was officially going to take control of my life.
I was born a boy.
Now I am a man.
Nothing has changed in regards to my gender and sexual orientation because I have testicles and testosterone and my brain thinks a certain way and my body has very specific chemical reactions going on within me.
The use of pronouns are in reference to how I sexually identify, or if I identify as a man or a woman or a uenic /non-binary.
I don’t have a psychological disorder, my name just simply changed.
Don't forget. Words have meaning guys😢
I identify as Golgappe.
Best identity❤😂
It is a noun and so still not a pronoun you would use to describe yourself. If you do not use pronouns how would you be referred to as. This kind of comments are so ignorant and funniest part is the commentor thinks they are being smart!
@@Bkgksan625 you think name is pronoun too then? Because in video too she literally used a noun for a pronoun thats stupid
@@Bkgksan625you think sania is pronoun?
@@Bkgksan625 are you questioning my identity? How dare you? How very dare you 😡
I identify as a clock, my pronouns are Tik/Tok 😊
Your parents must be so proud of you an your sarcasm! You're such an amazing daughter
*I identify myself as a Black Lesbian, please respect my existence. Love n Light* 💓
Oh thats lovely, good job being you
It’s one thing to be wanted to be identified as male or female when you look different. But why in the heck would anyone want to be identified as several people?!
Because they/them is literally a gender neutral pronoun when u don't know someone's gender. Check Oxford dictionary
@@arundhatichatterjee They are only gender fluid but do not have MPD right? They can use other gender neutral pronouns. They can go with it and that for all I care. But there is no need to act like you have another human living in your head. It’s still one person.
It’s mental illness , they should all be treated not encouraged…. How do u even feel like a they ? Unless your brain is messed up?
To get away with murder by saying it's mob lynching??
Gender does not equal people. They are not identifying as several people, they are identifying as one person with either no gender, or both genders, because they don't feel comfortable with their given pronouns.
The last line counteracts the intended point.
Don’t even bother scrolling down. There’s nothing down there except more reasons to hate humanity for our stubborn unwillingness to understand each other.
I want you to try something for me, please-
Apply your logic to sex offenders.
Seems kinda dumb, wouldn't you agree?
well we know a white guy is white and a black guy is black. but being black is not your entire existence or your personality, it just shouldn't be.
sure, you are black but should we call you by black pronouns now? or simply by your name and what you do in your life for a living.
the problem with these they/them people is that their sole existence and life depends on their sexuality, not on their actual jobs in life.
Noun vs Pronoun.... it's that simple
As a socio major believe me, people need help, not gender reassignment, not ze/zem/unicorn, but therapy, kindness, and lots of self-realization.
Transitioning actually statistically decreases the rate of depression and suicidality in trans people. That’s why medical professionals prescribe it for patients that need it and are healthy enough for it. Majority medical institutions agree that gender affirming care is necessary and safe.
@@morbidmanuscript9324not really. Suicide rate after transition is still close to what it is pre op.
@@morbidmanuscript9324 Wadr, I would like to know what source do you have of these statistics? As far as I've researched and studied, there have been NO and I repeat No long term studies on this, all the data that you been provided is conducted on a very fraction of minorities, similar datas are also available with the other side that provides enough evidence against gender reassignment. All I'm saying is we need not to see it from individual's perspective like- Ohh you know, I know mathew he/she is now so happy after gender reassignment. Well dear, you don't know what he/she will feel like in a year or so, and lastly, if Gender is a social construct and It has nothing to do with biology (sociology does not support this argument) then why do people need gender reassignment.
I rest my case here.
Peace 🙏
Yes yes yes.
@@morbidmanuscript9324nope. If i remember correctly, after 7 years suicide rates are much higher in the "transitioned" people than those who didn't go through with body mutilation BUT addressed the root trauma, hatmful gender stereotypes and, for wimen, internalised mysoginy.
Imagine meeting someone named Michael and they ask you to call them "Mike" - it's literally the same courtesy. You would be DERANGED to go on the warpath "IM NOT CALLING YOU MIKE! THAT'S NOT YOUR REAL NAME! THAT'S NOT WHAT'S ON YOUR BIRTH CERTIFICATE" Yeah, okay buddy, that's not psychotic at all
Yeah I see your point but it would be a nightmare to keep track of all your names if they became a function of time
Middle ground has to be devised.
Most people stick with one, rarely will you meet a person who changes pronouns daily xD
😂😂Why did the pronoun go to therapy?
Because it had an identity crisis!😂😂❤
y I don't get the feeling this joke is supportive?
@@shakkedjaffe4462Jokes are meant to be funny.
@@museruse1 that's my guy👍👍
@@shakkedjaffe4462 first they police your speech and then they police your entertainment(jokes/comedy/movies). i can see the progression from your comment.
@@shakkedjaffe4462It would be wrong to support someones delusions.
Im sure you can think of an example with people who think they can fly and tall buildings.
I identify as Kim Jong Un.
You would lol
The whole LGBTGIF "movement" contradicts itself!!
Part of the "movement" says respect me because I was born this way...and the other part of the "movement" says do NOT respect how I was born, but respect who I identify as or feel that I am!!
The "movement" says to both respect and disrespect how a person was born!!
Okay i will assume you are a nice, atheist, liberal who has no reason to be rude to them cause i cant argue with you, so lets say your honestly confused, the part your talking about being "born this way" is mlm(men who like men) and wlw(women who like women) and aromantic/asexual, all of them were born being the way they were, but they didn't identify with it for a while, i realized i was gay around middle school, some people realize when they are young, some when they are older, it doesn't matter, we aren't the important ones in this conversation, we were always the way we were, but it took us a while to figure it out, untill that point most of us identified as straight. Trans people are the same, they were born trans, they were born into the wrong bodies for their brains, some of them figure that out young, some figure it out during puberty, like me finding out i was gay. We were born this way,it doesn't matter if we get rid of the labels, even without saying I'm gay i will still be attracted to boys, if a trans person doesn't say they are trans they will still want to be the opposite sex. If we only use labels then and i can say I'm trans and a lesbain but i won't want to be a girl or sleep with them.
Sorry if i made any mistakes i am not versed in this really, i just know what ive learned from myself and others
Thank you for calling out their hypocrisy…the lgb are not the problem it’s the TQA+++ and all the other bullshit added to that creating unnecessary problems because of their narcissism
@gadnes330 being a mlm or wlw it totally different than being born in the wrong gender. The difference is that u can sum1 from the same gender but you can't be born as one. Being mlm amd wlw is indicative you being attracted to sum1 which can take sum1 some time to figure out. But being born in the wrong gender is not possible as our bodies are not wired this way. You can't change your biology
identifing as something is soooooo dumb is like adults playing kids games except taking it seriously .
I’m not very informed about the pronouns and such.
But why doesn’t the LGBTQ community, focus more on the fact that their pronouns do not define them? Like they must have preferences in the first place due to there being differences between the pronouns. Why don’t we try to break the stereotypes such as “a person identifying by she/her must be feminine” instead? I think preferences are what create a gap, because in the end, people with the same preferences will be attracted to the same type of pronoun, and the entire prejudice will repeat itself.
Just a thought, let me know if I’m wrong, I just think breaking barriers and just addressing people with what they want in the end is something that should be respected anyway. Yeah lmao
It’s probably just a preference too, but I might be too ignorant to understand the nuance. My prompt is to be respectful to how each individual identified themselves without having to agree to how it’s weaponised as we all do within our own respective communities.
@@sanaeabubber69 I'm starting to like you but no we dont need to respect "those people" who have no respect or tolerance for others or their beliefs or feelings.
The intolerance of the Pronoun Community is beyond reason or rational thought, and respect is a thing that EARNED, not just handed out like halloween candy.
As for taking the "high road" to be so called "the better person" is bullsh!t...if we're talking about RESPECT then lets talk about the responsibility n accountability that comes with it, but whats being suggested is our TOLERANCE of those who have no respect for us whatsoever, its a one way street with no room for anyone but those who would run you down unless you go their direction.
Yes, they and them can be used when the sex/gender of the person/creature/entity is unknown. The thing is, if you don't know what sex/gender you are, you have way bigger problems than preferred pronouns.
Sex and gender are two different things. You cannot use them interchangeably. This is not some liberal opinion, but is scientifically accepted fact. Sex is biological, gender is sociological. Let me break it down for you. A common gender role is that women should do the laundry. But are women's bodies biologically designed to carry out this task better than me? No it's a gender role which is dictated by Society. Make sense? Our society just decided that. Therefore, gender is not based on biological sex. Of course it is often dictated by it and are correlations but the two are separate things.
@@PeacefulPariah You just effectively used sex and gender interchangeably. You stated: "A common gender role is that women should do the laundry." Now "women" is the plural of "woman", which is an adult, human female. Or another way we could define it would be: an adult human of the female sex. So in other words we could rewrite what you said as: "A common gender role is that adult humans of the female sex should do the laundry."
Now looking at the etymology of the word, gender started becoming interchangeable around the early 15th century. Which makes sense because around that time the word "sex" was being used more in the erotic sense. So yeah, it would be weird to say: "A common sexual role is that women should do the laundry." That would in modern parlance imply some sort of weird kink or something, so instead we say: "a common gender role is that women should do the laundry." Sex and gender can be and should be used interchangeably. Otherwise it just doesn't make sense.
Not calling people whatever they want to be called is not the same as calling them whatever you want.
Actually yes it is. Because you’re calling them whatever you want instead of what they are asking to be called.
@@morbidmanuscript9324the world doesn't revolve around them, people would call them anything.
@@morbidmanuscript9324insisting people refer to you how you want to be called instead of what apparently are, is a form of lying. I refuse to play along with a lie in order to make someone else feel good about their life choices. If I’m interacting with a person with gender dysphoria, I will use the person’s name in lieu of using any pronouns to not be rude, but to not undermine my personal convictions. This doesn’t make me a transphobe. I love all people and would be the first one to defend a trans person from harm for presenting however makes them comfortable, but I do not agree with the ideology. Kids are being sterilized, given mastectomies, testicles removed, ovaries removed, etc. irreversible procedures that will affect their reproductive abilities, along with their entire lives, and I mourn for the people that have these procedures.
With all that said, you are what you are born as. If you feel you are in the wrong body, I feel bad for you and hope that you get psychological care to bring your gender image into alignment with your body. I feel bad for the kids that are being lied to and confused from a young age that they can be born in the wrong body. Gender dysphoria is a psychological pandemic that has increased dramatically with the prevalence of social media. This is happening because parents aren’t doing their jobs as parents and protecting their kids.
@@J_Trask calm down
@morbidmanuscript9324 No. You're calling them what they are. The example would fit better if thar WAS her name.
Think about us too... It is difficult for a common man to remember every person's pronoun and then to correctly use them in conversation. It is just too cumbersome.
“Think about us too..” oh it must be so hard for you to use your brain to remember a couple words. Imagine being trans and getting denied healthcare, housing, jobs, safe education, or being beat and killed in the street just for being who you are. But yeah you must have it really tough.
You do it everyday anyways. Your mother is a her, your dad is a him. Your sister is a her. If someone wants to be called they/them, it's not that big of a hassle.
Love this video! The comments are exposing a lottt of anger issues…😂
What Is a Lobotomy? A lobotomy is a surgical procedure to provide relief to people with mental illnesses unresponsive to standard treatment. This method was pioneered during the 1940s and 1950s, when treatments for psychiatric disorders were few, chiefly insulin coma and electroconvulsive therapy (ECT).
Imagine thinking you are 2 different entities at the same time 😂
He/she/ they are pronoun and Sonia / Lara /James are NOUN !! Hope this girl
Can come up with better example if she wants “AWARENESS”
No offense but you're better off sticking to the "literally translating obscene bollywood songs" shtick.
Nice subtle way to make a point.
Not changing the english language to feed into either the group of people who "identify" as other things as an outlet for their narcissism or the true misalignment of body and mind from the group who genuinely suffer from gender dysphoria isn't disrespectful or mean. Acknowledging reality and making sure we all live in it is the only way to move forward. Reality: we are born male and female and can not change our sex. Reality: Language acknowledges our sex and uses that as a key identifying characteristic because it is the best characteristic to use to simultaneously narrow down 50% of the population yet still be broad enough to be colloquially understood.
she had me in the first half, im not going to lie lmao but YAAAAAAS #ALLY
YAAAS 🤮
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Sis, name isn't linked to who you like in bed. Plus these people aren't gonna stop anytime soon. They want "Xe/Xen/Xer, Fae/Fairy pronouns" and tbh I don't give a shit and I'm going to speak the languages however I like. The world doesn't revolve around them so I don't need to keep myself updated about whether they decide to be a shoe lace or a door today.
Same here. Couldnt have said it better. These people have so much free time on their hands. They have forgotten that names were given to people as identification. You don't need to "Identity as" you already freaking have one.
So called woke people trash talk people like us for saying stuff like this and be like "u shud make the minorities feel comfortable" like hello what about us? It makes us uncomfortable to jump on this "trend" you guys have got going which doesn't even make sense. And you connect it with respect and all that and it's so stupid god.
Kids in school are identifying as animals. Barking literally! Men going to women jail claiming to be women then doing SA.
It's just giving a free pass to wreck havoc to a society which is filled with equal percentage of good and equal percentage of psychopaths.
Good people will either stay neutral or will just be polite. But bad ones will misuse it
And that's whats happening but again too many people have too much free time and not enough real problems in their lives to invest time in these nonsense
Okay, bitch.
What, offended by my deciding that today, you are a female dog to me? That’s how I’m going to refer to you! The world doesn’t revolve around you, after all….
If you don't use someone's "preferred" pronouns isn't denying someone's existence. It is denying their delusion.
Perfectly explained
trans has not been medically defined as an illness/delusion since around the 60s-70s. So either update your information or you are the delusional one LOL
Your existance is a delusion? Existing is not a delusion. Youre stupid.
they/them is litterally plural we've been taught that since elementary
A group of men- they
A group of women-they
One person- they
A group of LGBTQ people-they
Nope, no confusion. Well done.
My preferred pronoun is "Daddy".
Look at this person! She's so cool, you're such a queen, Pote
A proper name is way different than a pronoun. There is no hate in not using "your" pronouns. The problem is forcing my speech. I don't care if you see yourself as a monkey. Just don't try to make me feed you bananas.
And we don’t care if you identify as a canine, we don’t wanna hear your dogshit opinions
I always get called Mike or Mitch , no big whoop, i just go on with my day without having a meltdown. Its called being an adult. Give it a try.
Nobody is having a meltdown. And nobody asked you. You have nothing important to say because people will ask for respect and only "melt down" -act appropriately how I would expect any normal person to act when being disrespected Try it for once sweetheart. - When they arent being respected. See how respect works? Give and take.
@timtambigham9513 that's not how respect works , sugar tits. Respect is earned, not given.
@@timtambigham9513 You're having a meltdown. You're getting more aggressive the more people say the truth because it doesn't fit what you want it to be.
But the thing is .... u cant be a they/them.... thats more then one person
Well by default if a person is using he/ she to address a person whose gender identity is unknown to them,it does not makes the person homophobic. I understand this is to be taken as a joke but Name v pronouns aren't the same. No one is assuming names out there. In a social setting it isn't practically feasible. Also i see a lot of half baked medical facts being thrown around in the commments , get your facts straight, Peace .
when i was younger, I would accidentally touch things on one side of the body and try to recreate that exact same feeling on the opposite side in order to maintain balance between the two sides. I imagine "they/them" is basically that but they've never grown passed it
She's sooo cute!!!! All this nonsense has become mainstream because of lack of stuggle. I swear west really needs to be humbled for the good of humankind.
Actually, the west has historically promoted homophobia in other parts of the world. Many cultures before European colonization were accepting of different genders.
Good for you girlie, slay queen. You've got this girl
Ahhhh, to good ol' stuggle session.
There is a difference using a wrong name, and using a pronoun that is for 3rd person plural as 1st person singular and saying F you to grammatical rule.
"This use of singular they had emerged by the 14th century, about a century after the plural they.[4][5][2] It has been commonly employed in everyday English ever since and has gained currency in official contexts."(wikipedia)
Tell that to Shakespeare, dude was using singular “they” centuries ago. the rules have not changed, only public attitudes
Ppl who call themselves they r stupid. FYI no problem with ppl sexual preferences but kids or teens below 20 should not be allowed to do have gender transfers but if they feel there gender is not right they should be able to express it freely without any fear.
People get my name wrong all the time. It’s not important. It’d be pretty childish of me to get worked up and offended by something that so insignificantly effects my life. It has no effect on my day what so ever unless I let it. -and a pronoun is even less important and personal than a name. My joy and peace are not dependent on what other people call me. An external locus of control is unhealthy.
I would rather not call you at all, if me using a wrong pronoun gets you so worked up. I have enough problems of my own.