Matt Frost celebrates are praised because they give us music, movies, books etc, this woman is a great mother, but no who's going to turn up to her talking about her disabled child
this woman literally gave up her entire life to devote herself to her daughter and that's what makes her so amazing. she loves her daughter soooo much and knows all and everything about her. She has given up any social life, all finances, all of her time, her aspirations etc. as a mother without a child with this condition it's easy to say I don't think I could do it but deep down I know if I had to I would for my child no questions asked. 36 years is a long time to have to care for your child in the way most parents only have to do for a year or so takes ALOT OF strength. she's an amazing mother for sure.
You dont stop taking care of your child after a year, Parents take care of their children until they're at least 18(if they don't have any special needs like this one), and then their job is done. But even after they turn 18 they will still take care of their child if they need it no matter what
Wow, this lady has so much love towards her daughter. I have no idea what this would be like, and I have no idea if I could deal with it like she does. Props to her
I don't think I could, I love my daughter's very much but I even have a hard time taking care of myself at times, like just ensuring I eat, what a blessing for Bree to have you as her mama! I hope life is being good to you and I'm sorry for the loss of your baby girl, I know she's smiling down at you and so proud of everything you have done and continue to do
I had a Mom like you, who until her last days at 91 years of age only thought of others' well-being...the world darkened just a bit the moment she died, and watching you just now felt like the sun coming from behind a cloud. You are a light in this hard dark world.
Harley Steele - it isn't rare at all. I've been an RN for over 25 yrs and my husband is a Paramedic. Not only do MANY families take care of disabled family members for years (often a second generation taking over) - but foster parents adopt moderately to severely handicapped children, as in more than once. They are truly incredible people to meet and work with.
Angie Feingold Sorry I wasn't saying it was rare in general I was saying it's rare to see. I don't think carers get enough credit or recognition. People often overlook it.
This lady is by far a much better woman than I am.. I don't have the physical nor mental strength to raise a child with Bree's level of being handicapped. God bless this woman.
Keyboard Guru I don't believe in God, but if an all-loving goddess spirit have made her daughter its probably because God wants to see what humans will do in that situation.
People use god when they cant handle real life. Its how religion came around, the bible was written by people to use law through fear to keep order. Its why now, people look to this god, purely out of fear because theyres nothing they can do themselfs. Not going to say believing in a god is a mental disorder, but it certainly is blinde.
Isn't it amazing how one little deletion in a tiny tiny part of the chromosome can cause such a profound effect. You're an amazing mother, she's so lucky to have you.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter, Wendy. Bree was a sweetheart and so are you. You're a great mother. May Bree rest in peace and God bless you two.
these nasty comments really make my heart sad. this mom is the perfect example of what a mother should be. i have 3 kids that have been special needs and now young adults. 2 of my kids are high functioning autistic and 1 with mental health issues. i've raised them on my own after their dad walked out in 2003. it's been rough, but it can be done. you keep doing you Wendy. you are an amazing mom. lots of other "moms" out there would have put their kids in a home.
angela marsden having 3 children with minor mental health problems doesn't equate to having a girl or guy? idk that is physically almost crippled and has sever mental issues, I understand the quality of life but if it requires you to change the diaper of a almost grown human and treat them like a child when they're almost grown, isn't a great life worth living
Poweralth Everybody has their own conception of a good life. I'm sure this lady receives a lot of joy from her constant work for Bree. That is not to deny she works very hard and her job must be difficult.
I think you're right. Because I disliked this at first since I really felt sorry for the mum that she lived like this for so long and for Bree that she is ill like that (if I was in that condition and had the choice, I honsetly would prefer to die). But then I turned my dislike into a like because of the inspirating spirit of that mum and her positive energie.
Harrison Jones Why do people always bring that into the comment section. Just stop it's like you WANT to start and argument. Everyone has different opinions and people have faith in God, but you have to come in and start stuff. Just please stop.
Harrison Jones dud STFU if you dont believe in god then keep that to yourself and say something nice. if yoy dont want to say something nice then keep quiet. i dont believe in god either but at least i don't make rude comments. and at least i would open my mouth to say something nice. besides the lecture.... Wendy you are an amazing and wonderful mother😊 you and bree are amazing people. we all support you guys. love ya!❤
Madisen Matherly I guess u have no life then because living is more than the quality so if u have a disabled kid u gonna be wrong u would be as happy as a kid with no disability
i disagree. quality of life is everything. if i ever lost the ability to move or make decisions for myself, i would want people to give me back to god. same goes for my kid.
Who is caring for the Carer? We need to give people respite care while making sure that their child is cared for with the same love and respect that they're due. Why do these parents have to fight for every little thing? As a society they should be first in line for everything.
oliviaLOVEShenry in Germany you don't have to fight for this. When you are sick or like cases like bree you get everything from the government to help you. Yes we have high taxes that everyone have to pay but it's for health and education. You got your legs broken and your child has Down Syndrom? Furthermore your other child wants to study on university? No problem. Government pays your hospital bill, helps you out with your sick child and university is free. Everything in our system concentrates on socialism and helping you out on health issues. And that's why you don't see many homeless people in Germany. If you can't afford a decent life you get helped by a program called Harzt 4. There is no chance that someone has to sell its house because medical treatment it too expensive. For me it's unbelievable.
even in Australia it's hard to get any access to this kind of help. my sister is special needs but because she doesn't come under the umbrella of autism we have no access to any form of help or sometimes fundamental carers. It's quite strange the lengths you have to go to if you're in these situations.
I have to disagree. A Mother's love knows know bounds and she is doing everything she can but her role is exhausting and her fight is relentless. We as a society should be caring for Wendy as she cares for Bree.
Thank you so much for this. It's appalling how little support the care givers get, and care givers need a lot of support. I was a caregiver for several years and worked with people very similar to Bree, some worse off, and there is not one day that isn't exhausting and a little scary at some point or another. It's mentally and emotionally draining knowing something could go wrong and someone could die at any moment, and every little thing you do matters drastically. People sugarcoat how hard it is to raise a child like Bree. This mom was totally honest and has a good head on her shoulders. Unfortunately she can't take care of her forever and at some point Bree will probably end up in a group home or with a relative perhaps. Where I worked, I can't tell you how rare it was that a family member came into the group home to visit one of the clients. It was so rare. Some parents can't handle it, it's a full time job, and for caregivers the pay is extremely little. It was near minimum wage for me and we did not get raises because the government kept cutting funds on us. Nobody wanted to work there. The job was tireless and it was difficult to get vacations, veeeeeeerrrry little pay and you would witness disturbing things there that many couldn't handle on a daily basis. As a result we were always so low on people, and it was common that new staff wouldn't make it past the 3rd month. They were literally hiring people off the street out of desperation, and this meant they were hiring a lot of bad people that didn't care for the clients, as well. So in the end the real victims become those with the disabilities. So it really is not selfish for a caregiver to ask for more support or pay. It is a draining job and the clients deserve and need the very best care. When people say "well the parent is just happy taking care of their child and that's all they need!" I dare you to do this work all day every day and see the sacrifices you make and what it can do to your physical and emotional health, not to mention your finances. Many don't love their family members that are in conditions like Bree and it's a terrible thing-- but those who are true family and care for them get fucked over no matter how much they love and take care of the disabled person.
Malliah Reyn and God blessed you with the heart of Satan. No such thing as perfect. Jesus knows it. Before talking about Hod, read the Ten Commandments in the bible.
Sweet Cookie well its not learning or being anyone is she. she's ? basically noting they should just put her down she's basically nothing. she knows nothing is nothing like a waste of space no hate just truth
A mother that does this much for her disabled kid is a hero and role model. Anyone who says anything negative must have a sorry ass life and wasn't disciplined at all. She has my prayers and bless her kind soul.
Let's give this mother a big round of applause for taking care of her child. You are a great mother to this child. I could not think of anyone more dedicated or more caring to her daughter.
You remind me of my mom, I was born with a brain defect, adhd, and a undetermined disability we still don’t have a name for. My mom was very active in my treatments such as special education and routine doctor’s visits to see what developments were made. I am 38 years old I can function on my own with a little assistance but I think I’ve come this far because my mom was dedicated to my success just like you and Bree ❤
Wow. You must have had her when you were quite young, cause you look like someone in their mid 30s, which is impossible given your daughters age. You are an incredibly strong woman. Someone needs to get this woman on that show "the doctors" or Ellen or idk some show that helps out people living in incredible situations.
My mother passed away recently and now I’m taking care of my 45yo disabled brother with profound intellectual disability and autism. It’s hard work but I don’t know if I could be as awesome as you are. Your passion for Bree radiates. I’m just exhausted all the time. Edit to add: I’m so sorry for your loss.
Yes it is challenging, yet just think that your brother wants to be wanted and love. You know I would always think, how would I want to be treated. If you can , I would look at the product ION - amazing results with autism. www.intelligenceofnature.com Just take it one day at a time. Yes you will feel exhausted yet and yes the hardest job yet stay in your heart. We are human and caregiving is the most stressful yet you can turn it around and make the situation the greatest blessing. My daughter was the greatest teacher I could of dreamed of. She made me better as I had to get healthier and be a better person to care for her. Yes I prayed and begged for guidance and help a lot. The constant worry about being able to keep food on the table and a roof does take a toll. Yet you have a very powerful purpose now, beyond what we can imagine. Ask for guidance and it will come at the perfect timing. You found this site - right, with all kinds of ideas. Bless you!!!
I'm really surprised that there are not many mean comments. People are very rude and I'm very happy that all negative left this video and people kept it positive so this beautiful lady can keep going.
I was scared to look but I scrolled a couple times and didn't see any...I read your comment and I figured I'd stop while I was ahead lol...Sweet lady, and it takes a lot to care for someone that is handicapped in a manner such as this. Shes blessed she can afford to stay home and care for bree... a lot of people wouldn't financial be able too
So you don't hold 'God' responsible for the suffering inflicted? You're logic is entirely flawed. So he can choose to give caring 'mums' but completely doesn't have a say in creating life that has to live a life of pain, suffering and be unable to fulfil all aspects of the human experience? He is a vindictive, callous, jealous god, and humanity will only find true comfort in rejecting the notion of such a flawed deity and all religion.
Are religion is are religion we won't force you to like it but it would be nice if you could expect it. I did not know about them but I believe that their is God and the devil the devil brings negativity into the world while god brings positivity. One is good the other is evil to put it simply God has a plan for everything and everyone. So if you could not crap all over my religion that would be nice.
Olivia Harris *our. No this illogical framework needs questioning, it is antiquated and time to put it to bed. It's my right to point out and question this bigotry, and although you may be too set in you're ways to comprehend what I'm saying, there are people reading perspectives like mine who use it to nudge them in the direction of critical thinking and freedom from religious oppression. I'm sorry but we are in the last days of religion. Critical thinking is spreading at a pace religions has never been capable of...
"one of her favourite things is the mirror, because she's so beautiful" (03:20min) touched my normally stonecold heart so fckng much. You're an awesome Mother, remember that.
Let's change "put down" to "mercy death". Havok Sosa i feel ya like if i was ever unable to do things for myself i'd like to put an end to it...but sadly bree can't really say what she wants.
You might feel that way if you were born healthy then became incapacitated due to illness or injury. If you had enough awareness to remember your life before and compare it to after. But if you were born this way and have no understanding of anything but your mothers care (of which there is an abundance) then you probably wouldn't think life was so bad.
Rena Ryuugu why would you bring the "God isn't real" into this? People like you give atheists bad names. You don't have to comment something negative like that. Let people trust in what they want and talk about religion without downing them.
howto42 yeah, I can see how it could be exploitative, of course how she talks about her daughter and somewhat of how she seems to treat her could be that way, but there's a lot we don't know. Such as maybe she could be doing this to bring light to such a disability, for example, I didn't know they could crawl. I thought they were wheelchair bound. But she might be doing the best she can.
She is so amazing and caring to Bree, I’m glad she lived a good life with a good mother ❤️🙃 These mean comments are not funny or kind, so leave positive comments so Bree’s mom can be happy 😁😇
God bless you. You are an amazing woman with amazing strength. This shows how great love is. You have cared for your beautiful daughter everyday for 31 years. You inspire me!!
This lady is a legend. Not many people would keep taking care of there disabled daughter for aslong as she has. Most people would have just put her in a home. Wendy if you read this you are a wonderful person.
quite sad story, personally i believe your one of the sweetest people to love and care for her when she is in this condition, however in her state I'm surprised she lived all these years, bless her. its sad that kids are born with these problems. they deserve a normal life.
I am literally dumbfounded by the amount of comments saying she shouldn't live like this or "she needs to be put down".. I know people are evil but it is shocking to me they shamelessly leave these disgusting comments on such a wonderful dedicated mothers video... this woman has nothing but love in her body and yet the world stills finds a way to be ignorant and hateful
It's not disgusting, I commend her for her hard work shes been doing for the past years, but honestly none of this should've happened to begin with. I'm a Christian and I know it's a horrible thing to say but people like this are too much of a burden, and you forget how to live. You either have to choose between horrible life for you, or horrible life for the child, which neither are good. For the mother I know she loves her child, but like she said by the time she's done caring for Bree, there is no time left for herself. I would rather die then let someone close to me feel misery for taking care of me.
So tell me your story that brings you to a conclusion like this? " I'm a Christian and I know it's a horrible thing to say but people like this are too much of a burden, and you forget how to live. You either have to choose between horrible life for you, or horrible life for the child, which neither are good.""
This woman did an amazing job with Bree. She learned about Bree’s disability and what would be best & helpful for her to have the best life possible. Most importantly you can see the love she has for her.
it's been a few weeks now since your little angel passed..and all i want to say is that you did an amazing job to keep this girl alive♡ you tried your best but now she flew to heaven..😢 we love and support you Wendy R.I.P bree forever remember forever the love continues
I'm complaining about my life and I am now realizing how blessed I am to feed my self,walk,and many other things Bree is a warrior she is beautiful and has guts of steel I hope Bree and her mother live a long and healthy life #STAYSTRONGBREEKEEPONGOIN
Did you not listen, Brie loves looking into the mirrors, She loves her mother touching her when she's moving it helps move her faster, she as good food everyday all quality foods to, she lives in a lovely home and is surrounded by love and she enjoys play times that's what i gathered from this video and so i am willing to bet there are shit loads more things she does that add to her quality of life, as for you you're screwed I'm afraid because you can't get help with what ails you because being a fucktard can't be fixed...
I used to care for people like Bree. I can tell you that she's got it made. her mother seems wonderful and attentive. how lucky for her that she gets to reach her potential while being constantly cared for and loved. I say she has an excellent quality of life.
COOKIES FO' RHONDA I hate when people make fun of the ones with a horrible disability But it normally means none of these sports 🤸🏼♀️⛸🥋⚽️🏒🏊🏼♀️🚴🏼♀️⛹🏼♀️🎾 which is very 😢
I have to applaud you , not only are you caring for a profoundly handicapped daughter, but you go above and beyond. My mother works in group homes as a nurse for adults with a rage of disabilities. I remember from a young age helping my mother change diapers, pour meds( of course I never actually touched them), how to clean and feed with a feeding tube and so on. The fact that you make homemade and organic food is outstanding; even without having someone with a disability that diet and life style can be difficult and expensive. Not only that you get her to "creep". I can't tell you how many people I've seen just turn to wheelchairs, no fault on them, because its "faster" and "easier". I can not stress enough how amazing you are. I know and see how frustrating and exhausting caring for someone with profound disabilities is. Keep it up, you are light, and wish you the best. I don't know what it's like in NH, but there are some lesser known programs and loopholes that can get you some help. Check out local disability day programs and talk to people in that community they usually have the best insight. (from my and my mother experience in NY)
You are by far the most caring amazing mother!! The love u have for your daughter is just selfless. I wish many more years of happiness and good health.
I don't know why, but this was in my recommendations. Not that there is anything wrong with this, I'm just perplexed at YT's algorithm considering I don't have children, don't look up videos about raising children, don't subscribe to anyone raising a disabled child/adult. Also, the comment section is such a typical YT comment sections. Cowards hiding behind their usernames. I bet they wouldn't say to Wendy's face "put that thing out of it's misery" or stuff like that. I applaud Wendy for raising Bree the best to her ability. Honestly I used to work with disabled teens in high school and a lot of disabled kids are in foster care. A lot of those kids parent's couldn't handle having a disabled kid so they gave them up to the province. Bree is clearly raised in an amazing home and she is blessed to have a mom like Wendy.
As much as I loved this video, I am so sorry for some of these horrible comments. There should be an automatic block of comments if certain words are used. BLESS YOU. YOU ARE LITERALLY SUCH A SWEETHEART.
fanta drinker What the hell? All lives matter, big or small, how would you feel if you had a physical disorder that was slowly killing you, and people said: "they are a waste of life, let's just leave her to die."?
Sahm Dhude you are talking about eugenics..that is some pretty sick thinking. We can't kill people because they are an inconvenience. Where do you draw the line at killing?
I feel so terrible for you. I couldn't imagine having to take care of my disabled child for 36+ years. It must be so hard. Financially and emotionally. I applaud your extraordinary parenting. You are very dedicated.
That's the one pet I can remember to lol. I fed them so much because I forgot if I fed them or not. (I have ADHD so I don't pay attention with out realizing it and forget what I did) *****
+kunoichi lise Maybe if you have such problems, you shouldn't have so many pets. Over feeding and not feeding a pet enough can be harmful. so can not giving them enough attention. seriously, my lizard gets real mean and his colors stay really dark when I don't mess with him for a while/ am not home.
TheMewMix I don't have a lot of pets. Just the fish and lizard. I have notes and reminders all around my house. I'm good with feeding my beardie and he's usually pretty happy. He sits with me daily while I go on my laptop and just chills. And because of when I feed my fish a lot I don't feed them large amounts at a time. And having them is more or less good for me because its basically practice for me to learn to remember stuff. With out that form of responsablility I would have a much harder time.
It’s vids like these where I tell myself “Thank God for the life I’m given.” With all these complications she’s living with, it truly is a blessing and a privilege to live our lives the way we live them. I hope she sets an inspiration and motivation to those out there who also have complications of their own. God Bless.
unfortunately the systems even where I'm from would rather give the funding to their own to raise peoples children than to give it to those who deserve it.
This is sad, but very wonderful that you still care for her and don't give up on her. I think that Bree is very lucky to have a mother that cares. Still, I feel quite bad in a way that you were not able to do the normal parent track. I hope the future is bright.
KatieLouGaming What I was saying was putting ourselves in her position I don't know if I could do as good of a job as she does. I'd be to the point of tears. No one should have to fight for stuff like she does.
Wow. I have so much respect for this Mom. Bree is blessed to have someone like you throughout her life. If only every disabled adult was treated like this!
I know that you had some horrid comments on this video - please ignore them ! You have a beautiful, wonderful and clever daughter - do not forget that !! I am so sorry that she has passed, but please know that you were an amazing mother !! You fought so hard for her, and your encouragement towards her was impeccable!! Ignore these sad trolls ! You are fab and it's easy to see that bree had a happy and wonderful life with you!!
Seconded, all of these people obviously have little to no humanity or love for other people in their hearts and it hurts, but all they're here to do is be self-centered and try to get reactions and pain out of others for their own enjoyment. Nothing they say has any truth to it and it certainly doesn't come from their heart. I hope you can find comfort in knowing the fact YOU are connected to your heart and soul unlike them, that's a beautiful & important thing no matter how many people want to put it down. Keep going wendy
Junett Robinson are you freaking kidding me, you cant just go on a video like this and say that, she has conditions and you should know that by watching this video. dont go on videos like this and be rude. her diagnoses causes her to loose hair, it dosent mean you need to say she looks like a boy, you have short hair, what if i said you look like a boy, how do you feel? huh? thats what i thought.
I have a sister that has C.P. they told us the same thing she would never live but she is in a wheelchair now and 15 years old they would never put her in normal a classes till we fought it and she is in honors classes smart as can be. She can talk to you on a full conversation. she's gorgeous the most beautiful thing.. yes we have to fight for her needs.. she just got potty trained the most amazing thing.. but she uses a walker, and her left hand turns in and she wears a brace at night to try to make it like normal hand.. ik how u feel it is very stressful u feel like no one understands and u r just always fighting
Jordan Rooks you are right, no one but the ones who are experiencing this understand. but we do know its hard. we hope the best for you, bree, and anyone else going through this. God bless😇😇
Jordan Rooks, I work for an intermediate school district in my state and we try to mainstream special needs kids in their local school, even if it's for a half day and then we bus them to an ISD school for whatever therapy they need or other special services the school might offer.
just spent a half hour screaming at all the bullys on these comments. im just in awe how absolutely ruthless and evil people are. my heart literally hurts. im so sorry for the loss of bree. you are such a strong woman and you kept her moving and clean and happy and comfortable for her time here on earth. an act of true love and dedication. Never let these bad comments hurt you no matter how hard they can sometimes be to ignore. you are an amazing mother and she was very lucky to have you, as you were her. ❤ such a moving video. bree is at peace running with strong legs in heaven.
God bless this woman keeping this beautiful child who needs very special handicaps. I don’t know if I could do this every day for 37 years. I don’t even know what to say about this amazing women who would save a fly.
I was a relative of Bree she has sadly passed away thank you so so much to everyone who has showed there love to Bree we arestill devastated by the death of Bree but she is in a better place now
Can't believe that your adorable bumble bee passed, Just know that you're an amazing mother! Bree is soo blessed to have a wonderful mom like you. everything you did just to keep her alive and well! ~I know it's very difficult, But just know that she's at a safe place, a place where shes at peace, a place where she can watch over you, a place where she's loved by the good lord!! So sad that she's gone! she will be sadly missed so much,breaks my heart just to even think about it. you are one blessed mom. take care
So many people in the comments being rude or highly innapropiate.. she's beautiful no matter what and I'm sorry for your lost. You are the best mother a child could wish for. May god bless you ❤️
Leahbae Xxx you saying she shoulve been abandoned because she can't support herself is fucking stupid and ridiculous. babies can't support themselves either so what should we do about them too then? hm i can only imagine your answer, especially with your twisted way of thinking.
alexis schipritt No, you don't get my point! I'm saying she'll never be able to support herself, it's cruel to keep someone like that alive, it's not a life worth living! Of course babies can't support themselves I'm not an idiot, it's the fact that in the wild, they would have abandoned her because she's not good for the species! Something went wrong! You see it in real animals, Tigers for example let's say... If a tiger has a cub that has a severe disability meaning it won't be able to walk, support itself, or raise a family, it will be abandoned as it is no use to that species, they breed with the best, for the best! That what we used to be like when we survived on instinct, does THAT not tell you we're doing something wrong!!! Also could you tell me the reason you believe I should have been aborted? I'm intelligent, strong, healthy, I look to further our species in a good way and not in the way that will make us weak!
Wish all the rich people could see this and help her. Sounds like if she doesn't give up custody of her adult child she'll be forced to forego her government support. So sad
I seriously hope your financial stress has been lifted. You are a strong inspirational woman and you deserve all the help you can get. Sending good thoughts from Scotland. If I was in any way able to help I would. Your story should be heard far and wide. Take care 🌸
This makes me feel like crying the personality of mothers, the characters of mothers. A different kind of love a different kind of care that fills you up and wraps you all around, that God has blessed them with. Thank you God for that.😭❤❤
I just wonder what goes through Bree's mind. I have always wondered what goes through disabled (mentally/physically) people's minds. They are truly very beautiful people. They are different, and that's good!!
They usually are rather happy because they aren't burdened by the stresses of a regular life. Their minds are pure and they get to spend their whole life with family :)
What a sweet lady! It's people like her who deserve praise and recognition, unlike half of our "celebrities" who basically do nothing.
Matt Frost Kylie jenner...
Aly Segura Eugh...
Matt Frost g
Matt Frost we need more people like her
Matt Frost celebrates are praised because they give us music, movies, books etc, this woman is a great mother, but no who's going to turn up to her talking about her disabled child
this woman literally gave up her entire life to devote herself to her daughter and that's what makes her so amazing. she loves her daughter soooo much and knows all and everything about her. She has given up any social life, all finances, all of her time, her aspirations etc. as a mother without a child with this condition it's easy to say I don't think I could do it but deep down I know if I had to I would for my child no questions asked. 36 years is a long time to have to care for your child in the way most parents only have to do for a year or so takes ALOT OF strength. she's an amazing mother for sure.
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Auje Chu yeah that is true
Auje Chu I love this comment so much you know there aren’t a whole lot of people who realize this so thank you for this
Auje Chu damiyah ❤️💕💖
You dont stop taking care of your child after a year, Parents take care of their children until they're at least 18(if they don't have any special needs like this one), and then their job is done. But even after they turn 18 they will still take care of their child if they need it no matter what
this was really touching to watch but its also the reason why i'm so scared to ever have children
Zeelols I feel ya.
Zeelols yeah
same
Zeelols Thought I was the only one, I think I'll just adopt because everything about getting pregnant seems scary
Tinyowl123 AJ hahahaha as a ace individual I agree! But like just giving birth sounds awful and bloody
Wow, this lady has so much love towards her daughter. I have no idea what this would be like, and I have no idea if I could deal with it like she does. Props to her
I don't think I could, I love my daughter's very much but I even have a hard time taking care of myself at times, like just ensuring I eat, what a blessing for Bree to have you as her mama! I hope life is being good to you and I'm sorry for the loss of your baby girl, I know she's smiling down at you and so proud of everything you have done and continue to do
Oh wow new London new Hampshire I'm in Claremont!!!
I had a Mom like you, who until her last days at 91 years of age only thought of others' well-being...the world darkened just a bit the moment she died, and watching you just now felt like the sun coming from behind a cloud. You are a light in this hard dark world.
rilan smith omg that made me cry
in tears..:(
I love this comment so much *in tears* ❤
may god bless her soul 😢
rilan smith god bless this made me cry
rilan smith I'm very sorry she shall be with you in your heart bless her❤️
Believe me when I say this, you are an angel, i know words are just words but you are that little girls savior.
This is what your inspiration should look like. This woman is everything
True! ❤
Sara K this girl is an adult i believe
Pencil Sketch Yes. Her mom says that she was born in 1980, so she should be 36 years old.
Sara K I love your channel :)
it just makes me so happy that she puts in so much time and effort to take care of Bree. This lady is amazing, bless her.
Erin Lippitt I know right? it's sad how rare it is to see someone so selfless and caring
Harley Steele - it isn't rare at all. I've been an RN for over 25 yrs and my husband is a Paramedic. Not only do MANY families take care of disabled family members for years (often a second generation taking over) - but foster parents adopt moderately to severely handicapped children, as in more than once. They are truly incredible people to meet and work with.
+Angie Feingold kids ending up on street for as little as autism isn't uncommon either though
Angie Feingold Sorry I wasn't saying it was rare in general I was saying it's rare to see. I don't think carers get enough credit or recognition. People often overlook it.
autism can be extremely severe though its a huge spectrum
This lady is by far a much better woman than I am.. I don't have the physical nor mental strength to raise a child with Bree's level of being handicapped. God bless this woman.
shay jefferson That's one hell of a detailed scenario.. Until I actually experienced that, I don't know what decision I'd make.
She is indeed
I see all these comments thanking God and all, but why would an all-good, all-loving, omnipotent creator even do this!?
Keyboard Guru cuz he thought it would cool to make this child
Their thanking him thats bree is still alive
Keyboard Guru I don't believe in God, but if an all-loving goddess spirit have made her daughter its probably because God wants to see what humans will do in that situation.
Nathan Beer Yes, but an omnipotent creator would not need to do that, since he/she would already know the results.
People use god when they cant handle real life. Its how religion came around, the bible was written by people to use law through fear to keep order. Its why now, people look to this god, purely out of fear because theyres nothing they can do themselfs. Not going to say believing in a god is a mental disorder, but it certainly is blinde.
Isn't it amazing how one little deletion in a tiny tiny part of the chromosome can cause such a profound effect. You're an amazing mother, she's so lucky to have you.
Sophie W Funny how we just discussed this in Biology today. what a life!
She is truly amazing!
Sophie W yes i agree she cares so much
Sophie W I SO AGREE WITH YOU :D you could be the best mother to her
right
Sophie W yes I agree
Now that's a mom who LOVES her daughter
g59 maya yeah and some people abort there children that don't have ANY disabilities and it's horrible
babybiscuit11 cause birth is too fucking expensive and caring for a child costs a hell lot. Abortion is cheap and effective, plus it helps the mother.
Paper Weight Potato they should've used a condom it's their fault
When condoms break
Paper Weight Potato adoption is always a choice damn
I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter, Wendy. Bree was a sweetheart and so are you. You're a great mother. May Bree rest in peace and God bless you two.
Zachary, don't feel sorry
these nasty comments really make my heart sad. this mom is the perfect example of what a mother should be. i have 3 kids that have been special needs and now young adults. 2 of my kids are high functioning autistic and 1 with mental health issues. i've raised them on my own after their dad walked out in 2003. it's been rough, but it can be done. you keep doing you Wendy. you are an amazing mom. lots of other "moms" out there would have put their kids in a home.
angela marsden having 3 children with minor mental health problems doesn't equate to having a girl or guy? idk that is physically almost crippled and has sever mental issues, I understand the quality of life but if it requires you to change the diaper of a almost grown human and treat them like a child when they're almost grown, isn't a great life worth living
Poweralth Everybody has their own conception of a good life. I'm sure this lady receives a lot of joy from her constant work for Bree. That is not to deny she works very hard and her job must be difficult.
having 3 children with disabilities in a row? did you smoke drink or do drugs because thats awfully suspicious
angela marsden is bree a man? or little girl because i cant tell the difference
Perfect_ Circle girl she says her and she a lot in the vid lol
Who disliked this!? Such an amazing women. My prayers go out to you and Bree 💙
The dislikes might be people who feel terrible for this 2 pretty woman
I think you're right. Because I disliked this at first since I really felt sorry for the mum that she lived like this for so long and for Bree that she is ill like that (if I was in that condition and had the choice, I honsetly would prefer to die). But then I turned my dislike into a like because of the inspirating spirit of that mum and her positive energie.
Too bad your "God" will not hear them
Harrison Jones Why do people always bring that into the comment section. Just stop it's like you WANT to start and argument. Everyone has different opinions and people have faith in God, but you have to come in and start stuff. Just please stop.
Harrison Jones dud STFU if you dont believe in god then keep that to yourself and say something nice. if yoy dont want to say something nice then keep quiet. i dont believe in god either but at least i don't make rude comments. and at least i would open my mouth to say something nice. besides the lecture.... Wendy you are an amazing and wonderful mother😊 you and bree are amazing people. we all support you guys. love ya!❤
How does she pay for all of this? She obviously has no life other than this child. I'm sorry, but this is no life for the child nor her mother.
Madisen Matherly They have a life. why are they alive. U need a life to live. But maybe you have a low life
Madisen Matherly your definition of living doesn't apply to them
i can't imagine doing this. I couldnt.
Madisen Matherly I guess u have no life then because living is more than the quality so if u have a disabled kid u gonna be wrong u would be as happy as a kid with no disability
i disagree. quality of life is everything. if i ever lost the ability to move or make decisions for myself, i would want people to give me back to god. same goes for my kid.
My heart goes out to Wendy. No parent should have to bury their child. Rest in Peace Bree 🙏🏽
She passed away? That’s so sad😢
@@jackeyedpeas4013 Yeah :-(
She's at peace now
You gave your heart to wendy
Hi
Who is caring for the Carer? We need to give people respite care while making sure that their child is cared for with the same love and respect that they're due. Why do these parents have to fight for every little thing? As a society they should be first in line for everything.
oliviaLOVEShenry agreed!
oliviaLOVEShenry in Germany you don't have to fight for this. When you are sick or like cases like bree you get everything from the government to help you. Yes we have high taxes that everyone have to pay but it's for health and education. You got your legs broken and your child has Down Syndrom? Furthermore your other child wants to study on university? No problem. Government pays your hospital bill, helps you out with your sick child and university is free. Everything in our system concentrates on socialism and helping you out on health issues. And that's why you don't see many homeless people in Germany. If you can't afford a decent life you get helped by a program called Harzt 4. There is no chance that someone has to sell its house because medical treatment it too expensive. For me it's unbelievable.
even in Australia it's hard to get any access to this kind of help. my sister is special needs but because she doesn't come under the umbrella of autism we have no access to any form of help or sometimes fundamental carers. It's quite strange the lengths you have to go to if you're in these situations.
I have to disagree. A Mother's love knows know bounds and she is doing everything she can but her role is exhausting and her fight is relentless. We as a society should be caring for Wendy as she cares for Bree.
Thank you so much for this. It's appalling how little support the care givers get, and care givers need a lot of support.
I was a caregiver for several years and worked with people very similar to Bree, some worse off, and there is not one day that isn't exhausting and a little scary at some point or another. It's mentally and emotionally draining knowing something could go wrong and someone could die at any moment, and every little thing you do matters drastically.
People sugarcoat how hard it is to raise a child like Bree. This mom was totally honest and has a good head on her shoulders. Unfortunately she can't take care of her forever and at some point Bree will probably end up in a group home or with a relative perhaps. Where I worked, I can't tell you how rare it was that a family member came into the group home to visit one of the clients. It was so rare. Some parents can't handle it, it's a full time job, and for caregivers the pay is extremely little. It was near minimum wage for me and we did not get raises because the government kept cutting funds on us. Nobody wanted to work there. The job was tireless and it was difficult to get vacations, veeeeeeerrrry little pay and you would witness disturbing things there that many couldn't handle on a daily basis. As a result we were always so low on people, and it was common that new staff wouldn't make it past the 3rd month. They were literally hiring people off the street out of desperation, and this meant they were hiring a lot of bad people that didn't care for the clients, as well.
So in the end the real victims become those with the disabilities. So it really is not selfish for a caregiver to ask for more support or pay. It is a draining job and the clients deserve and need the very best care.
When people say "well the parent is just happy taking care of their child and that's all they need!" I dare you to do this work all day every day and see the sacrifices you make and what it can do to your physical and emotional health, not to mention your finances. Many don't love their family members that are in conditions like Bree and it's a terrible thing-- but those who are true family and care for them get fucked over no matter how much they love and take care of the disabled person.
YOU ARE A HELL OF A GOOD MOTHER NEVER CHANGE THAT! GOD BLESS YOU!
Malliah Reyn fuck you
Malliah Reyn and God blessed you with the heart of Satan. No such thing as perfect. Jesus knows it. Before talking about Hod, read the Ten Commandments in the bible.
HelloWorld that's awesome I love Satan.
Joseph Riley no thanks, i don't sleep with strangers.
you guys are sick for calling her ugly and a dog,she's not a dog she's still a human being.
IonCannoneers Maan, you are a poor idiot.
IonCannoneers lol
IonCannoneers They took rag doll too seriously 🤔
Sweet Cookie well its not learning or being anyone is she. she's ? basically noting they should just put her down she's basically nothing. she knows nothing is nothing like a waste of space no hate just truth
Happy Chappy correct your grammar.You know what you need?you need church how could someone possibly say something like that
I'm THOURLY convinced a lot of mommas (mine included) that have disabled kids are angels.
They're parents.
Thoroughly*
Ehhhh..... yes and no
A mother that does this much for her disabled kid is a hero and role model. Anyone who says anything negative must have a sorry ass life and wasn't disciplined at all. She has my prayers and bless her kind soul.
RhysSky I'm desabled
Tinker Tailor hope your life gets better😍😘😭
Such judgment for people you don't know who may say things to the contrary of your beliefs.
This woman deserves an award❤️❤️
Libby Evans agreed
Libby Evans
Let's give this mother a big round of applause for taking care of her child. You are a great mother to this child. I could not think of anyone more dedicated or more caring to her daughter.
nicktune1219 bree died
nicktune1219 i agree with u 💯
nicktune1219 so glad nobody disliked this comment. my faith in humanity has been restored!!!! 🐱🐱🐱🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐯🐯🐯🐯🐯😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😇🙂😉😉🙂😣🙂😁🙂😎😐🤗😥🙂🙂🙂😘🙂🙂🙂🤗☺☺ ☺😶☺😁
You remind me of my mom, I was born with a brain defect, adhd, and a undetermined disability we still don’t have a name for. My mom was very active in my treatments such as special education and routine doctor’s visits to see what developments were made. I am 38 years old I can function on my own with a little assistance but I think I’ve come this far because my mom was dedicated to my success just like you and Bree ❤
Damn she was so blessed to have a mom like her with such a tragic condition
What is Life so true
What is Life i would have killed it
What is Life that's just life
"Blessed"?? Yeah, she was blessed alright. It's so obvious.
Succ Yo Tiddys Bich LMAOO CHILL
Wow. You must have had her when you were quite young, cause you look like someone in their mid 30s, which is impossible given your daughters age. You are an incredibly strong woman. Someone needs to get this woman on that show "the doctors" or Ellen or idk some show that helps out people living in incredible situations.
She looks like a very healthy (& beautiful) woman in her 50s.
drinkallthesunshine She says that Bree is 34 years old when this video was filmed. She was born in 1980. The mom is most likely in her 50s.
drinkallthesunshine She needs to be on Ellen
Drinkalltywsunshine doesn't look in her mid 30, more like mid 50, it's easy to see, so I think she had her daughter quite late.
+Make sense her daughter is 36 so if she's 45-50 it's not late
I was practically in tears. This woman is truly exceptional. God bless her for having the patience and strength the undergo such a trial.
My mother passed away recently and now I’m taking care of my 45yo disabled brother with profound intellectual disability and autism. It’s hard work but I don’t know if I could be as awesome as you are. Your passion for Bree radiates. I’m just exhausted all the time.
Edit to add: I’m so sorry for your loss.
Yes it is challenging, yet just think that your brother wants to be wanted and love. You know I would always think, how would I want to be treated. If you can , I would look at the product ION - amazing results with autism. www.intelligenceofnature.com
Just take it one day at a time. Yes you will feel exhausted yet and yes the hardest job yet stay in your heart. We are human and caregiving is the most stressful yet you can turn it around and make the situation the greatest blessing. My daughter was the greatest teacher I could of dreamed of. She made me better as I had to get healthier and be a better person to care for her. Yes I prayed and begged for guidance and help a lot. The constant worry about being able to keep food on the table and a roof does take a toll. Yet you have a very powerful purpose now, beyond what we can imagine. Ask for guidance and it will come at the perfect timing. You found this site - right, with all kinds of ideas. Bless you!!!
I'm really surprised that there are not many mean comments. People are very rude and I'm very happy that all negative left this video and people kept it positive so this beautiful lady can keep going.
Allanna TV true
Allanna TV Or the comments got deleted
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I was scared to look but I scrolled a couple times and didn't see any...I read your comment and I figured I'd stop while I was ahead lol...Sweet lady, and it takes a lot to care for someone that is handicapped in a manner such as this. Shes blessed she can afford to stay home and care for bree... a lot of people wouldn't financial be able too
God gives these special children special mommies
that is a beautiful statement
that is a beautiful statement
So you don't hold 'God' responsible for the suffering inflicted? You're logic is entirely flawed. So he can choose to give caring 'mums' but completely doesn't have a say in creating life that has to live a life of pain, suffering and be unable to fulfil all aspects of the human experience? He is a vindictive, callous, jealous god, and humanity will only find true comfort in rejecting the notion of such a flawed deity and all religion.
Are religion is are religion we won't force you to like it but it would be nice if you could expect it. I did not know about them but I believe that their is God and the devil the devil brings negativity into the world while god brings positivity. One is good the other is evil to put it simply God has a plan for everything and everyone. So if you could not crap all over my religion that would be nice.
Olivia Harris *our. No this illogical framework needs questioning, it is antiquated and time to put it to bed. It's my right to point out and question this bigotry, and although you may be too set in you're ways to comprehend what I'm saying, there are people reading perspectives like mine who use it to nudge them in the direction of critical thinking and freedom from religious oppression. I'm sorry but we are in the last days of religion. Critical thinking is spreading at a pace religions has never been capable of...
"one of her favourite things is the mirror, because she's so beautiful" (03:20min) touched my normally stonecold heart so fckng much. You're an awesome Mother, remember that.
RIP sweet Bree! You are always going to be an angel. You touched the lives of so many people.
This mom is amazing, but I'd like a "mercy death" if I was in bree's position.
Havok Sosa You act as if she is an animal.
The Bee's Wrinkly Knees I'm sorry if I made it sound that way, but I don't think that.
Let's change "put down" to "mercy death". Havok Sosa i feel ya like if i was ever unable to do things for myself i'd like to put an end to it...but sadly bree can't really say what she wants.
You might feel that way if you were born healthy then became incapacitated due to illness or injury. If you had enough awareness to remember your life before and compare it to after. But if you were born this way and have no understanding of anything but your mothers care (of which there is an abundance) then you probably wouldn't think life was so bad.
Same. I'd definitely want to be euthanized.
She has been given the best mother God could find.
cheekyoziechick isn't that the truth
You mean nature and human kindness. God isn't real
Rena Ryuugu Don't start pointlessly saying god isn't real and starting debates..
Rena Ryuugu why would you bring the "God isn't real" into this? People like you give atheists bad names. You don't have to comment something negative like that. Let people trust in what they want and talk about religion without downing them.
howto42 yeah, I can see how it could be exploitative, of course how she talks about her daughter and somewhat of how she seems to treat her could be that way, but there's a lot we don't know. Such as maybe she could be doing this to bring light to such a disability, for example, I didn't know they could crawl. I thought they were wheelchair bound. But she might be doing the best she can.
you are a real angel living on earth, im so ashamed of myself that i cannot have such a big patience with my son just like you. God bless you and Bree
She is so amazing and caring to Bree, I’m glad she lived a good life with a good mother ❤️🙃 These mean comments are not funny or kind, so leave positive comments so Bree’s mom can be happy 😁😇
God bless you. You are an amazing woman with amazing strength. This shows how great love is. You have cared for your beautiful daughter everyday for 31 years. You inspire me!!
36**
you guys are bullies making fun for him or her messing up the years...get a life
It is 36 years.
+Kaelah Edwards Cry me a river bitch
+Magenta meow No shit you autism
the way her mom talks about her it seems like shes keeping a pet.
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q_q cHatty ..
She is.
pretty much is
Vault-Tec Rep she is
What a WONDERFUL mother. GOD bless
wonderful daughter as well
This lady is a legend. Not many people would keep taking care of there disabled daughter for aslong as she has. Most people would have just put her in a home. Wendy if you read this you are a wonderful person.
glo ria you can also good soul
Kelo60 it is so beautiful that she is doing everything she can to KEEP taking care of her
A really WONDERFUL mother would have ended her daughters suffering.
"A much better life began." Bless this woman
Wills Sports Hour! Yes
Wills Sports Hour! Sike
Wills Sports Hour! She's lying. That type of life isn't enjoyable for either of them.
When she called bri her princess I cried so hard :(
It's so cute
same
SKYYY Msp don't say it
quite sad story, personally i believe your one of the sweetest people to love and care for her when she is in this condition, however in her state I'm surprised she lived all these years, bless her.
its sad that kids are born with these problems. they deserve a normal life.
Lps Allison well she is perfectly normal for Bree.
I am literally dumbfounded by the amount of comments saying she shouldn't live like this or "she needs to be put down".. I know people are evil but it is shocking to me they shamelessly leave these disgusting comments on such a wonderful dedicated mothers video... this woman has nothing but love in her body and yet the world stills finds a way to be ignorant and hateful
breebreecakes well it's the internet, people show their inner disgusting selves because there are no consequences.
It's not disgusting, I commend her for her hard work shes been doing for the past years, but honestly none of this should've happened to begin with. I'm a Christian and I know it's a horrible thing to say but people like this are too much of a burden, and you forget how to live. You either have to choose between horrible life for you, or horrible life for the child, which neither are good. For the mother I know she loves her child, but like she said by the time she's done caring for Bree, there is no time left for herself. I would rather die then let someone close to me feel misery for taking care of me.
So tell me your story that brings you to a conclusion like this? " I'm a Christian and I know it's a horrible thing to say but people like this are too much of a burden, and you forget how to live. You either have to choose between horrible life for you, or horrible life for the child, which neither are good.""
I do not think she needs too be put down
I agree
This woman did an amazing job with Bree. She learned about Bree’s disability and what would be best & helpful for her to have the best life possible. Most importantly you can see the love she has for her.
it's been a few weeks now since your little angel passed..and all i want to say is that you did an amazing job to keep this girl alive♡ you tried your best but now she flew to heaven..😢 we love and support you Wendy R.I.P bree forever remember forever the love continues
Pengu. :3 she's dead?
January 5th, 2017 ;;
Sophia Loudwatcher Whhhaaaaaat!!!
She's dead?
Pengu. :3 😭😭😭😭
An extremely dedicated mother... Can't help but wonder what'll happen after Wendy is unable to care for Bree, though.
buggld oh god yea >
buggld same like I really wonder
Most likely she'll live in a nursing home.
buggld me too but hopefully she gets better.
i'm 99% Bree will die before Wendy bc people with disabilitys die younger
Who is going to take care of her when her mom dies? I'm kinda worried.
hopefully no one. These retards are bringing down the entire species.
***** not really
CaptainRidley Not exactly, just rude.
City Lights
She's gonna go to the jungle with the other sloths
Terrible...but funny lol
I'm complaining about my life and I am now realizing how blessed I am to feed my self,walk,and many other things Bree is a warrior she is beautiful and has guts of steel I hope Bree and her mother live a long and healthy life #STAYSTRONGBREEKEEPONGOIN
Wonderful mother but that poor Bree that's no quality of life
And just what IS that?
What defines "quality of life"? Everyone's definition is different. THIS is what parenting,love ,is all about.
Did you not listen, Brie loves looking into the mirrors, She loves her mother touching her when she's moving it helps move her faster, she as good food everyday all quality foods to, she lives in a lovely home and is surrounded by love and she enjoys play times that's what i gathered from this video and so i am willing to bet there are shit loads more things she does that add to her quality of life, as for you you're screwed I'm afraid because you can't get help with what ails you because being a fucktard can't be fixed...
I used to care for people like Bree. I can tell you that she's got it made. her mother seems wonderful and attentive. how lucky for her that she gets to reach her potential while being constantly cared for and loved. I say she has an excellent quality of life.
Farrah Hays
Are you kidding? Oh, to have a mom like that.
Bree is extremely lucky to have such an amazing mother
Sophie Reading
Sophie Reading Yes, she's a strong mother! Bri-bri is taken care of so well!
Sophie Reading I do not think that Bree is lucky at all, no offense
Yes she is
She's lucky to have a mother that actually cares about her. Most people would either institutionalize or disown her.
Bree looks lovely. I wish I could help out. She seems fun! And for all of you haters, I'm not lying. God bless you Bree and your mom.
COOKIES FO' RHONDA I hate when people make fun of the ones with a horrible disability
But it normally means none of these sports 🤸🏼♀️⛸🥋⚽️🏒🏊🏼♀️🚴🏼♀️⛹🏼♀️🎾 which is very 😢
I love people that want to help my mom dose
COOKIES FO' RHONDA you are so right
COOKIES FO' RHONDA your so right!
COOKIES FO' RHONDA yep your right
Wendy, I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. May Bree rest in peace? You are a kind mother to her 🙏
any child would be lucky to have you for a mom
I have to applaud you , not only are you caring for a profoundly handicapped daughter, but you go above and beyond. My mother works in group homes as a nurse for adults with a rage of disabilities. I remember from a young age helping my mother change diapers, pour meds( of course I never actually touched them), how to clean and feed with a feeding tube and so on. The fact that you make homemade and organic food is outstanding; even without having someone with a disability that diet and life style can be difficult and expensive. Not only that you get her to "creep". I can't tell you how many people I've seen just turn to wheelchairs, no fault on them, because its "faster" and "easier". I can not stress enough how amazing you are. I know and see how frustrating and exhausting caring for someone with profound disabilities is. Keep it up, you are light, and wish you the best. I don't know what it's like in NH, but there are some lesser known programs and loopholes that can get you some help. Check out local disability day programs and talk to people in that community they usually have the best insight. (from my and my mother experience in NY)
what an amazing mother. god bless 💜
Lynn Rossi wow those words are so simple yet so beautiful God Bless your heart
Lynn Rossi she is an amazing mom #worldsgratestmom
Lynn Rossi yes
Lynn Rossi she is an amazing mother 💙💜
Lynn Rossi
You are by far the most caring amazing mother!! The love u have for your daughter is just selfless. I wish many more years of happiness and good health.
The daughter sadly passed away
I don't know why, but this was in my recommendations. Not that there is anything wrong with this, I'm just perplexed at YT's algorithm considering I don't have children, don't look up videos about raising children, don't subscribe to anyone raising a disabled child/adult.
Also, the comment section is such a typical YT comment sections. Cowards hiding behind their usernames. I bet they wouldn't say to Wendy's face "put that thing out of it's misery" or stuff like that.
I applaud Wendy for raising Bree the best to her ability. Honestly I used to work with disabled teens in high school and a lot of disabled kids are in foster care. A lot of those kids parent's couldn't handle having a disabled kid so they gave them up to the province. Bree is clearly raised in an amazing home and she is blessed to have a mom like Wendy.
I agree! I can't believe the comments on videos like these. These people aren't human!
FrackMeister Agree :))
this mother is so selfless, and is an absolute saint 💗💞💝💘💓💟💜💖💕❤
Wow! Amazing mother! You only live for your child. God bless you and your family.
As much as I loved this video, I am so sorry for some of these horrible comments. There should be an automatic block of comments if certain words are used. BLESS YOU. YOU ARE LITERALLY SUCH A SWEETHEART.
Bree is very fortunate to have such a wonderful, loving , caring mother as you!
Do you think Bree would know the difference where she was.
cassidy tracey Yes.
cassidy tracey h
You are a strong incredible woman. Bree was very lucky to have you as a mammy. I'm so sorry to hear the sad news that she passed away. Take care x
fanta drinker What the hell? All lives matter, big or small, how would you feel if you had a physical disorder that was slowly killing you, and people said: "they are a waste of life, let's just leave her to die."?
Sahm Dhude You're right, but I kinda just got mad about the way they said it.
Sahm Dhude you are talking about eugenics..that is some pretty sick thinking. We can't kill people because they are an inconvenience. Where do you draw the line at killing?
Sahm Dhude you're an idiot. eugenisist. this isn't China
Sahm Dhude Why are we still arguing about this? It doesn't really matter.
I feel so terrible for you. I couldn't imagine having to take care of my disabled child for 36+ years. It must be so hard. Financially and emotionally. I applaud your extraordinary parenting. You are very dedicated.
RingWraith75
RingWraith75 I agree she is an amazing mother
You are an amazing mother to give up your whole life for your daughter.❤️❤️❤️
Veronica Menke yeah for nothing
She shouldn't have had to.
That's what you do for your children
wow I can barely handle taking care of a lizard I can't imagine taking care of another person. your an amazing mother
lizards aren't even that bad to take care off. i manage my beardie just fine. try 6 chickens.
I grew up on a farm I'm just forget full. By berdie lives in my room so I see him and remember. He's a sweetie
That's the one pet I can remember to lol. I fed them so much because I forgot if I fed them or not. (I have ADHD so I don't pay attention with out realizing it and forget what I did) *****
+kunoichi lise Maybe if you have such problems, you shouldn't have so many pets. Over feeding and not feeding a pet enough can be harmful. so can not giving them enough attention. seriously, my lizard gets real mean and his colors stay really dark when I don't mess with him for a while/ am not home.
TheMewMix I don't have a lot of pets. Just the fish and lizard. I have notes and reminders all around my house. I'm good with feeding my beardie and he's usually pretty happy. He sits with me daily while I go on my laptop and just chills. And because of when I feed my fish a lot I don't feed them large amounts at a time. And having them is more or less good for me because its basically practice for me to learn to remember stuff. With out that form of responsablility I would have a much harder time.
Wow! That's hard work! I commend this lady for being a wonderful mom.
Nina La Bella can she stand up $:|
LpsDogs AndCats no she can not
Nina La Bella my mom is single with two kids me my brother my brother has tics learning disability dislexia and a sleep problom
Nina La Bella yeah
Unfortunately she wasted 37 years the girl is dead now
I Wish All Mothers Were As loveable And Caring As You Are!
It’s vids like these where I tell myself “Thank God for the life I’m given.”
With all these complications she’s living with, it truly is a blessing and a privilege to live our lives the way we live them. I hope she sets an inspiration and motivation to those out there who also have complications of their own.
God Bless.
This is an example of someone who absolutely deserves financial support from the government
Kayla Ogletree unlike others who abuse the system.
Kayla Ogletree agree
vanessa swaringim
yes ma'am, agreed!
unfortunately the systems even where I'm from would rather give the funding to their own to raise peoples children than to give it to those who deserve it.
I've had to live with an autistic little brother and I thought that was hard, but here you are raising this child as a single mother👏👏👏👏
xXswagmasterXx 82 My brother has autism as well 💕💕
Thatcowz ISDAT cool my brother does but not good at coprehending things so how's it like
Thatcowz ISDAT I have autism as well
same, my twin brother is autistic, i reacted the same way
Thatcowz ISDAT same
Damn, I am sorry you lost you Bree I hope you are doing okay and I hope one day you and Bree are reunited with each other R. I. P.
+kitkatcoco67 you know what the fuck she meant obviously. smart ass
kitkatcoco67 lol
kitkatcoco67 no. She said sorry you LOST bree. That is correct. If it was loss it would be sorry for your LOSS of bree
I'm better than you what 😱😱 mad disrespectful mane☄ฺ(◣д◢)☄ฺ(｡◕ˇ﹏ˇ◕｡ )
Such a dedicated Mother, your daughter is such a treasure. I admire your courage to keep fighting for those challenges you have faced everyday.
Just one word: RESPECT
Riya Jose AMEN!!!!!
This is sad, but very wonderful that you still care for her and don't give up on her. I think that Bree is very lucky to have a mother that cares. Still, I feel quite bad in a way that you were not able to do the normal parent track. I hope the future is bright.
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I have NO clue where my post went.
KatieLouGaming
What I was saying was putting ourselves in her position I don't know if I could do as good of a job as she does. I'd be to the point of tears. No one should have to fight for stuff like she does.
Jewish Woman u copying the other people
This is the saddest thing I ever seen and what a good mother and im almost crying
Wow. I have so much respect for this Mom. Bree is blessed to have someone like you throughout her life. If only every disabled adult was treated like this!
I know that you had some horrid comments on this video - please ignore them !
You have a beautiful, wonderful and clever daughter - do not forget that !!
I am so sorry that she has passed, but please know that you were an amazing mother !! You fought so hard for her, and your encouragement towards her was impeccable!!
Ignore these sad trolls ! You are fab and it's easy to see that bree had a happy and wonderful life with you!!
Seconded, all of these people obviously have little to no humanity or love for other people in their hearts and it hurts, but all they're here to do is be self-centered and try to get reactions and pain out of others for their own enjoyment. Nothing they say has any truth to it and it certainly doesn't come from their heart. I hope you can find comfort in knowing the fact YOU are connected to your heart and soul unlike them, that's a beautiful & important thing no matter how many people want to put it down. Keep going wendy
Katie Beveridge she looks like a boy
Junett Robinson are you freaking kidding me, you cant just go on a video like this and say that, she has conditions and you should know that by watching this video. dont go on videos like this and be rude. her diagnoses causes her to loose hair, it dosent mean you need to say she looks like a boy, you have short hair, what if i said you look like a boy, how do you feel? huh? thats what i thought.
Junett Robinson destroyed
Jolene Myers she is beautiful and clever - that's fact !
why are so many people just now watching this?
right? i noticed it got like 100k views in last month, perhaps it was featured on a website?
Eric Northmen TH-cam Recommendations
TH-cam changed their algorithm
Tori Bober because it's an inspiring video?
It was on my recommended
I have a sister that has C.P. they told us the same thing she would never live but she is in a wheelchair now and 15 years old they would never put her in normal a classes till we fought it and she is in honors classes smart as can be. She can talk to you on a full conversation. she's gorgeous the most beautiful thing.. yes we have to fight for her needs.. she just got potty trained the most amazing thing.. but she uses a walker, and her left hand turns in and she wears a brace at night to try to make it like normal hand.. ik how u feel it is very stressful u feel like no one understands and u r just always fighting
Jordan Rooks awww I hope is is great today 👑
bless you and your sister ❤
Jordan Rooks you are right, no one but the ones who are experiencing this understand. but we do know its hard. we hope the best for you, bree, and anyone else going through this. God bless😇😇
Jordan Rooks, I work for an intermediate school district in my state and we try to mainstream special needs kids in their local school, even if it's for a half day and then we bus them to an ISD school for whatever therapy they need or other special services the school might offer.
God bless you, ans your family thanks for sharing
What an amazing mother.
I support this amazing mother!She is so nice and sweet to Bree,and Bree is so lucky to have Wendy as her mom!God bless you
just spent a half hour screaming at all the bullys on these comments. im just in awe how absolutely ruthless and evil people are. my heart literally hurts. im so sorry for the loss of bree. you are such a strong woman and you kept her moving and clean and happy and comfortable for her time here on earth. an act of true love and dedication. Never let these bad comments hurt you no matter how hard they can sometimes be to ignore. you are an amazing mother and she was very lucky to have you, as you were her. ❤ such a moving video. bree is at peace running with strong legs in heaven.
tianna russo i know i put a person on report
shut up ugly bitch
People are mean no where you go brave woman
love your comment 😇
tianna russo They should I be placed in Special Education so they can experience these people's lives and learn to be humble.
It's beautiful their relationship. but what's the point, at the end of the day what will this achieve?
If your mum or dad were like this, would you take care of them?
Poppy Britton-gray the point is to give her the best life she is capable of living
thats nothing like this, they are born this way so the parents wouldn,t even have a child to look after them
Little Miss Grizzly Bear
what about it
God bless this woman keeping this beautiful child who needs very special handicaps. I don’t know if I could do this every day for 37 years. I don’t even know what to say about this amazing women who would save a fly.
Bree died on January 5th 2017. RIP Bree.
I was a relative of Bree
she has sadly passed away thank you so so much to everyone who has showed there love to Bree
we arestill devastated by the death of Bree but she is in a better place now
gay sombra lies^^^^
gay sombra I am so incredibly sorry for you. 😞💕
gay sombra poor thing suffers and should have been put out of her misery
I am so sorry to hear that she passed on.
gay sombra i am so sorry of the pass of bree
Can't believe that your adorable bumble bee passed, Just know that you're an amazing mother! Bree is soo blessed to have a wonderful mom like you. everything you did just to keep her alive and well! ~I know it's very difficult, But just know that she's at a safe place, a place where shes at peace, a place where she can watch over you, a place where she's loved by the good lord!! So sad that she's gone! she will be sadly missed so much,breaks my heart just to even think about it. you are one blessed mom. take care
Breanaaa !+. So true!!!!
Breanaaa !
Thxs.
Breanaaa ! what do you mean? she had posted a month ago about her diet? she passed?
Katie Bright Yes, Sadly, She passed away. 😪
This beautiful lady is just a genuine woman and I aspire to be as loving and kind as she is 💗 god bless
Moms are the most amazing humans In the world.
My mom stopped her life for me and I can never thank her enough.
So many people in the comments being rude or highly innapropiate.. she's beautiful no matter what and I'm sorry for your lost. You are the best mother a child could wish for. May god bless you ❤️
Leahbae Xxx you shouldve been aborted yourself tbh lol
Leahbae Xxx you saying she shoulve been abandoned because she can't support herself is fucking stupid and ridiculous. babies can't support themselves either so what should we do about them too then? hm i can only imagine your answer, especially with your twisted way of thinking.
Leahbae Xxx fucking people.
alexis schipritt No, you don't get my point! I'm saying she'll never be able to support herself, it's cruel to keep someone like that alive, it's not a life worth living! Of course babies can't support themselves I'm not an idiot, it's the fact that in the wild, they would have abandoned her because she's not good for the species! Something went wrong! You see it in real animals, Tigers for example let's say... If a tiger has a cub that has a severe disability meaning it won't be able to walk, support itself, or raise a family, it will be abandoned as it is no use to that species, they breed with the best, for the best! That what we used to be like when we survived on instinct, does THAT not tell you we're doing something wrong!!! Also could you tell me the reason you believe I should have been aborted? I'm intelligent, strong, healthy, I look to further our species in a good way and not in the way that will make us weak!
LaRae Juhay I can't tell whether you're with me or not!
Godbless this mother and her daughter
Heaven Truly got a Beautiful Angel. And to Mom Thank You for sharing all of this. God Bless You and All that helped you🙏✨
I praise this women she is a very sweet person
Yeah, she's beautiful on the inside and outside. People just need to open up their eyes.
Asriel The Dreamer j
We need more people like Wendy in this world. God bless you.
they are everywhere, you just have to know where to look
no, like Wendy and other loving caregivers
!00% agree with you Catherine. Valgurm's comment is not even worth a reply.
I wish I were filthy rich so I could help people like this.
:/
starbuck sc but how could you help? excuse my ignorance but o don't think there is a way to help with things the chromosomal depletion.
She means help them financially so they don't have to worry about money.
agreed. you are a sweet soul
Wish all the rich people could see this and help her. Sounds like if she doesn't give up custody of her adult child she'll be forced to forego her government support. So sad
Lauren Bowman this is a two year old video. If you look at her latest videos it thankfully didnt come to that
I seriously hope your financial stress has been lifted. You are a strong inspirational woman and you deserve all the help you can get. Sending good thoughts from Scotland. If I was in any way able to help I would. Your story should be heard far and wide. Take care 🌸
and this is what we call a mother.
Ares Bruna really, I couldn't tell but thanks for the help
trillwill ! you're welcome darling! whenever you feel like a dumb ass bitch call me and I'll give you some vocabulary in english like I did 💙
hunna dae tf
And this is what we call a failed birth
Guys I wasnt trying to be rude and I'm sorry if anybody got offended really, I just thought it was odd that you pointed out the obvious
You're such an amazing mother! you're so strong!
such an amazing woman/mother.
sintensity ikr dang
sintensity I agree
This makes me feel like crying the personality of mothers, the characters of mothers. A different kind of love a different kind of care that fills you up and wraps you all around, that God has blessed them with. Thank you God for that.😭❤❤
I just wonder what goes through Bree's mind. I have always wondered what goes through disabled (mentally/physically) people's minds. They are truly very beautiful people. They are different, and that's good!!
OMG! Squishys4ever same!!
I know right? It's sounds awful to say, but can she even think? Is there even a way to know? It's all pretty intriguing...
They usually are rather happy because they aren't burdened by the stresses of a regular life. Their minds are pure and they get to spend their whole life with family :)
OMG! Squishys4ever i know right, my bro is special needs
Tayah Coleman What makes you so sure of that?