How I'm Doing Now
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ย. 2024
- This is an update on my life over the past year or so
More About Me:
My Book about Raising Bree: tinyurl.com/gp9...
My Cookbook: tinyurl.com/Br...
My Children's Book About Bree and Her Dog: tinyurl.com/y8...
TH-cam: / wendygilker
Facebook: / gilkerwendy
Instagram: / wendygilker
Twitter: / gilkerwendy
Support Me: www.paypal.com... Disclaimer: I am NOT a medical doctor. The information I share is from my own experiences caring for my daughter, and personal research I have done over the years.
*This is the only TH-cam channel that I run. If you see my name or content posing as me on this platform it is NOT me.
sorry your daughter passed. you've taken care of her all her life; when ou are reunited, she'll take good care of you because you deserve it :)
Bless you
I am so sorry that your daughter passed away . This is the second video I have watched and I fell in love with her . God Bless you . I wish you the best . ❤️
Thank you Latisha
You are an amazing woman......You did such a great job with your daughter....I hope you are finding peace knowing you gave her the best life she could have ever known.
You will get there my dear. You are a survivor... Think the world of you....
Thank you
This woman speaks the truth, about life, about friends, about the "system",...I concur. Listen to her, and learn.
I've been dealing with really bad anxiety and depression for....god, ever since I can remember, like, maybe since I was 12? I'm 25 years old now, and things don't really get easier, you just get used to the weight of things, but it doesn't mean it's not heavy. The idea of suicide has always been lurking around the corner of my mind somehow. I guess sometimes you just get so, so tired, you just don't have the will or the strength to keep on going. Emotional exhaustion really can get the best of you, and I've been in that dark, hopeless place more times than I wish I could say. Life is indeed very hard, but it has it's beauty and little things that makes you want to stick around, and that's what I've been holding on to, what's kept me here.
It's not easy to admit to yourself when you're struggling, or when you're not in a right place of mind, It takes a lot of courage, and you're incredibly courageous and brave, Wendy. Your resilience has always amazed me, ever since I first stumbled upon your channel a little over 2 years ago, you're very inspiring, and how you choose to see light, even if it's just a little blurred, uncertain speck floating around space. You're a wonderful woman, and I hope you know how badass you are :)
Thank you for sharing your journey with us.
Sending lots of love and light your way xx
I have been there myself. Im Bi-polar. I have very highs and very dark lows. Just remember you are not alone. There are millions just like you. Just remember tomorrow is another day. This day will not last. You have a chance to change it and not dwell on it. Keep you head up!! Hugs!!
@@triciamartin8736 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
As far as the trolls go, they are sick. At the same time, they think their hero's behind a keyboard. I can bet almost 95% of those trolls wouldn't have the courage to say the things they say to you're face. The internet and false security gives them nerve to think its okay to be cruel and hateful. All we can do is scroll past and pray for them. If the roles were reversed, they would of felt the same way you did. Keep you're head up Wendy! Many people love you're videos and wisdom/thoughts. Have a great weekend!! Love from Michigan!!
Stay strong momma! You are the sweetest! Keep your chin up! You are SO STRONG and SO great! Your presence is bright and you have an amazing future ahead of you. You will know peace one day. I’m sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine what you’re going through but I do know, everything happens for a reason. The universe is your friend, ask it for guidance in these times. I CARE! You are seen! Everything you’ve done is appreciated and important. I’ve been watching your channel for a few years and I think you are truly a blessing to this world. God bless you! -Aitana
I feel like your life has been constant struggle . Our stories are different. Yet the same . Our kids are our light . I admire you strong lady. I pray blessings fall on you. I sincerely pray this for you. ❤️
Greetings from Los Angeles, Wendy. I happened to see your video about your life with Bree while looking for something else on TH-cam. I thought I'll watch a minute or two and see what it's about, and ended up watching the whole thing and then going to your channel to find out how you're doing now. I'm so sorry about the loss of Bree. They really do take a bit of you with them when they go, don't they? A hole that can never be filled.
When the invalid mother of my neighbor passed, my neighbor then sat in her car parked out front of her house for nearly two years because her purpose was suddenly gone and she didn't know what to do with herself when she was home. My own story is different, but I understand her desire to sit in the car.
I'm rambling, but really I just wanted to say how amazing I think you are. Thank you for sharing your story.
As far as the ugly things people say on the internet, just remember that you are being judged by people who don't have their own shit together. It's called “Performative Cruelty”
The act of being cruel to others just for show; for the sake of laughs, acclaim or entertainment.
Much love to you. I am rooting for you.
Thank you for your very kind words. I have never heard of Performative Cruelty, interesting and makes sense. Thank you
@@WendyGilker I didn't know what to call it, but I see it everyday! Especially surrounding our current political issues. People come here to pick fights, shit talk strangers just because they disagree, and I can't stand it! The performative cruelty needs to stop, it will only lead to our detriment.
Awww I'm so sorry Bree passed 💖 sending hugs to you 💖🌺
My dad lives in Center Harbor, I'd love to take you to coffee when I go back there. Thanks for the update Wendy, you're AMAZING 💓
I'm sorry your daughter passed away. I just discovered your channel yesterday. You really loved your daughter. She lived the best life because of you.
So happy to see another video from you Wendy.. I miss Bree's sweet face. You inspire me to eat better . ty
Peggy, I miss her sweet face too and it makes my day to know I inspire you to eat better, thank you
I lost a child five years ago..trust me..you find strength you never knew you had. I myself felt like my life looked like everything was underwater and in slow motion. Do things at your own pace. Some days are worse then others. Breathe. Pray. Scream. Cry. Repeat.
God bless you.
Thank you and yes that is what I have been doing
You are just absolutely amazing Wendy. I too am going through a crisis and have been for 18 years now. I’m so grateful to have found you on social media. Please keep logging your life as you are such a inspiration to me. I live in San Diego and wish I could of met you! Sending you much much ❤️.
I just saw ur video raising bree for the first time I didn't know she passed it brought me to tears I am a grown man and watching u with ur daughter was nothing short of how amazing a mother's love can be I just wanted to reach out to u and tell and I am sorry from the bottom of my heart for ur loss but you are or proff that angels do exist
Hello Wendy. I saw many of videos with your beautiful daughter Bree. I don’t know how to describe it but you are a phenomenal person. You and Bree were so lucky to have each other. Watching your videos, I found Bree’s presence was peaceful and graceful. RIP beautiful Bree.
Very best wishes. Xx
I love your philosophy...and being at peace with what you do and helping people....what a wonderful and rewarding life and you are a great example of what everyone should be...thank you for sharing, and having compassion for both your daughter and others as well...
Thank you Valerie. Bree has made me a better person and I hope to make her proud of her mom as I put one foot in front of the other.
I’m so sorry for your daughter passing.🥺🦄 she is your sweet Angel now.
It’s been a long time since I’ve watched your videos if I’m honest, but it was rlly nice to hear what you’ve been doing ! Wishing you the best from CA
Thank you Morgan. The best to you too.
Wendy my cousin has cerebral palsy and she cannot walk speak or move . Seeing bree gave me the inspiration to be a caregiver for my cousin .
I to have a disability low muscle tone but one day .my hope is to help her meaning my cousin even at 76 to walk.
Thank you again for everything you did for bree
- hannah .
Hannah - Thank you for the love and support you are giving your cousin. We can all be Bree's or your cousin and we all need in this world to treat other with the love and compassion we ourselves would want. Take Good Care
You are such a beautiful person. You really are. This video made my day even more special. I love how honest you are, how kind you really are and I respect you so much. Thank you so much for your videos they really help me a lot. You are still a fantastic mom in every way. I'm so sorry for your loss. But I believe she is still with you and is looking after her mama. I would love to share this prayer with you.
Today’s Prayer
Lord, help me to love others and delight in honoring them. Help me become humble, gentle, patient, and to bear with others in love. I’ll do everything in my power to keep peace in my relationships. I’ll bless those who speak negatively, and I won’t pay back evil when someone has been rude or ugly to me. God, with Your help, I won’t let someone else’s actions dictate my behavior. I’ll encourage and build others up. I’ll exhibit love, be patient, and be kind. I won’t be jealous, boastful, proud, or rude. In humility, I’ll consider others as better than myself. As much as it depends on me, God, I’ll live at peace with everyone. In Jesus name Amen.
Sending all my love to you.
From your biggest fan,
Kirsten Pfister. Xxxx
I have followed you and your beautiful daughter Bree for some time. I fell in love with her sweet face and her lovely sweet way about her.. I am sorry she has passed, She is an angel, you made her life so happy. You could see how much she loved you and how much you love her. You are an amazing mum and teacher.
Thank you for your kind words. I keep going with sharing as I want her to be proud of her mom. This time of year is harder as it is coming up to the anniversary of Bree's passing.
Wendy, first let me tell you that you are loved. Your sweet soul shines thru everything you do. Also, I think your life with precious Bree should become a novel and a movie, like Lorenzo’s oil. More people need to know the amazing story of you and your daughter. As Rory Feek says about himself, his “extraordinary, ordinary” life. That’s also you dear mother of Bree. Thank you for all the knowledge you share with the world. I am hungry for it and eagerly wait for new video’s from you. Keep letting your light shine. 🙏💗🌸🌞
Thank you. I did self publish three books that are on Amazon. One Swan about our first 22 years together, a children's book about Bree and her dog Mikey and a cookbook on how I cooked for Bree.
Sorry for your loss. You were amazing mom to her. 💕
Let me first say how sorry I am for your loss. Bree was a beautiful spirit!!! You are a very outstanding parent and a wonderful person. May GOD continue to Bless you and keep you. I know Bree is so proud of you!!! 😊💪🏾
My heart goes out to you and your beautiful daughter may she rest in peace. I too had a handicapped son with Duchenne Muscular dystrophy. If there were parent of the world you would no doubt win it for all time. I now live each day to the fullest so that I honor my son who passed when he was 19 years old. God bless you both💖💖.
This is January 25, 2021 and I'm still impressed by the Loving and Dedicated relationship that you and Sweet Bree enjoyed. I watched your Ted talk and found it very helpful. Thank you for sharing your life and your beautiful daughter with us. Peace and Blessings to you. Be well.
Thank you and I am still finding my way without Bree. Yet I always feel her presence and I get signs all the time and they seem to get stronger or maybe I am getting better at recognizing them.
There is this story about two men who get stuck in a cold cave inmits a snowstorm. One of them passes out, so the other one rubs his hands, his face, his chest, his legs to keep him warm and a live. The next day, they get help and both are brought to the hospital. The man who passed out survives and the other man says to the doctor:" I'm sure he would be dead if I hadn't rubbed his body for hours and hours to keep him warm." And the doctor just says:" So would you"
As I heard this story, i immediately thought about you and Bree. There seemed to be almost a necessity for Bree to come to this earth special and rare for you both to fulfill your true potential. And the warmth that you two divine souls have generated, the warmth that you spread by just taking about your life, has the potential to keep a lost soul, such as mine alife. So I can't imagine how strong the heath of healing, of epiphany must have felt for you. For all the soul's that are ready to feel and see the light your doughter brought to the world, she is a blessing beyond words. You are the embodiment of a Mother, a teacher, one of the world's most gifted students and I honor you, I kneel bevor you.
We care. So many people care. I love hearing from you, hearing that you are persevering and pursuing your passions. I am so thankful for your knowledge and your kindness.
Thank you and I hope I am making a positive difference in the world
@@WendyGilker you absolutely are. 100%. No one could watch your videos and not see the total, utter love and dedication you had to your child. She mattered and you do too. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for putting yourself out there because I know people can be awful. We see you and adore you.
@@CCBeanzzz Thank you for the very kind words, I appreciate them. Thank you and God Bless you
Thank you for sharing your life and your daughters life with us. You are a special woman. I too am a special needs mom, going on 20 years. My son was born a micro preemie weighing 1 pound. He has Cerebral palsy, epilepsy, blind, and wheelchair bound. He is 100% care. He recently had surgery to have a Gtube placed and that took me 19 years to decide. It was the best thing I ever did. He is my special boy and I dont know what I would do if he wasnt here. I am a caretaker, mom of 3 boys, and a wife. That's all I've ever known. But it's the best job in the entire world. I would love to purchase your cookbook on Amazon. Could you tell me the name of it. I dont have pay pal.
Yes, Bree's Way Cookbook and thank you for sharing your story with me. God Bless Always.
So sorry to hear about Bree, you done a great job looking after her!
This is Rafa from Brazil, I am in Rio de Janeiro and I also live in the north of Germany, I just want to tell you that you are A FANTASTIC PERSON, thank you for being part of this World, thank you for the great heart you have. People really need such a wonderful human being you are! I am a tour guide either in South America or Europe. I just need to make sure that you have a Brazilian Friend! LOTS OF LOVE TO YOU!
Would love to see a demo of the heavy metal detox smoothie! I am so interested in learning more about this. Thank you so much, so happy to see you Wendy, lots of love to you.
Hi Wendy, I saw your video about your beautiful Bree and I truly admired your perseverance to maintain a natural and healthy life with and for her. I strive to do the same for my daughter who although she isn't disabled, she does have a mutation that requires me to watch what she eats and how toxins enter her body. I hope you're in a better place in your life now because you truly deserve it. I can see the love you have for Bree and it takes a beautiful soul to have that. Have you ever considered taking the knowledge of your natural living and writing a book? When you mentioned alzheimers and mercury toxicity, as well as your other videos I've seen, it all has aligned with my beliefs and I'd love to find out more. I feel like I can never research enough. Anyway please take care of yourself and continue to let us know how you're doing. ❤️
Thanks Wendy for letting us share your life!! Your daughter Bree loved you so much, and still does!!
I’m sorry for your dog and I’m sorry about Bree rip to the both of them🙏🏻 Bree was such a Little precious angel👼🏼💫
So glad to hear an update on you I think about you often especially when I see the videos of bree before she died. So glad that you got somebody to help out because you are definitely a giver when I look at your videos I wonder what I'd be able to do that if my child was like that I mean yeah I know I'd love them but you are such a awesome wonderful woman keep in touch we love hearing about you and hope your life is happy!!!!
Thank you Debby, I keep posting info when I get help from a young college student. I am always learning and whatever info I can share that will make someone's else's journey easier then it is all worth it and it carries on Bree's legacy as she continues to be my motivation. I do get challenged by the trolls though. It is hard to understand how they can be so mean.
May she Rip and blessings be to you for your loving heart
I some how stumbled across the video you showing Brees' daily daytime routine. Then I wanted to see more. I was a live in caregiver for my father for 7 yrears before he passed of Alzheimers. For the last 4 years of his life he was non verbal, bed ridden with a feeding tube and his legs were locked in the fetal position 24 7 so he constantly had to be rotated. He passed 4/23/18 so since then I'm a caregiver in group homes for the mentally disabled so I can somewhat relate to the time and energy of caring for loved ones and or consumers. I just paused the video to comment when I heard you say Bree passed. I am so sorry. Just by you're videos it just shows how much love and dedication you had to you're beautiful daughter. God bless you in all you do.
I'm so sorry to hear the passing of Bree! 💖Wendy you are such an inspiration and best example for mothers around the world! I am watching this December 2020 but from this day forward I am wishing you Beautiful Blessings each and every 🌺 Mother's day!! Your love and devotion for your Beautiful daughter Bree has touched my soul! Thank you for creating your channel, new subscriber!👍 Sending you Love & Light and Abundance for a Beautiful future ahead for you!
Thank you for sharing Bree's Legacy and Youself!🙏🌿💚🌿
I always come back to check on you♥️ god bless you. You are someone I hope and wish to meet someday.
I live in NH. :) i am on long term care to help cause i am sick. I live on the seacoast. It is nice. I make dolls.
I would love to learn how to make dolls . I am homebound too.
I love New Hampshire! I'm in Cali but my Dad is in Center Harbor 💓 hope you're feeling better
I'm looking forward to the release of your children's book!
So am i !. Im very excited.
You have no idea how much your love for Bree, your books, and the sharing of your knowledge has helped us. Please know that anytime you wonder if anyone cares - we care and appreciate you immensely.
Your quite a magical person , Bree had her angel on earth for sure , keep doing what you do , thanks .
I love your TH-cam channel Wendy! Keep up the amazing work and enjoy your trip to Ecuador!
thank you and I am so looking forward to it and spending quality time with my brother.
Wendy Gilker Thank you for making these really good videos. You’re awesome!!
Your beloved daughter had a wonderful life thanks to you, even if she couldn't tell you. Hugs to you and everyone else who loved her.
Thank you for putting yourself out there.... your a strong person I love your energy
You were in my thoughts many times. Thank you for all your videos and sharing your experiences. Your work is not done, continue to help others in small ways. You will be and are blessed. Hugs and love to you...
I’m so sorry for your loss. Bree is watching over you every day and god is taking care of her. You are an amazing person with the kindest heart. You’re the reason I still have faith in humanity.❤️❤️❤️
You are such a wonderful and inspirational person. I definitely look up to you. Life can be hard, but pushing through with a positive attitude is the best way to live through any hardship. I am battling stage 4 breast cancer for the 2nd time and I amaze my doctors with a good attitude. I think it’s part of my physical healing process. You really shine with passion, insight and love. You really do. Bree was amazing blessed to have you as her mommy.
Many blessings to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
seeing you has given me strength. I cry so much I'm a new mom and my child was diagnosed with autism. it has stolen my joy. I feel like I caused this for her and I feel terrible. she isnt severe but.ugh. you are the best mom. you have helped a lot of people
Dear k. m.u, I know this feeling, & it's a natural reaction to such a diagnosis. I have 2 beloved grandsons, teenaged brothers, on the Autism spectrum, & in spite of the challenges their syndrome presents, they are each such wonderful gifts from God... we are always learning, always growing in strength &
resourcefulness, & the unexpected joys that come when you're not looking for them--the ups & the downs & the middles--every bit of it is well worth all efforts. Please know that you are not alone; you were not the cause of your precious child's autism; the strength, the healing, & the abilities you need will come, in time; & that there are some great sources of support, such as Autism Speaks, & Special Olympics (a big help to my daughter & me!!!), etc., where you will meet caring, knowledgeable, compassionate, & non-judgemental people who have grown to meet the challenges with so much love that they are blessings to their kids & ours... I know that you will be able to rise and shine for your dear child, & that the difficulties will be offset by the great joy & unconditional love you two will share, as time goes by. Thanks for sharing---I know that it's hard to see the positives now, but things will work out.
Prayers & love, & all good things, to you both--GOD BLESS!!!💙🙏💓🤟🏽💚
@@elizabethsnyder_baldonado39 thank you. it so hard. I cant stop crying and just scared for the future
@@selahmami Every autism-spectrum diagnosis comes as a shock... but the strength comes, too.
Accept that you DO have this strength, no matter how deep you have to dig to find it...
when your initial panic subsides (--& we PROMISE that it will!!!), determination, dedication, & HOPE will follow. My dear grandsons are 13 mos. apart--it's a difficult-enough thing to face regarding 1 child; when they were both diagnosed at 4 yrs. & almost 3 yrs, it hit us both like we were being struck repeatedly, by the same bolt. Panic, tears, denial, & prayers ensued.
Mostly panic. We both went bouncing back and forth with all these emotions, MOSTLY PANIC!!! for her boys' *ASSUMED!!!*
future difficulties--
their pediatrician had told us that these fear-born assumptions weren't real, especially since the presentation of autism-spectrum disorders is variable. No 2 kids are the same, but each one is reachable--eventually.
It takes work to find each child's strengths & interests, but the rewards are the greatest!!! My older grandson makes grades on his written tests that are mostly above average for his grade level--he's a high school junior--but testers MUST give him more time than his non-autistic classmates, & show patience by example, when he gets frustrated. He has also had part-time jobs as a kitchen worker/server within the school system, earning both a small income & valuable experience for the
future. His bosses have all spoken highly of his abilities.
His younger brother, who is more severely affected, loves architecture & trains.
Trains, TRAins, & TRAINS!!!!! in that order. He, too, is passing his tests, but he has more difficulties with communication, & the repetitive motions that many kids on the spectrum manifest, can be a distraction... but we're encouraged by his progress. These young folks do tend to be socially- impaired, but it's all a part of the process. We've found that the more parents/caregivers/teachers try to direct our boys, or express impatience with their work, the more they struggle with everything. Patience is the key to unlock their unique abilities,
as hard as that patience comes... but the rewards will most
certainly come with the challenges...as you will learn, as your dear little one grows in every way.
Wow... I didn't mean to tap a whole book here!!! Once "Gramma Bear" gets started... just to sum up the rambling here, I can truly say that the journey has been a reward in itself, for my daughter, for me,
& for our good-hearted boys, for their 20-yr-old sister, & for the folks who know & love them.
Just a footnote here--
please be aware that there are a lot of people, on the Internet & otherwise, trumpeting their own "magical miracle remedies" as genuine "cures"' for this currently-INCURABLE!!! condition. They are greedy, self-worshipping, callous & HEARTLESS
people, just looking to enrich themselves at the expense of agonized families desperately trying to perfect the perceived
"imperfections" of their innocent children. These "cures" don't t work--&
some of them amount to TORTURE... bleach enemas, for just one of the horrific & highly-TOXIC examples!!! &, also, you will see & hear--
24/7!!! the ignorant & very vocal anti-vaxx movement pushers, desperately seeking attention/social status/money from us. Don't pay them any mind. As a military veteran who was a medical professional/ pediatric assistant, on a base with several thousand Marines & their families, I must've administered a few billion vaccinations to kids (number enhanced for dramatic effect), w/o
even ONE case of this feverishly- claimed "vaccine-related autism"...or any of the other allegedly vaccine-caused health horrors!!! Trust in God, & in your doctors' judgement; & especially in your own instincts, & in the boundless love you have for your little one, who will love you back, even if it's not expressed in words.
May Creator surround you all with His unfailing protection & grace, & guide you through every test & difficulty you encounter on your shared journey. Stay safe, & NEVER GIVE UP. Prayers ascending, always!!!
thank you. it's so hard. I went from being excited about her academics, driving,marriage ,kids to well I don't know now..and jts scary! I just want her to be happ, fulfilled and be able to have relationships and be free of her parents as an adult. its just painful!! I pray everyday that my fears are irrational. I always wanted to have 3 kids but now am afraid to do another. me and my husband just dream of her turning her words to conversation. its so painful going out and she doesnt respond to peope
@@selahmami Yep, I know. We've gone through the scary, the insecure, the self-doubting, the worries for their future (ESPECIALLY!!!), & every other possibility--real or imagined--that occurs to us. We found that the more we can do to stay focused on the here, the now, & the immediate efforts
to put our next foot forward to address immediate concerns, the better we're able to manage the whole
thing w/o becoming overwhelmed. I found that it's easier for me to manage if I use a journal. I write down the negatives, as well as the positives, so that I'll have a record that I can look back on of my thoughts, feelings, & frustrations. This has helped me fight off the crap that sneaks up behind me when I'm so tired that I could easily sleep for a few years... seeing the better decisions I've made is really helpful to beat back all the self-doubt, among other things.
Taking that next step forward comes much easier then.
Sometimes it's hard to keep from crumbling, but crumbling is OK too, as long as it's temporary. Then you pick yourself up, dust yourself off, & start again.
Hope this has been some small help, dear. Stay positive.
🤗
I am sorry for your loss my prayers and condolences are with you you have taken care of your daughter all her life and she will always be there watching over you and she will take care of you you deserve it
I am so grateful to you Wendy! I hope you know how much your channel has meant to me and my severly disabled son. My son is on plant based as well, and he has seizure disorder, and he is down to 5 seizures a week, instead of 3 or 4 seizures a day. Thank you for your knowledge. ❤❤❤
You’re such a beautiful person and inspirational, it’s sad to hear you were so affected by arbitrary attack of words from the uncompassionates. Please know you have so much love around you and your radiance much admired. So happy to hear you have a plan for a much deserved vacation. Please keep your youtube fans updated on your journey. Wish you much happiness and blessing. You deserve the best
I am SO happy for you that your brother is taking you to Ecuador! You need--and well deserve--a wonderful vacation and a break. I hope you have an absolute blast and say hi to the Galapagos turtles for me.....and eat some good food and have some great wine, too.
I love you, thank you for sharing your knowledge with us 💚 you have such an unbelievable calming sense to you. It feels like listening to a friend when you speak. Hugs and prayers
Thank you. I am just like everyone else with stress and concerns yet I have to meditate twice a day, eat plant based and walk to keep calm and centered. One day at a time. I appreciate your feedback. So sorry it has been so long - covid did a number for connecting on TH-cam and I have moved 10 times in 4 years.
You are a beautiful soul, thank you for being real Wendy and so open. You have so much wisdom to share 😘
I was born in New Hampshire! I am so sorry Bri passed!
Wishing you the best Wendy, I think you are amazing, sending my love from the UK xx
I wish you all the very best, you're a lovely lady. Noone could have done more for your lovely daughter, than you xx
Thank you so much for your honesty and willingness to share your life on this channel and I want you to know that you have made a difference in my life, my little nephew was born with wolf-hirschorn and that’s how I found your channel, I purchased your book on Amazon and have found all your advice extremely helpful. I hope you have a great time in Ecuador, I actually grew up there it’s a beautiful country :) God bless you
Thank you for sharing with me and it means so much to heard that my sharing has helped as that is why I keep doing it. I had to do everything alone as there was no internet when I started and if my sharing helps make the journey easier for another person, that is my purpose now, thank you and God Bless
I love you Wendy. You are such an inspiration. Thank you for sharing yourself.... Much love
So sorry to hear of Bree's passing!
hi. i want to ask you few questions.
1. did you jalous your friend ,and other people that have healthy children? and they will have grandchildren?
2.how did you developed so much patients to do the same every day? what kept you alive so many years of such hard work?
3. can you say how bree changed your life? what did you found out about yourself that you didnt know before?
You are a very special person and mother, keep doing what you’re going, helping people who need help is a gift from God.
Happy to hear you are doing well and settled once again. Wishing you a wonderful time on your upcoming trip to Ecuador.
Thank you
Im sorry for loss of your lovely daughter, sending love to you all ❤
I love how positive you are, the world needs more people like you. I'm so happy for Bree that she got to have you as an amazing mum. You can tell by watching videos just how much you love her ❤️
Sending love from England
Xx
Stay strong! You are an amazing person!
praying for your strength ❤️ a mother’s love is indescribable. you are amazing.
Sorry for your loss. Bree was so awesome! She still loves you so much!
my heartfelt condolences and prayers wendy the last video i watched had the comments turned off i have a special needs grandchild
God bless you in all your endeavors, Ms. Wendy. The times you lovingly and dutifully shared with your daughter Bree is thw most beautiful definition of motherhood. I salute you❤🖒🖒
I was very blessed to get to be her mom. Thank you for your kind words.
Wendy Gilker yw Ma’m...
Sending you love, support and love from DC ❤️
I felt so bad when your voice cracked….my son is autistic, he is my absolute world, I love him beyond anything…if anything ever happened to him I would have a hard time continuing.
I'm happy Bree brought me to you ❤
I watch your video of brees story. It gives me motivation to be a better mother! You are such an amazing mama!
My heart is with you. I’m so so deeply sorry.
So glad you’re natural and woke to the corrupt medical system!
Vaccines are poison!
You are so truly strong!
Also sorry you lost your elderly friend!
You are amazing Wendy. I admire you so much. You are right about the trolls and all of their hate is really stemming from hating themselves. You are a powerful person and have persevered through so much. You and Bree were a beautiful duo. We care about you Wendy. Thank you for sharing your videos.
Hey! you prob dont remember me, but i emailed you a few years ago to start the go fund me, my dad before he died, and his whole life was disabled and a disabled advocate, and I want to continue you that,
but equally importantly is the mental health of caregivers, so good to hear from you
Just found you tonight. Binge watched your videos.. you are beautiful...and you know it. Just like Bree. Much love!
Im so glad you are doing well Ms. Wendy. Such a beautiful soul
Thank you
You’re in incredible woman. I am in awe of you.
I’m so glad that you are well, Wendy. You seem very peaceful.
Thank you for sharing your remarkable story! You are an absolutely amazing and strong woman - I wish you all the best - strength , health, love and laughter - on your path
Um so darn happy to see you wendy ..im glad to hear you talk ..i loved the videos with bree ..ive always loved her hair ..im so thankful to watch such a beautiful soul as you on utube ..im so grateful for you ..i believe bree has a hand in your little miricles ..love your friend Helen
I'm so sorry for your loss🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hi there I can relate to your situation because I’m also a mother like you who is taking care a handicapped son he is now 10 years old and I know how hard it is to take care children like them but as a mother I’m doing the best as I can for him God bless you and I want you to know that you inspire me so much.
Love you Wendy wishing you light and love
So sorry for Bree’s passing. And I’m sorry about the trolls. Some people are just disgusting. Prayers for strength and to have a safe trip. 💙
I really believe that you have helped, inspired many parents who has a child or children of different disabilities.....that was God's purpose for you.
I’m so sorry miss Wendy Bree was a beautiful girl your did and awesome job
You are the best most loving mother I've ever seen, how lucky your beautiful daughter was to have you! Thank you for sharing your life and incredible healthy living ideas and recipes. God bless you I am so sorry for your loss. Godspeed till you meet again- Pam
I love u and ur daughter so much I saw the first video of yours and her when it came out I was probably 8 or 9 at the time and I feel in love with her today I saw she passed and I’m so sorry for your loss u are such a strong woman u are such an inspiration to me stay strong❤️
Im so sorry too hear about bree..
Love and light to you Wendy.
I just want to say you are such a strong and inspiring person. Your daughter was beautiful and touched the world in so many ways, and she couldn't have done it without your amazing parenting and caring.
I am so sorry for you losing Bree. I could say so many words, but I don't thing they will change anything. I can say that watching you with Bree made me see what real love is. I hope you don't feel lost but I understand if you do. I can only say that you made me a better person. I hope someday I will be a 10th of the person you are. You are amazing.
Thank you, Bree was such a blessing and she made me a better person. I am still feeling lost as the absence of such a great soul in one's life leaves a huge gape yet I move forward honoring her by sharing with others. I have moved 9 times since Bree is passed since she was my home base. Yet all is well and I receive signs all the time of her presence.