No lie fellas, I woke up one day at 28 yrs old with a realization that I was a fucking bum. I had a shitty job at a call center I hated paying me next to nothing and I lived with my mom. So I got fed up and started completely over by moving out of my moms house to another state and that also go me away from my fucked up circle in my hometown. Got a job fixing cell phones for a little over minimum wage, while I started learning design and that has culminated to now I’m a couple months from 35 I have a job as a graphic designer making 60k about to move into front end dev. I don’t have kids or serious debt and while I’m not completely in shape I’m working on that part, so fellas don’t beat yourself up if you fuck up in your twenties. Remember, you can get back on track you just have to work extra hard and DO NOT QUIT ON YOURSELF!
You have to spend a few years of Hardships to later have a great and prosperous life, that's the simple general rule. A few years of struggle could give you a whole lifetime of rising and prosperity too.
Wrong, not everyone will look at your degree and have a soft spot for your ass. I worked 3 years at one company during college part-time. Then I quit to finish my last year of college (I got screwed twice in the third year by greedy teachers and then covidbug), This year I tried to go back in March, when I got to the recruiting firm I met a 50-year old cocky dude that acted like a high school retarded kid, in his 50s. When we got to the interview his first two questions were "What high school did you finish" and "What college did you finish", when he learned that I have them both, except college, I am only done with the years, he threw in my face my psychological test and used my mistakes as an excuse to not hire me, while he and his mistress desk nutjob completed the same test for people that could not even read or write in the first place just to pass them.
Another issue I have with your video is older women, AVOID THAT PLAGUE, OLDER WOMEN ARE TRAIN RECKS THAT HAVE MILES AND MILES AND MILES AND MILES OF "TREES" BETWEEN THEIR LEGS, by the time women get about 25, 26 and there is no man in the background, guess what, you are Mr. good enough for marriage, while Mr. Chad, 6 feet+ had everything for free, when that p3ssy was young and fresh, you get the old p3ssy, that everyone had for free. If she is older than 22, 23, MOVE ON, UNLESS SHE IS A VIRGIN.
thank you Denmo, You are the Real Alpha Male of our Species, for making this video , i am now exactly 30 years now, and beautiful things are happening with me nowadays, thanks for this Great Great content bro, God bless you king .
I'm after 30 and it's not going down hill . I did all the stupid stuff early in life . Now I know better and am taking better care of myself better then I ever have before . Eating healthy, working out, taking supplements and I'm going to college for my dream job .
About to hit my 30s…I’m 29.. In my 20s I’ve experienced the Military, Marriage, Divorce, becoming a Father, financially Broke, Couch Surfing, eating disorders, depression, anxiety, anger, the Law, Mother Passed away, more Depression and Much more.. So much reflection has Happened for myself the Past year, and now Made the first steps towards The Right Direction. To be Honest it’s never too late to start your journey, I just want to Be happy for myself and Show my kids the right healthy Habits and model of a Father. It all starts with you. Wish everyone the best and Nothing but Success and Happiness.
For what it's worth, I am 39 and have essentially done it backwards. I was married and responsible in my 20s, but now having finally found my feet and stoked up my confidence to the highest it's ever been, things are happening for me. I'm able to attract women, I have a job I like and I look at everything in my life differently. Make it count guys.
@protoknightsmusicarchives3232 It's never too late brother. I thought I'd be alone for the rest of my life after my divorce, but I've lost a lot of weight and turned the ship around.
@@protoknightsmusicarchives3232once I met a taxi driver. He looked like he's 45 but he was 65 and after divorce he lost weight, started to hang out with 20 year old girls so he's winging it. I'm in my early 20s got no girlfriend but I was able to find girls I can talk to, and I think I'll have a girlfriend in no time
More than 3years ago I asked my auntie for life advice. Sat down and learnt everything I could about daily self sufficiency, registered a small business and moved out. 400km out in the alpine ranges I have built a great life, found clients who highly value my work ethic and skills. Flying a clients vintage plane on the fly back home was a huge highlight for me. 3 years of backbreaking effort. I'd do it all over again with a smile. Learn, grow, evolve, thrive my bro's 👊♥️
Dude, just wow. This was so insane to read. It's so powerful to see how well things can do when we take charge of our lives and really do the work. Honestly, this is why I read these comment sections tbh. Because reading this kind of triumph keeps me so motivated to continue to create my own content and I just feel fired up. Amazing job dude and keep going! Made my day.
Excellent video. I’m currently 27, my ex broke up with me at 25, it made me re-examine my whole life. She used to say that if I had been 3 or 4 years older I would’ve been the perfect mate. My 25 year old self had a lot of thing to figure out, a lot of insecurities, a lot confidence issues. Funny thing is, now that I’m 27 and have worked hard on myself, have gained a little bit of momentum, I’m confident I would never take that girl back as my partner. I’m on the grind mindset right now and not because I want to be more attractive to girls in my 30s (although they will be), I’m doing this for myself, I’m doing what I actually like and I can already envision a future full of light for me, whatever that future may be. I put my full thrust in God and whatever the future holds for me will be good.
@@TheMathias95 I was an atheist. For 10 years. I have found light and you laugh, says a lot. I’m happy being porn free, I’m happy and confident being myself thrusting in God. Friends, family and people around me see me differently. You won’t understand until you let yourself be free of arrogance, when you humble yourself to the fact that you are nothing but mere dust in the face of everything. Are you smarter than Newton, Johann Sebastian Bach, Kepler, Mozart, Ramanujan, the Muslims scientists of the golden era, amongst many other geniuses of humanity that have professed faith in God? Were they delusional? You are not only laughing at me but you are also laughing at the face of all those geniuses.
This man is speaking truth! Listen to him all young men, he describes my exact scenario. I’m 29, getting attention and pick of the litter is easier now than ever. I build up a strong net worth, am fit, built up a strong style and my personality and cut toxic family and friends. I have peace and time to continually build up my life. There is definitely a light at the end of the tunnel. Stay strong 💪, the luck for you guys is between this man and other TH-cam influencers is some are giving you the best possible advice.
I'm 35. Trust me you'll want to do the work in your 20s because you don't want to be my age and feel like you're catching up. I spent most of my 20s trying to get a job and be successful but my main problem was my useless major in college that fucked me over. If you're 18-25 and in college I give you this advice - if it's not a major in business, nursing, medicine, or something that has a direct use outside of college DO NOT TAKE THAT MAJOR. Every English, history, cultural studies major is useless in the real world by itself. If you took a language like French okay you can have some use from it but you need to add a business minor or something because the language itself won't be enough. Do not be like me at 35 struggling to get a job that fit my disability especially with a useless degree like mine. Don't choose easy in college. Only go into law if you have a good job lined up for you after law school. It's fine to read Aristotle for fun but in the real world no one cares about it.
Not entirely true. If you go to a school with a lot of pedigree or even a top 100 college, you can work in any industry. I’ve spoken to many partners and managing directors who work in finance, tech, law, and consulting and they all studied liberal arts like history, English, art history, philosophy, etc. What you should do is take college seriously and get relevant internships instead of scooping ice cream and lifeguarding in the summer
The guy didnt had internet and acesss to knowledge like we have these days. I dropped out of college cause it was useless and never worked a job. I am doing great in life
u talk trasg mate , its all about doing what u love, even as a bartender u can earn good money, u just sounds like the rest of these bluepill people who follow system and killed own dreams lmao. dont listen to this dude guys, since when its worth to study something u doesnt like? just to end up like a souless machine. i feel sorry for you :)
studies are also for havin experience with others, to have best memories of your life full of love and student night life, you live you learn. no matter what u are learning, as long as you are discovering yourself :),
Do you actually think that completing a business degree will secure you a job to be the manager of al large corporation? Sounds like BS. I would rephrase and say major in STEM
If youre older than 20-30 and you aren't in "pre-season", remember that there is no inherent obligation to be tied to a random, made up timeline. Come up with an achievable goal, work it at your pace. When you get there, you get there, don't neglect your social wellbeing along the way.
I think this is the hardest to break, To come up with a goal and work at it at YOUR pace. Not your families pace, not your neighbors pace, not your friends pace, YOUR pace. For me it was learning new skills, I'd often rush to get to the next chapter without completley understanding the previous one and wonder why I was failing. Now I take my time on skills and problems alike.
Nice thing about being a man is that your back is always against the wall, forcing you to become the best version of yourself. It’s optional for women, it’s required for men
I’m 28 coming up on 29 freaking out because I didn’t think I’d make it this far. I was so careless, aimless, and reckless and I reallllly wish I could go back and slap myself and make better decisions BUT I know more now than I did then and I can start my new chapter Let’s do this. We can turn this around. Come back stronger, smarter, better
Here is the GOOD NEWS that you probably wanted when you clicked this video: For women, life starts at 18. HOWEVER, for men, life starts at 30. there is no "rebuild" your life at 30, there is just "build." At 30, men are finally in a position in life where they have enough maturity and life lessons that they can begin to control more leverage in their lives. If you: - Create effort based goals - Keep you mindset in check (meditation, stoicism, keep good influences around you both in reality and digitally) - Ditch bad habits (Porn, weed, loser friends, etc.) Results are inevitable, my dude Keep going!
This is such a great take. We need to cherish the opportunity to sharpen ourselves in our 20s, because we need some time for the physiology to settle and to gain perspective for the REAL prosperity in our 30s.
Below is a summary of the four seasons of every man’s life. What season are you in? What season are the men around you in? How can you help them live into the fullness of that season? Spring Season | Age 0-20 Theme: IDENTITY The key to this stage is transitioning to adulthood well The key questions of this stage: Who am I? What are my talents? Who am I not? What are my limitations? Summer Season | Age 20-40 Themes: LEARNING & GROWING The key to this stage is perfecting your skill set and distinguishing your expertise in some area of life that contributes to the good of society. Key questions for your 20’s: What do I want out of life? Where will I distinguish myself professionally? How am I different from my parents? What do I really believe? Around what person or conviction will I organize my life? Key questions for your 30s How do I prioritize the demands made on my life? Have I allowed enough time for a vibrant spiritual life and authentic relationships? Fall Season | Age 40-60 Theme: INFLUENCE Key questions for this stage: Have I achieved everything I wanted? Do I have dreams that are unfulfilled? Can my mistakes be redeemed? Are my accomplishments fulfilling? The major danger of this season mid-life crisis: an escape to numb the pain of past sin/failures or futile attempts to relive the past. Winter Season | Age 60 + Theme: INVESTMENT Those who have lived the seasons of manhood well are now marked by composure, maturity, and insight. Young men don’t see you as competition, but as a champion - which gives you tremendous access to mentor and invest in the next generation. The greatest danger of this season is for a man to buy the lie that he can no longer contribute. The major opportunity of this season is to take advantage of your flexibility and to be a blessing to those around you.
This hit hard. I'm 28 now. I started youtube 2-3 years ago and after only doing it for a short while I gave up thinking it's not for me. I didn't know anything about cameras and videos and editing and all that. But the passion for it really never went away. I always viewed myself as an artisitic person and 'creating' things always filled me with so much joy. I was working a full time job for a long time, and the whole time, doing videos and doing youtube has always been at the back of my mind. I lost my job a couple weeks ago and honestly I was devastated. I decided I want to pursue youtube with filmmaking in mind. Man I feel stupid just fucking typing this all out. I'm scared and I'm anxious not knowing where the hell I'll up in a few years. But here I am, trying to be optimistic that maybe one day I'll get to where I want to be in this field. Jesus Christ I can't emphasize enough how anxious I am that I'm doing this with empty pockets and basically just a bag filled with hopes and dreams. Sometimes I think that maybe I joined the game way too late and that maybe I'm a little too old for this. I've been depressed for a long time and I felt empty and on autopilot doing things in which I thought I'd be happy. I'm constantly hyping myself and saying all these positive things to overcome the anxiety and fear of me doing this which seems like an impossible thing to do. Fuck it man. I'm going for it.
I get you, I’m 27 and sometimes I feel I’m too late or I’m too old. Dude, we are young, we are in the right time at the right moment. This is the best moment in life to take on opportunities. Pray to God and everything will go good.
23 was the lowest point. Had zero pussy, family conflicts, no money, no meaning. But it's going to get better, especially if you show up and grab the opportunities that present themselves.
I haven’t watched the whole thing but I agree. I’m 32 now and I have a lot of things in order now. The stability and high potential of growth is helping with dating for sure. Was basically invisible in 20s
Hey man, your timing for me is impeccable. I am the guy with the 9 to 5 early on except I'm in the military. I hit my unsatisfied depression last year, and decided to change this year as a result. I have legitimate goals for the first time in my life and a indomitable will to make it happen. I've struggled to become better and refuse to back down again. I'm 24 and decided to talk to this chick in the bouldering gym that ive been seeing there and hit it off quite well. Just saw your video about dating girls and it helped me think more strategically to use this opportunity with this girl to jumpstart my productivity. Then use that productivity to jumpstart my relationship life. I'm 24 and my life has just started. You are simply validating my own thoughts and actions in a healthy way so i thank you for that.
First and foremost, thank you for your service and dedication. It's truly commendable to see someone like you, especially in the military, taking charge of their life and making positive changes. Remember this: While many believe life starts early, for individuals like you, the real journey begins now. At 24, you're at the perfect age where you've garnered enough experiences and lessons to truly shape your path ahead. If you: • Set tangible and effort-based goals • Maintain a strong and positive mindset (through practices like meditation, embracing stoicism, and surrounding yourself with uplifting influences both in person and online) • Let go of any detrimental habits or influences Success is not just a possibility; it's a guarantee. Stay determined and keep pushing forward! Your best days are yet to come.
It's good to hear someone I share opinions with. Also I would add that every age has its own beauty. I am becoming 24 in a month, feeling ashamed when I take a rest (not in the toxic way). Constantly thinking about what business to start, what stocks to buy, which country to settle in. All this after my shift as a full-time software engineer had ended and my gym session had been done. I am curious what it feels like to be noticed but also love my current life bouncing back from girls but still keeping my head up. Cheers everyone!
I'm in the same boat. Software engineer turning 24 Sept 1st. Wonderin if I should sell my stocks incase the market crashes cause of the rising cost of debt. Still haven't gotten into the gym but I know I should. The question I ask myself is how much money and strength do I need to deserve love and its so fxcked. I don't want to approach girls and tell them I have 100k. I don't want the things I have to govern how I'm treated... And generally I'm treated like shit by women
I'm 23 and this video really helps me a lot. It gives me a reality check. I do have a job, thank God. I'm saving cash too, all I'll do is maintain my momentum, and ensure no obstacle overcomes me. This video serves as a daily reminder for me to work even harder. Thank you so so much brother, and all the best in your current and future endeavours
22 here same man, sometimes I tell myself that I should relax I have time, but in the other hand I fully know that I have the do work. The problem for me is addicting things like social medias, video games that fck me up periodically while I want to just study after work 🥲
I’m 34 and this feels quite true. Thanks to hard work n good saving habits from my 20s I have a comfortable buffer to do whatever I want on weekends and have my summer holidays filled with dates.
I had pretty much the same mentality like you when i was at my first job. I was like 19 and after like 6 months of working there i felt so behind and deppresed and lost. I tried find something meaningfull to me. Multiple jobs, and hobbies, i tried coding, writing, photo editing etc. I failed at everything. Now im 24 and i think I finally found my passion in video editing. Grinding every day for 5-10 hours, i really hope i can finally make something out of it
@@gameacc6079 nah ai can replace everyone in art industry but it dosnt know how to be original, art is all about emotions and ai dosnt know how to work with that. Imagine ai creating film would u watch it ? No because we watch movies becasue of emotions
F*ck yeah, Sammy!! Your journey is a testament to resilience and the power of perseverance. It's commendable how you've navigated through challenges to find your true calling. Remember: Every experience, every trial, and every failure is a stepping stone towards finding your true passion and purpose. If you: • Continue to pour your heart and soul into video editing • Embrace the lessons from your past endeavors • Stay committed to your growth and development in this newfound passion Then success isn't just a possibility; it's on the horizon. It's never about how many times we fall, but how many times we rise, stronger and more determined. Your dedication to grinding every day is the fuel that will drive your success in video editing. Believe in yourself and your journey. You're on the path to greatness, and your story will inspire many. Keep pushing forward bro
Great timing for this vid. Realizing I’m right on time. Breakthrough after breakthrough recently. I’m 26. I learned to get girls first because I thought that would make me happy but I realized having game is a lie when you don’t have a congruent life style to back up your “substance”. Was trying to feel better and stay distracted without realizing it. Stopped dating. Chose to be celibate for a year- (still goin) to focus on my business and building my current skill set. I am beginning to maintain a consistent level of focus and manage my energy effectively so I can hone in on my goals every day. It’s coming together- faster than ever. Made more progress in 4 months than I did the last 2 years. Grateful
I am approaching 30, gf left, I am homeless and jobless... I'm leaving this comment here so in 5 years I can see how much I levelled the fk up.... Hello future me glad you made it
true about dating. i realized this at 23 and started to take dating less seriously. of course get your reps in on dates and learn how to act, communicate, relationship dynamics, etc. but don't be surprised if she leaves you for a guy 4-5 years older. Just get better. but don't fall for the chicks that reach the epiphany stage at 30 after getting ran through in their 20s. find those mid 20s good women, theyre out there. and if you can't find them, reevaluate where youre looking (not bars, dating apps, etc.)
I feel this. I turned 25 this year and I can resonate a lot with this video. Funnily enough I do sales and marketing at a car dealership. To be fair to myself it’s all brand new luxury and exotic cars so it feels a bit more high class. I ended up dropping out of business school to work. I realized I was learning little to nothing about business there. I learn way more about success from my managers and owners of the dealership I work at. All of them in thier 30’s and making 6-7 figure incomes. But I do realize now that I’m 25 I’m just starting to master my skill of talking and sales. I get bigger projects are work and I work longer hours, than being said I’m obviously compensated with higher income, right around where you said most people here are ($70,000). I recently started to study stoicism so I can better improve myself for success and live up to my potential. I am now realize a lot of things you are saying in this video. Letting old friend go who are on the same trajectory as myself. I’m trying to learn from people a bit older and a bit wiser than myself. I have these thoughts but have never been able to really put them into words. I feel this video you very accurately described what a lot of people are going through.
I do not pray for a lighter load but for a stronger back. 100% bro. I agree with this so much, I might just need to make a whole video on this topic tbh
You know what, this video made me feel better about myself, i realized im very lucky to be doing some of the things men usually do in their late 20s / early 30s. At the age of 22.
Totally love this dude. Been preaching this myself. Guys really need this advice, it’s unfortunate most of us don’t get to hear this until we’re older. I’m a filmmaker and taking that route didn’t seem like a reasonable option until a couple of years in.
I’m 30 and dropped out of College years ago because I didn’t feel like I had it together. I wanna finish so hopefully my 30’s is nothing like my depressed 20’s. I think part time work might help me also
hahah I love this bro, I actually was so depressed during my early 20s and absolutely terrible with women but somehow met the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with at 26/27, just as I had just started to peak. Its so funny how life works but this was super relatable. Just turned 30 a few days ago and I feel like my life is just starting. There's so much to look forward to everyday!
im 19, im at my peak in my physique and playing football everyday and i love it but i feel like everyone i know is judging me exept my mom. im just gonna keep grinding and hope it pays off one day...
My life changed at 22, I had head injury🎉 my life changed. 2 years lost. I recovered ❤ now I feel so excited for my 30's, I'm 28.5! No women to distract me, my sister's make me wish I were gay 😂(I'm not, I don't want to be gay or a misogynist.) I'm just gonna date younger when I'm older.🎉
Make good choices, avoid costly mistakes like getting trapped, tied down or committed too early. WEAR PROTECTION/ don’t have kids and don’t get married til after 30 lol.
I just wated my 20s, generaly. I have earned Political science degree, but I haven't worked on my profession. I tried programming and marketing but they didn't work for me. Now, at my 32, I decided to make a fresh start in life. I gonna restart my career in political science.
Glad my friends know how to party hard, but work even harder, we’ve been driven for success since highschool. We still hang out on the regular and hold eachother accountable
i am 18 and thank you for changing my mindset.i used to think like i should enjoy my 20s but now i am going learn skills like coding, fashion, music ,learn about stocks and other important skills for life
this videos is really summed up all the things that i need to hear. Honestly i heard this before from selfimprovement channel hearing from you really gives boost to me. im 20 rn and im learning skills to make something out of it. my peers who gone for college that im not (im studying in academy from home) are really stress free. but im stressed about exams and other things to do that makes me happy at my mid or late 20's. Im really gratefull for you guys telling these stuff to young people. love you man
This video is what I needed. I just turned 25 2 weeks ago. I’m about to join the navy because I’ve been so lost the past 6 years. Thank you for making this video
Look man, it's crazy. I'm 24 and right now, I have so much hunger. I have partied from like 16 to my early 20's but in the last couple of years I started hitting the gym hard and have some aspirations. The problem for me is all my friends want to be 9 to 5 workers and I think I need somebody to start this, somebody that's gonna push me as hard as I'm gonna push that person. I really want to start something of my own but I can't find anyone to do it with, which I think it's sad. Why are people so happy with working a 9 to 5? Crazy. This hunger I have is so intense and I would do anything to be sucessful, I just don't know where to start. Anyways, thanks for your help and videos bro.
Lol work a 9-5? But tell those same people you wanna catch a good crypto pump and never work again and just be able to live comfortably, they look at you like their crazy.
@@kevinfortsch Look, I don't think that 9-5 is for dummies. It's useful, even to collect some money. But to see people that don't EVER think of doing anything other than 9-5 really makes me sad. We have so much to offer and to not even try to make it on our own is really sad (my opinion).
This is very profound, I also have the degree and the trade skill. I was incredibly depressed post-grad and going away from the college life to just working. I am blessed to be compensated really well for my age.
It's funny how i had all these questions and kinda have answers but it wasnt clear enough, now you just made everything clear. I aslo think that if everyone would do what they want to do we wouldnt have ppl that work in the sewers and drillers and shit so idk what the future has for us but at least we can turn bad content into content that makes us grow and move forward like this.
I'm from Argentina, 25yo about to be 26 (December 5) and I haven't accomplished anything, I feel so old because I tried 4 different degrees and didn't finished a single one cause it didn't feel like it was my pasion. I don't really have job experience since for the last 5 years I was an e-sports player, so no "real world experience" for me. During my childhood and teen years I had a really abusive mother so I didn't go out or had many friends, now I'm with my sister and planning to go to Europe for a couple of years to work and study but I feel that I will be so shocked and I'll get a BIG reality check on how far behind I am... That thought makes me regret almost every decision I made in the past, it sucks. In the other hand I'm optimistic (but scared) because I'll finally go out there and experience things the way they are meant to be experienced, but well I still feel like I've lost many many years.
I am getting older. I’m about to be 23, still don’t have a degree, still don’t have a good paying job, still don’t have any experience with women. I hope to god I’m happy at 30 because I’m alive and nothing is fucking going my way.
Here's the POSITIVE INSIGHT you were likely seeking when you clicked on this video, Rigo: For women, the journey begins at 18. YET, for men, it commences at 30. At 30, it's not about "restarting" your life; it's about "starting." By this age, men have gained sufficient wisdom and experiences, positioning them to have more influence in their lives. If you: Set goals based on effort Maintain a balanced mindset (through meditation, stoicism, and surrounding yourself with positive influences both offline and online) Let go of harmful habits (like adult content, marijuana, and negative friendships) Success is assured, Rigo. Stay on track, my dude!
Find a drummer, find a bass guitarist, get together with a couple of other mates and start the greatest Punk Rock band ever. That’s my plan in life plan. Until then I’m going to stay a solo artist
That's kind of where I'm at in life. I've been drumming 15+ years and have always been passionate about metal music. The idea of getting to jam around and make music sounds really fulfilling.
Perfect video at the perfect time for me man. Got a good job in sales at a Clinical Research company but man I couldn't care less about it. I'm now starting my own thing here on the web and looking forward to grinding towards something I feel positive about. Dream would be to make enough to quit my day job and buy back a little more time in my week. I'm 26 so you were spot on 😅
Denmo always coming in clutch I'm 19 going to school and have a part time job and I was just thinking how I hate my current position in life but your right bro it's just grinding rn it will pay off
Great advice. You’ll likely have more pitfalls and doubts on the way and careers don’t always go smoothly and relationships obviously are complicated. Stay in shape and take of your appearance so you have a longer window in your 30s and beyond to figure stuff out. I’m 37 and seemingly the older I get the easier it is to date / attract all sorts of women in their 20s.
I'm 18. Seeing people open up about their past mistakes got me thinking. -I get my Sh!t together now ( invest in some future valuable skill sets; work on my character) - by 25 I'm finessing my way through life - by 30 I'm scaling into the multi of millions It's that straight forward... £asier said than done tho... A wise man once told me, If it wasn't for the trough of the wave we would not be able to ID the crest...just sayin
Preseason for career but not in every way.. consider having responsibilities over your actions over other people too. In my late twenties now and realise that after a certain amount and status, people really don’t care. Be a good person during the climb so that people who matter would respect you.
Thank you for this insight Denmo. I’m very grateful that we have you to give us a heads up on life. I’m 22 and I’ve been a stoner/video game nerd all my life and it wasn’t till January of this year I decided enough is enough and got my commercial class a license which I was able to graduate in June. I’m now making 60k a year as a local fuel hauler and I’m very happy at my job. I never went to college or got a degree but I hope to save enough money this year to put a down payment on a property. ❤
facts bro. I’m 31. Also observing younger men and men my age not have enough zeal and fire in their belly to do anything remotely significant. I remind them that we need lofty goals. Purchasing a house is gr8 but tbh it’s low hanging fruit is rather make a dent before I leave this earth. Guys just moan about the cost of living, attend baby showers and weddings, move in w their chicks and just kinda coast throughout their 30s. Unknowingly basking into a life of mediocrity.
Everything good in my life happened after age thirty. More money although I'm not rich, incredible travel, better confidence, way hotter women. Life is just better for men post 30.
well im thinking about that and im 20 yearsold you made me proud me lately i have stressed out because i have been always serious about my life dude thanks for real i will get my shit together and continue working hard 10 years from now i will return to this comment
f*ck yeah brother! This is what I love to see. young men get inspired to take serious beneficial action in their life. Its why I make content tbh. Awesome to see this
I live outside the USA as a Pilot, unlike the USA there is no pilot shortage meaning low pay for pilots. The progression in my career has been heavily indebted from college and flight training only to be in my lates 20s(I'm 29) making roughly $1570/month with no prospects within 10 years to progress due to seniority. I am not sure what I am doing with my life.
I feel like I got the raw end of the stick, I’m 28 and been mostly sick in my 20’s. I was in and out of school, worked on and off. It was literally like going though a secon puberty cause cause I feel Iike these years taught me how to be better a man then how I was in my earlier 20’s Now I’m just looking forward to my 30’s with a better understanding of life and no need to worry about that illness. It feels like a second chance
You are not alone, so many ofcpeople in 20s are hit with chronic illness and their life sre extra hard, behind in life. Myself too, my health conditions took sway my 20s. I am trying mybest to grt back on my feet and face life.
Keeping it simple goes along way. And as a guy who is 6’2, 180 lb, 36, single with no kids, never been married and no debt, ever since I was kid I’ve always known what I wanted in a girl. All she has to be is nice to me. That it. Why? Because life is hard and if I want someone to be on this journey of life with, that person just has to be nice. Being nice has nothing to do with weakness. Because I’m pretty sure we all like going through the good times and bad times in life look for something nice along the way. Until then, I wouldn’t trade my single life for 1,000 dates. That’s how simple it real is.
I always come back to this: “Realize that sleeping on a futon when you're 30 is not the worst thing. You know what's worse, sleeping in a king bed next to a wife you're not really in love with but for some reason you married, and you got a couple kids, and you got a job you hate. You'll be laying there fantasizing about sleeping on a futon. There's no risk when you go after a dream. There's a tremendous amount to risk to playing it safe.” ― Bill Burr
I'm 24, and can't be fucked with school. People asked what I wanted to do and I always said something in the tech industry. Took courses failed the networking test and haven't tried again. I dunno this video was nice but I have no interest in listening to what people/society say. And maybe I am floating waiting for life to drop something in a way but if I want something I get it. Somehow. I've been saving money and stopped investing as much should probably contribute to both more. I burned out within the last year working. I was fired due to racking up occurrences and I was so fucking happy. I could literally go anywhere else. New job and I'm gonna keep saving. And hopefully investing. I try not to take my family for granted we take care of each other. I had tried moving out a couple times and came back both times. Plan on trying again but what can you do except keep moving. No delusions of granduer here guys just a guy living life.
I graduated at the age of 21 and after that for 5 years i worked with my father and ruined my studies but last year i decided that i have to restart my education again if i want my life in order and i started self studying from the school level mathematics, where I'm from you have to qualify entrance exams to get into University and this year i got into decent college(not the top college in my country but okay). My aim is to start my PhD in 2 years but when i looked back all those years when i was not doing anything perticular and depressed the only thing was in my mind that if i keep my patience and be persistent things will change eventually. From this Monday I'm gonna start my new journey and hope everyone who's struggling currently could pass these times and do better in their lives .
No lie fellas, I woke up one day at 28 yrs old with a realization that I was a fucking bum. I had a shitty job at a call center I hated paying me next to nothing and I lived with my mom. So I got fed up and started completely over by moving out of my moms house to another state and that also go me away from my fucked up circle in my hometown. Got a job fixing cell phones for a little over minimum wage, while I started learning design and that has culminated to now I’m a couple months from 35 I have a job as a graphic designer making 60k about to move into front end dev. I don’t have kids or serious debt and while I’m not completely in shape I’m working on that part, so fellas don’t beat yourself up if you fuck up in your twenties. Remember, you can get back on track you just have to work extra hard and DO NOT QUIT ON YOURSELF!
For men- life is a marathon, not a sprint. You got this bro. www.denmo.social/socializer
You have to spend a few years of Hardships to later have a great and prosperous life, that's the simple general rule.
A few years of struggle could give you a whole lifetime of rising and prosperity too.
Your video is the thing that I need now the most
Wrong, not everyone will look at your degree and have a soft spot for your ass. I worked 3 years at one company during college part-time. Then I quit to finish my last year of college (I got screwed twice in the third year by greedy teachers and then covidbug), This year I tried to go back in March, when I got to the recruiting firm I met a 50-year old cocky dude that acted like a high school retarded kid, in his 50s. When we got to the interview his first two questions were "What high school did you finish" and "What college did you finish", when he learned that I have them both, except college, I am only done with the years, he threw in my face my psychological test and used my mistakes as an excuse to not hire me, while he and his mistress desk nutjob completed the same test for people that could not even read or write in the first place just to pass them.
Another issue I have with your video is older women, AVOID THAT PLAGUE, OLDER WOMEN ARE TRAIN RECKS THAT HAVE MILES AND MILES AND MILES AND MILES OF "TREES" BETWEEN THEIR LEGS, by the time women get about 25, 26 and there is no man in the background, guess what, you are Mr. good enough for marriage, while Mr. Chad, 6 feet+ had everything for free, when that p3ssy was young and fresh, you get the old p3ssy, that everyone had for free. If she is older than 22, 23, MOVE ON, UNLESS SHE IS A VIRGIN.
thank you Denmo, You are the Real Alpha Male of our Species, for making this video , i am now exactly 30 years now, and beautiful things are happening with me nowadays, thanks for this Great Great content bro, God bless you king .
I'm after 30 and it's not going down hill . I did all the stupid stuff early in life . Now I know better and am taking better care of myself better then I ever have before . Eating healthy, working out, taking supplements and I'm going to college for my dream job .
Same.
Congrats bro! I'm doing most of that myself minus the college bit. Can I ask what you're going back to school for?
atta boy
Hell yeah
get that shit brother. *hulk hogan voice*
About to hit my 30s…I’m 29..
In my 20s I’ve experienced the Military, Marriage, Divorce, becoming a Father, financially Broke, Couch Surfing, eating disorders, depression, anxiety, anger, the Law, Mother Passed away, more Depression and Much more..
So much reflection has Happened for myself the Past year, and now Made the first steps towards The Right Direction. To be Honest it’s never too late to start your journey, I just want to Be happy for myself and Show my kids the right healthy Habits and model of a Father. It all starts with you. Wish everyone the best and Nothing but Success and Happiness.
Thank you bro.Hope the Lord will be there for you
Damn man. You sure had a lot of hardship. Stay strong brother
For what it's worth, I am 39 and have essentially done it backwards. I was married and responsible in my 20s, but now having finally found my feet and stoked up my confidence to the highest it's ever been, things are happening for me. I'm able to attract women, I have a job I like and I look at everything in my life differently.
Make it count guys.
Why you got married 🤦♂️ I feel bad for you
@protoknightsmusicarchives3232
It's never too late brother. I thought I'd be alone for the rest of my life after my divorce, but I've lost a lot of weight and turned the ship around.
@@blacklyfe5543 I was young and not emotionally mature enough to see it was the wrong decision.
@@protoknightsmusicarchives3232once I met a taxi driver. He looked like he's 45 but he was 65 and after divorce he lost weight, started to hang out with 20 year old girls so he's winging it. I'm in my early 20s got no girlfriend but I was able to find girls I can talk to, and I think I'll have a girlfriend in no time
damn thats epic bro
More than 3years ago I asked my auntie for life advice. Sat down and learnt everything I could about daily self sufficiency, registered a small business and moved out.
400km out in the alpine ranges I have built a great life, found clients who highly value my work ethic and skills. Flying a clients vintage plane on the fly back home was a huge highlight for me.
3 years of backbreaking effort. I'd do it all over again with a smile.
Learn, grow, evolve, thrive my bro's 👊♥️
Dude, just wow. This was so insane to read. It's so powerful to see how well things can do when we take charge of our lives and really do the work.
Honestly, this is why I read these comment sections tbh. Because reading this kind of triumph keeps me so motivated to continue to create my own content and I just feel fired up. Amazing job dude and keep going!
Made my day.
Excellent video. I’m currently 27, my ex broke up with me at 25, it made me re-examine my whole life. She used to say that if I had been 3 or 4 years older I would’ve been the perfect mate. My 25 year old self had a lot of thing to figure out, a lot of insecurities, a lot confidence issues.
Funny thing is, now that I’m 27 and have worked hard on myself, have gained a little bit of momentum, I’m confident I would never take that girl back as my partner. I’m on the grind mindset right now and not because I want to be more attractive to girls in my 30s (although they will be), I’m doing this for myself, I’m doing what I actually like and I can already envision a future full of light for me, whatever that future may be.
I put my full thrust in God and whatever the future holds for me will be good.
Hell yeah, *THRUST* in Lord is the way 😂
@@TheMathias95 I was an atheist. For 10 years. I have found light and you laugh, says a lot. I’m happy being porn free, I’m happy and confident being myself thrusting in God. Friends, family and people around me see me differently. You won’t understand until you let yourself be free of arrogance, when you humble yourself to the fact that you are nothing but mere dust in the face of everything.
Are you smarter than Newton, Johann Sebastian Bach, Kepler, Mozart, Ramanujan, the Muslims scientists of the golden era, amongst many other geniuses of humanity that have professed faith in God? Were they delusional? You are not only laughing at me but you are also laughing at the face of all those geniuses.
Great to hear buddy! How did you find something you actually like
Im with you brother. We can do this im currently 27 myself. 💯🔥
You can do it brother. @@gr3yw0lfXXIV
This man is speaking truth! Listen to him all young men, he describes my exact scenario. I’m 29, getting attention and pick of the litter is easier now than ever. I build up a strong net worth, am fit, built up a strong style and my personality and cut toxic family and friends. I have peace and time to continually build up my life. There is definitely a light at the end of the tunnel. Stay strong 💪, the luck for you guys is between this man and other TH-cam influencers is some are giving you the best possible advice.
I'm 35. Trust me you'll want to do the work in your 20s because you don't want to be my age and feel like you're catching up. I spent most of my 20s trying to get a job and be successful but my main problem was my useless major in college that fucked me over. If you're 18-25 and in college I give you this advice - if it's not a major in business, nursing, medicine, or something that has a direct use outside of college DO NOT TAKE THAT MAJOR. Every English, history, cultural studies major is useless in the real world by itself. If you took a language like French okay you can have some use from it but you need to add a business minor or something because the language itself won't be enough. Do not be like me at 35 struggling to get a job that fit my disability especially with a useless degree like mine. Don't choose easy in college. Only go into law if you have a good job lined up for you after law school. It's fine to read Aristotle for fun but in the real world no one cares about it.
Not entirely true. If you go to a school with a lot of pedigree or even a top 100 college, you can work in any industry. I’ve spoken to many partners and managing directors who work in finance, tech, law, and consulting and they all studied liberal arts like history, English, art history, philosophy, etc. What you should do is take college seriously and get relevant internships instead of scooping ice cream and lifeguarding in the summer
The guy didnt had internet and acesss to knowledge like we have these days. I dropped out of college cause it was useless and never worked a job. I am doing great in life
u talk trasg mate , its all about doing what u love, even as a bartender u can earn good money, u just sounds like the rest of these bluepill people who follow system and killed own dreams lmao. dont listen to this dude guys, since when its worth to study something u doesnt like? just to end up like a souless machine. i feel sorry for you :)
studies are also for havin experience with others, to have best memories of your life full of love and student night life, you live you learn. no matter what u are learning, as long as you are discovering yourself :),
Do you actually think that completing a business degree will secure you a job to be the manager of al large corporation? Sounds like BS. I would rephrase and say major in STEM
If youre older than 20-30 and you aren't in "pre-season", remember that there is no inherent obligation to be tied to a random, made up timeline. Come up with an achievable goal, work it at your pace. When you get there, you get there, don't neglect your social wellbeing along the way.
I think this is the hardest to break, To come up with a goal and work at it at YOUR pace. Not your families pace, not your neighbors pace, not your friends pace, YOUR pace. For me it was learning new skills, I'd often rush to get to the next chapter without completley understanding the previous one and wonder why I was failing. Now I take my time on skills and problems alike.
Nice thing about being a man is that your back is always against the wall, forcing you to become the best version of yourself. It’s optional for women, it’s required for men
Nice comment!!
that's a nice way of looking at the hardships
Don’t say that too loud or the independent women will be at your doorstep explaining why they’re so different
I’m 28 coming up on 29 freaking out because I didn’t think I’d make it this far. I was so careless, aimless, and reckless and I reallllly wish I could go back and slap myself and make better decisions BUT I know more now than I did then and I can start my new chapter
Let’s do this. We can turn this around. Come back stronger, smarter, better
Here is the GOOD NEWS that you probably wanted when you clicked this video:
For women, life starts at 18. HOWEVER, for men, life starts at 30.
there is no "rebuild" your life at 30, there is just "build." At 30, men are finally in a position in life where they have enough maturity and life lessons that they can begin to control more leverage in their lives.
If you:
- Create effort based goals
- Keep you mindset in check (meditation, stoicism, keep good influences around you both in reality and digitally)
- Ditch bad habits (Porn, weed, loser friends, etc.)
Results are inevitable, my dude
Keep going!
Same 😂
@@mustbecome thank you brother 🙏 I’ll keep coming back to this
In the same boat and age as you and totally know the feeling. But for me it was a illness keeping me out of doing better for myself
This is such a great take. We need to cherish the opportunity to sharpen ourselves in our 20s, because we need some time for the physiology to settle and to gain perspective for the REAL prosperity in our 30s.
absolutely
Below is a summary of the four seasons of every man’s life. What season are you in? What season are the men around you in? How can you help them live into the fullness of that season?
Spring Season | Age 0-20
Theme: IDENTITY
The key to this stage is transitioning to adulthood well
The key questions of this stage:
Who am I? What are my talents?
Who am I not? What are my limitations?
Summer Season | Age 20-40
Themes: LEARNING & GROWING
The key to this stage is perfecting your skill set and distinguishing your expertise in some area of life that contributes to the good of society.
Key questions for your 20’s:
What do I want out of life?
Where will I distinguish myself professionally?
How am I different from my parents?
What do I really believe?
Around what person or conviction will I organize my life?
Key questions for your 30s
How do I prioritize the demands made on my life?
Have I allowed enough time for a vibrant spiritual life and authentic relationships?
Fall Season | Age 40-60
Theme: INFLUENCE
Key questions for this stage:
Have I achieved everything I wanted?
Do I have dreams that are unfulfilled?
Can my mistakes be redeemed?
Are my accomplishments fulfilling?
The major danger of this season mid-life crisis: an escape to numb the pain of past sin/failures or futile attempts to relive the past.
Winter Season | Age 60 +
Theme: INVESTMENT
Those who have lived the seasons of manhood well are now marked by composure, maturity, and insight.
Young men don’t see you as competition, but as a champion - which gives you tremendous access to mentor and invest in the next generation.
The greatest danger of this season is for a man to buy the lie that he can no longer contribute.
The major opportunity of this season is to take advantage of your flexibility and to be a blessing to those around you.
thanks for sharing im in summer season
Thank you for sharing. This is a great summarization for a man's life. A quality road map.
Great summary.
This hit hard. I'm 28 now. I started youtube 2-3 years ago and after only doing it for a short while I gave up thinking it's not for me. I didn't know anything about cameras and videos and editing and all that. But the passion for it really never went away. I always viewed myself as an artisitic person and 'creating' things always filled me with so much joy. I was working a full time job for a long time, and the whole time, doing videos and doing youtube has always been at the back of my mind.
I lost my job a couple weeks ago and honestly I was devastated.
I decided I want to pursue youtube with filmmaking in mind. Man I feel stupid just fucking typing this all out. I'm scared and I'm anxious not knowing where the hell I'll up in a few years. But here I am, trying to be optimistic that maybe one day I'll get to where I want to be in this field. Jesus Christ I can't emphasize enough how anxious I am that I'm doing this with empty pockets and basically just a bag filled with hopes and dreams. Sometimes I think that maybe I joined the game way too late and that maybe I'm a little too old for this.
I've been depressed for a long time and I felt empty and on autopilot doing things in which I thought I'd be happy.
I'm constantly hyping myself and saying all these positive things to overcome the anxiety and fear of me doing this which seems like an impossible thing to do. Fuck it man. I'm going for it.
keep going man
I get you, I’m 27 and sometimes I feel I’m too late or I’m too old. Dude, we are young, we are in the right time at the right moment. This is the best moment in life to take on opportunities. Pray to God and everything will go good.
Go after it. You got this man!
@@RainbowGamer-b4x Thanks, man. I will!
@@shadowjuan2 Maybe I'm just letting the anxiety get the better of me. But yes. You are right!
I’ll be 23 in a few weeks . Life has been tough as shit . Just need to show up everyday gentleman ! We got this 🤝
keep going homie
Dodge the ladies , stop pmo and seek the Lord brother ! All other things will be ok in life and you'll find the right woman. Keep goin !!
23 was the lowest point. Had zero pussy, family conflicts, no money, no meaning. But it's going to get better, especially if you show up and grab the opportunities that present themselves.
@@vitezslavslavik6662 Amen bratře
Just turned 30, its time for Season 1 to begin
ayyyyyyyy
I'M 18 y.o , thanks Denmo for giving me The Pure Wisdom for the next 10 years 💜
I haven’t watched the whole thing but I agree. I’m 32 now and I have a lot of things in order now. The stability and high potential of growth is helping with dating for sure. Was basically invisible in 20s
where do you meet young women when you're 32?
@@JamezJN007how young? I don’t frequent clubs. I usually go to nicer places to dine and drink. Meeting women who are 25+ there.
Hey man, your timing for me is impeccable. I am the guy with the 9 to 5 early on except I'm in the military. I hit my unsatisfied depression last year, and decided to change this year as a result. I have legitimate goals for the first time in my life and a indomitable will to make it happen. I've struggled to become better and refuse to back down again. I'm 24 and decided to talk to this chick in the bouldering gym that ive been seeing there and hit it off quite well. Just saw your video about dating girls and it helped me think more strategically to use this opportunity with this girl to jumpstart my productivity. Then use that productivity to jumpstart my relationship life. I'm 24 and my life has just started. You are simply validating my own thoughts and actions in a healthy way so i thank you for that.
First and foremost, thank you for your service and dedication. It's truly commendable to see someone like you, especially in the military, taking charge of their life and making positive changes. Remember this:
While many believe life starts early, for individuals like you, the real journey begins now. At 24, you're at the perfect age where you've garnered enough experiences and lessons to truly shape your path ahead.
If you:
• Set tangible and effort-based goals
• Maintain a strong and positive mindset (through practices like meditation, embracing stoicism, and surrounding yourself with uplifting influences both in person and online)
• Let go of any detrimental habits or influences
Success is not just a possibility; it's a guarantee.
Stay determined and keep pushing forward! Your best days are yet to come.
"chick" hope she realises you're a pr1ck
It's good to hear someone I share opinions with. Also I would add that every age has its own beauty. I am becoming 24 in a month, feeling ashamed when I take a rest (not in the toxic way). Constantly thinking about what business to start, what stocks to buy, which country to settle in. All this after my shift as a full-time software engineer had ended and my gym session had been done. I am curious what it feels like to be noticed but also love my current life bouncing back from girls but still keeping my head up. Cheers everyone!
I'm in the same boat. Software engineer turning 24 Sept 1st. Wonderin if I should sell my stocks incase the market crashes cause of the rising cost of debt. Still haven't gotten into the gym but I know I should. The question I ask myself is how much money and strength do I need to deserve love and its so fxcked. I don't want to approach girls and tell them I have 100k. I don't want the things I have to govern how I'm treated... And generally I'm treated like shit by women
I'm 23 and this video really helps me a lot. It gives me a reality check. I do have a job, thank God. I'm saving cash too, all I'll do is maintain my momentum, and ensure no obstacle overcomes me. This video serves as a daily reminder for me to work even harder. Thank you so so much brother, and all the best in your current and future endeavours
22 here same man, sometimes I tell myself that I should relax I have time, but in the other hand I fully know that I have the do work.
The problem for me is addicting things like social medias, video games that fck me up periodically while I want to just study after work 🥲
I’m 34 and this feels quite true. Thanks to hard work n good saving habits from my 20s I have a comfortable buffer to do whatever I want on weekends and have my summer holidays filled with dates.
I had pretty much the same mentality like you when i was at my first job. I was like 19 and after like 6 months of working there i felt so behind and deppresed and lost. I tried find something meaningfull to me. Multiple jobs, and hobbies, i tried coding, writing, photo editing etc. I failed at everything. Now im 24 and i think I finally found my passion in video editing. Grinding every day for 5-10 hours, i really hope i can finally make something out of it
Good luck, brother!
@@gameacc6079dam what a hater you are.
@@gameacc6079 nah ai can replace everyone in art industry but it dosnt know how to be original, art is all about emotions and ai dosnt know how to work with that. Imagine ai creating film would u watch it ? No because we watch movies becasue of emotions
F*ck yeah, Sammy!!
Your journey is a testament to resilience and the power of perseverance. It's commendable how you've navigated through challenges to find your true calling. Remember:
Every experience, every trial, and every failure is a stepping stone towards finding your true passion and purpose.
If you:
• Continue to pour your heart and soul into video editing
• Embrace the lessons from your past endeavors
• Stay committed to your growth and development in this newfound passion
Then success isn't just a possibility; it's on the horizon.
It's never about how many times we fall, but how many times we rise, stronger and more determined. Your dedication to grinding every day is the fuel that will drive your success in video editing. Believe in yourself and your journey. You're on the path to greatness, and your story will inspire many. Keep pushing forward bro
@@mustbecome thank you!
Great timing for this vid. Realizing I’m right on time. Breakthrough after breakthrough recently. I’m 26. I learned to get girls first because I thought that would make me happy but I realized having game is a lie when you don’t have a congruent life style to back up your “substance”. Was trying to feel better and stay distracted without realizing it. Stopped dating. Chose to be celibate for a year- (still goin) to focus on my business and building my current skill set. I am beginning to maintain a consistent level of focus and manage my energy effectively so I can hone in on my goals every day. It’s coming together- faster than ever. Made more progress in 4 months than I did the last 2 years. Grateful
I am approaching 30, gf left, I am homeless and jobless...
I'm leaving this comment here so in 5 years I can see how much I levelled the fk up.... Hello future me glad you made it
NGL of all the self improvement channels, you are probably the most relatable. Glad to see your content.
true about dating. i realized this at 23 and started to take dating less seriously. of course get your reps in on dates and learn how to act, communicate, relationship dynamics, etc. but don't be surprised if she leaves you for a guy 4-5 years older.
Just get better.
but don't fall for the chicks that reach the epiphany stage at 30 after getting ran through in their 20s. find those mid 20s good women, theyre out there. and if you can't find them, reevaluate where youre looking (not bars, dating apps, etc.)
I feel this. I turned 25 this year and I can resonate a lot with this video. Funnily enough I do sales and marketing at a car dealership. To be fair to myself it’s all brand new luxury and exotic cars so it feels a bit more high class. I ended up dropping out of business school to work. I realized I was learning little to nothing about business there. I learn way more about success from my managers and owners of the dealership I work at. All of them in thier 30’s and making 6-7 figure incomes. But I do realize now that I’m 25 I’m just starting to master my skill of talking and sales. I get bigger projects are work and I work longer hours, than being said I’m obviously compensated with higher income, right around where you said most people here are ($70,000). I recently started to study stoicism so I can better improve myself for success and live up to my potential. I am now realize a lot of things you are saying in this video. Letting old friend go who are on the same trajectory as myself. I’m trying to learn from people a bit older and a bit wiser than myself. I have these thoughts but have never been able to really put them into words. I feel this video you very accurately described what a lot of people are going through.
Do not pray for easy lives my friend pray to be stronger men
I do not pray for a lighter load but for a stronger back. 100% bro.
I agree with this so much, I might just need to make a whole video on this topic tbh
You know what, this video made me feel better about myself, i realized im very lucky to be doing some of the things men usually do in their late 20s / early 30s. At the age of 22.
Totally love this dude. Been preaching this myself. Guys really need this advice, it’s unfortunate most of us don’t get to hear this until we’re older. I’m a filmmaker and taking that route didn’t seem like a reasonable option until a couple of years in.
I think 1STMAN made video about this years before but it is awesome to hear your perspective and spread the message even further.
absolutely inspired by 1stman
I’m 30 and dropped out of College years ago because I didn’t feel like I had it together. I wanna finish so hopefully my 30’s is nothing like my depressed 20’s. I think part time work might help me also
Good luck!
Great video bro, thanks for helping the people to wake up from the system !
its only been out 60 seconds bro lmaooo
yeah these people are proper npc bot pp vacuumers @@Denmosocial
hahah I love this bro, I actually was so depressed during my early 20s and absolutely terrible with women but somehow met the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with at 26/27, just as I had just started to peak.
Its so funny how life works but this was super relatable.
Just turned 30 a few days ago and I feel like my life is just starting. There's so much to look forward to everyday!
im 19, im at my peak in my physique and playing football everyday and i love it but i feel like everyone i know is judging me exept my mom. im just gonna keep grinding and hope it pays off one day...
I'm 16 yrs old brother, thank you for inspiring me to grow my channel and to want to achieve my dream life, I will achieve it, thank you man
My life changed at 22, I had head injury🎉 my life changed. 2 years lost. I recovered ❤ now I feel so excited for my 30's, I'm 28.5! No women to distract me, my sister's make me wish I were gay 😂(I'm not, I don't want to be gay or a misogynist.) I'm just gonna date younger when I'm older.🎉
Im only 16 but im scared of doing a 9-5 job all my life, i think the best thing is to always move forward, keep up the good content
Make good choices, avoid costly mistakes like getting trapped, tied down or committed too early. WEAR PROTECTION/ don’t have kids and don’t get married til after 30 lol.
I just wated my 20s, generaly. I have earned Political science degree, but I haven't worked on my profession. I tried programming and marketing but they didn't work for me. Now, at my 32, I decided to make a fresh start in life. I gonna restart my career in political science.
Glad my friends know how to party hard, but work even harder, we’ve been driven for success since highschool. We still hang out on the regular and hold eachother accountable
i am 18 and thank you for changing my mindset.i used to think like i should enjoy my 20s but now i am going learn skills like coding, fashion, music ,learn about stocks and other important skills for life
Holy shit you’re totally right. I’m 27 and only now getting my life together. I have ambition now like I didn’t before. I’m done being lazy
this videos is really summed up all the things that i need to hear. Honestly i heard this before from selfimprovement channel hearing from you really gives boost to me. im 20 rn and im learning skills to make something out of it. my peers who gone for college that im not (im studying in academy from home) are really stress free. but im stressed about exams and other things to do that makes me happy at my mid or late 20's. Im really gratefull for you guys telling these stuff to young people. love you man
Keep at it! Marketing, Copywriting, Sales and a creation skill like videography, editing, etc in combination are insane.
This video is what I needed. I just turned 25 2 weeks ago. I’m about to join the navy because I’ve been so lost the past 6 years. Thank you for making this video
no problem bro. Send it to your friends to help them too
Look man, it's crazy.
I'm 24 and right now, I have so much hunger. I have partied from like 16 to my early 20's but in the last couple of years I started hitting the gym hard and have some aspirations.
The problem for me is all my friends want to be 9 to 5 workers and I think I need somebody to start this, somebody that's gonna push me as hard as I'm gonna push that person. I really want to start something of my own but I can't find anyone to do it with, which I think it's sad.
Why are people so happy with working a 9 to 5? Crazy.
This hunger I have is so intense and I would do anything to be sucessful, I just don't know where to start.
Anyways, thanks for your help and videos bro.
Lol work a 9-5? But tell those same people you wanna catch a good crypto pump and never work again and just be able to live comfortably, they look at you like their crazy.
@@kevinfortsch Look, I don't think that 9-5 is for dummies. It's useful, even to collect some money.
But to see people that don't EVER think of doing anything other than 9-5 really makes me sad.
We have so much to offer and to not even try to make it on our own is really sad (my opinion).
This is very profound, I also have the degree and the trade skill. I was incredibly depressed post-grad and going away from the college life to just working. I am blessed to be compensated really well for my age.
“You’re depressed because your soul needs deep-rest from the person you’re pretending to be”
I’m subbed bro, such a great video.
It's funny how i had all these questions and kinda have answers but it wasnt clear enough, now you just made everything clear. I aslo think that if everyone would do what they want to do we wouldnt have ppl that work in the sewers and drillers and shit so idk what the future has for us but at least we can turn bad content into content that makes us grow and move forward like this.
I'm from Argentina, 25yo about to be 26 (December 5) and I haven't accomplished anything, I feel so old because I tried 4 different degrees and didn't finished a single one cause it didn't feel like it was my pasion. I don't really have job experience since for the last 5 years I was an e-sports player, so no "real world experience" for me. During my childhood and teen years I had a really abusive mother so I didn't go out or had many friends, now I'm with my sister and planning to go to Europe for a couple of years to work and study but I feel that I will be so shocked and I'll get a BIG reality check on how far behind I am... That thought makes me regret almost every decision I made in the past, it sucks. In the other hand I'm optimistic (but scared) because I'll finally go out there and experience things the way they are meant to be experienced, but well I still feel like I've lost many many years.
Damn I wish I would have heard this before I died in my 20s. I thought it was over after that.
I am getting older. I’m about to be 23, still don’t have a degree, still don’t have a good paying job, still don’t have any experience with women. I hope to god I’m happy at 30 because I’m alive and nothing is fucking going my way.
Here's the POSITIVE INSIGHT you were likely seeking when you clicked on this video, Rigo:
For women, the journey begins at 18. YET, for men, it commences at 30.
At 30, it's not about "restarting" your life; it's about "starting." By this age, men have gained sufficient wisdom and experiences, positioning them to have more influence in their lives.
If you:
Set goals based on effort
Maintain a balanced mindset (through meditation, stoicism, and surrounding yourself with positive influences both offline and online)
Let go of harmful habits (like adult content, marijuana, and negative friendships)
Success is assured, Rigo.
Stay on track, my dude!
Find a drummer, find a bass guitarist, get together with a couple of other mates and start the greatest Punk Rock band ever. That’s my plan in life plan. Until then I’m going to stay a solo artist
That's kind of where I'm at in life. I've been drumming 15+ years and have always been passionate about metal music. The idea of getting to jam around and make music sounds really fulfilling.
Perfect video at the perfect time for me man. Got a good job in sales at a Clinical Research company but man I couldn't care less about it. I'm now starting my own thing here on the web and looking forward to grinding towards something I feel positive about. Dream would be to make enough to quit my day job and buy back a little more time in my week. I'm 26 so you were spot on 😅
Absolutley LOVE THE EDITTING and the animations, props to the editor.
Denmo always coming in clutch I'm 19 going to school and have a part time job and I was just thinking how I hate my current position in life but your right bro it's just grinding rn it will pay off
Keep this mentality. You'll get even a better job in few months or in a year, either part time, either full time.
I'm 28 yrs old and it's funny that I have had similar experiences. Life gets better each yr.
I enjoyer my teens, 20s and 30s. Alot of people dont understand work life balance but its not really that hard to work hard and still enjoy life.
thank you denmo good stuff to hear right now
editing clean asf
this ones nice eh
Great advice. You’ll likely have more pitfalls and doubts on the way and careers don’t always go smoothly and relationships obviously are complicated. Stay in shape and take of your appearance so you have a longer window in your 30s and beyond to figure stuff out. I’m 37 and seemingly the older I get the easier it is to date / attract all sorts of women in their 20s.
I'm 18. Seeing people open up about their past mistakes got me thinking.
-I get my Sh!t together now ( invest in some future valuable skill sets; work on my character)
- by 25 I'm finessing my way through life
- by 30 I'm scaling into the multi of millions
It's that straight forward... £asier said than done tho...
A wise man once told me, If it wasn't for the trough of the wave we would not be able to ID the crest...just sayin
I have literally been on the edge for a while now, but this really changed my perspective. Thank you!
Man you speak my mind to a tee. The content of this video articulates my every day thoughts
Preseason for career but not in every way.. consider having responsibilities over your actions over other people too. In my late twenties now and realise that after a certain amount and status, people really don’t care. Be a good person during the climb so that people who matter would respect you.
Thank you for this insight Denmo. I’m very grateful that we have you to give us a heads up on life. I’m 22 and I’ve been a stoner/video game nerd all my life and it wasn’t till January of this year I decided enough is enough and got my commercial class a license which I was able to graduate in June. I’m now making 60k a year as a local fuel hauler and I’m very happy at my job. I never went to college or got a degree but I hope to save enough money this year to put a down payment on a property. ❤
That was THE video that I neede right now. Perfect Algorithm
Nice thumbnail bro, lookin' slick
THANK YOU. WE MUST STAY FOCUSED...
Thank you for the advice. I’m sure I’m not the only who needed to hear this
Great stuff man! needed to hear this.
facts bro. I’m 31. Also observing younger men and men my age not have enough zeal and fire in their belly to do anything remotely significant. I remind them that we need lofty goals. Purchasing a house is gr8 but tbh it’s low hanging fruit is rather make a dent before I leave this earth. Guys just moan about the cost of living, attend baby showers and weddings, move in w their chicks and just kinda coast throughout their 30s. Unknowingly basking into a life of mediocrity.
Nothing is guaranteed. You can put in the work in your 20s and not gain future benefits. Don't count your chickens before they hatch.
You can die in every minute. It still bad excuse
BROO THIS WAS A NEEED. MAN, LOVE YOU!
Everything good in my life happened after age thirty. More money although I'm not rich, incredible travel, better confidence, way hotter women. Life is just better for men post 30.
well im thinking about that and im 20 yearsold you made me proud me lately i have stressed out because i have been always serious about my life
dude thanks for real i will get my shit together and continue working hard
10 years from now i will return to this comment
f*ck yeah brother! This is what I love to see. young men get inspired to take serious beneficial action in their life. Its why I make content tbh. Awesome to see this
I live outside the USA as a Pilot, unlike the USA there is no pilot shortage meaning low pay for pilots. The progression in my career has been heavily indebted from college and flight training only to be in my lates 20s(I'm 29) making roughly $1570/month with no prospects within 10 years to progress due to seniority. I am not sure what I am doing with my life.
Just what I needed to hear. Thank you:)
🔥 video bro. I’m 30 and this is Facts
I feel like I got the raw end of the stick, I’m 28 and been mostly sick in my 20’s. I was in and out of school, worked on and off. It was literally like going though a secon puberty cause cause I feel Iike these years taught me how to be better a man then how I was in my earlier 20’s
Now I’m just looking forward to my 30’s with a better understanding of life and no need to worry about that illness. It feels like a second chance
You are not alone, so many ofcpeople in 20s are hit with chronic illness and their life sre extra hard, behind in life. Myself too, my health conditions took sway my 20s. I am trying mybest to grt back on my feet and face life.
@@vmoonlight4962 right, the feeling is insane too cause you know no one who has experienced it, good luck
Very true bro. you’ve earned a new follower 👍
100% man. This guy has great lessons which totally inform my own content. Awesome to see how many people are benefiting here
Keeping it simple goes along way. And as a guy who is 6’2, 180 lb, 36, single with no kids, never been married and no debt, ever since I was kid I’ve always known what I wanted in a girl. All she has to be is nice to me. That it. Why? Because life is hard and if I want someone to be on this journey of life with, that person just has to be nice. Being nice has nothing to do with weakness. Because I’m pretty sure we all like going through the good times and bad times in life look for something nice along the way. Until then, I wouldn’t trade my single life for 1,000 dates. That’s how simple it real is.
Always spitting facts, love it Denmo!
Bro spits facts every video🔥
Needed this. Thanks!
Great advice, I'm almost 23, just broke up with my first girlfriend, and my best version of me is the one I'll build through the years
MA bwoii lookin hella sharp in that thumbnail... Way to go man. Keep up the drip 💯💯
wow fist bump fren 👊🏻 great intro
I always come back to this: “Realize that sleeping on a futon when you're 30 is not the worst thing. You know what's worse, sleeping in a king bed next to a wife you're not really in love with but for some reason you married, and you got a couple kids, and you got a job you hate. You'll be laying there fantasizing about sleeping on a futon. There's no risk when you go after a dream. There's a tremendous amount to risk to playing it safe.”
― Bill Burr
Really gives something, someone, to look forward to. Thank you!
This man motivated me to be the best landscape engr
This video was fire 🔥
This was my favorite edit style
Great video, thank you bro
I'm 24, and can't be fucked with school. People asked what I wanted to do and I always said something in the tech industry. Took courses failed the networking test and haven't tried again. I dunno this video was nice but I have no interest in listening to what people/society say. And maybe I am floating waiting for life to drop something in a way but if I want something I get it. Somehow. I've been saving money and stopped investing as much should probably contribute to both more. I burned out within the last year working. I was fired due to racking up occurrences and I was so fucking happy. I could literally go anywhere else. New job and I'm gonna keep saving. And hopefully investing. I try not to take my family for granted we take care of each other. I had tried moving out a couple times and came back both times. Plan on trying again but what can you do except keep moving. No delusions of granduer here guys just a guy living life.
I graduated at the age of 21 and after that for 5 years i worked with my father and ruined my studies but last year i decided that i have to restart my education again if i want my life in order and i started self studying from the school level mathematics, where I'm from you have to qualify entrance exams to get into University and this year i got into decent college(not the top college in my country but okay). My aim is to start my PhD in 2 years but when i looked back all those years when i was not doing anything perticular and depressed the only thing was in my mind that if i keep my patience and be persistent things will change eventually. From this Monday I'm gonna start my new journey and hope everyone who's struggling currently could pass these times and do better in their lives .
Hey Jack, Thanks man.
I appreciate your content brother. Videos have been fire lately. Keep up the great work Jack.
cheers fellow jack. we in this together