I think the reason the boyfriend never got rid of the ring is he knows he won’t get the full value back. And since the ex never saw the ring, he probably wants to use it when he finds the right person to propose to again in the future. Now he’s pissed off because she found it while snooping and now pressuring him to sell. He’s going to lose $ by selling and buying another one. This girl should know he will never propose to her. She now reeks of desperation.
The girl desperately wanting engagement is most definitely not ready, just wants it because it’s popular and on trend.. it’s a wonder people don’t respect and understand the commitment of marriage..
I had a friend who pressured her boyfriend for an engagement...put pics of the ring she wanted on the fridge...constantly brought it up... they didn't last...
With caller #2 is there a chance he actually got the ring for her, and when she found and and said she wasn't ready he made up some story about his ex and now he's stuck with that ring and not sure what to do? 😂
The first caller, I have a very similar scenario. However, it is my friend blocking me after 20 years of friendship because of my ability to address our drift in friendship due to our overall development and changes as people. Never did I say that I didn’t want to be her friend, but I did say we need to adjust the insecurities going on in our lives outside of one another. And that reaction was not positive And I have accepted that I will be the villain in her narrative I will not block because I still see one day I hope in a future But I am blocked and that is that
Is nobody going to acknowledge Nick's reaction to caller 3? He was a predator. She was nineteen that's not an adult. There's teen literally in the word nineteen. But obviously Nick won't admit to that when Natalie was that age when he met her and Nick was 40. Nick saying that the girl is hurt because he was her first love, is bazozo. She was a teenager it doesn't matter how much she thought she loved him or came onto him. She was literally still a teenager and her brain wasn't fully developed. You don't Want to say what we all know that her father and you are predators but not saying it you are trying to act like there's nothing wrong with what you did. People just talk about how gross it is that you met Natalie when she was nineteen because they jealous yeah that's it. You shouldn't be giving advice period. Why is this man not canceled?
In Canada 18 years is considered an adult…. at 18 you’re able to drink and go to bars whereas in the states it’s 21. I agree with 21 but unfortunately, in some parts of the world it is 18.
why is nobody talking about how diabolical it is for that woman to publicly throw her business out there and imply that karma got him? i get she had her own experience but if she’s moved on with a new family she needs to grow up and realize how that would affect everyone else.. its selfish. just because that man was selfish a decade ago doesn’t justify this now. im sorry she went through that but its just gross. not the time.
Terrible advice to the third caller about her father having an affair. Nick turns around and says to her - haven’t you ever made mistakes in your life, or something like that. That’s like saying everybody makes mistakes, cut and dry, which doesn’t make anyone better. She’s very hurt.
The displacement of blame on the girl who outed the father’s double life is insane. This man took advantage of a NINETEEN year old nanny. It would eat me alive for a person to be celebrated after that. It is absolutely linked to be a good father. Nick implying she seduced him is gross
But to post on a public family platform to shame him postmortem? That's not justice that's trying to cause public embarrassment for his family who did not participate in the affair. The place and time she did it on a family/friend page earns HER no sympathy or remorse either
Let’s not pretend that he was a good guy! And not compare mistakes to a predator that was involved with someone outside his marriage for 7 years. That’s not a mistake that’s an active choice.
@@0104blackpearl Putting that on a memorial page is classless. That hurts the wife and kids who are innocent bystanders in this. Plus the girl did this with him for what 7 years she said and got pissed he said he wouldn't leave his wife. Sounds vindictive to me.
@0104blackpearl I don't think anyone is arguing if it was wrong or inappropriate. Hurt people hurt other people. This women clearly was hurt, but where and when she chose to speak up, let alone decades later, was meant to hurt his family and punish. Not one of his family members would sympathize with that situation even though it's wrong. She gets no justice and now his family is hurting.
Caller 3 - You are handling this devastating news with so much grace. Prayers for healing and comfort to you and your family.
I think the reason the boyfriend never got rid of the ring is he knows he won’t get the full value back. And since the ex never saw the ring, he probably wants to use it when he finds the right person to propose to again in the future. Now he’s pissed off because she found it while snooping and now pressuring him to sell. He’s going to lose $ by selling and buying another one. This girl should know he will never propose to her. She now reeks of desperation.
Love how you just jump into the questions now 🙌🏻 thank you
The girl desperately wanting engagement is most definitely not ready, just wants it because it’s popular and on trend.. it’s a wonder people don’t respect and understand the commitment of marriage..
Truly my fuel for Mondays 😅
Unsurprisingly, the 24 year old is too emotionally immature to be taking this step.
I had a friend who pressured her boyfriend for an engagement...put pics of the ring she wanted on the fridge...constantly brought it up... they didn't last...
With caller #2 is there a chance he actually got the ring for her, and when she found and and said she wasn't ready he made up some story about his ex and now he's stuck with that ring and not sure what to do? 😂
LOL @ Nick getting tired of reading the mistress' post
😂
The first caller, I have a very similar scenario. However, it is my friend blocking me after 20 years of friendship because of my ability to address our drift in friendship due to our overall development and changes as people. Never did I say that I didn’t want to be her friend, but I did say we need to adjust the insecurities going on in our lives outside of one another.
And that reaction was not positive
And I have accepted that I will be the villain in her narrative
I will not block because I still see one day I hope in a future
But I am blocked and that is that
Is nobody going to acknowledge Nick's reaction to caller 3? He was a predator. She was nineteen that's not an adult. There's teen literally in the word nineteen. But obviously Nick won't admit to that when Natalie was that age when he met her and Nick was 40. Nick saying that the girl is hurt because he was her first love, is bazozo. She was a teenager it doesn't matter how much she thought she loved him or came onto him. She was literally still a teenager and her brain wasn't fully developed. You don't Want to say what we all know that her father and you are predators but not saying it you are trying to act like there's nothing wrong with what you did. People just talk about how gross it is that you met Natalie when she was nineteen because they jealous yeah that's it. You shouldn't be giving advice period. Why is this man not canceled?
In Canada 18 years is considered an adult…. at 18 you’re able to drink and go to bars whereas in the states it’s 21. I agree with 21 but unfortunately, in some parts of the world it is 18.
she’s a home-wrecker at the time and a home-wrecker now 😂😂
your comment says more about you than him.
A 7 year affair is not a mistake, it’s a choice. It’s horrible to find this out, but don’t blame the woman.
why is nobody talking about how diabolical it is for that woman to publicly throw her business out there and imply that karma got him? i get she had her own experience but if she’s moved on with a new family she needs to grow up and realize how that would affect everyone else.. its selfish. just because that man was selfish a decade ago doesn’t justify this now. im sorry she went through that but its just gross. not the time.
Caller #2 is insufferable. Why is it her business when or if he sells the ring?!??
He didn’t buy it with their money.
Terrible advice to the third caller about her father having an affair. Nick turns around and says to her - haven’t you ever made mistakes in your life, or something like that. That’s like saying everybody makes mistakes, cut and dry, which doesn’t make anyone better. She’s very hurt.
The displacement of blame on the girl who outed the father’s double life is insane. This man took advantage of a NINETEEN year old nanny. It would eat me alive for a person to be celebrated after that.
It is absolutely linked to be a good father. Nick implying she seduced him is gross
But to post on a public family platform to shame him postmortem? That's not justice that's trying to cause public embarrassment for his family who did not participate in the affair. The place and time she did it on a family/friend page earns HER no sympathy or remorse either
Let’s not pretend that he was a good guy! And not compare mistakes to a predator that was involved with someone outside his marriage for 7 years. That’s not a mistake that’s an active choice.
@@0104blackpearl Putting that on a memorial page is classless. That hurts the wife and kids who are innocent bystanders in this. Plus the girl did this with him for what 7 years she said and got pissed he said he wouldn't leave his wife. Sounds vindictive to me.
@ that’s the product of a poor man’s decisions 🤷🏻♀️
@0104blackpearl I don't think anyone is arguing if it was wrong or inappropriate. Hurt people hurt other people. This women clearly was hurt, but where and when she chose to speak up, let alone decades later, was meant to hurt his family and punish. Not one of his family members would sympathize with that situation even though it's wrong. She gets no justice and now his family is hurting.