outfits for bad body image days - what i'm wearing this autumn + PDPAOLA haul
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thanks for watching! I appreciate you guys' patience with my sporadic uploads so much; your endless support never fails to make me smile. take care of yourselves ☼
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● how old are you?
20 years old :)
● where are you from?
hampshire, uk 📍
● what do you film with?
canon g7x mark ii and iPhone 13 pro
● what is your name / how do you say it?
my name is Roisin and it's pronounced ro-sheen, but i shorten it to Ro !!
This is actually a really sensible idea. I know embracing your body is a very controversial topic in this community - on one hand arguing that celebrating yourself is vital to get a healthy relationship with ur bod , and on the other being really upsetting and detrimental for those in recovery. Honestly I think that as long as what you wear doesn’t get in the way of your day and hold you back (and looks cute!) that’s all that matters ♥️
yes i totally agree !!⭐️
I remember some time ago you said in a video that you'd love to make videos about clothes and fashion because you're really into that and you don't just want your whole "brand" to be your eating disorder, so seeing you finally being able to talk about clothes and how you style them just makes me so happy :')
This was such a lovely video to watch, it helps to hear someone be so gentle about bad body image. Gaining weight can feel so scary and uncomfortable it's helpful to know I'm not alone 💗
you’re certainly not alone lovely ❤️ it gets easier x
@@RoMitchell thank you so much lovely ❤️
you’re a literal angel. your videos help me so so much. i struggle with my body image all the time. it’s just nice seeing different ways that i can help with that. I’m so so proud of you. you’re a warrior xxx
all my love 🤍 thank you xxx
Ok but can we remember that not only is Ro the most amazing girl ever, she literally supports everyone and we love that! But she is also one of the most gorgeous people in the world!
Thanks for this, it actually helps. I would rather hide my body from myself while I get past a hard day than wear something that will allow me to pick myself apart and relapse again. These outfits are super cute. It also feels like giving yourself a hug to put on something comfy and cozy and oversized sometimes 🥰
My goodness you are so absolutely stunning. Like your skin and eyes are glowing and your smile and hair is so so so PRETTY OH MY!!!😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰
thank you!!!🫶🏻
This video really put into perspective how different eds are for different people. I’m currently recovering from a restrictive eating disorder and trying to gain weight, and I find that I feel most comfortable in more fitted clothes! Goes to show that you cannot compare your journey to anybody else’s, because everyone is different. Anyway, great video Ro and thank you for all of the content you put out! It has been really helpful for me in my recovery ❤
what a great idea!!i am finally gaining weight right now and struggle a lot..it is so hard to keep going:((so excited to watch this later!!thank you so much Ro!!:))you are helping me incredible much!!sending lots of love!!
keep going lovely!!🤍
Big fan of the black skirt. Love the sweatshirt idea-so comfortable and great way to express yourself with different sayings or whatever. Jewelry and shoes can really level up a plain outfit or something that might be frumpy otherwise. Love your channel!
LOL "Duolingo hasn't taught me that yet"
thank you !! 🤍
Great video, so helpful and something I've never seen someone do before! Great to see someone shining a light on body dysmorphophobia and also ways to deal with it and suggestions for clothes to make it feel slightly less awful.
Congratulations again on the sponsorship from PDPAOLA. Such lovely jewelry ❤️
thank you so much lovely ❤️xx
ro, you somehow manage to post something right when i need it. i’ve been having a very hard day with my body image and eating and i was gonna skip snack, but then you posted and it encouraged me to fuel my body with some yummy food :) thank you, ro 💙
ro can i just say you look so beautiful, like your eyes are shining and you’re literally glowing
thank you !! ⭐️🫶🏻
you're so pretty we are all so proud of you for how far you've come :)
Hello Ro, we've missed you and we're so so SO glad to have you back you beautiful human AAAAA
thank you 🥺🤍
thank you for existing lol.
thanks for making vids to make us all feel better about ourselves even when you struggle through so much. your vids singlehandedly is helping my recovery haha
take care ((:
sending lots of love and strength
ahhh all my love
@@lilly3041 thank youuu
Jewelry is the key to every outfit. It draws others attention to your face vs. body. And I agree with you on wearing what you love and feel comfortable in. ❤️
Thank you for keep making these wonderful videos. It feels like coming home to a close friend who gives you a warm hug, understanding your struggles without having been told.
This summer something really shifted in my mind I could feel myself growing out of my old shell and into the person I'm supposed to be. It's wonderful to see you experiencing the same, I'm cheering you on on your own journey from Germany, sending lots of love and consent hugs 🪐🐌✨
Loved this vid you should do one of outfits for good body image days too!!
oooh maybe !! 🤍
I have this one giant "men's" shirt and it's great. It is grey and I can wear it over almost any shirt or hoodie. It has literally saved entire days for me 🙏🏻
Sending you love from Australia! Currently struggling with body image and this video came at the perfect time. Thank you for all the kindness you bring to the world~
Thank you so Much for this 💓💓 really struggling with body dysmorphia, especially since being nearly weight restored. xx
it gets easier, promise x
i hope you're feeling better soon!!keep going!you can do it:))
Thank you so much Ro, that means the world xx
Thank you 🥹💓 hope you’re doing ok, sending you hugs!!
I can’t you get prettier every time i see you omg💗
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I know this comment probably looks dumb with the profile picture, but you seriously kickstarted my journey to recovery ; i say journey to recovery instead of just recovery because i havent begun it seriously yet, im still too anxious, but at least i know that i dont want to live like this forever. i binged all of your videos at once a few months ago and they helped so much- youre also just a great person in general. so thank you.
Not on topic for the video but I just noticed your new channel name and thumbnail portrait! I love it!
babe wake up ro mitchell just uploaded!
hahahah 😭
thank you so much for this ro i’ve been exploring with clothing lately as seasons change to see what i’m most comfortable with. some days i do dress up with tight fitting clothing but i know i can feel and look cute and good too with baggy comfy clothes. this is such an important topic specifically as you go along in recovery! i consider myself fully recovered now but there are still obstacles in the way ❤ the good thing is to take care yourself and know what’s best for you and your health
The last thing you said was so helpful! All my friends try to fit like one or two aesthetics and I just can't. I've been feeling bad for it but damn I really shouldn't!
"I'm just going to stand here and Photoshop them on" *smirk* had me laughing out loud. Great video, your take on style is refreshing.
🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 thank you
You are shining!! I love seeing you like this! You help a lot of people - including me - and you can be so proud!🤎🤎🤎
thank you 🤍
I’ve spent so long trying to find a pair of jeans that actually fit me when I get bloated throughout the day, and I haven’t managed to find any that are comfortable… hopefully one day 🤞 xx
ah no :( i usually shop at monki / weekday for jeans
Have you ever tried culottes? The cottony ones from new look are great, had issues with bloating and they are my go to trousers :)
Thank you soo much.I was just looking for a outfit for tomorrow and had no idea and its also weigh day so i am very excited
Thank you for making this video, Ro. I really appreciate it and I needed this for advice and to get out of my comfort zone with accessories and clothing. I have a lot of similar issues that you mentioned in this video. Your videos help me recover in my own recovering journey. I have challenged a lot of foods since finding you and your channel. I wish you success and happy memories for 2023 this year.
GOSH this november is THE bad body image month for me. This video comes at rescue
Girl you are so beautiful! And this isn't in relation to the content of the video, I just wanted to say that like, wow you look amazing!
this is such a great idea! thank you for your videos, you help me so much! take care
i’m so happy i’m able to help you
Nothing to do with this video in particular but omg your eyes are beautiful 😍 your stunning
Wow first of all this video is super cute and I love the concept of the “messy video” because is much more interesting and entertaining, and second of all it came out right when I needed it cause I’m recovering and I’m struggling a lot with my body changing and you made me much more confident and it really helped, thank you ♡ sending you all the love
ro, first & most importantly you have a beautiful heart and soul.
but those EYES!!! wowzaa. stunning!!
The green sweater at 10 min made your skin glow. Definitely a great color for you.🐛
you are incredibly beautiful. it's not necessary to hide anything of your body. you have come a long way girl, keep going 👏
YOU'RE SO PRETTY!!!! Thank you sm for this video
thank you 🥺
Love you and your fashion sense❤
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I truly love you more than life, thank you for everything you do
would you mind sharing your hair routine? i love your waves! i'm currently trying to embrace my natural curly hair after years of straightening it but i'm struggling to find a method / routines that works.
Gosh you are so pretty girl
this was such a peaceful & cozy video! also, your style is adorable! i wear clothes that are very..out there & it's been hard to recover with my outfits gathering a lot of attention (google lolita fashion). ed recovery is such tricky business, on one hand my unique style makes me feel really cute & put together, but on the other people stare a lot & i have to talk myself out of thinking they're judging my figure. idk
don't think i'd personally wear these outfits, but you talk about body issues & recovery in a way that really calms my mind
Honestly, I’m so happy watching this. The energy is immaculate 😗👌🏼
Also, I fucking loveeeee a fleece
This was soo needed, I have been struggling a lot recently with my body images and this was really helpful. I can also relate to convincing myself so much that I look how my mind perceives I do to the point where I think everyone else is lying to me. Even now, if people say I don’t look how I perceive myself to look, I still deny it.
i’m sorry you’re struggling - just please know it gets easier, and your brain IS lying to you. everyone else has no reason to lie to you. they want the best for you ❤️
@@RoMitchell it’s okay, I am working on it and like you said in the video, I have just been trying to wear baggy clothes and hoodies to feel more comfortable.
I am trying to remind myself that the thoughts I have been having are false and definitely not the reality! That is very true :) x
regarding the body problematic: i actually don't feel the EXACT need to hide my body. even though on some days i feel bigger and the other days i feel smaller. it's more problematic for me to feel my body...
in the past i struggled with BED which lead to continueous weight gain through out my child hood. later on since i reached the age of 17 i returned to an restrictive ED (anorexia). i'm now in recover but due to both eating disorders i feel like i can't trust my body. this results on the problem that i hate feeling hungry but at the same time i hate feeling satisfied and full. i try to plan my meals through out my day, so that i eat enough. i hate feeling my body because that means, that i have to feel my stomach constantly shrinking and stretching (because of food of course). i just feel constantly unwell and i wonder if this will ever go away
I love your attitude I appreciate I fluctuated and got baggier clothes so I'd feel hidden when I needed to for a start in recovery and I still wear them now on bad days too 👍💖
I’ve been struggling with this so often the past few weeks especially, thank you so much
it gets easier - all my love xxxx
That is a great video. I'm sure it will help people. You look really great Ro, from your hair and beautiful eyes right down to all of your clothing. You've done so well ❣️
Love this video idea ❤ also you have such gorgeous hair!!
thank you!!🤍
I'm so happy that you posted a video like this!🥰 It's so important and very helpfull, thank you so much!❤
I needed this video so badly 😭 you are amazing, thank you for all you do xx
Love you so much Ro 💕 You always know exactly what I need to hear!
I love your style, excellent choose xx
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What you say in your videos is so inspiring and so helpful your videos helped me start recovery thank you for being you and your amazing I hope you have an amazing weekend 😊 all the best from Scotland 🏴
Love you! Thank you for being so comforting
Strong amazing galll you help me soooi much xxx
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I usually wear stretchy flare pants and they're so damn comfy and help during bad body image days. Like I have a pair of flare jeans I use for pure comfort (3x my normal size), and one that's my own size to look fabulous while still being in a sense of comfort. Also cardigan dresses is a huge recommendation!!!!
You are sooo beautiful ♥
You’re literally beautiful inside and out
aaaa thank you!!
Your hair is so cute!!
I love it so much!♡♡
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That scarf is amazing! And what a cool video idea
thank you!
Love your outfits!
I’m terrible at styling clothes and you gave me some wonderful ideas!
You have such a cool sense of style - I love it ❤️
watched this while eating seconds of breakfast!! (butter on sourdough 😩😩)
I did enjoy your video very much!
I love this, but honestly I’ve just rlly missed you (but I completely understand health& welbeing come first) anyway I don’t really wear a heap of baggy stuff (other than hoodies) but I think some of these fits would help on bad days and they were all stunning outfits 💗😽
😀💕xx yes, great video Ro. Thanks very much.
thank you !!
What a fantastic, sensitive video xxxx
thank you
Any ideas for warm weather? I know it's not very warm for very long in the UK, but where I live the different seasons are very different. These are super helpful for Winter and Autumn, but I'm finding it difficult in the Summer and Spring. Thank you!!
you are so wonderful ro and have the best style!! thank you for this video :) also, i might have missed it but where did you get the fab black skirt from?
thank you :) i didn’t say !! but it’s from asos x
I love my uncle's old baggy jumpers! The one thing I'm having trouble with is getting rid of clothes I really love that are now too small, as it's sometimes difficult to find the same quality and style (a lot are my mum's old clothes) - I find more modern clothes are usually a lot more flimsy.
Edit-Lucy and yak is great for dungarees
Dude you are so beautiful it's unreal!
I love your videos ❤
I found really cute overalls dresses and they help me so much! They make me feel cute and feminine, yet they hide my thighs and boobs (biggest insecurities since weight gain). They are truly amazing! Also, since you can't feel dresses around your waist, it's more comfortable. I tend to feel really bad when I feel my clothes tight on my body. I've gone days without washing my jeans because I don't want them to get tight again in the dryer. So yeah, dresses are life savers.
The struggle of your hair getting messy when putting on hoodies is REAL :,D
hahaha yes
Body dysmorphia sucks 😕. How can I see something so differently to everyone else? Worrying about how I look takes up so much of my brain, its exhausting.
it’s tiring i know. 🤍 i promise it gets easier, and mental illness can make our brains lie to us - be as kind to yourself as you can x
@@RoMitchell In my case it isn't imagined, but true, because I'm diagnosed with lipedema which is the cause for my eating disorder: my waist and hips are 2 different sizes. It's really hard to accept that my body is disproportional. 😨😢
Try the long black skirt with the black & white striped sweater.
There’s just something about oversized clothes that make me feel smaller 🧡
It makes me feel bigger because of my tiny waist and wide hips because of lipedema 😢
Thank you❤
11:50 Aww… you are so cute in this sweater… 😊
Hi Ro
hey!
Aw, thredup should sponsor you for these outfit vids lol
Baggy clothes on my lower body somehow make me uncomfortable a lot of the time, like I have a hard time finding the right silhouette or something like that. Joggers with a little fitted ankle feel nice.
hi Ro ❤️ I'd be interested one day for a video (only if you are comfortable) about navigating intimacy with a partner during recovery and body dysmorphia. Or if anyone in the comments can share their experiences, that would be helpful x
Do your hair white will look so good with your blue eyes 🤍🥰💎
👗 DRESS, If I feel uncomfortable in my body, I just put on a dress. I swear. It’s make me feel better 💁🏽♀️
I have sensory issues and find jeans really uncomfortable but you are right, they do go with everything. If anyone can relate to this and has any tips I would appreciate them!!
I completely get you. Something that helped me: (and this might not be a solution at all but just to know youre not alone). I found that semi loose fit mom jeans are the best fit. Loose but not wide legged. Then i fold and tuck the bottom of the jeans into my socks. That way i feel most comfortable and least nervous by the moving fabric. Also look for the ‘jean fabric’ that helps you most. Mine is a medium thick heavy one as it feels safest. Much love
I thought I was the only one 🥺
Thank you sooo much❤I‘m really in trouble with my body. You help me to go on 💪🏽
How did you recognize that you are in you Setpoint?
You look great love Jan xx
thank you ❤️
Vlog about books?🫶🏻
can you post more vegetarian single serve recipes please ❤
Also where are the smart trousers from?
What program do u use to edit your videos?✨🤍
1:33 are these magpies?? Hahaha random but that's what the sound remind me. They look black and white but in reality their feathers are holographic (purple-blue-greenish).
Also can we talk about how shinny your eyes and hair look?? 💕
i think they were hahahah
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