Please see the playlist that resonates most with you: Surrender TO ACCESS OUR GREATEST POWER- tinyurl.com/496mk4h5 NON DUALITY POINTERS- tinyurl.com/mt55dkue SPIRITUAL AWAKENING- tinyurl.com/yc3nspuc SELF INQUIRY AND CONSCIOUS AWARENESS- tinyurl.com/4vnububc
I love listening to your videos because you're so authentic and you give me insights. On this one though I have to say you've never been a mother. It has not only been my greatest life experience but has given me my a true understanding of the depth and breadth of love. They are now all adults and that love has only grown over the years and has only helped me experience the true meaning of why I came.
I had lots then woke up and lost the ALL. I realized asleep you are a sheep doing and flowing in line with the group think crowd. I never fit in doing that. Ever so I quit and now it’s so peaceful plus most of my ex friends oddly were staunch atheists. That can’t be a coincidence.
@@thirstonhowellthebird when I found the Mormon faith the people in my life who were atheist and non God in there lives left . I never even told them . Just gave off a different radiance. I guess that scares off that not of Jesus and God. I realized how many people I felt like friends were just using me when they needed me the more I wake up. This is all God's dream and he wants things good things for those who show faith . I believe God's purging what isn't good for me out my life so I can become who I need to be. I just have to not worry so much and let it just happen.
@@newvegasadventures4173 I can completely relate because it’s exactly the same for me. The world is just turning so corrupt and I’m actually grateful for the isolation. Good luck, my friend you are the chosen one.
It's such a relief to hear that Im not the only one who feels like this. Most of the time, I feel like an alien or if there's somthing wrong with me. What is so obvious to some of us is unfathomable to the majority of humans.
Awesome video! Ironically, you're the exact kind of person I look for in a friend. I need someone who, at a minimum, is not afraid to go beyond surface level conversation. We're here to explore, not get locked into a system of thoughts and actions. Thank you so much for this awesome spiritual fuel!
Giving, loving, sharing with others connect with Oneness too. And what's "connect" even more to "Oneness" is stopping to seek what you already are. No more spiritual videos, no more books, no more knowledge, just You as Life.
I flipping hate "catch up" phone calls that go on for hours. It literally drains the life out of me. I wish people would just get on with their own lives and leave me alone 😂
Maybe they are there for what they can find out about you. And the rest will be a mystery. Got to spend some time if they really want to know. Don't just feed them that gossip juice.
I can watch this all day. I am exactly like yourself in a sense of friendship I don’t like labels or concepts plus I always feel like people always have non pure motives. I’ll happily just exist and those who are on the same level won’t have to force anything.
Love the concept of not labeling things, it just is what it is, even things such as "failures" aren't exactly failures, that's just what we decide to label it!
I know exactly what you mean, at first upon awakening I thought everybody needed help to feel what I felt, but it didn't take long before everyone wanted to put me in a mental hospital, so now I only answer questions and don't try to wake people up, it's useless and dangerous for you to excel. Now I don't have any friends but the questions are becoming more and more frequent with the times, just wish someone would ask about Alchemy.
In your experience, how active must one be in the process of alchemy. I hear conflicting things... And I've experienced conflicting things... In that transmutation occurs naturally but also can be "forced."
I don't have any 'friends' now, my sisters are npd, abusive, i cut them off after years of abuse, i would like a friend but very hard to find for me anyway, so many people are superficial, materialistic, as you get older, it is harder, they are all in their little cliques and families, and we are all boxed up in our cubicles, everyone wants money 💰 for anything they do, thats one thing i do have, plenty of, i love animals, i had to give my ragdollcat away, broke my ❤️ heart, now i am feeding all the 🌈 lorikeets all day, every colour of rainbow, very noisy, i'm living next beautiful park in Sydney! Thankyou for your talks!❤I am exploring spirituality and doing AA!
I get you, man, I'm so in tune with everything you said... I'm one step behind your way of life, though. Still engaged with "friends"...but I just wana get out of all these boxes, as you named them. I don't fit in any. Enjoy your state of being, you're true to yourself and the others, being desengaged as you are. My dream is towards that way of living, nothing else, one day at a time, with no bonds and cheap talk, no social empty gatherings (hardly have them, anyway), not looking for security or attatchments. Hard to leave all this behind, but a chat with you, like this one, gives me the fuel to step to the unknown, get the courage to distance myself from labels and aprovals. Thank you for that, brother 🙏
man... your videos have been helping me a lot. i felt like i've been at a spiritual roadblock for the last couple of years, and something has seriously been shifting recently and your energy has probably contributed to that... so i wanna say thank you, for being "you" ;)
Trauma bonds everywhere... I'm alset to brother with labels and concepts.. I'll just do me.. I don't want friends...to many expectations.. I don't have any expectations 😁🙏🏻🙌🙏🏻❤️🔱🕉️🔱 thanks brother 🙏🏻❤️🥰😁
Wow!!! You know what I just realized? Oneness seeks seperation to not feel alone and otherness while ego feeling seperate seeks oneness only to find it wants to seek otherness there is so satisfaction in surface maybe briefly… acceptance of this is where I think the only place peace resides
I've been the same way almost my entire life. Even as a child, I remember on Christmas Day, after even 3-4 hours around family, I'd retreat to the peace of my room for solitude. In 2020 I initially was annoyed by lockdown, then I started loving it. Since March 2022, I've been around India seeking spiritual progress, sometimes practicing yoga & meditation 10 hours per day. If you're like me, really dislike being around society, I strongly suggest moving to either Latin America or India, if only for 2 months, just to experience how much different you will feel. Everything I thought was important, was a mind-trick. (it's Ironic that society values great thinking philosophers, and we're heading towards a pandemic of mental disease. In the East, they value a quiet mind. If that's what you're seeking you and you know where it's located..
Yes been in both places India Mexico it’s good to get out of your environment tbh no attachments- save up and go for a few months- not into the guru path tbh after personal experience but yes go abroad meditate or stay where u r meditate 🧘♀️
Pure 😂 💯 I'm far from perfect or pure, but I love unconditionally that is for sure. I love myself ( Goddess/God within ) most of all unconditionally, love everyone unconditionally. I love my True love partner unconditionally. ❤❤ I am one and love all unconditionally.
Thanks for this. A great video I've watched a few times because it validates a realization of mine. Never really had friends or relationships. Used to think something was wrong with me, but then it finally became clear the past couple of years I just get too deep into things, and must know the cause of everything on a fundamental level. My family and acquaintances so far in life are just not about that. For the most part they still on the superficial level, and that's okay for them, but being around people who accept the window dressing when you'd rather go inside the building can make you think you're crazy at times.
I like to do nice things for people because I want to and not because I'm obligated to and when you use terms like girlfriend or best friend that person can develop a possessive and entitled mindset over you. This is something I fully relate to and something I also try to avoid in my life wherever I can.
you are such a cool dude! my friend said you remind him of me. Maybe i will be like you when i get abit older :D listening to you while playing world of warcraft is incredibly chill and therapeutic
I've been following my own path for a while and I am overjoyed to find your channel and hear someone saying exactly what I needed to hear. I feel the same way and sometimes I doubt myself about it but this video helped me see that it's all okay.
you can definitely call out anyone, and it's definitely useful to have some sort of label or way of behavior toward those who care about you more. yes, we're all 'one', but before you convince the world of that you'll have to realize that some people will be more likely to look out for you than others. you can also use the 'non-label' thing in manipulative ways too - 'oh, you're no my "friend/brother/wife/lover/etc" so i don't owe you anything', for example.
"Gag me with a spoon" That would be about 42+ years not 20! I know because I remember it. Great channel by the way! I came surfing back here tonight because of a friend with no label... and caught the most blissful wave digesting this video. So "juicy" as Ram Dass would often say. This video is juicy ...and a maybe box of chocolates that never runs out and always changes. Gratitude for your time co-creating these sparkly glimpses. 🏝🌊💜
Reading all the comments after watching the video, I can’t help but cry for humanity. I mean I get it totally 💯 relationships are difficult and take time and energy etc it’s just so sad we have so much trouble accepting non duality and sharing from the heart space so we can connect without ego attachment and expectations. 😢❤
I was feeling like I had good friends (more like acquaintances) but even when you're friends with good people, they tend to be struggling badly with something and that's only fair, but I have compassion fatigue now days (post being a therapist/life long co-dependent) and am trying to be selfish and if I have friends I fall into caring too much then get drained, so the selfishness needs to be hermitage and keeping a safe distance in order to try and heal my own body and mind and be high vibe. People want access to your light, but most people are out of touch with their own so it is unbalanced and I get off kilter over time. Back to the hermit cave for me hahaha yey
Why you make so much sense man? 😂 Thank you for bringing out messages like this one!! It’s like hearing my own deepest thoughts from another person! 💚🙏
I call out my “friends” and that is why I am only left with a couple of people by my side who are able for honest conversation and collaborations. Whatever the initial reason I had for having children soon vanished when I realised they were here to show me how to live. Blew my whole world apart ☺️ Clever beings. I suppose we all have our different reasons. 😅
I'm just happy there's another person out there who gets it thanks for posting. What you described at the end is exactly what I share with my "best friend" and the more I don't "need" friends the more people show up who I feel genuinely connected with and love each other's company.
Your videos are exactly what i needed to hear, especially this one. Thank you for this, i resonate with it so much ❤ thank god that i am staying true to the essence and that there are other people feeling the same
Love you Yash I found your channel few weeks ago came at an appropriate time in my life . Your my biggest mentor ever period thanks for existing your an awesome teacher. I'm doing the big transformation inside as I speak thanks for all the good videos and tips.
I hope you know we appreciate you bro , you respond to as many comments as you can , not doing ads and promoting shit (I wouldn’t be mad if you did) . Not bending your morals for more fame and money tho you could, consistently giving us spiritual esoteric knowledge ,I feel like you’ve saved me 10 years of learning in a way😂You real af bro we appreciate everything 🤞🏾💯
There are no coincidences for sure. I have been thinking about this topic for awhile now. Thank you for the confirmation. I just came across your video for the first time.
You got me there with your title!:) Nice to meet your individuality here in this video, thanks for that. I feel that each of us carries a piece of the 'garden of Eden' and has the potential to express it. I enjoy this so much. Also my own piece of garden, which has more and more tropical fruits and flowers. Since I enjoy my quirks and allowing myself not to have to understand myself (and others), I feel pleasure in being an enigma. Strolling around through all the surrounding intangible energies. This makes life endlessly fascinating for me! Take care, wherever you are..
Ironically commenting before having watched the whole video after you just said you don’t like that 😂 😂 But I love the way it feels like a conversation with a friend. That’s in my opinion your unique selling point. Definitely love the ‘intruders’ or whatever it is!!! Glad you left it in. Not really sure I can say why. I hate fiff faff in most videos and forward past anything peripheral to the content. You keep it real though! I think people in the comments will agree ❤
In this journey, one went back into societal spaces to survive & the IRONY is that men & women want an objective impersonal healer. So you are closer & more valued for not wanting anything😂 i just wanted to survive peacefully & end up a spirit guide lol
I love all my friends I met on my journey. I have that feeling now. I just want to be alone and search of nyself.,I considered myself to be fortubate to be here today and witnessed the Love of God.,It is good to be awaken. Love U. ☘🍁🍀🍃💕💚💕🍃
I totally get the compromise so many don’t get this I just stay alone because I haven’t learned to be authentic enough to be like this others yet but I will soon
When awakened we detach from the game of life at times it can be lonely but we are never alone we are just making our way back home to the pure light . Stay true to your nature and stay the course all is well. 🙏💞
exactly, I really agree with everything you said. I had one male friend's friend that harassed me and trying to mess with me, and I told both of them that I thought I could trust, but then they said no that's impossible, he's a great dude & a good friend. I stopped talking to them ever since lol.
Wow I enjoyed listening to what you had to say about friends and quite a few things resonated with me. I specifically searched for videos regarding “why I don’t want friends” and yours was the first to come up!! I realized today… I didn’t come into the world with automatic friends… therefore I’ll be fine leaving the world without friends 😊 Thank you for sharing your message!
Here's my thoughts on labels....i personally take a middle path on labels. I primarily try to always practice non attachment in terms of labels. Labels are essentially illusions from a absolute sense. However i do find labels useful as illusions can be useful. But one should NOT be attached to such labels as being attached to labels will make you suffer. I go by the motto "being in the world, but not of the world".
I get this for sure. Your name is a label, every word is a label for something.. if we didn't have names assigned to our meat suits or the objects in our current state of reality, it would get complicated. People forget we have these bodies for a reason and they try to become "pure consciousness" whilst in a meatsuit and deny anything of this world. If you were supposed to exist here as pure consciousness, zero "ego" why do you have a body designed to move, speak, think and feel? The ego can't be removed as it's the vessel you're experiencing this life through. For example, If you had no "ego" you wouldn't feed yourself and you'd perish...
i struggle a lot in my current “relationship”. I fight the edge of that box when the label “boyfriend” is placed on me, its like you said, you find yourself trying to act within the perimeter of that box. I find myself still with this partner despite the limitations because i feel that they understand me so well and have been a tremendous friend in helping me become free in other ways i trapped myself, make sense? i think we all get lost in relationships like that. Anyways this one really resonated with me, thanks for always being there!
My closest relation was with a spiritual teacher and someone came in between us, it blew up the connection. My trust was shaken badly. I was to believe he was a bad person, a terrible person. I couldnt see the truth, i was so confused, a fog came over me. The situation was very extreme and i ended up in total isolation unexpectedly. For 7 months it was like i was in a personal ashram (living in the country alone, no job, no friends, no family), all my relationships fell away as i went within this space. It was a super intense process! When i came out of that i was confronted with my spiritual teacher again and I had no confusion or ill feelings. My heart was light as a feather. Now we are connected again.. though in hindsight the connection never truly left. It was a very big lesson
It is so odd that you release this today. A week ago i got a call from an old friend wanting me to come hang out with him and two others i have not seen in a very long time (meeting was last night.) Part of me wanted to but another part did not. Rarely am I indecisive and I told him I may show up I may not. I never lie but I didn't want to be a dick either to old friends. Ultimately I did not go. Part of me is sad, but deep down inside I knew it had to be this way.
Fine video. Yes, it's clear that most so-called relationships are about mutual gain and exploitation, though people often use euphemisms, beautiful words, to cover that up. So for example, one may say: "I love you." Which actually means: "I'm drawn to you because you can get me what I want." That may be sex, gifts, comforts of all kinds. You've become an instrument for those. But that sort of thing is exceedingly difficult to admit to oneself because people, by and large, are compelled to believe that their motives are already good. In other words, people want to look good to themselves. This is where the problematic nature of concepts comes in: if you believe you're "kind" generally, that belief may cloud the fact that you're not. Your rosy self-images prevent you from seeing what's actually going on within. As for the issue of "security", one would do well to remember that it simply doesn't exist in this world. So if you've gathered a lot of possessions or are wealthy, you may lose that at any time. You don't know when you'll die; you can't simply assume you'll reach old age. There's no security simply in virtue of the fact that you can die at any time, regardless of your health and diet. The latter may improve your chances of longevity, but they guarantee nothing. Health-conscious people, people who have gone to the gym regularly, I'm sure, still have died of cancer - while heavy long-time smokers have reached old age, some of whom are not miserable. For example, 3 months ago I noted an exhausted vape on my table outside my door. It had been standing there for 3 or 4 months, even though there had been a series of thunderstorms. I myself experienced a flood in my apartment in the course of that period. Logically, you would have thought that in addition to scattered branches and boughs on the street, the vape would have been swept away. A one-inch-wide vape. But such is life: you don't know what will happen. No security. Now the issue of friendship is a complex one - one with which I've struggled on a personal level. If you're in desperate circumstances, in need of shelter, say, and your long-time friend refuses to take you in, even though he has a spare room, that is serious. One could say that I had expectations of him - yes, as an old-time friend I expected compassion, simply because true friends are that way. They actually help friends in desperate circumstances. Friends must be reliable. Now are all these concepts? Indeed they are. I don't hold that against him; I'm not angry. In fact, I'm open to communication, and we'll probably talk at some point. But if a friend doesn't prove reliable - especially if one is in serious shit - then the term friend may not be applicable. Since we're living in the human realm, with human limitations, we need to draw the line somewhere. However, by the same token, his turning me away was probably for the best. As you've talked about in other videos, life knows better than the individual does. In my relative solitude I began seeing things much more clearly. In fact, my friend's refusal and my mother's passing both, basically, wiped me out. Old life-long tendencies simply dissolved. Moreover, I live in a more suitable environment, I guess. So yes, what my friend did may have been the hand of life, and life knows best. But does that mean I need to continue being his friend? Not necessarily.
For the longest time of my life i have always felt there has been something off about all my relationships. Like there was something missing. And all this while i would blame myself for it, with a rather staunch belief that i understood relationships very well, that if i did this or that my relationships would be fixed. It took me sometime to realise that I was never going to find a meaningful and deep relationship. I mean surface relationships, social labels may be a lot, but that is not what I am looking for. I made my peace with that void, its going to be there, probably for the rest of my life and there is nothing that i can do to fix that bad feeling. Maybe it will stop being a bad feeling, but who knows maybe it will get worse.
Please see the playlist that resonates most with you:
Surrender TO ACCESS OUR GREATEST POWER- tinyurl.com/496mk4h5
NON DUALITY POINTERS- tinyurl.com/mt55dkue
SPIRITUAL AWAKENING- tinyurl.com/yc3nspuc
SELF INQUIRY AND CONSCIOUS AWARENESS- tinyurl.com/4vnububc
Thanks once again for more sage advice. I'll try and 'BE' friends with people rather than 'HAVE' friends from now on. Have a good day.
I love listening to your videos because you're so authentic and you give me insights. On this one though I have to say you've never been a mother. It has not only been my greatest life experience but has given me my a true understanding of the depth and breadth of love. They are now all adults and that love has only grown over the years and has only helped me experience the true meaning of why I came.
Look over your right shoulder...that is a diamond tree...there is kimberlite under it...
They specifically grown on diamonds...good luck
I find peace in your energy, it's very calming.
Can you safely say that if you met your dream girl, you would not want any label?
I have no real friends and I'm ok with that. God will put them in my life when he wants them
I had lots then woke up and lost the ALL. I realized asleep you are a sheep doing and flowing in line with the group think crowd. I never fit in doing that. Ever so I quit and now it’s so peaceful plus most of my ex friends oddly were staunch atheists. That can’t be a coincidence.
@@thirstonhowellthebird when I found the Mormon faith the people in my life who were atheist and non God in there lives left . I never even told them . Just gave off a different radiance. I guess that scares off that not of Jesus and God. I realized how many people I felt like friends were just using me when they needed me the more I wake up. This is all God's dream and he wants things good things for those who show faith . I believe God's purging what isn't good for me out my life so I can become who I need to be. I just have to not worry so much and let it just happen.
@@newvegasadventures4173 I can completely relate because it’s exactly the same for me. The world is just turning so corrupt and I’m actually grateful for the isolation. Good luck, my friend you are the chosen one.
Bro… I say”I don’t have any friends and he says”and don’t say you have friends you have in the group ugh… attachment
same im completely fine with having no friends
It's such a relief to hear that Im not the only one who feels like this. Most of the time, I feel like an alien or if there's somthing wrong with me. What is so obvious to some of us is unfathomable to the majority of humans.
yes, exactly!
Awesome video! Ironically, you're the exact kind of person I look for in a friend. I need someone who, at a minimum, is not afraid to go beyond surface level conversation. We're here to explore, not get locked into a system of thoughts and actions. Thank you so much for this awesome spiritual fuel!
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True, just realised I don’t have energy anymore for small talks with so called friends.
Let's all not be friends together....
House alone ❤
I want to be your friend to 😊. I have no friends either, can’t be bother with empty chats of people. Love your videos ❤
I also don’t have company “friends”. I do not need anything other than my inner journey connecting with God.
Most are not your friend , when there is trouble they GONE.
Aloneness and Loneliness connect with ONENESS ❤
Giving, loving, sharing with others connect with Oneness too.
And what's "connect" even more to "Oneness" is stopping to seek what you already are. No more spiritual videos, no more books, no more knowledge, just You as Life.
Yup
I flipping hate "catch up" phone calls that go on for hours. It literally drains the life out of me. I wish people would just get on with their own lives and leave me alone 😂
Maybe they are there for what they can find out about you. And the rest will be a mystery. Got to spend some time if they really want to know. Don't just feed them that gossip juice.
I can watch this all day. I am exactly like yourself in a sense of friendship I don’t like labels or concepts plus I always feel like people always have non pure motives. I’ll happily just exist and those who are on the same level won’t have to force anything.
Throttle therapy puts us in the flow state!
Exactly 🙏🏻❤️🩷🥰
Likewise 😘🙋🏻🏴
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Human relationships feel very fake. I think the casual relationships between animals, the ones that exist only in the moment, are incredibly pure.
I live in a society where people have children to care for them in the future . Not because they REALY want children.
Give freely to all and you will have everything you could need❤
I had friends but I broke ties with them because they were dragging me down and were toxic . God will put good friends in my life when he has to
I have a very small circle, and I like it that way. 🎉😊
I agree on everything, tired of being in boxes, i want to be free
Love the concept of not labeling things, it just is what it is, even things such as "failures" aren't exactly failures, that's just what we decide to label it!
I know exactly what you mean, at first upon awakening I thought everybody needed help to feel what I felt, but it didn't take long before everyone wanted to put me in a mental hospital, so now I only answer questions and don't try to wake people up, it's useless and dangerous for you to excel. Now I don't have any friends but the questions are becoming more and more frequent with the times, just wish someone would ask about Alchemy.
yes!
In your experience, how active must one be in the process of alchemy. I hear conflicting things... And I've experienced conflicting things... In that transmutation occurs naturally but also can be "forced."
@@Coyote191-ov5kgit maybe depends on how fast you think or how many words you read per day.
yeah telling somebody the thing they use to escape is the very thing causing the suffering is impossible if they havent realized it themselves
Real
I don't have any 'friends' now, my sisters are npd, abusive, i cut them off after years of abuse, i would like a friend but very hard to find for me anyway, so many people are superficial, materialistic, as you get older, it is harder, they are all in their little cliques and families, and we are all boxed up in our cubicles, everyone wants money 💰 for anything they do, thats one thing i do have, plenty of, i love animals, i had to give my ragdollcat away, broke my ❤️ heart, now i am feeding all the 🌈 lorikeets all day, every colour of rainbow, very noisy, i'm living next beautiful park in Sydney! Thankyou for your talks!❤I am exploring spirituality and doing AA!
I have no friends nor do i want them. I prefer isolation and besides i dont have their problems 😂happy life
I get you, man, I'm so in tune with everything you said... I'm one step behind your way of life, though. Still engaged with "friends"...but I just wana get out of all these boxes, as you named them. I don't fit in any. Enjoy your state of being, you're true to yourself and the others, being desengaged as you are. My dream is towards that way of living, nothing else, one day at a time, with no bonds and cheap talk, no social empty gatherings (hardly have them, anyway), not looking for security or attatchments.
Hard to leave all this behind, but a chat with you, like this one, gives me the fuel to step to the unknown, get the courage to distance myself from labels and aprovals. Thank you for that, brother 🙏
man... your videos have been helping me a lot. i felt like i've been at a spiritual roadblock for the last couple of years, and something has seriously been shifting recently and your energy has probably contributed to that... so i wanna say thank you, for being "you" ;)
Thank you!
I always know immediately when I’ve come across an absolutely beautiful soul and teacher and you sure are! 🙏🏼
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Trauma bonds everywhere... I'm alset to brother with labels and concepts.. I'll just do me.. I don't want friends...to many expectations.. I don't have any expectations 😁🙏🏻🙌🙏🏻❤️🔱🕉️🔱 thanks brother 🙏🏻❤️🥰😁
Wow!!! You know what I just realized? Oneness seeks seperation to not feel alone and otherness while ego feeling seperate seeks oneness only to find it wants to seek otherness there is so satisfaction in surface maybe briefly… acceptance of this is where I think the only place peace resides
So glad I found your channel. I was planning on going out tonight to meet people, but instead I might just stay in and watch your videos.
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The title made me laugh histerically before I clicked on the video 😂. Thank you for your energy dude, always.
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This is the best spiritual talk I’ve heard for months. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom.
I've been the same way almost my entire life. Even as a child, I remember on Christmas Day, after even 3-4 hours around family, I'd retreat to the peace of my room for solitude.
In 2020 I initially was annoyed by lockdown, then I started loving it.
Since March 2022, I've been around India seeking spiritual progress, sometimes practicing yoga & meditation 10 hours per day. If you're like me, really dislike being around society, I strongly suggest moving to either Latin America or India, if only for 2 months, just to experience how much different you will feel. Everything I thought was important, was a mind-trick. (it's Ironic that society values great thinking philosophers, and we're heading towards a pandemic of mental disease. In the East, they value a quiet mind. If that's what you're seeking you and you know where it's located..
I'm really considering doing this. How safe is it there for a westerner? and how do you sustain yourself ie income?
@@celticwarrior7217you don’t need to go anywhere .It’s you that has to change not the place.
Yes been in both places India Mexico it’s good to get out of your environment tbh no attachments- save up and go for a few months- not into the guru path tbh after personal experience but yes go abroad meditate or stay where u r meditate 🧘♀️
"He aint heavy, he's my brother"...by the Hollies. New Subscriber! TH-cam turned me onto your channel. They know what I like. 👍
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Pure 😂 💯 I'm far from perfect or pure, but I love unconditionally that is for sure. I love myself ( Goddess/God within ) most of all unconditionally, love everyone unconditionally. I love my True love partner unconditionally. ❤❤ I am one and love all unconditionally.
Thanks for this. A great video I've watched a few times because it validates a realization of mine. Never really had friends or relationships. Used to think something was wrong with me, but then it finally became clear the past couple of years I just get too deep into things, and must know the cause of everything on a fundamental level. My family and acquaintances so far in life are just not about that. For the most part they still on the superficial level, and that's okay for them, but being around people who accept the window dressing when you'd rather go inside the building can make you think you're crazy at times.
I like to do nice things for people because I want to and not because I'm obligated to and when you use terms like girlfriend or best friend that person can develop a possessive and entitled mindset over you. This is something I fully relate to and something I also try to avoid in my life wherever I can.
you are such a cool dude! my friend said you remind him of me. Maybe i will be like you when i get abit older :D listening to you while playing world of warcraft is incredibly chill and therapeutic
Friends are overrated
Acquaintances and fake people are overrated
I've been following my own path for a while and I am overjoyed to find your channel and hear someone saying exactly what I needed to hear. I feel the same way and sometimes I doubt myself about it but this video helped me see that it's all okay.
you can definitely call out anyone, and it's definitely useful to have some sort of label or way of behavior toward those who care about you more. yes, we're all 'one', but before you convince the world of that you'll have to realize that some people will be more likely to look out for you than others. you can also use the 'non-label' thing in manipulative ways too - 'oh, you're no my "friend/brother/wife/lover/etc" so i don't owe you anything', for example.
"Gag me with a spoon" That would be about 42+ years not 20! I know because I remember it. Great channel by the way! I came surfing back here tonight because of a friend with no label... and caught the most blissful wave digesting this video. So "juicy" as Ram Dass would often say. This video is juicy ...and a maybe box of chocolates that never runs out and always changes. Gratitude for your time co-creating these sparkly glimpses. 🏝🌊💜
Reading all the comments after watching the video, I can’t help but cry for humanity. I mean I get it totally 💯 relationships are difficult and take time and energy etc it’s just so sad we have so much trouble accepting non duality and sharing from the heart space so we can connect without ego attachment and expectations. 😢❤
I was feeling like I had good friends (more like acquaintances) but even when you're friends with good people, they tend to be struggling badly with something and that's only fair, but I have compassion fatigue now days (post being a therapist/life long co-dependent) and am trying to be selfish and if I have friends I fall into caring too much then get drained, so the selfishness needs to be hermitage and keeping a safe distance in order to try and heal my own body and mind and be high vibe. People want access to your light, but most people are out of touch with their own so it is unbalanced and I get off kilter over time. Back to the hermit cave for me hahaha yey
Finally! Someone that is real and speaks the truth. I enjoy watching your videos. Thank you for your authentic content.
Why you make so much sense man? 😂
Thank you for bringing out messages like this one!!
It’s like hearing my own deepest thoughts from another person!
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I call out my “friends” and that is why I am only left with a couple of people by my side who are able for honest conversation and collaborations. Whatever the initial reason I had for having children soon vanished when I realised they were here to show me how to live. Blew my whole world apart ☺️ Clever beings. I suppose we all have our different reasons. 😅
Man i enjoy your videos a lot! Nice to know that someone shares points of view, or that I’m not the only crazy one haha
I'm just happy there's another person out there who gets it thanks for posting. What you described at the end is exactly what I share with my "best friend" and the more I don't "need" friends the more people show up who I feel genuinely connected with and love each other's company.
Love you brother. Hope you’re surrounded by loved ones for the holidays. Take care
Your videos are exactly what i needed to hear, especially this one. Thank you for this, i resonate with it so much ❤ thank god that i am staying true to the essence and that there are other people feeling the same
I don't want friends too. People invite me to places and events. I just can't be bothered.
You just gotta find people who are at the same frequency as you or above. Most people are below. There's strength in numbers.
Still waiting. Tic toc tic toc.
Love you Yash I found your channel few weeks ago came at an appropriate time in my life . Your my biggest mentor ever period thanks for existing your an awesome teacher. I'm doing the big transformation inside as I speak thanks for all the good videos and tips.
Well said always found relationships and so called friendships very complicated, thanks,
Well said… Keep up the great work 😎.
I hope you know we appreciate you bro , you respond to as many comments as you can , not doing ads and promoting shit (I wouldn’t be mad if you did) . Not bending your morals for more fame and money tho you could, consistently giving us spiritual esoteric knowledge ,I feel like you’ve saved me 10 years of learning in a way😂You real af bro we appreciate everything 🤞🏾💯
Very good! ..:)
It all falls on people not being capable or having the capacity to handle the truth.
I like that you kept it real and didnt edit
Thanks
Hahaha you are brilliant! My guy is pure genius!!!!
I'm glad I found this channel!!
I appreciate you! Ty for sharing you innermost thoughts ❤
That pine needle that fell on your left shoulder first 30 seconds in was cool :)
There are no coincidences for sure. I have been thinking about this topic for awhile now. Thank you for the confirmation. I just came across your video for the first time.
Welcome..
That was a really insightful video Yash, so many truths in this one !
Your videos have been on point for me lately. Keep it up brother 🎉
You got me there with your title!:) Nice to meet your individuality here in this video, thanks for that. I feel that each of us carries a piece of the 'garden of Eden' and has the potential to express it. I enjoy this so much. Also my own piece of garden, which has more and more tropical fruits and flowers. Since I enjoy my quirks and allowing myself not to have to understand myself (and others), I feel pleasure in being an enigma. Strolling around through all the surrounding intangible energies. This makes life endlessly fascinating for me! Take care, wherever you are..
Thank you
Ironically commenting before having watched the whole video after you just said you don’t like that 😂 😂
But I love the way it feels like a conversation with a friend. That’s in my opinion your unique selling point. Definitely love the ‘intruders’ or whatever it is!!! Glad you left it in. Not really sure I can say why. I hate fiff faff in most videos and forward past anything peripheral to the content. You keep it real though! I think people in the comments will agree ❤
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In this journey, one went back into societal spaces to survive & the IRONY is that men & women want an objective impersonal healer.
So you are closer & more valued for not wanting anything😂 i just wanted to survive peacefully & end up a spirit guide lol
"Dammit should I start over" another fun quote for a video and life 😂😂 glad you didn't this time
..:) that is na good title actually.
You are never alone❤. We are never alone.
We're all alone loo
We're all alone lol
You are a breath of fresh air! ❤
And thank you for not featuring ads - how great that is!
Actually TH-cam puts ads on certain videos if they see it getting. a lot of the clicks at the beginning and theres nothing we can do
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0:40 *We're gonna forge ahead now*
Thats the best intro man....... ur self realization facial launguage is so on point entire reason i continue watching
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I can totally relate! ❤
I liked the compromise part. Go without expecting anything.
Friends make u responsible for their lives. Sheesh!
I love all my friends I met on my journey. I have that feeling now. I just want to be alone and search of nyself.,I considered myself to be fortubate to be here today and witnessed the Love of God.,It is good to be awaken. Love U. ☘🍁🍀🍃💕💚💕🍃
I totally get the compromise so many don’t get this I just stay alone because I haven’t learned to be authentic enough to be like this others yet but I will soon
When awakened we detach from the game of life at times it can be lonely but we are never alone we are just making our way back home to the pure light . Stay true to your nature and stay the course all is well. 🙏💞
exactly, I really agree with everything you said. I had one male friend's friend that harassed me and trying to mess with me, and I told both of them that I thought I could trust, but then they said no that's impossible, he's a great dude & a good friend. I stopped talking to them ever since lol.
Just keep going man, don't start over
Thank you for continuing
Wow I enjoyed listening to what you had to say about friends and quite a few things resonated with me. I specifically searched for videos regarding “why I don’t want friends” and yours was the first to come up!! I realized today… I didn’t come into the world with automatic friends… therefore I’ll be fine leaving the world without friends 😊 Thank you for sharing your message!
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You have a very Taoist way of seeing things.
Dig it.
Facts me too 😊
Talk about how to know your real purpose and being lost
Children are not their parent’s responsibility! Allow Love to lead All relationships. ❤
Here's my thoughts on labels....i personally take a middle path on labels. I primarily try to always practice non attachment in terms of labels. Labels are essentially illusions from a absolute sense. However i do find labels useful as illusions can be useful. But one should NOT be attached to such labels as being attached to labels will make you suffer. I go by the motto "being in the world, but not of the world".
I get this for sure. Your name is a label, every word is a label for something.. if we didn't have names assigned to our meat suits or the objects in our current state of reality, it would get complicated. People forget we have these bodies for a reason and they try to become "pure consciousness" whilst in a meatsuit and deny anything of this world. If you were supposed to exist here as pure consciousness, zero "ego" why do you have a body designed to move, speak, think and feel? The ego can't be removed as it's the vessel you're experiencing this life through. For example, If you had no "ego" you wouldn't feed yourself and you'd perish...
oh man i'm glad this channel came to me the last few days.
I am searching by thinking am I the only one yup I found you and all people in the comments section❤
🤔 that's probably Why I AM Hon Solitude Always 💯 4:52
i struggle a lot in my current “relationship”. I fight the edge of that box when the label “boyfriend” is placed on me, its like you said, you find yourself trying to act within the perimeter of that box. I find myself still with this partner despite the limitations because i feel that they understand me so well and have been a tremendous friend in helping me become free in other ways i trapped myself, make sense? i think we all get lost in relationships like that. Anyways this one really resonated with me, thanks for always being there!
I respect and I think understand your view on relationships yet I like being in one and cannot give that up yet
no need to give it up. Flow with your destiny and you’ll be happy regardless of the form it takes. God expresses uniquely through everyone.
My closest relation was with a spiritual teacher and someone came in between us, it blew up the connection. My trust was shaken badly. I was to believe he was a bad person, a terrible person. I couldnt see the truth, i was so confused, a fog came over me. The situation was very extreme and i ended up in total isolation unexpectedly. For 7 months it was like i was in a personal ashram (living in the country alone, no job, no friends, no family), all my relationships fell away as i went within this space. It was a super intense process! When i came out of that i was confronted with my spiritual teacher again and I had no confusion or ill feelings. My heart was light as a feather. Now we are connected again.. though in hindsight the connection never truly left. It was a very big lesson
Yes hardly anything is pure. Reboot. Great video. All a choice and and offer. It's what's on offer....
It is so odd that you release this today. A week ago i got a call from an old friend wanting me to come hang out with him and two others i have not seen in a very long time (meeting was last night.) Part of me wanted to but another part did not. Rarely am I indecisive and I told him I may show up I may not. I never lie but I didn't want to be a dick either to old friends. Ultimately I did not go. Part of me is sad, but deep down inside I knew it had to be this way.
yes, i have an indian friend who fails that test over and over again (the one that you passed).
Almost same story for me. Except I did go. I left drained. Lesson learned ❤
I agree with all of this and this is what I try to teach people or at least have them understand where I am coming from.
My best and only friend is my Siamese cat. I wouldn't want it any other way.
No one thinks like this, except for u & i.
Awesome video brother
God needs to be prosecuted for not providing aspirants with some close relationships 😡 😡 😡 😡!!!!
Great stuff here!
I resonate widd 99% of this stuff ❤.
Fine video. Yes, it's clear that most so-called relationships are about mutual gain and exploitation, though people often use euphemisms, beautiful words, to cover that up. So for example, one may say: "I love you." Which actually means: "I'm drawn to you because you can get me what I want." That may be sex, gifts, comforts of all kinds. You've become an instrument for those. But that sort of thing is exceedingly difficult to admit to oneself because people, by and large, are compelled to believe that their motives are already good. In other words, people want to look good to themselves. This is where the problematic nature of concepts comes in: if you believe you're "kind" generally, that belief may cloud the fact that you're not. Your rosy self-images prevent you from seeing what's actually going on within.
As for the issue of "security", one would do well to remember that it simply doesn't exist in this world. So if you've gathered a lot of possessions or are wealthy, you may lose that at any time. You don't know when you'll die; you can't simply assume you'll reach old age. There's no security simply in virtue of the fact that you can die at any time, regardless of your health and diet. The latter may improve your chances of longevity, but they guarantee nothing. Health-conscious people, people who have gone to the gym regularly, I'm sure, still have died of cancer - while heavy long-time smokers have reached old age, some of whom are not miserable.
For example, 3 months ago I noted an exhausted vape on my table outside my door. It had been standing there for 3 or 4 months, even though there had been a series of thunderstorms. I myself experienced a flood in my apartment in the course of that period. Logically, you would have thought that in addition to scattered branches and boughs on the street, the vape would have been swept away. A one-inch-wide vape. But such is life: you don't know what will happen. No security.
Now the issue of friendship is a complex one - one with which I've struggled on a personal level. If you're in desperate circumstances, in need of shelter, say, and your long-time friend refuses to take you in, even though he has a spare room, that is serious. One could say that I had expectations of him - yes, as an old-time friend I expected compassion, simply because true friends are that way. They actually help friends in desperate circumstances. Friends must be reliable. Now are all these concepts? Indeed they are. I don't hold that against him; I'm not angry. In fact, I'm open to communication, and we'll probably talk at some point. But if a friend doesn't prove reliable - especially if one is in serious shit - then the term friend may not be applicable. Since we're living in the human realm, with human limitations, we need to draw the line somewhere.
However, by the same token, his turning me away was probably for the best. As you've talked about in other videos, life knows better than the individual does. In my relative solitude I began seeing things much more clearly. In fact, my friend's refusal and my mother's passing both, basically, wiped me out. Old life-long tendencies simply dissolved. Moreover, I live in a more suitable environment, I guess. So yes, what my friend did may have been the hand of life, and life knows best. But does that mean I need to continue being his friend? Not necessarily.
Agreed! And really agree and like your take on friendship and the last sentence
For the longest time of my life i have always felt there has been something off about all my relationships. Like there was something missing. And all this while i would blame myself for it, with a rather staunch belief that i understood relationships very well, that if i did this or that my relationships would be fixed.
It took me sometime to realise that I was never going to find a meaningful and deep relationship. I mean surface relationships, social labels may be a lot, but that is not what I am looking for. I made my peace with that void, its going to be there, probably for the rest of my life and there is nothing that i can do to fix that bad feeling. Maybe it will stop being a bad feeling, but who knows maybe it will get worse.