I Don't Have Any Friends, And I Don't Want Any! 😊

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ต.ค. 2024
  • 👉Find my Books HERE :
    sites.google.c...
    👉For those who have received some benefit from these videos and/or answers to the questions that you have asked and feel to send a gift to reciprocate the energy, then you can do so by clicking on the Cash App link or PayPal link below.
    NOTE:
    📌When using PayPal, IF THIS IS A GIFT then please choose the "GIFT' or THE "FRIENDS/FAMILY" payment option (NOT GOODS AND SERVICES) *Otherwise I will not be able to receive the donation.
    📌Also, If you live in the US and you use Zelle-- my Zelle email is business.yash820@gmail.com
    Thank you much!
    ------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    ▶️ cash.app/$Yash820
    ▶️ www.paypal.com...
    ------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    ⚠️Medical Disclaimer. The information on my social media or website is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. All content, including text, graphics, images and information, contained on or available through this social media or website is for general information purposes only.

ความคิดเห็น • 406

  • @spiritualrenaissance
    @spiritualrenaissance  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Please see the playlist that resonates most with you:
    Surrender TO ACCESS OUR GREATEST POWER- tinyurl.com/496mk4h5
    NON DUALITY POINTERS- tinyurl.com/mt55dkue
    SPIRITUAL AWAKENING- tinyurl.com/yc3nspuc
    SELF INQUIRY AND CONSCIOUS AWARENESS- tinyurl.com/4vnububc

    • @moonwolf790
      @moonwolf790 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks once again for more sage advice. I'll try and 'BE' friends with people rather than 'HAVE' friends from now on. Have a good day.

    • @ellensleevi2896
      @ellensleevi2896 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love listening to your videos because you're so authentic and you give me insights. On this one though I have to say you've never been a mother. It has not only been my greatest life experience but has given me my a true understanding of the depth and breadth of love. They are now all adults and that love has only grown over the years and has only helped me experience the true meaning of why I came.

    • @richardsmith6741
      @richardsmith6741 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Look over your right shoulder...that is a diamond tree...there is kimberlite under it...
      They specifically grown on diamonds...good luck

    • @timmyboyd5506
      @timmyboyd5506 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I find peace in your energy, it's very calming.

    • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969
      @legalfictionnaturalfact3969 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Can you safely say that if you met your dream girl, you would not want any label?

  • @genuinsanity
    @genuinsanity 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Most are not your friend , when there is trouble they GONE.

  • @libertasinveritate9603
    @libertasinveritate9603 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    It's such a relief to hear that Im not the only one who feels like this. Most of the time, I feel like an alien or if there's somthing wrong with me. What is so obvious to some of us is unfathomable to the majority of humans.

  • @newvegasadventures4173
    @newvegasadventures4173 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    I have no real friends and I'm ok with that. God will put them in my life when he wants them

    • @thirstonhowellthebird
      @thirstonhowellthebird 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I had lots then woke up and lost the ALL. I realized asleep you are a sheep doing and flowing in line with the group think crowd. I never fit in doing that. Ever so I quit and now it’s so peaceful plus most of my ex friends oddly were staunch atheists. That can’t be a coincidence.

    • @newvegasadventures4173
      @newvegasadventures4173 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thirstonhowellthebird when I found the Mormon faith the people in my life who were atheist and non God in there lives left . I never even told them . Just gave off a different radiance. I guess that scares off that not of Jesus and God. I realized how many people I felt like friends were just using me when they needed me the more I wake up. This is all God's dream and he wants things good things for those who show faith . I believe God's purging what isn't good for me out my life so I can become who I need to be. I just have to not worry so much and let it just happen.

    • @thirstonhowellthebird
      @thirstonhowellthebird 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@newvegasadventures4173 I can completely relate because it’s exactly the same for me. The world is just turning so corrupt and I’m actually grateful for the isolation. Good luck, my friend you are the chosen one.

    • @vlog-hz1ou
      @vlog-hz1ou 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bro… I say”I don’t have any friends and he says”and don’t say you have friends you have in the group ugh… attachment

    • @Ida09
      @Ida09 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      same im completely fine with having no friends

  • @ElRayDelRio
    @ElRayDelRio 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Aloneness and Loneliness connect with ONENESS ❤

    • @WhybornMusic
      @WhybornMusic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Giving, loving, sharing with others connect with Oneness too.
      And what's "connect" even more to "Oneness" is stopping to seek what you already are. No more spiritual videos, no more books, no more knowledge, just You as Life.

    • @blacklyfe6881
      @blacklyfe6881 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yup

  • @TheEnergyv
    @TheEnergyv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I also don’t have company “friends”. I do not need anything other than my inner journey connecting with God.

  • @Zohar333
    @Zohar333 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +175

    Awesome video! Ironically, you're the exact kind of person I look for in a friend. I need someone who, at a minimum, is not afraid to go beyond surface level conversation. We're here to explore, not get locked into a system of thoughts and actions. Thank you so much for this awesome spiritual fuel!

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      ..:)

    • @monbeauparfum1452
      @monbeauparfum1452 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      True, just realised I don’t have energy anymore for small talks with so called friends.

    • @gmw3083
      @gmw3083 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Let's all not be friends together....

    • @vlog-hz1ou
      @vlog-hz1ou 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      House alone ❤

    • @mirian593
      @mirian593 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I want to be your friend to 😊. I have no friends either, can’t be bother with empty chats of people. Love your videos ❤

  • @sarahjaneross2918
    @sarahjaneross2918 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I flipping hate "catch up" phone calls that go on for hours. It literally drains the life out of me. I wish people would just get on with their own lives and leave me alone 😂

    • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969
      @legalfictionnaturalfact3969 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Maybe they are there for what they can find out about you. And the rest will be a mystery. Got to spend some time if they really want to know. Don't just feed them that gossip juice.

  • @moto3463
    @moto3463 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    I can watch this all day. I am exactly like yourself in a sense of friendship I don’t like labels or concepts plus I always feel like people always have non pure motives. I’ll happily just exist and those who are on the same level won’t have to force anything.

    • @joeyd647
      @joeyd647 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Throttle therapy puts us in the flow state!

    • @DubyaW111
      @DubyaW111 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly 🙏🏻❤️🩷🥰

    • @Lindsey-hb6wo
      @Lindsey-hb6wo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Likewise 😘🙋🏻🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @vlog-hz1ou
      @vlog-hz1ou 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏

  • @naokoishii1031
    @naokoishii1031 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Human relationships feel very fake. I think the casual relationships between animals, the ones that exist only in the moment, are incredibly pure.

  • @Old_Really
    @Old_Really 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I had friends but I broke ties with them because they were dragging me down and were toxic . God will put good friends in my life when he has to

  • @BrumDaBum26
    @BrumDaBum26 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Give freely to all and you will have everything you could need❤

  • @mermaidinfinityrainbow3183
    @mermaidinfinityrainbow3183 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I have a very small circle, and I like it that way. 🎉😊

  • @cleener
    @cleener 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I know exactly what you mean, at first upon awakening I thought everybody needed help to feel what I felt, but it didn't take long before everyone wanted to put me in a mental hospital, so now I only answer questions and don't try to wake people up, it's useless and dangerous for you to excel. Now I don't have any friends but the questions are becoming more and more frequent with the times, just wish someone would ask about Alchemy.

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      yes!

    • @Coyote191-ov5kg
      @Coyote191-ov5kg 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      In your experience, how active must one be in the process of alchemy. I hear conflicting things... And I've experienced conflicting things... In that transmutation occurs naturally but also can be "forced."

    • @frv6610
      @frv6610 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Coyote191-ov5kgit maybe depends on how fast you think or how many words you read per day.

    • @marvinlang3777
      @marvinlang3777 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yeah telling somebody the thing they use to escape is the very thing causing the suffering is impossible if they havent realized it themselves

    • @a1lis6n
      @a1lis6n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Real

  • @NarrelleChain
    @NarrelleChain 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I don't have any 'friends' now, my sisters are npd, abusive, i cut them off after years of abuse, i would like a friend but very hard to find for me anyway, so many people are superficial, materialistic, as you get older, it is harder, they are all in their little cliques and families, and we are all boxed up in our cubicles, everyone wants money 💰 for anything they do, thats one thing i do have, plenty of, i love animals, i had to give my ragdollcat away, broke my ❤️ heart, now i am feeding all the 🌈 lorikeets all day, every colour of rainbow, very noisy, i'm living next beautiful park in Sydney! Thankyou for your talks!❤I am exploring spirituality and doing AA!

  • @eduardosilva7304
    @eduardosilva7304 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I get you, man, I'm so in tune with everything you said... I'm one step behind your way of life, though. Still engaged with "friends"...but I just wana get out of all these boxes, as you named them. I don't fit in any. Enjoy your state of being, you're true to yourself and the others, being desengaged as you are. My dream is towards that way of living, nothing else, one day at a time, with no bonds and cheap talk, no social empty gatherings (hardly have them, anyway), not looking for security or attatchments.
    Hard to leave all this behind, but a chat with you, like this one, gives me the fuel to step to the unknown, get the courage to distance myself from labels and aprovals. Thank you for that, brother 🙏

  • @hdyayo
    @hdyayo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Love the concept of not labeling things, it just is what it is, even things such as "failures" aren't exactly failures, that's just what we decide to label it!

  • @DubyaW111
    @DubyaW111 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Trauma bonds everywhere... I'm alset to brother with labels and concepts.. I'll just do me.. I don't want friends...to many expectations.. I don't have any expectations 😁🙏🏻🙌🙏🏻❤️🔱🕉️🔱 thanks brother 🙏🏻❤️🥰😁

  • @antispectral5018
    @antispectral5018 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    So glad I found your channel. I was planning on going out tonight to meet people, but instead I might just stay in and watch your videos.

  • @beatrizwheeler6424
    @beatrizwheeler6424 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I agree on everything, tired of being in boxes, i want to be free

  • @jake.presents
    @jake.presents 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I've been the same way almost my entire life. Even as a child, I remember on Christmas Day, after even 3-4 hours around family, I'd retreat to the peace of my room for solitude.
    In 2020 I initially was annoyed by lockdown, then I started loving it.
    Since March 2022, I've been around India seeking spiritual progress, sometimes practicing yoga & meditation 10 hours per day. If you're like me, really dislike being around society, I strongly suggest moving to either Latin America or India, if only for 2 months, just to experience how much different you will feel. Everything I thought was important, was a mind-trick. (it's Ironic that society values great thinking philosophers, and we're heading towards a pandemic of mental disease. In the East, they value a quiet mind. If that's what you're seeking you and you know where it's located..

    • @celticwarrior7217
      @celticwarrior7217 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm really considering doing this. How safe is it there for a westerner? and how do you sustain yourself ie income?

    • @bertibear1300
      @bertibear1300 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@celticwarrior7217you don’t need to go anywhere .It’s you that has to change not the place.

    • @wealthyspaces1131
      @wealthyspaces1131 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes been in both places India Mexico it’s good to get out of your environment tbh no attachments- save up and go for a few months- not into the guru path tbh after personal experience but yes go abroad meditate or stay where u r meditate 🧘‍♀️

  • @billytheblockomus
    @billytheblockomus 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    man... your videos have been helping me a lot. i felt like i've been at a spiritual roadblock for the last couple of years, and something has seriously been shifting recently and your energy has probably contributed to that... so i wanna say thank you, for being "you" ;)

  • @TeknaTronik
    @TeknaTronik 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Friends are overrated

    • @joshuabuchanan1141
      @joshuabuchanan1141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Acquaintances and fake people are overrated

  • @annieincarnated
    @annieincarnated 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I have no friends nor do i want them. I prefer isolation and besides i dont have their problems 😂happy life

  • @Anangelfromabove
    @Anangelfromabove 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow!!! You know what I just realized? Oneness seeks seperation to not feel alone and otherness while ego feeling seperate seeks oneness only to find it wants to seek otherness there is so satisfaction in surface maybe briefly… acceptance of this is where I think the only place peace resides

  • @lewistaylor4620
    @lewistaylor4620 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The title made me laugh histerically before I clicked on the video 😂. Thank you for your energy dude, always.

  • @electrictao5180
    @electrictao5180 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    "He aint heavy, he's my brother"...by the Hollies. New Subscriber! TH-cam turned me onto your channel. They know what I like. 👍

  • @mikeylitchfield4651
    @mikeylitchfield4651 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I like to do nice things for people because I want to and not because I'm obligated to and when you use terms like girlfriend or best friend that person can develop a possessive and entitled mindset over you. This is something I fully relate to and something I also try to avoid in my life wherever I can.

  • @queenneurotica4591
    @queenneurotica4591 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is the best spiritual talk I’ve heard for months. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom.

  • @mermaidinfinityrainbow3183
    @mermaidinfinityrainbow3183 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Pure 😂 💯 I'm far from perfect or pure, but I love unconditionally that is for sure. I love myself ( Goddess/God within ) most of all unconditionally, love everyone unconditionally. I love my True love partner unconditionally. ❤❤ I am one and love all unconditionally.

  • @trooper326
    @trooper326 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You just gotta find people who are at the same frequency as you or above. Most people are below. There's strength in numbers.

    • @sharonbice7490
      @sharonbice7490 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Still waiting. Tic toc tic toc.

  • @mariahussain8608
    @mariahussain8608 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I always know immediately when I’ve come across an absolutely beautiful soul and teacher and you sure are! 🙏🏼

  • @JurassicPark513
    @JurassicPark513 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for this. A great video I've watched a few times because it validates a realization of mine. Never really had friends or relationships. Used to think something was wrong with me, but then it finally became clear the past couple of years I just get too deep into things, and must know the cause of everything on a fundamental level. My family and acquaintances so far in life are just not about that. For the most part they still on the superficial level, and that's okay for them, but being around people who accept the window dressing when you'd rather go inside the building can make you think you're crazy at times.

  • @LfunkeyA
    @LfunkeyA 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    you can definitely call out anyone, and it's definitely useful to have some sort of label or way of behavior toward those who care about you more. yes, we're all 'one', but before you convince the world of that you'll have to realize that some people will be more likely to look out for you than others. you can also use the 'non-label' thing in manipulative ways too - 'oh, you're no my "friend/brother/wife/lover/etc" so i don't owe you anything', for example.

  • @lightilumeacend
    @lightilumeacend 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've been following my own path for a while and I am overjoyed to find your channel and hear someone saying exactly what I needed to hear. I feel the same way and sometimes I doubt myself about it but this video helped me see that it's all okay.

  • @phendranaa
    @phendranaa หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm just happy there's another person out there who gets it thanks for posting. What you described at the end is exactly what I share with my "best friend" and the more I don't "need" friends the more people show up who I feel genuinely connected with and love each other's company.

  • @Ange-144
    @Ange-144 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Reading all the comments after watching the video, I can’t help but cry for humanity. I mean I get it totally 💯 relationships are difficult and take time and energy etc it’s just so sad we have so much trouble accepting non duality and sharing from the heart space so we can connect without ego attachment and expectations. 😢❤

  • @ElevatedLevetator
    @ElevatedLevetator 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    you are such a cool dude! my friend said you remind him of me. Maybe i will be like you when i get abit older :D listening to you while playing world of warcraft is incredibly chill and therapeutic

  • @gusklemp3477
    @gusklemp3477 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I don't want friends too. People invite me to places and events. I just can't be bothered.

  • @GrimReaper369.
    @GrimReaper369. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Man i enjoy your videos a lot! Nice to know that someone shares points of view, or that I’m not the only crazy one haha

  • @neartothewildheart
    @neartothewildheart 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your videos are exactly what i needed to hear, especially this one. Thank you for this, i resonate with it so much ❤ thank god that i am staying true to the essence and that there are other people feeling the same

  • @Alex722
    @Alex722 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why you make so much sense man? 😂
    Thank you for bringing out messages like this one!!
    It’s like hearing my own deepest thoughts from another person!
    💚🙏

  • @Antbo4ReV0Lt
    @Antbo4ReV0Lt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    You are never alone❤. We are never alone.

  • @georgespiese7388
    @georgespiese7388 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Friends make u responsible for their lives. Sheesh!

  • @m.t.5339
    @m.t.5339 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It is so odd that you release this today. A week ago i got a call from an old friend wanting me to come hang out with him and two others i have not seen in a very long time (meeting was last night.) Part of me wanted to but another part did not. Rarely am I indecisive and I told him I may show up I may not. I never lie but I didn't want to be a dick either to old friends. Ultimately I did not go. Part of me is sad, but deep down inside I knew it had to be this way.

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      yes, i have an indian friend who fails that test over and over again (the one that you passed).

    • @giespel68
      @giespel68 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Almost same story for me. Except I did go. I left drained. Lesson learned ❤

    • @jaleesa00
      @jaleesa00 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same story. I did not go

  • @matt5004
    @matt5004 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I like that you kept it real and didnt edit

  • @EarthDilemma
    @EarthDilemma 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Finally! Someone that is real and speaks the truth. I enjoy watching your videos. Thank you for your authentic content.

  • @philliphernandez-waldrop5313
    @philliphernandez-waldrop5313 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That pine needle that fell on your left shoulder first 30 seconds in was cool :)

  • @Hedgehog3342
    @Hedgehog3342 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Here's my thoughts on labels....i personally take a middle path on labels. I primarily try to always practice non attachment in terms of labels. Labels are essentially illusions from a absolute sense. However i do find labels useful as illusions can be useful. But one should NOT be attached to such labels as being attached to labels will make you suffer. I go by the motto "being in the world, but not of the world".

    • @BotanicBobBrown
      @BotanicBobBrown 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I get this for sure. Your name is a label, every word is a label for something.. if we didn't have names assigned to our meat suits or the objects in our current state of reality, it would get complicated. People forget we have these bodies for a reason and they try to become "pure consciousness" whilst in a meatsuit and deny anything of this world. If you were supposed to exist here as pure consciousness, zero "ego" why do you have a body designed to move, speak, think and feel? The ego can't be removed as it's the vessel you're experiencing this life through. For example, If you had no "ego" you wouldn't feed yourself and you'd perish...

  • @jimmy18547
    @jimmy18547 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Love you brother. Hope you’re surrounded by loved ones for the holidays. Take care

  • @banjodubghall84
    @banjodubghall84 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It all falls on people not being capable or having the capacity to handle the truth.

  • @prestonbobby2200
    @prestonbobby2200 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    There’s this good movie on TH-cam for free called” Are you here?” and there’s this one quote I like in it it goes “ that’s the thing about friendship. It’s a lot rarer than love because there’s nothing in it for anybody.”
    I really am trying to find what i’m supposed to do here . I want to do it in this life

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, it’s true about friendship. There must be a pure bond between the 2 on the deepest level. Friendship is no doubt more pure and higher than romantic love or family instinctual love

  • @valvihk3649
    @valvihk3649 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh, I agree so much. I don't have "friends" for the exact same reason. People are over powered by their ego, and I am a person who challenges ego. That's the problem. When my "friend" is being an ignorant or selfish person, I call them out on it. I do it because I care, because I care for self-awareness and growth. I want to be called out if I act like that. But, people get angry because calling someone out automatically means that I am against them? It's ridiculous. I was friends with these women who automatically made their significant others an enemy if they choose to not back them out. They made themselves a victim for having a "bad boyfriend." There is no altruism in the titles. I have seen blind love amongst couples and friends. Obligations, followership, just bonding based on ignorance...

  • @etx_jay
    @etx_jay 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I hope you know we appreciate you bro , you respond to as many comments as you can , not doing ads and promoting shit (I wouldn’t be mad if you did) . Not bending your morals for more fame and money tho you could, consistently giving us spiritual esoteric knowledge ,I feel like you’ve saved me 10 years of learning in a way😂You real af bro we appreciate everything 🤞🏾💯

  • @glittermuse-1
    @glittermuse-1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Gag me with a spoon" That would be about 42+ years not 20! I know because I remember it. Great channel by the way! I came surfing back here tonight because of a friend with no label... and caught the most blissful wave digesting this video. So "juicy" as Ram Dass would often say. This video is juicy ...and a maybe box of chocolates that never runs out and always changes. Gratitude for your time co-creating these sparkly glimpses. 🏝🌊💜

  • @ICZERZERO3000
    @ICZERZERO3000 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Well said… Keep up the great work 😎.

  • @reggaetony2806
    @reggaetony2806 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Love you Yash I found your channel few weeks ago came at an appropriate time in my life . Your my biggest mentor ever period thanks for existing your an awesome teacher. I'm doing the big transformation inside as I speak thanks for all the good videos and tips.

  • @jotilochun80
    @jotilochun80 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ironically commenting before having watched the whole video after you just said you don’t like that 😂 😂
    But I love the way it feels like a conversation with a friend. That’s in my opinion your unique selling point. Definitely love the ‘intruders’ or whatever it is!!! Glad you left it in. Not really sure I can say why. I hate fiff faff in most videos and forward past anything peripheral to the content. You keep it real though! I think people in the comments will agree ❤

  • @CynthiaCaresse
    @CynthiaCaresse 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My closest relation was with a spiritual teacher and someone came in between us, it blew up the connection. My trust was shaken badly. I was to believe he was a bad person, a terrible person. I couldnt see the truth, i was so confused, a fog came over me. The situation was very extreme and i ended up in total isolation unexpectedly. For 7 months it was like i was in a personal ashram (living in the country alone, no job, no friends, no family), all my relationships fell away as i went within this space. It was a super intense process! When i came out of that i was confronted with my spiritual teacher again and I had no confusion or ill feelings. My heart was light as a feather. Now we are connected again.. though in hindsight the connection never truly left. It was a very big lesson

  • @genuinsanity
    @genuinsanity 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I live in a society where people have children to care for them in the future . Not because they REALY want children.

  • @bundydryandlime
    @bundydryandlime 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just keep going man, don't start over

    • @bundydryandlime
      @bundydryandlime 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for continuing

  • @georgespiese7388
    @georgespiese7388 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No one thinks like this, except for u & i.

  • @johnjennings9693
    @johnjennings9693 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Well said always found relationships and so called friendships very complicated, thanks,

  • @Anangelfromabove
    @Anangelfromabove 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I totally get the compromise so many don’t get this I just stay alone because I haven’t learned to be authentic enough to be like this others yet but I will soon

  • @corpsejackmenace
    @corpsejackmenace หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    gotta love those intruders. hear you say "intruders" every second video i watch. haha

  • @yacovmitchenko1490
    @yacovmitchenko1490 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Fine video. Yes, it's clear that most so-called relationships are about mutual gain and exploitation, though people often use euphemisms, beautiful words, to cover that up. So for example, one may say: "I love you." Which actually means: "I'm drawn to you because you can get me what I want." That may be sex, gifts, comforts of all kinds. You've become an instrument for those. But that sort of thing is exceedingly difficult to admit to oneself because people, by and large, are compelled to believe that their motives are already good. In other words, people want to look good to themselves. This is where the problematic nature of concepts comes in: if you believe you're "kind" generally, that belief may cloud the fact that you're not. Your rosy self-images prevent you from seeing what's actually going on within.
    As for the issue of "security", one would do well to remember that it simply doesn't exist in this world. So if you've gathered a lot of possessions or are wealthy, you may lose that at any time. You don't know when you'll die; you can't simply assume you'll reach old age. There's no security simply in virtue of the fact that you can die at any time, regardless of your health and diet. The latter may improve your chances of longevity, but they guarantee nothing. Health-conscious people, people who have gone to the gym regularly, I'm sure, still have died of cancer - while heavy long-time smokers have reached old age, some of whom are not miserable.
    For example, 3 months ago I noted an exhausted vape on my table outside my door. It had been standing there for 3 or 4 months, even though there had been a series of thunderstorms. I myself experienced a flood in my apartment in the course of that period. Logically, you would have thought that in addition to scattered branches and boughs on the street, the vape would have been swept away. A one-inch-wide vape. But such is life: you don't know what will happen. No security.
    Now the issue of friendship is a complex one - one with which I've struggled on a personal level. If you're in desperate circumstances, in need of shelter, say, and your long-time friend refuses to take you in, even though he has a spare room, that is serious. One could say that I had expectations of him - yes, as an old-time friend I expected compassion, simply because true friends are that way. They actually help friends in desperate circumstances. Friends must be reliable. Now are all these concepts? Indeed they are. I don't hold that against him; I'm not angry. In fact, I'm open to communication, and we'll probably talk at some point. But if a friend doesn't prove reliable - especially if one is in serious shit - then the term friend may not be applicable. Since we're living in the human realm, with human limitations, we need to draw the line somewhere.
    However, by the same token, his turning me away was probably for the best. As you've talked about in other videos, life knows better than the individual does. In my relative solitude I began seeing things much more clearly. In fact, my friend's refusal and my mother's passing both, basically, wiped me out. Old life-long tendencies simply dissolved. Moreover, I live in a more suitable environment, I guess. So yes, what my friend did may have been the hand of life, and life knows best. But does that mean I need to continue being his friend? Not necessarily.

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed! And really agree and like your take on friendship and the last sentence

    • @jaleesa00
      @jaleesa00 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That was such a good example

  • @shh711
    @shh711 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In this journey, one went back into societal spaces to survive & the IRONY is that men & women want an objective impersonal healer.
    So you are closer & more valued for not wanting anything😂 i just wanted to survive peacefully & end up a spirit guide lol

  • @darrylhoff9974
    @darrylhoff9974 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hahaha you are brilliant! My guy is pure genius!!!!

  • @HomemakerDaze
    @HomemakerDaze 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I much prefer being alone for events, shopping, traveling. I don't know why I'm like this but I suppose it works for me haha

  • @mermaidinfinityrainbow3183
    @mermaidinfinityrainbow3183 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I told my adult kids I need a break from them. I'd rather pay a professional to take care of me when I'm too old. ❤

  • @Genesis8629
    @Genesis8629 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Your videos have been on point for me lately. Keep it up brother 🎉

  • @dawnhare6077
    @dawnhare6077 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I appreciate you! Ty for sharing you innermost thoughts ❤

  • @vladtheimpailer7979
    @vladtheimpailer7979 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm glad I found this channel!!

  • @stevieG.
    @stevieG. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That was a really insightful video Yash, so many truths in this one !

  • @williamj1813
    @williamj1813 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My best and only friend is my Siamese cat. I wouldn't want it any other way.

  • @mikyM82
    @mikyM82 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    For the longest time of my life i have always felt there has been something off about all my relationships. Like there was something missing. And all this while i would blame myself for it, with a rather staunch belief that i understood relationships very well, that if i did this or that my relationships would be fixed.
    It took me sometime to realise that I was never going to find a meaningful and deep relationship. I mean surface relationships, social labels may be a lot, but that is not what I am looking for. I made my peace with that void, its going to be there, probably for the rest of my life and there is nothing that i can do to fix that bad feeling. Maybe it will stop being a bad feeling, but who knows maybe it will get worse.

  • @pennimoore3834
    @pennimoore3834 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    There are no coincidences for sure. I have been thinking about this topic for awhile now. Thank you for the confirmation. I just came across your video for the first time.

  • @Irene.Era.
    @Irene.Era. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You got me there with your title!:) Nice to meet your individuality here in this video, thanks for that. I feel that each of us carries a piece of the 'garden of Eden' and has the potential to express it. I enjoy this so much. Also my own piece of garden, which has more and more tropical fruits and flowers. Since I enjoy my quirks and allowing myself not to have to understand myself (and others), I feel pleasure in being an enigma. Strolling around through all the surrounding intangible energies. This makes life endlessly fascinating for me! Take care, wherever you are..

  • @Godsmsngr
    @Godsmsngr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have one and only best friend called the algorithm who i thank alot for making this dude show up in my feed. Resonates alot i mean ofcouse since evetything is frequancy and vibration(Nikola Teslas quote) okey ill stop here. Great video,keep it up 😁

  • @kedamono9212
    @kedamono9212 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i struggle a lot in my current “relationship”. I fight the edge of that box when the label “boyfriend” is placed on me, its like you said, you find yourself trying to act within the perimeter of that box. I find myself still with this partner despite the limitations because i feel that they understand me so well and have been a tremendous friend in helping me become free in other ways i trapped myself, make sense? i think we all get lost in relationships like that. Anyways this one really resonated with me, thanks for always being there!

  • @serenitysecrets555
    @serenitysecrets555 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I can totally relate! ❤

  • @Christie1
    @Christie1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    exactly, I really agree with everything you said. I had one male friend's friend that harassed me and trying to mess with me, and I told both of them that I thought I could trust, but then they said no that's impossible, he's a great dude & a good friend. I stopped talking to them ever since lol.

  • @pennylane7943
    @pennylane7943 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a breath of fresh air! ❤
    And thank you for not featuring ads - how great that is!

    • @spiritualrenaissance
      @spiritualrenaissance  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Actually TH-cam puts ads on certain videos if they see it getting. a lot of the clicks at the beginning and theres nothing we can do
      ...:(

  • @alchemydragon
    @alchemydragon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Dammit should I start over" another fun quote for a video and life 😂😂 glad you didn't this time

  • @carolleota8922
    @carolleota8922 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love all my friends I met on my journey. I have that feeling now. I just want to be alone and search of nyself.,I considered myself to be fortubate to be here today and witnessed the Love of God.,It is good to be awaken. Love U. ☘🍁🍀🍃💕💚💕🍃

  • @calebquimby
    @calebquimby 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I liked the compromise part. Go without expecting anything.

  • @williamvanausdal1268
    @williamvanausdal1268 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cool

  • @DeidreMichelleIngram
    @DeidreMichelleIngram 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow I enjoyed listening to what you had to say about friends and quite a few things resonated with me. I specifically searched for videos regarding “why I don’t want friends” and yours was the first to come up!! I realized today… I didn’t come into the world with automatic friends… therefore I’ll be fine leaving the world without friends 😊 Thank you for sharing your message!

  • @Aedankashya
    @Aedankashya 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am searching by thinking am I the only one yup I found you and all people in the comments section❤

  • @bengoodes1581
    @bengoodes1581 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes hardly anything is pure. Reboot. Great video. All a choice and and offer. It's what's on offer....

  • @annas4191
    @annas4191 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    oh man i'm glad this channel came to me the last few days.

  • @JRyMeRr
    @JRyMeRr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thats the best intro man....... ur self realization facial launguage is so on point entire reason i continue watching

  • @AwakenedEmptiness
    @AwakenedEmptiness 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    True friendship as Buddha or Christ calls it is spiritual maturity or being a disciple.. one who has self discipline which leads to self mastery.

  • @darrylsanders6056
    @darrylsanders6056 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Children are not their parent’s responsibility! Allow Love to lead All relationships. ❤

  • @blacklyfe6881
    @blacklyfe6881 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Facts me too 😊

  • @TheFirstCause
    @TheFirstCause 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I ACTUALLY don't have any friends and that is exactly what I want. I used to, a good core group, but they got all wrapped but with my sociopath brother and co-dependent mom. I couldn't confide in any of them, everything was always shared with my brother and his weird toxic relationship with my mom. I also discovered my brother was always triangulating against me behind my back and trying to get them to all turn against me. Classic sociopath behavior. It eventually was just too much and I had to cut my brother out of my life completely, and that included all the connected friends since basically that is the only way to escape sociopaths revolting behavior. Life has been significantly better for years now. Me and my wife and our extended family just get to live as nice, normal people now. I don't make any effort to make new friends despite the fact that people really like me when I socialize with them. I actually just prefer the simplicity of not needing to maintain any friendships. If my wife died I'd probably just remain a hermit recluse and not give a damn.

  • @ManniForu-r7g
    @ManniForu-r7g 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When awakened we detach from the game of life at times it can be lonely but we are never alone we are just making our way back home to the pure light . Stay true to your nature and stay the course all is well. 🙏💞

  • @gallosurfero
    @gallosurfero 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s not only the tag of boxing people but the possessive my

  • @speeddemon002
    @speeddemon002 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have to say that this video is very liberating in the sense of my relationship with my girlfriend that I’ve had for the past five years and how clean clingy we are or at least we take turns being clean jihad cleaning with each other and is not healthy because it creates a lot of stress We unfortunately don’t live with each other. We have our families and we are busy and there’s a lot of time where we have distance and you know it would affect my emotions, but watching this video I realize like it’s OK like if we have that deep connection that’s what matters and we don’t have to label each other. We don’t have to have the expectation of the titles that we give each other is just we are together we have a friendship and if it’s deep will last long time and if it’s not, it will split often , it will just work out in the end but this video was very liberating and I think you so much and I’m so happy that I subscribe to your channel and I hope to keep learning from you to better my self and help others and it’s true, because I realize I usually get more pleasure from helping people then from people helping me it’s just more satisfying but there’s also a part of me that is disappointing that no one helps me or I feel like no one helps me and I’m always helping everyone and I guess that’s just how it is

  • @katatoth7551
    @katatoth7551 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Talk about how to know your real purpose and being lost