Update: both of them admitted they did this for the fame of the show they never were together 💀 they wanted their instagrams boosted and his music to be more out there, they admitted it on Instagram years ago
I honestly don’t know how Laura watched episodes like these and said “yep that’s the man I wanna marry” 😭 cause he really gave creep videos on A LOT of them. Hell even after getting married.
It's really uncomfortable to compare one person who has really low self-esteem and the guys go 'no you're beautiful and you deserve someone who didn't lie to you' but then find another person who has a lot of confidence and constantly pick at it :/ can't please anybody
I looked it up- Antoinette was born in 1992 and was 22 when this episode aired. Luckily most likely not a child in the videos they watched but still not okay to make those comments by any means
These two make iffy comments basically every single episode. This was the reason I loved having Kamie on the show to put Nev's dumbass in check when needed. I genuinely dislike both of these men lmaoo
The ETHICS of this episode have left the room. What is this episode 😳😳 Not them outting the contents of her social media on live TV. Also, adding to her Dad's clear and valid concerns being blasted all over the place. This whole episode paints the worst picture for her future 🫠
I want to think maybe they learned about their toxicity and are better now but as an elder millennial who has seen too many of my faves turn out to be monsters, I am not optimistic
@TheNinjapancake14 I'm always fine with people learning for sure, because I have definitely unlearned some toxic things and learned some good things and am always open to learning more so I can do better. I'm increasingly less forgiving when people are too proud to admit mistakes and make changes. We can't undo the past but we can be better now.
@@TheNinjapancake14 It's normal now as well, that's the problem. The cultural standard to bash women, no matter what they do, didn't end in a certain year
They’re obviously shaming her for “provocative” posts/attire because they’re creepy older men who are mad and guilty they want to sleep with her 🤷🏼♀️ It’s always projection with men.
If that was true, why would they shame her for posts that they like to see? I think it's more likely a "woman doing "sexy" thing? Her fault if it goes wrong" type situation.
It’s interesting you always point out your theory that Nev is particularly into black girls… I have a more cynical take. I feel like he may not see black women as realistically worthy of even hypothetically being his partner ; when there are hot white girls, I’ve noticed a specific level of pronounced “respect”, the kind of “IM NOT FLIRTING LOOK IM NOT FLIRTING” that I see a lot from married men. Whereas with black women Nev is much more lax about pointing out they are good looking, or giving a hug or something -// (and while this doesn’t mean he couldnt actually think they are beautiful…) I suspect he doesn’t even consider them possibilities. ((Nev’s wife? A skinny white lady. The woman he [thought] he was talking to in the original CATFISH documentary? A skinny white lady… and Any photos I’ve seen of him with his exes, they were skinny white ladies. Have you seen any evidence he has ever been with a black girl? I haven’t.)) So IMO the take that NEV IS AN APPRECIATOR OF MELANIN is giving him way too much credit.
. 11:24 tea lights are those tiny round candles that stuck up people use when they're faking like they're doing yoga or decorating their beige living room
It was very much giving staged by them, they where in fact giving that they knew each other already and wanting to hype up each other’s stuff and used catfish to do it 🤷🏽♀️😂 still loved the video as always bestie! Also loved that you called them out on the slut shaming, cause please, that’s not what you’re here for sirs!
I vividly recall watching this episode and thinking, "WTH is this?" It's hard to count how many times I cringed at the actions that unfolded in this particular episode.
Oh! I remember watching this when it first aired!! I was so frustrated with all the judging of Antoinette's online presence! She seemed like a really sweet girl and all the bullying was so unnecesary and uncalled for (I'm not saying that there is times where bullying is necesary, don't get me wrong). The ending was also very strange and anticlimactic aswell. Weird episode. Editing to add my thoughts: I think that Antoinette was really talking to T Lights brother, but T Lights (LOL) covered him in order to protect him and avoid problems with his wife!! 😅 I feel like Antoinette was really onto T Lights and that hurt me a bit, but clearly he didn't knew who she was.
I was majorly slut shamed by a male in my home as child before i ever knew what that even was. I was a curvy thin girl and just though i was fat so comments like that shamed me so much. Im noe so conservative and have major body issues. Thaks Jayda for defending this young girl
It makes me so happy to see content creators hold their faves accountable. Like yes absolutely there are good episodes of catfish but they still acted out of line and need to be called out
OMG SHE'S BAAAAACK, I literally just re-watched the last upload bc I was stressing before my exam and Jayda always takes my mind off things. Boom, finish my exam and come out to find a new vid! Happy Belated girl, thank you for this gift lol
I come here for the commentary but I'm always extra tickled by the edits...that 'oooh they're going to prison' soundbite had me cracking up because Nev, you ain't slick, we've seen your wife, we know your type, and it's Antoinette
TY for posting a new video, Jayda esp. after a longggggg nightmare of a week…. | *Side Note:* Would anyone else want Jayda to cover *Ghosted,* another MTV show hosted by Travis & Rachel Lindsay from the bachelorette
lmao I was thinking, “Oh, is this the one where the dude is actually a musician, but it’s really bad??” and then we got to his song for Antionette, and I was like, “YUP!” 😂 🎶it makes me we-eak🎶 it still makes me cringe so hard I feel like I’m going to implode
never ran to a vid so fast... also! i've seen a thread of this episode on reddit and the concern of her age... she’s supposedly 32 today so she was around 24 i believe when this came out and that this was definitelyyy a fake episode 🤦🏽♀️
I just wanna know why anyone thinks it's up to them what other people post and don't post on their social media. It's their account, so it's their choice. Don't like it? Don't post those types of things on your page but don't think you can force other people not to.
Antionette looks like Nevs current wife which now that I made that connection his behavior makes so much sense. Doesn’t mean it’s not gross and creepy tho.
i was listening to this without watching and at 3:47 in my head i made a joke like oh she black and i ran back to look and i am absolutely cryinggggggggggg omg
@jaydahope Hi! I always look forward to your videos! I think this episode was for publicity as they just wanted to meet, and I personally don't think they were interested in each other romantically, I don't know if you think the same. Please keep up the amazing work ❤
i had recently rewatched this episode and the fact that she stood off to the side while he was performing annoyed me so much 😭 like girl if you don't get in the pit and make your presence known
We’re not dragons jayda, didn’t have to slay us w this beat! Also YOU ALWAYS CALL OUT THE WEIRD and I grew up on catfish, most of these flew over my head! I get why kamie f w u frl frl
Sorry guys, but if you post sexually charged things, you are going to be sexualized by the those who watch it. If you don't want to be an objectify, don't make yourself an object. That goes for women AND men.
U making me wanna rewatch it I remember thinking this episode he was NOT into her & I thought she was ignoring the signs or taking texting too close to heart
I remember catfish would contact the show first and this definitely used to promote this dude. The show wanted to promote her too but had Max and Nev shame her so it wasnt so obvious.
You can really see the conversation of sexuality change throughout the seasons and time. It is a great example of how society has changed a lot over the years on what they do and don't see as 'ok'. The conversation about transpeople grew also.
i’m so obsesssed with the fact that u call nev and max out whenever they deserve it 😭 that is sooo refreshing
💯
Yes !
Yes!!
Someone needs to.
Love her even more because of this exact reason!!
They shame her and basically say she shouldnt post that stuff, but then keep showing her posts throught the episode??
@@rhopilemahispidum Like MTV was not totally filled with a lot of footage of girls and women doing the same! Suddenly MTV is a pillar of modesty? 😂
The energy this gives off is 🤢
The energy this gives off is decrepit.
Update: both of them admitted they did this for the fame of the show they never were together 💀 they wanted their instagrams boosted and his music to be more out there, they admitted it on Instagram years ago
That makes so much sense! Something was off about this episode.
I had a feeling but damn I never knew they admitted it! Thanks for the info
this is why kamie is my favorite host. she would NEVER slut shame or judge you for what you post. She for sure would've set nev and max STRAIGHT.
I honestly don’t know how Laura watched episodes like these and said “yep that’s the man I wanna marry” 😭 cause he really gave creep videos on A LOT of them. Hell even after getting married.
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He gives such creepy vibes both of them tbh
We’re like “THIS is your man?” And Laura is like “yep that’s mine” 🤭🤭
It's really uncomfortable to compare one person who has really low self-esteem and the guys go 'no you're beautiful and you deserve someone who didn't lie to you' but then find another person who has a lot of confidence and constantly pick at it :/ can't please anybody
mama my therapist behind you
PLEEEEASE🤣❤️
I looked it up- Antoinette was born in 1992 and was 22 when this episode aired. Luckily most likely not a child in the videos they watched but still not okay to make those comments by any means
These two make iffy comments basically every single episode. This was the reason I loved having Kamie on the show to put Nev's dumbass in check when needed. I genuinely dislike both of these men lmaoo
Cry harder bc you're jealous I guess
genuine question. What did Max do?
“I’m not healed I’m simply contained” is wild but I definitely understand 🤣🤣
The ETHICS of this episode have left the room. What is this episode 😳😳
Not them outting the contents of her social media on live TV. Also, adding to her Dad's clear and valid concerns being blasted all over the place. This whole episode paints the worst picture for her future 🫠
It’s not that different from every other episode
@TheNinjapancake14 You're right!
I want to think maybe they learned about their toxicity and are better now but as an elder millennial who has seen too many of my faves turn out to be monsters, I am not optimistic
I feel like this was normal back then. Some have grown up, some haven’t, but they’re still members of society, so I’m neutral about it
@TheNinjapancake14 I'm always fine with people learning for sure, because I have definitely unlearned some toxic things and learned some good things and am always open to learning more so I can do better. I'm increasingly less forgiving when people are too proud to admit mistakes and make changes. We can't undo the past but we can be better now.
@@TheNinjapancake14 It's normal now as well, that's the problem. The cultural standard to bash women, no matter what they do, didn't end in a certain year
Girl can you please cover mother wolf and David if you haven’t already. That was a trip 😭
That was actually the first Catfish episode I covered! You can find it in my Catfish playlist, Motherwolff is in the thumbnail❤️
@@jaydahope ong going to watch that right now
@@Rian-su2pryou won’t be disappointed by her reaction 👏👏👏
That episode was how I found Jayda looking up info on them
Ive been saying for ages that Nev is a misogynist. One day people will stop booing me, because I'm right.
They’re obviously shaming her for “provocative” posts/attire because they’re creepy older men who are mad and guilty they want to sleep with her 🤷🏼♀️ It’s always projection with men.
This!!! They're attracted to her. That's why they got annoyed
If that was true, why would they shame her for posts that they like to see? I think it's more likely a "woman doing "sexy" thing? Her fault if it goes wrong" type situation.
PREACH. 😒 I seriously don't get why men do that. I know a few family members like this too.
It’s interesting you always point out your theory that Nev is particularly into black girls… I have a more cynical take. I feel like he may not see black women as realistically worthy of even hypothetically being his partner ; when there are hot white girls, I’ve noticed a specific level of pronounced “respect”, the kind of “IM NOT FLIRTING LOOK IM NOT FLIRTING” that I see a lot from married men. Whereas with black women Nev is much more lax about pointing out they are good looking, or giving a hug or something -// (and while this doesn’t mean he couldnt actually think they are beautiful…) I suspect he doesn’t even consider them possibilities.
((Nev’s wife? A skinny white lady. The woman he [thought] he was talking to in the original CATFISH documentary? A skinny white lady… and Any photos I’ve seen of him with his exes, they were skinny white ladies. Have you seen any evidence he has ever been with a black girl? I haven’t.))
So IMO the take that NEV IS AN APPRECIATOR OF MELANIN is giving him way too much credit.
I totally agree and think this speaks to a larger issue of how black women are treated & perceived in society specifically by wyte passing men
Nah, not her dad being hot af fr
LOL omg they have good genes so 👀
The more I look into past catfish episodes, the more Nev seems fake as hell. I don't like him or Max anymore.
Cry harder i guess
. 11:24 tea lights are those tiny round candles that stuck up people use when they're faking like they're doing yoga or decorating their beige living room
Jeez the tea light hate is intense! haha. I just use them with my wax melts.
Wait what lol. I use tea lights to add more ambiance without having to run through expensive scented candles… it’s not stuck up, lol.
It was very much giving staged by them, they where in fact giving that they knew each other already and wanting to hype up each other’s stuff and used catfish to do it 🤷🏽♀️😂 still loved the video as always bestie! Also loved that you called them out on the slut shaming, cause please, that’s not what you’re here for sirs!
I vividly recall watching this episode and thinking, "WTH is this?" It's hard to count how many times I cringed at the actions that unfolded in this particular episode.
this is the only time waking up at 9am to drive my sister to work has paid off for me
Happy Saturday Ms. Bestie!!!
Happy Saturday friend!! I hope you have a wonderful weekend❤️
"Boca Raton is a big red flag" I whisper to myself being born, raised, and currently living in St. Louis 😭
Damn near broke a nail running to come and get this tea bestie
this episode always reminds me of the O2L era and how every man in the 2010s wanted to be a boyband famous on Vine
Omgg I love ur pfp!❤
The way I never believed albert in this ep he was for sure covering for his brother’s creepiness
Oh! I remember watching this when it first aired!! I was so frustrated with all the judging of Antoinette's online presence! She seemed like a really sweet girl and all the bullying was so unnecesary and uncalled for (I'm not saying that there is times where bullying is necesary, don't get me wrong). The ending was also very strange and anticlimactic aswell.
Weird episode.
Editing to add my thoughts: I think that Antoinette was really talking to T Lights brother, but T Lights (LOL) covered him in order to protect him and avoid problems with his wife!! 😅 I feel like Antoinette was really onto T Lights and that hurt me a bit, but clearly he didn't knew who she was.
Yup omg, your edit part makes so much sense
@kiwikrg Thank you!! I really think that was what really happened
@@MustAvoidScurvy oh most definitely, since didn't he say his brother was 100% talking to girls as Albert lmaooooo
Jayda your makeup is EATING in this video
THATS WHAT I SAID❤
Bestie!! So happy to see you ❤
So happy to see you!!
And this is why we loved Kamie. She would've given "the look" that we all have because leave that girl alone. 😒🤣
How the hell did I watch this when it first came out and that whole concept flew right over my head…
like, max is you cool???😭
Thank you for covering this episode!!!! Omg 🫶🫶🫶
I was majorly slut shamed by a male in my home as child before i ever knew what that even was. I was a curvy thin girl and just though i was fat so comments like that shamed me so much. Im noe so conservative and have major body issues. Thaks Jayda for defending this young girl
It makes me so happy to see content creators hold their faves accountable. Like yes absolutely there are good episodes of catfish but they still acted out of line and need to be called out
jayda you don’t understand how happy i get when i see you upload!! i’ve been binge watching your all your vids
thank u. this episode has always made me uncomfy
I was about to sleep but nope new video from our sis Jayda!!
This makeup look on you is everything🥰
I love the Smokey eye look on you and the entire look is amazing.
OMG SHE'S BAAAAACK, I literally just re-watched the last upload bc I was stressing before my exam and Jayda always takes my mind off things. Boom, finish my exam and come out to find a new vid! Happy Belated girl, thank you for this gift lol
Wow no views in 30 seconds Jayda really fell off
Dkm🤣 the views are there bestie, youtube just can't keep up with how fast y'all are❤️
I love your vids but Nev and Max made this so rough! I’m halfway through and cannot continue 😔
I come here for the commentary but I'm always extra tickled by the edits...that 'oooh they're going to prison' soundbite had me cracking up because Nev, you ain't slick, we've seen your wife, we know your type, and it's Antoinette
TY for posting a new video, Jayda esp. after a longggggg nightmare of a week…. | *Side Note:* Would anyone else want Jayda to cover *Ghosted,* another MTV show hosted by Travis & Rachel Lindsay from the bachelorette
Nev needs you to co-host and call him on his sh!t
Feels criminal to be this early 👀 love your content Jayda!!
Also, your makeup is extra gorgeous today
Lemme get my coffee. Woke up to sumthin GOOD
Not bestie clocking my dad thirst 😂😂
lmao I was thinking, “Oh, is this the one where the dude is actually a musician, but it’s really bad??” and then we got to his song for Antionette, and I was like, “YUP!” 😂 🎶it makes me we-eak🎶 it still makes me cringe so hard I feel like I’m going to implode
never ran to a vid so fast... also! i've seen a thread of this episode on reddit and the concern of her age... she’s supposedly 32 today so she was around 24 i believe when this came out and that this was definitelyyy a fake episode 🤦🏽♀️
we're soooo back!
How dare TH-cam hide this from me for 35 minutes
I forgot this episode existed. This was such an awkward episode and every minute was stranger than the next.
I love your videos so much, I'm hyped to see this breakdown!! ❤
6:30 I’ve heard the phrase “Alberta Lights” but I am not sure what it means or if that could play into “t lights” for his artist name
If something comes off as weird, it must be production
Impeccable timing girl 🤌🏽
I just wanna know why anyone thinks it's up to them what other people post and don't post on their social media. It's their account, so it's their choice. Don't like it? Don't post those types of things on your page but don't think you can force other people not to.
Unloading a freight truck to some Queen Jayda I’ve been saved
i just watched this ep last week i feel like i did my homework for this one
Antionette looks like Nevs current wife which now that I made that connection his behavior makes so much sense. Doesn’t mean it’s not gross and creepy tho.
the eye makeup is going crazy todayyyy❤🔥❤🔥
Thank you bestie🫡❤️
Giiiirl the clip at 1:52 took me out 😂
Hold on hold on only 19 min?! Maaam please I need moreee time from you in These videos please! Lol
Thank you for another great episode, bestie! ❤
Has anyone ever mentioned Dance Moms to you? That show is WILD
Idk what I think about this episode, all I know is that I love you 😂❤
I am so damn hungover so this video is saving me
My day is instantly better 🥰 by your post but this episode is....troubling...
When i tell you i opened up youtube hoping for a new video from you... thank you! 💗
MOTHER POSTED, im sat
Honestly I think we should bring shame back
I'm shook by the title alone....let me buckle up
Still till this day I am shocked Nev didn’t end up with a black woman in this timeline of ours . Cause it’s CLEAR the man is obsessed 3:43
Always love the catfish episodes :3
i was listening to this without watching and at 3:47 in my head i made a joke like oh she black and i ran back to look and i am absolutely cryinggggggggggg omg
Only in America do we get a restaurant called Redneck Heaven
You and Adam both have almost become daily watches for me
I recently rewatched this episode!
Friend it's a mess😭 I'd love to hear your thoughts on it!!
@jaydahope Hi! I always look forward to your videos! I think this episode was for publicity as they just wanted to meet, and I personally don't think they were interested in each other romantically, I don't know if you think the same.
Please keep up the amazing work ❤
O O O A NEW VIDEO.... I have never clicked so fast 😂❤
Whyyy is this the 3rd time YT has unsubbed me from you over 3x? Stop playing games YT,these vids help my anxiety.
Now first of all lemme just say the make up look is EATING!!! You look amazing girly
Watching catfish while Jayda gives us the mess about catfish
Thank you! I'm being so fr rn!
Noooo, not Dallas 😩 we're up there in sheer number of Catfish episodes and every time, I cringe
i had recently rewatched this episode and the fact that she stood off to the side while he was performing annoyed me so much 😭 like girl if you don't get in the pit and make your presence known
Yay! A new Jayda video 😊
I would love for you to go over shows like love island maybe. Or help I’m in a secret relationship! Or even more social media stories!
We’re not dragons jayda, didn’t have to slay us w this beat!
Also YOU ALWAYS CALL OUT THE WEIRD and I grew up on catfish, most of these flew over my head!
I get why kamie f w u frl frl
Sorry guys, but if you post sexually charged things, you are going to be sexualized by the those who watch it. If you don't want to be an objectify, don't make yourself an object. That goes for women AND men.
Awe love you bestie 😏 slaying beauty 😍. You should do 90 Day fiance or love after lockup I know you'd have me lmao
U making me wanna rewatch it I remember thinking this episode he was NOT into her & I thought she was ignoring the signs or taking texting too close to heart
I remember catfish would contact the show first and this definitely used to promote this dude. The show wanted to promote her too but had Max and Nev shame her so it wasnt so obvious.
Ahaa, my skin is crawling cause what on earth is they on this episode Nev was ummm, definitely something
Definitely staged and i feel like the manager was even in on it bc of the phone number information.
You can really see the conversation of sexuality change throughout the seasons and time. It is a great example of how society has changed a lot over the years on what they do and don't see as 'ok'. The conversation about transpeople grew also.
So early !!!! So happy !!!! ❤ You look stunning btw
nawwwt the ash trevino clip "I don't like it." LMAOOO