The REAL Reason We Left the USA
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- 8 Months ago we left the USA to establish a new life here in the foothills of the Italian Alps and are now renovating this old stone house to be our dream homestead. We have a long road ahead renovating this old stone barn into a house, but this week we wanted to explain the reasons behind why we decided to leave the USA.
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We are Heather, Bradey, Alexa and Chloe. We purchased an abandoned stone barn in the foothills of the Italian Alps and we are working together as a family to renovate and restore this old stone barn into our dream home.
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Hello!... I have written several times asking them to please put the subtitles in Spanish and nothing they do, it makes me very sad that they do not take their followers into account.
@@disnoyranavas4799 that may be a setting on your television to change the language. Are possibly a TH-cam setting you change yourself
I’d so love to join your Patreon but I’m on an Age Pension and I just can’t afford it.
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I am an Italian immigrant whose family settled in Canada. You are raising the next generation so it is vital that you lead by example. I envy you, and I think your logic is sound. I can say, you are leaving a toxic country, which is only getting worse, because to fix it would involve too much change, and as you know, people find it difficult to change. The US is a slippery slope.
As Italians we have many flaws, but we welcome with open arms those who love our Italy and have chosen it to live! You are welcome!
I am a third generation Italian American and living in Italy is a dream I hope one day I can fulfill. ❤ the country and its people!
Oh Stephano, how I wish I could move somewhere near Lake Como, and eat the delectable foods, laugh loudly & hug & kiss as a greeting - the Italian culture is so warm and full of zest for life! Be well kind friend, many blessings are wished for u!
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@@HeyokaGirlSpeaks I hope we can be neighbors someday! ❤🙋♀️
😂You have made a good decision to do what you are doing. So few don't. They will be slaves to the mighty dollar until they get to where we are now and ask, "well, what was that all about". We live here in Tasmania, in a small home, in a very small village, beside the sea. We were unable to have a family and felt very much outside the box so had to find what made us feel alive and yet be happy to be outside . We travelled alot as much as we could afford. In our 70s now and do not regret our decision. Beautiful walks with our dogs, great gardening, artistic endeavors, yet still close enough to the norm. And we can watch travel adventures to our hearts content. We have time to view, read and dream. Thank you for being honest. Xx
That welcome is so typical of the Italians, and a great sense of humour.
As someone who emigrated to Europe from the US nearly 40 years ago, I feel qualified to give a bit of advice on the issue of homesickness: Attitude and perspective. You've chosen Italy and your property; that is HOME. Stop thinking of the US culture or conveniences as things to be missed or longed for, or as "home". Obviously, keep in touch with family and close friends; but make friends where you are, and when you think of going home, think of your stone barn, not the States. The sooner you can make that mental step, the easier it will be. Make your life where you are; dig into the culture, history, neighbourhood and community and integrate as soon as you can... Also, if you are missing certain comfort foods or items from shopping in the States, try and find alternatives in Italy as soon as you can - that will help with the feeling of "being home"...
Yeah, "BLOOM WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED"
@@FeeoryneI think you meant: BLOOM WHERE YOU ARE TRANSPLANTED? Ask yourself why more people want to go to the USA...before 16 million foreigners were allowed to invade our country!
@@Feeorynewhat a beautiful saying love it 💐
Nice people there
2 Canadians going through this exactly this outside of Caserta. I miss my friends and family but every day this becomes more home 🇮🇹🇨🇦
As a 72YO retired nurse of 46 yrs, I can not begin to praise you enought for doing what you are doing, You are putting family first and doing what makes you happy. USA is now so stressed that we have LOST our way. Work and money - how much is enough? To have enough money to live, have family and feel happy - you are rich and will grow, even if in another country. I will be watching your progress. Sending my best.
People in the US truly think they can take it with them. If I were younger and things were different for me, I would be looking for a place to live out of the US. Yes, I realize other countries also have their issues but the US now is not the US I was born into.
@@pamelawing5747
Amen to that! We are becoming a communist country and no one is stopping it. My poor grandchildren 😢
the only issue is the need to revoke citizenship in order to avoid global taxation......
@@pamelawing5747 True... The communists have failed in Europe and Asia and found open game and will try their luck in the United States.
@@ReeceS6419 Keep the faith and don't give up.. This country is worth fighting for..
Absolutely correct! I am from Germany and moved to the US with my husband who was in the Army.
As a European I must say that here in the US people live to WORK......more money more stuff .
In Europe....life and family first. Relax and enjoy life.
Great show!
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Ich kenne nur Leute, die für ihre Existenz immer mehr Kraft aufbringen müssen, oder buckeln!
I hear you. on the Live to work thing. I am 46 yrs now. and I was layoff of work in 2019 before Covid, and now I am not planning to go back to work now, but am also now Full-time taking care of my 70 yr old parents. they Just past their 50 yrs of marriage. I love being able to care for them and helping out. I don't have much. I have clothes on my back and a bed. I see my parents house bought in 1990 and just paid off Feb 2023. and they have things in the house. that they bought and now is just sitting here in the house. collecting dust. We can't take it with us when we die. I would rather just be able to sit and talk to my family and long-time friends and extended family. than go buy them something that is going to sit on the shelf. Money doesn't make happiness. family and friends do.
Yes i think family first if i could do everything over again i would live in Europe. Italy or Spain. Ive been to both countries several times. But now im 76 moving might not be my best interest now. Im alone and now looking for options for the rest of my life. I love how this family made a big change i wish them the best in their lives. Follow your dreams life is to short.
That’s the way life should be.
i would like to move 😢
Greetings from Scotland! I can sympathise with you guys because my wife and I went through a very similar process. We married at 18yo and went on honeymoon to the Northern Scottish Highlands - and we stayed! Jobs were abundant and houses also! The first year was really hard and we both wanted to give in and go back home. At the end of last April we celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary, in Scotland - where we still live, very happily! We are both SO glad we stayed, brought up a family and our children have done the same. Hang on in there guys!
Much love to the captured scots.. Freedom is coming. Love from USA.
@@rossrainwater5619 Hello to US! I really, really hope so! Things are in a bit of a mess with a conservative government in the South. We badly need independence!
@@peterhowells7309 I had a Scottish history teacher in a school for foreign diplomats & foreigners in general in Indonesia as a child. The Brits (but not the Americans) ...thought they were all radicals for wanting independence from the Crown ...but we never thought of the Crown or any of the Commonwealth as conservative either ...we thought of them as colonialists. Ha! ha! ...funny how those terms are viewed so differently in different countries! My Scottish teacher was passionate about reclaiming the Scottish Crown for Scotland alone as well. The small contingent of "republicans" protesting the recent coronation are seen as "radicals" ...but in America a Republican is conservative ...go figure!!
Any vids about your life in Scotland?
@@erikdemoeij6442 Not really Erik, back in 1973 we were flat broke and expecting our first child. Vids were super expensive then. Just never been one for pictures or vids really. There are some mountain walks on my channel, but that's really it. I spent most of my married life working stupid long hours to just get by. My car takes all the vids now! 😂😂
I am an American living in Sweden and I could not agree more. This move was one of the best things ive done for myself mentally and physically. I had to learn to "relax" at work bc i was still stuck in the US work mentality. My work is always done but just in a more relaxed state. How wonderful for your children to experience life as an adventure.
I've been considering becoming an expat to Italy or Portugal and my biggest anxiety is how I'll have to deprogram from our 'go go go' culture and actually learn how to be human and more than my job title.
You have been incredibly brave and healthy moving out of the US!! (I did it in 1982, when I was 24). What you have done is absolutely extraordinary! The 'missing home' is 100% normal. It dissipates after 2 years. Because you are all together, as a family, it should take far less time. It is the greatest gift you could possibly give your children. It WILL all work out! Don't give up. All of this (what you are going through) is perfectly normal. Irons in the fire, getting stronger.
You can't worry about hurting feelings. That's just a part of the unraveling of our nation. Everyone is afraid to speak. I grew up in the America where nobody was afraid to speak. We don't have to share politcal views with you in ordee to support your channel and to enjoy your joyrney. ❤
Pardon the typos, coffee needed 😊
Tracy, iI totally agree. Everyone is so afraid of offending others with our words. If rather be accessed but really know what someone thinks or feels. At least it is honest communication. Freedom of speech is dying sadly.
@@tracydarby3066 about the typos: do you not know that you can edit your comments?
I absolutely agree I would love to leave the United States, I admire you both for what you are doing
There's a global operation going on right now to round up criminals and human traffickers. It's in a critical stage now. That might be the real reason behind why they can't leave.
As European women I would like to say that you chose the very best country to live. Italians have Feeling for family, live, eating. Also for style. I love to make vacation in italy🩷
My wife and I love watching you guys! The education that your daughters are receiving is priceless.
We are a couple in our 50's and totally understand the terrible work/life balance here in the states. Also, the expensive healthcare. We recently purchased a home in Sicily for less than you purchase a vehicle here in the US. At the first opportunity, we will be moving as well. We are looking forward to renovating our home and living in a beautiful, peaceful village!! Keep Going!
Yeah that's a great price but the wages also reflect that. If you can find work in the first place.
Don't come back it's a hot mess here. You made the right choice for your family. Stay strong family and friends can visit you- your home is coming along and seeing the joy in your family all the stress and hard work will be worth it- #YouWillBeWithFamilySoon
The same idiots who are ruining America, are here in the EU.... America is the biggest catch to get, so they are the first in line. Don't fool yourselves, staying in the EU will result in the same mess, that in now unfolding in the States..... The only difference will be that the social safety net is more reliable at this moment in Europ...At this moment! The future will be uncertain concerning that item... For the globalists are a bunch of sociopats/psychopats...And that's what we are dealing with!
I agree. I'm still in the USA but I moved away from the big city and left everything behind. No regrets at all. I now live a simple life and I'm embracing opportunities of meeting new people and discovering new places and new ways of doing things. I have never liked following trends. And I don't have any desire of going back to the city not even for visits.
I also completely agree!!! Just seeing the daily joy on their faces makes my decision to eventually do the same all that much easier.
That view from cottage is mind blowing
I agree with someone else’s comments. The view is stunning. The house will be great when you get it done and I’m sure it will meet all your needs. Keep on keeping on.✌️🖖❤️☮️
You’re an inspiration. From a US family with two young children; weighing our options; tired of being “busy”; craving relationship over productivity; and wanting to raise our children outside… thank you. Keep up the good work.
I'm an expat Australian living in Mexico. We built our house and grew a permaculture garden. Getting residency in any country is tricky and many countries don't let you leave during the process or if leaving is allowed, the time restraints are so short, like two weeks in my case, that travelling home was economically impossible. Your house setting is spectacular and the lifestyle extremely valuable. I'd love to live somewhere so beautiful. My husband and I dedicated alot of our time bringing our children up to be Australian as well as Mexican... for example I encouraged reading books in English, playing musical instruments, cooking, gardening, sewing, minding animals (activities rather strange in this part of the world) and my husband brought up our children up to be Mexican which meant building, fixing cars, soldering, electrical work, repurposing junk, making the most of a low income. It's rather hard being between two cultures. I hope you make some close friends. I've found the social aspect rather difficult especially now that my kids have grown up , not going to school and are living in other countries. Some of my friends moved away from this city. Family is not only a social identity but it gives links to other social groups. When there is no extended family, one has to work to be accepted.... I didn't work enough in this area. Love your videos. Hope your back stops hurting soon.
We really enjoyed your reasons. We have enjoyed all your videos. We moved to Italy from America almost five years ago. When we get asked why, we always say that we weren't running away from America, but rather, running to Italy. It is such a wonderful country, filled with wonderful people.
Such a great answer! I may steal that one!
How do you afford to live in Italy?
THIS!!!! 💜💜💜
Trouble is at home and at least acknowledging that's leaving the problem to continue while we go away.
Too much colonisation is based on dissociation from problems we actually carry with us to other places...
Maybe this is a return to europe for some people's heritage, however admitting what we left unwilling or unable to address behind within or ahead of us (for decendants)
is literally the difference between re, de or just colonising again and again.
8-9 months is hard to no return home..especially where children are involved...
However
Most important is healing the wounds of those who have been colonised and how we are all left when healing is not provided and allowed for...
We carry on with culture which is not natural to the nature of the person, all of life or places of nature.
@@RaisingVoyagersthou shalt not steal!
Don't worry if others get offended. That's their issues to deal with. You just speak and live your truth.
You are right, the only problem is that they now live on the revenues from TH-cam so they have to be careful and refrain from speaking about politics or religion. Listen, I love the work they’re doing with the stone house and the location is breathtakingly beautiful. I’m a poc of color. If they had mentioned they were MAGAs, that would be it for me. It would just steal the joy their journey gives me and I was a Republican, but the lie about IraqI war did it for me. I guess that’s were we are now.
Apart from the fact america is losing its collective mind?
Me and my family have been looking into somehow leaving the country. That’s how I found this video.
We did we are not in Zürich
Not to mention children & women trafficking..
And going back to the Wild,Wild West..
Disgusting.
My boyfriend and I have been working with Americans and Canadians for several years. Last summer we went to LA to edit a movie and a documentary, and we lived for quite a long time in a huge mansion in Beverly Hills that had been "lent" to us by an old friend of our producer. We are both Italian, and we are about to finish renovating an old house we bought in Florence; we did most of the heavy lifting (including hurting our backs while digging dirt and boulders from underneath the whole house to insulate the floor from humidity, emptying a basement full of debris, and well... old poop, exactly like you did), then we hired some companies to do the things we weren't allowed to do ourselves.
You know what? I totally get it. Our circumstances kind of "mirror" yours, since we were born in the country you've chosen to live in. Stefano and I LOVE travelling (we both used to work for the international cooperation, years ago), and we've had our share of what it means to live the best, most luxurious life in the US, but like many Americans we know, who chose to settle in Europe, we have no desire to "live the American dream": we'd miss our small, old house (now super-efficient and green) in our beautiful city, we'd miss our relaxed lifestyle, our 15-minute neighborhood, our vegetable garden, not to mention the family house built by my grandfather, sitting in an enchanting valley on the Alps and surrounded by a garden and fruit trees.
I've just discovered your channel and I've already binge-watched most of your videos. Truth be said, I'd love to meet you in person and have a long, nice chat, 'cause I think that we have a lot in common and a similar mindset, even though we were born on opposite sides of the world. I wish you the best!
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I vividly remember, when I was in the tiny villages in the northern Italian alps, how it felt like time was slower there. It was captivating. There was a shepherd on the hillside with his goats, just like in the movie, Heidi. It was incredible.
Thank you for sharing. We live off grid in interior Alaska. We are building a place out of pocket and living below our means as a way to simplify our life. Too many people are caught up in the rat race of life and the desire to have stuff. My husband used to be like you working 60+ hours a week and I was an at home mom. We are now working just as many hours BUT we are together, talking, laughing and enjoying each other. I am happy for you to be able to do this adventure while your children are young. They will have incredible memories and skills that most people do not. Thank you for sharing your life with the world.
Good for you ! you still stayed in the United States ! Think about it ! The life style you wanted and still in the greatest country in the world !
Uh, they're in Portugal!
@@rossrainwater5619 who is in Portugal?
@@16480287 still living with rose coloured glasses, aren't you!😂😂😂
@@picholoup Yes Sir ! Proud to be a a American living in the greatest Country in the world ! That so many are trying to enter !Love my glasses !!!
You can’t apologize for wanting a simpler life with less pressure. You have chosen a life in a more relaxed setting. You have set the foundation for your children to live a quality of life, education and culture. The biggest gift Parents can give to their children.
Listening to you is like listening to myself. I left California, the city where I was born and it’s such a mess… my son said, Mom, get out of there! Come to Hawaii. I’m so glad I did. The stress level is so much healthier. This is my retirement paradise. I’m glad you found yours! 🙋🏻♀️❤️🙏
@Allioop , girl, you had to have someone tell you to move to HI? 😆 Good for you!!!!
@@maximac222 My son was in the Navy stationed at Pearl Harbor for seven years. He surfs and it’s his home. He was tired of worrying about me and the CA wildfires. Plus CA isn’t what it used to be. I would never raise children there. Even though my son and I are both native San Diegan’s, we lived there when it was a great place to live. Not anymore…
@Allioop_1 So glad you got away when you did! Seems lots of great places on the West coast have become like your San Diego. 😪
Hawaii is insanely expensive now. Friends moved there back in the 70’s with vacation homes, now many live there permanently and have expanded their vacation homes to huge multimillion dollar full time homes.
@@ccsocal768 I owned a home in California for years and it’s no more expensive than living there. It’s a better place to live out my old age though. I feel bad for renters in Hawaii though, there’s a housing shortage and it is actually easier and cheaper to buy here than it is to get a rental.
Hi guys ! I'm French and have only been following you for a few weeks, trying little by little to catch up on your videos since you bought the house. Lovin every bit of the build, admiring you guy's decision and commitment, loving how the girls are involved in all this !
I can totally relate to the reasons why you moved from the US to Italy since about ten years ago I decided to live my American dream and quickly came back to Ole' Europe. I found life in the US quite challenging to say the least, for various reasons, and quickly missed the "social solidarity" we have in Europe. I don't quite understand the admiration of the "working hard" concept in the US, definitely making good money (kinda) but not having any time to enjoy life in every other aspect of it that isn't related to work. That's a great sociological object of study ! I'm sure moving to the US can be extremely rewarding for one who can focus only on work, but I guess my Mediterranean roots made me not be that way and want to focus on others aspects of my life rather than just work and make money...
However, welcome to Europe, hope you'll come to love it more and more and thanks for the awesome videos !!! Kudos to y'all !
Franz Ben, really,you have a funny French name!😉
I'm half German, half American and I've lived part of my life in Germany and in the US. But Europe is so much better for the way I personally want to live. As you said, it would be an interesting social study to compare European countries to the US lifestyle. As far as I'm concerned, even though France has it's own problems, I prefer the more laid back lifestyle here . We've been living in Ariège since 1981 and I have yet to regret it!❤
The hard work culture is functional to government's goals. USA has a very expensive military and basically protect alone Europe,the Pacific , taiwan japan south korea. Feeding this budget needs people working a lot. Plus, a greedy upper class made medical expenses and education out of control-come on how am I supposed to pay 80000 dollars of uni fees a year or 10000 dollars for a broken limb? but the world follow this model - also chinese and japanese so yeah they put in the trash the human side.
@AndreaBorto 80,000 a year? That's as much or more than tuition at like the most expensive and prestigious schools in the country.. or world for that matter. A decent State school in the US where most people will go is about 1/8 that cost. It's all still expensive, but thats beyond hyperbolic.
@@chickenfishhybrid44 I was writing about University,are you refeering to school?
@@AndreaBorto by State school I mean a State university. As opposed to an all private institution like Harvard where the yearly tuition isn't even 80k.
I don't blame you for wanting out of the US. I've traveled the world over and can tell you this much, you guys are on the right track.
The US is being destroyed by liberals and Biden.
@@southshore8911 Substitute "best" with most expensive.
@south shore I doubt that you have tried the medical care in *any* other country.
@@southshore8911 IF you can afford healthcare! In the UK we never have to worry about that.
Ya but the want to go visit that's so sad
Yup! We chose to retire very early and move to rural Mexico. We have land, built a house, and live quite safely and peacefully. I have never, not even one, have a person here ask me what I did for a living up in the states. My mom lives here close in her own small house and we are quite content. We planned this for years and are happy with our decision. Choice is awesome! Loving your videos.
Awesome! We had considered Mexico! Still one of our favorites places, and AMAZING food ☺️
OK, I'm gonna say u just blew my mind, I've thought so much of Mexico since watching PBS with Rick Bayless & Patty Jinich and it just seems way more chill than the hysterical news snippets we sometimes see. Thanks for posting & I wish u well (with all that chill food, rich in great nutrients!) 🙋♀️❤
@SANDY BOWMAN You can't believe everything you read. Your own experience means much more. There are so many parts of mexico to know. I encourage you to travel there and check it out for yourself. Our village is quite small, around 2000 or so inhabitants but a very large city is 1.5 hours from us for our monthly shopping and there is a nearby town of much larger population for weekly visits. People are very nice and calm as public rudeness or loud voices is frowned upon. The culture is almost opposite the USA on family so you rarely see anyone unhoused, even in the city. Food is great, no national fast food joints in our area and Healthcare is very affordable.
@@michellekelley2927 Wow x 100! That sounds delightful, as I find Mexican immigrants here in the states. People from other countries can be demonized, but I always know there's a different story to be heard. Most Mexicans are deeply generous, as are Africans, Asians, etc and have standards way above what the US experiences. Thank u for adding that - I pray all the time people would stop the fear mongering & see people with their hearts! Have a great weekend, Michelle! Much love to u & ur family! 💞
You talk with people from other countries. They are amazed how some Americans, love to tell you their job title, how much they make, how big a house or what car they drive. I think Finland has the right idea. You drive down a street, can't really tell rich from ok. If anything considered rude to talk about being rich. Here some hang on every word Musk or others say. Because they have wealth, sad.
My family is from the Northern side of Italy - San Vito Tagliamento Friulan - Love your videos started following today and I remember opening the windows and at a far seeing the Alps - Many Blessings and Enjoy
Hey guys I’m not a regular commenter but I found this video really inspiring.
I grew up in a similar way, sort of - my parents moved from New Zealand to South East Asia with me and my two younger sisters when I was ten years old. Certainly it was difficult at times but the places we got to travel to were absolutely incredible and the perspective it’s given me as an adult into different cultures and points of view has definitely made me a better person, and I’m sure your daughters will feel the same as they get older.
Have a wonderful day 😊
I agree with you. I worked minimum 80 hours a week for 40 years in Los Angeles. My work was my life, my family, my hobby, everything. I didnt even have time to take my dog for a walk. I had to hire dog walkers. I also do not want to live in the environment that America has become. It is angry, negative, hateful and fearful. Children being killed in their schools is not what I want to say defines my country. I felt a deep dark hole in my sole in the US. I began looking for a different life. I found it in Central Italy in the Majella mountains. I bought a small home, live in a tiny village, I can get anywhere by train or bus. I really love the live and work dynamic in Italy. The people here are more in tune with the big picture and what is good for all rather than me me me. Your children seem well adjusted and thriving. They will be able to open their hearts to their dreams. I wish you the best in Italy.
Minimum 80 hours a week? Yeah right
I can definitely relate. I moved to Chile for 7 years and once my grandkids were born, I couldn’t stay away, the struggle to stay or to move back was hard, I didn’t want to miss watching my grandkids grow and at the same time I also wanted to stay, because the quality of life was much better there and we had established relationships and a peaceful lifestyle. Now, that we are back, I hardly see my grandkids, because I live 2 hours away from where they are and they have their life. This makes it even harder because I have the impulse to want to look for a better place to live. My husband fell sick from the stress of work and the fast pace that we live in here in the US. So, I totally can understand and relate. I continue to struggle with moving away again. Stay strong, I am sure God has you there for a purpose. ❤
@@hawajan4316 NEVER GO BACK. Besides you have a home to build up andbroots to put down.
People like to see something made from nothing. A before and after.
I can relate I have grown kids w/children who live/lived lives in one of the Service Branches, so they moved all the time and so for away I physically got to see them maybe every 4 years. They have settled now but still to far for regular travel and flights indeed are so expensive when on a set low budget. Thank God for giving us cell phones so we can talk daily and weekly and video chats. But it is indeed not the close knit family scenario I had hoped for!
If you are healthy and you think you can live happier abroad or somewhere else, do it.
So you went back to spend time to spend time with your grandchildren, and you don’t see your grandchildren, wow
What a well-done video! My Husband and I moved from the U.S. and will have been living on the Sun Coast of Spain for three years this November. You nailed it on every point. The vibe here is so much more relaxed and people love living a healthier, closer to nature lifestyle! Meals and socializing are for the most part outdoors...there is always a Fiesta or celebration somewhere to be a part of!!! Great point made about easy and inexpensive travel as well. We are no longer in the "bubble" and have a whole new perspective and appreciation for new possibilities! 🥰
I've always believed that just because you are born into a country that doesn't mean it has to be your home. I admire that you took the chance to leave a place you were comfortable with to find another place to live. Kudos to you.
I absolutely love how you talked about your reasons for the leaving the US. Even the sensitive political part. Super classy you two! Thank you for showing the world that Americans can be worldly, honest, and diplomatic. Love your posts!
Yes I agree they did a really good job explaining why.
I'm 65 and always wanted to live in Italy 🇮🇹
Seeing you guys do what I wanted 😢😊 brings me tears of joy. I hold such a regard of respect for the way you four are moving along. Hope one day you can talk about the downfalls to changing your life for such a beautiful country. Thank you for sharing and many blessings on your journey. I'll be watching.😂
My wife and I spent 3 weeks last summer in Italy and understand 100%. The Italian lifestyle and diet is something that more people need to experience. Last summer we even met a family from Holland that was moving to Italy for the same reasons. They just wanted a better life for them and their family.
I will turn 60 this summer. When I was a kid in the 1970's, people were getting their Licensed Vocational Nurse degree and certification at the local community college, the state picked up the tab for tuition and books because they saw it as a good investment.
Flash forward to now, I worked last year in a restaurant. I got to know a server, a young woman who was really sharp and astute. She was turning 21 and she lived with her mom to save not paying rent. She always told us that she scrimped and saved everything, every spare dime went to tuition because she was trying to avoid taking out student loans. She finally got accepted into our local community college licensed vocational nurse program.
She looks at me, with a straight face, and tells me that she is "Only 6K in student loan debt". I said, "How on earth is it that you have only gone to community college, that you JUST NOW got accepted into the vocational licensed nurse program, yet you had to borrow 6K to make it this far????". She replied that most of her friends owed so much more. I thought, 21 years old and already owes 6K, what is going to happen one day when she wants to get married and have kids? WHY are we saddling our young adults, our CAPABLE young adults who want to become nurses, with so much debt? How is this helpful to our country and our future?
You are providing your children with an education and time with you that could never be replicated, great choice good work.
As an American who has traveled internationally most of my life, your perspectives are on point. Now 70 years strong I hope to live nomadic again in Europe! Enjoy your passion!!!
I love you kids! Bravo for giving yourselves and your beautiful girls this wonderful adventure! I pray God's continued blessings of God provision, presence, protection, and peace 👏👏👏 ❤️🙏✝️🕊️
I moved from USA to Germany ( govt job) for 6yrs. I get it. It was a wonderful adventure. I miss it often. I agree with how easy it is to venture out around you in Europe by train,car or plane. Love the people as well. ❤
Nice to see peeps coming out of their comfort zone. Doesn´t it make you feel alive ? Thank you for sharing!
Love 🪻Following your family's journey
You guys come across as such lovely, humble and down to earth family. Wishing you the very best in your journey!
Sorry. But it doesn't matter what your reasons were, it was the best thing for you & your family! It is NOT anyone business as to why you guys did what you did. You guys had the courage to leave & start a new Life! I am happy for your new Life & new Journey! 😊🙏🏼
I moved from the UK to Bulgaria 5 years ago for pretty much the same reasons. I now have a very relaxed lifestyle and make bespoke oak doors and windows for clients all over the country, I have no regrets and wouldn't change a thing, love watching your progress, and having driven on the old road over the dolomites down to Trento I know that you are living in a spectacular part of the world 😊
Thank You for speaking-up and being vulnerable, honest and candid about real-life issues in a sensitive way! Your journey has been very refreshing to watch for me. Wishing you you the best!
From Tampa, Florida
Very well said. Leaving one‘s own bubble, living in a new environment, learning new languages is a great opportunity to discover one’s own biases, grow compassion and celebrate the beauty of diversity, a prerequisite for experiencing that - beyond all differences - we are all ‚one‘. I admire your courage and positivity when navigating through all ups and downs of such an (ad)venture.
Most people have biases, living in a new country certainly does NOT "grow compassion", and diversity is meaningless. Btw, Italy is more white and less diverse than the USA.
I couldn't agree with u more @Heinz Gassner! I look for opportunities to learn from other cultures and shop in a Vietnamese or Korean Grocery Store and love the things that make us different. Diversity is simply looking for what's different and then admiring it, exalting it and seeing that others make up this symphony of life; not everyone can be strings or woodwinds, we need a simple tink of a triangle or the boom of a drum - people with all their glorious differences are what make life spectacular vs simple black and white. So glad u posted and show others how to "see with the heart!" Be well kind friend + I wish u many blessings! 🙋♀️❤
@@sandybowman7140 Diversity for the sake of diversity, is meaningless. It all comes down to the quality of people one encounters, not JUST that they are different ethnically, tribally. Forced diversity can be quite disastrous.
@@thomasluby1754 I just don't see life like that at all. I see the good and glorious traits different cultures have and I am in total agreement with @Heinz Gassner who clearly has an open heart and can see with his heart. I pray u come to realize all u miss someday! I hope ur fear subsides because differences are wonderful, they stretch us to have larger worldviews and touch us and make us change and adjust what we previously knew, it's an education. Wishing u blessings Thomas!
@@sandybowman7140 Has nothing to do with fear. Have travelled and enjoyed it and grown from it. I just know people who push a DEI agenda are wrong and dangerous. I believe in freedom, not coercion. I believe in meritocracy, not DEI. It is the QUALITY of people one encounters, not necessarily the "diversity" of them.
Noone should be offended by the truth. You guys are a HUGE inspiration. Doing what you are doing is such a amazingly courageous thing and a testament to your love and dedication to one another. God bless you. I hope everything goes great for your precious family.
Family and community are the wealth of a culture. Good luck to this pioneers.
You don't have to explain, we understand what you are looking for, just having a balanced life, between all aspects of life... Everywhere on this earth, you have positives and negatives points, paradise on earth doesn't exist, except inside ourselves
You do you and care for your family the way you decide. No one lives your life but you. Best wishes
Hi there from Ukraine) love watching you and admire your family and how you do things together as a family, even your daughters help you and that's amasing, guys. I've also dreamt about smth similar, but my ex-wife didn't support me as I was doing my regular job and in the evenings restored our house. Hope to become a good example for my daughter as you are for yours. Good luck)
When i visited italy i quickly felt like i could stay and never return to scotland without looking back. I loved how laid back the country felt and i loved the people i met not to mention i felt mentaly at peace in italy. I hope you guys have found peace and happiness, you come across as really good humans.
I think that regardless of your reasons for leaving your home country, the view that you get to look out onto every day makes the adventure seem so worth it. I've just turned 70 and like most of my generation spent nearly every waking hour working to provide for and prepare the next generation. It wasn't all just drudgery, every life has it's great moments, and we've had our fair share. But now retired, I wake up in the morning and see nothing more than the house next door, and the house next door to that, etc, etc. My dream was less adventurous, I just wanted to have a cottage by the sea, (sigh) I doubt it's going to happen. But boy I could get used to waking up to that view every morning, Italy looks so beautiful, wow. Enjoy every moment, life flies by and not all our dreams will get to be realized. It looks like a lot of hard work, but it also looks amazingly worth it. 👋🇿🇦
For me personally there’s nothing more important than being near family but I wish you and your beautiful little family the best there in Italy
I really admired your decision you have made to move to beautiful Italy, Congratulations! God bless you All. I love your videos!
Very understandable and admirable. Many of us feel the same way and would love to do what you two have done. I hope you get your residency soon and can visit family in the US. My husband and I are US citizens but I’m currently becoming a (dual) Italian citizen though my grandparents’ legacy. My husband grew up in Denmark and we plan to one day buy a home in Italy. Meanwhile, you have fans in Calabasas, CA.
Do not get discouraged by external factors because Italy is the right choice, in terms of food, relationships and striding to neighbouring countries.
Struggling is part of life. Need to have the wisdom to accept it and move on with renewed energy.
I get what you said on the account of the USA. I have had the same feeling while in California for a month vacation. I felt so packed up in my chest. I was happy to be back in Italy.
Look for local neighbours and friends. Y. ou would feel welcomed and in plac
Love watching you make coffee in morning.
Greetings from Austria 🇦🇹
You have a wonderful family all together given a hand in renovation it isn't easy there is hard work going on in process but the results will be a rewarding and satisfaction. Italy is beautiful country with rich of history and culture ❤
Btw I am originally from the island of Malta a stone away from Italy another gem in the Mediterranean.
Good luck and I wish you all every success in your new journey guys.❤❤❤
For someone that traveled in Europe as a young adult up to my mid 20’s, I honestly wished I had stayed there. The quality of life is so much better in Europe. Medical costs are outrageous here in the US and the divide between the rich and poor is disgusting. There are so many bad things...like this debt crisis we are in now where one party doesn’t care about putting the rest of us in financial ruin, let alone what it does to the rest of the world. No other country gets away with this madness. Kids are in schools and every aspect of life here worrying about crazy people with guns.
All I can say is that you are much safer there and you are living a dream life there! You definitely made the right decision! I would come back to Europe in a heartbeat!
@Audrianna B I completely empathize with the feelings u shared, it doesn't feel like the same place since social media exploded and turned people ugly. YT is the only platform I interact & post. It feels very much like pre-1936 WW2 Germany is taking shape in front of our eyes. I haven't felt the same level of safety either. It seems to be forgotten that the role of govt is to improve people's lives. Thanks for sharing ur thoughts! 🙋♀️❤🇺🇸
I can only guess you are a flaming Liberal.
It is definitely getting worse in America. Lawlessness is on the rise. People always had guns from the founding of the country ...but something has changed. I never had a gun through most of my life until I got personally physically attacked. It changes you when that happens ...I had always been against guns ...now I have one for personal protection.
@@kindlydude It is heartbreaking and it's personal, my family has radically changed & it even makes communication strained. It comes from the top, and it sadly doesn't seem like there's any respect for govt officials - "defund the FBI" is complete nonsense along with so many other anti-American chants. I'm right there with u but I feel like if had a gun it would used against me.
@@sandybowman7140 trust the government? Really? We have been lied to, lied to and lied to more, they are out for themselves. I would never give up my guns now- I dont trust our government at all. I find it funny that most of the left wing ex-hippies that hated the government when they were young now trust our government and thinks it’s just wonderful.
I love that you speak freely about what your reasons were to leave the US. To leave a country is never easy, it does not matter if you are from the US, from Argentina (my case) or from Africa. It will always be hard. What you know what? It will for sure change you and make better humans out of you! You are making a conscious decision to grow, to live life to the fullest, to invest in you. And to do that, you must be so brave! I think that everyone should leave their country and experience life outside the bubble. Congrats for that!
You are wise moving to Italy America children are not safe in school but I am against the death penalty they allow people to buy guns then they kill them by lethal injections for useing what they allowed people to use
I love watching people in Italy. People seem to have more time to smell the flowers.
It is so beautiful there in the Italian countryside
The lower garden area may require more water and the leaves are curling. You can cover your plants if you think it's too much sun. Also if you eat Bananas- you can make banana water. ( 1 jar, 1 banana peel, fill with water) let sit 24-48hrs. Then pour onto Tomatoes, Peppers, Cucumbers, squash plants ( vine types) It's like giving them red bull and they shoot up. Doit once a month.( Also crush your egg shells, and sprinkle around the base ( don't get it on the leaves) of those same plants to help with Blossom rot!! Hope that helps
it's the soil.
I just snapped your recommendations. Awesome 👏🏽. I’m trying to grow my vegetables & some fruits and this will come in handy. Was frustrated as I couldn’t just copy your comment, but glad I thought to take a pic. Ty!
Soil is missing minerals for your plants, to much rain flushes soil out. Goat pellets make excellent slow release fertilizer, also boiled garlic and onion water on plants for bugs,
Also fish emulsion ....but I don't know how to make it ....just know a friend who uses it from hydroponics, but she said you can make it and put it n your garden too. Except I think they're vegetarians ...just remembered. Also ashes from the fireplace help amend the soil. And you can grind the eggshells in a coffee grinder ...my husband actually does that as a supplement & also sprinkles on the garden. ~Tara
@kindlydude we have Seasol in Australia. It's made from sea weed, very strong smell but it works well on vegetables
Check for snails in your garden. My friends had that surprise problem.
Oh my goodness yes! With all the rain they especially love it and can do so much damage overnight.
Aww thank you so much for sharing this beautiful journey with us
Love the stone walls and old wooden door having a coffee in that beautiful setting with your family. Well done and wise decision.
You made the most rewarding choice to restore your home! Oh i wish i had done that 40 years ago! It's absolutely stunning! Best to all of you. With you in spirit! 😘🤗
I am from Uruguay and lived some time in the US. I totally get it. You explained it well, it is a land of opportunities but you do have to pay a high price for them.
I spend 1 month a year every 12-18 months in Italy. While it’s not the same as living there full time from my friendships with xpats and my family near Naples I have learned that patience is a great trait learned while there. Italy really exemplifies that you work to live rather than live to work.
Your videos are SO GOOD!! And beautifully edited.
I just love the two of you💕💕💕 I totally agree with all that you say. As an elderly person who has seen all the changes over the years here in USA. It is a divided country now and that is sad. I admire your courage to follow your dreams💕💕💕
I understand your comments and hope you are very very happy there. It is a wonderful opportunity to have your kids see the world while they are young. You complain about working in the US but I have never seen two people work so hard in my whole life as you two. I hope your workload gets better and your life fulfills your dreams. But I know I couldn’t leave my family and friends. They are just too precious to me.
The life and home you are building with your daughters is the true gift.
That is what I see. You aren’t just building a beautiful home. You are building a STRONG , SOLID family. There is nothing more primal than the family homestead.
I see a family truly bonded with love and sacrifice for each other.
There is no better foundation.
I totally recognize the home sickness you are feeling. It’s real pain.
I know you’ll get through.
Together.
As a family.
I pray the universe blesses your family.
The struggle is real but so is your strength.
👍
You two are the hardest working people I have ever seen I totally understand your decision about leaving USA you have to do what’s best for your family and who cares what people think… I wish you and your family the best God bless you
I wouldn't tear down that beautiful stone house and I couldn't believe anyone would say that. It is gorgeous.
it's not a house, it's a barn. why they choose it is beyond me
I totally get it! It’s a beautiful realization to have the awakening while your children can benefit from a beautiful life that is free from the constraints and of course you two will benefit as well in a personal level, on a partnership level and of course as a family. Returning to the roots we came from. Love it! It takes a lot of courage…
I totally agree with you. If I were younger (I'm 78) I would do the same. When I was younger there were lots of things that were not what people did. It was a different world. Now there are so many awesome alternatives. I am happy for you and your house is beautiful.
I agree with you 100%. I moved to Italy twice on my own because I could see my life, but nothing felt. I needed to feel my life and being back in the US is tough. Yes it solves financial problems and you see people you know and a culture you know. But in Italy, you just feel alive. ❤
Just found your channel and I’m OBSESSED. Reminds me of the frontier and how families would build their homes with the earth and materials around them. Amazes me!! Thank you for sharing your journey ❤
Also wanted to add the editing and beauty of your videos is seriously stunning!! Your hard work shows👏👏👏
Thank you!!! ❤️
I am feel you entirely! I have been away from Australia for over 8 years now. Almost 5 years in Morocco and in the UK before that. It's been a journeyon so, so many levels. I am finally in the process of selling my little property in the Marrakech Medina and hope to be returning within the next couple of months. Administration, say no more! I will be bringing my cat back with me, which involves a detour through France and / or Belgium, in order to firstly get her to the UK; a listed country for Australian pet import. Yep!
I have never been to the US but have been following things closely for years now. Reading between the lines.... I can see elements of what you didn't say popping up in both the UK and Australia, also.
I hope that more people will come to experience the sense of achievement and work/life balance that you are now finding and realise that it is possible to live a healthier, more nourishing and fullfilling life on less money by becoming as self sustainable as one can be.
Well done on all your hard work!
Well said & thank u for telling the "pet dynamic" where I can store away for need to know. It seems Europeans can have it all & really know how culture fits into life ... work life is not culture, it's work. Be well & wishing u many blessings! 🙋♀️❤
@@sandybowman7140You have to watch stop overs too Sandy as we looked at it with our dogs, some countries don’t take, even as stop overs, some animals or some breeds of dogs/cats.
@@paulinehiggins8239 Thank u for that additional input!
Beautiful response! Much love , usa.
i hope you stay in europe and enjoy life .l left from canada for same reasons and i enjoy life in Greece
You have gone against the odds unbelievable amount of work you are putting into it!
Thank you for your honesty. I've traveled to Italy and I understand how you fell in love. Italy is beautiful! I wish I was courageous enough to move as well... maybe someday.. I Hugs from New York City!
I can so relate. It's true you have to work a lot here (in USA). But we manage to live very simply here, unlike others we know. We don't have a fancy car or house, don't go on fancy vacations and trips, and live in a small town, but we don't have to work all the time either and that suits us just fine. Love your videos.
Hi family ,It’s fantastic what your doing,not only you both ,but especially your children ,the pollution for a start is better, it’s safer ,there’s no need to have guns in the home ,your spending precious time with your girls,while their growing up, your relationship together as a family, will bring you closer, as you have time to breath !
We as a family, moved from the UK to Australia 🇦🇺 in early eighties ,because we wanted a better life for our children,better weather ect ect ! It’s tough at the beginning, leaving your relatives behind, but if your happier, that’s the most important thing ,at the end of the day !
Good luck 🥰
Having that sense of wanderlust is intrinsic to the American spirit and your appreciation of the bones and structure of your historic house is wonderful. Congratulations on your adventure!
It’s so admirable and courageous that you are expanding your mindset, and that of your girls, to the wider world by moving, traveling and living your best life. My husband and I also just left the USA and moved to Belgium. Within days we relaxed into the wonderful aspects of life in Europe, free from the worry of violence and intolerance. We are not going back. The US is great in many ways but there is a certain sickness there now. Viva Europe, viva Italy!
Physical labor together is less stress than an 80 hour work week. Always there will be stress and judgement but you have found your place and you are lucky to have found it together
What a view from kitchen counter top
Bravo you guys. I'm on my way there myself, for obvious reasons.
I am so happy and amazed by you. I think your courage and what you value is beautiful and full of love!
I loved this conversation and I 100% understand your reasons for leaving, you are right and I admire your bravery in striking out to do something new for you and your family’s benefit. Wow! The flights there are cheap! How nice you can travel easier and cheaper now. And I love your future stone house, it is charming and beautiful. I can’t wait to see the finished product! I want to live in Italy my next life. 😃
I have thought about moving to Mexico or another country where your money goes much further. However, I could not leave my children. And or possible future grandchildren. So,.. I think people who are able to do that maybe don’t have children or maybe those types who can send their child to a boarding school. Lol
You people are great, having the courage to leave BS behind and to start the new life. Congratulations.. All the best to you
from Croatia..
I love this. I’m in the US and for all it’s flaws it is definitely home for me, AND I love love love that you are seeking to “detoxify” from the toxic culture we live in here in the US. My girls are grown and one just got married but if I had small children right now with everything going on here with your young girls I totally get it. Good for you both for putting relationships first and to desire to raise your girls and yourselves away from ALL the craziness that’s here. Interesting to note that so far every empire has fallen at around the 250 year mark and we are there here in the US. I view that optimistically in the long run because there’s a lot here that’s not working and it needs to be reformed. Time will tell and I for one wish you both well and I’m also sorry you’re feeling a bit trapped now. Wishing you all the best.
Just started watching your videos of your adventures renovating the stone house.
Wife and I had similar ideas several years ago, but it did not work out for us, unfortunately.
I worked for nearly 40 years as an architect in Canada, spending many hours, days, weeks, months, and years working on other peoples projects, and always dreamt about doing my own house.
Got tired of working, quit my job, got married, and we travelled a lot. Took my wife to Croatia, my birth place to show her the place. She loved it. Came back to Canada, then she suggested we move there, permanently.
I told her this is not like moving a hundred miles down the highway in Canada or US.
I told her she was going to miss Canada, her friends, her children (she was born in Canada, and had kids from a previous marriage).
She said she will be OK.
So, we sold the house just outside of Toronto, Ontario, hired a mover, stuffed everything into a container, including a car, and moved to Croatia.
Stayed at my cousins place that I fixed up a couple of years before...was a really nice second floor in his house.
Everything started to go well, we even managed to buy a large piece of land on which we planned to build our house. Found a local architect to help me with the local codes, and things.
One day, wife gets a message from her disabled daughter saying that she had to move to a group home, because her stepmother, and father (who had her custody) were being mean to her.
Tore my wife to pieces! She would be crying as we'd be driving around in Croatia.
Had to change our plans.
Stopped the house plans, packed everything in a container again, and shipped it to Montreal.
So, that's were we are now, living in an apartment close to her daughter who comes to visit us every second weekend.. So much for dreams.
I hope you guys are able to carry out your dreams.
Best of luck living in Europe. It is very much different than USA or Canada. I love travelling in USA...hitting the Interstate 80 though Nebraska, Wyoming, I40 though New Mexico or Arizona or I10 through West Texas...USA is a lot more than NYC or LA...great people out mid-west or west...real America in my opinion.
Europe is great too...go and see Vienna, I would say it's the most beautiful city in the World with culture overflowing everywhere.
Check out the highway hugging the Adriatic coast in Croatia. Pacific Coast Highway in California doesn't even come close to the beauty of that Croatian highway. Rovinj is a gorgeous town in Istria, Croatia - go and see it, it's probably only 2 and a half hours away from where you are now. Italian and English are spoken widely in Croatia. So is German.
Go and see the place.
Long comment, I know...
I admire you guys and the choices you have made. The lifestyle here in Australia is very similar to the USA in that it’s very me me me!! Community is rare. Everyone is chasing the dollar. And that’s why l don’t fit in! I live by myself and have no one around me as people can’t understand why l don’t participate in the normal days. I am partially disabled and am only able to do so much work each day. So l live on a pension and this allows me to get the balance right. My doctor has noticed my improvement and fully supports me. So guys l guess what l am saying is that you are spot on with your decisions and the dreams you have. It is hard to be stuck in one place without your important others nearby however it makes you so much more stronger and resilient in the l9ng run. And the girls will thank you for the lifestyle one day. It’s a great way to learn about the world we live in and what makes it tick. Keep your chins up. You are doing super well. I am so glad that l stumbled across you all. I feel like l am blessed. All the best from Traralgon Victoria Australia. Big hugs!
From what I've seen and have been told by Americans, Australia has a much better work/life balance. The side hustle life isn't common here, people don't commonly work those long hours, plus we get more annual leave. It's definitely not perfect here in Aus, but I think we have it a little better (so far). I think it depends where you live, but that's the same for any country. Comparing rural Italy to inner city Sydney would make no sense, but if you compared a similar sized town I don't think it would be that dissimilar. Less community mobility than in Italy I think, in Europe a lot of people tend to stay where they're born. Anyway just my 10c. Inflation, ya know! 😊
I don't think you could ever compare Australia to the USA. Australia is a very lucky country with gun laws and our freedom
I think what you all have done for your family is amazing…I wish we had the courage to take a chance ..our son is disabled so travel for the whole family together is hard especially to Europe. I have taken my teenage daughter to London and plan on going back to France and uk with my son and daughter in November..I can’t explain how I love the UK so I get it. Hopefully Italy is on my list this next year…you are the sweetest families and no need to explain…love your family and live life with no regrets….❤
Free healthcare in uk 😊
@@angelagalloway5486 WHICH IS CRUMBLING UNDER THE CONSERVATIVE GOVERNMENT SO WILL BE PRIVATISED IF WE DONT VOTE THEM OUT sorry for caps didn’t look touch typing
I fell in love with England when we were posted for one year in the Cotswolds. We had wonderful weather I took up horse back riding through the countryside and loved the old stone buildings thatched roofs etc