Why Rejection is Awesome | Jia Jiang | Talks at Google

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  • @JL-qf3hq
    @JL-qf3hq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    “I don’t care about win or loss, I care about making the right decision.” Profound

  • @jaymacdonnell4730
    @jaymacdonnell4730 9 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Joe Rogan has a great perspective on this subject. To paraphrase: "Show me a man who's never failed and I'll show you a a man that's never done anything".

  • @samundrashrestha
    @samundrashrestha 10 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I got to this link randomly browsing on youtube. Gave it 5 minutes and then 10 and then time got unnoticed. An awesome video on Rejection. Glad came through it.

  • @VasileSurdu
    @VasileSurdu 10 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    i saved this on my mobile and listening every day i'm out..
    helped me a LOT

  • @Drew_Hurst
    @Drew_Hurst 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He went from wanting to conquer the world to being successful and deciding it's better to fulfill Others lives and empower other People.
    That's beautiful Human evolution riright there!

  • @Ravprot
    @Ravprot 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    he is very genuine, and articulate. He's like the guy next door.

  • @user-hg2uh6hp7u
    @user-hg2uh6hp7u 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The guy is sharp. Most prizes hide on the other side of the limiting factor.

  • @albdim1
    @albdim1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is one of the MOST important videos on TH-cam. What you do saves lives, really. Great job!

  • @tahoon2009
    @tahoon2009 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I loved your speech, out of the many public speakers with logical idea here, your video is different in that strong impact of a true personal experience of an everyday man who DID manage to cross, Best of luck :)

  • @tossa5885
    @tossa5885 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have been to China..making Business.I have lived quite some time in the region. My report home to my head quarter was.. we can not make business with these guys, since they are so different and do not work to our European Business Codex. But this contribution ..made me remember what I liked so much meeting this people..experiencing this way of life and this way of feeling and communicating it. So different to my European Culture and Business world... but so human and so nice.

  • @sarfrajalam2693
    @sarfrajalam2693 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I watched his All his 100 day rejection therapy videos...he is truly inspiration💗

  • @happymimi16
    @happymimi16 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great point when he says rejection is more about the other person and their opinion

  • @sibelgunduz1539
    @sibelgunduz1539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What makes this talk so interesting and popular is Jia's genuine and open attitude .... actually he has become spiritual by going through 100 days challenge and deep research on human psychology.

  • @chandimarajapaksha5836
    @chandimarajapaksha5836 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    very helpful speech, this video is very helpful for most of the people in our society who afraid of REJECTION

  • @alvaroalfaro9478
    @alvaroalfaro9478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's better to conquer yourself than to conquer the world

  • @ProudSF
    @ProudSF 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This was an excellent speech Jia Jiang! You have to fail before you succeed.

  • @arande3
    @arande3 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Looking back I remember a lot of key times in my development that pushed me to fear rejection rather than openly talking with people.

  • @betulylmaz8893
    @betulylmaz8893 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awesome! Thanks for sharing your story with the World! I am very impressed with your actions what you've done! I am from Turkey and I am going to share your lovely, encouraged story with my family members and friends. You are also going to touched to all of us! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

  • @MichaelJohnField
    @MichaelJohnField 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A great talk. This was even better than the previous one I'd watched on Tedx. Love the question & answer session at the end and the finishing point on being left out from the tribe - it made a lot of sense.

  • @MelindadelosSantos
    @MelindadelosSantos 10 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Not just another motivational speech. He connects. How does the saying go? He talks the walk and walks the talk ... :D

  • @mjmcoffeegray7208
    @mjmcoffeegray7208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Perspective is a powerful thing

  • @lilypaddelalior2472
    @lilypaddelalior2472 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel inspired to do this 100 days of documented rejection...

  • @Jay-ef2ii
    @Jay-ef2ii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You do learn something about yourself. Not everyone and many will not like you, but the answer to rejection is Hypnosis. It sounds cuckoo and whack but being reprogrammed is key to facing life more optimistically. USA. 2022.

  • @sheraks7
    @sheraks7 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! Help me see rejection in another light. Much appreciated.

  • @Gheodtrm
    @Gheodtrm 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    i need this guy to motivate me after every rejection i get. i get rejection from my lecturers like everyday ... now i know its not a bad thing right

  • @cheesehamm
    @cheesehamm 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dude, you are GREAT! =) Thanks for that talk!

  • @65Drums
    @65Drums 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love this video. I really needed it. Thank you!

  • @juarezsilva7677
    @juarezsilva7677 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Rejection is better than getting girls. I promise you.

    • @livenfree
      @livenfree 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Juarez Silva - did you do rejection therapy?

    • @lynkent677
      @lynkent677 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOL .....Rejection Is a single lesson for self.....Not the blame on either sex..... Its a personal learning.... Jung, have a look at his theory ..think it will interest yourself....xx

  • @mckenziebarrow9842
    @mckenziebarrow9842 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    He had such a great relationship with his wife.

  • @Oshaoxin
    @Oshaoxin 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If rejection is awesome then my life is sunshine and roses ☀

  • @shakirhussain3887
    @shakirhussain3887 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your prospective and experience of being rejected

  • @humanyoda
    @humanyoda 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish Google could arrange for higher audio quality.

  • @natarajrangayana
    @natarajrangayana 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just ask!
    I am not going to ignored by world
    Nice message.

  • @WittAllen
    @WittAllen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For those interested, I compiled Jia Jiang's 100 Days of Rejection Therapy into a playlist: th-cam.com/play/PLCWEbQ-Tyu0RwyJo_NYrkGWC-BnojZNQT.html

  • @saharmohammed8978
    @saharmohammed8978 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great ideas. Positive thinking. Thanks for sharing.

  • @officeman1184
    @officeman1184 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very inspiring video, it change people's life by watching your video.
    I will share it accross, thanks and godspeed.

  • @michaelsprawson3704
    @michaelsprawson3704 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To be rejected by one's kindred spirit/s is sad, of which a possible cause could be the anti-social in our midst, who turn decent, albeit naïve people, against each other.
    However, to be rejected by proactive miss-fits themselves, is truly a blessing, because, it leads to the joy of freedom from pathological conflict, now THAT is surely Awesome.

  • @ChristianMeder
    @ChristianMeder 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    May I ask for 50 minutes of your precious time ? This request will probably get rejected by quite a lot of people. Nevertheless I just have to ask you.
    "Rejection is Awesome" hit me with a lot of familiar stories and situations; inspirational and encouraging ...

  • @thehoneyeffect
    @thehoneyeffect 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    the donuts made me cry

  • @MACAVELI8721
    @MACAVELI8721 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent Video Jia!! I needed to see this ;-)

  • @josikie
    @josikie ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing

  • @collectivelight
    @collectivelight 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great talk Jia. Thank you for sharing this with us! I wish you success with your future projects!

  • @gustavorlore
    @gustavorlore 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video thank you for sharing

  • @hmmm8158
    @hmmm8158 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well... it is tough especially for highly emotional people.

  • @TheXuism
    @TheXuism 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So great lecture ,proud of you!

  • @rosco8708
    @rosco8708 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i would love to reject you Jia! very inspiring. i hope i can be rejected soon.

  • @a.s1626
    @a.s1626 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey, you should know God, you should know Jesus. Please read the bible. Jesus was rejected so that you could be accepted. Life is not about financial succes. Good luck to you.

  • @verljohnson9280
    @verljohnson9280 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very Inspiring!

  • @raullinares9112
    @raullinares9112 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome speech!

  • @romanvalino9532
    @romanvalino9532 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good advice!

  • @brittvaughn9447
    @brittvaughn9447 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cool talk- I have a question about it! What % of the interactions did you videotape, and/or what % did you explain why you were asking?

  • @NinjaOnANinja
    @NinjaOnANinja 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    For the record, it doesn't count if it is recorded and a public spectacle.

  • @enniswhalen2428
    @enniswhalen2428 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rejection is AWESOME . . . .and women avoid approaching men .You cannot have this both ways.

  • @every1pro
    @every1pro 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video

  • @BoykieMackay
    @BoykieMackay 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome talk! Really inspiring ...

  • @MsRonnyb
    @MsRonnyb 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome delivery

  • @YOUTUBE_IS_WOKE
    @YOUTUBE_IS_WOKE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For me, I would tell myself to not expect too much out of something, be it job application, dating, sports, etc., so the rejection doesn't hurt that bad.

  • @triforcelink
    @triforcelink 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such an amazing talk

  • @anthonysteel2157
    @anthonysteel2157 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate this thank you

  • @rhaenentargaryen9996
    @rhaenentargaryen9996 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Microsoft was the company that said "No" to him?

  • @kirsyrosa2595
    @kirsyrosa2595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Joe

  • @LALCSpanishlessonsonline
    @LALCSpanishlessonsonline 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    To have someone accountable. If you can build a platform where I can call after and share the experience, where sales people, entrepreneurs, join to hold each other accountable for their frustrations, ideas. Most of the people do not want to share this, but maybe a place where everyone can go and share that exactly
    That would be maybe adding technology Jia Jiang

  • @demonprincess5634
    @demonprincess5634 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you tell me how Awesome Rejection is when you been going though it your whole life.

  • @avali95
    @avali95 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    +10 shes using a Mac

  • @ryandonaldson7302
    @ryandonaldson7302 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Talks at Google"
    *Macbook Pro on podium*

    • @zunedog31
      @zunedog31 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Something weird about that?

    • @ryandonaldson7302
      @ryandonaldson7302 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah - I figured they would have a nice Chromebook or something. Google and Apple aren't exactly corporate partners . Why am I having to explain this?....

    • @zunedog31
      @zunedog31 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ryan Donaldson Because you imply that they are rivals or that it is odd that Google employees would tolerate Apple electronics in their workspace.

  • @hmmm8158
    @hmmm8158 ปีที่แล้ว

    No it is not especially on a dating app hahahaha

  • @philcarter8829
    @philcarter8829 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ☼ *Our minds make it impossible to see reality and be fulfilled by it. The present moment with the mind distorting it is not fulfilling at all. It leaves you empty.* ☼
    _To get control of your thoughts and negative emotions, be sure to open the present at truthcontest►com as soon as possible. This is the get-away from the illusions..._

    • @auroramichellebarnabas320
      @auroramichellebarnabas320 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for this amazing truth!
      I am already astonished!

    • @joshbuck1586
      @joshbuck1586 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Phil Carter I've seen three people advertising this website TODAY ALONE with all of the comments being from over a year ago. I've been to the site twice today and am convinced it's the work of satan.

  • @sharknadofartquake2449
    @sharknadofartquake2449 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    :P!! LOL this is a super weird video because I expected he asked 1 or so waman(RESPEC WAMAN!)or dude out on a date 100 days in a row THAT makes WAY more sense since he jibber jabbers so much about pain and shame!! Why fear it?! HMM maybe because the person on the other end of the suicide prevention hotline phone CAN END UP NOT HELPING!!

  • @Hashemechad
    @Hashemechad 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't think asking someone to play basketball in their back yard counts as a real rejection experience, b/c 99.9% of people would refuse entry to a madman. What would count is a request that's reasonable, but embarrassing;for example being on foot & asking for directions to a far off street/monument in a different part of the city & pretending that you've checked it in the map, or asking in a train if the next stop is going to be one that was passed half an hour ago. Also having to spend time with those people & experiencing the contempt/pitty/
    superiority they treat you with, goes a long way towards making this a genuinely intimidating/rejecting experience.

  • @nikn2804
    @nikn2804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    38:00

  • @HHHPedigrees
    @HHHPedigrees 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been rejected by every girl I've talked to. And I attest that rejection is indeed not awesome.

    • @Londonguy1987_
      @Londonguy1987_ 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how do you even approach them? i literally cant even look a girls. i have no confidence

    • @CanadianMang
      @CanadianMang 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You need to start small. Trust me try just talking to anyone, like old people in the grocery store, guys, once you do this a few times your confidence meter will be high. Then it will be easy to approach a girl. Try first by just saying hi to a few then actually try to spark up a conversation.

    • @javaidiqbal189
      @javaidiqbal189 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stephen B. Smith you need to try more ☝️👌

  • @emmanuelkimutai4752
    @emmanuelkimutai4752 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    18.47 photoshop..nah?..

  • @electricdreamer
    @electricdreamer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The real take away is people in Texas are generally nicer than you think. Especially if you are an Asian. If you are black and in another State, and tell a cop "can I drive your car?" See what happens.

    • @dove6069
      @dove6069 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are very wrong.

  • @ChristianMeder
    @ChristianMeder 11 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    May I ask for 50 minutes of your precious time ? This request will probably get rejected by quite a lot of people. Nevertheless I just have to ask you.
    "Rejection is Awesome" hit me with a lot of familiar stories and situations; inspirational and encouraging ...

    • @JiaJiang
      @JiaJiang 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      May I know the reason?

    • @javaidiqbal189
      @javaidiqbal189 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jia Jiang thanks to share with us it makes us better I am very sure

    • @Drcumfart
      @Drcumfart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JiaJiang WOW I never thought you would respond to that. Question: do you still run that company before you started the challenge?