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  • MaCele's high tea for women in polygamous marriages is a success as the ladies share their experiences.
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ความคิดเห็น • 161

  • @sanelisiwemnguni8027
    @sanelisiwemnguni8027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    MaYeni is a genuine soul, I love her.

  • @km_6181
    @km_6181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    There are 4 women here, traumatized, hurt, betrayed. Each of them deals with it differently. MaKhumalo keeps a positive spirit and tries to keep the peace by agreeing with everything. MaYeni is completely disengaged and while she may show up physically, her body and mind indicate that she’s always elsewhere. MaNgwabe is also disengaged and is demonstrating this by keeping her time occupied with other people and things. MaCele has dressed herself up in armour to prevent people from pushing her over as the first wife. She therefore ends up saying hurtful things or coming off as a bully as part of this cos play. It’s just different people dealing with an unfavourable situation in 4 different ways!

    • @thandazanimukondomi3769
      @thandazanimukondomi3769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      So true.... Ma Ngwabe is out already.... Actually i think mamkhulu is not the bully the bully is Musa himself very selfish and insensitive

    • @tanq_mchunu695
      @tanq_mchunu695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said

    • @tanq_mchunu695
      @tanq_mchunu695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@thandazanimukondomi3769 loyo usendlelen uzama ukuthatha umcebo and leave peacefully

    • @nomakhisimuzzulu3454
      @nomakhisimuzzulu3454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tanq_mchunu695 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @silentlessons4221
      @silentlessons4221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      why do u speak as if they r victims? Didnt they make their own choices? Did anyone force them to be in a polygamous marriage? U reap what you sow, more than you sow and later than you sow.

  • @ngonidzashejeofreymarange1322
    @ngonidzashejeofreymarange1322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    These women are looking classy and beautiful l wish they had their own husbands who would appreciate their beauty more

    • @s.n7323
      @s.n7323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Exactly! They are not happy. They are only fooling themselves.

    • @nokwazikhuzwayo7320
      @nokwazikhuzwayo7320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @nurse Majola 😅😅😅 they are feeding them selves to avoid stress

    • @tanq_mchunu695
      @tanq_mchunu695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @nurse Majola body shaming.....bazele they have kids come on

    • @mmaditshabamlandeni3861
      @mmaditshabamlandeni3861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @nurse Majola 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @mattgraver3604
      @mattgraver3604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ukubonaphi ukuthi they are not appreciated?

  • @marlinengwira6189
    @marlinengwira6189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    With every new episode we see that the initial perfect picture that was painted by the mselekus was fake. This is a typical polygamous marriage, the wives don't get along at all!

  • @khethiweduma4610
    @khethiweduma4610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Just love Mayeni.....she has the mind of her own 🤣🤣😂.....genuine 👌

  • @rakgadim.mohlala1324
    @rakgadim.mohlala1324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I think what makes maCele and the other wives talk like this, I'm assuming about maYeni, is that she is fiercely independent, self aware and has not and will not compromise her own identity for the sake of her marriage.
    She speaks her mind without fear or favor and that can irritate even the best of people.
    I admire the lesson that she's teaching her own daughters and her sons that you should never compromise yourself for the sake of a man or woman. It can't be easy and judging by maCeles constant ''you found me here'' speech, I'm glad that maYeni continues to stand her ground and that is EXACTLY how married life should be.

    • @maphalemampuru3849
      @maphalemampuru3849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She a bully dt one 🙄

    • @zandileciko2664
      @zandileciko2664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Don’t forget the “you are the third wife” rhetoric! She needs to get over Mayeni being Musa’s first love yhu.

    • @mariamabou3553
      @mariamabou3553 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Isthembu ni shida tupu!!!

  • @yoonginavy4967
    @yoonginavy4967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Ey I love mayeni so much she's a woman who is true to herself and everybody. She doesn't lie about how she feels and that's very commendable in this situation. Umakhumalo needs to stop lying, she's dying inside and that's why she always has an attitude against the other wives. She doesn't see how it's affecting but we can see it... Its sad she's in denial and wants to act perfect and holy and as if she's the better wife.. Lo mama needs to stop!!!

    • @maphalemampuru3849
      @maphalemampuru3849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm glad in bt the only one dt sees she's fake, she wants to b seen as wise amongst the wives n giving 'sound advice' n agreeing wth wteva the hubby is saying 😴😑

  • @jbmkhathini8761
    @jbmkhathini8761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    MaCele Rest, Rest-- u're directing your words to MaYeni😔😔😳

    • @mariamabou3553
      @mariamabou3553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      MaCele is insecure. She sees MaYeni as a threat.

    • @fezekilebaneti8524
      @fezekilebaneti8524 ปีที่แล้ว

      Macele is right totally

    • @TeeKay-wj2zs
      @TeeKay-wj2zs 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@fezekilebaneti8524 New season 2024, aseyamhlula amazwi akhe UMaCele. Now she's more on MaYeni's point

    • @darkskinneddutchess4007
      @darkskinneddutchess4007 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@fezekilebaneti8524she came after mayeni was already pregnant,if she waited and found her own man mayeni will be the first wife because obviously they were still together.Just because she was married first doesnt means she didnt come between them

    • @nodintikinca7038
      @nodintikinca7038 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@darkskinneddutchess4007And MaYeni would have been the first wife if her parents had allowed her to marry Musa, but Musa already said he wanted polygamy and MaYeni's parents as Christians didn't want her to be in a polygamous marriage.

  • @nqoleeqwabe680
    @nqoleeqwabe680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Mayeni is the best

  • @oratile1977
    @oratile1977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Is Mayeni doing the most by playing her favourite game!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Nondu_Cele
    @Nondu_Cele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    MaKhumalo always wants to seem perfect. I love MaYeni. MaCele is doing better this season.

  • @godschild2716
    @godschild2716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Mayeni is soo me... I want my own thing no matter what and when am in a presence of people my spirit gets destroyed bit by bit I need my own privacy and attention to recharge.... Its not your fault Mayeni... Macele is such an extrovert she won't understand

  • @letshegoprecious9836
    @letshegoprecious9836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    1st wife is always true love!

  • @mpumesibiya8899
    @mpumesibiya8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Mayeni needs to leave the phone alone when with other people. It’s rude.

    • @siphokazimpofu1990
      @siphokazimpofu1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yuuuu😫she can just excuse herself nje or not attend finish n klaar

    • @sinazodamana3401
      @sinazodamana3401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It’s really distasteful

    • @karentcharangwa9054
      @karentcharangwa9054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

    • @Vaal650
      @Vaal650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Passive-aggresive behaviour

    • @decordesignz
      @decordesignz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So what if she’s on her phone big deal🙄

  • @LadyT06
    @LadyT06 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Sthembu will never be for me shem!!

  • @sabanimboba5671
    @sabanimboba5671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love you MaYeni necandy crush yakho❤️❤️

  • @beautympofu2964
    @beautympofu2964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mayeni uyazi you always speak your mind you don't fake anything stay cool you present omama ngendlela enhle we love you dear 💯

  • @marlinengwira6189
    @marlinengwira6189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    They should invite the ladies from mnakwethu 😜

  • @triston9618
    @triston9618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hayi shame isthembu😂😂😂😂😂singangihlula ekuseni🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️sifuna umuntu one energy ngempela 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nolwazimakhathini2610
    @nolwazimakhathini2610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mayeni since day one ❤️

  • @sizohkamagodide1361
    @sizohkamagodide1361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Exactly Mayemi like the way how you handle thingz as well your perception ngoba kmele ndoda hlezi right and kungu YES......weee cha never

  • @thabimakaba9381
    @thabimakaba9381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ubani okuphoqile nowakuphoqa ukugana umuntu oganiwe ?Wazenzela wena manje uzozenzela wena uphume. Uma indoda inenzela konke ufuna ilahle abanye usale ube wamfica enabo. Kusho ubani ukuthi ukuba wezwa kungcono uzibekaphi izintombi zakhe azithandayo nazo njengawe? Singabomama asixoxe ukuthi sihlalisana kanjani endodeni esizoyakhisa umuzi wakubo. Ngiyayithanda inkulumo yakho maCele. Asihlukane namadoda aganiwe nomgano uma ungafuni izinkinga wena obalisayo uyinkinga yokuqala. Mr Mseleku wathatha kumaCele you are blessed ngaye

  • @guguzulu987
    @guguzulu987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    MaYeni 😍💖💖💖💖

  • @sphekza
    @sphekza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    MaYeni neCandy Crush LOL

    • @fortunemtrading
      @fortunemtrading 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      First thing I noticed....

    • @godschild2716
      @godschild2716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Coping mechanism probably

    • @fortunemtrading
      @fortunemtrading 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@godschild2716 oh wow that makes sense you know

    • @palesatalks6629
      @palesatalks6629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My mom plays it too ...it helps divert her mind from stress

  • @brendashelembe4230
    @brendashelembe4230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love Mayeni 😘

  • @stanleymathebula7595
    @stanleymathebula7595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mayeni❤️

  • @blessingmswane9112
    @blessingmswane9112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mayeni😍❤️😍❤️

  • @beautympofu2964
    @beautympofu2964 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mbali nkosiyami into umangayithandi you say as it is awubambi umshini you have a very strong character keep it up darling we need woman like ni this world

  • @Isawtheworldforwhatitis
    @Isawtheworldforwhatitis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MaCeke noMakhumalo they know what they signed up for 👏🏾

  • @nosiphongeleka5687
    @nosiphongeleka5687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    These women are not happy , sebehlezi nje physically in their marriages as Mayeni says but emotionally they are not happy in polygamy

  • @nokuthulanyanda9854
    @nokuthulanyanda9854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This deep 🌚🌚🌚

  • @funfunfunfun3771
    @funfunfunfun3771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ushayile umaMkhulu guys yiqiniso Ndosi

  • @noluthandogumede949
    @noluthandogumede949 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    To plan a whole event just to bash MaYeni? So shallow of you "Mamkhulu"!!!!!

    • @zwelandilejuqu9126
      @zwelandilejuqu9126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      mamkhulu had a legit point though

    • @minenhledumakude9896
      @minenhledumakude9896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No uMayeni usehlez e negative if engasafun kuba sesthenjin aka exit kyomsiza

    • @nomfundoshozi6187
      @nomfundoshozi6187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Truth is a Hard pill To Swallow, What She said was very true, she should also take it like she expects others to take it.

  • @user-qk7pb1pm3t
    @user-qk7pb1pm3t 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Angimthandi ma Cele yazi

  • @charmainewindvogel7707
    @charmainewindvogel7707 ปีที่แล้ว

    Macele I like her there is just something about first wife's like macele😘🔥

  • @sinesiphovakalisa7193
    @sinesiphovakalisa7193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mayeni🧡❤❤❤

  • @NokwathembaNogantsho
    @NokwathembaNogantsho 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Makhumalo is the Queen

  • @thabongwepe5681
    @thabongwepe5681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am distressed for thee, my brother Jonathan: very pleasant hast thou been unto me: thy love to me was wonderful, passing the love of women. 2 Samuel 1:26

  • @sizaish
    @sizaish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    MaKhumalo nesilungu ngisho ekhuluma nabantu abazi isiZulu! Uhlelo lunamasub-tiltles

  • @user-ev5vz7zu7z
    @user-ev5vz7zu7z 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mayeni I love you ❤

  • @thandazilezuma9352
    @thandazilezuma9352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Weeeeh!! Macele 🤣🤣

  • @zomusasihawukelwe7713
    @zomusasihawukelwe7713 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mayeni true

  • @nosiphoshabalala5446
    @nosiphoshabalala5446 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waze wanamanga u Macele yin ngampela a preach into angayenzi aibo lo mama unamanga shame ai ai amanga Jesu yhooo yho

  • @NokwathembaNogantsho
    @NokwathembaNogantsho 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Makhumalo is the best

  • @user-nz7ts8ni4i
    @user-nz7ts8ni4i หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mayeni always usefounini

  • @alettajeshurun2105
    @alettajeshurun2105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is Mayeni married to her phone? Or is just me being bothered by her behavior during conversations??

  • @boitshepoberegani4760
    @boitshepoberegani4760 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For some reason I think these ladies are in it for money and fame. They are not happy at all. The smiles are forced, the way they address each other is a clear sign that there is more to this than meets the eye. Polygamy ain't my thing I'll never understand why women put themselves under such abuse. Yoh🤔🙌🏾

  • @sydneymathuka4228
    @sydneymathuka4228 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ok

  • @azaniajuicethwala5324
    @azaniajuicethwala5324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mayeni is exceptionally impertinent, why are you on your phone kukhuluma umuntu

  • @mandyhlomani3470
    @mandyhlomani3470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These ladies can bath!

  • @wtf_thomas
    @wtf_thomas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I see something in the caption, all you need is a host, and keep the marriage counselor.
    All those that'll watch hit like 📢

  • @yourssincerelyposh8903
    @yourssincerelyposh8903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MaYeni and MaCele always look unhappy to me

  • @nomfundoshozi6187
    @nomfundoshozi6187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mamkhulu is Telling The Truth Though, it can't be nyc when it is you, n next thing uyaxakeka when the wheels are turned!

  • @NonhlanhlaMndaweni-rx9qu
    @NonhlanhlaMndaweni-rx9qu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ubengeke athule uThobile

  • @hleniwefuneka7402
    @hleniwefuneka7402 ปีที่แล้ว

    Polygamy is not bad mseleku wives challenges is the fact that he lied to them if he was honest from the beginning things will not be like this some ladies doesn't mind polygamy he forced it on all of them and that scares me because this his way of polygamy can lead to some wives using muti

  • @laureenndlovu4548
    @laureenndlovu4548 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    mmmmh shaping the marriage which way .hayi eminye imishado you cant shape them you can try but mmmmh okunye sorry akusebenzeki

  • @mninawematrose6993
    @mninawematrose6993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bayatya aba fazi kulo mtshato wesithembu. Baya khala. Baya bhodla no bhodla 🙊

  • @hilderwenyeve9977
    @hilderwenyeve9977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish this was in English so that we can hear

  • @MariaKabini-vb8pv
    @MariaKabini-vb8pv ปีที่แล้ว

    É

  • @ntandoyenkosilady-peace4342
    @ntandoyenkosilady-peace4342 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wakhuluma MaCele♥️👏

  • @zinhlebianca8310
    @zinhlebianca8310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mina ngaba genca bonke haaaaa

  • @thelookout5802
    @thelookout5802 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nonsense...

  • @siphokazimpofu1990
    @siphokazimpofu1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Mayeni likes the phone yooo😫🙆‍♀️ and its annoying and childish urgg...theres time and place for everything maan

    • @ncumisajuliwe6874
      @ncumisajuliwe6874 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So emberassing this behavior. The facilitator /consellor is even distracted.

    • @palesatalks6629
      @palesatalks6629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This comment is annoying . This woman is playing candy crush on her phone and women do so in situations like this to cope with it . For example my mom plays games on her phone as a coping mechanism so you judging this women here and saying you find her playing games annoying and childish is ignorant and preposterous. I also wondered why she was doing so but at least I didnt jump into conclusions 😒

    • @siphokazimpofu1990
      @siphokazimpofu1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      my point I dont care what's going on in her mind ok cause she does that everytime imagine if everyone in that table was playing candy crush🤷‍♀️ in the middle of that whole thing cause everyone has a phone dont care about your mom shes not on tv ....we all have issues I believe rather not come if you not gonna show interest that's what I saw

    • @palesatalks6629
      @palesatalks6629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@siphokazimpofu1990 ofcourse my mom is not on tv and I only said that about my mom to make a point and obviously you missed that . You disregarding a persons coping mechanisms like that shows how much you lack knowledge in mental health so that comment you made above makes you ignorant and sounds absolutely preposterous. We (well I) don't know if coming to that gathering was compulsory or not and remember these people are in a reality tv show so they have to build a reputation for themselves and not coming at all would have probably given her a bad rep .

    • @siphokazimpofu1990
      @siphokazimpofu1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hay khangyeke ngo ma wakho wena I dont know or care about her and this is old news move on maan yeer......seemingly you dont get my point and I dont get yours ngoku ndifelan haska

  • @beautympofu2964
    @beautympofu2964 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Makhumalo thatha indawo yakho yokuba ngumfazi sometimes you are tomuch ukuvumelana loMusa nalapho okungafanele uvumelane naye

  • @Blocc187
    @Blocc187 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who is this Mabaso??? I must shake his hand!!!

  • @hotchick8320
    @hotchick8320 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    La leka bo mme Heish

  • @thandekandlovu872
    @thandekandlovu872 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣hayyy isthembu

  • @zolekastokwe7918
    @zolekastokwe7918 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lo Mayeni wayevumelani ukungena esthembini ngoba ufana nam kasithandi hai ndingaske ndinga gani ngoba ndiyazazi ndinesikhwele ngoku yena uzokwenzala nzima esisithembhu hai mrn hai uyadika

    • @nodintikinca7038
      @nodintikinca7038 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wayengafuni ukungena, uMusa wamcenga for years. There's even utata oselethe ukuba mdala owamcelayo ukuba amcengele. I think uMusa uthi kwaphela 3 years la tata ezama ukumbonisa wade wavuma. UMusa uthi uMaYeni should have been the first wife ngoba wathandana naye kuqala but her parents ngabazalwana and they didn't want their daughter to be in a polygamous marriage ngoba washo ukuthi yena uzoba nesithembu. So uMaCele wafika uMaYeni ekhona, it's just that washada yena kuqala

  • @beautympofu2964
    @beautympofu2964 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mamkhulu you dont hold your position well sometimes you sound to be a bully and controlling to others which is not nice

  • @neomolefe8562
    @neomolefe8562 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    But did they have to be so English...these African women...hhaaaayi man🙄

    • @palesatalks6629
      @palesatalks6629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      People can behave however they want and it is not up to us to judge them for that

    • @mapslukhele8303
      @mapslukhele8303 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mumkhulu is not the 1st ayisho lento n iya kuThobile ukuthi uzibona awumfazi yedwa . i love u maKhumalo