I just LOVED what you said to her. " You're not boy crazy," " You're looking for the love you didn't get when you were a child❤ I can relate to this young girl in so many ways. I pray for the family to grow and heal. Hope she focuses on her schooling now that you made it clear that's why she's all about the boys. No pregnancies girl.
Oldest daughter syndrome is real. I felt that young lady. It took a while for my mom to realize the pressure put on me. It has gotten better but when problems come up, they call me immediately including my siblings. Keep standing up and saying no, respect your own boundaries.
I'm the baby daughter and I'm in that same position. I think they call the person they KNOW will answer and take care of things. I love my mother to life and she's 73 now and I always answer I always take care of things because I fear that the one time I don't and she's no longer with me I will live with regret forever. It's a mental thing that I'm working through as the young lady on the stage. I have to limit the others but always show up for Moms. But yes ma'am it's a lot of pressure especially feeling like who shows up for me. Stay encouraged, set boundaries and do what you need for your own mental health..TAKE CARE OF YOU❤❤❤!!!
Some parents don’t understand that the oldest daughter takes on a lot of mothers problems, it’s a lot to deal with, I should have said oldest sons too, they take on a lot of responsibility, and it’s unfortunate.
This is the first time in my life I’ve heard of oldest daughter syndrome and I’m now 53. Im also the only daughter. It feels good to know I’m not alone.
This touched my heart looking at that little girl. When I was younger all I needed was someone to sincerely look me in the face and say Are you ok? Forget the bad behaviour, ask me am I ok
@@k.b.3857Nessa is turning to PeePee thinking it’s Love…LORD HAVE MERCY I SINCERELY HOPE AND PRAY MOM GETS THE HELP THAT SHE NEEDS SO THAT SHE CAN GIVE HER BABY GIRL WHAT SHE’s DESPERATELY LOOKING FOR 🙏🏾
Right, I didn’t agree with Karamo saying it’s all about the mommy issues. That does not have anything to do with him disrespecting her house and not helping with bills.
Wondering if he ALWAYS really knew she wasn't his biologically and the disrespect is misplaced anger. Not condoning at all.... Just saying the things our unconsciousness mind does is interesting.
The older sister is trying so hard to mend her deep wounds and everyone else’s. Little sister is so smart, so self aware and so empty. Mum is broken, engulfed in addiction and denial.
it’s sad man. she lost her daddy and he lost his daughter. i’m glad karamo pointed out the shift in mood once the real shxt hits the fan… bright side is dude seem empathetic cus now this girl don’t know who her daddy is. the momma is a menace to society and should be held accountable for her actions.
People sound so ignorant with that statement. And just how would you suggest Mom be held accountable for sleeping with a different man? Please inform me.
I was 29 when my 16yo sister came to live with me. I supported her 90% of the time. No mattr how tired I was, I wouldn't have ever sent her back. As the eldest sister, you sent her back knowing she was touched. So wht she lied abt the abuse! This was hard for me. Im the eldest and always showed up for them
I thought this too at first (I went through a similar situation). But then I realized she didn’t send her back to the aunts where she got touched. She sent her to live with the mom. Which is probably helping to force mom to get her shit together and older sister to stop enabling the shitty parenting
Trying to get my nieces now 😢 this hit hard I'm a single 29yr old who doesn't have kids but I'm about to get all 3 of mine and they don't ever have to go back
Sorry I don't agree with this comment 🤦🏿♀️ that's really not the big sister responsibility to take care of her little sister she definitely not her mother so why are y'all mad at her smh🤷🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️.😎
Vanessa needs a safe place to live where there are limits on her behavior. Erika is a drug addiction who chooses drugs over her kids. That's the worse part of addiction. So, Vanessa should not to return home until mom is clean and still in treatment. Family sessions are needed too.
This little girl is so hurt and nobody has hugged or made her feel wanted. She said people were touching her. Wtf is wrong with the sister you sent her back because of a fiancé. Your sister needed you and sent her back. That’s bs she’s a kid.
I Agree With The Sister And The Fiance Once I Found Out She She Laying I Would've Sent Her Little Ass Packing Too Those Are Some Serious Accusations If She Lied On The Aunt Who's To Say She Won't Get Tired Of Being There Get Mad Or Something The Sister Does Have A Child To Protect As Well I Agree With The Fiance As Well When He Said To Let The Mother Deal With It She Can Try To Help And Love Her Sister From A Distance
I thought exactly this too at first. Then I realized she didn’t send her back to the house where she was getting molested (aka her aunt’s) - she sent her to live with her mom. Probably to stop enabling moms shitty parenting and force her to get her life together for her daughter
Please actively listen she stated yes I lied about my aunt beating me but I did not lie about being touched and that's all I needed to hear I don't care if they all kids or cousins or none of that SHE SHOULDN'T HAVE WENT BACK
Karamo, you always say the right things 💯 % of the time! Omg you are good at what you do. Best by test, no one doing the same thing you do, has made me simply amazed with their advice, like your advice makes me feel. I just know you always get it smack on. You are definitely 💯legitimate,you got the correct profession in life!
As an older sister who broke and continue to try breaking generational trauma.. the older sister chose the wrong situation to put her feet down. When I knew my sister is self harming.. her lying to me was the last thing I cared about. Being touched and self harm are deeper issues and as a child she needs protection, stability, and love. Being thrown as punishment and abandoned to her drug addicted mom made it worse and enforced her beliefs that she’s unloved. She lied to be with her older sister seeking safety and refuge. What a disappointment smh.
If a crackhead tells you not to do drugs, then I can understand the hypocrisy. But if a crackhead told you they want you back home after you manipulated your way out, I don’t see why that’s an issue. If her mother told her not to get into a car with some drunk idiots to keep her safe, you’re saying the girl shouldn’t listen just because her mother does drugs??
Don't live there then, her being on drugs is a disease, it's a sickness & she has unresolved issues & she needs help to but she's got roof over her's & her daughters head & if she's grown enough to have a boyfriend & be disrespectful & basically giving them the ok to hurt her, why live there, they all need help but have to be willing to get it
The disrespect from these kids needs to not be overlooked, I've heard some say, when mom gives off that kind of energy, I'm giving her the same energy, then it's time for you to be looking for a place, they're quick to talk about moms bad behaviors or attitude but won't tell us everything they do but the disrespect today from these kids is Wild to me
The young girl is doing exactly what her mother said she is doing. She's being disrespected to her mother. If her mom tells her to come in the house that's what she needs to do.
Yea she’s being disrespectful but also I understand why.Despite being her mother she didn’t raise her so imagine damn near a stranger coming into your life who’s high all the time trying to tell you what to do when they life not even together.You gotta set an example for your kids to follow otherwise how can you expect them to do any better.Now her lying to her sister who’s been nothing but there for her that’s where she lost me I would have sent her back where she came from.
This episode made me crrrrry. They are all so intelligent and beautiful women. Wishing them the best. I can tell mum cares. She’s just trapped, and need to find her way out. ♥️ to them.
It takes a good man to raise a child that he wasn't show was not his but love is free without conditions and expectations and you have to release the guilt in order to heal the Hurt at least the mom admits that she's been the problem Hurt people always Hurt people I pray 🙏 that they all heal
parenting blindly and mimicking toxic behaviors for generations because that’s all one knows can indeed become a curse. I believe it’s labeled appropriately.
At 27,i couldn't stand and look my father in the face and talk back at him.watching this leave me panicking that one day my kids will shout at me like this?
Raise you child right and be an adult. He is a mooch and I'd be angry too. You can't be soft, look at what he's done? I'd be ashamed if I was related to him. He's sucking her dry.
Right there......she sent her daughter to the women who raised the dude who molested her son....NAAAAAW..That women WTF?..This is so sad......I can't stand parents who don't protect their children
The wife wouldn’t take him ask after a week and a half due to the same behavior. He needs a mother, and will continue to seek women to take advantage of.
Part 2: the youngest daughter is in denial about the part she’s playing with her mom. She’s defiant and “boy crazy”. Yes she’s acting out to get attention, but when the mom attempts to be mom, she fighting back tooth and nail and not taking accountability. I wish them well.
Someone needs to tell the mom to press charges on the adult that’s harboring her underage daughter. The girl is out of control, grown acting and disrespectful. That’s why she could not stay with her older sister. The older sister said she wouldn’t listen and did what she wanted. Making excuses for her unruly actions will only hurt her in the end. The mother told her to stay and she ignored her and went with a bunch of dudes to go to her boyfriend’s house. She totally ignored authority. The Mother need rehab and the younger daughter is going to continue to be grown and defy authority while crying about needing her mother. 🙄
LISTEN! I have a habit for being harsh sometimes but this second story had me in TEARS! That baby is so broken and so is the rest of the family! My heart aches for all 3 of them. I have never been on drugs but I work in the environment and have for almost 18 years so I already know that everyone’s will to get clean is not a one size fits all no matter how much you want it for them! I have not one word bad to say🙏🏽
She is sweet. Parents are the one who chose you over their life. Sperms can be donated, life is not. Please Koramo, help the to understand each others feeling and deal with past. The daughter also need help and counselling to listen to her dip pain caused in the past.
Notice the lil girl walked off when the truth about her own actions start coming out. If the sister cant keep her thwn she might as well go into a group home until she can take care of herself. She obviously dont want discipline from the mother or anyone else.
He wouldn't live in my house! I would give him an eviction notice, father or not. No one would live in my house and have that kind of tone, and disrespect for me.
As SOON as I seen that burn hole in the teddy bear it brought me straight back ta when I was using, and would nod off while smoking. I can't even tell you how many blankets, robes, couches, and some more shit I've burned holes in💯💯
first case. I'm sorry I don't think she wanted him to be her dad. The fact that she wanted a DNA test spoke volumes. I personally think she is sick of that moocher. And as soon as she get home every argument she gone let him know that he is not her father. That if he's still living with her. (My opinion. But I am super great at reading people)
The dad in 1st story needs to move out! I think he was hurt because he said he was married to her mom! She betrayed them both. Parents back in day know rhey were freaking all over the plaxe! It has affected alot in her generation ❤ Unbelievable
If that mother didn't want to be responsible for her children, she shouldn't have had any children!!! My heart goes out to these young women. That mother is a poor excuse for a mother!!!
That man knew that wasn't his child I believe that's why it was so easy to manipulate her into moving him in and also to talk about her to her own child smh praying for them both though!!
Girl smh ain’t no way he would be talking to crazy like that… I wish , baby I wish somebody would ever! I hope she stuck to her word and left him because he need to be ALONE! No real woman will deal with any of that childish, disrespectful, bs! I wanted to jump through the screen
The 1st episode makes a strong case for mandatory DNA testing at birth. It is rare for a mother to ever wonder if a child is indeed hers, but a father is another story. It is not just about the father in question. It is about the child. They have the right to know who their biological parents are without a shadow of a doubt....
I couldn't even imagine my father doing me like this. My father works for the government,was a general in the Army. My pops owns his own home in NC. 🙂↔️🤔. And to even stay with me that long would be brutal for me.
And he raised a child that wasn't his and he won't get anything for it but be called a mooch. But she say the mother lived her life with a smile on her face. As a heterosexual brother we have to take care of ourselves because we're judge much harder than other communities for doing the exact same things
@@lv2756 yeah I get it I do. Still in all if we are going to downplay his 27 years of raising that ungrateful young lady we should look past her 4 years of looking out for him is all I am saying
@@TimothyGrate she doesn’t seem ungrateful to me. She let him live with her and her child rent free for four years, and he can’t stop smoking in the house or clean up after hisself. She was the child and blameless in the choices her mother,father, and the man that raised her case. She did nothing wrong and she does deserve respect in her home
@@lv2756 overall there was nothing so bad about the dad and daughter just her putting her issue's with her mom off on him because he's the closest the person that has your back the most usually is the one that is on the receiving end of blame and indirect anger. However I do understand he may have done things to trigger what was already laying dormant inside of her.
@@TimothyGrate she didn’t put her mothers issues on him. Her mother did that. The only thing I saw was her being overwhelmed with her dads presence in her home because he was leaving burn wholes in her property, not paying rent and overstayed his welcome. She doesn’t seem bothered at all that her mom wasn’t around actually, so it seems he did pretty good job but he can’t do that to her, she’s 27 with her own kid, she can’t take care of dad too.
That Young Lady Need Help. I Feel What The Young Lady Saying I Did Things Like Go Out With Wrong People Because I Needed Help Not Just Book Help. That Young Lady Need Help.
The older sister is tired and has taken a big responsibility on her. Taking care of a teenager and her own family 😅. It may be tiring but her little sister needs to stay with her. 😢
Karamo didn't deal with the other issue that the first lady came for. He should have told the father to get his self together or he needed to leave. Because he's being very disrespectful to the lady in her house, she needs to give his ass a deadline. .
That father is dead wrong!!! A child should be getting help from their parents, not a parent getting help from their child. That is so wrong of this father to expect his daughter that has children to take care of him!!! He is a grown man. She is a young woman trying to support her children. She shouldn't have to be responsible for her father's well-being.
I just LOVED what you said to her. " You're not boy crazy," " You're looking for the love you didn't get when you were a child❤
I can relate to this young girl in so many ways. I pray for the family to grow and heal. Hope she focuses on her schooling now that you made it clear that's why she's all about the boys. No pregnancies girl.
the older sister is really self aware and smart.
Amen
Oldest daughter syndrome is real. I felt that young lady. It took a while for my mom to realize the pressure put on me. It has gotten better but when problems come up, they call me immediately including my siblings. Keep standing up and saying no, respect your own boundaries.
I'm the baby daughter and I'm in that same position. I think they call the person they KNOW will answer and take care of things. I love my mother to life and she's 73 now and I always answer I always take care of things because I fear that the one time I don't and she's no longer with me I will live with regret forever. It's a mental thing that I'm working through as the young lady on the stage. I have to limit the others but always show up for Moms. But yes ma'am it's a lot of pressure especially feeling like who shows up for me. Stay encouraged, set boundaries and do what you need for your own mental health..TAKE CARE OF YOU❤❤❤!!!
Some parents don’t understand that the oldest daughter takes on a lot of mothers problems, it’s a lot to deal with, I should have said oldest sons too, they take on a lot of responsibility, and it’s unfortunate.
This is the first time in my life I’ve heard of oldest daughter syndrome and I’m now 53. Im also the only daughter. It feels good to know I’m not alone.
This touched my heart looking at that little girl. When I was younger all I needed was someone to sincerely look me in the face and say Are you ok? Forget the bad behaviour, ask me am I ok
I’m praying for that second family for healing all the way around
Momma is in denial about her addiction. She minimizes her drug use. Vanessa is in danger.
Vanessa is fast.
@k.b.3857 she is a typical teenager, with a junky for a mom
@@k.b.3857she’s a traumatized child that also said she’s experienced being sa’ed
@k.b.3857 that's a weird response. She is a child who has been abandoned she trying to find love in other places
@@k.b.3857Nessa is turning to PeePee thinking it’s Love…LORD HAVE MERCY I SINCERELY HOPE AND PRAY MOM GETS THE HELP THAT SHE NEEDS SO THAT SHE CAN GIVE HER BABY GIRL WHAT SHE’s DESPERATELY LOOKING FOR 🙏🏾
She's done very well..for her age..proud of her.
She's so beautiful.
This was so sad. Poor girl trapped in the middle of her mothers madness.
There was no resolution for the dad not respecting his daughter’s home… the genetics don’t take away from the disrespect
Right, I didn’t agree with Karamo saying it’s all about the mommy issues. That does not have anything to do with him disrespecting her house and not helping with bills.
Wondering if he ALWAYS really knew she wasn't his biologically and the disrespect is misplaced anger. Not condoning at all.... Just saying the things our unconsciousness mind does is interesting.
@@jrobinson39Not to mention sowing the seed of disrespect confusion and discord by talking about her to her son in a negative way.
@@pattyrainthank you! With that alone, he would have to go right then.
After the results, they were both in shock.
That big sister is doing her sister such a service by taking her in; it’s all love there. I feel for these ladies
The older sister is trying so hard to mend her deep wounds and everyone else’s.
Little sister is so smart, so self aware and so empty.
Mum is broken, engulfed in addiction and denial.
it’s sad man. she lost her daddy and he lost his daughter. i’m glad karamo pointed out the shift in mood once the real shxt hits the fan… bright side is dude seem empathetic cus now this girl don’t know who her daddy is. the momma is a menace to society and should be held accountable for her actions.
People sound so ignorant with that statement.
And just how would you suggest Mom be held accountable for sleeping with a different man? Please inform me.
You’re not that smart
@@SonjaElizabethTealthe mom is accountable to her child in letting her know who her father may be...she didn't even come to the show. She's a menace.
@@SonjaElizabethTealyou sound like you lying about your baby daddy…. Maybe the calll is coming from inside the house..
Her mom is trifling 😢very sad! She needs to be ashamed of herself! I pray that she finds her real father!
I was 29 when my 16yo sister came to live with me. I supported her 90% of the time. No mattr how tired I was, I wouldn't have ever sent her back. As the eldest sister, you sent her back knowing she was touched. So wht she lied abt the abuse! This was hard for me. Im the eldest and always showed up for them
I thought this too at first (I went through a similar situation). But then I realized she didn’t send her back to the aunts where she got touched. She sent her to live with the mom. Which is probably helping to force mom to get her shit together and older sister to stop enabling the shitty parenting
So. Good for you .
Big sis knew her breaking point.
Trying to get my nieces now 😢 this hit hard I'm a single 29yr old who doesn't have kids but I'm about to get all 3 of mine and they don't ever have to go back
Sorry I don't agree with this comment 🤦🏿♀️ that's really not the big sister responsibility to take care of her little sister she definitely not her mother so why are y'all mad at her smh🤷🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️.😎
@@toiannawafer300😊
Karamo you need an award, God knows you are simple the best.👍🏽
Toxic parenting is a scourge.
Vanessa needs a safe place to live where there are limits on her behavior. Erika is a drug addiction who chooses drugs over her kids. That's the worse part of addiction. So, Vanessa should not to return home until mom is clean and still in treatment. Family sessions are needed too.
This little girl is so hurt and nobody has hugged or made her feel wanted. She said people were touching her. Wtf is wrong with the sister you sent her back because of a fiancé. Your sister needed you and sent her back. That’s bs she’s a kid.
I Agree With The Sister And The Fiance Once I Found Out She She Laying I Would've Sent Her Little Ass Packing Too Those Are Some Serious Accusations If She Lied On The Aunt Who's To Say She Won't Get Tired Of Being There Get Mad Or Something The Sister Does Have A Child To Protect As Well I Agree With The Fiance As Well When He Said To Let The Mother Deal With It She Can Try To Help And Love Her Sister From A Distance
I thought exactly this too at first. Then I realized she didn’t send her back to the house where she was getting molested (aka her aunt’s) - she sent her to live with her mom. Probably to stop enabling moms shitty parenting and force her to get her life together for her daughter
Please actively listen she stated yes I lied about my aunt beating me but I did not lie about being touched and that's all I needed to hear I don't care if they all kids or cousins or none of that SHE SHOULDN'T HAVE WENT BACK
@@toiannawafer300yes but lying like that can put people at risk. I understand your perspective, but when you lie, those are the consequences.
@@Remi24the consequences are to send them back to where they were being touched on ?
#1 They still need to settle the housing situation. Dad is young enough to be on his own. Karamo should have made him promise to find his own housing.
Karamo, you always say the right things 💯 % of the time! Omg you are good at what you do. Best by test, no one doing the same thing you do, has made me simply amazed with their advice, like your advice makes me feel. I just know you always get it smack on. You are definitely 💯legitimate,you got the correct profession in life!
As an older sister who broke and continue to try breaking generational trauma.. the older sister chose the wrong situation to put her feet down. When I knew my sister is self harming.. her lying to me was the last thing I cared about. Being touched and self harm are deeper issues and as a child she needs protection, stability, and love. Being thrown as punishment and abandoned to her drug addicted mom made it worse and enforced her beliefs that she’s unloved. She lied to be with her older sister seeking safety and refuge. What a disappointment smh.
Momma, Vanessa is not boy crazy. She's looking for love.
This!
Case #1 ,😢. Daddy need to get his own place. Go to senior apartments. Something.
This hits close to HOME😢😢😢 Praying for the second family; as well as the first 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Went from having a father to being an orphan, pretty much. How messed up can life be at 27
Who wants to take rules from a crackhead? You can’t even get off drugs
But she still risked her life tho she should respect her and love her and sometimes it may be from a distance but you still have to
If a crackhead tells you not to do drugs, then I can understand the hypocrisy. But if a crackhead told you they want you back home after you manipulated your way out, I don’t see why that’s an issue. If her mother told her not to get into a car with some drunk idiots to keep her safe, you’re saying the girl shouldn’t listen just because her mother does drugs??
Don't live there then, her being on drugs is a disease, it's a sickness & she has unresolved issues & she needs help to but she's got roof over her's & her daughters head & if she's grown enough to have a boyfriend & be disrespectful & basically giving them the ok to hurt her, why live there, they all need help but have to be willing to get it
The disrespect from these kids needs to not be overlooked, I've heard some say, when mom gives off that kind of energy, I'm giving her the same energy, then it's time for you to be looking for a place, they're quick to talk about moms bad behaviors or attitude but won't tell us everything they do but the disrespect today from these kids is Wild to me
That mom has a roof over both their heads even with her sickness
The young girl is doing exactly what her mother said she is doing. She's being disrespected to her mother. If her mom tells her to come in the house that's what she needs to do.
Yea she’s being disrespectful but also I understand why.Despite being her mother she didn’t raise her so imagine damn near a stranger coming into your life who’s high all the time trying to tell you what to do when they life not even together.You gotta set an example for your kids to follow otherwise how can you expect them to do any better.Now her lying to her sister who’s been nothing but there for her that’s where she lost me I would have sent her back where she came from.
This episode made me crrrrry. They are all so intelligent and beautiful women. Wishing them the best. I can tell mum cares. She’s just trapped, and need to find her way out. ♥️ to them.
Nosey doing the most with their adverts in this 😤
JESUS......THE WORLD NEEDS YOU❤😢
It takes a good man to raise a child that he wasn't show was not his but love is free without conditions and expectations and you have to release the guilt in order to heal the Hurt at least the mom admits that she's been the problem Hurt people always Hurt people I pray 🙏 that they all heal
Praying for this family❤
This mother needs to go to rehab
Them drug addict parents be so strong and wrong in taking responsibility for the damage they have caused
Stop calling behaviour curses. These outcomes are not because of generational curses; It's generational toxic parenting.
parenting blindly and mimicking toxic behaviors for generations because that’s all one knows can indeed become a curse. I believe it’s labeled appropriately.
Isn’t that the root of the curse tho…
@luvmarkayla That’s behaviour, not a supernatural force hurling out curses.
@@tammiivibe There's no cosmic being out there cursing families.
Yes. Generational trauma. 🫶🏾♾️
The mother is an addict and she didn’t want the daughter because of what the father did. She wants some love and the fein don’t see it.
She said she was gone for WEEKS and the mom never called all she wanted was to know that her mom cared enough to know that she was AT LEAST okay
Karamo, this is your ministry
May GOD continue to give you wisdom knowledge and safety
He needs to go on now !!!! Shame on him for using his daughter !!
I understand the first case but pops need to go find his own place and live his own life.
At 27,i couldn't stand and look my father in the face and talk back at him.watching this leave me panicking that one day my kids will shout at me like this?
I mean, if you’re a good parent you’ll b fine 😂😂 not everyone has or is a good father
Raise you child right and be an adult. He is a mooch and I'd be angry too. You can't be soft, look at what he's done? I'd be ashamed if I was related to him. He's sucking her dry.
Just don’t do drugs or be a crackhead. You should be fine
maybe jus dont do drugs and be a present parent? loll
No the hell they won't. 😂 Not nunna mines.
He lied when he answered that he wants to be her father...what was the "tell"?? He immediately scratched the side of his face.😳
Right there......she sent her daughter to the women who raised the dude who molested her son....NAAAAAW..That women WTF?..This is so sad......I can't stand parents who don't protect their children
The wife wouldn’t take him ask after a week and a half due to the same behavior. He needs a mother, and will continue to seek women to take advantage of.
Karamo I absolutely love your passion, you are truly doing great works.. God bless you
Praying for family
Part 2: the youngest daughter is in denial about the part she’s playing with her mom. She’s defiant and “boy crazy”. Yes she’s acting out to get attention, but when the mom attempts to be mom, she fighting back tooth and nail and not taking accountability. I wish them well.
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Omg this tore me apart, the second half had me in tears
I had to learn the hard way that I needed all of the facts first BEFORE I ran to their rescue(s).
Someone needs to tell the mom to press charges on the adult that’s harboring her underage daughter. The girl is out of control, grown acting and disrespectful. That’s why she could not stay with her older sister. The older sister said she wouldn’t listen and did what she wanted. Making excuses for her unruly actions will only hurt her in the end. The mother told her to stay and she ignored her and went with a bunch of dudes to go to her boyfriend’s house. She totally ignored authority. The Mother need rehab and the younger daughter is going to continue to be grown and defy authority while crying about needing her mother. 🙄
Awww. The results broke my heart.
LISTEN! I have a habit for being harsh sometimes but this second story had me in TEARS! That baby is so broken and so is the rest of the family! My heart aches for all 3 of them. I have never been on drugs but I work in the environment and have for almost 18 years so I already know that everyone’s will to get clean is not a one size fits all no matter how much you want it for them! I have not one word bad to say🙏🏽
She is sweet. Parents are the one who chose you over their life. Sperms can be donated, life is not. Please Koramo, help the to understand each others feeling and deal with past. The daughter also need help and counselling to listen to her dip pain caused in the past.
This was a; great topic today. I believe it truly helped someone whose crying on the inside
Notice the lil girl walked off when the truth about her own actions start coming out. If the sister cant keep her thwn she might as well go into a group home until she can take care of herself. She obviously dont want discipline from the mother or anyone else.
“If she want drugs, come to me.” Maam huh?!??
He wouldn't live in my house! I would give him an eviction notice, father or not. No one would live in my house and have that kind of tone, and disrespect for me.
Why is a grown man living with his daughter like that?
If you are a parent that's a druggie leave your kids alone. You're not coming back from that.
Not true people can change.
As SOON as I seen that burn hole in the teddy bear it brought me straight back ta when I was using, and would nod off while smoking. I can't even tell you how many blankets, robes, couches, and some more shit I've burned holes in💯💯
The mom is still drugging an this girl needs to be loved unconditionally !!! She sound like she high now!!! Omg this poor girl!! Sad sad sad
Wow crazy thing is when mom said "where do I start " she started looking like a beautiful human being.
I am praying for the mom, I want her to be sober ❤❤❤
I pray everything goes well 🙏🙏🙏
It’s f’d up that he’s not her dad!!! I blame mom.
Dad needs to respect his daughters space, and needs to move out
Damn THIS EPISODE IS EPIC.. that shit had a twist!!😮
Lawd, 2nd family is blessed with tears!
Now tell him to get the heck out
He definitely should respect her home regardless of him as the father. Get a job to support your own needs as a man, an adult.
first case. I'm sorry I don't think she wanted him to be her dad. The fact that she wanted a DNA test spoke volumes. I personally think she is sick of that moocher. And as soon as she get home every argument she gone let him know that he is not her father. That if he's still living with her. (My opinion. But I am super great at reading people)
The dad in 1st story needs to move out! I think he was hurt because he said he was married to her mom! She betrayed them both. Parents back in day know rhey were freaking all over the plaxe! It has affected alot in her generation ❤ Unbelievable
She is a player that little girl
Very minaplative lol.
This show got me 😢 crying
If that mother didn't want to be responsible for her children, she shouldn't have had any children!!! My heart goes out to these young women. That mother is a poor excuse for a mother!!!
That man knew that wasn't his child I believe that's why it was so easy to manipulate her into moving him in and also to talk about her to her own child smh praying for them both though!!
I believe she knew he wasn’t her father
@@rubyjaez she did after the ancestry came back!
Men... please take a DNA test... please. 27 years?? Smh
I love what karamo said last to the teenager that's what we do as real black people ❤ we are related forever
Girl smh ain’t no way he would be talking to crazy like that… I wish , baby I wish somebody would ever! I hope she stuck to her word and left him because he need to be ALONE! No real woman will deal with any of that childish, disrespectful, bs! I wanted to jump through the screen
Sweet girl.good man,hope they will mend the relationship even if she should find her real father.
Oooo buddy this one was emotional
I love when Karamo compliments people. Lol
Vanessa was in the same class with me and I didn’t even know this was going on
The 1st episode makes a strong case for mandatory DNA testing at birth. It is rare for a mother to ever wonder if a child is indeed hers, but a father is another story. It is not just about the father in question. It is about the child. They have the right to know who their biological parents are without a shadow of a doubt....
I am ALL for this, and I hope there is some legislation in the future regarding this subject. This is ridiculous.
KARAMO is that dude!! 🎉💖
I couldn't even imagine my father doing me like this. My father works for the government,was a general in the Army. My pops owns his own home in NC. 🙂↔️🤔. And to even stay with me that long would be brutal for me.
And he raised a child that wasn't his and he won't get anything for it but be called a mooch. But she say the mother lived her life with a smile on her face. As a heterosexual brother we have to take care of ourselves because we're judge much harder than other communities for doing the exact same things
He should’ve got a dna test years ago and chose better. Accountability
@@lv2756 yeah I get it I do. Still in all if we are going to downplay his 27 years of raising that ungrateful young lady we should look past her 4 years of looking out for him is all I am saying
@@TimothyGrate she doesn’t seem ungrateful to me. She let him live with her and her child rent free for four years, and he can’t stop smoking in the house or clean up after hisself. She was the child and blameless in the choices her mother,father, and the man that raised her case. She did nothing wrong and she does deserve respect in her home
@@lv2756 overall there was nothing so bad about the dad and daughter just her putting her issue's with her mom off on him because he's the closest the person that has your back the most usually is the one that is on the receiving end of blame and indirect anger. However I do understand he may have done things to trigger what was already laying dormant inside of her.
@@TimothyGrate she didn’t put her mothers issues on him. Her mother did that. The only thing I saw was her being overwhelmed with her dads presence in her home because he was leaving burn wholes in her property, not paying rent and overstayed his welcome. She doesn’t seem bothered at all that her mom wasn’t around actually, so it seems he did pretty good job but he can’t do that to her, she’s 27 with her own kid, she can’t take care of dad too.
That Young Lady Need Help. I Feel What The Young Lady Saying I Did Things Like Go Out With Wrong People Because I Needed Help Not Just Book Help. That Young Lady Need Help.
The older sister is tired and has taken a big responsibility on her. Taking care of a teenager and her own family 😅. It may be tiring but her little sister needs to stay with her. 😢
Send that baby to me karamo she need people around her that's gonna love her like the child she is
This is a Beautiful young lady
That poor baby she looking for love and any way necessary
Always a great show! Lone it!!❤🎉
Meant, łove it
That first story that so called mom turned her back and left her with a stranger ; luckily it ended well. Still no sight of the woman. Cold.
Mandatory Paternity Testing should be written into law before birth certificate signing. ✍️
Named her daughter "A Killer" (akila) wow!
Oh...Vanessa. I want to hug her. 🥺
Karamo didn't deal with the other issue that the first lady came for. He should have told the father to get his self together or he needed to leave. Because he's being very disrespectful to the lady in her house, she needs to give his ass a deadline. .
I just cant get over how that little girl lied
She is not, and the father is not shocked neither at the DNA results. They know the mother's behavior.
That father is dead wrong!!! A child should be getting help from their parents, not a parent getting help from their child. That is so wrong of this father to expect his daughter that has children to take care of him!!! He is a grown man. She is a young woman trying to support her children. She shouldn't have to be responsible for her father's well-being.