I’m 22 and couldn’t fathom having a child right now. I just graduated college, jobless, carless, living at home and trying to get into med school. Barley can provide for myself. So seeing others do it always amazes me.
I'm 27, and most times, I feel like I'm 13. I work part-time and still live with my parents even though I don't have a great relationship with them. I always say I want a good job so I can move out of my parents house and have my independence but everytime I have the chance to get closer to that reality, I get scared, I turn it down and go back to the same thing. Even though there's a desire to change and grow up, I'm too scared to do it, and I end up staying where it feels safe. This year, turning 27, freaked me out. My life is so different from what I imagined. My dog died at the beginning of the year, and my mom turned 60, which is also scary. This year, it all just hit me hard. I am holding on to a life that no longer exists, and if I can't let it go, I'll be stuck here forever while everyone moves on. I think a lot of us have an idealistic vision about what our adult life will look like, and then reality crushes us.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dog! I’m very close to my pets as well I understand where your coming from as far as feeling stuck I went through the same thing I’m 25 btw
@jazhamiliton8439 Thank you, I mentioned my dog's death in relation to this topic because, in a way, it feels like he was a part of my childhood/teenage years that I also lost. I feel like I have to let go not only of my "old life" but also of the life I envisioned in my head that I would have by now. Basically, I have to face reality
this comment is so real. I feel the same, but I don't feel bad about it..yet. I love the feeling of wanting to stay stuck - I'm comfortable with it. I think as you get older you value staying home with your parents a lot more, and it fits for some people - until you get that anxiety about it. its almost as if we mourn being young, it's a sad feeling for sure.
Girl pls don’t stop sharing about your experience with motherhood! It’s so nice to hear the good and the bad and all the realness. I relate to you a ton & I’m 21 in November but having a baby boy next month
@@Zm27111herself and the kid, idk how people can look at a world full of poverty, crime, rape, war, etc. and decide it’s a world they want to bring an innocent soul into, but tbh these women do it because it seems like the next step to them, not because they’re thinking of how that kid is a human who will one day grow old and die like them
@@Rora_999you just expect to understand why every single person in the world wanted to have a baby in their early 20s? everyone has their reasons and although its none of your business you could always ask them nicely : ) everyones circumstances are different
Your crisis about age is so real Sarah!! I’m a 2005 baby (turning 19 in December!) and made a big decision to take a leave of absence from my second year of university because of financial difficulties, so I will be working while others are in school. I didn’t realize until this back to school year started that I would then be graduating a year later and with most probably people a year younger than me. I know it’s just a year but ever since having been in university, I felt like I was already too old to be doing things I would do in high school with friends. I too still feel 17, 16, and younger because my freshman year of high school at 14 was when Covid started at the half year mark. But really, we can do whatever we want if we enjoy it, just remember to be responsible lol. This was the realest, most down to earth big sister talk I needed love ya so much 💖💋
hi! i’m a 2003 baby, i have 2-3 more years of college, i started on time (18) but took a leave, ended up transferring to another state a year later, so not all of my credits transferred. i’m a sophomore all over again but it’s okay cause in a few years it’ll be over anyways !
Are you guys babies none of that actually matters you do things that your own time I can’t believe you need someone to tell you that online put on your big girl panties JC
@@horseface3725 Yes! Comparing ourselves to others is so harsh yet I can’t help it ahh. Also, it’s very admirable that you want to continue studying! It’s refreshing to see people who are passionate about their interests :)) The feeling or thinking that I’m falling behind while others are moving forward makes me want to crumble to pieces, but yes we will persist!
I definitely get the crisis of the “I’m a mom” perspective 😭 I don’t plan on having kids until around 25 or more because once you have a kid, it’s like you’re no longer your own person, you’re you and your baby. Not that that’s a bad thing! But a HUGE change to cope with
@@BabyRen-y1n Everyone in my family had pregnancy problems. The main one being gaining a ton of weight and not losing it. Everyone in my family with kids is overweight. Not only this worries me but also post partum depression as i already have mental struggles. I hope to only have 1-2 and have them in my 30s
@@mxldx7700you’re not selfish. If anything, bringing an innocent soul into a world like this is selfish, knowing they can be a victim of anything and one day will grow old and die yet still doing it because you want a kid
I’m 24 with a 2 & 4 year old. The more you embrace and genuinely want to grow and embrace the most natural part of your life of aging the happier you will be. You can still have your personality as you age, only positive things will come with age if you do not repress the thought of aging in the back of your mind. Grow as a mother and as a woman in a beautiful way. You are still yourself no matter what
I’m 23 with no kids but I feel a huge pressure/anxiety about motherhood in the future like I know how possible it is to do it and everyone’s managing but I just feel like I don’t know how I’ll ever get there. I want kids closer to my 30’s but yea it kinda freaks me out
I just turned 23 and have a 1 year old daughter. Motherhood TRULY is not for the weak. It’s the most trying and selfless thing imaginable. I can relate to so many of your struggles and feelings and it was super comforting to know I’m not the only young mom going through a bit of an identity crisis right now 😂 You’re doing amazing and should be so proud of yourself 🤍
i'm abt to turn 25 and just the way u worded not being ready to grow/accept your growth is exactly how i'm feeling! something about having the memories and full knowledge of everything that my life was like before but knowing i'll never be able to return to that place makes me want to cling onto it. it's always just us though, no matter how old we get :D i really love ur videos also
I’m turning 25 this year and graduating nursing school, I’m so afraid with the fact that I’m growing up and getting an actual big girl job!! 😅 nice to know I’m not alone in this
I'm turning 25 in October and I've been having so many existential crisis about it because I feel so "behind" in life and literally still mentally feel 17 but in the end it really is just a number and everyone has their own journey. There's joy and things to be grateful for in every age and stage of life and I'm learning how to break free from the rhetoric youth=your best years. It's so hard knowing we can never go back but letting go and accepting the present and being grateful for it has helped me a lot. Past us would be proud of present us!! We can still be young flirty and fun even when we're 80 it's all a mindset 😘 keep slaying mama you're doing great 💕💕
this is actually so true tho because my mom is in her 50s now but her energy makes her feel like she's in her 30s. hell sometimes i feel more mature than her in the way i act lol. she just has this very young and carefree spirit that just shines through her. it's definitely a mindset thing and doing things that make you happy will make you have that forever childlike energy.
Omg I’m also turning 25 in October and I resonate so much with your comment. I think what’s been strangest for me is no longer being the youngest person in a group. Because we place so much emphasis on youth, especially for women, I tied a lot of my self worth to being young, especially in the workplace, when it feels like an accomplishment to be the youngest person in a professional job. But now, there are more and more people I work with who are younger than me, and it’s been kind of a weird feeling. It also hits me that when my parents were 25, they were already married and had just purchased their first home. And so many people I know are getting married. It’s hard not to feel behind. However, 25 is still relatively young, and regardless, I want to be the kind of person who doesn’t let my age hold me back. I don’t want to become cynical about my age and feel like I can’t do things because of it.
@@jackiedaytona2434 its honestly so comforting feeling less alone in these feelings 🥺 thats been a struggle for me as well, I'm at the same job I've been at since I was 19 and was always the youngest and now there are new 19 year olds telling me "I look good for my age" 💀💀 it's so jarring realizing u need to shift your perspective on how people see you. I totally feel you on not wanting to let age make me become cynical though, I think finding ourselves outside of just our youth will inevitably happen which is really terrifying because I loved being a teenager/ early 20s nd leaving that space is rly bizarre but we can always hold things that were important to us through those years close.
i'm turning 25 next year too. i've had an awful office job experience that absolutely killed my desire to have big girl job whatsoever. i DONT WANT to be like adults at that job. in general adults still scare me like im still a child. also my health declined and ive been going to hospitals this year alone more than ever in past years. this is very depressing and exhausting tbh. now i have crazy health anxiety. not only i feel old i also feel like i'm fucking dying.... anyway ^^ i cant even imagine having kids now so you are really amazing dealing with that. and yes please make more videos like that. hearing someone my age talk about relatable stuff is so therapeutic
You will feel like yourself again growing up doesn’t mean letting go of everything you are still you in there I know it feels tough being a mom and going through this I have 4 kids I just turned 28 looking forward to my 30s growing more into myself and motherhood. I feel this way from time to time, have a supportive loving family to be there for you, you got this!
I feel you. Got pregnant at 19 and became a mama at 20! But I have always felt 14 and I cannot relate to my coworkers or older mamas in my life. It's hard too because becoming a mom makes you FEEL old, regardless of age
I'm not a mom, but I'm a 23 year old girl, and am so overwhelmed with life. Feeling terrified to not be young anymore, sleep deprived because I'm so busy, coming into a new identity. I've been looking so long for people to relate to so that I can calm down about all of this, and this is the first video I found that sincerely made me feel like I'm not alone, and acknowledging that being a girl in your 20s is so hard! And of course being a mother on top of that is extremely difficult, so you have my highest regards. If you enjoy making these videos, I would love if you kept doing them, I'll watch every single one 😅 gonna go get a mcflurry now lmao
I had my baby at 24, I’m 26 now. Time flies and you change so much I don’t even know who I am anymore. I wouldn’t change it for the world but being selfish for a little longer wouldn’t have hurt
Girl I totally get what you’re saying! 😂 I don’t have any kids of my own, but I’ve been helping my mom “raise” my baby siblings and I distinctly remember this one time I was trying to get my baby sister (who was an infant at the time) to sleep and all I could hear outside the dark bedroom was the sound of my older siblings laughing and playing games. I remember crying and thinking that I would have to give up my youth to raise this darn baby 😅 (I was 19 when she was born). But that feeling only lasted for that day and is now long gone. It’s just so nice to hear her laugh and say my name whenever she sees me ❤🥰 And it’s fun to imagine how close we’ll be when she’s all grown up lol.
That must be really hard, but being so young means the best chance of having a healthy baby, having the most energy, and if nothing happens, getting to be around for the longest time possible. You should be really proud, it's a great thing.
@@SeethingSimp oh.. well...yikes for me then..I'm 24..not married(not planning to) and not even thinking about having kids..there's too much going on in my life since day one to even bring an innocent soul into this world..and watch them suffer through it all..can't have a child when you're not mentally ready you know..unfortunately thats not really the case for many girls that have been married since they were 17 and now have like three to four kids...with no financies...life is truly a battlefield... motherhood is not for the weak fr 💫
Noooo you do look so young! As someone who is 4 years older than you, I totally get the feeling old part 😭 I’ve felt old since like 23 LOL now I finally let those thoughts go because now I look better, feel better, my life is better than ever now. You have soooo much to look forward to growing up more ❤️
I turned 25 this year and it was a huge blow to me. It feels like my life is passing me by and I’m not having enough fun. And I also feel the rush to prepare for 30.
It’s hard work when your kids are baby’s and toddlers. You have to work hard to keep them alive. But it gets easier and better once they start showing their little personalities and they aren’t so fragile and dependent. Don’t be so hard on yourself, I’m sure you are doing a great job. Remain with their Dad because you always need each others help and your baby will be so happy with both parents. And remember this is a phase in your life that won’t last forever so enjoy it the best you can. It gets easier 😊Your videos are so cute!
I was 28 when I had my kid but I still remember how scared and anxious I felt about being a mom. Now my kid is going to be 9 soon and ugh I feel so nostalgic about those newborn years. Enjoy it. Motherhood teaches me that time flies by too fast! You'll adjust so quickly, you won't even remember life before motherhood! And I had plenty of me time the first 28 years of my life lol.
Needed this!!! I'm a new mom with a 9 month old and I turned 23 in July and I relate to everything so much!!!😭💕✨️ you are doing a great job mama!! It does get better and easier I promise!
You are very young. Time will move fast, be present and try to remember it's your 1st time at life as well as your baby. Be kind to yourself and all will be well.
Btw if a car like the blue car makes you feel uncomfortable again you can drive to a nearby police station or fire station and that will probably scare them off
I had my baby boy at 19 & he’s 3 now, being a momma really changes you. But it’s so beautiful, it’s like having a best friend. Wait until your baby reaches toddler life & you’re gonna have the time of your life 😭😭 both good & bad.
@@spiderman23231 it was unplanned unfortunately, I would’ve waited to have a kid. But the person I was with definitely wasn’t the correct person. You live you learn.
i’ve followed you on tiktok n instagram for almost two years now n wholeheartedly appreciate your honesty abt motherhood.. ilysmm keep it love babes 🎀💕
Am I the only one who wants to get older😅? I’ll be 25 in October and I can’t wait. My youth wasn’t kind to me. I’m fitter, richer, much more talented, disciplined, and actually happy. With each year I get better I can’t wait to see my skill in my 30s and 40s.
Me asf I have been so emotionally tortured growing up with depression anxiety self loathing etc. and always getting in trouble and never having stability and now at 25 I’m in a much better place mentally emotionally financially it feels good and I’m excited for the future.
Honestly I’d say don’t worry too much about the cute clothes & getting back to “normal” asap . Enjoy the experience of being a mom to a newborn because it will only last so long. You WILL go back to normal & to wearing cute clothes etc.., however you won’t have a newborn baby forever cuz they grow up quickk. Chill, enjoy that moment & the beautiful gift of breastfeeding as well. It’s natural & good for babies compared to whatever chemicals they put in baby formulas. Plus it’s a blessing too cuz I know women who wish they could breastfeed their baby but due to unfortunate reasons they can’t. :( Part of being a mother is learning to be selfless yet having a balance of caring for yourself too. As long as you got that down, you’ll be fine & you’ll do great! 🙌🏽 Goodluck ✨
this is my first time ever seeing your face/watching your vids n just have to say that i'm already obsessed with you lol. i love how bubbly u are n its like im hanging out with one of my besties. i'm turning 23 in november n completely still feel like i'm 18... but then i hangout with an actual 18 year old n realize i have NOTHING in common with that age-group anymore. its so crazy. i still think i look like a teenager too so its weird. i know the pandemic has a lot to do with that, since a lot of us feel stunted socially after being stagnant those 2-3 years n it's so hard to break out of that!! anyway you're totally not alone n i commend u for having a kid so young.. its not easy🤍
And don't try and have too much mom guilt! it's not like you are on the clock 24/7 and like you need to be doing something for your baby all the time. it's your instinct to always try and go back to your baby when you have a moment of silence, but if you don't have time for yourself, you might get irritable or lonely when your life is your baby! do your makeup! have fun! you got this
As a mom in her 20s, which by the way gave birth to a baby around the same time you did, all you say is realistic and not negative. Love this content from you ❤️
I feel the same way, and I'm in my teens! I'm accepting I don't get treated like a kid in public anymore, and it sucks 😭I bumped into someone at the airport and said sorry and usually they say "its ok sweetie" but they just rolled their eyes at me and the tsa workers don't give me time anymore!!! it sucks growing up.
Im sobbing I love how transparent you are!!! I've never thought of putting these emotions into words and you said them perfectly! It feels reassuring seeing videos like these every so often.💕
This came up on my recommended and I clicked because right now I’m 21 and I think I would like to be pregnant by the time I’m 23 (so around the age you are). I enjoyed this video! Since I was 6 years old I always felt much older than I am. At 19, I was completely jaded, I felt 40. This year, 21 is the first time I kinda feel my age, that I’m letting myself feel youthful. I’m getting everything in order for the baby in this time like my health, education, finances, etc. I think feeling young as a mother is good thing though! I’m sure your baby benefits so much from you being in touch with that 16,17,18 year old part of yourself. Love your style and makeup, definitely subscribing! 💕
You look amazing and have bounced back so much, first of all. I’m 27 and having my first baby in like 2 weeks! I’m so scared and happy at the same time about being a mother. I still feel like I’m 19-21 just way more mature about life. I want to keep my youth and independence, but I’m excited about this chapter in life at the same time. Also thinking of breast feeding for 3-4ish months because I have to go back to school and work in January. Ah so many responsibilities 😅
May i ask why? I don’t get how people have kids knowing that kid will be old one day and die, or that in their life time they might be a victim of rape, war, a car accident etc. isn’t it better to save that kid from existence?
@@ayatokirishima dk..maybe some people genuinely love the idea of raising their own offspring?...dont get it either..because I won't be having mine anytime soon..it sounds terrifying but watching others be happy for having a child makes me feel glad for them⭐
It’s okay girly I hope you feel better getting things off your chest it’s definitely relatable in many aspects and I hope you know your gonna be a cool mom ;)
It gets better when they get to school. And it’s easier when they talk. I wish you the best you’ll be okay. I was 24 when I had my baby, I’m 28 now and husband and I are going on vacation soon and I’m back in school, living a normal life again but more mature. Enjoy the experience they are a joy.
Imm24 with a 5 year old. I’m very nostalgic as well and missed being a care free kid but now I do what I want to do and live that way with my daughter. Everything I loved doing with my mom as a kid I do with my girl and it’s so gratifying! I’m still learning and it’s a long process you feel lost in most of the time but don’t lose your spark. Make it brighter with your baby🤍
hey sis, i just turned 23 and im in school juggling a job and a boyfriend plus some friends. im listening to your video while i cram some computer science homework. just wanted to let you know that your channel is awesome and i love your positive aura, keep slaying and mcblinging girl
Girl! I'm 25 years old and I turned 25 just 3 months ago, don't get discourage. I feel you I still feel like I'm 16-18 years old I'm literally so much the same like I was in high school(same thoughts, opinions, verbal usage). We are still so young and 30 is young too, I think you will start to see changes on your look when you hit 35 plus years, enjoy the meantime and youth. Don't waste it on feeling bad for getting old meanwhile you are still young. There are some influencers who still look young and relevant like (kim, paris hilton, angelina jolie...etc). I feel like society except us females to look young forever. Maybe, the baby and the responsibilities make you feel you have grown up, don't worry once the baby is 3 years old you will feel like you can have more time for yourself. Although this is coming from someone who never had one, but I know some people who have. Also the blue car is literally a paid actor xd wtf the car was so perfect to be there rounding around and it is older model. it is so comical, and you being irritated while being girly and cute I just love that
No matter what age you are and how much you prepare you’ll never be ready for a child. I had my first at 24 and my second two years later. I wasn’t prepared for any other them both are two completely different babies. I would do the same thing over again if I could go back in time. You can be prepared to an extent but never fully prepared. Mistakes will happen, something’s may not work out and that’s life. Nothing is perfect but you can get it close. Don’t let this world and social media discourage you from doing anything in your life because life is life. You will always have storms and rainbows. The rainbows make life worth living and staying positive for. My children are my rainbows my lights through the storm . My little bundles of hope and happiness! Life is life and the good moments will always out way the bad! Never lose faith and hope. Love your babies and be the best parents in the world for them!❤
Also having children is a 24 hour job and that’s why our society has to change. It claims to be all about chikdren and family when they’re not. Children shouldn’t have to pay for healthcare and neither should women feuding pregnancy. Also, women and men should get paid by taxes to be stay at home mothers or fathers. Careers and everything is put before children and parents. It’s so sad and makes life harder. It’s shouldn’t be like this but we the people have the power to change that!!! We need to fight for our rights for the sake of ourselves and most importantly our children!!!
about the age stuff, people always think i’m like 18/19 and when they find out i’m 26 they literally treat me like a senior citizen 😭😭 like buzzz off dude 🖕🏼
just turned 24 a week ago, had a baby 14 months ago. we are so similar. i feel old. i feel overwhelmed. i feel irritated a lot but then i watch your videos and i remember i’m cool and hot and young and so are you. we’re milfs. we’re strong. we slay.
Hey babe! We have so much in common. I am 26, I have one son who is almost two and one who is almost one (they were born 11 months apart) and everything you're feeling is totally relatable! I absolutely felt like how you're feeling for a while after having my first baby. I promise you it does get easier!! For me the first year is definitely the hardest and it just keeps getting easier and better from there ♡ . You'll find your flow and it will feel so much more chill and less stressful. Hang in beautiful you're doing amazing! ♡
I can definitely see how motherhood can change somebody. Exactly one of the reasons why I am not jumping into having a child without really thinking about if I can be a good mother, and if I should even bring a child into this ugly world. If I decide to have a child I need to be sure I’m at that point in my life where I felt like I was able to do the things I dreamed of. Getting married and having a baby is another stage in life and that baby is your responsibility FOREVER. I definitely think ppl romanticize it too much. I’m 27 and I still at times feel like a “fake adult” but I’m sure if I did have a child I would immediately feel 10 years older. But even without a baby I feel like my 20’s are going so fast and I’m getting too old to achieve my dreams. When I see ppl in their early 20’s accomplishing so much I feel like my life is wilting away
18:44 You think this goes without saying, but I believe a lot of people that want to be parents do NOT think about having a child thoroughly. Like, the moment you wake up (if you got any sleep) the day now belongs to that child. For 18 years and sometimes more. They only think of the present or as far as how cute the baby is going to be and that it’s a piece of you and someone you love, etc.
literally don't worry, soon or later you'll be the young cool mom and up to date on stuff more💋- coming from someone with older parents who I love very much regardless!!
Thank you so much!! I really needed to hear all of this. I have the same fears and thoughts when planning for a baby and I know the moment I actually have my baby things while never be the same and that thought just haunts me so thank you for being honest about how you feel!
I love these videos!! These storytime type videos are great for when I have your videos on in the background while I clean or something, so please make more especially if they’re more manageable to make!!!! Love u
just entered my 20s and although i dont plan on being a mother (could be subject to change), i found this so so inspiring to hear and if i were to ever be a mom id want to be as cool and confident as you are. :]
I would love if you made more videos like this, i relate to a lot of the stuff you're talking about!! i love everything you post, you're like my favorite youtuber ❤
I could literally listen to you talk for hours. You're literally so entertaining and funny and relatable I feel like I'm having a conversation with a close friend. I wish you & your family the best 💖🍦
This video made me feel so happy. I’m also 24 and my baby is due basically any day now, but it’s hard to find a mom vlog where the moms carry my kind of energy if that makes sense lol. Like they are not usually someone I’d ever hang out with but this video did it for me 🫶🏼
I'm 26 and pregnant with my first baby. It trips me out too how I still view myself as much younger, and all of these changes are happening! I've been married for a little over a year and even that is huge to process. 😂
This is my first time seeing you or any of your videos you have a commanding prescience, such confidence and bubbly, I subscribed and wishing you luck growing your channel!♥️♥️
Girly girl I’m not even a mom but I loved hearing you talk like it felt as if I was in the car with you. Wishing u the best of luck and I hope it gets better💟
this video feels like 2008 in the best way possible
It reminded me of 2018 watching Trisha 😂
It’s bringing me comfort 😭
Yup
I was thinking this as well!!
Her sunglasses really solidify the 2008 feel
the blue car constantly passing by kills me eeverytime LMAO
they are either practicing how to drive or just bored
i am the same age as you and i feel super young and immature lol. kudos to you for being able to manage motherhood
I’m 26 and in my head I’m 22 so I can relate 😂
Same! Like I would feel like a child bride if I got married or has kids before 30 lol
I’m 22 and couldn’t fathom having a child right now. I just graduated college, jobless, carless, living at home and trying to get into med school. Barley can provide for myself. So seeing others do it always amazes me.
@@icybarbie717same 😭 i just turned 26 this week but i feel like i’m 20 in my head
I’m 21 and can’t even take care of myself lol
that blue car was a paid actor and rent was due they went by like 5 times on camera
why is it doing that omg
I was so nervous seeing her car door unlocked 😅😅😅
I feel like it's someone practicing how to drive we've all been there doing the parking lot laps 😭
Lmfao
@@GFY94so real
I'm 27, and most times, I feel like I'm 13. I work part-time and still live with my parents even though I don't have a great relationship with them. I always say I want a good job so I can move out of my parents house and have my independence but everytime I have the chance to get closer to that reality, I get scared, I turn it down and go back to the same thing. Even though there's a desire to change and grow up, I'm too scared to do it, and I end up staying where it feels safe. This year, turning 27, freaked me out. My life is so different from what I imagined. My dog died at the beginning of the year, and my mom turned 60, which is also scary. This year, it all just hit me hard. I am holding on to a life that no longer exists, and if I can't let it go, I'll be stuck here forever while everyone moves on. I think a lot of us have an idealistic vision about what our adult life will look like, and then reality crushes us.
I'm turning 26 and in the same position as you. It can be shameful and embarrassing but don't give up on yourself. You have value as a human being.
@@ChioCharmwilyThank you 🤍
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dog! I’m very close to my pets as well I understand where your coming from as far as feeling stuck I went through the same thing I’m 25 btw
@jazhamiliton8439 Thank you, I mentioned my dog's death in relation to this topic because, in a way, it feels like he was a part of my childhood/teenage years that I also lost. I feel like I have to let go not only of my "old life" but also of the life I envisioned in my head that I would have by now. Basically, I have to face reality
this comment is so real. I feel the same, but I don't feel bad about it..yet. I love the feeling of wanting to stay stuck - I'm comfortable with it. I think as you get older you value staying home with your parents a lot more, and it fits for some people - until you get that anxiety about it. its almost as if we mourn being young, it's a sad feeling for sure.
Girl pls don’t stop sharing about your experience with motherhood! It’s so nice to hear the good and the bad and all the realness. I relate to you a ton & I’m 21 in November but having a baby boy next month
why would u do tht to urself 😭
@@Zm27111herself and the kid, idk how people can look at a world full of poverty, crime, rape, war, etc. and decide it’s a world they want to bring an innocent soul into, but tbh these women do it because it seems like the next step to them, not because they’re thinking of how that kid is a human who will one day grow old and die like them
@@Zm27111because some women find fulfillment and happiness in motherhood ❤
@@lasantuzza777 *likes own comment*
Had my baby girl at 21, 22 now. This IS NOT for the weak. I’m one and done. But I love that I got it over with 100%. We’re doing good.💕
I’m 24 and one and done , had my baby at 22. This shit hard lol so I feel you on the one and done.
I had my daughter at 21 as well 💗💗 and I’m pretty sure I’m one and done. It’s honestly been best. My daughter is seven now 🥰
@@audriiiiroberts3030Awwwwwww💕
I’m so confused why you guys had babies at this age is that fun or you have purpose i don’t understand
@@Rora_999you just expect to understand why every single person in the world wanted to have a baby in their early 20s? everyone has their reasons and although its none of your business you could always ask them nicely : ) everyones circumstances are different
Your crisis about age is so real Sarah!! I’m a 2005 baby (turning 19 in December!) and made a big decision to take a leave of absence from my second year of university because of financial difficulties, so I will be working while others are in school. I didn’t realize until this back to school year started that I would then be graduating a year later and with most probably people a year younger than me. I know it’s just a year but ever since having been in university, I felt like I was already too old to be doing things I would do in high school with friends. I too still feel 17, 16, and younger because my freshman year of high school at 14 was when Covid started at the half year mark. But really, we can do whatever we want if we enjoy it, just remember to be responsible lol. This was the realest, most down to earth big sister talk I needed love ya so much 💖💋
girl im a 2005 baby turning 19 in december too! when is your birthday? I'm the 27th
hi! i’m a 2003 baby, i have 2-3 more years of college, i started on time (18) but took a leave, ended up transferring to another state a year later, so not all of my credits transferred. i’m a sophomore all over again but it’s okay cause in a few years it’ll be over anyways !
Are you guys babies none of that actually matters you do things that your own time I can’t believe you need someone to tell you that online put on your big girl panties JC
@@horseface3725 Yes! Comparing ourselves to others is so harsh yet I can’t help it ahh. Also, it’s very admirable that you want to continue studying! It’s refreshing to see people who are passionate about their interests :)) The feeling or thinking that I’m falling behind while others are moving forward makes me want to crumble to pieces, but yes we will persist!
@@annaliese9453 Yass December baby gang!! I’m the 9th 😊
I definitely get the crisis of the “I’m a mom” perspective 😭 I don’t plan on having kids until around 25 or more because once you have a kid, it’s like you’re no longer your own person, you’re you and your baby. Not that that’s a bad thing! But a HUGE change to cope with
This is how I feel I dont want kids till I’m like 30 cuz I’m selfish and young assf rn
@@mxldx7700real I’m thinking 33 😭 because of anxiety and I know kids will make my cortisol levels high
25 is WAY too early! Trust me
@@BabyRen-y1n Everyone in my family had pregnancy problems. The main one being gaining a ton of weight and not losing it. Everyone in my family with kids is overweight. Not only this worries me but also post partum depression as i already have mental struggles. I hope to only have 1-2 and have them in my 30s
@@mxldx7700you’re not selfish. If anything, bringing an innocent soul into a world like this is selfish, knowing they can be a victim of anything and one day will grow old and die yet still doing it because you want a kid
YOUR WHOLE APPEARANCE JUST SLAYS POPULAR GOSSIP HIGH SCHOOL GIRLS EARLY 2000S I LOVE YOUR HELLO KITTY STEERING WHEEL SOOO MUCH!
I’m 24 with a 2 & 4 year old. The more you embrace and genuinely want to grow and embrace the most natural part of your life of aging the happier you will be. You can still have your personality as you age, only positive things will come with age if you do not repress the thought of aging in the back of your mind. Grow as a mother and as a woman in a beautiful way. You are still yourself no matter what
I’m 23 with no kids but I feel a huge pressure/anxiety about motherhood in the future like I know how possible it is to do it and everyone’s managing but I just feel like I don’t know how I’ll ever get there. I want kids closer to my 30’s but yea it kinda freaks me out
I just turned 23 and have a 1 year old daughter. Motherhood TRULY is not for the weak. It’s the most trying and selfless thing imaginable. I can relate to so many of your struggles and feelings and it was super comforting to know I’m not the only young mom going through a bit of an identity crisis right now 😂 You’re doing amazing and should be so proud of yourself 🤍
being a girl is so hard. i've been feeling what u feel about your age since i was 16! society is so mean
@@Don-kw6nu you're sounding like a below average man
@@Don-kw6nu i know being a man is hard too. there are struggles with both but i can only speak from my experience as a woman.
Other women/females are pieces of shit and make your life hell too
@@Don-kw6nuno need to start a “who has it worse” argument here
@@Don-kw6nu the average man finds it unbearable to talk about their problems with other men but loves to bring it up in comparison to women
i'm abt to turn 25 and just the way u worded not being ready to grow/accept your growth is exactly how i'm feeling! something about having the memories and full knowledge of everything that my life was like before but knowing i'll never be able to return to that place makes me want to cling onto it. it's always just us though, no matter how old we get :D i really love ur videos also
I’m turning 25 this year and graduating nursing school, I’m so afraid with the fact that I’m growing up and getting an actual big girl job!! 😅 nice to know I’m not alone in this
Same im 22 and i will graduate this year and im kinda scared);
I'm turning 25 in October and I've been having so many existential crisis about it because I feel so "behind" in life and literally still mentally feel 17 but in the end it really is just a number and everyone has their own journey. There's joy and things to be grateful for in every age and stage of life and I'm learning how to break free from the rhetoric youth=your best years. It's so hard knowing we can never go back but letting go and accepting the present and being grateful for it has helped me a lot. Past us would be proud of present us!! We can still be young flirty and fun even when we're 80 it's all a mindset 😘 keep slaying mama you're doing great 💕💕
this is actually so true tho because my mom is in her 50s now but her energy makes her feel like she's in her 30s. hell sometimes i feel more mature than her in the way i act lol. she just has this very young and carefree spirit that just shines through her. it's definitely a mindset thing and doing things that make you happy will make you have that forever childlike energy.
Omg I’m also turning 25 in October and I resonate so much with your comment. I think what’s been strangest for me is no longer being the youngest person in a group. Because we place so much emphasis on youth, especially for women, I tied a lot of my self worth to being young, especially in the workplace, when it feels like an accomplishment to be the youngest person in a professional job. But now, there are more and more people I work with who are younger than me, and it’s been kind of a weird feeling. It also hits me that when my parents were 25, they were already married and had just purchased their first home. And so many people I know are getting married. It’s hard not to feel behind. However, 25 is still relatively young, and regardless, I want to be the kind of person who doesn’t let my age hold me back. I don’t want to become cynical about my age and feel like I can’t do things because of it.
@@jackiedaytona2434 its honestly so comforting feeling less alone in these feelings 🥺 thats been a struggle for me as well, I'm at the same job I've been at since I was 19 and was always the youngest and now there are new 19 year olds telling me "I look good for my age" 💀💀 it's so jarring realizing u need to shift your perspective on how people see you. I totally feel you on not wanting to let age make me become cynical though, I think finding ourselves outside of just our youth will inevitably happen which is really terrifying because I loved being a teenager/ early 20s nd leaving that space is rly bizarre but we can always hold things that were important to us through those years close.
i'm turning 25 next year too. i've had an awful office job experience that absolutely killed my desire to have big girl job whatsoever. i DONT WANT to be like adults at that job. in general adults still scare me like im still a child. also my health declined and ive been going to hospitals this year alone more than ever in past years. this is very depressing and exhausting tbh. now i have crazy health anxiety. not only i feel old i also feel like i'm fucking dying.... anyway ^^ i cant even imagine having kids now so you are really amazing dealing with that. and yes please make more videos like that. hearing someone my age talk about relatable stuff is so therapeutic
You will feel like yourself again growing up doesn’t mean letting go of everything you are still you in there I know it feels tough being a mom and going through this I have 4 kids I just turned 28 looking forward to my 30s growing more into myself and motherhood. I feel this way from time to time, have a supportive loving family to be there for you, you got this!
4 kids at 28 is crazy 💀
I feel you. Got pregnant at 19 and became a mama at 20! But I have always felt 14 and I cannot relate to my coworkers or older mamas in my life. It's hard too because becoming a mom makes you FEEL old, regardless of age
Im 31 and I can promise you its 100% ok and even fun to be in your 30s. Being in your thirties is the same as 20s but you have more money
“been having a bit of a rough day-no, week/life” too real
mother is mothering🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
I'm not a mom, but I'm a 23 year old girl, and am so overwhelmed with life. Feeling terrified to not be young anymore, sleep deprived because I'm so busy, coming into a new identity. I've been looking so long for people to relate to so that I can calm down about all of this, and this is the first video I found that sincerely made me feel like I'm not alone, and acknowledging that being a girl in your 20s is so hard! And of course being a mother on top of that is extremely difficult, so you have my highest regards. If you enjoy making these videos, I would love if you kept doing them, I'll watch every single one 😅 gonna go get a mcflurry now lmao
It’s so refreshing for someone opening up about motherhood and navigating adulthood
I had my baby at 24, I’m 26 now. Time flies and you change so much I don’t even know who I am anymore. I wouldn’t change it for the world but being selfish for a little longer wouldn’t have hurt
Girl I totally get what you’re saying! 😂 I don’t have any kids of my own, but I’ve been helping my mom “raise” my baby siblings and I distinctly remember this one time I was trying to get my baby sister (who was an infant at the time) to sleep and all I could hear outside the dark bedroom was the sound of my older siblings laughing and playing games.
I remember crying and thinking that I would have to give up my youth to raise this darn baby 😅 (I was 19 when she was born).
But that feeling only lasted for that day and is now long gone. It’s just so nice to hear her laugh and say my name whenever she sees me ❤🥰 And it’s fun to imagine how close we’ll be when she’s all grown up lol.
That must be really hard, but being so young means the best chance of having a healthy baby, having the most energy, and if nothing happens, getting to be around for the longest time possible. You should be really proud, it's a great thing.
@@SeethingSimp oh.. well...yikes for me then..I'm 24..not married(not planning to) and not even thinking about having kids..there's too much going on in my life since day one to even bring an innocent soul into this world..and watch them suffer through it all..can't have a child when you're not mentally ready you know..unfortunately thats not really the case for many girls that have been married since they were 17 and now have like three to four kids...with no financies...life is truly a battlefield... motherhood is not for the weak fr 💫
hawt 2000s soccer mom vibes
Noooo you do look so young! As someone who is 4 years older than you, I totally get the feeling old part 😭 I’ve felt old since like 23 LOL now I finally let those thoughts go because now I look better, feel better, my life is better than ever now. You have soooo much to look forward to growing up more ❤️
I turned 25 this year and it was a huge blow to me. It feels like my life is passing me by and I’m not having enough fun. And I also feel the rush to prepare for 30.
Why would u need to prepare for a specific age
A mother in more ways than one 🙂↕️
I love when you do these talks. Gives us some insight to your life. & I’m 29 (turn 30 in December ahhh!) and I feel a solid 22 lol.
I love these girl talks! 🩷🩷🩷🩷 I love seeing your channel grow!! Well deserved!! 💖💖💖💖
It’s hard work when your kids are baby’s and toddlers. You have to work hard to keep them alive. But it gets easier and better once they start showing their little personalities and they aren’t so fragile and dependent. Don’t be so hard on yourself, I’m sure you are doing a great job. Remain with their Dad because you always need each others help and your baby will be so happy with both parents. And remember this is a phase in your life that won’t last forever so enjoy it the best you can. It gets easier 😊Your videos are so cute!
I was 28 when I had my kid but I still remember how scared and anxious I felt about being a mom. Now my kid is going to be 9 soon and ugh I feel so nostalgic about those newborn years. Enjoy it. Motherhood teaches me that time flies by too fast! You'll adjust so quickly, you won't even remember life before motherhood! And I had plenty of me time the first 28 years of my life lol.
This is so real, I’m 24 with a 5 year old and spend time with myself on my own just for “girl” time. Wish I had a friend like you!
Needed this!!! I'm a new mom with a 9 month old and I turned 23 in July and I relate to everything so much!!!😭💕✨️ you are doing a great job mama!! It does get better and easier I promise!
im sorry but the blue car was so funny btw you're so pretty 💘💘
You are very young. Time will move fast, be present and try to remember it's your 1st time at life as well as your baby. Be kind to yourself and all will be well.
Btw if a car like the blue car makes you feel uncomfortable again you can drive to a nearby police station or fire station and that will probably scare them off
I had my baby boy at 19 & he’s 3 now, being a momma really changes you. But it’s so beautiful, it’s like having a best friend. Wait until your baby reaches toddler life & you’re gonna have the time of your life 😭😭 both good & bad.
why 19?
@@spiderman23231 it was unplanned unfortunately, I would’ve waited to have a kid. But the person I was with definitely wasn’t the correct person. You live you learn.
i’ve followed you on tiktok n instagram for almost two years now n wholeheartedly appreciate your honesty abt motherhood.. ilysmm keep it love babes 🎀💕
i literally love you! please post more of these videos, i enjoy them sm and your personality, take careee
Am I the only one who wants to get older😅? I’ll be 25 in October and I can’t wait. My youth wasn’t kind to me. I’m fitter, richer, much more talented, disciplined, and actually happy. With each year I get better I can’t wait to see my skill in my 30s and 40s.
Me asf I have been so emotionally tortured growing up with depression anxiety self loathing etc. and always getting in trouble and never having stability and now at 25 I’m in a much better place mentally emotionally financially it feels good and I’m excited for the future.
Honestly I’d say don’t worry too much about the cute clothes & getting back to “normal” asap . Enjoy the experience of being a mom to a newborn because it will only last so long. You WILL go back to normal & to wearing cute clothes etc.., however you won’t have a newborn baby forever cuz they grow up quickk. Chill, enjoy that moment & the beautiful gift of breastfeeding as well. It’s natural & good for babies compared to whatever chemicals they put in baby formulas. Plus it’s a blessing too cuz I know women who wish they could breastfeed their baby but due to unfortunate reasons they can’t. :(
Part of being a mother is learning to be selfless yet having a balance of caring for yourself too. As long as you got that down, you’ll be fine & you’ll do great! 🙌🏽 Goodluck ✨
thanks for sharing ur experience about being a mother
Help I’m the person from the blue car I was learning to drive
BYEEEE😭😭I STARTED THINKING THAT WAS WHAT WAS GOING ON
You were so sweet to the drive-thru worker and that honestly says so much about you 💕
this is my first time ever seeing your face/watching your vids n just have to say that i'm already obsessed with you lol. i love how bubbly u are n its like im hanging out with one of my besties. i'm turning 23 in november n completely still feel like i'm 18... but then i hangout with an actual 18 year old n realize i have NOTHING in common with that age-group anymore. its so crazy. i still think i look like a teenager too so its weird. i know the pandemic has a lot to do with that, since a lot of us feel stunted socially after being stagnant those 2-3 years n it's so hard to break out of that!! anyway you're totally not alone n i commend u for having a kid so young.. its not easy🤍
I appreciate u sharing the deeper part of how motherhood is going!
And don't try and have too much mom guilt! it's not like you are on the clock 24/7 and like you need to be doing something for your baby all the time. it's your instinct to always try and go back to your baby when you have a moment of silence, but if you don't have time for yourself, you might get irritable or lonely when your life is your baby! do your makeup! have fun! you got this
As a mom in her 20s, which by the way gave birth to a baby around the same time you did, all you say is realistic and not negative. Love this content from you ❤️
I feel the same way, and I'm in my teens! I'm accepting I don't get treated like a kid in public anymore, and it sucks 😭I bumped into someone at the airport and said sorry and usually they say "its ok sweetie" but they just rolled their eyes at me and the tsa workers don't give me time anymore!!! it sucks growing up.
Thank you for serving realness and vulnerability❤
Being a mother is indeed not for the weak
love this raw girl talk about life and everything
Lock your doors Sarah!!!!
you too
that blue car is sussy I don't like it
blue car is either plotting something or just practice driving 😭
Im sobbing I love how transparent you are!!! I've never thought of putting these emotions into words and you said them perfectly! It feels reassuring seeing videos like these every so often.💕
i love this style of blogging , its giving that it girl factor 😊
This came up on my recommended and I clicked because right now I’m 21 and I think I would like to be pregnant by the time I’m 23 (so around the age you are). I enjoyed this video! Since I was 6 years old I always felt much older than I am. At 19, I was completely jaded, I felt 40. This year, 21 is the first time I kinda feel my age, that I’m letting myself feel youthful. I’m getting everything in order for the baby in this time like my health, education, finances, etc. I think feeling young as a mother is good thing though! I’m sure your baby benefits so much from you being in touch with that 16,17,18 year old part of yourself. Love your style and makeup, definitely subscribing! 💕
You look amazing and have bounced back so much, first of all. I’m 27 and having my first baby in like 2 weeks! I’m so scared and happy at the same time about being a mother. I still feel like I’m 19-21 just way more mature about life. I want to keep my youth and independence, but I’m excited about this chapter in life at the same time. Also thinking of breast feeding for 3-4ish months because I have to go back to school and work in January. Ah so many responsibilities 😅
May i ask why? I don’t get how people have kids knowing that kid will be old one day and die, or that in their life time they might be a victim of rape, war, a car accident etc. isn’t it better to save that kid from existence?
@@ayatokirishima dk..maybe some people genuinely love the idea of raising their own offspring?...dont get it either..because I won't be having mine anytime soon..it sounds terrifying but watching others be happy for having a child makes me feel glad for them⭐
It’s okay girly I hope you feel better getting things off your chest it’s definitely relatable in many aspects and I hope you know your gonna be a cool mom ;)
i love listening to your little rants :)) youre so strong
It gets better when they get to school. And it’s easier when they talk. I wish you the best you’ll be okay. I was 24 when I had my baby, I’m 28 now and husband and I are going on vacation soon and I’m back in school, living a normal life again but more mature. Enjoy the experience they are a joy.
Imm24 with a 5 year old. I’m very nostalgic as well and missed being a care free kid but now I do what I want to do and live that way with my daughter. Everything I loved doing with my mom as a kid I do with my girl and it’s so gratifying! I’m still learning and it’s a long process you feel lost in most of the time but don’t lose your spark. Make it brighter with your baby🤍
hey sis, i just turned 23 and im in school juggling a job and a boyfriend plus some friends. im listening to your video while i cram some computer science homework. just wanted to let you know that your channel is awesome and i love your positive aura, keep slaying and mcblinging girl
Girl! I'm 25 years old and I turned 25 just 3 months ago, don't get discourage. I feel you I still feel like I'm 16-18 years old I'm literally so much the same like I was in high school(same thoughts, opinions, verbal usage). We are still so young and 30 is young too, I think you will start to see changes on your look when you hit 35 plus years, enjoy the meantime and youth. Don't waste it on feeling bad for getting old meanwhile you are still young. There are some influencers who still look young and relevant like (kim, paris hilton, angelina jolie...etc). I feel like society except us females to look young forever. Maybe, the baby and the responsibilities make you feel you have grown up, don't worry once the baby is 3 years old you will feel like you can have more time for yourself. Although this is coming from someone who never had one, but I know some people who have. Also the blue car is literally a paid actor xd wtf the car was so perfect to be there rounding around and it is older model. it is so comical, and you being irritated while being girly and cute I just love that
No matter what age you are and how much you prepare you’ll never be ready for a child. I had my first at 24 and my second two years later. I wasn’t prepared for any other them both are two completely different babies. I would do the same thing over again if I could go back in time. You can be prepared to an extent but never fully prepared. Mistakes will happen, something’s may not work out and that’s life. Nothing is perfect but you can get it close. Don’t let this world and social media discourage you from doing anything in your life because life is life. You will always have storms and rainbows. The rainbows make life worth living and staying positive for. My children are my rainbows my lights through the storm . My little bundles of hope and happiness! Life is life and the good moments will always out way the bad! Never lose faith and hope. Love your babies and be the best parents in the world for them!❤
Also having children is a 24 hour job and that’s why our society has to change. It claims to be all about chikdren and family when they’re not. Children shouldn’t have to pay for healthcare and neither should women feuding pregnancy. Also, women and men should get paid by taxes to be stay at home mothers or fathers. Careers and everything is put before children and parents. It’s so sad and makes life harder. It’s shouldn’t be like this but we the people have the power to change that!!! We need to fight for our rights for the sake of ourselves and most importantly our children!!!
about the age stuff, people always think i’m like 18/19 and when they find out i’m 26 they literally treat me like a senior citizen 😭😭 like buzzz off dude 🖕🏼
don't worry I am sure you are a great mom and this is gonna sound cheesy but no matter how old you get you can always keep your inner child alive 💖
LOVE this video!! Thank you for helping me feel not alone in this motherhood journey
I needed to hear thisss… ur so prettyy and ur eyes r enchanting. Also f these haters 💖
just turned 24 a week ago, had a baby 14 months ago. we are so similar. i feel old. i feel overwhelmed. i feel irritated a lot but then i watch your videos and i remember i’m cool and hot and young and so are you. we’re milfs. we’re strong. we slay.
oh my god this is hella comforting! so lucky to stumble upon your channel
Hey babe! We have so much in common. I am 26, I have one son who is almost two and one who is almost one (they were born 11 months apart) and everything you're feeling is totally relatable! I absolutely felt like how you're feeling for a while after having my first baby. I promise you it does get easier!! For me the first year is definitely the hardest and it just keeps getting easier and better from there ♡ . You'll find your flow and it will feel so much more chill and less stressful. Hang in beautiful you're doing amazing! ♡
The blue car omg 😭 but love your videos! and I love vulnerable and relatable talks ❤️
you have a beautiful energy about you ❤️ i know things will get easier for you because you are strong!!!
I can definitely see how motherhood can change somebody. Exactly one of the reasons why I am not jumping into having a child without really thinking about if I can be a good mother, and if I should even bring a child into this ugly world. If I decide to have a child I need to be sure I’m at that point in my life where I felt like I was able to do the things I dreamed of. Getting married and having a baby is another stage in life and that baby is your responsibility FOREVER. I definitely think ppl romanticize it too much. I’m 27 and I still at times feel like a “fake adult” but I’m sure if I did have a child I would immediately feel 10 years older. But even without a baby I feel like my 20’s are going so fast and I’m getting too old to achieve my dreams. When I see ppl in their early 20’s accomplishing so much I feel like my life is wilting away
why is she like the prettiest girl ever
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18:44 You think this goes without saying, but I believe a lot of people that want to be parents do NOT think about having a child thoroughly. Like, the moment you wake up (if you got any sleep) the day now belongs to that child. For 18 years and sometimes more. They only think of the present or as far as how cute the baby is going to be and that it’s a piece of you and someone you love, etc.
Please never stop being you ❤️ love your content, love how you put yourself out there. You’re amazing and beautiful ❤️
literally don't worry, soon or later you'll be the young cool mom and up to date on stuff more💋- coming from someone with older parents who I love very much regardless!!
Sarah, I love you and your videos! I always get good vibes watching them. Please don’t be hard on yourself! 🩷
Thank you so much!! I really needed to hear all of this. I have the same fears and thoughts when planning for a baby and I know the moment I actually have my baby things while never be the same and that thought just haunts me so thank you for being honest about how you feel!
Good job being a mom. I’m proud of you.
I love these videos!! These storytime type videos are great for when I have your videos on in the background while I clean or something, so please make more especially if they’re more manageable to make!!!! Love u
I love these talking videos pls never stop doing them !
I literally love your steering wheel with my entire heart and soul 🥹. congratulations on being a mom!!! ❤
just entered my 20s and although i dont plan on being a mother (could be subject to change), i found this so so inspiring to hear and if i were to ever be a mom id want to be as cool and confident as you are. :]
Ilysm please never stop uploading..🥺❤
I just subscribed! Your energy is amazing - you go girl!! 💅✨
I would love if you made more videos like this, i relate to a lot of the stuff you're talking about!! i love everything you post, you're like my favorite youtuber ❤
I could literally listen to you talk for hours. You're literally so entertaining and funny and relatable I feel like I'm having a conversation with a close friend. I wish you & your family the best 💖🍦
This video made me feel so happy. I’m also 24 and my baby is due basically any day now, but it’s hard to find a mom vlog where the moms carry my kind of energy if that makes sense lol. Like they are not usually someone I’d ever hang out with but this video did it for me 🫶🏼
I'm 26 and pregnant with my first baby. It trips me out too how I still view myself as much younger, and all of these changes are happening! I've been married for a little over a year and even that is huge to process. 😂
dont worry babe were all here for you and we understand if you wanna take some time for yourself 💕💕🎀
This is my first time seeing you or any of your videos you have a commanding prescience, such confidence and bubbly, I subscribed and wishing you luck growing your channel!♥️♥️
Girly girl I’m not even a mom but I loved hearing you talk like it felt as if I was in the car with you. Wishing u the best of luck and I hope it gets better💟
Omg! I thought I recognized your user name cuz I bought smt from your depop shop. So cool to see you have a TH-cam channel!
I love your sit down videos sm🥲🤍
i’ll be 22 this year but i had my baby tuesday and pumping as i watch since i leak so much despite breastfeeding 😭