The way she was like “I’m really starting to hate…..hello kitty.” In the most serious voice 😂😂😂 I love her and I actually agree I’m getting sick of hello kitty!!!
I just want you to know, you look stunning after having a baby. You have nothing to be ashamed of girl, because you are gorgeous and your style is everything. Please try not to let other people change what you like to wear, you have to dress for yourself :)
Its very normal that u are disliking things that u used to love, when I was in high school I used to wear very big lashes with big eyeliner and now I'm in college and all I wear are clusters like very small, ive come to realization that its part of being human growing up and liking different things. I think it's so beautiful because we change we evolve, at first it can be very annoying and hard to get used to it but we get used to it.
i resonate with not liking ur OG hair after dying it for awhile. i’ve had purple hair after a year now and i can hardly imagine going back to blonde and feeling fully like myself!!! but for what it’s worth your ginger could be a slay cady moment from mean girls. it genuinely looks like a really lovely color but girl i totally resonate, your hair totally effects how you see yourself!!
also maybe you could go back to red, but have highlights that are blonde? or something to give it that extra touch so you can return to having healthier hair but still feel excited about switching it up!!! 🩷
Your not alone in how your feeling. Postpartum is no joke take care of yourself. Your list is very valid and more relatable than you’ll ever know I went through a hello kitty and pink breakup after having my baby years back. You’ll get back to being and feeling like yourself. Give yourself grace you just had a baby not long ago.
I agree about hello kitty. When I was a kid I was OBSESSED with hello kitty even my mom was saying that the other day how I’ve always loved her. I definitely have lots of old vintage hello kitty items, but tiktok ruined it and now I really don’t care for it anymore.
I legit started crying when you started crying. You’re so sweet and so lovely and beautiful. As someone who will be 26 next week I feel the growing up thing so much. As a more gothic girl and I’ve been for the last decade, i don’t dress out as much. I still dress in like my style but much more refined. And I feel like myself, I am more refined. And maybe it’ll stick and maybe I’ll change again! But era are okay to end. I had a hard time letting that go esp when it’s such a big part of who you are and the way you present yourself and how you find community.
I’m not mother but I have friends who are moms and you’re doing soo good. Please please give yourself grace and let yourself shine when you can baby girl. I’m so proud that you even decided to get all of these feelings out💕 it’s such a hard thing to do and i know things can feel so lonely
I read somewhere that when a child is born, a mother is born on that day as well. We’re not the same people as we were before, and that’s ok. I hope you enjoy finding new pieces of yourself 💖💖💖
Aw Sarah, we are about the same age and in my eyes you are one of the most beautiful people inside and out, and it is so sad to hear how you are feeling about yourself. Growing up is hard, trying to figure out who we are as adults. I hope things get better and that your confidence returns!🤍🤍
I swear we’re always on the same wavelength 😅 I recently just turned 25 and I had a Betty boop steering wheel cover and have had it since I was 20, and it suddenly felt so unaligned to me. It’s so weird loving something so much and then finding that to change. My car broke down yesterday and I made soo many good memories in it in my early 20s in it and it’s really hard for me to accept those times are all over, but this almost feels like a sign from the universe that it’s time to welcome a new chapter that feels a little more mature and elevated! Life is so so bittersweet. Know we’re all in this aging thing together ❤
Girl I feel you. I'm 25 and I'm feeling the quarter life crisis so bad rn. I was always super skinny and now I wear a large in everything and I hate wearing tight clothing. I also feel immature about some stuff but also feeling the need that I need to learn how to feel more mature in some aspects as well. I also no longer know what I need to do career wise. Definitely feeling an all time low. And I literally have anxiety everyday. Idk if this is just part of growing up but I just find myself questioning everything's and having a hard time having fun. And I used to be such an optimistic fun person. For nails I'm thinking of learning how to do gel extensions at home or just grow ing out my own nails.
it literally feels like i’m laying in the back of my moms car listening to her rant on the phone in 2012. this literally makes me feel so at home man thank you
Girl, your ginger hair is STUNNING, you don’t know how many of us would kill to be a natural redhead. Let your hair just be!!! You would look GORGEOUSSSSS 💕💕💕💕 also, you look amazing I don’t know howww you had a kid just a few months ago, you look GREAT.
omg i just have to tell you - i feel you 100%. it’s postpartum identity crisis! my son is 3 and i’m still goin through it 😭 i commend you for being so transparent with how you’re changing in real time. it’s not easy to do especially for someone with such an established aesthetic as a youtuber. keep being authentic, it’s so relatable and you’re a rockstar so your girlies will keep supporting you!
I love your hair so much, red hair is gorgeous! And you have every right to feel how you feel and share how you feel. Sometimes I feel like my feelings aren’t valid because I have a blessed life, but that’s just not true. Your feelings are valid, my feelings are valid, and everyone else’s are too.
Sarah! Thank you so much for sharing. I definitely understand how you're feeling especially cause of the weather change 😪 Even though I am not a mother, feeling trapped...going to school and then work only....everything being super expensive and not feeling I have enough time to do things I really want to do is very frustrating and I don't even have any tips to help us cause I am just as lost!! 😭😭 But I plan to take any free time I have and use to help and better myself....give me something to look forward too so :) You are looking forward to an event so that's exciting !! We got this 😤 Also thinking about winter fashion and ways to look fabulous helps me lol 😅💖
do not feel bad coming on here and expressing your feelings!! you are allowed to, and anyone who judges you or feels weirdly about it can turn it off and tend to THEIR high horse. we love your videos girl and we are all wishing the best for you babe ♡
Aww Sarah ur so real & ur feelings are valid we’re here to listen queeen💝 chnage is good it’s okay to find urself again btw ur red hair is so cute definitely should try & to luv it
I think you would look absolutely gorgeous with your natural colour. What about your natural colour but like slightly enhanced, or darker or lighter? Like a more vibrant red? Or maybe even a strawberry blonde? I think it would definitely match your aesthetic. You could use Demi or Semi permanent hair colour(depending on how long you want to keep it) and that way it will be much easier to cut through if you decided you absolutely cannot stand it and want to go back blonde immediately. Also, red hair washes out really quickly when it’s blonde underneath. A couple washes with clarifying shampoo and really hot water and it will fade significantly, maybe not all the way but still. You are such a sweet heart. ❤️. I adore watching your videos.❤
as a young mom i have literally never related to anything more. thank you for being so real because like you said no one is truly talking about the reality of motherhood/postpartum. i felt like my body was destroyed from pregnancy and then the c-section destroyed me too. i used to have a tiny waist and now my hips are huge and I’ve never had boobs so god it’s a lot all at once. it’s hard & is not an instant fix like all the cutesy TikTok’s etc of post partum. im 3 years since giving birth and just now rebuilding a relationship with my fashion, interests, and self. it took longer bc im a SAHM but we can do this i swear you aren’t alone & the way you look rn 6 months PP is insane. i was doing so bad compared to you. ❤️
I had my son a little before I turned 25 completely lost myself in motherhood I used to wear 20+mm lashes then I found clusters during my PPD/PPA I eased my way up to 16mm cat eye looks and gel x press ons so they last a lot longer than normal press on nails so now I do them like before when I wasn’t a SAHM it’s totally normal to shed parts of yourself as you age it doesn’t mean you can’t come back to them it’s just a season. ❤
Wow honestly thank you for sharing, I’m going through a bit of a crisis, I’m not liking the things I use to, hopefully it this season comes to an end and I can find myself again 🥺🤍
you are my fav comfort TH-camr, the most relatable too 😭💖 congrats on your new car, Volvos are my fav 🥹💕 I am so so so happy that you shared all of this ❤️ love videos like this, sending you all the love 😭❤️❤️❤️
Hi Sarah! You're so beautiful and you have been someone I've looked up to for a really long time, you're so sweet and such an inspiration. Its okay to feel what you're feeling, things will be different in a few months, in a year, I know you feel trapped right now but things will change. I understand it is hard as a lot of big things have changed so quickly, but you have so much ahead of you. It's okay to feel insecure and unhappy with your body, just please keep wearing the clothes you feel yourself in, and try not to compare yourself with others or your old self. Soon your confidence will build and you will look back and not realise how far you have come. :) I love your videos, stay safe and I hope you feel better
I think it’s so brave of you to share that you’ve grown with us instead of keeping a fake persona for TH-cam!!! Love this so much and it’s absolutely okay to change🥰
My heart is breaking when you say you don’t like how you look because I think almost every woman can relate to being in this state 😭💔 of course everyone looking at you sees you as beautiful but the way you feel is way more important. Sending you love!! ✨Also I’d love to see you with red hair that is soooo pretty! THANK YOU for speaking about press ons because everybody acts like they love them so much and I DESPISE them for this exact reason!! They love to pop off randomly and embarrass me hahaha
i love seeing both sides of you !! sometimes you need to rant , which is totally fine ! never think that it’s not okay to not feel okay . also , a cute 2pc set is the ed hardy sweatpants and zip up set !!
Sarah, I love you so much! I hope you can get to a place where you feel confident in yourself and love yourself!!! We’re here for you!!! I think going red would be such a great idea, the hardest thing to do is bite the bullet. How do you know you won’t like it if you haven’t been fully red in so long? Plus it’ll help you save some more money and time for baby and YOU! ❤❤❤ love you
Oh my gosh I hear you! The over saturated Hello kitty market (and markets in general) turns people off. It sucks but too much of one thing is always bad haha. You will feel like yourself again soon💜 don't feel bad for not aways being positive either, it's helpful to see someone else talk thru their struggles because we all feel the same way at some point. God bless
it breaks my heart that you’re not confident in how you look but its okay love because thats completely normal!! i hope you know how beautiful you are to everyone else :) you are gorgeous, and such a pretty soul!! you look amazing always, especially after having your son!! i know it’s hard to give yourself grace as a new mother so we’ll give it to you!! i adore you 🤍 i am proud of the woman you’re becoming and seeing you as a mommy has brought out this natural glow to you!! pour into yourself whenever you can, we love you!!
Having stress and experiencing disphoria at times does not make you ungrateful or nasty as a person in general. You're a human being and a funny thoughtful and loving one from everything we see and hear so keep being yourself! Fun videos 🎉 i enjoy my new subscription on here from Seattle
hey girl i am 22 and i am 12 weeks pregnant. unplanned also. it has been really hard in the beginning i felt very little positive emotions about being pregnant but now i am getting happier and excited as each day goes by. its nice to see a young mom who isn’t like a pastors wife or something lol. its comforting to see a girl like me who still wants to be a young and fun 20 something year old. who doesn’t put on a facade of a perfect mom and life. that is honest about the struggles but still has a balance of showing the good and positive.
I’m a mom to im 27 now 🥹 so a bit older. But I hate that I feel like I can’t wear tight clothes anymore or clothes that show off my body.(I’ve never been too showy) but It comes with growth but it does suck grieving your old life and things you used to think 🥲 it’s all normal but nobody talks about postpartum & the after effect of having kids how you feel like a complete stranger & have to re find yourself
omg i was thinking the same w the hello kitty thing. shes so cutesy but my goodness shes everywhere at some point it just stops being a cute little special find
I had a hard time with articulating my words when I speak and especially ordering something that I want. I have learned to pull up the menu of the place if they have it and I figure out what I want. It helps especially when the customer service is so quick. 💗🎀
it has been a rough couple of months for me and in so many ways I have been so fed up and angry. I feel this video so much and I wonder if something is in retrograde or some shit like that because just everything and what i wear and how i act and everything has been changing lately. Like before I was pink pink pink top down, cute frilly flowy dresses, long hair, nails done, eyelashes lifted, etc. and I am just so sick of it. Like I hate how it makes people think of me, people treat me with so much less respect and act like I am stupid. And the upkeep- omg. So I cut off all my hair and got a lip piercing and im in my rebellious kinda era and not talking to anyone, just going on runs and watching youtube and going to class. done drinking, done with everyone and everything like just so fed up
Awww, I’m in the same boat as you! Mother hood is soooo hard on mothers. It’s like we are expected to do everything for baby and husband then we have no time for ourselves. It’s hard but a lot of mothers tell me it gets better once baby gets older and a little more independent. I have twins that are 9 months and it is slowly starting to get better! Also you look hot af 10x better than I do so don’t beat yourself up!
I'm 30 and you remind me of early thousands girly! I still love the french tip nails and face framing hair layers. They are timeless! I don't care how crazy the styles were back then. I like them better than most of todays lol
I’ve dyed my hair since high school, I’m now 24, the last two years I grew out my natural color and I’ve never gotten so many compliments. I’m naturally a reddish dirty blonde. It’ll be so worth it. It’s also so healthy since I haven’t been doing anything to it. You should try and grow it out ❤ you’re so lovely btw
it’s okay. you will find yourself with time. i know what it’s like to lose that connection with the things that once made you, you. it was scary to realize how something that once brought me happiness, slowly became something i resented. i tried recreating that feeling of authenticity (i once felt) by mimicking what i associated that feeling to look like-“myself.” but the more i made myself look like “myself,” the more lost i felt. it’s lonely to experience that loss. however, i had to accept that changes are okay. it’s okay to change from who you once were. i realized what brought me true happiness was not through a look or a persona. what brought me happiness was the process of finding new things about myself. new things that i just happen to be able to wear or become. keep searching for yourself, you’ll find her again. 🫂🩷
Go for ginger it would be so cute! also i get the mainstream hello kitty i see it literally EVERYWHEREEEE it’s all hit or miss tho some are really ugly! Stay true to who you are, there are always going to be bumps in the road and you are constantly changing
Sending you love ❤ and also I’d love to see a fall thrift with me with try on haul, dollar tree haul, fall 2024 trends you don’t like, styling fall trends from my (your) closet, “the best style advice you’ll ever hear”, new fall makeup tutorial, shopping at 5 and below (if you have it in Canada), 2024 fall day in the life, thrift trip to the USA, top 10 best fragrances of 2024, or whatever you want to film 🎥 ✨
No but fr - the reason I don’t decorate my car with anything cute is bc I don’t want people to know I’m a woman. I feel like it could attract unwanted attention. Gotta be safe!!
totally understand abt the massive popularization on hello kitty. its not annoying bc its popular it just gets a point where its like "that's ALL you have? nothing else?"
I felt like this around 24-25 then my style completely changed! I used to wear all black from like 13-23. Idk if it's our brains developing or what, but now I wear every color that I can fit on my body, and I dress in more loose clothes. Not sure if that's what you're feeling but I can relate to this sooo much lol
Your natural hair is really beautiful, even though you must hear it a million times 💖 Also, I'm no expert, but I think you can make it grow out by blending the blonde and the ginger, so it's not that stark of a difference and you can change it either way later. Oh, and for the tank top thing: you can embrace the retro double tank 🙂 Get a few long tank tops and put your old ones over, so you are both covered but still wear what you are used to. I also like waist warmers, especially around winter. They close the gap between my pants and tops, so I can stay warmer, I'm sure they would work too. The nail thing: you can learn to use UV glue, so that way they will last longer. I can't give you advice on that, because I'm yet to learn it.
I agree with you, i used to collect hello kitty back in 2012 and loved it so much, but seeing hello kitty everywhere now and how people are literally fighting over buying it, it has lost its charm. Im also like that. i can't enjoy things that the majority of people are doing. 😂
That’s why I don’t like going to new places ugh they always expect you to know what you want 😓now I only go to places where you can order on a screen or order online 😔
It sounds like your priorities are changing after becoming a mom :) it’s normal. They say once the baby is born, the mom is also born. The old you is dead and the new, reborn you is anew!
omg, im also going through the same thing with pink! Im starting to wear dark greens a lot and Im going back to wearing more black and im getting into dark red
You could try wearing a redhead wig just to see if you start liking having that color or nah. And if you decide to get rid of the blonde then you could try with henna, for a more healthy hair.
I get what you mean about Hello Kitty. In 2005 you couldnt get Hello Kitty anywhere in my country, and I got a bunch of Hello Kitty/Cinnamoroll stuff on my trip to China, and then got made fun of in class for my Cinnamoroll stationary. a few years ago with the big influx of Sanrio stuff, i was so happy. Now its losing its soul. Not sure what to think about it but im still keeping it all.
I have a similar hair color and also used to dye it blonde. I stopped bleaching it and it was the best decision! Love my natural color now and get a lot of comments on it
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If you want to go to a more natural look for your hair go for it but you are not ready to let go of the color ask stylists options on different low maintenence color also if you need to not wear restricting clothing some days that is normal I just put on jeans finally for the first time in like about two years of wearing sweats or yoga pants and for your nails try going to get a painted manicure it's still affordable and you can go take an hour for yourself or you can paint them yourself but change will happen your not loosing who you are think of it as your growing into the person your ment to be. Try to have fun and embrace these moments as you grow along side with your baby and husband and as a family.
literally the cutest comfort youtuber
I agree!!! ♥️
As someone who’s pregnant it’s top tier content to watch other mommy’s ❤
The way she was like “I’m really starting to hate…..hello kitty.” In the most serious voice 😂😂😂 I love her and I actually agree I’m getting sick of hello kitty!!!
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I just want you to know, you look stunning after having a baby. You have nothing to be ashamed of girl, because you are gorgeous and your style is everything. Please try not to let other people change what you like to wear, you have to dress for yourself :)
“I literally paid seven dollars for that drink and there’s no special feature in it” she’s so me
I pay that for my Dutch Bros drink and I say that to myself sometimes but I keep going 😂 they have good drinks tho so it's not a total waste
Its very normal that u are disliking things that u used to love, when I was in high school I used to wear very big lashes with big eyeliner and now I'm in college and all I wear are clusters like very small, ive come to realization that its part of being human growing up and liking different things. I think it's so beautiful because we change we evolve, at first it can be very annoying and hard to get used to it but we get used to it.
i resonate with not liking ur OG hair after dying it for awhile. i’ve had purple hair after a year now and i can hardly imagine going back to blonde and feeling fully like myself!!! but for what it’s worth your ginger could be a slay cady moment from mean girls. it genuinely looks like a really lovely color but girl i totally resonate, your hair totally effects how you see yourself!!
also maybe you could go back to red, but have highlights that are blonde? or something to give it that extra touch so you can return to having healthier hair but still feel excited about switching it up!!! 🩷
Your not alone in how your feeling. Postpartum is no joke take care of yourself. Your list is very valid and more relatable than you’ll ever know I went through a hello kitty and pink breakup after having my baby years back. You’ll get back to being and feeling like yourself. Give yourself grace you just had a baby not long ago.
I agree about hello kitty. When I was a kid I was OBSESSED with hello kitty even my mom was saying that the other day how I’ve always loved her. I definitely have lots of old vintage hello kitty items, but tiktok ruined it and now I really don’t care for it anymore.
you’d look GORG as a red head/ginger, tired of blonde?go for it!!! u only live once babes !!
I legit started crying when you started crying. You’re so sweet and so lovely and beautiful. As someone who will be 26 next week I feel the growing up thing so much. As a more gothic girl and I’ve been for the last decade, i don’t dress out as much. I still dress in like my style but much more refined. And I feel like myself, I am more refined. And maybe it’ll stick and maybe I’ll change again! But era are okay to end. I had a hard time letting that go esp when it’s such a big part of who you are and the way you present yourself and how you find community.
I’m not mother but I have friends who are moms and you’re doing soo good. Please please give yourself grace and let yourself shine when you can baby girl. I’m so proud that you even decided to get all of these feelings out💕 it’s such a hard thing to do and i know things can feel so lonely
I read somewhere that when a child is born, a mother is born on that day as well. We’re not the same people as we were before, and that’s ok. I hope you enjoy finding new pieces of yourself 💖💖💖
Aw Sarah, we are about the same age and in my eyes you are one of the most beautiful people inside and out, and it is so sad to hear how you are feeling about yourself. Growing up is hard, trying to figure out who we are as adults. I hope things get better and that your confidence returns!🤍🤍
i’m gonna leap into the screen and give u a hug 💗💗
I swear we’re always on the same wavelength 😅 I recently just turned 25 and I had a Betty boop steering wheel cover and have had it since I was 20, and it suddenly felt so unaligned to me. It’s so weird loving something so much and then finding that to change. My car broke down yesterday and I made soo many good memories in it in my early 20s in it and it’s really hard for me to accept those times are all over, but this almost feels like a sign from the universe that it’s time to welcome a new chapter that feels a little more mature and elevated! Life is so so bittersweet. Know we’re all in this aging thing together ❤
Girl I feel you. I'm 25 and I'm feeling the quarter life crisis so bad rn. I was always super skinny and now I wear a large in everything and I hate wearing tight clothing. I also feel immature about some stuff but also feeling the need that I need to learn how to feel more mature in some aspects as well. I also no longer know what I need to do career wise. Definitely feeling an all time low. And I literally have anxiety everyday. Idk if this is just part of growing up but I just find myself questioning everything's and having a hard time having fun. And I used to be such an optimistic fun person. For nails I'm thinking of learning how to do gel extensions at home or just grow ing out my own nails.
it literally feels like i’m laying in the back of my moms car listening to her rant on the phone in 2012. this literally makes me feel so at home man thank you
the hello kitty break up 🥲 also I love your amber hair!
Girl, your ginger hair is STUNNING, you don’t know how many of us would kill to be a natural redhead. Let your hair just be!!! You would look GORGEOUSSSSS 💕💕💕💕 also, you look amazing I don’t know howww you had a kid just a few months ago, you look GREAT.
omg i just have to tell you - i feel you 100%. it’s postpartum identity crisis! my son is 3 and i’m still goin through it 😭 i commend you for being so transparent with how you’re changing in real time. it’s not easy to do especially for someone with such an established aesthetic as a youtuber. keep being authentic, it’s so relatable and you’re a rockstar so your girlies will keep supporting you!
You are so real for this, I luv u girly keep being you
I love redheads; my boyfriend is a redhead, and I really want our kids to have that. T^T
I love your hair so much, red hair is gorgeous! And you have every right to feel how you feel and share how you feel. Sometimes I feel like my feelings aren’t valid because I have a blessed life, but that’s just not true. Your feelings are valid, my feelings are valid, and everyone else’s are too.
i never expected to see a "things i hate" vid from you but i'm here for it!!!!💕🎀
Sarah! Thank you so much for sharing. I definitely understand how you're feeling especially cause of the weather change 😪 Even though I am not a mother, feeling trapped...going to school and then work only....everything being super expensive and not feeling I have enough time to do things I really want to do is very frustrating and I don't even have any tips to help us cause I am just as lost!! 😭😭 But I plan to take any free time I have and use to help and better myself....give me something to look forward too so :) You are looking forward to an event so that's exciting !! We got this 😤 Also thinking about winter fashion and ways to look fabulous helps me lol 😅💖
do not feel bad coming on here and expressing your feelings!! you are allowed to, and anyone who judges you or feels weirdly about it can turn it off and tend to THEIR high horse. we love your videos girl and we are all wishing the best for you babe ♡
15:16 Oh my god, girl, PLEASE do not put yourself down. You're so pretty 😞
i’m going through a rough period of time and this video just made me so happy, as if i’m talking to a friend ❤️
Okay awe that is so sweet! I try to make videos to help other people not feel alone 🫶
I LOVE THESE VIDEOS WHERE YOU JUST CHAT!! ❤❤❤ literally love you so so much 💗💗💗💗💗💗
These bad times will pass. Prayers to you girl
please keep on doing car rant videos they're so comforting🩷🩷
Aww Sarah ur so real & ur feelings are valid we’re here to listen queeen💝 chnage is good it’s okay to find urself again btw ur red hair is so cute definitely should try & to luv it
I think you would look absolutely gorgeous with your natural colour. What about your natural colour but like slightly enhanced, or darker or lighter? Like a more vibrant red? Or maybe even a strawberry blonde? I think it would definitely match your aesthetic. You could use Demi or Semi permanent hair colour(depending on how long you want to keep it) and that way it will be much easier to cut through if you decided you absolutely cannot stand it and want to go back blonde immediately. Also, red hair washes out really quickly when it’s blonde underneath. A couple washes with clarifying shampoo and really hot water and it will fade significantly, maybe not all the way but still. You are such a sweet heart. ❤️. I adore watching your videos.❤
as a young mom i have literally never related to anything more. thank you for being so real because like you said no one is truly talking about the reality of motherhood/postpartum. i felt like my body was destroyed from pregnancy and then the c-section destroyed me too. i used to have a tiny waist and now my hips are huge and I’ve never had boobs so god it’s a lot all at once. it’s hard & is not an instant fix like all the cutesy TikTok’s etc of post partum. im 3 years since giving birth and just now rebuilding a relationship with my fashion, interests, and self. it took longer bc im a SAHM but we can do this i swear you aren’t alone & the way you look rn 6 months PP is insane. i was doing so bad compared to you. ❤️
I had my son a little before I turned 25 completely lost myself in motherhood I used to wear 20+mm lashes then I found clusters during my PPD/PPA I eased my way up to 16mm cat eye looks and gel x press ons so they last a lot longer than normal press on nails so now I do them like before when I wasn’t a SAHM it’s totally normal to shed parts of yourself as you age it doesn’t mean you can’t come back to them it’s just a season. ❤
Wow honestly thank you for sharing, I’m going through a bit of a crisis, I’m not liking the things I use to, hopefully it this season comes to an end and I can find myself again 🥺🤍
also i totally agree with you on the hello kitty thing.
you are my fav comfort TH-camr, the most relatable too 😭💖 congrats on your new car, Volvos are my fav 🥹💕 I am so so so happy that you shared all of this ❤️ love videos like this, sending you all the love 😭❤️❤️❤️
Hi Sarah! You're so beautiful and you have been someone I've looked up to for a really long time, you're so sweet and such an inspiration. Its okay to feel what you're feeling, things will be different in a few months, in a year, I know you feel trapped right now but things will change. I understand it is hard as a lot of big things have changed so quickly, but you have so much ahead of you.
It's okay to feel insecure and unhappy with your body, just please keep wearing the clothes you feel yourself in, and try not to compare yourself with others or your old self. Soon your confidence will build and you will look back and not realise how far you have come. :)
I love your videos, stay safe and I hope you feel better
I think it’s so brave of you to share that you’ve grown with us instead of keeping a fake persona for TH-cam!!! Love this so much and it’s absolutely okay to change🥰
You’re my fav content creator ever!! ❤
i freaking love your channel. you are so relatable!
I’m new here, but I’m obsessed w ur vibe !! ❤
I do love the blonde on you, but you would look stunning with your ginger hair or even light brown!!
My heart is breaking when you say you don’t like how you look because I think almost every woman can relate to being in this state 😭💔 of course everyone looking at you sees you as beautiful but the way you feel is way more important. Sending you love!! ✨Also I’d love to see you with red hair that is soooo pretty!
THANK YOU for speaking about press ons because everybody acts like they love them so much and I DESPISE them for this exact reason!! They love to pop off randomly and embarrass me hahaha
Also for what it’s worth, you are so beautiful! Your natural hair fits you so well. Feeling comfortable in who you are takes times :)
i love seeing both sides of you !! sometimes you need to rant , which is totally fine ! never think that it’s not okay to not feel okay . also , a cute 2pc set is the ed hardy sweatpants and zip up set !!
PERFECT UPLOAD TIMING
Sarah, I love you so much! I hope you can get to a place where you feel confident in yourself and love yourself!!! We’re here for you!!! I think going red would be such a great idea, the hardest thing to do is bite the bullet. How do you know you won’t like it if you haven’t been fully red in so long? Plus it’ll help you save some more money and time for baby and YOU! ❤❤❤ love you
Oh my gosh I hear you! The over saturated Hello kitty market (and markets in general) turns people off. It sucks but too much of one thing is always bad haha. You will feel like yourself again soon💜 don't feel bad for not aways being positive either, it's helpful to see someone else talk thru their struggles because we all feel the same way at some point. God bless
Your natural hair is so pretty!! I hope you grow onto it more 🤍🤍🤍
I love watching you when I’m plucking my eyebrows
omgggg. as a long time sanrio girly i completely relate to being a little tired of seeing hello kitty everywhere HAHA
you make my day whenever you post :) no other creator can bring me as much comfort as you 🤍
it breaks my heart that you’re not confident in how you look but its okay love because thats completely normal!! i hope you know how beautiful you are to everyone else :) you are gorgeous, and such a pretty soul!! you look amazing always, especially after having your son!! i know it’s hard to give yourself grace as a new mother so we’ll give it to you!! i adore you 🤍 i am proud of the woman you’re becoming and seeing you as a mommy has brought out this natural glow to you!! pour into yourself whenever you can, we love you!!
Having stress and experiencing disphoria at times does not make you ungrateful or nasty as a person in general. You're a human being and a funny thoughtful and loving one from everything we see and hear so keep being yourself! Fun videos 🎉 i enjoy my new subscription on here from Seattle
hey girl i am 22 and i am 12 weeks pregnant. unplanned also. it has been really hard in the beginning i felt very little positive emotions about being pregnant but now i am getting happier and excited as each day goes by. its nice to see a young mom who isn’t like a pastors wife or something lol. its comforting to see a girl like me who still wants to be a young and fun 20 something year old. who doesn’t put on a facade of a perfect mom and life. that is honest about the struggles but still has a balance of showing the good and positive.
I’m a mom to im 27 now 🥹 so a bit older. But I hate that I feel like I can’t wear tight clothes anymore or clothes that show off my body.(I’ve never been too showy) but It comes with growth but it does suck grieving your old life and things you used to think 🥲 it’s all normal but nobody talks about postpartum & the after effect of having kids how you feel like a complete stranger & have to re find yourself
omg i was thinking the same w the hello kitty thing. shes so cutesy but my goodness shes everywhere at some point it just stops being a cute little special find
I had a hard time with articulating my words when I speak and especially ordering something that I want. I have learned to pull up the menu of the place if they have it and I figure out what I want. It helps especially when the customer service is so quick. 💗🎀
it has been a rough couple of months for me and in so many ways I have been so fed up and angry. I feel this video so much and I wonder if something is in retrograde or some shit like that because just everything and what i wear and how i act and everything has been changing lately. Like before I was pink pink pink top down, cute frilly flowy dresses, long hair, nails done, eyelashes lifted, etc. and I am just so sick of it. Like I hate how it makes people think of me, people treat me with so much less respect and act like I am stupid. And the upkeep- omg.
So I cut off all my hair and got a lip piercing and im in my rebellious kinda era and not talking to anyone, just going on runs and watching youtube and going to class. done drinking, done with everyone and everything like just so fed up
Awww, I’m in the same boat as you! Mother hood is soooo hard on mothers. It’s like we are expected to do everything for baby and husband then we have no time for ourselves. It’s hard but a lot of mothers tell me it gets better once baby gets older and a little more independent. I have twins that are 9 months and it is slowly starting to get better! Also you look hot af 10x better than I do so don’t beat yourself up!
We are the same age and I’m currently 7 months pregnant and I FEEL you about only wearing sweaters and loose stuff. I miss my old style so much.
I'm 30 and you remind me of early thousands girly! I still love the french tip nails and face framing hair layers. They are timeless! I don't care how crazy the styles were back then. I like them better than most of todays lol
Honestly I think you would look STUNNING with dark red hair
Wow thanks!! 💓
My little sister says you look like/remind her of me and I think it’s the biggest compliment ever 💗
I’ve dyed my hair since high school, I’m now 24, the last two years I grew out my natural color and I’ve never gotten so many compliments. I’m naturally a reddish dirty blonde. It’ll be so worth it. It’s also so healthy since I haven’t been doing anything to it. You should try and grow it out ❤ you’re so lovely btw
Thank you for this! I want to get my hair health back, so soon I might go natural 🫶
I luv your channel so much omg!!
I think you would look absolutely stunning with your natural hair!
it’s okay. you will find yourself with time.
i know what it’s like to lose that connection with the things that once made you, you. it was scary to realize how something that once brought me happiness, slowly became something i resented. i tried recreating that feeling of authenticity (i once felt) by mimicking what i associated that feeling to look like-“myself.”
but the more i made myself look like “myself,” the more lost i felt. it’s lonely to experience that loss.
however, i had to accept that changes are okay. it’s okay to change from who you once were. i realized what brought me true happiness was not through a look or a persona. what brought me happiness was the process of finding new things about myself. new things that i just happen to be able to wear or become.
keep searching for yourself, you’ll find her again. 🫂🩷
Go for ginger it would be so cute! also i get the mainstream hello kitty i see it literally EVERYWHEREEEE it’s all hit or miss tho some are really ugly! Stay true to who you are, there are always going to be bumps in the road and you are constantly changing
can you make a girl talk about choosing the right man? love your hair
i love how she's straight out of the early 2000s. also, she reminds me of jennifer coolidge's daughter in a parallel universe.
🥰🥰🥰
Sending you love ❤ and also I’d love to see a fall thrift with me with try on haul, dollar tree haul, fall 2024 trends you don’t like, styling fall trends from my (your) closet, “the best style advice you’ll ever hear”, new fall makeup tutorial, shopping at 5 and below (if you have it in Canada), 2024 fall day in the life, thrift trip to the USA, top 10 best fragrances of 2024, or whatever you want to film 🎥 ✨
this is so comforting
No but fr - the reason I don’t decorate my car with anything cute is bc I don’t want people to know I’m a woman. I feel like it could attract unwanted attention. Gotta be safe!!
The reason I'm afraid to drive a pink car 😭
We can't have anything 😭
totally understand abt the massive popularization on hello kitty. its not annoying bc its popular it just gets a point where its like "that's ALL you have? nothing else?"
love the girl talk !!!
Ugh i love you, auch comfort creator
I felt like this around 24-25 then my style completely changed! I used to wear all black from like 13-23. Idk if it's our brains developing or what, but now I wear every color that I can fit on my body, and I dress in more loose clothes. Not sure if that's what you're feeling but I can relate to this sooo much lol
Your natural hair is really beautiful, even though you must hear it a million times 💖
Also, I'm no expert, but I think you can make it grow out by blending the blonde and the ginger, so it's not that stark of a difference and you can change it either way later.
Oh, and for the tank top thing: you can embrace the retro double tank 🙂 Get a few long tank tops and put your old ones over, so you are both covered but still wear what you are used to. I also like waist warmers, especially around winter. They close the gap between my pants and tops, so I can stay warmer, I'm sure they would work too.
The nail thing: you can learn to use UV glue, so that way they will last longer. I can't give you advice on that, because I'm yet to learn it.
I agree with you, i used to collect hello kitty back in 2012 and loved it so much, but seeing hello kitty everywhere now and how people are literally fighting over buying it, it has lost its charm. Im also like that. i can't enjoy things that the majority of people are doing. 😂
Tbh these resellers and overconsumption has ruined Sanrio for me 😭 which sucks since ive been collecting since 2012
That’s why I don’t like going to new places ugh they always expect you to know what you want 😓now I only go to places where you can order on a screen or order online 😔
You have a beautiful soul, dont give up 💗💗💗🌴
It sounds like your priorities are changing after becoming a mom :) it’s normal. They say once the baby is born, the mom is also born. The old you is dead and the new, reborn you is anew!
This was fun! Do more of these!
I seriously adore you!
omg, im also going through the same thing with pink! Im starting to wear dark greens a lot and Im going back to wearing more black and im getting into dark red
You could try wearing a redhead wig just to see if you start liking having that color or nah.
And if you decide to get rid of the blonde then you could try with henna, for a more healthy hair.
i think the thing with hello kitty now vs then is that she's more pink rather than red
I get what you mean about Hello Kitty. In 2005 you couldnt get Hello Kitty anywhere in my country, and I got a bunch of Hello Kitty/Cinnamoroll stuff on my trip to China, and then got made fun of in class for my Cinnamoroll stationary. a few years ago with the big influx of Sanrio stuff, i was so happy. Now its losing its soul. Not sure what to think about it but im still keeping it all.
Your natural ginger hair with blonde highlights would look so cool!
I have a similar hair color and also used to dye it blonde. I stopped bleaching it and it was the best decision! Love my natural color now and get a lot of comments on it
Can I just say I love your natural hair
VIDEO RECOMMENDATION THAT I NEED YOU TO SEE 💖🙏😭😭😭 Pls pls pls how do you mix and match being a mom and a hot hot hot girly girl in the same time, like what are the honest pros and cons, what to possibly expect, your authentic personal experience with no judgement 😭💖 I NEED TO KNOW because I want to have a baby in ~pretty near-ish future & you are super relatable to me in so many ways (of all the ways you show online). Age, style, thrifting, pretty girl hobbies and activities, high maintenance things, self care and self maintenance (things you do yourself instead of going to salon), managing emotions, finding joy etc etc 💖💖💖 NEED 😭😭😭
Try putting the press ons on with a tiny bit of clear acrylic!! ❤
I love your videos so much❤️
so real i hate my hair rn too, i dyed it black but i want a lighter brown now
i love these videos
Girl I was doing my nails while watching this lol
Love you, Sarah. ❤
Ginger hair would look great! If you do like cute bouncy curls it’ll look great!
You could get ginger streaks through the blonde it would be so y2k n you could have the best of both 🤯
If you want to go to a more natural look for your hair go for it but you are not ready to let go of the color ask stylists options on different low maintenence color also if you need to not wear restricting clothing some days that is normal I just put on jeans finally for the first time in like about two years of wearing sweats or yoga pants and for your nails try going to get a painted manicure it's still affordable and you can go take an hour for yourself or you can paint them yourself but change will happen your not loosing who you are think of it as your growing into the person your ment to be. Try to have fun and embrace these moments as you grow along side with your baby and husband and as a family.